November 9, 2024 • 48 mins
Happy Weekend! Abby and Morgan caught up on all things life in this episode, and they likely shared things they never would because the studio was so hot and they slowly became a little delulu. Abby shared updates on Cheese Head and Morgan shared her thought process for life right now. Also they discussed celebrity national treasures, and the thing that’s been bringing them immense joy lately.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Part one behind a scene with a member of the show.
Welcome to the weekend, everybody, What is up? Morgan's here
and I'm joined by Abby.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Abby. How are you? I'm good, We're up.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
You're in the new studio where we're recording best Bits.
It's one of our new studios, and I have to
kind of face forward.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
I know this is weird.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
The microphone's having a mind of its own. It is,
but we're doing it.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And I'm controlling the boards. I know, look at you.
Watch out Ray, someone's coming for the board. Oh gosh, no,
don't give me that one.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Too many buttons. All right, Well, Abby, we have a
lot of things that happened on the show this week.
So you are going to see a therapist for easy
tria and other things.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I gave an update on Halloween Man, and I asked
a favor from Bobby about something that we'll kind of
talk a little bit today. Amy admitted she said something
on the phone and it was a very mom of
the Year moment in sarcasm. Bobby came through for a
listener who made it bet with his son over these
Taylor Swift tickets, and the show played games all day
(01:12):
post election day, which was super fun, and we'll include
some of those. So if you want to catch up
on the show, go check out part two. But for now,
we're just chatting about Live Abby. How are things going,
How are you? What's the latest?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
What's the latest? I feel like I'm just working a lot.
Like always, I feel like I don't really have an update.
I'm just working. But I got to go on a
nice little trip. So yeah, you just want to chat
and Chattanooga is that right? Yeah? Chat?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I remember the last time I thought it was Knoxville,
so I can remember it was Nxvill.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, yeah, this time Chattanooga. It's only like two hours away.
But what do you guys do We just wanted to
see like the fall leaves, you know, like the drivers.
Did you get to see him? Pretty Yes? I think
we need It's like in two weeks, I think it'll
be like at the Prime it was not.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Quite really so you're saying I could go do it?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Yeah? Now is the time, Like this is my favorite
time of year because it's like the drive is so you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Know that it makes me really want to go the
one place I would love to go for the fall
leaves is Vermont and like Upper Northeast because everybody says
those fall leaves are insane.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Oh my gosh, I've heard that too. What it in Massachusetts? Yes,
like Salem. I've been seeing so many posts of.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
People always supposed to go to Salem in October because
of like the Salem witch trials and stuff. So it's
like a Halloween activity mm hmm. I think they have
a lot of activities that go on around that holiday.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I feel like that'd be really fun. So you know
what I mean? Halloween? Yes, and then they go do
fall you do? You do love Halloween? Did you get
see a lot of scary movies?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Is Halloween? I was a favorite?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yeah? I did. I watch all the Halloweens. Again.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Does Searhead like Halloween movies?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Not as much as me? But he did? He like
he he liked these.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, so it won't be a problem moving forward that
you like to basically watch scary movies all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Right. He doesn't like to watch them by himself, but
he's there if he's with me, I just don't get scary.
Like I can be at home and watch them by myself,
and I don't get scared. Are you afraid of anything?
Not really anything in life? Yeah? Oh oh, are you
getting me?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I said nothing very confidently, and I was just gonna
let that happen.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm not scared of people like breaking in my house
really or like a murder coming with a knife.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Okay, Oh dang, I'm scared of all those things. I
shouldn't have said that, but you might have just chinxed
it now, Oh my gosh, hope not. Oh yeah, I'm
a big baby, like I'm not a worst case scenario person,
but like sometimes I'll be like, Nope, this is where
I'm gonna die. Somebody's gonna come barging in. Or I'll
hear something outside just like one little noise and it'll
actually make Remy bark and Remy never barks, Okay, well yeah,
(03:36):
and then it'll be like, I don't know, something just
crunched on a leaf wrong, and that's she just happened
to hear it, And I'm like, oh I'm dying.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
No, that does scare me. When I've been at your
house watching her she barks, I'm like, oh my gosh,
she knows something I don't know. Oh my, she heard it.
What's happening. She knows your house better than these lot's
going on well, and she doesn't bark it a lot
of things.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
So when she does bark, you're like, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Something's happening.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yes, but now she also barks at my cat. So
it could have just been Hazel doing her nocturnal stuff
and her.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Like pulling open the cabinet. Cabinet. What in the world,
little rascals, it's so funny.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Okay, So scary movies. Watch a lot of scary movies.
And you guys went to Chattanooga, did you have a
favorite place.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Were then there was what was it the stone cup
that was really good for breakfast, the bread stone cup?
Fist ever, Yes, it's like her or just there, okay,
there see, I just just there big statements today.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
You know, it's it's a Thursday that we're recording this,
so you.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Deserve that it is. Oh my gosh, the ice Cream
Show is the best. I've probably told you this before.
I don't know if we've talked about it, but the
ice Cream Show. It's like they have thousands of combinations.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Of ice cream and it's the ice cream Show.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
That's what it's called. The ice Cream Show. It's like
a you walk in. It's just a normal ice cream shop.
But it's called the ice Cream Show.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
For some reason, I thought you were talking about a
show on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Oh no, no, no, it's a place place. It's an
ice cream place.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
And do they put on ice Cream Show? Not really.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I don't know why it's called that, but like just
the way they mix it, it's just different. It's like
this machine that's really old and it like squishes it down,
like crunches everything and then squishes it into a cup.
It's really weird. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
It's so good though, and it tastes amazing. Yeah, it's delicious.
The Stone Cup and the ice Cream Show. Yeah. If
you go to Chattanooga and go check out the fall
Leaves in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yes, and walk across the bridge. Oh my gosh. Oh
there was this the largest like rowing it's called a
regatta that was happening in Chattanooga. I was like, why
can't we find a hotel? That's why there were five
thousand athletes in Chattanooga. Pretty small for the weekend. Well
they were like college athletes in high school?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Is okay?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yeah, I know I should have said that otherwise, Yeah,
that would have been wild. There were a lot of athletes,
but it was really cool.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Like row it like the longest, meaning like it's longer
than a typical row.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
It's the largest, like in international I guess everybody meets there.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It's the largest largest rowing competition, or the most particular
boat is the longest, it's internationally largest competition.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Because I was.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Definitly rolling with the fact that these are like the
largest longest boats ever.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
No, I wanted to note because like some of them
there's twelve people or I guess, no, six people, twelve
ors six people. Sometimes there's four, sometimes there's only two.
So I wanted to know like all about it. It
was really cool. Did you guys watch a race competition, Yeah,
it's it's intense. I actually tried out in college to
be on the road routine really, but I would have
been the I think the coxsin where you sit in there.
(06:28):
It's like the one that sits at the front and
tells the rowers what to do oh and yells at
everybody yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, I
don't think I can do this. That's like they're not
even looking. They're back is forwards so they're trusting you
one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Mm hmm. It's like you have to have a lot
of knowledge and a lot of motivation.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, and you have to say all these terms like
starboard side, turn left, you know, oh, we're coming towards
a bridge, like don't hit it.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, you know, it's funny. We There was a decent
amount of people that tried out for the rowing team
when I was at k State, like friends wise, because
they were just recruiting, like whoever wanted to try out.
I never I never had the desire to be a rower.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I'ma be honest.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I do rowing in workouts out and even then I'm
like fifty meters that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
It is a an intense workout, Like if I do
the rowing machine, Yeah, it's like oh my, oh.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Sorry, and not fifty meters because that's not a lot.
Fifty calories is what they make us do, and that
is so much.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Geez, how many is that? Oh?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
It takes you solid a couple of minutes to get
to fifty at least at my capacity for rowing. But
there's a really good rowing movie that you should Boys
in the Boat.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Oh I did see that? Isn't Netflix, No, I mean,
I didn't see the movie. I should know better.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You didn't watch it, You never watched any of the movies.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
You'd be shocked, so shocked.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I don't know if it's on Netflix. I rented it
at one point, but I do think it's on one
of the streaming services.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Now let me see, let me look it up.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Do a little flibbering for me right now.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
But yeah, it was cool. It was intense, so that
that was crazy because Chattanooga's pretty small, so I have
five thousand athletes and then their parents. But it was
just really cute all the parents cheering them on. It
was really sweet, like from the bridge because they were
standing on the pedestrian bridge like looking down and cheering,
and I was like, oh my gosh, it brought me
back to like high school, my sports days. It was
really cute.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
That's so fun. That's like a fun weekend. Okay, it's
on Amazon Prime and Roku also Channel premiums. Okay, I'm
gonna check that out or Sling TV or you can
rent it. Yeah, but I think it's on Amazon Prime.
So if you have Amazon Prime, gotcha. But cool, Chattanooga.
What else is new?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Oh? Man?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
You guys moved in together yet not yet.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
No, that's still in the works, taking things slow. It's
been a year, So.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Did you celebrate your year anniversary? Was the Chattanooga trip
the year anniversary trip?
Speaker 1 (08:43):
No, it wasn't. It hasn't. I guess been officially since
we've met, it's been over it, or we're in between.
I guess, like, when do you celebrate a year anniversary?
Is it when you're official or when you like your
first date? What is it? I?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Well, I always like not for known each other for
however long since you met, But I feel like the
anniversary is like when you officially started dating, so you
at least typically remember that date more than you remember
the date of your actual meeting.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Sometimes, yeah that's true.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Sorry, you guys, gonna do something for it? Or you
can get him a gift first anniversary gift?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Oh, I probably will. What do you get that?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I mean, things that they like, personal things to them
would be a really like, yeah, you can get just
a regular just gift anything that they might like, but
I would say something personal to him that, like maybe
he doesn't realize you've noticed about him, would be a
good gift. M H, especially at being like your first
anniversary to celebrate together something that like you've come to mind.
(09:36):
Like what I do when I start seriously, like exclusively
dating someone is I put a bunch of notes on
my phone and I'll keep track of just things that
I've noticed, and I use that for Christmas or birthdays
or anniversaries or whatever not that I've had. Anniversary and
a hot minute, but I use that like for my thing.
So I don't know if you do that, but uh,
(09:56):
that could be a way to like find some a
few different personal things.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yeah, that's cute to go together. The hard thing is
is our the anniversary would be like two weeks before Christmas,
then there's Christmas, and then his birthdays two weeks after.
So it's just like all these gifts ever you know.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Okay, so Yetta spread them out.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, I'm like spreading it out, and I'm like, which
would be best for this and this and this.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
So maybe the anniversary gift is a good experience for
both of you, and that's your gift. But I don't
know what you're doing about, like this is mine. Yeah,
that's something you guys can do together.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
It's like an experience. Yeah, yeah, I like doing that anyway,
Like the game, Like, I'd rather take him to a
game since an experience and have a thing. Yeah, he's
not all about like just material things he likes, So.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah, then experiences. And there's so much stuff you guys
would go do in Nashville that you'd have so much
fun doing. For that kind of thing, you should go
eat at House of Cards. It's one of my favorite
places to eat. Yeah, I've never I sent my parents
on an anniversary dinner there. It's been a long time
since I've gone, but I sent my parents shortly after
and they also loved it. They went for their anniversary dinner.
It's a cool spot. You get a magic show or
(10:57):
you could do the petite chef that looked like which
is really cute.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Also, dinner in a show that's so fun. Do they
still have it? It wasn't just like a thing.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
No, it's like a long standing pop up. They're doing
it for a long time.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
That's awesome.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
So I would say either one of those is really cool.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Okay, thank you, I gotcha.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Cool experiences. He's not gonna listen to this, so he.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Won't know he's not I hope not.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Hey, she said, please leave.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Listen it with you listen it with you, Let's go.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I mean, honestly, nothing abby.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I'm not on.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Dating apps. My birthday weekend, I deleted all the dating apps.
I'm just floating and existing in the world and letting
things happen to me. I'm very much in this space
where I'm just letting things pass how they're supposed to pass,
kind of thing. I've tried to really like relinquish control,
(11:51):
if you will, to just about everything of like I felt,
there was so much of me that was just trying
to because I like, I look at my life and
I have like a really awesome life. I have a
good career, and I have good friends and family, and
I have my house and the animals, and like, life
is good. I have a really good life that I'm
(12:12):
very very lucky to have. And I was just so
caught up and trying to meet someone because I desperately
want it. That's still there, right, like, the feeling of
that is still there. I want to share my life
with somebody because it is so great. I want somebody
to be in it and it just be this incredible love.
But I'm also just I'm not going to force that either.
(12:37):
I'm not gonna settle and I'm not you know, Sally
had her situation that happened, and Sally wasn't gonna force
that situation to happen. The HALLOWEENA situation is going on
with Halloween, man, I'm not forcing that. I'm just I'm
in this place where like, I want to meet someone
(13:00):
who genuinely wants to be part of my life and
wants us both to be very, very happy, and I
feel like there's just been so much pressure and stuff
like feeling I feel, and I put it on myself
sometimes where like a ha, you know, I gotta find
this and I gotta figure this out. And I'm just
no longer in that space anymore where I'm like, I'm
(13:21):
just done. I'm just done allowing that pressure to control
all of this because I'm tired. Dating sucks so bad,
Like genuinely, it's so exhausting, I know, and meeting somebody
and getting excited about them and then it like going
to crap. It's not fun to keep doing all the time.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
It is exhausting. It's so exhausting, sharing so much your
life and then just being like, okay, we was nothing
like you. Now you don't want to hang out with
me like.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Or just like the lack of communication as adults, like
this is what, this is what I don't understand. It's
like I went out with a guy. We had drinks,
and the drinks were good, but I just I wasn't
really feeling it afterwards. There wasn't a part of me
that's like so it was so excited to go see him,
and so like my texting was not great. I wasn't
(14:09):
like communicating super well of like it was like I
would text back, but it takes a couple hours or whatever,
and then it just kind of fizzled and a few
days went by and I was like, I'm not I'm
not going to be this person. That's not who I am.
I'm not going to sit here and like does he
probably care that I didn't to an extent, no, but
like there's not a person in this world that doesn't
(14:31):
deserve the closure of even if it didn't work out
of after a first date, not getting some type of hey,
like sorry, this won't work. So like I sent a
text over to him and I was like, hey, I'm sorry.
I know it's been a few days. This might feel weird,
but I just wanted to let you know like I
think I was not super as interests interested as I
wanted to be, and you know, I wish you all
(14:52):
the best, and like we had a great amlicable like
ending conversation and that never happens. Nobody ever does that.
I don't know how many guys phone numbers I have
that have just like went into the abyss and I
just never heard from them again.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Oh yeah, you know what I mean. Oh yeah, sometimes
they would do that, and I was like, oh my gosh,
I appreciated that so much, like more than you know,
which is sad because it shouldn't be like this, Oh
my gosh, he actually did text me. That should just
be like a standard thing, like just be honest, like
why would you not? And I know they're probably scared
of the response or you know, like afraid to hurt
their feelings, but I'm like, I would rather have the
(15:27):
truth than wonder why, because then you're just like, okay,
what happened if you say, if you're just upfront and
they're like, hey, I didn't feel it or I met
somebody else.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Or like yeah, sure it's a sting for a second. Yeah,
you know, it's a little birsy. You go you're like, dang, okay,
that sucks. But you get a closure, like a door opened,
it closed, and you're like, I don't just have this
door sitting there open forever and wondering like there were
there's I mean, they're like, these are all casual dates.
None of them have gotten to the point of like
full blown dating. But there was also like two guys
(15:58):
that at different time times that I had gone out with,
and both of them am local amblicably. That's such a
tough word. I like to say, I don't know why
I am amblicably. Yes, ended well, because you know, I
was like, I'm not feeling this, but like I And
what was interesting is my new therapist had said, give
(16:21):
them the opportunity to still be in your life if
they want to in a capacity of friendship.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
That just feels so weird, and and she's like why,
She's like, it's not your decision to make, it's theirs
if they would like to stay in your life and
be your friend. But like, you're not even giving some
situations to that option. So that helps me see things
in a new way. So I've at least ended them
a little bit more in the terms of like I'm around,
if you ever like, would like to hang out as friends, whatever,
(16:48):
and they did. They've transpired to be like friendships or whatever,
and that just never was really a thing before because
dating was so black and white to me.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
No, that is interesting, like to think of it that way,
to be like, oh no, just because we didn't work
out as like romantic partners, like why can't he just
be a friend that we just like hang out and
then you meet his friends and.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
And there, and I guess to me, there's always been
this touchy where like somebody's gonna have feelings if one
person ended it over the other. And I think that's
why I always like would just cut it off completely.
But I don't know. You know, we're growing, we're seeing,
we're seeing how things go. It could go horribly wrong,
who knows. Yeah, But so one of them is still
a friend, another one is friend by friends, so we're
(17:33):
still on good terms. And both of both of them
were like, well, if you know anything changes, let me know.
It's like, okay, I can't really tell if we're open
ended friends or like, what's happening here? I know that
is And then the Sally one man Sally she uh.
She had ended that and sent a text like kind
of being like I'm not sure this is gonna work,
(17:54):
and literally never heard from him again.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Nah uh oh man, you want to kick her?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Yeah, he's still watches her social media.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Really wait does he follow her?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Does she follow him?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:07):
But I don't understand. I don't understand that. Yeah, well,
because Sally's.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Like, well, I didn't really do anything, so I'm not
really sure how to you know, handle this situation. I'm
just gonna exist here, I guess, just all in my life.
But again, it just goes back to like why why
as adults can we not just genuinely communicate? I mean,
and I'm still learning, and I'm still learning that, like
I can accept people as friends, like that's something, but
that's that's even deeper than just the communication level. So
(18:36):
all that to say, dating is still freaking weird, and
I'm exhausted and I've given up in a way don't
give up, but also in a way of like I'm
open to it in real life. I'm just no, I'm
not on the dating apps anymore, and I have like
my goal for myself is I'm not getting back on
them until after the new year.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Wow. I love that.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm just allowing myself to be in this space right
now where I'm just I'm good.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah, not a nice little refresher.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Yeah, I'm like, Okay, well I can get back on,
but I just don't. I don't think it's productive for
me right now. And if somebody would really like to
date me, then they will, whether that be in real life,
social media or whatever.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Like, they will make it happen. If they want to
spend time, They're gonna make the effort. Exactly people do
what focus their attention on what they want. So it's like, oh,
if you're too busy, that's I think your priorities are
somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Well that's totally fine, that's okay. It's just not And
I'm I am learning to just no longer like forcibly
try and control anything. I'm just letting it like roll
off my back and just let things pass through me
like they're supposed to and have zero expectations for what
they could be. And it's really hard.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
That is not easy at all.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
No, but I am I'm just I'm just imagine me
like a pretty little butterfly just around I land on things.
Occasionally some times I hang out longer than the others.
But for now I am just a Christmas butterfly.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
There's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that.
It's it's like time to focus on yourself and what
you get to do.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Yeah, which you know, but I feel like for the
last ten years I've been focus to see all myself.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
As I said, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Like, if somebody keeps making me focus on myself, I'm
gonna be focusing on myself.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
A little too hard.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Especially I'm gonna get to a moret where I'm like,
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
I know that's the thing you start getting set in
your waist. I thought that for a while actually, like
last year, like I was like, oh my gosh, what
if I'm just like too good at being single? If
I don't know how to be with somebody. What if
I'm so set in my ways, like I have my
own house, I have things the way I want it.
What if I'm not physically able to be in a
relationship at this point. But I guess I can. But
(20:46):
I thought that.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I was scared, And I am sure there's been challenges
for you where that's come up where you're like, Okay,
now we're getting serious things and I am gonna have
to let go of some of that. Yeah, it's been
a lot like and that's probably why you sitting here
like Okay, we need to take this though, Like I
really need to take this all in and understand what's
happening here. So I think that's totally normal too, because
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you did. You were at a place in your life
where you were good and you were happy.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
But I was also like very lonely because what we do,
like we go to concerts and it's all fun. We
take our girlfriends. But I was like, oh my gosh,
I'm tired of taking my girlfriend, you know, like I'd
like to take a guy because you always see it concerts,
like everybody holding hands and you're just like.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
It's because the country concerts.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Yes, they're all romantic. They got all these love songs,
everybody like embracing each other. And I just remember being like,
oh my.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Gosh, I'd be like I embrace this here real quick,
throw another one back, let me go to the.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Bathroom real quick. Yeah, So like I that was like
hard too. It's it's like a fine line. It's like
in between, like I'm so I'm happy, content with myself,
but also I do want to add a good guy.
That's a good addition to my life, you know, and
exactly and said, yeah, and now you're just.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Like your body's your nervousism is trying to allow it
to continue.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
To have it right and not like chase it away
or be scared of it. Yeah, and so it's like
I know it's out there, and that's why I know
with you like it, it's a lot like just waiting
and you feel like you're like, oh my gosh, am
I never going to meet somebody. But it happens when
you least expect it.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
No, And I I used Martha may hoo va as
a verb the other day. Wait, okay, first of all,
do you know the Grench movie? I need to ask
that before I try to make this reference. Yeah, okay, yes,
how the Grin Show Christmas Doctor Seuss.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yes, you know this movie?
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Hm? Okay. So I got a dress that has like
fur on it and I'm obsessed with this. It's very Christmasy.
And I was like, if somebody does not Martha may
hoo va me up in this dress, I give up.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
I'm hilarious that's.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Funny, waiting for somebody to Martha mayho via me up.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yes, Okay, let's go. That's funny. That's your motto. Yeah season,
And then if they know that's also a test, if
they know the reference.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
That's so true. We just I just keep entering different
random seasons and just seeing you know, what sticks. Something
has to stick at some.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Point, I know I'm not. Oh my god, We're.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Gonna take a little break here and we'll be your back. Okay, Abby,
What is something you probably should do but you never do,
Like as an adult, I should probably do this, but
I don't like to, and I won't do it. The
reason this came up is because I was talking to
one of my friends with kind of a lawyer, and
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they were like, you know those terms and conditions, like
you really should read through this, oh gosh, Because they
watched me just like scroll, oh yeah, and just going it.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
I was like, admittedly, I don't.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Think I've ever seen, ever, ever read a single terms
and condition on any level. I even like when I
was going through like buying my house, like all of
that paperwork. Thankfully, my mom surrealed her and so she
knew a lot of the language.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
And everything.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
But my eyes rolled in the back of my head
when I started reading everything, asking I don't know what
any of this means.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Oh my gosh, so me neither. Oh, and like now
at this now they make you like scroll away at
the bottom just to say but it's like you're just scrolling,
you're not really reading exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
They do that to be like you should read it,
but nobody does.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
And then they're like when you say, oh, I didn't
see that, and they're they're like, oh, you scroll to
the bottom, so you you saw it.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Oh gosh, exactly, so like you really should read it.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Yeah, I should really do. But if you.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Imagine how much of our life we would waste if
we all actually read the terms and conditions m hm,
so much?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
That's true because what what? How many terms are they
don't even know? On every single app?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Thing about on every single TV streaming you have on
your computer or on your TV, every single app you
have on your phone, every single time you check out
at I don't know, like say a best Buy, sometimes
the Target they have them depending on the product that
you buy. Imagine that we all actually sat there and
read terms and conditions.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
And I'm gonna got time for that hold on, what
are the main points, like something that I really need
to be worried about, because I mean.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
A lot is just I believe, and a lawyer out
there can correct me on. But really the most important
thing is that whoever makes the product or and whoever
is selling the product is not liable for certain things.
But what's crazy is the reason this also got brought
up is because there was a story about a guy,
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and I think we talked about on the show too,
a guy who was a doctor and he died at
Disney from like an allergy something that happened. And this
is all like I'm paraphrasing here, I'd have to look
it up, but he died and because he had signed
terms and conditions on Disney.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Plus oh my god, it was like.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
They couldn't sue Disney or something. I don't know if
that ended up panning out and what the.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Update is there.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
But this is why this whole conversation came up, as
like make sure you do terms and conditions.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
Oh my gosh, But we also take your information. They're like,
can we access your whole Facebook and your whole life? Yeah,
I like, also all.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
The social media that you're on that's scary.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
So they have your info. That's basically what they're you're
giving them. Okay, it's like, no, all I wanted to
do is like watch this TV show or I don't
even know what I'm trying to get what I'm trying
to do, but terms and conditions, and I'm like, well, no,
I don't really want to but.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
And I believe it's like a lifetime thing. So once
you sign it once, like whatever that is is a
good for life. All could be speculation. I like I said,
I haven't read it enough to have the information, but
those are the things that I've learned so far on
terms and conditions. But because to say, is there something
in your life that you probably should do and you
don't actually do.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I'm usually pretty good at this, but lately I have
not well changing your oil in your car. I'm way past,
way past the oil change.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
My mean, like, you know, a couple thousand.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Miles thousand, a thousand. I usually am so good at
it because I'm like, I want my car to last forever.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
This this reminds me abby, and you should definitely do
that because there's a reason maintenance.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Nothing maintenance on your car, even though you've waited.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
I took my car in to get oil, and tires rotated,
like I do, tires rotated.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
That's another one. Oh my gosh, my left tires were bald.
He was like bald. That's what the guy said to me.
He's like, your left tires are bald. I was like,
oh my gosh. He's like, do you rotate them? I
was like no, far.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
I was like, I've never in my life hurd's something
called tires bald.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah, my tires are bald. I mean there's nothing left,
there's no traction, no the grooves or whatever. They're just like,
so you need new tires.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Yeah, okay, so.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
As I ruined them because I didn't rotate them. See,
but I get my rotated every as.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
The thing, I have the little sticker in the corner
of my car and every time I go and I
get them, my oils change. My tires rotated. So I
go in to do that and I'm like, man, you
need new tires.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
I'm like, cool, lovely, this sucks. Let's get my new tires.
And they're like you'll have to come in next time.
We'll get a ordered whatever. So I go in get
my new tires and they're like, and that's when they did.
They were going to do alignment and fix some break
pad stuff. It was my car is getting older. And
I was like, okay, fine, just do it. So I
sat there for like four hours getting my car worked on,
and at the very end, they're like, we can't do
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the alignment because you need a new rod. And I
was like, you've got to be getting me so I'm
not about to return for my third time to sit
at the service center to get my car worked on.
You're talking about being an adult. Car issues are one
of the worst problems.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
They are the worst. That's the last thing you want
to spend money on. Like the absolute last thing is
I want to buy tires.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Exactly in my car. If we lived in a city
like New York, I'll be on the subway all the time,
way all the time. Like if we had a great bus,
like we ic busses around here, but we actually had
a full blown great subway bus system, I would be
using it.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
You would, really I.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
Hate I hate getting my car service. Maybe it's so frustrating.
And the poor guys they are like know that I
get frustrated. They're like, okay, man, we have to like
preface this like because they're really great. They're like a
mom and pop place, and they're like this, this sucks,
but this needs this, and I'm like, god on why
(29:15):
because back to being single, I don't have anybody who
can pick me up from there. So either I get
I drop my crof and have to uber back home
the uber back there, or I just have to sit there.
And so I go and sit there because I don't
want to. It's just so much work to uber all
the way across town and pay money for ubers, I know.
So it is then I get frustrated that I'm single
(29:36):
because I'm sitting there. So many car problems.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
It's a domino effect. Oh yeah, it just it creates
all of this.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Like I'm like, okay, I'm just gonna sit right here.
I bring Remy with me and we sit in this
service center for like four hours and I work and
Remy's just hanging out.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
That's a good one.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
Thanks for putting me on the TA And I've forgotten
about that.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
I forgot about the tires. You both need tires. Yeah, yeah, cool,
because one side.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Is neither one of us want to get it done.
That's what that's adulting is what that is is.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
It's just the worst. I don't have time to sit
in there.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Just don't see did your did she say come and
pick you up?
Speaker 1 (30:17):
I boo bird before, but no, I guess not with him,
well because I haven't got him changed a year. Okay,
let me know if he helped, he would he would, yes,
I'll make you feel better know he would make me
walk home? No, gosh, no, don't make me feel about
it that way. He'd better be helping. No, he totally would.
He's always there.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Yeah, And I was just sitting there watching people come
and go with all their couples, and I was like,
I hate my life. I was like I was like
the kid in the window shop because I was at
my computer there and I was literally like a kid
looking out and seeing toys that they have. I'm just
sitting there working. I'm like, don't mind me, been here
(30:56):
since eleven am.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
That is it's the worst. You're like, they're like, so
you want to stay here? Or like what do you
want to do? You're like, yeah, what's the wi fi guls?
I want to stay here?
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Yeah, like a person that drops them off. But I'm
so far across town from this place, that it's such
it would take more time, Like by the time I
got dropped off and got home, I'd be there for
like twenty minutes.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Be like, can you come get me again? So you
might as well stay?
Speaker 2 (31:22):
Oh g dum it stuff. Ever, this is this is
just real, live right here. Oh I want to I
want to tell you about it. Freaking weird DM that
I got.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I'm scared, scary really might be just the most offhanded
DEM I've gotten no ever ever. Oh see, ever, that's
a big thing. Ever, Okay, out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
I've never talked to this person in my life. What
we'll play a small version of twenty one question see
if you can figure it out. We'll do like five questions,
cast me five questions and see what you can figure out.
Speaker 1 (31:55):
What this message was. What the message was?
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:58):
Do they follow the show?
Speaker 2 (31:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Is it regarding the show? It was not about the show.
Do they follow you? Yes? Did it have to do
with taking you on a date? No? Did they see
you out in public and they wanted to say hi?
But no, I'm scared. I'm scared. Did they send you
(32:24):
pictures of your house? Because they were out in front
taking a picture of you could have been the dude.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
No, no, it wasn't that. It was nsf W no no,
oh no, no, surprisingly no. I'm surprised that this in
particular text was not accompanied by a picture of something
I would definitely not want to receive. Okay, So I
wasn't a picture, but it was a comment. No no,
(32:53):
And I don't want to say. I'm gonna I'm gonna
try and reference this in a way because I in
case they are a little years around, cover your ears.
It has to do with licking, and it.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
Has to do with no no, wait wait I got
one too. Really, it was really inappropriate. Ye. I didn't
like it, okay, because it had to do with like
my boyfriend and they were saying, and I'm like.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Oh no, I mean I didn't have to do with
a boyfriend. Mine had to do with them wanting to
do something involving licking with me.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Oh my gosh, Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
And I've never spoken to this person my entire life.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
Okay. Had they sent other ones, it was just a blank. Also,
this has gotten to be the worst. It escalated. What
do they think is going to come out of that?
Oh gosh, did you reply? I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
I'm sitting in my request thing or whatever. Yeah, that
is that's all just why welcome to being a woman.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
That's what we don't want that at least it was
in the picture.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
I have a feeling that make sure is not far behind.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Can we receive those? Just Instagram filter those out?
Speaker 2 (34:04):
Instagram at this point is filtering thing. Okay, And I
do think you have to approve to see a photo,
like approve the message to see a photo.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
I was like, not on wood, but I have not
received one.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
I haven't either, and if anybody ever does, you will
be deleted, blocked and reported to the police immediately.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
I have seen on different ones or like viewer discretion advised.
Do you want to see it's sensitive material? Do you
want to see this? Like and you click it's like
on TikTok or whatever. Yeah, maybe offensive, but that's never
been my gosh, can you imagine it may be offensive?
Speaker 2 (34:36):
And that's.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
Oh my gosh, you do not send? Okay, that is crazy. Okay,
I can't even know where to go. I want to
end on some.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
Fun little notes here, you know, we got fun share
what's happening in her lives? Talked about random dms, that
we should not be receiving now we're here. Who is
a national treasure that you don't mind like seeing pop up,
whether it's in commercials on your social media feed, like
if they pop up all the time.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Dolly, Dolly, Dolly the cutest lady ever and she does
nothing but help other people and do good and it
is so sweet. Always has the cutest outfits, Like I
never get annoyed, Yeah I could. Dolly's a good one.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
I could see Dolly a million times over. She could
literally tell me like, hey, your life sucks, and I'd
be like, oh, Dolly, You're so right.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
Always speak the truth. Dolly, we're on the same page. Yeah,
that's a good one. The one that I had was
Paul Rudd. Oh, Paul Rudd. He's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
He is so funny and he like there are always
just random videos of him and he's in random commercials.
He's at sports games and he's like on random tell
what ever the big screens are. Well, he's a k
you fan, yes, And he was a cheese fan too, right.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And one time this kind of relates to that, he
was at a game and he was eating a hot
dog and I have a picture and it says Paul
Rudd eating a hot dog on the big screen, like
that's the one picture I got, And I was like,
that's exactly, like so random Paul Rudd eating a hot
dog at this like college game in Kansas. Paul.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I think he's from Kansas.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Yeah, because because he's in clueless. He's in clueless and
he was wearing a KU hat in that movie. And
I was like, oh my gosh, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Think he's always no, oh I am stand corrected, Okay,
all right, prothy, Yeah, he is from New Jersey and
but his mom worked as a sales manager at a
television station in Kansas City. Way okay, So that's the
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connection to there had to be something.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
That is really funny. Yeah, I forget like how random
he is in how it just shows, but he's so funny.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
And he's so just like all the time, really kind.
Nobody's had that I know of, has had anything bad
to say about him, and he just randomly will always
pop up on my social media v I'm like, yeah,
you go pe al read. Also, he hasn't aged at all,
he has not He's like Benjamin Buttoning.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
I know, Oh my gosh, I've never seen him on
my phone. I bet you anything, now that we're talking
about it, he's gonna come up on my social media
all the time videos of him. A Paul Rud, Oh Rud,
that's hilarious. All Rud and Dolly.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
If you guys could also do a collaboration, that'd be cool.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Oh yeah, please.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
And then what's been What's something that's been filling you
with immense joy recently? Something that maybe it's new, maybe
it's old and new again, or just something that you're
just like really really happy every time it happens, or
you're involved around it.
Speaker 1 (37:46):
Oh. Running, I would have to say running, because like
I don't like running when it's freezing, and I don't
like running in the in summer it's too hot. But
like this weather right here, I love it. I could
run forever and I find trails that are like along
the river like on bike, you know, like greenways or whatever,
and I just run forever, and I run by yourself.
I do run with people.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Cheese Head, cheese Head, they are both runners.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
Yeah, he likes to run because we're gonna do the
half again next year half marathon, so we're actually training
this time, and he like loves it and He's super
competitive and so do I. So try to beat each
other and it's just really fun. So I actually like
feel safe running because I used to just go out
and be like, well, I hope I'm making a house.
I die, I die. Yeah, I'm like in a forest
and I'm like, well.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
That's not funny because that does really happen, and it's
really sad.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yeah, but it does happen. Like we have to watch
our backs and like you know, you do as a
female runner for sure. And so now I actually feel
safe running. And it's just like all the endoor fhins.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Tell the weather had with his cheesehead before that make
me laugh.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
No, he has not, he has not.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
I'm gonna need him to do that sometimes, just.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
For the picture. If they went to the Super Bowl,
he probably would. That could be a bet, okay, but
I feel like this is a bet that's gonna take it.
You think that's too easy.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
No more so that I just don't know that's ever
gonna happened. I don't know anything about sports, but I
don't remember the last time Packers have been.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
In this year, I don't I don't think this year,
but I don't know. Sorry, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
I don't know anything about sports. I could be totally wrong.
Well that's fun running running little run club, She's head
and Abby.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Running Away Love.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Yeah, that's your new song, running Away and Love.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Yeah. Oh, actually that's cute. I like that.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
I feel like there's something there. Yeah, I like it,
but it's more metaphor. I don't feel like you should
run right about you guys actually running?
Speaker 1 (39:35):
But like read ready ready to run?
Speaker 2 (39:38):
Yeah, unless you're actually running away from mariatis and I
love the run is a great song. Oh, it is
such a great song.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
What pumps you up?
Speaker 2 (39:47):
I need to listen to the chicks on the way home.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
Okay, so what phileth your cup? O? Yes, tell me
I think this? I think I have.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
I have sweated so much in these studios, like there's
nowhere in here.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
Oh it's off. Oh my gosh, don't tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Well, it's off because they're trying to fix ours.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Can we not turn it on? Nope? Sorry, give me that.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
I would like to take my sweater off right now,
but all I have is a bra and I can
do that with you because you're a girl.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Could there's a window right here?
Speaker 2 (40:25):
Bra? Okay? Little inside there, but the joint I have
gotten from I bought. I finally got a record player.
Stand in I saw that there's a bottom record player abby.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I cannot tell you.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
Every time I put a record on and I hear it,
like just the little crackling noises, Yeah, I am so happy,
Like what is it about that? What is it?
Speaker 1 (40:47):
And the other day I went to what are they
called a vinyl.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
Store, record player store, record store, so many names, so
I don't record store, record store. I don't know why
I want to keep injury, record player store, record store.
And I was just sitting there, like going through all
these vinyls and finding things, and I was so happy,
like just so filled with joy it is.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
And I was just you know, by myself enjoying it.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
Like I wish I could explain the feeling I get
when I have it. But that has been really fill
up my cup, my cup, the vinyls.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
I love it, No, they really are. I remember when
I got my record player, but I haven't really used
it in a while, but like I remember the initial
I was like, how did I not know? This is
so much better than listening to like anything else, because
the crackles and you get to control what you want
to put.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
It in, and I get to go over there and
put the little needle on it, and then it starts
a movie and I'm like, this is so cool. It
is and maybe it is a thing where it's like
I'm just so infatuated right now because I just got it.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
But I love it. I'm obsessed. Oh my gosh, No,
it really is. And there will come a.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
Time where I will have somebody in my home that
I love and we will be dancing to that Vinyl
record player. Yes, yes, you will only go on life,
not really, I have multiple This is a goal at
some point in my life.
Speaker 1 (42:06):
Hey, that's a cool goal that that is goals right there.
Speaker 2 (42:09):
Yeah, I want somebody. I want to be with somebody
who danced me in the living room. This cheers had
dance with me in the living room.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
He's a really bad dancing so now, but it sounds
like you're okay with Yeah, he's fine. It's he likes
to like it's fun, but like it's not going to
be any like dancing with the stars or like ballroom dancing.
But he does want to take like line dancing lessons
because I've wanted to. And he's like on board now
and I'm excited. Well, like two came back.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
Yeah, let me come back into this the Sally situation, right.
Speaker 1 (42:43):
And for anybody who.
Speaker 2 (42:46):
Yes, it's me, that's the only time I'm ever gonna
say sallyp uh. One of the our third date that
we had went on, he had taken me to We
went and took a two set being private lesson together
really and it was so much fun Abby, like I
think I should totally go to okay, And we had
(43:08):
a great time, like because he wasn't a big dancer,
but I knew. I mean my parents kind of raised
me on two stepping.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
That's how they met.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
That's so cute, oh adorable, And so we went and
did it and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
It was how long it's like an hour?
Speaker 2 (43:23):
Yeah, it's like an our private lesson is relatively inexpensive.
And it was a great dat idea. Also the coach
all time it was like I can tell, you know,
I always can tell if people are gonna make it
or not. I guess I should have called him after
that day because I didn't, and maybe he would have.
Speaker 1 (43:38):
He would have known for Sally hold on.
Speaker 2 (43:40):
He said that, Yeah, he's like I can always tell,
like based on how a couple interacts and how they dance,
like if it's gonna work or not.
Speaker 1 (43:47):
So this could be a true test for you guys.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
He said what he said, it's like the same tests
as ikea furniture.
Speaker 1 (43:53):
You put ikea furniture together, like how does it work?
Are you good? Like huh?
Speaker 2 (43:57):
Do you come away hating each other more? Do you
come away that are for it? He's like, dancing is
the same way.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
That is a good test. That is.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
The guy him or seal He didn't say. He didn't say.
He was like, but he's like I've had girls who
have called me after their lessons and be like, what
do you think?
Speaker 1 (44:17):
No way, every time he's been right, Please call him.
Oh my gosh, we need a follow up on that,
just to see what he said. If he remembers you
and be like just stop it, what did you think?
And he'll be like, wasn't feeling it? Be like wow,
whoa are you a psychic? You're right? Or he could
be like, yeah, what about dancing? Man, I can see
that because it's like it's frustrating. You have to know
(44:37):
if you're like patient enough, you can work together, like
be annoyed with the other person not getting it, be
annoyed with yourself.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
Yep, it's sure, but for sure. See, but it's a
good it's a good lesson because you have to be
able to work through things together and dancing is just
something that's so trivial, but it's a way to understand
how you guys handle situations where you don't know what's
happening and know if they have rhythm or not. Yeah,
that's a red float. First date, ladies, if you're single
(45:07):
out there, make a guy take you dancing.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
That was the first date.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
No, that was our third date. Man, that's I feel
like that's it was a great thirday and we had
a lot of great dates up until you know, disappear
on the birthday. Anyways, let's get.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
Out of here about that. God, please let me go
jump in.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
I feel like I just sat here and we had
a micro front of us and I just shared it
all that did guys? Please me call onto the show,
leave all of this on the best bits and you
were just exclusive to this.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
This is sacred info, the only you guys get.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
And if anybody calls it and I'm never sharing anything
on I'll hang up I'm just kidding. What did the
guys say, I'll hang up and listen.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
Oh my god, and I'll hang up an listen.
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Yes, Okay, let's jump out of here. Tell people they
can find you all the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
On Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson. Check out my new
song we Can't Forget About That. Well, it's kind of
new ex boyfriend material. It's about all those guys that
Morgan's talking about right now. All those guys out there.
Don't be red flag material. Be a green flag, be
a green flag, be a green flag. That song, be
a green flag, be a green flag and running away
(46:12):
from the Yeah, if you get offended by ex boyfriend material,
you're the problem. Honestly, Yeah, that's true. Okay.
Speaker 2 (46:23):
Check out my new podcast Take This Personally. You can
get it wherever you listen to podcasts. This week I
had on the Flirt Coach, who has actually been super
helpful on me understanding just connections and not everything has
to have expectations. That's where some of this came from
me in this new way of life. And then I
brought on one of my good friends, Ricky Sanchez, and
we talked about more human connection stuff.
Speaker 1 (46:44):
So check that out. And did he teach you how
to flirt?
Speaker 2 (46:49):
No, his like his whole it's just funny, Like that's
how you know, he's like the flirt coach. He encourages
you to focus on the flirt as genuinely a way
to connect with people, not just love interest, but like
a way to connect with people in the world. And
I loved the reframing of that because he's like, you know,
how often do you have somebody where they come up
and they're like, hey, you're hot, let's date, and it
(47:10):
actually work? It doesn't you know? What works is connection
and being open to people and not having expectations and stuff.
So it was super interesting. It gave me a new
perspective that is really cool.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
So I like that.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
So yeah, we did talk about dating and a little
bit of flirting and like dealing with rejection, but not
so much like hey, you want to flirt, like like
when you're out at a bar, like make eye contact?
Are they making eye contact? See how this goes? Like,
So he did talk about some of that.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
Also, Oh my gosh, I was always the worst like
eye contact. I would avoid it. I'd be like that
guy is so cute, I'm gonna look down it's never
look up.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Why do we innately do that, like you guys bike, Yeah,
we do.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
It's just like an it's like a reaction, like you
can't even control it. I don't understand. I always did that.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Because we hate rejection. As humans, we hate rejection.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
But if but a guy like I'm not to talk too,
I could stare into his eyes all time.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Poor guys, I guess if Abby is making a contact
with you, you're in the clear.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Okay, Bye, that's the best bits of the week with Morgan.
Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other
two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all
social platforms and followed web Girl Morgan to submit your
listener questions for next week's episode.
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Part one behind a scene with a member of the show.
Welcome to the weekend, everybody, What is up? Morgan's here
and I'm joined by Abby.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Abby. How are you? I'm good, We're up.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
You're in the new studio where we're recording best Bits.
It's one of our new studios, and I have to
kind of face forward.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
I know this is weird.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
The microphone's having a mind of its own. It is,
but we're doing it.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And I'm controlling the boards. I know, look at you.
Watch out Ray, someone's coming for the board. Oh gosh, no,
don't give me that one.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Too many buttons. All right, Well, Abby, we have a
lot of things that happened on the show this week.
So you are going to see a therapist for easy
tria and other things.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I gave an update on Halloween Man, and I asked
a favor from Bobby about something that we'll kind of
talk a little bit today. Amy admitted she said something
on the phone and it was a very mom of
the Year moment in sarcasm. Bobby came through for a
listener who made it bet with his son over these
Taylor Swift tickets, and the show played games all day
(01:12):
post election day, which was super fun, and we'll include
some of those. So if you want to catch up
on the show, go check out part two. But for now,
we're just chatting about Live Abby. How are things going,
How are you? What's the latest?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
What's the latest? I feel like I'm just working a lot.
Like always, I feel like I don't really have an update.
I'm just working. But I got to go on a
nice little trip. So yeah, you just want to chat
and Chattanooga is that right? Yeah? Chat?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
I remember the last time I thought it was Knoxville,
so I can remember it was Nxvill.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, yeah, this time Chattanooga. It's only like two hours away.
But what do you guys do We just wanted to
see like the fall leaves, you know, like the drivers.
Did you get to see him? Pretty Yes? I think
we need It's like in two weeks, I think it'll
be like at the Prime it was not.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Quite really so you're saying I could go do it?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Yeah? Now is the time, Like this is my favorite
time of year because it's like the drive is so you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Know that it makes me really want to go the
one place I would love to go for the fall
leaves is Vermont and like Upper Northeast because everybody says
those fall leaves are insane.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Oh my gosh, I've heard that too. What it in Massachusetts? Yes,
like Salem. I've been seeing so many posts of.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
People always supposed to go to Salem in October because
of like the Salem witch trials and stuff. So it's
like a Halloween activity mm hmm. I think they have
a lot of activities that go on around that holiday.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I feel like that'd be really fun. So you know
what I mean? Halloween? Yes, and then they go do
fall you do? You do love Halloween? Did you get
see a lot of scary movies?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Is Halloween? I was a favorite?
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yeah? I did. I watch all the Halloweens. Again.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Does Searhead like Halloween movies?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Not as much as me? But he did? He like
he he liked these.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, so it won't be a problem moving forward that
you like to basically watch scary movies all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Right. He doesn't like to watch them by himself, but
he's there if he's with me, I just don't get scary.
Like I can be at home and watch them by myself,
and I don't get scared. Are you afraid of anything?
Not really anything in life? Yeah? Oh oh, are you
getting me?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I said nothing very confidently, and I was just gonna
let that happen.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm not scared of people like breaking in my house
really or like a murder coming with a knife.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Okay, Oh dang, I'm scared of all those things. I
shouldn't have said that, but you might have just chinxed
it now, Oh my gosh, hope not. Oh yeah, I'm
a big baby, like I'm not a worst case scenario person,
but like sometimes I'll be like, Nope, this is where
I'm gonna die. Somebody's gonna come barging in. Or I'll
hear something outside just like one little noise and it'll
actually make Remy bark and Remy never barks, Okay, well yeah,
(03:36):
and then it'll be like, I don't know, something just
crunched on a leaf wrong, and that's she just happened
to hear it, And I'm like, oh I'm dying.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
No, that does scare me. When I've been at your
house watching her she barks, I'm like, oh my gosh,
she knows something I don't know. Oh my, she heard it.
What's happening. She knows your house better than these lot's
going on well, and she doesn't bark it a lot
of things.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
So when she does bark, you're like, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Something's happening.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yes, but now she also barks at my cat. So
it could have just been Hazel doing her nocturnal stuff
and her.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Like pulling open the cabinet. Cabinet. What in the world,
little rascals, it's so funny.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Okay, So scary movies. Watch a lot of scary movies.
And you guys went to Chattanooga, did you have a
favorite place.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Were then there was what was it the stone cup
that was really good for breakfast, the bread stone cup?
Fist ever, Yes, it's like her or just there, okay,
there see, I just just there big statements today.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
You know, it's it's a Thursday that we're recording this,
so you.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Deserve that it is. Oh my gosh, the ice Cream
Show is the best. I've probably told you this before.
I don't know if we've talked about it, but the
ice Cream Show. It's like they have thousands of combinations.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Of ice cream and it's the ice cream Show.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
That's what it's called. The ice Cream Show. It's like
a you walk in. It's just a normal ice cream shop.
But it's called the ice Cream Show.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
For some reason, I thought you were talking about a
show on Netflix.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Oh no, no, no, it's a place place. It's an
ice cream place.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
And do they put on ice Cream Show? Not really.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I don't know why it's called that, but like just
the way they mix it, it's just different. It's like
this machine that's really old and it like squishes it down,
like crunches everything and then squishes it into a cup.
It's really weird. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
It's so good though, and it tastes amazing. Yeah, it's delicious.
The Stone Cup and the ice Cream Show. Yeah. If
you go to Chattanooga and go check out the fall
Leaves in a couple of weeks.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yes, and walk across the bridge. Oh my gosh. Oh
there was this the largest like rowing it's called a
regatta that was happening in Chattanooga. I was like, why
can't we find a hotel? That's why there were five
thousand athletes in Chattanooga. Pretty small for the weekend. Well
they were like college athletes in high school?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Is okay?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yeah, I know I should have said that otherwise, Yeah,
that would have been wild. There were a lot of athletes,
but it was really cool.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Like row it like the longest, meaning like it's longer
than a typical row.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
It's the largest, like in international I guess everybody meets there.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
It's the largest largest rowing competition, or the most particular
boat is the longest, it's internationally largest competition.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Because I was.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Definitly rolling with the fact that these are like the
largest longest boats ever.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
No, I wanted to note because like some of them
there's twelve people or I guess, no, six people, twelve
ors six people. Sometimes there's four, sometimes there's only two.
So I wanted to know like all about it. It
was really cool. Did you guys watch a race competition, Yeah,
it's it's intense. I actually tried out in college to
be on the road routine really, but I would have
been the I think the coxsin where you sit in there.
(06:28):
It's like the one that sits at the front and
tells the rowers what to do oh and yells at
everybody yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, I
don't think I can do this. That's like they're not
even looking. They're back is forwards so they're trusting you
one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Mm hmm. It's like you have to have a lot
of knowledge and a lot of motivation.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Yes, and you have to say all these terms like
starboard side, turn left, you know, oh, we're coming towards
a bridge, like don't hit it.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Yeah, you know, it's funny. We There was a decent
amount of people that tried out for the rowing team
when I was at k State, like friends wise, because
they were just recruiting, like whoever wanted to try out.
I never I never had the desire to be a rower.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
I'ma be honest.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
I do rowing in workouts out and even then I'm
like fifty meters that's a lot.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
It is a an intense workout, Like if I do
the rowing machine, Yeah, it's like oh my, oh.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Sorry, and not fifty meters because that's not a lot.
Fifty calories is what they make us do, and that
is so much.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Geez, how many is that? Oh?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
It takes you solid a couple of minutes to get
to fifty at least at my capacity for rowing. But
there's a really good rowing movie that you should Boys
in the Boat.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Oh I did see that? Isn't Netflix, No, I mean,
I didn't see the movie. I should know better.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You didn't watch it, You never watched any of the movies.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
You'd be shocked, so shocked.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
I don't know if it's on Netflix. I rented it
at one point, but I do think it's on one
of the streaming services.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Now let me see, let me look it up.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Do a little flibbering for me right now.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
But yeah, it was cool. It was intense, so that
that was crazy because Chattanooga's pretty small, so I have
five thousand athletes and then their parents. But it was
just really cute all the parents cheering them on. It
was really sweet, like from the bridge because they were
standing on the pedestrian bridge like looking down and cheering,
and I was like, oh my gosh, it brought me
back to like high school, my sports days. It was
really cute.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
That's so fun. That's like a fun weekend. Okay, it's
on Amazon Prime and Roku also Channel premiums. Okay, I'm
gonna check that out or Sling TV or you can
rent it. Yeah, but I think it's on Amazon Prime.
So if you have Amazon Prime, gotcha. But cool, Chattanooga.
What else is new?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Oh? Man?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
You guys moved in together yet not yet.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
No, that's still in the works, taking things slow. It's
been a year, So.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Did you celebrate your year anniversary? Was the Chattanooga trip
the year anniversary trip?
Speaker 1 (08:43):
No, it wasn't. It hasn't. I guess been officially since
we've met, it's been over it, or we're in between.
I guess, like, when do you celebrate a year anniversary?
Is it when you're official or when you like your
first date? What is it? I?
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Well, I always like not for known each other for
however long since you met, But I feel like the
anniversary is like when you officially started dating, so you
at least typically remember that date more than you remember
the date of your actual meeting.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Sometimes, yeah that's true.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Sorry, you guys, gonna do something for it? Or you
can get him a gift first anniversary gift?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Oh, I probably will. What do you get that?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I mean, things that they like, personal things to them
would be a really like, yeah, you can get just
a regular just gift anything that they might like, but
I would say something personal to him that, like maybe
he doesn't realize you've noticed about him, would be a
good gift. M H, especially at being like your first
anniversary to celebrate together something that like you've come to mind.
(09:36):
Like what I do when I start seriously, like exclusively
dating someone is I put a bunch of notes on
my phone and I'll keep track of just things that
I've noticed, and I use that for Christmas or birthdays
or anniversaries or whatever not that I've had. Anniversary and
a hot minute, but I use that like for my thing.
So I don't know if you do that, but uh,
(09:56):
that could be a way to like find some a
few different personal things.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yeah, that's cute to go together. The hard thing is
is our the anniversary would be like two weeks before Christmas,
then there's Christmas, and then his birthdays two weeks after.
So it's just like all these gifts ever you know.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Okay, so Yetta spread them out.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, I'm like spreading it out, and I'm like, which
would be best for this and this and this.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
So maybe the anniversary gift is a good experience for
both of you, and that's your gift. But I don't
know what you're doing about, like this is mine. Yeah,
that's something you guys can do together.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
It's like an experience. Yeah, yeah, I like doing that anyway,
Like the game, Like, I'd rather take him to a
game since an experience and have a thing. Yeah, he's
not all about like just material things he likes, So.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah, then experiences. And there's so much stuff you guys
would go do in Nashville that you'd have so much
fun doing. For that kind of thing, you should go
eat at House of Cards. It's one of my favorite
places to eat. Yeah, I've never I sent my parents
on an anniversary dinner there. It's been a long time
since I've gone, but I sent my parents shortly after
and they also loved it. They went for their anniversary dinner.
It's a cool spot. You get a magic show or
(10:57):
you could do the petite chef that looked like which
is really cute.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Also, dinner in a show that's so fun. Do they
still have it? It wasn't just like a thing.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
No, it's like a long standing pop up. They're doing
it for a long time.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
That's awesome.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
So I would say either one of those is really cool.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Okay, thank you, I gotcha.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Cool experiences. He's not gonna listen to this, so he.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Won't know he's not I hope not.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Hey, she said, please leave.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Listen it with you listen it with you, Let's go.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
I mean, honestly, nothing abby.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I'm not on.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Dating apps. My birthday weekend, I deleted all the dating apps.
I'm just floating and existing in the world and letting
things happen to me. I'm very much in this space
where I'm just letting things pass how they're supposed to pass,
kind of thing. I've tried to really like relinquish control,
(11:51):
if you will, to just about everything of like I felt,
there was so much of me that was just trying
to because I like, I look at my life and
I have like a really awesome life. I have a
good career, and I have good friends and family, and
I have my house and the animals, and like, life
is good. I have a really good life that I'm
(12:12):
very very lucky to have. And I was just so
caught up and trying to meet someone because I desperately
want it. That's still there, right, like, the feeling of
that is still there. I want to share my life
with somebody because it is so great. I want somebody
to be in it and it just be this incredible love.
But I'm also just I'm not going to force that either.
(12:37):
I'm not gonna settle and I'm not you know, Sally
had her situation that happened, and Sally wasn't gonna force
that situation to happen. The HALLOWEENA situation is going on
with Halloween, man, I'm not forcing that. I'm just I'm
in this place where like, I want to meet someone
(13:00):
who genuinely wants to be part of my life and
wants us both to be very, very happy, and I
feel like there's just been so much pressure and stuff
like feeling I feel, and I put it on myself
sometimes where like a ha, you know, I gotta find
this and I gotta figure this out. And I'm just
no longer in that space anymore where I'm like, I'm
(13:21):
just done. I'm just done allowing that pressure to control
all of this because I'm tired. Dating sucks so bad,
Like genuinely, it's so exhausting, I know, and meeting somebody
and getting excited about them and then it like going
to crap. It's not fun to keep doing all the time.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
It is exhausting. It's so exhausting, sharing so much your
life and then just being like, okay, we was nothing
like you. Now you don't want to hang out with
me like.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Or just like the lack of communication as adults, like
this is what, this is what I don't understand. It's
like I went out with a guy. We had drinks,
and the drinks were good, but I just I wasn't
really feeling it afterwards. There wasn't a part of me
that's like so it was so excited to go see him,
and so like my texting was not great. I wasn't
(14:09):
like communicating super well of like it was like I
would text back, but it takes a couple hours or whatever,
and then it just kind of fizzled and a few
days went by and I was like, I'm not I'm
not going to be this person. That's not who I am.
I'm not going to sit here and like does he
probably care that I didn't to an extent, no, but
like there's not a person in this world that doesn't
(14:31):
deserve the closure of even if it didn't work out
of after a first date, not getting some type of hey,
like sorry, this won't work. So like I sent a
text over to him and I was like, hey, I'm sorry.
I know it's been a few days. This might feel weird,
but I just wanted to let you know like I
think I was not super as interests interested as I
wanted to be, and you know, I wish you all
(14:52):
the best, and like we had a great amlicable like
ending conversation and that never happens. Nobody ever does that.
I don't know how many guys phone numbers I have
that have just like went into the abyss and I
just never heard from them again.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
Oh yeah, you know what I mean. Oh yeah, sometimes
they would do that, and I was like, oh my gosh,
I appreciated that so much, like more than you know,
which is sad because it shouldn't be like this, Oh
my gosh, he actually did text me. That should just
be like a standard thing, like just be honest, like
why would you not? And I know they're probably scared
of the response or you know, like afraid to hurt
their feelings, but I'm like, I would rather have the
(15:27):
truth than wonder why, because then you're just like, okay,
what happened if you say, if you're just upfront and
they're like, hey, I didn't feel it or I met
somebody else.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Or like yeah, sure it's a sting for a second. Yeah,
you know, it's a little birsy. You go you're like, dang, okay,
that sucks. But you get a closure, like a door opened,
it closed, and you're like, I don't just have this
door sitting there open forever and wondering like there were
there's I mean, they're like, these are all casual dates.
None of them have gotten to the point of like
full blown dating. But there was also like two guys
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that at different time times that I had gone out with,
and both of them am local amblicably. That's such a
tough word. I like to say, I don't know why
I am amblicably. Yes, ended well, because you know, I
was like, I'm not feeling this, but like I And
what was interesting is my new therapist had said, give
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them the opportunity to still be in your life if
they want to in a capacity of friendship.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
That just feels so weird, and and she's like why,
She's like, it's not your decision to make, it's theirs
if they would like to stay in your life and
be your friend. But like, you're not even giving some
situations to that option. So that helps me see things
in a new way. So I've at least ended them
a little bit more in the terms of like I'm around,
if you ever like, would like to hang out as friends, whatever,
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and they did. They've transpired to be like friendships or whatever,
and that just never was really a thing before because
dating was so black and white to me.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
No, that is interesting, like to think of it that way,
to be like, oh no, just because we didn't work
out as like romantic partners, like why can't he just
be a friend that we just like hang out and
then you meet his friends and.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
And there, and I guess to me, there's always been
this touchy where like somebody's gonna have feelings if one
person ended it over the other. And I think that's
why I always like would just cut it off completely.
But I don't know. You know, we're growing, we're seeing,
we're seeing how things go. It could go horribly wrong,
who knows. Yeah, But so one of them is still
a friend, another one is friend by friends, so we're
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still on good terms. And both of both of them
were like, well, if you know anything changes, let me know.
It's like, okay, I can't really tell if we're open
ended friends or like, what's happening here? I know that
is And then the Sally one man Sally she uh.
She had ended that and sent a text like kind
of being like I'm not sure this is gonna work,
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and literally never heard from him again.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Nah uh oh man, you want to kick her?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Yeah, he's still watches her social media.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Really wait does he follow her?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Does she follow him?
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:07):
But I don't understand. I don't understand that. Yeah, well,
because Sally's.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Like, well, I didn't really do anything, so I'm not
really sure how to you know, handle this situation. I'm
just gonna exist here, I guess, just all in my life.
But again, it just goes back to like why why
as adults can we not just genuinely communicate? I mean,
and I'm still learning, and I'm still learning that, like
I can accept people as friends, like that's something, but
that's that's even deeper than just the communication level. So
(18:36):
all that to say, dating is still freaking weird, and
I'm exhausted and I've given up in a way don't
give up, but also in a way of like I'm
open to it in real life. I'm just no, I'm
not on the dating apps anymore, and I have like
my goal for myself is I'm not getting back on
them until after the new year.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Wow. I love that.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm just allowing myself to be in this space right
now where I'm just I'm good.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Yeah, not a nice little refresher.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Yeah, I'm like, Okay, well I can get back on,
but I just don't. I don't think it's productive for
me right now. And if somebody would really like to
date me, then they will, whether that be in real life,
social media or whatever.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
Like, they will make it happen. If they want to
spend time, They're gonna make the effort. Exactly people do
what focus their attention on what they want. So it's like, oh,
if you're too busy, that's I think your priorities are
somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Well that's totally fine, that's okay. It's just not And
I'm I am learning to just no longer like forcibly
try and control anything. I'm just letting it like roll
off my back and just let things pass through me
like they're supposed to and have zero expectations for what
they could be. And it's really hard.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
That is not easy at all.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
No, but I am I'm just I'm just imagine me
like a pretty little butterfly just around I land on things.
Occasionally some times I hang out longer than the others.
But for now I am just a Christmas butterfly.
Speaker 1 (20:05):
There's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that.
It's it's like time to focus on yourself and what
you get to do.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Yeah, which you know, but I feel like for the
last ten years I've been focus to see all myself.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
As I said, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Like, if somebody keeps making me focus on myself, I'm
gonna be focusing on myself.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
A little too hard.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Especially I'm gonna get to a moret where I'm like,
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
I know that's the thing you start getting set in
your waist. I thought that for a while actually, like
last year, like I was like, oh my gosh, what
if I'm just like too good at being single? If
I don't know how to be with somebody. What if
I'm so set in my ways, like I have my
own house, I have things the way I want it.
What if I'm not physically able to be in a
relationship at this point. But I guess I can. But
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I thought that.
Speaker 2 (20:46):
I was scared, And I am sure there's been challenges
for you where that's come up where you're like, Okay,
now we're getting serious things and I am gonna have
to let go of some of that. Yeah, it's been
a lot like and that's probably why you sitting here
like Okay, we need to take this though, Like I
really need to take this all in and understand what's
happening here. So I think that's totally normal too, because
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you did. You were at a place in your life
where you were good and you were happy.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
But I was also like very lonely because what we do,
like we go to concerts and it's all fun. We
take our girlfriends. But I was like, oh my gosh,
I'm tired of taking my girlfriend, you know, like I'd
like to take a guy because you always see it concerts,
like everybody holding hands and you're just like.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
It's because the country concerts.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Yes, they're all romantic. They got all these love songs,
everybody like embracing each other. And I just remember being like,
oh my.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Gosh, I'd be like I embrace this here real quick,
throw another one back, let me go to the.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Bathroom real quick. Yeah, So like I that was like
hard too. It's it's like a fine line. It's like
in between, like I'm so I'm happy, content with myself,
but also I do want to add a good guy.
That's a good addition to my life, you know, and
exactly and said, yeah, and now you're just.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Like your body's your nervousism is trying to allow it
to continue.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
To have it right and not like chase it away
or be scared of it. Yeah, and so it's like
I know it's out there, and that's why I know
with you like it, it's a lot like just waiting
and you feel like you're like, oh my gosh, am
I never going to meet somebody. But it happens when
you least expect it.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
No, And I I used Martha may hoo va as
a verb the other day. Wait, okay, first of all,
do you know the Grench movie? I need to ask
that before I try to make this reference. Yeah, okay, yes,
how the Grin Show Christmas Doctor Seuss.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yes, you know this movie?
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Hm? Okay. So I got a dress that has like
fur on it and I'm obsessed with this. It's very Christmasy.
And I was like, if somebody does not Martha may
hoo va me up in this dress, I give up.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
I'm hilarious that's.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Funny, waiting for somebody to Martha mayho via me up.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yes, Okay, let's go. That's funny. That's your motto. Yeah season,
And then if they know that's also a test, if
they know the reference.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
That's so true. We just I just keep entering different
random seasons and just seeing you know, what sticks. Something
has to stick at some.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Point, I know I'm not. Oh my god, We're.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
Gonna take a little break here and we'll be your back. Okay, Abby,
What is something you probably should do but you never do,
Like as an adult, I should probably do this, but
I don't like to, and I won't do it. The
reason this came up is because I was talking to
one of my friends with kind of a lawyer, and
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they were like, you know those terms and conditions, like
you really should read through this, oh gosh, Because they
watched me just like scroll, oh yeah, and just going it.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
I was like, admittedly, I don't.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Think I've ever seen, ever, ever read a single terms
and condition on any level. I even like when I
was going through like buying my house, like all of
that paperwork. Thankfully, my mom surrealed her and so she
knew a lot of the language.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
And everything.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
But my eyes rolled in the back of my head
when I started reading everything, asking I don't know what
any of this means.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Oh my gosh, so me neither. Oh, and like now
at this now they make you like scroll away at
the bottom just to say but it's like you're just scrolling,
you're not really reading exactly.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
They do that to be like you should read it,
but nobody does.
Speaker 1 (24:17):
And then they're like when you say, oh, I didn't
see that, and they're they're like, oh, you scroll to
the bottom, so you you saw it.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Oh gosh, exactly, so like you really should read it.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Yeah, I should really do. But if you.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Imagine how much of our life we would waste if
we all actually read the terms and conditions m hm,
so much?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
That's true because what what? How many terms are they
don't even know? On every single app?
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Thing about on every single TV streaming you have on
your computer or on your TV, every single app you
have on your phone, every single time you check out
at I don't know, like say a best Buy, sometimes
the Target they have them depending on the product that
you buy. Imagine that we all actually sat there and
read terms and conditions.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
And I'm gonna got time for that hold on, what
are the main points, like something that I really need
to be worried about, because I mean.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
A lot is just I believe, and a lawyer out
there can correct me on. But really the most important
thing is that whoever makes the product or and whoever
is selling the product is not liable for certain things.
But what's crazy is the reason this also got brought
up is because there was a story about a guy,
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and I think we talked about on the show too,
a guy who was a doctor and he died at
Disney from like an allergy something that happened. And this
is all like I'm paraphrasing here, I'd have to look
it up, but he died and because he had signed
terms and conditions on Disney.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Plus oh my god, it was like.
Speaker 2 (25:48):
They couldn't sue Disney or something. I don't know if
that ended up panning out and what the.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Update is there.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
But this is why this whole conversation came up, as
like make sure you do terms and conditions.
Speaker 1 (25:59):
Oh my gosh, But we also take your information. They're like,
can we access your whole Facebook and your whole life? Yeah,
I like, also all.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
The social media that you're on that's scary.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
So they have your info. That's basically what they're you're
giving them. Okay, it's like, no, all I wanted to
do is like watch this TV show or I don't
even know what I'm trying to get what I'm trying
to do, but terms and conditions, and I'm like, well, no,
I don't really want to but.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
And I believe it's like a lifetime thing. So once
you sign it once, like whatever that is is a
good for life. All could be speculation. I like I said,
I haven't read it enough to have the information, but
those are the things that I've learned so far on
terms and conditions. But because to say, is there something
in your life that you probably should do and you
don't actually do.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I'm usually pretty good at this, but lately I have
not well changing your oil in your car. I'm way past,
way past the oil change.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
My mean, like, you know, a couple thousand.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Miles thousand, a thousand. I usually am so good at
it because I'm like, I want my car to last forever.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
This this reminds me abby, and you should definitely do
that because there's a reason maintenance.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
Nothing maintenance on your car, even though you've waited.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
I took my car in to get oil, and tires rotated,
like I do, tires rotated.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
That's another one. Oh my gosh, my left tires were bald.
He was like bald. That's what the guy said to me.
He's like, your left tires are bald. I was like,
oh my gosh. He's like, do you rotate them? I
was like no, far.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
I was like, I've never in my life hurd's something
called tires bald.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah, my tires are bald. I mean there's nothing left,
there's no traction, no the grooves or whatever. They're just like,
so you need new tires.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Yeah, okay, so.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
As I ruined them because I didn't rotate them. See,
but I get my rotated every as.
Speaker 2 (27:47):
The thing, I have the little sticker in the corner
of my car and every time I go and I
get them, my oils change. My tires rotated. So I
go in to do that and I'm like, man, you
need new tires.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
I'm like, cool, lovely, this sucks. Let's get my new tires.
And they're like you'll have to come in next time.
We'll get a ordered whatever. So I go in get
my new tires and they're like, and that's when they did.
They were going to do alignment and fix some break
pad stuff. It was my car is getting older. And
I was like, okay, fine, just do it. So I
sat there for like four hours getting my car worked on,
and at the very end, they're like, we can't do
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the alignment because you need a new rod. And I
was like, you've got to be getting me so I'm
not about to return for my third time to sit
at the service center to get my car worked on.
You're talking about being an adult. Car issues are one
of the worst problems.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
They are the worst. That's the last thing you want
to spend money on. Like the absolute last thing is
I want to buy tires.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Exactly in my car. If we lived in a city
like New York, I'll be on the subway all the time,
way all the time. Like if we had a great bus,
like we ic busses around here, but we actually had
a full blown great subway bus system, I would be
using it.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
You would, really I.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
Hate I hate getting my car service. Maybe it's so frustrating.
And the poor guys they are like know that I
get frustrated. They're like, okay, man, we have to like
preface this like because they're really great. They're like a
mom and pop place, and they're like this, this sucks,
but this needs this, and I'm like, god on why
(29:15):
because back to being single, I don't have anybody who
can pick me up from there. So either I get
I drop my crof and have to uber back home
the uber back there, or I just have to sit there.
And so I go and sit there because I don't
want to. It's just so much work to uber all
the way across town and pay money for ubers, I know.
So it is then I get frustrated that I'm single
(29:36):
because I'm sitting there. So many car problems.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
It's a domino effect. Oh yeah, it just it creates
all of this.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Like I'm like, okay, I'm just gonna sit right here.
I bring Remy with me and we sit in this
service center for like four hours and I work and
Remy's just hanging out.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
That's a good one.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
Thanks for putting me on the TA And I've forgotten
about that.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
I forgot about the tires. You both need tires. Yeah, yeah, cool,
because one side.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Is neither one of us want to get it done.
That's what that's adulting is what that is is.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
It's just the worst. I don't have time to sit
in there.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Just don't see did your did she say come and
pick you up?
Speaker 1 (30:17):
I boo bird before, but no, I guess not with him,
well because I haven't got him changed a year. Okay,
let me know if he helped, he would he would, yes,
I'll make you feel better know he would make me
walk home? No, gosh, no, don't make me feel about
it that way. He'd better be helping. No, he totally would.
He's always there.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Yeah, And I was just sitting there watching people come
and go with all their couples, and I was like,
I hate my life. I was like I was like
the kid in the window shop because I was at
my computer there and I was literally like a kid
looking out and seeing toys that they have. I'm just
sitting there working. I'm like, don't mind me, been here
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since eleven am.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
That is it's the worst. You're like, they're like, so
you want to stay here? Or like what do you
want to do? You're like, yeah, what's the wi fi guls?
I want to stay here?
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Yeah, like a person that drops them off. But I'm
so far across town from this place, that it's such
it would take more time, Like by the time I
got dropped off and got home, I'd be there for
like twenty minutes.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Be like, can you come get me again? So you
might as well stay?
Speaker 2 (31:22):
Oh g dum it stuff. Ever, this is this is
just real, live right here. Oh I want to I
want to tell you about it. Freaking weird DM that
I got.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I'm scared, scary really might be just the most offhanded
DEM I've gotten no ever ever. Oh see, ever, that's
a big thing. Ever, Okay, out of nowhere.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
I've never talked to this person in my life. What
we'll play a small version of twenty one question see
if you can figure it out. We'll do like five questions,
cast me five questions and see what you can figure out.
Speaker 1 (31:55):
What this message was. What the message was?
Speaker 2 (31:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:58):
Do they follow the show?
Speaker 2 (31:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (32:00):
Is it regarding the show? It was not about the show.
Do they follow you? Yes? Did it have to do
with taking you on a date? No? Did they see
you out in public and they wanted to say hi?
But no, I'm scared. I'm scared. Did they send you
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pictures of your house? Because they were out in front
taking a picture of you could have been the dude.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
No, no, it wasn't that. It was nsf W no no,
oh no, no, surprisingly no. I'm surprised that this in
particular text was not accompanied by a picture of something
I would definitely not want to receive. Okay, So I
wasn't a picture, but it was a comment. No no,
(32:53):
And I don't want to say. I'm gonna I'm gonna
try and reference this in a way because I in
case they are a little years around, cover your ears.
It has to do with licking, and it.
Speaker 1 (33:05):
Has to do with no no, wait wait I got
one too. Really, it was really inappropriate. Ye. I didn't
like it, okay, because it had to do with like
my boyfriend and they were saying, and I'm like.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Oh no, I mean I didn't have to do with
a boyfriend. Mine had to do with them wanting to
do something involving licking with me.
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Oh my gosh, Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
And I've never spoken to this person my entire life.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
Okay. Had they sent other ones, it was just a blank. Also,
this has gotten to be the worst. It escalated. What
do they think is going to come out of that?
Oh gosh, did you reply? I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
I'm sitting in my request thing or whatever. Yeah, that
is that's all just why welcome to being a woman.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
That's what we don't want that at least it was
in the picture.
Speaker 2 (33:58):
I have a feeling that make sure is not far behind.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
Can we receive those? Just Instagram filter those out?
Speaker 2 (34:04):
Instagram at this point is filtering thing. Okay, And I
do think you have to approve to see a photo,
like approve the message to see a photo.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
I was like, not on wood, but I have not
received one.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
I haven't either, and if anybody ever does, you will
be deleted, blocked and reported to the police immediately.
Speaker 1 (34:21):
I have seen on different ones or like viewer discretion advised.
Do you want to see it's sensitive material? Do you
want to see this? Like and you click it's like
on TikTok or whatever. Yeah, maybe offensive, but that's never
been my gosh, can you imagine it may be offensive?
Speaker 2 (34:36):
And that's.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
Oh my gosh, you do not send? Okay, that is crazy. Okay,
I can't even know where to go. I want to
end on some.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
Fun little notes here, you know, we got fun share
what's happening in her lives? Talked about random dms, that
we should not be receiving now we're here. Who is
a national treasure that you don't mind like seeing pop up,
whether it's in commercials on your social media feed, like
if they pop up all the time.
Speaker 1 (35:16):
Dolly, Dolly, Dolly the cutest lady ever and she does
nothing but help other people and do good and it
is so sweet. Always has the cutest outfits, Like I
never get annoyed, Yeah I could. Dolly's a good one.
Speaker 2 (35:30):
I could see Dolly a million times over. She could
literally tell me like, hey, your life sucks, and I'd
be like, oh, Dolly, You're so right.
Speaker 1 (35:40):
Always speak the truth. Dolly, we're on the same page. Yeah,
that's a good one. The one that I had was
Paul Rudd. Oh, Paul Rudd. He's hilarious.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
He is so funny and he like there are always
just random videos of him and he's in random commercials.
He's at sports games and he's like on random tell
what ever the big screens are. Well, he's a k
you fan, yes, And he was a cheese fan too, right.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And one time this kind of relates to that, he
was at a game and he was eating a hot
dog and I have a picture and it says Paul
Rudd eating a hot dog on the big screen, like
that's the one picture I got, And I was like,
that's exactly, like so random Paul Rudd eating a hot
dog at this like college game in Kansas. Paul.
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I think he's from Kansas.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Yeah, because because he's in clueless. He's in clueless and
he was wearing a KU hat in that movie. And
I was like, oh my gosh, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Think he's always no, oh I am stand corrected, Okay,
all right, prothy, Yeah, he is from New Jersey and
but his mom worked as a sales manager at a
television station in Kansas City. Way okay, So that's the
(36:53):
connection to there had to be something.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
That is really funny. Yeah, I forget like how random
he is in how it just shows, but he's so funny.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
And he's so just like all the time, really kind.
Nobody's had that I know of, has had anything bad
to say about him, and he just randomly will always
pop up on my social media v I'm like, yeah,
you go pe al read. Also, he hasn't aged at all,
he has not He's like Benjamin Buttoning.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
I know, Oh my gosh, I've never seen him on
my phone. I bet you anything, now that we're talking
about it, he's gonna come up on my social media
all the time videos of him. A Paul Rud, Oh Rud,
that's hilarious. All Rud and Dolly.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
If you guys could also do a collaboration, that'd be cool.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Oh yeah, please.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
And then what's been What's something that's been filling you
with immense joy recently? Something that maybe it's new, maybe
it's old and new again, or just something that you're
just like really really happy every time it happens, or
you're involved around it.
Speaker 1 (37:46):
Oh. Running, I would have to say running, because like
I don't like running when it's freezing, and I don't
like running in the in summer it's too hot. But
like this weather right here, I love it. I could
run forever and I find trails that are like along
the river like on bike, you know, like greenways or whatever,
and I just run forever, and I run by yourself.
I do run with people.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Cheese Head, cheese Head, they are both runners.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
Yeah, he likes to run because we're gonna do the
half again next year half marathon, so we're actually training
this time, and he like loves it and He's super
competitive and so do I. So try to beat each
other and it's just really fun. So I actually like
feel safe running because I used to just go out
and be like, well, I hope I'm making a house.
I die, I die. Yeah, I'm like in a forest
and I'm like, well.
Speaker 2 (38:26):
That's not funny because that does really happen, and it's
really sad.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yeah, but it does happen. Like we have to watch
our backs and like you know, you do as a
female runner for sure. And so now I actually feel
safe running. And it's just like all the endoor fhins.
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Tell the weather had with his cheesehead before that make
me laugh.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
No, he has not, he has not.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
I'm gonna need him to do that sometimes, just.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
For the picture. If they went to the Super Bowl,
he probably would. That could be a bet, okay, but
I feel like this is a bet that's gonna take it.
You think that's too easy.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
No more so that I just don't know that's ever
gonna happened. I don't know anything about sports, but I
don't remember the last time Packers have been.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
In this year, I don't I don't think this year,
but I don't know. Sorry, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
I don't know anything about sports. I could be totally wrong.
Well that's fun running running little run club, She's head
and Abby.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Running Away Love.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
Yeah, that's your new song, running Away and Love.
Speaker 1 (39:25):
Yeah. Oh, actually that's cute. I like that.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
I feel like there's something there. Yeah, I like it,
but it's more metaphor. I don't feel like you should
run right about you guys actually running?
Speaker 1 (39:35):
But like read ready ready to run?
Speaker 2 (39:38):
Yeah, unless you're actually running away from mariatis and I
love the run is a great song. Oh, it is
such a great song.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
What pumps you up?
Speaker 2 (39:47):
I need to listen to the chicks on the way home.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
Okay, so what phileth your cup? O? Yes, tell me
I think this? I think I have.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
I have sweated so much in these studios, like there's
nowhere in here.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
Oh it's off. Oh my gosh, don't tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Well, it's off because they're trying to fix ours.
Speaker 1 (40:12):
Can we not turn it on? Nope? Sorry, give me that.
Speaker 2 (40:17):
I would like to take my sweater off right now,
but all I have is a bra and I can
do that with you because you're a girl.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
Could there's a window right here?
Speaker 2 (40:25):
Bra? Okay? Little inside there, but the joint I have
gotten from I bought. I finally got a record player.
Stand in I saw that there's a bottom record player abby.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I cannot tell you.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
Every time I put a record on and I hear it,
like just the little crackling noises, Yeah, I am so happy,
Like what is it about that? What is it?
Speaker 1 (40:47):
And the other day I went to what are they
called a vinyl.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
Store, record player store, record store, so many names, so
I don't record store, record store. I don't know why
I want to keep injury, record player store, record store.
And I was just sitting there, like going through all
these vinyls and finding things, and I was so happy,
like just so filled with joy it is.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
And I was just you know, by myself enjoying it.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
Like I wish I could explain the feeling I get
when I have it. But that has been really fill
up my cup, my cup, the vinyls.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
I love it, No, they really are. I remember when
I got my record player, but I haven't really used
it in a while, but like I remember the initial
I was like, how did I not know? This is
so much better than listening to like anything else, because
the crackles and you get to control what you want
to put.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
It in, and I get to go over there and
put the little needle on it, and then it starts
a movie and I'm like, this is so cool. It
is and maybe it is a thing where it's like
I'm just so infatuated right now because I just got it.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
But I love it. I'm obsessed. Oh my gosh, No,
it really is. And there will come a.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
Time where I will have somebody in my home that
I love and we will be dancing to that Vinyl
record player. Yes, yes, you will only go on life,
not really, I have multiple This is a goal at
some point in my life.
Speaker 1 (42:06):
Hey, that's a cool goal that that is goals right there.
Speaker 2 (42:09):
Yeah, I want somebody. I want to be with somebody
who danced me in the living room. This cheers had
dance with me in the living room.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
He's a really bad dancing so now, but it sounds
like you're okay with Yeah, he's fine. It's he likes
to like it's fun, but like it's not going to
be any like dancing with the stars or like ballroom dancing.
But he does want to take like line dancing lessons
because I've wanted to. And he's like on board now
and I'm excited. Well, like two came back.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
Yeah, let me come back into this the Sally situation, right.
Speaker 1 (42:43):
And for anybody who.
Speaker 2 (42:46):
Yes, it's me, that's the only time I'm ever gonna
say sallyp uh. One of the our third date that
we had went on, he had taken me to We
went and took a two set being private lesson together
really and it was so much fun Abby, like I
think I should totally go to okay, And we had
(43:08):
a great time, like because he wasn't a big dancer,
but I knew. I mean my parents kind of raised
me on two stepping.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
That's how they met.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
That's so cute, oh adorable, And so we went and
did it and it was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (43:21):
It was how long it's like an hour?
Speaker 2 (43:23):
Yeah, it's like an our private lesson is relatively inexpensive.
And it was a great dat idea. Also the coach
all time it was like I can tell, you know,
I always can tell if people are gonna make it
or not. I guess I should have called him after
that day because I didn't, and maybe he would have.
Speaker 1 (43:38):
He would have known for Sally hold on.
Speaker 2 (43:40):
He said that, Yeah, he's like I can always tell,
like based on how a couple interacts and how they dance,
like if it's gonna work or not.
Speaker 1 (43:47):
So this could be a true test for you guys.
Speaker 2 (43:49):
He said what he said, it's like the same tests
as ikea furniture.
Speaker 1 (43:53):
You put ikea furniture together, like how does it work?
Are you good? Like huh?
Speaker 2 (43:57):
Do you come away hating each other more? Do you
come away that are for it? He's like, dancing is
the same way.
Speaker 1 (44:03):
That is a good test. That is.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
The guy him or seal He didn't say. He didn't say.
He was like, but he's like I've had girls who
have called me after their lessons and be like, what
do you think?
Speaker 1 (44:17):
No way, every time he's been right, Please call him.
Oh my gosh, we need a follow up on that,
just to see what he said. If he remembers you
and be like just stop it, what did you think?
And he'll be like, wasn't feeling it? Be like wow,
whoa are you a psychic? You're right? Or he could
be like, yeah, what about dancing? Man, I can see
that because it's like it's frustrating. You have to know
(44:37):
if you're like patient enough, you can work together, like
be annoyed with the other person not getting it, be
annoyed with yourself.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
Yep, it's sure, but for sure. See, but it's a
good it's a good lesson because you have to be
able to work through things together and dancing is just
something that's so trivial, but it's a way to understand
how you guys handle situations where you don't know what's
happening and know if they have rhythm or not. Yeah,
that's a red float. First date, ladies, if you're single
(45:07):
out there, make a guy take you dancing.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
That was the first date.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
No, that was our third date. Man, that's I feel
like that's it was a great thirday and we had
a lot of great dates up until you know, disappear
on the birthday. Anyways, let's get.
Speaker 1 (45:22):
Out of here about that. God, please let me go
jump in.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
I feel like I just sat here and we had
a micro front of us and I just shared it
all that did guys? Please me call onto the show,
leave all of this on the best bits and you
were just exclusive to this.
Speaker 1 (45:35):
This is sacred info, the only you guys get.
Speaker 2 (45:38):
And if anybody calls it and I'm never sharing anything
on I'll hang up I'm just kidding. What did the
guys say, I'll hang up and listen.
Speaker 1 (45:46):
Oh my god, and I'll hang up an listen.
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Yes, Okay, let's jump out of here. Tell people they
can find you all the good stuff.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
On Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson. Check out my new
song we Can't Forget About That. Well, it's kind of
new ex boyfriend material. It's about all those guys that
Morgan's talking about right now. All those guys out there.
Don't be red flag material. Be a green flag, be
a green flag, be a green flag. That song, be
a green flag, be a green flag and running away
(46:12):
from the Yeah, if you get offended by ex boyfriend material,
you're the problem. Honestly, Yeah, that's true. Okay.
Speaker 2 (46:23):
Check out my new podcast Take This Personally. You can
get it wherever you listen to podcasts. This week I
had on the Flirt Coach, who has actually been super
helpful on me understanding just connections and not everything has
to have expectations. That's where some of this came from
me in this new way of life. And then I
brought on one of my good friends, Ricky Sanchez, and
we talked about more human connection stuff.
Speaker 1 (46:44):
So check that out. And did he teach you how
to flirt?
Speaker 2 (46:49):
No, his like his whole it's just funny, Like that's
how you know, he's like the flirt coach. He encourages
you to focus on the flirt as genuinely a way
to connect with people, not just love interest, but like
a way to connect with people in the world. And
I loved the reframing of that because he's like, you know,
how often do you have somebody where they come up
and they're like, hey, you're hot, let's date, and it
(47:10):
actually work? It doesn't you know? What works is connection
and being open to people and not having expectations and stuff.
So it was super interesting. It gave me a new
perspective that is really cool.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
So I like that.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
So yeah, we did talk about dating and a little
bit of flirting and like dealing with rejection, but not
so much like hey, you want to flirt, like like
when you're out at a bar, like make eye contact?
Are they making eye contact? See how this goes? Like,
So he did talk about some of that.
Speaker 1 (47:38):
Also, Oh my gosh, I was always the worst like
eye contact. I would avoid it. I'd be like that
guy is so cute, I'm gonna look down it's never
look up.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Why do we innately do that, like you guys bike, Yeah,
we do.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
It's just like an it's like a reaction, like you
can't even control it. I don't understand. I always did that.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Because we hate rejection. As humans, we hate rejection.
Speaker 1 (47:58):
But if but a guy like I'm not to talk too,
I could stare into his eyes all time.
Speaker 2 (48:03):
Poor guys, I guess if Abby is making a contact
with you, you're in the clear.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
Okay, Bye, that's the best bits of the week with Morgan.
Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other
two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all
social platforms and followed web Girl Morgan to submit your
listener questions for next week's episode.
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