April 13, 2024 • 42 mins
Episode 320 - "The Baller Alert Show" Feat: Ferrari Simmons & You Know BT Produced by: Octavia March
Topics include: Porsha & Simon Breakup, Real Housewives, Dating Women, New TV Show, Soft Men, Diddy & More.
The Baller Alert Show
Featuring @FerrariSimmons @Youknowbt @iHandlebars
":The Culture Deserves It"
IG: @balleralert
Twitter: @balleralert
Facebook: balleralertcom
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Bord with me here.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
You know, bt know how it goes, shout out oct
no real color, what we see, whole game read the
boer b something. Oh you can't stand on my own, Suci,
I already know you can't with me because up with
the squad of me they get at They called me.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Her love.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hello, ball Loveler, Welcome to the Baller Show podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Another book. Everywhere you get your podcast please to tee
to light Subscribers share are YouTube page at Baller alert TV.
One time for we vote. I go by the name
of Farri Sith. I go by the name you know
bt C t what that.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Tamara aka girl from harlow Ah fat.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
In the building.
Speaker 6 (00:41):
We'll go back.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I'm bad. Welcome bad. You brought some tea and it
was hot.
Speaker 6 (00:46):
Yeah. I'm working on two television shows right now.
Speaker 7 (00:49):
What are they?
Speaker 6 (00:49):
So? One is the dating show? So I'm looking for
love okay, and the other one I can't tell.
Speaker 7 (00:56):
What are you looking for in your love?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
I'm really looking for someone who's real, who's authentic, and
I feel like that's really hard to find these days.
You know, nobody, nobody knows how to just be themselves anymore.
Everybody wants to keep up with the joneses or be
somebody it is that they believe that they're supposed to
be or you know, there's a lot of men who
want wives but don't want to be husbands. So I
(01:24):
think that's that's really what I'm looking for. I mean,
it's open to women as well. It's not just men.
Speaker 7 (01:29):
Oh that's a curveball.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
It was a curveball for me.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
Y'all have to understand because my team they're asking me like, okay,
so it's just men only, And I said, hold on, wait,
I don't know. You know, the men have just been
messing up. Y'all have really done yourselves a good one.
I don't know if I want to go back, I might.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So why you're exploring now?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Yeah, I mean I've always you know.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You've always appreciated the beauty of a woman.
Speaker 6 (01:57):
Yeah, okay, but just not relationship wise. So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
So you're open to exploring a possibility of a relationship
with a woman.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Yeah, absolutely, she's bad.
Speaker 7 (02:08):
No, But so what is this gonna be on? What's
the platform?
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Zoos? I really say right now? But open, Yes, it's
a dating show for me. I'm really just trying to
leave it open. However, we have a network that's highly interested, so.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
He's just weighing out the bait.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Mm hmm me the best man win, literally.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
The best person.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Yeah, person.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
That was the title of it. For the love of Fallon.
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Falling for Fallon. That was a good one though, for
the love of Falling for Fallon.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
How does Fallon's X feel?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (02:53):
What's his name, Jayalen? How does he feel about it?
Speaker 6 (02:56):
He's straight?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I guess okay, he doesn't make an appearance or anything.
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Right, I don't know. I would not put it past
my producers at all.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
To put him as a qualifying person.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
Absolutely, I've actually thought about it. You thought about No,
I didn't think about using him. I thought about it
being interesting.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I'm like, so, you don't know any of these guys, right,
you're going to meet them on the show.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
No, I don't know any about it.
Speaker 7 (03:21):
You haven't, you're not a part of the casting or
say so in that.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
I'm gonna have somewhat you know, say so because of
course we want we want to see who it is
that I choose and who I'm attracted to. However, not everybody.
We're gonna see what happened.
Speaker 7 (03:38):
To any overweight lovers? Or do you have a preference?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
No, okay, I don't think so at this point. My
preference hasn't really gotten me very far now has it?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
So so let me ask you this. Do you have
any red flags?
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I think I think everyone has red flag?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
What are yours?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
I'm stubborn, Taurus stubborn. I'm stubborn, I really am. And
when I'm right, I'm right. You can't argue with me.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yep, yep, yeah that's crazy.
Speaker 8 (04:21):
So what are some what are some green flags that
you're looking for on this day?
Speaker 6 (04:25):
And show, like I said, just someone who's real and authentic.
I mean, I have to be attracted to them, because
I was. You know, I've been with people that have
been less attractive than me, and I realized that that
it may sound shallow, but it really doesn't match with
my world. You have to be able to be secure
enough in your own skin, and I feel like, however
(04:48):
that usually comes up, it doesn't translate very well in
a person who doesn't feel like they're attractive, you know,
in comparison to how I look. So I need somebody
to be tough. They have to have thick.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Skin, so you. So you don't think money make people attractive?
Speaker 6 (05:04):
No, not at all. I think it can add some
type of value, and it can add some type of swag,
but even swag goes into their own self confidence. Now
you know, couldn't make them attracted to them and that's
what they exude. Yeah, but no, I don't. Okay, I
like money.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Though, So you know about to ask you what so
you were physically attractive assignment?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
Oh my god, before we go there, let's just take
a quick break. Let's take a breather, Let's take a brother.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
We'll be right back.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
We'll be right back. We'll be right back for more.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show.
Is this falling?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Y'all? You are now tuning into the Baller Alert show.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Bag with more the Brother Alert Show. We got failing
in the building and kind of left out on a cliffhanger.
I think lady had a question.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, well, BT asked, He said, are you attracted? Does
money make people attracted? You said no, So I said, oh,
so you thought Simon was attractive.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
I am attracted to people's hearts and they're inside before
I'm attracted to.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
So does a heart make someone attractive, yes, someone's heart, yes.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
If they have a really big, loving heart. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, so the bank account ain't got to be big, No,
it does.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I didn't say that. Let's relax, it's calm down. I
have a lot of respects.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Have you ever been in love with a brokie?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Yeah, okay, a couple of times.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
It happens.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
It happens, and you said in your mind, like, nah,
this ain't it.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
I think I'm at that place now in life for sure.
For sure. I don't think I'm ever going to get
with another brokie ever again in life.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Damn.
Speaker 7 (06:53):
At the beginning of the episode, you said you were vindicated.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I mean, yeah, I feel a little bit of it.
I'm not going to lie because everybody kind of made
me out to be something that I wasn't without understanding
what was going on behind closed doors for five years.
The person that y'all see is my ex husband. That's
new to y'all. I knew exactly who it was that
I married, but you know, I was young. I was
twenty six when we got together. He was fifty. So
(07:20):
I thought that, well, no, he loves me, and he'll
just you know, he'll change, and he just has to
grow and I have to prove myself and all that
dumb shit.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Did you know about all like the immigration problems that
he was having. Yeah, did he like to tell you
the thing?
Speaker 6 (07:35):
But I don't have to, you know, exploit people's name
or any of their business for a check.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Yeah, But did he tell you that upfront or is
that something that you investigated yourself?
Speaker 6 (07:45):
No, that was he was upfront about a lot of things. However,
There's a lot of stuff that he left out too.
I've never even known that he's been in jail before.
M you know, so I really in a sense when
everything came into the media, I was really shocked.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Found some stuff out too.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Yeah, and y'all have to understand he was doing all
this before I was born.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Wait did you not google him though?
Speaker 6 (08:11):
Like I feel like there's only but so much you
can see on Google.
Speaker 7 (08:14):
Yeah, the hopeful police are going to come? Is that so?
Speaker 6 (08:21):
I mean I think it says that I'm like, I'm
worth two hundred and fifty million right now on what where? Where?
Speaker 8 (08:26):
That's that?
Speaker 7 (08:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That's what Google?
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (08:30):
That crazy? Yeah? Oh wow, I haven't seen all types
of articles.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
So how do you vet somebody? Then? Like what is
your process now and moving forward when you're looking to
see like who you're going to date.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Like, I don't bet nobody. Whatever comes out just comes back.
I don't got to do nothing and the way, but
you have to do that. I'm gonna find out for me.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Yeah, okay, but then it's a way you in love
or something or you already went public with this person.
You don't want to like have that attached to you.
You have you your brain, like you are a brand.
Now you have to protect that, so you have to
be cautious about all your data.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
I'm moving forward absolutely, and I'll you know, I'll remain
as cautious as I can. But I can't walk, you know,
on eggshells because I'm too afraid to let my guard
down because of my image. You know, the world and
life is so much bigger than just your career. And
I mean, as long as not no Diddy stuff, I
think I'm good.
Speaker 7 (09:23):
You know, what do you think about all the Diddy
stuff going on?
Speaker 6 (09:28):
I mean, you know, we've always and especially in the industry,
we've always heard stories hell no, no, no, not even but.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
But you know I've heard stories just as much as
everybody else it's sad to see them go out like that.
I think. I think what bothers me the most is
his son's being a part of it all, know, like
the fact that his kids have something to do with
all of this. Then they had like hitting cameras and
all of their rooms and stuff allegedly. That's crazy.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
Rich people do weird things.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
That means that Diddy was in there watching his children.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
That's a whole nother aspect. I didn't even think about it.
I reviewing the tapes.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Yeah, because they said the tapes or the cameras were
inside of his room's room.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
Simon never had cameras throughout the house.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
Of course he did. I had GPS trackers on my
cars and everything.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
That's that's how he called Jalen.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
Right, No, that's how he caught another boy. Oh, but
I wasn't hiding it, so I was kind of.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Yeah, I know about that situation. I know, I know
you wouldn't that was the time.
Speaker 6 (10:33):
Yeah, that was around that time. No, there was no
y'all have to understand. So when Jalen and I got together,
it was during a very vulnerable moment for me. So
there was so much going on behind closed doors that
y'all still don't you know, the public doesn't really know
about and the time frame that everything took place. So
(10:53):
by the time Jaalen and I even decided that we're
going to become more than just friends, he was already
with several other people. But we were still lead married
with several other people, right, but we were verbally separated. So,
I mean, it just you know, whatever happened happened.
Speaker 7 (11:10):
And are you were you shocked to find out when
Portia and Simon separated?
Speaker 6 (11:16):
No? Was anybody.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
So do you think that was Do you think that
was real?
Speaker 7 (11:21):
No, the whole relationship, you don't think it was real.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
You don't think it was real at all.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
No. I think it was just a ploy to get
back at me. I mean really, yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Not to get back at not to have like a
storyline or anything like that.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
No, I mean she finally used it for a storyline, sure.
Speaker 7 (11:37):
But he was trying to get at you through that
whole relationship. You're saying, Simon, oh, throughout the whole.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
I mean I'm not. I'm not gonna say like there
wasn't any parts you know that he might have thought
could have been authentic or something could have grown you know,
I don't know their business, but yeah, the initial I
guess them becoming public and doing everything the way that
they went about everything. Yeah, that was definitely a ploy
(12:05):
because they were already together for they were dating for
a year while I was happily married, And that came
from Dennis's mouth.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
You ever thought about dating him, that's how you do it.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
I swap it out.
Speaker 6 (12:22):
I don't think Dennis can keep up with me, you know.
I think I'm a little out of his bracket. But
he's awesome, he's really cool.
Speaker 7 (12:31):
Well, you know the film of the Housewives? Now, could
you have an appearance on there? Or would you if
the opportunity presented.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
I'm not gonna say no comment, so it could be,
could not.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
This are possibilities.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
What you're saying, no comment?
Speaker 7 (12:47):
Would you get back with Simon now?
Speaker 6 (12:51):
To see it's crazy because I didn't always feel that way. However,
to see everything that he's doing yet again, and me
and y'all have to understand me watching everything, it's re
traumatizing for me because I'm the one who went through
it first as bad as it did publicly.
Speaker 7 (13:08):
Did you were you the first or was it publicly?
Speaker 6 (13:10):
Yeah? Because I don't want nobody when he was, you know,
getting divorces, and who's to say what he did to them.
I think I was only maybe five when he got divorced.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
So all right, So has he reached out to you
contact the Jews? No, So there's no communicator between you
and I.
Speaker 7 (13:28):
You and.
Speaker 6 (13:31):
We run into each other all the time. I have
reached out to him once before, I sent an email.
That was before the divorce. Their divorce went public. Just
y'all have to understand, Simon and I were actually married.
It was real. Our marriage was very real. So we
(13:52):
never had an ending discussion like there was no like,
it was nothing. I just went viral and was it.
We never said goodbye, We never said you know, I
wish you well, or he never even said fuck off.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
You know closure.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
No, So what happened? You just moved out and you know,
he just moved away? Or how did it? How did
the end didn't happen.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Same way y'all saw it. It just went away one
one day I was happy and the next day he
was gone.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
Oh, he just never came back to the house.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
He came back after a few months. Yeah, yeah, So
I had my kids in our house and his kids too,
and he was just traveling wherever he was, no communication,
barely any And then he came back and it was
you have you have three weeks to leave?
Speaker 7 (14:49):
Oh the premises he had three weeks or both of you.
Speaker 6 (14:53):
No, I had three weeks.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
Okay, he gave you a letter or something that said
you got three weeks.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
No, he sent me a text as good as a gout.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
So where did his kids go?
Speaker 6 (15:03):
They were with me?
Speaker 3 (15:05):
No, you left his kids too.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
No. I ended up having a conversation with his ex wife,
you know, and we wanted to continue the relationship between
the children. However, Simon did not want that, so we
uh just parted ways, and you know, it kind of
broke up the brotherhood between all the boys, which was
really sad and unfortunate, I think for everybody. So yeah,
(15:29):
it was like, you got three weeks to leave, and
he told me I could have more time if I wanted.
But I was so hurt by how quickly our marriage
just shifted and how my happiness just came to an
abrupt ending. I didn't know what I was feeling or thinking.
I wasn't myself.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So how long was y'all married?
Speaker 6 (15:51):
We were married for two years? We were together for
five So.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Was it a tit for tat with you guys?
Speaker 6 (16:00):
Because me, not for you, No, not for me. I
just wanted to do anything to not feel the pain anymore,
you know. And Jalen at that time, I'm sorry, Jalen,
he was just he was the superman. He was the
one who came in and he was just like, you
don't deserve that things.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Are you guys getting hot and steamy at that particular
moment too, that time frame, you and Jay getting hot
and steamy.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
Yeah, we had a baby, fool.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, it's hot and steam and steamy.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Listen, when you're emotional and you're vulnerable like that and
guys come in and say everything right, Oh, I can
only imagine it, and she just ate it up.
Speaker 6 (16:40):
I did, and I wasn't. Y'all have to understand, I
wasn't allowed to have friends in the marriage. So all
I was allowed to have was staff, really, and if
they were friends, they pretty much had to be approved
by him. Without him saying that, but with him saying.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
That, you know, no female friends.
Speaker 6 (16:57):
No, I mean I could have associates and have like
soires and parties at the house and they can come,
you know, but that's pretty much it. I wasn't allowed
to have girls' nights. That's why you always saw me
out with Simon all the time. When have you ever
seen me without him?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
That makes sense.
Speaker 7 (17:12):
So he said he gave you three weeks to leave.
When did the allowance stop, like after the three weeks or.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
Well, the allowance stopped soon after. Yeah, probably after the
three weeks around that time. But we had a prenup
and we were married for a lot longer than fifteen minutes,
so I got a lot more. Yeah. Also the money
was based off for the time you were together.
Speaker 7 (17:37):
I wonder how long Portia has left for her allowance.
So you think it has already stopped because.
Speaker 6 (17:42):
He gets any I think I kind of did him
in for a little booth. So no, I mean he
balling though, So I don't.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Know, So what what is his occupation? Because I've see
a lot of people.
Speaker 6 (17:55):
Online, y'all not about to get me caught up in this.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I'm not trying to be money.
Speaker 8 (17:59):
I just see a lot of people online acting like
what does he do for a living? And you know
he you know, he responded to one of the comments,
but you know, asking you you you would actually know,
well she.
Speaker 7 (18:10):
Worked with gas.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
Yes, so he helped me start my petroleum logistics company,
and he was selling oil and I transported his oil
for him. He stole that company, though, it was just
for me to get it started. I guess because I'm
a citizen. I don't know what the reason was behind it. Honestly,
that's just my assumption.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Well he stole a company from you? Oh yeah, because
she doesn't have legally.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Yeah, it was called t d L. Is named after
my sons, Troy Dyllon Liam and it's now called KLC
or something like that.
Speaker 8 (18:43):
Oh wow, So what you You didn't have full ownership
of a company or he I did?
Speaker 1 (18:49):
So how did he steal it from you?
Speaker 6 (18:51):
He's allegedly a scammer. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (18:53):
You tell me.
Speaker 6 (18:59):
I was love and I was butterflies and rainbows, like, okay,
you want to do this for me?
Speaker 1 (19:07):
What do you have? You a piece of paper?
Speaker 8 (19:08):
Like yr sign off on this real quick, baby, got
some money coming in for us?
Speaker 6 (19:12):
Yeah, I mean, I'm not illiterate, so of course I
read every contract that he gave me. Okay, I signed
off on everything. It was legit, It really was, until
it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
I said it wasn't legit.
Speaker 8 (19:24):
I was just saying, like, how did he steal the
company from.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
One of the Okay, so he.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
Was listed as the agent on my company and at
that point, at some point he kind of just took
everything and took over with just that label. I don't
know how he was able to do that though.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
But being realistic, right, so, and I think that that's
what people kind of forget. You're around this man with
money and power and education, so you're gonna trust him.
You see him exactly, so of course you're going to think, oh,
you want to give me a business house?
Speaker 6 (20:00):
And he was black on top of it.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
I was loud, not looking back. Do you see that?
Do you pay attention to moments that you probably easily
could have missed, Like, damn, I was very not I
wasn't thinking at this particular moment, but he really was
taking advantage of me in this particular space. Do you
think back on specific moments where you could have been
(20:23):
maybe a little bit more on point with how you
thought about Yeah, conversations and actions.
Speaker 6 (20:31):
Yeah, I mean, as it pertains to me and Simon,
like he we were or I was in love, and
I think that if I wasn't as blinded, then I
probably would have seen I would have seen everything, most likely.
But then the marriage and the relationship wouldn't have lasted
(20:54):
very long because you know, once you put them on blast,
I don't want to hear that. They just want to
keep having their cake and eat it too.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
So man, speaking of her own blast, Man, it would
be a super blast if you showed up on a
Real Housewives new season members this season, I know, be
on there so you know, and Simon trying to get
her to stop from him from even speaking on it.
He's real, he's been spiteful like that, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
He doesn't. He doesn't want her to talk about him.
Speaker 5 (21:27):
What's his sign?
Speaker 7 (21:29):
Gemini?
Speaker 8 (21:30):
So let me ask you this, if you if you
ever ran into Porsche, what would you talk to her about?
Speaker 6 (21:35):
That wouldn't be a safe scenario her or it's smoked.
I mean, at the end of the day, she know
what she did. It could play out in the media,
however everybody wants to try to play it out. I
know what she did, Simon knows what she did. Portion
knows what she did. That wouldn't be a safe scenario.
(21:55):
So I wouldn't even put myself in a predicament of
even allowing that. You know, I'm a grown woman.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Now I would have talked to her, talked to her.
Speaker 6 (22:04):
Ain't gonna be no talking now.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Did her ex husband know about that?
Speaker 6 (22:07):
Yeahs the one who told me. He was like, he
came to me, he apologized. We met up at crew
one night and he was like, you know, he wanted
to talk to me about business or whatever, but I
guess it was bothering him, and he apologized for everything.
He was like, felling, I thought you knew the whole
time that they were fucking around. He said, all of
Atlanta knew. He was like, how'd you miss that? I said,
(22:28):
I wasn't allowed out like that, so why would which
makes sense now, but yeah, so he was like, I'm
so sorry. He was like, I now it makes me
look at my baby mama a certain way because she
told me the whole time that you knew about everything.
You were cool with her sleeping with Simon.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
So what was you and Porster first interaction?
Speaker 6 (22:51):
Our first one, I believe was filming at my house
the pool scene. Yeah, that was the first time, and you.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Didn't sense anything.
Speaker 7 (23:00):
Was your first interaction. But how did you know how
does she know to come there? Who does she know
to get there?
Speaker 6 (23:04):
So I was approached by housewives a few times. By
the time I said yes, they asked me who do
you want to be introduced onto the show with? And
I said Portia, not knowing you know, she already but yeah,
allegedly she was already Yeah for a year. That's what
(23:26):
Dennis during this time, was already already. That's why when
I was like, I went back and watched it because everybody,
you know, everybody tags me in all the comments and
they're like, you need to rewatch it now that you
know not And I went and looked at it. And
when I said, you know, oh yeah, we're about to
do a ring upgrade, she was like.
Speaker 5 (23:44):
Oh, Like.
Speaker 6 (23:51):
I was in shock. But you know, in therapy, I
mean when we had a couple of therapies, Simon said,
and he told the therapist straight up, he said, Simon
doesn't get caught cheating unless Simon wants to get caught.
But he had thirty years on me. Of course he
knew what he was doing.
Speaker 7 (24:07):
Any advice to any future mesical bodies.
Speaker 6 (24:10):
I mean, he's going to be different for every new supply.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
So I'm gonna say a new supply.
Speaker 6 (24:16):
Damn, there's no advice. Watch y'at, don't fall in love bitch.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
Question Pretty sure there's more to come though, I mean
he's he's on a mission to get that citizenship.
Speaker 6 (24:30):
Yeah, I mean, good luck to him. I told you
he was doing that. That's that's out of that's out
of my jurisdiction of even being able to comprehend everything
he's going through because I wasn't even born yet, So
when he's going through all this, I don't know, I understand.
You know, I'm American, So I.
Speaker 7 (24:47):
Mean, like you said, you know him though you know you,
like you said, you know that man, you know more
than the Portia do him at the time. So that's
all I was saying, Like any signs that other women
could look for, you know, look out for when they
getting into situations with that guy.
Speaker 6 (25:01):
Honestly, I don't feel like these women even care these days.
I think they see a check and they see I
mean I think they look at it for what it is,
but I think they just see a check and they
go for the money. I don't even think they care
to fall for him, which isn't hard not to.
Speaker 7 (25:19):
Well, what is what do you have to offer these
men on your new show that you're gonna be having
a what is it?
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Follow over?
Speaker 6 (25:27):
Yes, it's gonna be a lot of fun. There's gonna
be some real moments. You know, we're gonna get down
to the nitty gritty of you know, healing trust, and
there's gonna be times where you know you're gonna be
forced to look in the mirror a lot that. I'm
that way naturally. Anytime anything goes bad or goes wrong
(25:49):
or left in my life, I always look in the mirror.
I'm like, what could you have done to have not
allowed this to happen? Or you know, did you cause this?
Are you the problem? Don't think I don't ask myself
that question. Is just because I got four baby daddies.
But you know realises how some people. Yeah, I'm very
real with myself. I'm actually my toughest critic and so
(26:10):
that's what I'm looking for. And a partner too who
holds me on, you know, my shit, and I can
hold them on theirs too, and they could take it
like a man. How old are your kids seventeen sixteen,
about to be sixteen. I'm eleven and two, so.
Speaker 7 (26:27):
Two of them am about to, you know, be in
college and away.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
From Yeah, they're they're already they're with their dads, not
with me anymore.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
So how many kids you have with you?
Speaker 6 (26:35):
Just got into Yeah, Liam and Emma.
Speaker 7 (26:38):
Okay, So does your mate have to have kids too?
Speaker 6 (26:42):
Or I've prefer a man who has children. And that
is just new to me now that I've been in
the dating world, which has been so hard. It's so
ugly out here. I just want to be married. I
don't want to be out here no more.
Speaker 7 (26:54):
Yeah, I like it. What is your biggest challenge?
Speaker 6 (26:58):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Yeah? What is there something triggering you when you're saying that,
Like there's something that's happening.
Speaker 6 (27:03):
I don't like how most of these men that I've
encountered are in their soft girl era, Like I missed
the part where men became so feminine and it's really
beginning to because now it's like, dang, I gotta be
hard for the both of us. I'm supposed to be
in my feminine power. I'm supposed to be masking that,
(27:25):
and I can't be in a relationship with you and
I got to be hard for you too.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
So how people gonna be able to submit for the show.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
So I'm I had to reschedule my casting. My casting
call was yesterday, gotch but the weather was so bad
and I was trying to wait for it to change. However,
it just got really bad because the venue that we
had was half inside half outside and people would have
been lining up in the rain, and then there was lightning,
so it just it was all bad. So I'm rescheduling it.
(27:54):
It's gonna be in two weeks. We haven't decided on
the date just yet, but the follow you to just
look at my Instagram and you guys will be able to,
you know, keep up with the time and the day
and the location and whatnot.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
And you haven't picked a network yet.
Speaker 6 (28:14):
I have not. I'm open. However, I am being shopped
right now, so I'm not under contract, but I kind
of want to have that loyalty to them since they
got a green lighted.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Yeah they got a green lighter.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Wait, you said somebody is loyally to you first, so
you said bravo.
Speaker 6 (28:32):
I'm not saying nothing.
Speaker 7 (28:35):
I'm not saying but okay, follow for fouling. And then
you said you can't talk about your other show, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (28:42):
That one I can't talk about what type of show is.
It's reality TV.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
It is, it's going to be on the Housewives.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
I'm going to have y'all.
Speaker 7 (28:55):
Yeah, she can't. She can't speak with anything else she
got coming up fire for I guess started. You're still modeling.
Speaker 6 (29:02):
I am still modeling.
Speaker 7 (29:13):
I am, so you're still modeling very much, So okay,
But I.
Speaker 6 (29:17):
Just started looking at myself the other day. I'm like,
I don't know if I want to model anymore. With
my boobs being so big, I don't know if I
want to do that. What do you mean? I love it,
but I have really big boobs. I feel like I was,
really I was a lot more confident modeling when I
was flat chested.
Speaker 7 (29:37):
I mean, is it for the type of modeling that
you want to do, because there's a lot of different
type of models.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
Now, there is, there is, and it seems like the
stuff I get picked for is mostly lingerie or like
you know, just things where you kind of or they
don't mind that you're so busty. But I'm small, So
like if I were a bit bigger, if my frame
were a bit bigger and then I have big boobs,
(30:02):
they'd count me as a plus size model, but because
I'm so tiny and then with big breaths.
Speaker 7 (30:07):
It's like, did that come from your last child?
Speaker 6 (30:10):
No, I bought these girls.
Speaker 7 (30:11):
Oh well, why'd you do that?
Speaker 6 (30:12):
Dan? If you wanted because I didn't want to be
a double a no more?
Speaker 7 (30:15):
Okay, Well you didn't want to you don't try to
model no more.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (30:20):
I'm very proud of these, Okay. I just wanted to
look different when I'm you know, with somebody.
Speaker 7 (30:26):
Okay, is that the only cosmetic surgery that you're that
you wanted to do?
Speaker 6 (30:30):
Or yeah, that's it. That's all I'll ever do.
Speaker 7 (30:33):
Okay, Okay, and everything is happy home you and Jalen.
Speaker 6 (30:38):
I'm taking some time to myself or I have taken
some time to myself to really deep dive into everything
it was that I'm feeling because I didn't really have
the time to heal after my divorce because I was
pregnant and I couldn't allow that to go into my child.
So then I had to deal with Jalen that breakup.
(31:01):
So I the second Jalen and I broke up, it
just went straight into all right, time to heal, you know,
time to feel allow yourself to feel and give yourself
that grace.
Speaker 7 (31:14):
And what are some of the things that you do
to for that healing.
Speaker 6 (31:17):
Oh, I meditate like no other. I meditate. I talk
to God a lot. I'm real with myself. I'm not
too tough on myself anymore. I used to. I realized
that words are very powerful. You know, you can't just
say like, oh, I'm an idiot, because you say that
enough and you know your soul, your spirit is gonna
begin to believe that self bullying. And I was doing
(31:39):
a lot of that on top of what the bullying
I was dealing with in the media. So I had
to learn how to really give myself grace and forgive
myself for my shortcomings. And now I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
So what's the what's the longest you've been single?
Speaker 6 (31:57):
I am single for after Liam's dad. I was single
for a while.
Speaker 7 (32:04):
Because we thought you was in a relationship with Pleasure P.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
And then the world the world was in a relationship
with Pleasure P.
Speaker 7 (32:12):
But it's a music video and he came and they bunked.
That's like, you guys are good friends.
Speaker 6 (32:17):
Oh my god, they're such good friends. Yeah, y'all might
see me out with him every year and there we're
really good friends.
Speaker 7 (32:22):
Yeah that's what he said.
Speaker 6 (32:23):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, real real tight.
Speaker 7 (32:25):
But no, okay, okay, but you single right now and
you looking for love?
Speaker 6 (32:32):
I am looking for love.
Speaker 7 (32:34):
Uh huh fallow for Fallon man, y'all, look out for
fell It's.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
On the way.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the
Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
Is this fallon y'all? You are now tuning into the
Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
It's love versus money on the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 7 (32:52):
All right, So today we have Aoki Lee and the
Victorial as off.
Speaker 3 (32:56):
Oh man, three hearts all right, so three so this
just for love.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Y'all know, she's trying to survive. That is second generation
sugar baby training.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
She was born for that.
Speaker 6 (33:11):
What do you think you're asking me that because you
think I'm a sugar baby?
Speaker 7 (33:18):
Felt this one?
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Right? I kind of relate with her a little bit
on this one. I wasn't that young.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
But no, no, you don't think this is business.
Speaker 6 (33:30):
It's all business.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
Come on, okay, I think they're still you.
Speaker 8 (33:35):
I mean, first of all, we gotta we gotta understand
the background that this young lady comes from. And this
is something normal that you know, her her mom is
seen and you know, you never know the conversations that
they've had because when they asked a dad, you know,
he was just kind of like, you know whatever. But
I just think that it's weird because she has like
(33:57):
childlike behavior. You know, if you if you watch her blogs,
it's like you're talking to like a teenage kid, like now.
Speaker 6 (34:05):
Say about him.
Speaker 7 (34:05):
But before then, Ayoki was always the one, you know,
checking people for her sister.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
You know, she never she was a quid one.
Speaker 7 (34:13):
She never gave no But I'm saying the way that
she's acting in that video, she was acting way more
mature before the video gotcha of her in the sixty
five year old she would never act like that. She
would be you know, very well spoken. You know, she
was the Harvard graduate, you know, so to see that,
you know, kind of dumber self down was was, you know,
(34:34):
like something's going on here.
Speaker 8 (34:36):
But it's a little weird. But you also got to
keep in mind, first of all, I think that this
is strictly business. I think that she wanted to go
on a nice vacation and she had somebody to say,
come on, I would pay for it. But you also
got to understand the trauma and the things that she's
experiencing right now, where you know her not having a
relationship with her dad right now, he's in a different country.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Why you tell you tell me allegedly he running, He
running from the bad boy. Bad boy.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
What you want to do is a lot of flags
on the place, this whole little scenario. Yeah, yeah, he's
definitely business though, for sure. I gotta be careful at him.
Speaker 6 (35:13):
Man. Did she come out and say that if her
dad didn't do more for her that she was going
to find a sugar daddy?
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Yeah, yes, yes, she said that on Instagram live.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
And I do think that they're they're not together publicly
because of him, Yeah, yeah, and his businesses that he
got going on.
Speaker 7 (35:29):
That's a bad little she doesn't expose the Marria j Blige.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
Thing and everything, Yeah, because he's because he's in the background.
But see that's another thing.
Speaker 8 (35:36):
Why I said, that's just like kid, like were you
like around like a younger you know person, and they
just recording everything. So I'm looking at the situation like, yo,
he's talking about some private stuff and she's over here
like should be quiet, and and he you know, it's
like stuff like that will make like, come on, bro,
you hanging out with a kid. So I can't just
say it on her. We also got to he gotta
(35:56):
take accountability to like.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
Come on, man, he could definitely be her grandfather.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Facts easy, facts get in there.
Speaker 3 (36:04):
She's like three generations away from him.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
She's twenty one just to teach him how to use things.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
So fallon, would you ever get an older man? I
should say it like that?
Speaker 6 (36:13):
No, hell no, not ever again.
Speaker 8 (36:15):
No.
Speaker 6 (36:16):
I mean, I'm so, I'm about to be thirty five
in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
So what's the what's the what's the biggest gap for
you that's comfortable?
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 3 (36:27):
What's the biggest guy I'm thinking about?
Speaker 7 (36:29):
And a Nicole Smith?
Speaker 6 (36:31):
Right, I think fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
I think fifteen years.
Speaker 6 (36:36):
I'm at that big age now I got kids. I
think fifteen years is comfortable for me. What is?
Speaker 1 (36:40):
What is Younger women in factuation with older men.
Speaker 6 (36:44):
They're mature, and they know how to teach and lead
a woman, and they know how to touch a woman too.
A lot of them do, at least I guess like
I feel like they're just more experienced they're more seasoned
and young, younger guys especially. I would never dig a
guy in my own age these days. I just I
(37:06):
can't do it unless he's already he's already at a
point where he's established, and you know, he's mentally established
and spiritually established. I'm not doing that because they're just stupid.
Speaker 7 (37:23):
So nobody your age, and nobody smoking Robinson's age.
Speaker 3 (37:26):
He's a fifteen year game.
Speaker 6 (37:28):
I'm sorry. Smoking.
Speaker 7 (37:29):
Smoking is getting down now. He's on stage and he's
showing the girls that he got moved, you know, so
don't be counting out smoking.
Speaker 3 (37:38):
All right, we got barler mail, Yes we do.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
It is time for baller mail.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
Dear baller alert. My boyfriend was currently diagnosed and needs
a new kidney and now has to be on dialysis
three days a week. It's been weighing on me pretty bad,
and I'm not sure I can keep keep this up.
Taking care of him is a lie. I want to
break up with him because it's just too much. But
I'm scared of my karma though. Help me, y'all leave.
Speaker 6 (38:07):
Did he propose boy friend? Right? Why are you being
your wife to somebody who doesn't want you? To be?
One hit? It. I know he was going to.
Speaker 7 (38:18):
Wisdom balance.
Speaker 6 (38:20):
We learned it from life has been lifing.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Man, that's kind of tough, man. You don't leave somebody
on their death.
Speaker 6 (38:29):
You can be there for some.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Is serious though, definitely that's get better next week. You
what you know all about taking care of men, because
you took care of the poopy man.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Was he had a he had a bad stomach virus though, yeah.
Speaker 8 (38:51):
Just three days a week. Man, That's that's tough man.
I feel like if you already doing it, it's like, man,
you gotta you gotta stick it. Like what if what
if that man is the love of your life and
you're talking about you want to break up with him?
Speaker 1 (39:02):
What if he gets better? She said, boyfriend?
Speaker 6 (39:03):
So I don't know afriend, but she.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Could still be in love. But I guess not anymore.
Speaker 6 (39:09):
She's asking the question.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
She already already been in the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
She already I'm gonna come in and say, you say
you want to break up with him, just go ahead
and break up with him, because right now you're just
putting a band aid on the wound that's just gonna
get worse. And if it's bothering you, you're probably gonna
have an attitude and.
Speaker 7 (39:27):
Feeling the way, and you're showing up with attitude.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Showing up with the attitude. Just go ahead and get
it over with.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
She don't leave him on this.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
No, I don't want you to leave him, but you
don't want to be in there.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
That's that bullshit.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
But that's also a blessing for him, because he's gonna
be like, all right, cool, you ain't the Yeah, maybe
I won't gonna propose, but some.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Ship happened and ain't God damn, it ain't gonna be
for better for worse with the world is cruel.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
It ain't worse with you. You ain't the one, yo.
Get here there, come forget what. I'm gonna give me
a new kidney because I'm on the list, and get
what I'm gonna find me my one.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
This sounds very personal.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
My uncle's on dialysis.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Actually his woman left. You know what, I don't want
he let's not put the business.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Let's not put his business out, Okay, And that's my big.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Less say, let's my bad.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
So no, but nah, get up out of there, if
you know, because it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 8 (40:34):
She's just gonna come and break his heart and be like,
don't play, it's hard, it's no, it's too lakers.
Speaker 7 (40:38):
Now she was uh like older with a lot of money.
And you know what I'm saying to say that you
don't get gonna be like it's a bit different.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
This doesn't really say he has the bag bag baggie,
because if he did, she would.
Speaker 8 (40:58):
We're gonna stay sugar baby, or she would have or
he would have probably had a nurse.
Speaker 5 (41:05):
That's what I said.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Because she gotta do it, and yeah, no, that's too much,
that's too much. It is too much. Though it's a lot.
You gotta really really love somebody to you committed to
do something right about.
Speaker 6 (41:16):
That, And it don't seem like she love him too much.
If she's asking us, she.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
Gotta she would have gone.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
He just got diagnosed for two weeks or something.
Speaker 8 (41:25):
But see, but see that's another question, is like how
long have they been dating? Because you know they could
just first start off dating and then you know something
like and because she out of the yeah she gone,
and she sent us a d She sent me a
d M. I know you want to leave me, She
want to leave bad.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
She's already made it, already made a decision. She said,
what about my karma.
Speaker 7 (41:48):
You have karma community.
Speaker 6 (41:51):
Every single day it's gonna get hurt.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, this ship I love that felon.
Speaker 7 (41:58):
You know, we're just gonna go right into pet talk.
I'm done, go ahead and give us some more of
your wisdom.
Speaker 6 (42:04):
Ooh. My message to the world today, Uh, don't allow
anyone to stop your blessings. I don't care if it's
a husband, wife, whatever it is that you foresee for
your future. You know your vision is your own vision,
and that's not for anybody else to see. It's only
for you to see and understand. So don't allow anybody
(42:28):
to stop you and keep going.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
You can't get enough of baller Alert. Follow us on
all social media platforms at baller alert, log on to
baller alert dot com.
Bord with me here.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
You know, bt know how it goes, shout out oct
no real color, what we see, whole game read the
boer b something. Oh you can't stand on my own, Suci,
I already know you can't with me because up with
the squad of me they get at They called me.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Her love.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hello, ball Loveler, Welcome to the Baller Show podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Another book. Everywhere you get your podcast please to tee
to light Subscribers share are YouTube page at Baller alert TV.
One time for we vote. I go by the name
of Farri Sith. I go by the name you know
bt C t what that.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Tamara aka girl from harlow Ah fat.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
In the building.
Speaker 6 (00:41):
We'll go back.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I'm bad. Welcome bad. You brought some tea and it
was hot.
Speaker 6 (00:46):
Yeah. I'm working on two television shows right now.
Speaker 7 (00:49):
What are they?
Speaker 6 (00:49):
So? One is the dating show? So I'm looking for
love okay, and the other one I can't tell.
Speaker 7 (00:56):
What are you looking for in your love?
Speaker 6 (00:59):
I'm really looking for someone who's real, who's authentic, and
I feel like that's really hard to find these days.
You know, nobody, nobody knows how to just be themselves anymore.
Everybody wants to keep up with the joneses or be
somebody it is that they believe that they're supposed to
be or you know, there's a lot of men who
want wives but don't want to be husbands. So I
(01:24):
think that's that's really what I'm looking for. I mean,
it's open to women as well. It's not just men.
Speaker 7 (01:29):
Oh that's a curveball.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
It was a curveball for me.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
Y'all have to understand because my team they're asking me like, okay,
so it's just men only, And I said, hold on, wait,
I don't know. You know, the men have just been
messing up. Y'all have really done yourselves a good one.
I don't know if I want to go back, I might.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So why you're exploring now?
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Yeah, I mean I've always you know.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
You've always appreciated the beauty of a woman.
Speaker 6 (01:57):
Yeah, okay, but just not relationship wise. So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
So you're open to exploring a possibility of a relationship
with a woman.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Yeah, absolutely, she's bad.
Speaker 7 (02:08):
No, But so what is this gonna be on? What's
the platform?
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Zoos? I really say right now? But open, Yes, it's
a dating show for me. I'm really just trying to
leave it open. However, we have a network that's highly interested, so.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
He's just weighing out the bait.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Mm hmm me the best man win, literally.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
The best person.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Yeah, person.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
That was the title of it. For the love of Fallon.
Speaker 6 (02:43):
Falling for Fallon. That was a good one though, for
the love of Falling for Fallon.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
How does Fallon's X feel?
Speaker 6 (02:52):
Uh?
Speaker 7 (02:53):
What's his name, Jayalen? How does he feel about it?
Speaker 6 (02:56):
He's straight?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
I guess okay, he doesn't make an appearance or anything.
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Right, I don't know. I would not put it past
my producers at all.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
To put him as a qualifying person.
Speaker 6 (03:06):
Absolutely, I've actually thought about it. You thought about No,
I didn't think about using him. I thought about it
being interesting.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I'm like, so, you don't know any of these guys, right,
you're going to meet them on the show.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
No, I don't know any about it.
Speaker 7 (03:21):
You haven't, you're not a part of the casting or
say so in that.
Speaker 6 (03:26):
I'm gonna have somewhat you know, say so because of
course we want we want to see who it is
that I choose and who I'm attracted to. However, not everybody.
We're gonna see what happened.
Speaker 7 (03:38):
To any overweight lovers? Or do you have a preference?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
No, okay, I don't think so at this point. My
preference hasn't really gotten me very far now has it?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
So so let me ask you this. Do you have
any red flags?
Speaker 6 (03:55):
I think I think everyone has red flag?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
What are yours?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
I'm stubborn, Taurus stubborn. I'm stubborn, I really am. And
when I'm right, I'm right. You can't argue with me.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yep, yep, yeah that's crazy.
Speaker 8 (04:21):
So what are some what are some green flags that
you're looking for on this day?
Speaker 6 (04:25):
And show, like I said, just someone who's real and authentic.
I mean, I have to be attracted to them, because
I was. You know, I've been with people that have
been less attractive than me, and I realized that that
it may sound shallow, but it really doesn't match with
my world. You have to be able to be secure
enough in your own skin, and I feel like, however
(04:48):
that usually comes up, it doesn't translate very well in
a person who doesn't feel like they're attractive, you know,
in comparison to how I look. So I need somebody
to be tough. They have to have thick.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Skin, so you. So you don't think money make people attractive?
Speaker 6 (05:04):
No, not at all. I think it can add some
type of value, and it can add some type of swag,
but even swag goes into their own self confidence. Now
you know, couldn't make them attracted to them and that's
what they exude. Yeah, but no, I don't. Okay, I
like money.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Though, So you know about to ask you what so
you were physically attractive assignment?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
Oh my god, before we go there, let's just take
a quick break. Let's take a breather, Let's take a brother.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
We'll be right back.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
We'll be right back. We'll be right back for more.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert Show.
Is this falling?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Y'all? You are now tuning into the Baller Alert show.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
Bag with more the Brother Alert Show. We got failing
in the building and kind of left out on a cliffhanger.
I think lady had a question.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Yeah, well, BT asked, He said, are you attracted? Does
money make people attracted? You said no, So I said, oh,
so you thought Simon was attractive.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
I am attracted to people's hearts and they're inside before
I'm attracted to.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
So does a heart make someone attractive, yes, someone's heart, yes.
Speaker 6 (06:22):
If they have a really big, loving heart. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Okay, so the bank account ain't got to be big, No,
it does.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
I didn't say that. Let's relax, it's calm down. I
have a lot of respects.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Have you ever been in love with a brokie?
Speaker 6 (06:37):
Yeah, okay, a couple of times.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
It happens.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
It happens, and you said in your mind, like, nah,
this ain't it.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
I think I'm at that place now in life for sure.
For sure. I don't think I'm ever going to get
with another brokie ever again in life.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Damn.
Speaker 7 (06:53):
At the beginning of the episode, you said you were vindicated.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I mean, yeah, I feel a little bit of it.
I'm not going to lie because everybody kind of made
me out to be something that I wasn't without understanding
what was going on behind closed doors for five years.
The person that y'all see is my ex husband. That's
new to y'all. I knew exactly who it was that
I married, but you know, I was young. I was
twenty six when we got together. He was fifty. So
(07:20):
I thought that, well, no, he loves me, and he'll
just you know, he'll change, and he just has to
grow and I have to prove myself and all that
dumb shit.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Did you know about all like the immigration problems that
he was having. Yeah, did he like to tell you
the thing?
Speaker 6 (07:35):
But I don't have to, you know, exploit people's name
or any of their business for a check.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
Yeah, But did he tell you that upfront or is
that something that you investigated yourself?
Speaker 6 (07:45):
No, that was he was upfront about a lot of things. However,
There's a lot of stuff that he left out too.
I've never even known that he's been in jail before.
M you know, so I really in a sense when
everything came into the media, I was really shocked.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Found some stuff out too.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Yeah, and y'all have to understand he was doing all
this before I was born.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Wait did you not google him though?
Speaker 6 (08:11):
Like I feel like there's only but so much you
can see on Google.
Speaker 7 (08:14):
Yeah, the hopeful police are going to come? Is that so?
Speaker 6 (08:21):
I mean I think it says that I'm like, I'm
worth two hundred and fifty million right now on what where? Where?
Speaker 8 (08:26):
That's that?
Speaker 7 (08:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:28):
That's what Google?
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (08:30):
That crazy? Yeah? Oh wow, I haven't seen all types
of articles.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
So how do you vet somebody? Then? Like what is
your process now and moving forward when you're looking to
see like who you're going to date.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
Like, I don't bet nobody. Whatever comes out just comes back.
I don't got to do nothing and the way, but
you have to do that. I'm gonna find out for me.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Yeah, okay, but then it's a way you in love
or something or you already went public with this person.
You don't want to like have that attached to you.
You have you your brain, like you are a brand.
Now you have to protect that, so you have to
be cautious about all your data.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
I'm moving forward absolutely, and I'll you know, I'll remain
as cautious as I can. But I can't walk, you know,
on eggshells because I'm too afraid to let my guard
down because of my image. You know, the world and
life is so much bigger than just your career. And
I mean, as long as not no Diddy stuff, I
think I'm good.
Speaker 7 (09:23):
You know, what do you think about all the Diddy
stuff going on?
Speaker 6 (09:28):
I mean, you know, we've always and especially in the industry,
we've always heard stories hell no, no, no, not even but.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
But you know I've heard stories just as much as
everybody else it's sad to see them go out like that.
I think. I think what bothers me the most is
his son's being a part of it all, know, like
the fact that his kids have something to do with
all of this. Then they had like hitting cameras and
all of their rooms and stuff allegedly. That's crazy.
Speaker 7 (09:57):
Rich people do weird things.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
That means that Diddy was in there watching his children.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
That's a whole nother aspect. I didn't even think about it.
I reviewing the tapes.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Yeah, because they said the tapes or the cameras were
inside of his room's room.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
Simon never had cameras throughout the house.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
Of course he did. I had GPS trackers on my
cars and everything.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
That's that's how he called Jalen.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
Right, No, that's how he caught another boy. Oh, but
I wasn't hiding it, so I was kind of.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Yeah, I know about that situation. I know, I know
you wouldn't that was the time.
Speaker 6 (10:33):
Yeah, that was around that time. No, there was no
y'all have to understand. So when Jalen and I got together,
it was during a very vulnerable moment for me. So
there was so much going on behind closed doors that
y'all still don't you know, the public doesn't really know
about and the time frame that everything took place. So
(10:53):
by the time Jaalen and I even decided that we're
going to become more than just friends, he was already
with several other people. But we were still lead married
with several other people, right, but we were verbally separated. So,
I mean, it just you know, whatever happened happened.
Speaker 7 (11:10):
And are you were you shocked to find out when
Portia and Simon separated?
Speaker 6 (11:16):
No? Was anybody.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
So do you think that was Do you think that
was real?
Speaker 7 (11:21):
No, the whole relationship, you don't think it was real.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
You don't think it was real at all.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
No. I think it was just a ploy to get
back at me. I mean really, yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
Not to get back at not to have like a
storyline or anything like that.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
No, I mean she finally used it for a storyline, sure.
Speaker 7 (11:37):
But he was trying to get at you through that
whole relationship. You're saying, Simon, oh, throughout the whole.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
I mean I'm not. I'm not gonna say like there
wasn't any parts you know that he might have thought
could have been authentic or something could have grown you know,
I don't know their business, but yeah, the initial I
guess them becoming public and doing everything the way that
they went about everything. Yeah, that was definitely a ploy
(12:05):
because they were already together for they were dating for
a year while I was happily married, And that came
from Dennis's mouth.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
You ever thought about dating him, that's how you do it.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
I swap it out.
Speaker 6 (12:22):
I don't think Dennis can keep up with me, you know.
I think I'm a little out of his bracket. But
he's awesome, he's really cool.
Speaker 7 (12:31):
Well, you know the film of the Housewives? Now, could
you have an appearance on there? Or would you if
the opportunity presented.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
I'm not gonna say no comment, so it could be,
could not.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
This are possibilities.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
What you're saying, no comment?
Speaker 7 (12:47):
Would you get back with Simon now?
Speaker 6 (12:51):
To see it's crazy because I didn't always feel that way. However,
to see everything that he's doing yet again, and me
and y'all have to understand me watching everything, it's re
traumatizing for me because I'm the one who went through
it first as bad as it did publicly.
Speaker 7 (13:08):
Did you were you the first or was it publicly?
Speaker 6 (13:10):
Yeah? Because I don't want nobody when he was, you know,
getting divorces, and who's to say what he did to them.
I think I was only maybe five when he got divorced.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
So all right, So has he reached out to you
contact the Jews? No, So there's no communicator between you
and I.
Speaker 7 (13:28):
You and.
Speaker 6 (13:31):
We run into each other all the time. I have
reached out to him once before, I sent an email.
That was before the divorce. Their divorce went public. Just
y'all have to understand, Simon and I were actually married.
It was real. Our marriage was very real. So we
(13:52):
never had an ending discussion like there was no like,
it was nothing. I just went viral and was it.
We never said goodbye, We never said you know, I
wish you well, or he never even said fuck off.
Speaker 3 (14:08):
You know closure.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
No, So what happened? You just moved out and you know,
he just moved away? Or how did it? How did
the end didn't happen.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Same way y'all saw it. It just went away one
one day I was happy and the next day he
was gone.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
Oh, he just never came back to the house.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
He came back after a few months. Yeah, yeah, So
I had my kids in our house and his kids too,
and he was just traveling wherever he was, no communication,
barely any And then he came back and it was
you have you have three weeks to leave?
Speaker 7 (14:49):
Oh the premises he had three weeks or both of you.
Speaker 6 (14:53):
No, I had three weeks.
Speaker 7 (14:54):
Okay, he gave you a letter or something that said
you got three weeks.
Speaker 6 (14:57):
No, he sent me a text as good as a gout.
Speaker 7 (15:01):
So where did his kids go?
Speaker 6 (15:03):
They were with me?
Speaker 3 (15:05):
No, you left his kids too.
Speaker 6 (15:08):
No. I ended up having a conversation with his ex wife,
you know, and we wanted to continue the relationship between
the children. However, Simon did not want that, so we
uh just parted ways, and you know, it kind of
broke up the brotherhood between all the boys, which was
really sad and unfortunate, I think for everybody. So yeah,
(15:29):
it was like, you got three weeks to leave, and
he told me I could have more time if I wanted.
But I was so hurt by how quickly our marriage
just shifted and how my happiness just came to an
abrupt ending. I didn't know what I was feeling or thinking.
I wasn't myself.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
So how long was y'all married?
Speaker 6 (15:51):
We were married for two years? We were together for
five So.
Speaker 5 (15:58):
Was it a tit for tat with you guys?
Speaker 6 (16:00):
Because me, not for you, No, not for me. I
just wanted to do anything to not feel the pain anymore,
you know. And Jalen at that time, I'm sorry, Jalen,
he was just he was the superman. He was the
one who came in and he was just like, you
don't deserve that things.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Are you guys getting hot and steamy at that particular
moment too, that time frame, you and Jay getting hot
and steamy.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
Yeah, we had a baby, fool.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, it's hot and steam and steamy.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Listen, when you're emotional and you're vulnerable like that and
guys come in and say everything right, Oh, I can
only imagine it, and she just ate it up.
Speaker 6 (16:40):
I did, and I wasn't. Y'all have to understand, I
wasn't allowed to have friends in the marriage. So all
I was allowed to have was staff, really, and if
they were friends, they pretty much had to be approved
by him. Without him saying that, but with him saying.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
That, you know, no female friends.
Speaker 6 (16:57):
No, I mean I could have associates and have like
soires and parties at the house and they can come,
you know, but that's pretty much it. I wasn't allowed
to have girls' nights. That's why you always saw me
out with Simon all the time. When have you ever
seen me without him?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
That makes sense.
Speaker 7 (17:12):
So he said he gave you three weeks to leave.
When did the allowance stop, like after the three weeks or.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
Well, the allowance stopped soon after. Yeah, probably after the
three weeks around that time. But we had a prenup
and we were married for a lot longer than fifteen minutes,
so I got a lot more. Yeah. Also the money
was based off for the time you were together.
Speaker 7 (17:37):
I wonder how long Portia has left for her allowance.
So you think it has already stopped because.
Speaker 6 (17:42):
He gets any I think I kind of did him
in for a little booth. So no, I mean he
balling though, So I don't.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Know, So what what is his occupation? Because I've see
a lot of people.
Speaker 6 (17:55):
Online, y'all not about to get me caught up in this.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I'm not trying to be money.
Speaker 8 (17:59):
I just see a lot of people online acting like
what does he do for a living? And you know
he you know, he responded to one of the comments,
but you know, asking you you you would actually know,
well she.
Speaker 7 (18:10):
Worked with gas.
Speaker 6 (18:12):
Yes, so he helped me start my petroleum logistics company,
and he was selling oil and I transported his oil
for him. He stole that company, though, it was just
for me to get it started. I guess because I'm
a citizen. I don't know what the reason was behind it. Honestly,
that's just my assumption.
Speaker 1 (18:32):
Well he stole a company from you? Oh yeah, because
she doesn't have legally.
Speaker 6 (18:36):
Yeah, it was called t d L. Is named after
my sons, Troy Dyllon Liam and it's now called KLC
or something like that.
Speaker 8 (18:43):
Oh wow, So what you You didn't have full ownership
of a company or he I did?
Speaker 1 (18:49):
So how did he steal it from you?
Speaker 6 (18:51):
He's allegedly a scammer. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (18:53):
You tell me.
Speaker 6 (18:59):
I was love and I was butterflies and rainbows, like, okay,
you want to do this for me?
Speaker 1 (19:07):
What do you have? You a piece of paper?
Speaker 8 (19:08):
Like yr sign off on this real quick, baby, got
some money coming in for us?
Speaker 6 (19:12):
Yeah, I mean, I'm not illiterate, so of course I
read every contract that he gave me. Okay, I signed
off on everything. It was legit, It really was, until
it wasn't.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
I said it wasn't legit.
Speaker 8 (19:24):
I was just saying, like, how did he steal the
company from.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
One of the Okay, so he.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
Was listed as the agent on my company and at
that point, at some point he kind of just took
everything and took over with just that label. I don't
know how he was able to do that though.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
But being realistic, right, so, and I think that that's
what people kind of forget. You're around this man with
money and power and education, so you're gonna trust him.
You see him exactly, so of course you're going to think, oh,
you want to give me a business house?
Speaker 6 (20:00):
And he was black on top of it.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
I was loud, not looking back. Do you see that?
Do you pay attention to moments that you probably easily
could have missed, Like, damn, I was very not I
wasn't thinking at this particular moment, but he really was
taking advantage of me in this particular space. Do you
think back on specific moments where you could have been
(20:23):
maybe a little bit more on point with how you
thought about Yeah, conversations and actions.
Speaker 6 (20:31):
Yeah, I mean, as it pertains to me and Simon,
like he we were or I was in love, and
I think that if I wasn't as blinded, then I
probably would have seen I would have seen everything, most likely.
But then the marriage and the relationship wouldn't have lasted
(20:54):
very long because you know, once you put them on blast,
I don't want to hear that. They just want to
keep having their cake and eat it too.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
So man, speaking of her own blast, Man, it would
be a super blast if you showed up on a
Real Housewives new season members this season, I know, be
on there so you know, and Simon trying to get
her to stop from him from even speaking on it.
He's real, he's been spiteful like that, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
He doesn't. He doesn't want her to talk about him.
Speaker 5 (21:27):
What's his sign?
Speaker 7 (21:29):
Gemini?
Speaker 8 (21:30):
So let me ask you this, if you if you
ever ran into Porsche, what would you talk to her about?
Speaker 6 (21:35):
That wouldn't be a safe scenario her or it's smoked.
I mean, at the end of the day, she know
what she did. It could play out in the media,
however everybody wants to try to play it out. I
know what she did, Simon knows what she did. Portion
knows what she did. That wouldn't be a safe scenario.
(21:55):
So I wouldn't even put myself in a predicament of
even allowing that. You know, I'm a grown woman.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Now I would have talked to her, talked to her.
Speaker 6 (22:04):
Ain't gonna be no talking now.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Did her ex husband know about that?
Speaker 6 (22:07):
Yeahs the one who told me. He was like, he
came to me, he apologized. We met up at crew
one night and he was like, you know, he wanted
to talk to me about business or whatever, but I
guess it was bothering him, and he apologized for everything.
He was like, felling, I thought you knew the whole
time that they were fucking around. He said, all of
Atlanta knew. He was like, how'd you miss that? I said,
(22:28):
I wasn't allowed out like that, so why would which
makes sense now, but yeah, so he was like, I'm
so sorry. He was like, I now it makes me
look at my baby mama a certain way because she
told me the whole time that you knew about everything.
You were cool with her sleeping with Simon.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
So what was you and Porster first interaction?
Speaker 6 (22:51):
Our first one, I believe was filming at my house
the pool scene. Yeah, that was the first time, and you.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Didn't sense anything.
Speaker 7 (23:00):
Was your first interaction. But how did you know how
does she know to come there? Who does she know
to get there?
Speaker 6 (23:04):
So I was approached by housewives a few times. By
the time I said yes, they asked me who do
you want to be introduced onto the show with? And
I said Portia, not knowing you know, she already but yeah,
allegedly she was already Yeah for a year. That's what
(23:26):
Dennis during this time, was already already. That's why when
I was like, I went back and watched it because everybody,
you know, everybody tags me in all the comments and
they're like, you need to rewatch it now that you
know not And I went and looked at it. And
when I said, you know, oh yeah, we're about to
do a ring upgrade, she was like.
Speaker 5 (23:44):
Oh, Like.
Speaker 6 (23:51):
I was in shock. But you know, in therapy, I
mean when we had a couple of therapies, Simon said,
and he told the therapist straight up, he said, Simon
doesn't get caught cheating unless Simon wants to get caught.
But he had thirty years on me. Of course he
knew what he was doing.
Speaker 7 (24:07):
Any advice to any future mesical bodies.
Speaker 6 (24:10):
I mean, he's going to be different for every new supply.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
So I'm gonna say a new supply.
Speaker 6 (24:16):
Damn, there's no advice. Watch y'at, don't fall in love bitch.
Speaker 7 (24:24):
Question Pretty sure there's more to come though, I mean
he's he's on a mission to get that citizenship.
Speaker 6 (24:30):
Yeah, I mean, good luck to him. I told you
he was doing that. That's that's out of that's out
of my jurisdiction of even being able to comprehend everything
he's going through because I wasn't even born yet, So
when he's going through all this, I don't know, I understand.
You know, I'm American, So I.
Speaker 7 (24:47):
Mean, like you said, you know him though you know you,
like you said, you know that man, you know more
than the Portia do him at the time. So that's
all I was saying, Like any signs that other women
could look for, you know, look out for when they
getting into situations with that guy.
Speaker 6 (25:01):
Honestly, I don't feel like these women even care these days.
I think they see a check and they see I
mean I think they look at it for what it is,
but I think they just see a check and they
go for the money. I don't even think they care
to fall for him, which isn't hard not to.
Speaker 7 (25:19):
Well, what is what do you have to offer these
men on your new show that you're gonna be having
a what is it?
Speaker 6 (25:25):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Follow over?
Speaker 6 (25:27):
Yes, it's gonna be a lot of fun. There's gonna
be some real moments. You know, we're gonna get down
to the nitty gritty of you know, healing trust, and
there's gonna be times where you know you're gonna be
forced to look in the mirror a lot that. I'm
that way naturally. Anytime anything goes bad or goes wrong
(25:49):
or left in my life, I always look in the mirror.
I'm like, what could you have done to have not
allowed this to happen? Or you know, did you cause this?
Are you the problem? Don't think I don't ask myself
that question. Is just because I got four baby daddies.
But you know realises how some people. Yeah, I'm very
real with myself. I'm actually my toughest critic and so
(26:10):
that's what I'm looking for. And a partner too who
holds me on, you know, my shit, and I can
hold them on theirs too, and they could take it
like a man. How old are your kids seventeen sixteen,
about to be sixteen. I'm eleven and two, so.
Speaker 7 (26:27):
Two of them am about to, you know, be in
college and away.
Speaker 6 (26:30):
From Yeah, they're they're already they're with their dads, not
with me anymore.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
So how many kids you have with you?
Speaker 6 (26:35):
Just got into Yeah, Liam and Emma.
Speaker 7 (26:38):
Okay, So does your mate have to have kids too?
Speaker 6 (26:42):
Or I've prefer a man who has children. And that
is just new to me now that I've been in
the dating world, which has been so hard. It's so
ugly out here. I just want to be married. I
don't want to be out here no more.
Speaker 7 (26:54):
Yeah, I like it. What is your biggest challenge?
Speaker 6 (26:58):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (26:58):
Yeah? What is there something triggering you when you're saying that,
Like there's something that's happening.
Speaker 6 (27:03):
I don't like how most of these men that I've
encountered are in their soft girl era, Like I missed
the part where men became so feminine and it's really
beginning to because now it's like, dang, I gotta be
hard for the both of us. I'm supposed to be
in my feminine power. I'm supposed to be masking that,
(27:25):
and I can't be in a relationship with you and
I got to be hard for you too.
Speaker 1 (27:30):
So how people gonna be able to submit for the show.
Speaker 6 (27:33):
So I'm I had to reschedule my casting. My casting
call was yesterday, gotch but the weather was so bad
and I was trying to wait for it to change. However,
it just got really bad because the venue that we
had was half inside half outside and people would have
been lining up in the rain, and then there was lightning,
so it just it was all bad. So I'm rescheduling it.
(27:54):
It's gonna be in two weeks. We haven't decided on
the date just yet, but the follow you to just
look at my Instagram and you guys will be able to,
you know, keep up with the time and the day
and the location and whatnot.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
And you haven't picked a network yet.
Speaker 6 (28:14):
I have not. I'm open. However, I am being shopped
right now, so I'm not under contract, but I kind
of want to have that loyalty to them since they
got a green lighted.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Yeah they got a green lighter.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
Wait, you said somebody is loyally to you first, so
you said bravo.
Speaker 6 (28:32):
I'm not saying nothing.
Speaker 7 (28:35):
I'm not saying but okay, follow for fouling. And then
you said you can't talk about your other show, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (28:42):
That one I can't talk about what type of show is.
It's reality TV.
Speaker 1 (28:47):
It is, it's going to be on the Housewives.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
I'm going to have y'all.
Speaker 7 (28:55):
Yeah, she can't. She can't speak with anything else she
got coming up fire for I guess started. You're still modeling.
Speaker 6 (29:02):
I am still modeling.
Speaker 7 (29:13):
I am, so you're still modeling very much, So okay,
But I.
Speaker 6 (29:17):
Just started looking at myself the other day. I'm like,
I don't know if I want to model anymore. With
my boobs being so big, I don't know if I
want to do that. What do you mean? I love it,
but I have really big boobs. I feel like I was,
really I was a lot more confident modeling when I
was flat chested.
Speaker 7 (29:37):
I mean, is it for the type of modeling that
you want to do, because there's a lot of different
type of models.
Speaker 6 (29:41):
Now, there is, there is, and it seems like the
stuff I get picked for is mostly lingerie or like
you know, just things where you kind of or they
don't mind that you're so busty. But I'm small, So
like if I were a bit bigger, if my frame
were a bit bigger and then I have big boobs,
(30:02):
they'd count me as a plus size model, but because
I'm so tiny and then with big breaths.
Speaker 7 (30:07):
It's like, did that come from your last child?
Speaker 6 (30:10):
No, I bought these girls.
Speaker 7 (30:11):
Oh well, why'd you do that?
Speaker 6 (30:12):
Dan? If you wanted because I didn't want to be
a double a no more?
Speaker 7 (30:15):
Okay, Well you didn't want to you don't try to
model no more.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (30:20):
I'm very proud of these, Okay. I just wanted to
look different when I'm you know, with somebody.
Speaker 7 (30:26):
Okay, is that the only cosmetic surgery that you're that
you wanted to do?
Speaker 6 (30:30):
Or yeah, that's it. That's all I'll ever do.
Speaker 7 (30:33):
Okay, Okay, and everything is happy home you and Jalen.
Speaker 6 (30:38):
I'm taking some time to myself or I have taken
some time to myself to really deep dive into everything
it was that I'm feeling because I didn't really have
the time to heal after my divorce because I was
pregnant and I couldn't allow that to go into my child.
So then I had to deal with Jalen that breakup.
(31:01):
So I the second Jalen and I broke up, it
just went straight into all right, time to heal, you know,
time to feel allow yourself to feel and give yourself
that grace.
Speaker 7 (31:14):
And what are some of the things that you do
to for that healing.
Speaker 6 (31:17):
Oh, I meditate like no other. I meditate. I talk
to God a lot. I'm real with myself. I'm not
too tough on myself anymore. I used to. I realized
that words are very powerful. You know, you can't just
say like, oh, I'm an idiot, because you say that
enough and you know your soul, your spirit is gonna
begin to believe that self bullying. And I was doing
(31:39):
a lot of that on top of what the bullying
I was dealing with in the media. So I had
to learn how to really give myself grace and forgive
myself for my shortcomings. And now I'm ready.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
So what's the what's the longest you've been single?
Speaker 6 (31:57):
I am single for after Liam's dad. I was single
for a while.
Speaker 7 (32:04):
Because we thought you was in a relationship with Pleasure P.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
And then the world the world was in a relationship
with Pleasure P.
Speaker 7 (32:12):
But it's a music video and he came and they bunked.
That's like, you guys are good friends.
Speaker 6 (32:17):
Oh my god, they're such good friends. Yeah, y'all might
see me out with him every year and there we're
really good friends.
Speaker 7 (32:22):
Yeah that's what he said.
Speaker 6 (32:23):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, real real tight.
Speaker 7 (32:25):
But no, okay, okay, but you single right now and
you looking for love?
Speaker 6 (32:32):
I am looking for love.
Speaker 7 (32:34):
Uh huh fallow for Fallon man, y'all, look out for
fell It's.
Speaker 6 (32:37):
On the way.
Speaker 1 (32:38):
We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the
Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
Is this fallon y'all? You are now tuning into the
Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
It's love versus money on the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 7 (32:52):
All right, So today we have Aoki Lee and the
Victorial as off.
Speaker 3 (32:56):
Oh man, three hearts all right, so three so this
just for love.
Speaker 5 (33:04):
Y'all know, she's trying to survive. That is second generation
sugar baby training.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
She was born for that.
Speaker 6 (33:11):
What do you think you're asking me that because you
think I'm a sugar baby?
Speaker 7 (33:18):
Felt this one?
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Right? I kind of relate with her a little bit
on this one. I wasn't that young.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
But no, no, you don't think this is business.
Speaker 6 (33:30):
It's all business.
Speaker 1 (33:31):
Come on, okay, I think they're still you.
Speaker 8 (33:35):
I mean, first of all, we gotta we gotta understand
the background that this young lady comes from. And this
is something normal that you know, her her mom is
seen and you know, you never know the conversations that
they've had because when they asked a dad, you know,
he was just kind of like, you know whatever. But
I just think that it's weird because she has like
(33:57):
childlike behavior. You know, if you if you watch her blogs,
it's like you're talking to like a teenage kid, like now.
Speaker 6 (34:05):
Say about him.
Speaker 7 (34:05):
But before then, Ayoki was always the one, you know,
checking people for her sister.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
You know, she never she was a quid one.
Speaker 7 (34:13):
She never gave no But I'm saying the way that
she's acting in that video, she was acting way more
mature before the video gotcha of her in the sixty
five year old she would never act like that. She
would be you know, very well spoken. You know, she
was the Harvard graduate, you know, so to see that,
you know, kind of dumber self down was was, you know,
(34:34):
like something's going on here.
Speaker 8 (34:36):
But it's a little weird. But you also got to
keep in mind, first of all, I think that this
is strictly business. I think that she wanted to go
on a nice vacation and she had somebody to say,
come on, I would pay for it. But you also
got to understand the trauma and the things that she's
experiencing right now, where you know her not having a
relationship with her dad right now, he's in a different country.
Speaker 1 (34:54):
Why you tell you tell me allegedly he running, He
running from the bad boy. Bad boy.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
What you want to do is a lot of flags
on the place, this whole little scenario. Yeah, yeah, he's
definitely business though, for sure. I gotta be careful at him.
Speaker 6 (35:13):
Man. Did she come out and say that if her
dad didn't do more for her that she was going
to find a sugar daddy?
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Yeah, yes, yes, she said that on Instagram live.
Speaker 3 (35:21):
And I do think that they're they're not together publicly
because of him, Yeah, yeah, and his businesses that he
got going on.
Speaker 7 (35:29):
That's a bad little she doesn't expose the Marria j Blige.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
Thing and everything, Yeah, because he's because he's in the background.
But see that's another thing.
Speaker 8 (35:36):
Why I said, that's just like kid, like were you
like around like a younger you know person, and they
just recording everything. So I'm looking at the situation like, yo,
he's talking about some private stuff and she's over here
like should be quiet, and and he you know, it's
like stuff like that will make like, come on, bro,
you hanging out with a kid. So I can't just
say it on her. We also got to he gotta
(35:56):
take accountability to like.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
Come on, man, he could definitely be her grandfather.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Facts easy, facts get in there.
Speaker 3 (36:04):
She's like three generations away from him.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
She's twenty one just to teach him how to use things.
Speaker 7 (36:10):
So fallon, would you ever get an older man? I
should say it like that?
Speaker 6 (36:13):
No, hell no, not ever again.
Speaker 8 (36:15):
No.
Speaker 6 (36:16):
I mean, I'm so, I'm about to be thirty five
in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 3 (36:19):
So what's the what's the what's the biggest gap for
you that's comfortable?
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 3 (36:27):
What's the biggest guy I'm thinking about?
Speaker 7 (36:29):
And a Nicole Smith?
Speaker 6 (36:31):
Right, I think fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
I think fifteen years.
Speaker 6 (36:36):
I'm at that big age now I got kids. I
think fifteen years is comfortable for me. What is?
Speaker 1 (36:40):
What is Younger women in factuation with older men.
Speaker 6 (36:44):
They're mature, and they know how to teach and lead
a woman, and they know how to touch a woman too.
A lot of them do, at least I guess like
I feel like they're just more experienced they're more seasoned
and young, younger guys especially. I would never dig a
guy in my own age these days. I just I
(37:06):
can't do it unless he's already he's already at a
point where he's established, and you know, he's mentally established
and spiritually established. I'm not doing that because they're just stupid.
Speaker 7 (37:23):
So nobody your age, and nobody smoking Robinson's age.
Speaker 3 (37:26):
He's a fifteen year game.
Speaker 6 (37:28):
I'm sorry. Smoking.
Speaker 7 (37:29):
Smoking is getting down now. He's on stage and he's
showing the girls that he got moved, you know, so
don't be counting out smoking.
Speaker 3 (37:38):
All right, we got barler mail, Yes we do.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
It is time for baller mail.
Speaker 3 (37:45):
Dear baller alert. My boyfriend was currently diagnosed and needs
a new kidney and now has to be on dialysis
three days a week. It's been weighing on me pretty bad,
and I'm not sure I can keep keep this up.
Taking care of him is a lie. I want to
break up with him because it's just too much. But
I'm scared of my karma though. Help me, y'all leave.
Speaker 6 (38:07):
Did he propose boy friend? Right? Why are you being
your wife to somebody who doesn't want you? To be?
One hit? It. I know he was going to.
Speaker 7 (38:18):
Wisdom balance.
Speaker 6 (38:20):
We learned it from life has been lifing.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Man, that's kind of tough, man. You don't leave somebody
on their death.
Speaker 6 (38:29):
You can be there for some.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Is serious though, definitely that's get better next week. You
what you know all about taking care of men, because
you took care of the poopy man.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Was he had a he had a bad stomach virus though, yeah.
Speaker 8 (38:51):
Just three days a week. Man, That's that's tough man.
I feel like if you already doing it, it's like, man,
you gotta you gotta stick it. Like what if what
if that man is the love of your life and
you're talking about you want to break up with him?
Speaker 1 (39:02):
What if he gets better? She said, boyfriend?
Speaker 6 (39:03):
So I don't know afriend, but she.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Could still be in love. But I guess not anymore.
Speaker 6 (39:09):
She's asking the question.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
She already already been in the bathroom.
Speaker 3 (39:14):
She already I'm gonna come in and say, you say
you want to break up with him, just go ahead
and break up with him, because right now you're just
putting a band aid on the wound that's just gonna
get worse. And if it's bothering you, you're probably gonna
have an attitude and.
Speaker 7 (39:27):
Feeling the way, and you're showing up with attitude.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Showing up with the attitude. Just go ahead and get
it over with.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
She don't leave him on this.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
No, I don't want you to leave him, but you
don't want to be in there.
Speaker 1 (39:39):
That's that bullshit.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
But that's also a blessing for him, because he's gonna
be like, all right, cool, you ain't the Yeah, maybe
I won't gonna propose, but some.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Ship happened and ain't God damn, it ain't gonna be
for better for worse with the world is cruel.
Speaker 4 (39:57):
It ain't worse with you. You ain't the one, yo.
Get here there, come forget what. I'm gonna give me
a new kidney because I'm on the list, and get
what I'm gonna find me my one.
Speaker 6 (40:11):
This sounds very personal.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
My uncle's on dialysis.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Actually his woman left. You know what, I don't want
he let's not put the business.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Let's not put his business out, Okay, And that's my big.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Less say, let's my bad.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
So no, but nah, get up out of there, if
you know, because it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 8 (40:34):
She's just gonna come and break his heart and be like,
don't play, it's hard, it's no, it's too lakers.
Speaker 7 (40:38):
Now she was uh like older with a lot of money.
And you know what I'm saying to say that you
don't get gonna be like it's a bit different.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
This doesn't really say he has the bag bag baggie,
because if he did, she would.
Speaker 8 (40:58):
We're gonna stay sugar baby, or she would have or
he would have probably had a nurse.
Speaker 5 (41:05):
That's what I said.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Because she gotta do it, and yeah, no, that's too much,
that's too much. It is too much. Though it's a lot.
You gotta really really love somebody to you committed to
do something right about.
Speaker 6 (41:16):
That, And it don't seem like she love him too much.
If she's asking us, she.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
Gotta she would have gone.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
He just got diagnosed for two weeks or something.
Speaker 8 (41:25):
But see, but see that's another question, is like how
long have they been dating? Because you know they could
just first start off dating and then you know something
like and because she out of the yeah she gone,
and she sent us a d She sent me a
d M. I know you want to leave me, She
want to leave bad.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
She's already made it, already made a decision. She said,
what about my karma.
Speaker 7 (41:48):
You have karma community.
Speaker 6 (41:51):
Every single day it's gonna get hurt.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, this ship I love that felon.
Speaker 7 (41:58):
You know, we're just gonna go right into pet talk.
I'm done, go ahead and give us some more of
your wisdom.
Speaker 6 (42:04):
Ooh. My message to the world today, Uh, don't allow
anyone to stop your blessings. I don't care if it's
a husband, wife, whatever it is that you foresee for
your future. You know your vision is your own vision,
and that's not for anybody else to see. It's only
for you to see and understand. So don't allow anybody
(42:28):
to stop you and keep going.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
You can't get enough of baller Alert. Follow us on
all social media platforms at baller alert, log on to
baller alert dot com.
Popular Podcasts
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations.
The Nikki Glaser Podcast
Every week comedian and infamous roaster Nikki Glaser provides a fun, fast-paced, and brutally honest look into current pop-culture and her own personal life.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.