Happy Valentines Day! Find out how we're spending the day. Plus, Morgan's in a date dilemma and needs advice! Mailbag: listener values his sleep, and he doesn't want his gf to stay over on the week nights because she has to wake up at 3a for work. She's upset they can't stay together on week nights.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Transmitting Lisa, Welcome to Wednesday show more studio money.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Let's go around the room and check in with everybody.
He was born and raised in the state of Texas,
and a positive energy can be infectious. It's producer ready.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
So this weekend, this past weekend, I took my kids
to a basketball tryout.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I've never done this. It was on the other side
of town.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I didn't know the league, but it was like, well,
they're gonna make two teams out of this tryout, so
your boys have to be good or whatever. So I
was like, let's give it a shot. I took him
over there, sign them up. There must be there must
have been like two hundred people there. Two hundred kids
for how many spots for two teams? How many people
on team nine?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Got it? So like ten nine or ten twenty people? Yeah,
one in ten make it basically yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
So then we sign up at the table and they're like,
all right, God head into the gym. And I start
walking in with my boys and it's my ten year old,
my eight year old. We're walking in. They said, who whoa, whoa.
Let the kids in. No parents allowed. I was like, oh, no,
no parents at all.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
In the gym. That's the greatest idea because you don't
have parents just screaming mouth and yelling. You have to
give me a heads up.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I'm like, I had no idea, and the kids are like, Dad,
where are you going. I'm like, I don't know. Where
do I go. They're like, I don't know, wait in
the car or something. But no parents allowed. And I
was like, how long is this tryouts? They said about
an hour, hour, twenty minutes, hour and twenty minutes in
a gym, and I see my kid, I sat in
the car. Dude, be nervous for them. Yeah, when they
came out what they say? One of them came out,
I was like, dad, I nailed it, and the other
(01:27):
one's like, Dad, I never got the ball, Like they
never gave me the ball.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We find out, like in a couple of days if
they made it or not. What if one makes it
one doesn't. Yeah, it's tough. That's gonna be really tough.
I don't know what to talk about it.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
So there's like a traveling team, like a serious best.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Well they have one of the teams does travel nationally
and I'm like, we're not doing that, Like they play
in Chicago Boston, Like, we're not going to do that
on the weekends, but one of them stays here locally.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
That would be expensive. It'd be great, but it's expensive.
Travel ball. It's really expensive.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
But when they took my kids into the gym, I
freaked out a little bit. Yeah, I've not heard of that,
but I think that's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
That's awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Parents are terrible.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Yeah, parents be yelling, Oh, you're not giving my kids
the ball, or they're yelling at their kid.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
They did say that a lot of the kids don't
perform well when the parents are in there, so that
was one of the reasons they do that.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Well let us know. Yeah, man, we're excited this next.
Persons never afraid of awkward situations in public if it
benefits our show. And if you're looking for a bonehead
story of the day, he is where you want to go.
It is lunch ball.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
One of the worst things that happens is when people
rub salt in your wounds. And I had an open
wound and they rubbed salt right in the other day.
Because I applied for four passes to what for different
parties in Las Vegas for the Super Bowl Shacks fun House,
Go Shax, fun House. I got accepted, then Grom got accepted,
(02:49):
Guy Fieri tailgate. They said, sorry, we're all full, we
can't accommodate you. Well, then they send me an email
on Monday and they said, hey, here's all the pictures
from the party. You can post them on your socials.
Let me know if there's anything else you need. Yeah,
how about a press pass to your party? But you
didn't go anywhay, But why.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Would I post anything if you rejected me?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
But why would you not go because you probably could
have got in.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I don't know, but they sent me.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Here's some videos of the red carpet, some pictures, some
behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Just let us know if you need anything else.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
But I understand what you're mad at you.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
I'm mad because they didn't even let me in the party,
but they want me to post about the party.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
No thanks, I'll show them, buddy.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
It was just like man, get angry at the weirdest things,
All right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
The next person here was recently embarrassed at church when
she ran over a cone, but these type of moments
for her are far from unknown.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
So I was on TikTok and came across this bed
making competition. I didn't even know they had those, but
apparently in Japan they are very popular. They do do
them in the US, like I saw there was one
in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and one in San Antonio, and I thought,
this is awesome. I made my bed every day and
these it was impressive how they were doing. I was like, oh,
(04:07):
I was getting some tips like hmm, and I try
to like make it well. I don't just want to
wake up and like make my bed. I want to
make it well. And I haven't always been this way.
I've been a bed maker probably as long as i've
been a not snoozing so a few years. But much
of my life I did not make my bed. And
it's a game changer. And so I didn't know if
y'all made your beds.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I don't join me because I get up in the
morning when my wife is still in bed. So I
have the habit of never making my bed. She makes it,
but I leave hours before she wakes up.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
So but like before you got married, were you a
bed maker?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
I was a bed straightener. I don't want to get
into a sloppy bed. But I definitely didn't fold the
corners under and stuff. Yeah, all right, Ray go ahead
from Mountain Pine, Arkansas. He's wearing the Hog's new alternate hat.
I gotta admit I like that Bobby Bone, thank you
very much. So I haven't been on that jersey site.
I stopped buying jerseys to I have way too many jerseys.
Sign jerseys. You get on and you got like a
(04:58):
one and eight chance, or you have a one and
thirty two chants if you buy a certain team. And
so I couldn't sleep last night, and so I got on.
Oh no, one time, I only did one, and so
it was a they call it a three break. So
I spent like sixty bucks. And I would have bought
the forty nine or excuse me, the Chiefs, but they
were already taken. So about the forty nine ers. I
like forty nine ers, and they just lost the Super Bowl,
(05:20):
but they're good. And so they opened three boxes.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
A Green law Ward Dual Auto Mini helmet.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
This time.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
Forty nine ers went for the Niners and good luck guys.
One all right, second box, other break. Niners Divo signed
Mini helmet, Devo signed Niners.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Minute Diego Samuel Auto any helmets, and we have a
George Kittle. Oh my goodness, signed niners. Many you hit
all three. I've never seen that happen before, where they
kept pulling the same team.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
So they could have picked any team thirty of the
thirty two teams, and you got three forty nine in
the same one. So they're sending me three signed Minnie
helm Hey, and you're not lucky. That was pretty lucky. Yeah,
he's not lucky.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Hey, that one's so now you're admitting it.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
That one was pretty lucky.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:21):
But overall, do you think you.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Have good luck?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I think I make my own luck. Thank you. Hey,
I'm not giving your helmet then, if you got that.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Attitude, Dan, I really wanted to kidle one.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Hey in green Law, it's crazy as Arkansas boy, thank you.
I just wanted to share that. I knew i'd get
a little Oh you're lucky, but I've only done it
one time. Was like, hey we have Hey, he's bad crazy.
Let's open up the mail.
Speaker 7 (06:45):
Bag fail and me read all the air.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
GT something we call Bobby's mail bag.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, hello, Bobby bones. My new girlfriend's upset because I
won't let her spend the night It's not that I
don't enjoy her company. I really do. It's just that
she has a job that requires her a wake up
at three in the morning, and I don't want to
wake up that early for any reason. I go to
work at ten. My sleep's important to me. So I
told her that she can stay over on Friday or
Saturday nights, but other than that, it'll have to be
(07:13):
afternoon dates. I think I'm being pretty pragmatic. She thinks
I'm being a jerk. I'm out of line here, signed
guy who values sleep. You're being very pragmatic. But that
doesn't always work.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
In relationships, because relationships just for the sake sometimes aren't
pragmatic because it could be keeping you back from your work,
her work, but it gives you something else.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I would say, bro, you got you got to ease
up a little bit on this. I don't think it's
every day that she can stay, but I think there's
a compromise here.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Friday Saturday, no, if you can do.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
A couple more than that too. How annoying would that
be if Monday through Friday or Sunday through Thursday, you
can't go stay your boyfriend's house because you wake up
too early in the morning. Yeah, so two things can happen.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
One give her Sunday and Monday and the other three
it's okay if you wake up for just a minute
when she goes to work, or two.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
She sleeps in another room because.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
You guys can be there the whole night do whatever,
and then you can just go to sleep in the
room do whatever next door.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
That's what Ray Moon, knowing his wife do sometimes. Or
just have them leave. I mean when you get up,
they get up. Well, he doesn't want to do that though. Yeah,
he's still at his place, right. It just works that way.
If you're both up, why not just continue on with
your lives. You don't have to go back to bed
at three in the morning. He doesn't want to wake
up here till ten. That's if you like him.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
See that's the thing. What it either hasn't gotten to
that point where he's willing to make that sort of sacrifice,
like he's into her enough, yeah, or because she's thinking
right like, okay, say we get married and we both
have these jobs, like what's he gonna do? Yeah, but
I feel like if you were sitting and be like yeah,
and I'll do that for when I'm ready to get
married to whomever I'm ready to get married to, and
(08:53):
it might be her, but at this point he's not sure.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
If I were her and she was already staying over
a couple of nights a week, I would be irritated
that he wouldn't let me stay Sunday through Thursday because
he has to wake up. I'll be quiet when I'll leave.
I'll only stay a couple of days a week. That'd
be a red flag even if I knew it was
about work, because I might. You know, you might also
be like, what does he want me not staying over?
(09:18):
And wonder what's up to? What's he doing? There is
a compromise here. If she wants to stay, you gotta
make some sort of compromise, even if it's two days
a week. Let her pick the days and then just
wake up for ten minutes when she gets up and
then fall back asleep. That's okay. I know you value sleep.
We all do right, well. We make sacrifices, like my wife,
(09:39):
can you mastually kick me out because you know how
to get up three a clock every morning? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Yeah, dude, I would say, But she's gonna dump you
if you don't chill a little bit, let off like
thirty percent.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's my advice to you.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
You can get your plugs in an eyemass.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Relationships aren't about being pragmatic most of the time. All right,
thank you, closing up. We got your game mail and
we ran on here.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
Now it's find the clothes Bobby smail dig Dear.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Okay, if you drop your phone in water, what are
you supposed to do?
Speaker 8 (10:08):
Get it out?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yep, that's number one step. Want it out, God.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Go ahead, and then put it in rice.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
That is common. And you know what, it's happened before
where I've done that and it has worked. Now, the
phone is supposed to be waterproof, but I've dropped mine,
not this version, a couple and it really didn't work
the same. It didn't go dead, but it never quite
worked the same. But Apple's now saying if your phone
does get wet, your iPhone may flash up with a
liquid detection alert, which means the device is detected liquid
(10:36):
in the lightning or USBC connector. To protect your phone
from damage, you won't be able to use the accessory
or charge until the whole thing is dry. Here, so
everybody takes it and puts it into rice. Apple says
don't do that. Don't put your iPhone in a bag
of rice. This is from Apple's website. Doing so could
allow small particles of rice to get into your phone
(10:58):
and damage your phone.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Boy.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
It also tells customers not to attempt drying their iPhone
using an external heat source or compressed air because the
first thing I would do, oh, well that doesn't work.
Hair dryer. Yeah, And also don't put a foreign object
like a cotton piece of cotton or paper towel in it. Oh,
trying to like.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
Dry it a tool from them.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
This is what Apple suggests. This is from lad Bible.
Apple recommends that you tap your iPhone gently against your
hand with the connector the bottom hole facing down to
remove excess liquid. So you just tappy, tappy, tappy tap.
You should then leave your iPhone in a dry area
with some airflow, so like next two event, half hour,
(11:40):
and then it should and could be working fully. But
out of for sure had my in rice for the heater. Oh, hair,
the blow dryer for sure. The gorilla glass or whatever
this is in the front of these. It's amazing. I've
dropped my phone in the past week so many times,
hard and nothing is cracked. My last screen I cracked,
But it's never the hard drop that cracks it. It's
(12:02):
always like Immy. During the Super Bowl, there was a
guy wo played defense at the forty nine ers and
he was just running onto the field nothing like before
the play started, and he like tours a c o
or is his achilles. He wasn't doing anything. He was
just kind of warming up running out there. That's like
how the iPhone cracks on me. It's never when I'm
in a play because that guy's green law is like
(12:23):
pounding folks doesn't get hurt. But when he's jogging out there,
it's crazy. It's like if I drop my phone two inches,
but it's crazy. It's how how good that glass is.
It is really good. So I just want to let
everybody know that's what you should do if your phone
gets wet. That's thank you. You're welcome. That's helpful. Now
let's try it.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Spin the wheel, the phone in the water, whomever's phone
it lands, all put on the toilet.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Deal. It's time for the good.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
News, Bobby. A family in Derby, Kansas, faced a heartbreaking
situation when their son, therapy pet, was attacked by another
animal it wasn't just a therapy pet, though it is
a therapy pig. I love that Wilber. Yeah. Recognizing the
importance of the pig to the family, the cop there,
(13:12):
Lieutenant Jessica Whitehead, went above and beyond. So the unfortunate
thing is the animal, the pig is no longer around. Oh,
but they enjoyed a vacant breakfast the next day. Stop,
I'm just kidding. Stop. The police officer that showed up
personally took responsibility to find the little boy a new pig.
(13:34):
So she found a pig that did exactly had met
the needs of the kid, and drove all the way
to Missouri, like hours across the state line, and then
got a new pig. And it like she didn't have
to do that. And it's a totally unfortunate situation. But
the police officer just like, I.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
Got you and beyond.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah. Also, you get to go play the pig on
the way home. That's pretty awesome. I hate that part
about them. I know.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
The first pig, I know though it happens though. Let's
say a pig was sent to a farm with his friends. Yeah,
of course, and the second pig, young and sprye was
ready to be there, you know. Yeah, a great story
derby Kansas Police officer Jessica Whitehead, big shout out to you.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
That's what it's all about.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
That was telling me something good.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
If you want and you're not gonna spoil anything, Let's
go around the room tonight.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Valentine's Knight. Who has a plan? Eddie? Oh, I have
a plan.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Yeah, we're gonna go see the Bob Marley movie One Love,
because it's about love.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Bob Marley is all about love. Bob Marley and.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
My wife loves Bob Marley. Just gonna be awesome. I
don't know if we're gonna do dinner in a movie.
I'm not sure that's gonna go.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
You're not if you aren't, unless you're buying one of
these from lunchbox. It didn't have any here. It just
depends when the babysitter gets there. But you're not because
nothing will be available, right and that's not in the plan.
So lunchbox.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
Uh yeah, I will be playing soccer at eight thirty
tonight with your wife.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
No, no, no, did you have planned.
Speaker 5 (15:05):
She had dinner reservations for us. She did the planning
this year for once, she planned something.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
But you act like you did the planning last year.
But she didn't do that either.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
No, no, no, but like she actually but seven to fifteen reservation.
But I have a soccer game at eight thirty. I thought,
you know, the league might cancel the games because it's
Valentine's Day. But obviously they don't care about love and
they wanted to cause conflict and households And why don't.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
You just not go to the game if your wife
has planned a dinner.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
We had a whole segment on this show.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah, he made a commitment. We made a commitment.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I made a commitment to the team, to the team,
so when I can be there, I have to be there.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
That's right. But you made it come to your wife
before that. It's probably bigger and better. Is this you
telling your wife?
Speaker 4 (15:50):
This is me like breaking the news to my wife.
I love you.
Speaker 10 (15:56):
And I need you to cancel the reservations that you
can make for Valentine's Day. Why Well, because you made
reservations for seventy fifteen, and I just looked in the
soccer schedule has this playing at eight thirty. So I
don't think, oh my god, if the soccer team, then
I don't if I don't show up.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
It's letting them down.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
You're gonna let me down.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
I'm not letting it, but I'm not letting you down.
Speaker 10 (16:20):
I'm still gonna come home and we can have like
Valentine's Day after my game.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
That is so dumb. That's not the same.
Speaker 8 (16:27):
So if you could, Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
So playing Mountain thirty ruin so fine. That sucks. I
can't stand that bed. That sucks. The bed was rolling
around it. The boy, well, that hurt her feelings.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
It felt like I maybe a little bit.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Doesn't your team have enough guys? They just enough girls?
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Ah, you know, it just depends if everybody shows up.
That's the problem.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
You know what I like about that clip is he
waited till right before they went to bed to tell her, Well.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Yeah, that way is not awkward, and you can just
close your eyes and go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I can't feel her disappointment there. Oh yeah, so's and
there's no chance you'll cancer cancel Rex Soccer.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
No, I made a commitment to the team, But did.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You make a commitment to your wife when she made
the reservation and when you were at the altar.
Speaker 5 (17:14):
Well, I mean she kind of made the reservation without
me like. She was like, and she's the one that
told me, oh, by the way, I made a reservation.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
You can't go earlier like six.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
Not at that restaurant. I mean she had a reservation
seven fifteen. I don't think you can call them be like, hey,
we want to move.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
To six ray you and Bay do anything. We now
live in a different part of town, so don't really
know the restaurants that well. So we didn't make reservations.
That's not any go ahead. But I always try to
do some really extravagant to move cities kind of did
I do? It's the same, it's a suburb exactly. Let's
go ahead. I do an extravagant flower bouquet, and the
(17:52):
place I will go to on West End close down.
So now I've the last two years I've been trying
to find Usually now we'll go to a grocery store
and just try to make my own. But you say usually,
did you do that last year? For five? No? For
five straight years, I went to the I got her
a two hundred dollars arrangement every month. What no, No,
But I'm asking about last year? Once placeh No, I
go to Kroger, But did put together on my own.
Did you put it together last year? Yeah, and it
(18:12):
wasn't as good and it was like twenty dollars. But so,
I mean we do try to do it big. I
think Ray gives us word salad just to get us
off a cent. No, I'm saying I tried to put
a lot of effort into it. It's just like everything's
working against me, you know. But yeah, so we'll still
celebrate Valentine's Day, but it's not the what would you
celebrate then? How would you do that at the house? Candles?
(18:33):
I mean there's something probably take out instead of going
to a restaurant. It will still be romantic.
Speaker 6 (18:37):
Yeah like that.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Do you know where the candles are? Are they still in box?
Speaker 2 (18:40):
No, it would be fine if it weren't a last
minute throw together candles. If he was like, I've planned this,
But he's moved to a new town. Which he's not
living in a new town. His place closed down a
few years ago. Everybody's got an excuse. Yeah, my wife
and I we have dinner a like seven thirty. I
booked a long time ago. So we have a good time.
(19:01):
And I didn't even care listen. Arkansas plays at eight
didn't even try to move it. No, I won't check
the phone at dinner. If you have to go to
the bathroom, might look at it while I'm there. You
know all I'm doing. I'm there to focus have a
nice dinner with my wife. I got her a gift.
I'm gonna say what that is yet, because it's a day.
(19:23):
I don't want to hear about it. So we'll do
that and then it'll be great.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Like with your arms, show me size of gift.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
No, with your his arms aren't that Long's what I
got from.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
That size gift?
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Like, what's the difference. What does it matter?
Speaker 4 (19:42):
I'm just trying to get a gauge.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Like a car. No, she doesn't need a car. Wow, Wow,
maybe she needs another car, Amy, what about you? Oh no,
she may have a she may have a date.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
Oh my god, if you had a date on Valade, Isaiah,
that's real serious.
Speaker 11 (19:58):
I have.
Speaker 6 (20:00):
Why appointment because I'm in a wedding this weekend.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Oh that's a good place and meet some dudes.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
Yeah, I'm on Friday.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Groomsmen are gonna be Oh, they're gonna be out. They're
gonna be holl on that this.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
Weekend rehearsal dinner Thursday night and on Friday's the wedding.
And they met on hinge. So that should give people hope.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
You have nothing going on?
Speaker 6 (20:21):
Literally five pm, spray t hands So I won't really,
I can't leave or do anything.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
So she drops some food by Rais. He's like, I
for anything.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
I mean, hey, candles, you can.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Borrow Valentine's spending. Sometimes they do these massive numbers. It
doesn't make sense because I don't know the difference. But
like two point two billions spent on candy. What does
that even mean? I don't have many people are doing it.
It's a lot of money. It is a lot of money,
but it's not one person, it's the whole world. Yeah, Like,
what's the difference?
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Sixty percent of flowers purchased by women on Valentine's they
are going to themselves.
Speaker 6 (20:53):
Yea sixty interesting.
Speaker 5 (20:56):
That's interesting. And guys, I'm gonna tell you I do that.
I'm telling you don't buy flowers today, buy and tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
But it'll be too late tomorrow will not? You can
do both?
Speaker 6 (21:05):
Well, well, they're discounted.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
He's no, Yeah, I get it, a lot cheaper estimated
amount of money that women spend on Valentine's Day for
the man.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
Oh twenty five dollars.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Yeah, ten bucks seventy five fifty seven dollars. Estimated that
men spend on women one hundred and fifty.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
Two dollars race at two hundred, so two hundred two
forty nine.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Good wow, Hey, women, step it up.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
To what it's It's definitely not a dude holiday.
Speaker 4 (21:34):
Why are you in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And love goes both ways? Man, it's not a one
way street, right.
Speaker 6 (21:39):
Have any of the girls on the show ever sent
themselves flowers on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 8 (21:43):
I never sent myself, but I have bomb my own flowers.
Oh yeah, oh yeah, I've never like just yeah, I've
gone in.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Roses are like like tulips.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Like they're typically some flowers. Those are my favorite flowers.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
You just put them there so people will go, oh,
you got flowers.
Speaker 12 (21:57):
No, I typically call myself out say that I bought
them for myself.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
Do you expect anybody to send you flowers?
Speaker 8 (22:04):
No, but sometimes my parents do.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
I like that sweet, but not like you don't feel
like a dude, a mystery dude or some dude's gonna
send you flowers to really impress No.
Speaker 8 (22:12):
I mean, I really don't have a roster.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
That's why.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
Okay, that's why girls though, will post online like like
Morgan said, she'll post them sometimes be like I bought
these for myself.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
That way a bunch of guys like, oh, I'll buy
you flowers.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
She can get all the what happens, Yeah, that's she
gets all the compliments about all these guys. Oh, I
would do it. You're so beautiful, You're so amazing. It's like, okay,
it's a thirst trap.
Speaker 8 (22:35):
No, it's like the Miley Cyrus.
Speaker 6 (22:39):
The thing.
Speaker 8 (22:41):
It's like the Miley Cyras song. I can buy myself flowers.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Good luck, everybody, don't forget you got to come to
work tomorrow. You stay out too late partying or lunch
box playing red soccer. I implore you to evaluate the situation
and probably go out with your wife.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
Thank you for your advice.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
You're welcome. Morgan, do you feel like you're a self
avatageer when it comes to dating.
Speaker 12 (23:02):
I never felt that way originally, but yes lately, because
I'm just I assume that the other shoe was always.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Going to drop.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
You feel like it's eventually gonna go bad anyway, So
why not run it yourself?
Speaker 12 (23:13):
Yeah at this point, because I'm like, I don't need
to get hurt, so I'll just cut ties now and
get out.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
So where are you now with this guy?
Speaker 8 (23:20):
So we've been on five dates?
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Is this Twister guy?
Speaker 8 (23:23):
This is Twister guy?
Speaker 4 (23:24):
Got it?
Speaker 8 (23:24):
Yeah? Akay, cowboy cowboy.
Speaker 12 (23:26):
Yes, we've been on five dates and we facetimed a lot.
But I just don't feel like he's taking the initiative,
Like he's not being like, hey, I like you, or hey,
like I want to see you again, but like he's
still texting me and facetiming.
Speaker 8 (23:41):
Me all the time.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Do you feel like he's not taking the initiative because
he's maybe playing this with other people too.
Speaker 12 (23:47):
I don't know, Like, and I just don't know if
I'm being like so sensitive and I'm I rush things.
I don't feel like I'm rushing. I mean, it's been
five dates.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
What do you expect to happen after five dates as
far as where you too, not maybe define the relationship,
but at least to find something yeah.
Speaker 12 (24:01):
Or just be like take the initiative to be like, hey,
I'm interested in you and I would like to see
you again and make a plan to see each other again.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
Well that hasn't happened.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
He doesn't make a plan to see you again.
Speaker 6 (24:11):
No, but you planned the five dates?
Speaker 12 (24:13):
No, no, No, he planned the first two and then
I kind of helped with the last three.
Speaker 8 (24:18):
He started it and then I kind of helped.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
I don't like how this feels, especially early on.
Speaker 8 (24:23):
That's see, that's how I feel.
Speaker 12 (24:24):
But I can't tell if I'm just being too harsh
or too critical, and I just don't He keeps texting me,
and he keeps facetiming me, which is showing me that
he's interested.
Speaker 8 (24:33):
But is he not interested enough to put an extra.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Effort or is he just let me say this, He
may be super interested in you, but or is he
just keeping you around because he's keeping a few people around.
Speaker 12 (24:45):
That would be what I would be worrying about. Yeah,
like he's trying to build a roster.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Yeah, or you're a backup, or he's got threes deciding
within You could be furt I don't know. It does
feel weird. When I started dating my wife, I was
just asking all the time, you do this? One?
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Do that?
Speaker 2 (24:58):
What do this?
Speaker 6 (24:59):
Like?
Speaker 2 (24:59):
I was taking big initiative because I didn't want to
let that slip away because I was like, dang, she's
so cool. If I don't do it, somebody else is
going to, Like I worried that would happen. So and again,
everybody's different. I feel like if you really wanted to
be in it, he would make more of an effort
to get you in it with him.
Speaker 8 (25:20):
See That's how I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
But not every dude's like that. Why don't you do
since you're doing these uncomfortable things right like you're yeah,
why don't you just ask him? Hey, what's up?
Speaker 6 (25:29):
Like?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
What would you ask him if it wasn't weird, if
it wasn't weird, and you can ask him anything in
the whole world would ask him?
Speaker 8 (25:33):
Okay, So I did kind of do this.
Speaker 12 (25:35):
So after the Twister date, he hadn't like really followed up.
He'd been like, that was really fun and that was it.
He wasn't like, hey again.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
I bet you he's got other girls.
Speaker 12 (25:45):
And so I literally just kind of like I started
matching his effort and I just kind of pulled back
and he was like, well, why didn't you ask me
to hang out? And I'm like, I feel like you
don't like me, so why would I ask you to.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Hang out, could he be intimidated by you?
Speaker 8 (26:02):
There's always a possibility.
Speaker 12 (26:03):
I get told that a lot, but I also just
don't feel like I want somebody who's.
Speaker 8 (26:07):
Going to be intimidated by me.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
I agree with that too.
Speaker 6 (26:09):
And it sounds to me like you want someone that's
going to take initiative and plan things. And if he's
already showing you he can't do that for dates three, four.
Speaker 8 (26:16):
And five, or he doesn't want to do that, yeah, yeah.
And I even told him like, I was like, hey.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Broke, does he have decent job?
Speaker 8 (26:22):
I don't know he has a decent job.
Speaker 12 (26:24):
And I've even told them like I want someone who
takes initiative.
Speaker 8 (26:27):
And plan things.
Speaker 12 (26:28):
I gave him the guidebook to be like this is
what I need. And still we're not having the follow up.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Let's still do the dudes here, guys. Let's go to
Ray first. Ray, Mundo, you and babe be married for
a bit. Now, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I would imagine you guys would be hanging out a
lot more than you have. It just seems like it's forced.
A relationship's never forced. This thing's done, though.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Okay, Eddie, Yeah, I'm with ray on this it's just
the whole, like this is what I want, This is
what I need after like five dates to me is
too much, Like I don't understand why people just can't.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Have fun and let it build.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
So it's her fault. Well, I think it's both of
their fault. It's like with too much of just like you,
even if he's intimidated by it, Like what intimidated by what?
Like maybe there's too many demands. I don't know, okay,
but you know what I mean. It's just like the
intimidation factors, like it should be a fun relationship.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
I agree, But at what point then do you go, Hey,
I do really like you and maybe I'll just chilling
in other people for a minute to see if we
end up being a thing.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
Yeah, I think there's just so many games involved here,
Like what if.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
He's playing too cool?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Sometimes girls are like, yeah, is coming on too quick?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Coming on too quick?
Speaker 5 (27:28):
And maybe he'd been told to be abby level like
that that's a little like you find a ways to
hit Abby when she's not Like when I listen to Morgan,
I don't get more Abby vibes from Morgan where she's
all in after one hour of talking. But I think
this dude is sort of like, Man, I'll get my
(27:48):
cake when I want cake, But on Wednesdays, I'm gonna
go get cookies over here, and on Thursdays, I'm gonna
get ice cream over here.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (27:56):
On Saturday, if I got no ice cream or cookies,
I guess I'll go get some.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Do you feel like he dedicates the weekends like the
primetime spots to you?
Speaker 8 (28:05):
Yeah? I mean the last time we hung out was
a Saturday night.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
This is also what gets me though, is like he
can text me a lot and FaceTime me in evenings,
like I don't think he's going on other dates?
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Is he ever in like it looks like a restroom,
like a restaurant bathroom.
Speaker 12 (28:19):
No, but I'm like, if you can FaceTime me for
an hour, why don't you just ask me to hang out?
Speaker 2 (28:26):
So even if he doesn't have a roster, which I
don't think he does, my personality doesn't seem like one
that you and him would thrive together because it feels
like he may be a bit shy, And.
Speaker 8 (28:39):
That's kind of what I'm thinking. I feel like I.
Speaker 12 (28:41):
Want someone who wants to take initiative wants to show
up in the same effort that I'm putting in.
Speaker 6 (28:46):
I don't. I don't think you well, I don't know
if you just said think or feel you know that's
what you want.
Speaker 8 (28:51):
Yeah, I've heard you. Sorry, I have couple of times.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Do you know why don't you just say that to him?
Do you like him?
Speaker 8 (28:56):
I do?
Speaker 12 (28:57):
But this has been off putting, Like I definitely have
a little bit of an itch now.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Then you got to just give it one final honest
go and go like, hey, look, I really like you,
Like what are we doing here? You don't have to
say a relationship, but like I need you to take
a little bit of uh, just some authority here, and
like I need you to plan stuff. I need you
to be that dude because for me, that's what I'm
looking for. And if he doesn't, then who cares?
Speaker 8 (29:21):
Is it too much?
Speaker 12 (29:22):
After I've already kind of said it once and it's
only been five dates, Like, is it just too much?
Speaker 8 (29:26):
And it's just not.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Worthingh I wouldn't do it right now? Maybe go on
like two more dates and then you at seven dates
you could pretty much.
Speaker 8 (29:32):
Say, but if we're going to go on.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
Six months instead of say, hey, you know how you
face on me for an hour last night?
Speaker 4 (29:40):
Why didn't you just come over?
Speaker 6 (29:42):
Like, why don't you just He'll be like, well, you didn't.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Invite me for you can do that. You can, That's
what I'm worried about. You can feel that out. He
may just be so passive, though, I mean, what if
he's just an extremely passive guy like that.
Speaker 8 (29:53):
Yeah a little bit.
Speaker 12 (29:54):
He's very laid back, and I just maybe I just
can't date somebody that's super passive.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
Like Eddie's super lad back pass him. We date wonderfully.
I'm type A and he's very passive.
Speaker 8 (30:04):
But see, I don't want to be that like I.
Speaker 12 (30:06):
You know, there's a lot online about like the feminine
masculine energy. I very much want to be in my
feminine energy. I don't want to take the masculine role.
I've had to, and I've been in those relationships and
those weren't enjoyable for me.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Then you can't stay in this purgatory place regardless. You
either got to cut it and run, or you got
to make one more statement of hey, this is what
I'm looking for it and if he doesn't give it
to you, then you go.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Because you're just in a purgatory. You're gonna be miserable regardless.
You're in the middle space.
Speaker 12 (30:30):
I know, I just couldn't tell if I was self
sabotaging though, or I'm.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Like, I think now you're maybe holding on a little
too long. Okay, Yeah, so all right, well good luck.
Let us know. I think it's like twister with them
who come right over again? Foret about it. Probably there's
a voicemail we got last night.
Speaker 9 (30:47):
Back in December, I signed up to be a partner
in Hope with Jews. And that's forward to a couple
of weeks ago, and I received my two shirts, my
this Shirt Saved Live shirts and my fifth and Joy shirt. Well,
the first day that I wore my Saint Jude shirt,
I won tickets to the Tennessee Boat and Fishing Expo.
Let's fast forward to today.
Speaker 11 (31:06):
First day I get to wear my Pimp and Joy
sweatshirt and I win two tickets to sam Hook. So
my question is, do you guys put luck in the
fabric of the shirts or do you just put it
in the package before you send it off?
Speaker 2 (31:20):
Fabric, Yeah, it's woven. Yeah, it's thucky fabric. Yeah, and
everybody that becomes a partner in Hope with us. At
some point during the year when they wear that shirt,
lucky things happen to them. Just one one for sure,
sometimes more. And I can't guarantee it at all because
you may miss it. Yeah but oh right, like you
(31:40):
may not even know. There may be a lottery winning
a lot of ticket on the floor.
Speaker 5 (31:43):
And you just don't pick up, pick it up. Yeah,
you got to take advantage of it.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
But if you become a partner in Hope and you
have your Pimp and Joy shirt on, at least once
a year while you're wearing that shirt, something very lucky
will happen to you. It's up to you to prevent
forest fires. Sorry, it's up to you. Yes, give it.
Who don't pollute? Yeah, all right, thanks, I appreciate that.
Thanks for coming up becoming a partner and Hope. All right,
let's play. This is Calvin the truck Driver.
Speaker 9 (32:08):
Man.
Speaker 7 (32:08):
I want to say, Ian munksick, he blew me away?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
This guy home run awesome man.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
I hope his music gets out there.
Speaker 9 (32:17):
I'm already damming right now.
Speaker 4 (32:19):
Is on Rowland.
Speaker 9 (32:19):
Thanks for the show.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Love him Ian awesome, like legit authentic good talented. Just
that dude for real, go back, go to our YouTube
page and watch him perform because it was awesome. Just
go look for the Bobby Bone though. You'll be going.
I know after he performs, I want to howl like
I'm running campfire. Yeah I did it for a long time. Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Pile of stories.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
So if you're on the fans about whether or not
to vote in the upcoming presidential election, Taylor Swift or
Travis Kelsey could be people that help you make up
your mind, like the.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Taylor effect on vote, help your mind. You don't need
to vote, that's what you're depending on to make up
your mind. You don't know.
Speaker 6 (33:01):
It's like, let's just say, if either one of them
encouraged you to vote, like a poll was taken, It's like, yeah,
if Travis Tomyo was voting for and Taylor they told me, like,
I'd be like, Okay, fine, that's what I'm gonna vote.
Speaker 2 (33:12):
Those people shouldn't vote. I don't think everybody should vote.
I think if you don't know what you're talking about,
if you don't know anything about it, maybe you don't vote.
Maybe if you do and you do, just I don't know.
Ten percent research, figure out what you believe in, and
then go and find out what they believe in. That's
you should vote. I think everybody should do teens Teaed's
he'd been of research, and then go vote. But I
(33:33):
don't think everybody should vote if they have no idea
what they're voting for. And if you're waiting on Travis
or Taylor to tell you to vote, maybe just stay home.
That's just that's a I get it. I think the
best thing is whomever it is, if it's Taylor, if
it's whatever famous person bringing awareness that hey, this is
the day we vote. Learn what you're about, so you
(33:54):
can learn what it's about and then go vote. I
like that, but it's always weird when people just go
vote because the celebrity tells them to vote for whomever.
By the way, I am endorsing, I was just kidding.
Speaker 8 (34:05):
Well, we definitely like The Rock.
Speaker 6 (34:07):
I feel like if he ran for something, we might
vote for him. And Chris Jansen says that a duet
with The Rock is pretty close to happening this year.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
I feel like The Rock would be funny to run,
but then once they run, it gets a little different
and they're not as likable. Because then you find out
what they're about, and some people just don't like what
some people are about. Yeah, that's always the case.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
That's like, who is the wrestler just at the body
of ventur Yeah, but it was so it wasn't as
toxic back then.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Yeah, I mean you're talking about the toxic politics is
like the last ten years. But he ran as an
independent though and governor of Minnesota, was really well liked.
But yes, if you're famous now, it's just almost better.
Either you're passionate and you stand for something or you
don't do anything, because if you're just loosely associated, people
(34:52):
are gonna not like you and you're not even gets
the benefit of really putting forth anything that you believe in.
So yeah, here, yeah Swartzenegger, he was a wrestler. But
Ronald Reagan actor actor, Yeah, way before us.
Speaker 6 (35:05):
But yeah, all right, So Finance Buzz is looking for
someone willing to listen to a full twenty four hours
of breakup songs, and they're doing it to create the
ultimate breakup playlist because they're gonna judge people's reaction or
monitor how they're responding to the music, and the person
that gets picked is going to get paid eleven hundred dollars.
But I was thinking we should have something here where
(35:28):
someone has to listen to twenty four hours of I
don't know, some sort of music, and we monitor and
we make our ultimate.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Yeah, you do it, Amy, go for it.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
I always say I wouldn't ask anyone to do that
something that I wouldn't do, the go right right.
Speaker 6 (35:41):
So, I mean, I feel like it would be a
good emotional release twenty.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Four hours on starting now let us know.
Speaker 6 (35:47):
I know that it could last that long. But the
ultimate breakup playlist, I guess will be coming to us
soon once they collect this data. I Mamy, that's my pile.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
That was Amy's pile of stories.
Speaker 6 (35:58):
It's time for the good news ready.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Katie is a kindergarten teacher in Minnesota at a Catholic school, and.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
She wanted to surprise her students with her wedding.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
She's about to get married this next weekend, and so
she said, you know, I want to involve all my students.
So what they did during their daily mass, they brought
all the students in, not just from her class, from
the whole school, and they acted like it was just mass.
But then she had a wedding ceremony. So her husband
showed up. They walked down the aisle. They had flower girls,
scripture readers and all that. But then she does get
(36:32):
married like on Sunday, so she just wanted to do
that for her class.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I thought it was really really cool.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
There was a little warm up and then on the
way out they all had palm fombs.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
They threw rice on her. It was really cool. Well,
a couple things. You know, if lunchbox would have rice
in like second grade he'd been pounding them with, it
wouldn't even have been like a little flicker. It had
been like wham, because there are always those kind of kids.
He was one of those kind of kids. Yeah he was.
And you know she must really love those kids as
she's thinking about that. Yeah, she's getting wet married and
(37:01):
she wants to have those kids at are wedding, Like
that's the kind of teacher that you want.
Speaker 5 (37:05):
It's a little weird she did it before her wedding
because now the husband's seen her in her wedding dress,
everything's ruled.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
They didn't have to wear the same Maybe they're not
wearing she didn't wear the same wedding dress.
Speaker 4 (37:14):
I would hope not.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
Okay, Well you think that's that big of a deal,
I would hope.
Speaker 3 (37:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
I mean, have you ever seen a wedding ven.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
I would be willing to bet money that she didn't
wear the same wedding dress at school that she's gonna
wear for her actual wedding as well. Oh goody, you'd
have been chunking rice.
Speaker 4 (37:28):
Oh I do it as an adult.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
You do when you go to a wedding.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
Yeah, my brother in law got married and they were like,
I don't know if you threw flowers or what. In
the wedding players walking around going all right now when
they walk down and you're gonna throw it, And I'd
been drinking. I was like, like, throw it, no, do
not throw it at their face. Throw it above them.
It'll ruin the pictures. If you whacked him right in
the face with him.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
He showed him. Good job, dude. You didn't throw anything
at our wedding. At my wedding, you didn't have anything
to throw. Had sparklers, Oh yeah, you didn't burness with them.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Yeah, well that's a little different.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
Right in the butt, dging someone on fire and throwing
rice at someone, that's a little different.
Speaker 4 (38:03):
Rice bad though, because it's bad for the birds.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Yeah, I don't think they do that as much anymore.
I think they do a different kind of thing that
looks like rice. It's still rice. Like bird. It is
an organic bird rice, but it's still rice. Okay, there
you go. That's what it's all about. That was telling
me something good.
Transmitting Lisa, Welcome to Wednesday show more studio money.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Let's go around the room and check in with everybody.
He was born and raised in the state of Texas,
and a positive energy can be infectious. It's producer ready.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
So this weekend, this past weekend, I took my kids
to a basketball tryout.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I've never done this. It was on the other side
of town.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I didn't know the league, but it was like, well,
they're gonna make two teams out of this tryout, so
your boys have to be good or whatever. So I
was like, let's give it a shot. I took him
over there, sign them up. There must be there must
have been like two hundred people there. Two hundred kids
for how many spots for two teams? How many people
on team nine?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Got it? So like ten nine or ten twenty people? Yeah,
one in ten make it basically yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
So then we sign up at the table and they're like,
all right, God head into the gym. And I start
walking in with my boys and it's my ten year old,
my eight year old. We're walking in. They said, who whoa, whoa.
Let the kids in. No parents allowed. I was like, oh, no,
no parents at all.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
In the gym. That's the greatest idea because you don't
have parents just screaming mouth and yelling. You have to
give me a heads up.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
I'm like, I had no idea, and the kids are like, Dad,
where are you going. I'm like, I don't know. Where
do I go. They're like, I don't know, wait in
the car or something. But no parents allowed. And I
was like, how long is this tryouts? They said about
an hour, hour, twenty minutes, hour and twenty minutes in
a gym, and I see my kid, I sat in
the car. Dude, be nervous for them. Yeah, when they
came out what they say? One of them came out,
I was like, dad, I nailed it, and the other
(01:27):
one's like, Dad, I never got the ball, Like they
never gave me the ball.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
We find out, like in a couple of days if
they made it or not. What if one makes it
one doesn't. Yeah, it's tough. That's gonna be really tough.
I don't know what to talk about it.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
So there's like a traveling team, like a serious best.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Well they have one of the teams does travel nationally
and I'm like, we're not doing that, Like they play
in Chicago Boston, Like, we're not going to do that
on the weekends, but one of them stays here locally.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
That would be expensive. It'd be great, but it's expensive.
Travel ball. It's really expensive.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yeah, dude.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
But when they took my kids into the gym, I
freaked out a little bit. Yeah, I've not heard of that,
but I think that's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
That's awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Parents are terrible.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Yeah, parents be yelling, Oh, you're not giving my kids
the ball, or they're yelling at their kid.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
They did say that a lot of the kids don't
perform well when the parents are in there, so that
was one of the reasons they do that.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Well let us know. Yeah, man, we're excited this next.
Persons never afraid of awkward situations in public if it
benefits our show. And if you're looking for a bonehead
story of the day, he is where you want to go.
It is lunch ball.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
One of the worst things that happens is when people
rub salt in your wounds. And I had an open
wound and they rubbed salt right in the other day.
Because I applied for four passes to what for different
parties in Las Vegas for the Super Bowl Shacks fun House,
Go Shax, fun House. I got accepted, then Grom got accepted,
(02:49):
Guy Fieri tailgate. They said, sorry, we're all full, we
can't accommodate you. Well, then they send me an email
on Monday and they said, hey, here's all the pictures
from the party. You can post them on your socials.
Let me know if there's anything else you need. Yeah,
how about a press pass to your party? But you
didn't go anywhay, But why.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Would I post anything if you rejected me?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
But why would you not go because you probably could
have got in.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I don't know, but they sent me.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Here's some videos of the red carpet, some pictures, some
behind the scenes.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Just let us know if you need anything else.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
But I understand what you're mad at you.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
I'm mad because they didn't even let me in the party,
but they want me to post about the party.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
No thanks, I'll show them, buddy.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
It was just like man, get angry at the weirdest things,
All right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
The next person here was recently embarrassed at church when
she ran over a cone, but these type of moments
for her are far from unknown.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
So I was on TikTok and came across this bed
making competition. I didn't even know they had those, but
apparently in Japan they are very popular. They do do
them in the US, like I saw there was one
in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and one in San Antonio, and I thought,
this is awesome. I made my bed every day and
these it was impressive how they were doing. I was like, oh,
(04:07):
I was getting some tips like hmm, and I try
to like make it well. I don't just want to
wake up and like make my bed. I want to
make it well. And I haven't always been this way.
I've been a bed maker probably as long as i've
been a not snoozing so a few years. But much
of my life I did not make my bed. And
it's a game changer. And so I didn't know if
y'all made your beds.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I don't join me because I get up in the
morning when my wife is still in bed. So I
have the habit of never making my bed. She makes it,
but I leave hours before she wakes up.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
So but like before you got married, were you a
bed maker?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
I was a bed straightener. I don't want to get
into a sloppy bed. But I definitely didn't fold the
corners under and stuff. Yeah, all right, Ray go ahead
from Mountain Pine, Arkansas. He's wearing the Hog's new alternate hat.
I gotta admit I like that Bobby Bone, thank you
very much. So I haven't been on that jersey site.
I stopped buying jerseys to I have way too many jerseys.
Sign jerseys. You get on and you got like a
(04:58):
one and eight chance, or you have a one and
thirty two chants if you buy a certain team. And
so I couldn't sleep last night, and so I got on.
Oh no, one time, I only did one, and so
it was a they call it a three break. So
I spent like sixty bucks. And I would have bought
the forty nine or excuse me, the Chiefs, but they
were already taken. So about the forty nine ers. I
like forty nine ers, and they just lost the Super Bowl,
(05:20):
but they're good. And so they opened three boxes.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
A Green law Ward Dual Auto Mini helmet.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
This time.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
Forty nine ers went for the Niners and good luck guys.
One all right, second box, other break. Niners Divo signed
Mini helmet, Devo signed Niners.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Minute Diego Samuel Auto any helmets, and we have a
George Kittle. Oh my goodness, signed niners. Many you hit
all three. I've never seen that happen before, where they
kept pulling the same team.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
So they could have picked any team thirty of the
thirty two teams, and you got three forty nine in
the same one. So they're sending me three signed Minnie
helm Hey, and you're not lucky. That was pretty lucky. Yeah,
he's not lucky.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Hey, that one's so now you're admitting it.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
That one was pretty lucky.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (06:21):
But overall, do you think you.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Have good luck?
Speaker 1 (06:23):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I think I make my own luck. Thank you. Hey,
I'm not giving your helmet then, if you got that.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
Attitude, Dan, I really wanted to kidle one.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Hey in green Law, it's crazy as Arkansas boy, thank you.
I just wanted to share that. I knew i'd get
a little Oh you're lucky, but I've only done it
one time. Was like, hey we have Hey, he's bad crazy.
Let's open up the mail.
Speaker 7 (06:45):
Bag fail and me read all the air.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
GT something we call Bobby's mail bag.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, hello, Bobby bones. My new girlfriend's upset because I
won't let her spend the night It's not that I
don't enjoy her company. I really do. It's just that
she has a job that requires her a wake up
at three in the morning, and I don't want to
wake up that early for any reason. I go to
work at ten. My sleep's important to me. So I
told her that she can stay over on Friday or
Saturday nights, but other than that, it'll have to be
(07:13):
afternoon dates. I think I'm being pretty pragmatic. She thinks
I'm being a jerk. I'm out of line here, signed
guy who values sleep. You're being very pragmatic. But that
doesn't always work.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
In relationships, because relationships just for the sake sometimes aren't
pragmatic because it could be keeping you back from your work,
her work, but it gives you something else.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I would say, bro, you got you got to ease
up a little bit on this. I don't think it's
every day that she can stay, but I think there's
a compromise here.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Friday Saturday, no, if you can do.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
A couple more than that too. How annoying would that
be if Monday through Friday or Sunday through Thursday, you
can't go stay your boyfriend's house because you wake up
too early in the morning. Yeah, so two things can happen.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
One give her Sunday and Monday and the other three
it's okay if you wake up for just a minute
when she goes to work, or two.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
She sleeps in another room because.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
You guys can be there the whole night do whatever,
and then you can just go to sleep in the
room do whatever next door.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
That's what Ray Moon, knowing his wife do sometimes. Or
just have them leave. I mean when you get up,
they get up. Well, he doesn't want to do that though. Yeah,
he's still at his place, right. It just works that way.
If you're both up, why not just continue on with
your lives. You don't have to go back to bed
at three in the morning. He doesn't want to wake
up here till ten. That's if you like him.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
See that's the thing. What it either hasn't gotten to
that point where he's willing to make that sort of sacrifice,
like he's into her enough, yeah, or because she's thinking
right like, okay, say we get married and we both
have these jobs, like what's he gonna do? Yeah, but
I feel like if you were sitting and be like yeah,
and I'll do that for when I'm ready to get
married to whomever I'm ready to get married to, and
(08:53):
it might be her, but at this point he's not sure.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
If I were her and she was already staying over
a couple of nights a week, I would be irritated
that he wouldn't let me stay Sunday through Thursday because
he has to wake up. I'll be quiet when I'll leave.
I'll only stay a couple of days a week. That'd
be a red flag even if I knew it was
about work, because I might. You know, you might also
be like, what does he want me not staying over?
(09:18):
And wonder what's up to? What's he doing? There is
a compromise here. If she wants to stay, you gotta
make some sort of compromise, even if it's two days
a week. Let her pick the days and then just
wake up for ten minutes when she gets up and
then fall back asleep. That's okay. I know you value sleep.
We all do right, well. We make sacrifices, like my wife,
(09:39):
can you mastually kick me out because you know how
to get up three a clock every morning? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Yeah, dude, I would say, But she's gonna dump you
if you don't chill a little bit, let off like
thirty percent.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
That's my advice to you.
Speaker 6 (09:49):
You can get your plugs in an eyemass.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Relationships aren't about being pragmatic most of the time. All right,
thank you, closing up. We got your game mail and
we ran on here.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
Now it's find the clothes Bobby smail dig Dear.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Okay, if you drop your phone in water, what are
you supposed to do?
Speaker 8 (10:08):
Get it out?
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yep, that's number one step. Want it out, God.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
Go ahead, and then put it in rice.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
That is common. And you know what, it's happened before
where I've done that and it has worked. Now, the
phone is supposed to be waterproof, but I've dropped mine,
not this version, a couple and it really didn't work
the same. It didn't go dead, but it never quite
worked the same. But Apple's now saying if your phone
does get wet, your iPhone may flash up with a
liquid detection alert, which means the device is detected liquid
(10:36):
in the lightning or USBC connector. To protect your phone
from damage, you won't be able to use the accessory
or charge until the whole thing is dry. Here, so
everybody takes it and puts it into rice. Apple says
don't do that. Don't put your iPhone in a bag
of rice. This is from Apple's website. Doing so could
allow small particles of rice to get into your phone
(10:58):
and damage your phone.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Boy.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
It also tells customers not to attempt drying their iPhone
using an external heat source or compressed air because the
first thing I would do, oh, well that doesn't work.
Hair dryer. Yeah, And also don't put a foreign object
like a cotton piece of cotton or paper towel in it. Oh,
trying to like.
Speaker 4 (11:15):
Dry it a tool from them.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
This is what Apple suggests. This is from lad Bible.
Apple recommends that you tap your iPhone gently against your
hand with the connector the bottom hole facing down to
remove excess liquid. So you just tappy, tappy, tappy tap.
You should then leave your iPhone in a dry area
with some airflow, so like next two event, half hour,
(11:40):
and then it should and could be working fully. But
out of for sure had my in rice for the heater. Oh, hair,
the blow dryer for sure. The gorilla glass or whatever
this is in the front of these. It's amazing. I've
dropped my phone in the past week so many times,
hard and nothing is cracked. My last screen I cracked,
But it's never the hard drop that cracks it. It's
(12:02):
always like Immy. During the Super Bowl, there was a
guy wo played defense at the forty nine ers and
he was just running onto the field nothing like before
the play started, and he like tours a c o
or is his achilles. He wasn't doing anything. He was
just kind of warming up running out there. That's like
how the iPhone cracks on me. It's never when I'm
in a play because that guy's green law is like
(12:23):
pounding folks doesn't get hurt. But when he's jogging out there,
it's crazy. It's like if I drop my phone two inches,
but it's crazy. It's how how good that glass is.
It is really good. So I just want to let
everybody know that's what you should do if your phone
gets wet. That's thank you. You're welcome. That's helpful. Now
let's try it.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Spin the wheel, the phone in the water, whomever's phone
it lands, all put on the toilet.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
Deal. It's time for the good.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
News, Bobby. A family in Derby, Kansas, faced a heartbreaking
situation when their son, therapy pet, was attacked by another
animal it wasn't just a therapy pet, though it is
a therapy pig. I love that Wilber. Yeah. Recognizing the
importance of the pig to the family, the cop there,
(13:12):
Lieutenant Jessica Whitehead, went above and beyond. So the unfortunate
thing is the animal, the pig is no longer around. Oh,
but they enjoyed a vacant breakfast the next day. Stop,
I'm just kidding. Stop. The police officer that showed up
personally took responsibility to find the little boy a new pig.
(13:34):
So she found a pig that did exactly had met
the needs of the kid, and drove all the way
to Missouri, like hours across the state line, and then
got a new pig. And it like she didn't have
to do that. And it's a totally unfortunate situation. But
the police officer just like, I.
Speaker 6 (13:50):
Got you and beyond.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah. Also, you get to go play the pig on
the way home. That's pretty awesome. I hate that part
about them. I know.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
The first pig, I know though it happens though. Let's
say a pig was sent to a farm with his friends. Yeah,
of course, and the second pig, young and sprye was
ready to be there, you know. Yeah, a great story
derby Kansas Police officer Jessica Whitehead, big shout out to you.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
That's what it's all about.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
That was telling me something good.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
If you want and you're not gonna spoil anything, Let's
go around the room tonight.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Valentine's Knight. Who has a plan? Eddie? Oh, I have
a plan.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
Yeah, we're gonna go see the Bob Marley movie One Love,
because it's about love.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Bob Marley is all about love. Bob Marley and.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
My wife loves Bob Marley. Just gonna be awesome. I
don't know if we're gonna do dinner in a movie.
I'm not sure that's gonna go.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
You're not if you aren't, unless you're buying one of
these from lunchbox. It didn't have any here. It just
depends when the babysitter gets there. But you're not because
nothing will be available, right and that's not in the plan.
So lunchbox.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
Uh yeah, I will be playing soccer at eight thirty
tonight with your wife.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
No, no, no, did you have planned.
Speaker 5 (15:05):
She had dinner reservations for us. She did the planning
this year for once, she planned something.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
But you act like you did the planning last year.
But she didn't do that either.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
No, no, no, but like she actually but seven to fifteen reservation.
But I have a soccer game at eight thirty. I thought,
you know, the league might cancel the games because it's
Valentine's Day. But obviously they don't care about love and
they wanted to cause conflict and households And why don't.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
You just not go to the game if your wife
has planned a dinner.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
We had a whole segment on this show.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yeah, he made a commitment. We made a commitment.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
I made a commitment to the team, to the team,
so when I can be there, I have to be there.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
That's right. But you made it come to your wife
before that. It's probably bigger and better. Is this you
telling your wife?
Speaker 4 (15:50):
This is me like breaking the news to my wife.
I love you.
Speaker 10 (15:56):
And I need you to cancel the reservations that you
can make for Valentine's Day. Why Well, because you made
reservations for seventy fifteen, and I just looked in the
soccer schedule has this playing at eight thirty. So I
don't think, oh my god, if the soccer team, then
I don't if I don't show up.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
It's letting them down.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
You're gonna let me down.
Speaker 4 (16:17):
I'm not letting it, but I'm not letting you down.
Speaker 10 (16:20):
I'm still gonna come home and we can have like
Valentine's Day after my game.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
That is so dumb. That's not the same.
Speaker 8 (16:27):
So if you could, Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
So playing Mountain thirty ruin so fine. That sucks. I
can't stand that bed. That sucks. The bed was rolling
around it. The boy, well, that hurt her feelings.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
It felt like I maybe a little bit.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Doesn't your team have enough guys? They just enough girls?
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Ah, you know, it just depends if everybody shows up.
That's the problem.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
You know what I like about that clip is he
waited till right before they went to bed to tell her, Well.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
Yeah, that way is not awkward, and you can just
close your eyes and go to sleep.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I can't feel her disappointment there. Oh yeah, so's and
there's no chance you'll cancer cancel Rex Soccer.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
No, I made a commitment to the team, But did.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You make a commitment to your wife when she made
the reservation and when you were at the altar.
Speaker 5 (17:14):
Well, I mean she kind of made the reservation without
me like. She was like, and she's the one that
told me, oh, by the way, I made a reservation.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
You can't go earlier like six.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
Not at that restaurant. I mean she had a reservation
seven fifteen. I don't think you can call them be like, hey,
we want to move.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
To six ray you and Bay do anything. We now
live in a different part of town, so don't really
know the restaurants that well. So we didn't make reservations.
That's not any go ahead. But I always try to
do some really extravagant to move cities kind of did
I do? It's the same, it's a suburb exactly. Let's
go ahead. I do an extravagant flower bouquet, and the
(17:52):
place I will go to on West End close down.
So now I've the last two years I've been trying
to find Usually now we'll go to a grocery store
and just try to make my own. But you say usually,
did you do that last year? For five? No? For
five straight years, I went to the I got her
a two hundred dollars arrangement every month. What no, No,
But I'm asking about last year? Once placeh No, I
go to Kroger, But did put together on my own.
Did you put it together last year? Yeah, and it
(18:12):
wasn't as good and it was like twenty dollars. But so,
I mean we do try to do it big. I
think Ray gives us word salad just to get us
off a cent. No, I'm saying I tried to put
a lot of effort into it. It's just like everything's
working against me, you know. But yeah, so we'll still
celebrate Valentine's Day, but it's not the what would you
celebrate then? How would you do that at the house? Candles?
(18:33):
I mean there's something probably take out instead of going
to a restaurant. It will still be romantic.
Speaker 6 (18:37):
Yeah like that.
Speaker 4 (18:38):
Do you know where the candles are? Are they still in box?
Speaker 2 (18:40):
No, it would be fine if it weren't a last
minute throw together candles. If he was like, I've planned this,
But he's moved to a new town. Which he's not
living in a new town. His place closed down a
few years ago. Everybody's got an excuse. Yeah, my wife
and I we have dinner a like seven thirty. I
booked a long time ago. So we have a good time.
(19:01):
And I didn't even care listen. Arkansas plays at eight
didn't even try to move it. No, I won't check
the phone at dinner. If you have to go to
the bathroom, might look at it while I'm there. You
know all I'm doing. I'm there to focus have a
nice dinner with my wife. I got her a gift.
I'm gonna say what that is yet, because it's a day.
(19:23):
I don't want to hear about it. So we'll do
that and then it'll be great.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
Like with your arms, show me size of gift.
Speaker 3 (19:30):
No, with your his arms aren't that Long's what I
got from.
Speaker 2 (19:34):
That size gift?
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:37):
Like, what's the difference. What does it matter?
Speaker 4 (19:42):
I'm just trying to get a gauge.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Like a car. No, she doesn't need a car. Wow, Wow,
maybe she needs another car, Amy, what about you? Oh no,
she may have a she may have a date.
Speaker 5 (19:55):
Oh my god, if you had a date on Valade, Isaiah,
that's real serious.
Speaker 11 (19:58):
I have.
Speaker 6 (20:00):
Why appointment because I'm in a wedding this weekend.
Speaker 4 (20:03):
Oh that's a good place and meet some dudes.
Speaker 6 (20:05):
Yeah, I'm on Friday.
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Groomsmen are gonna be Oh, they're gonna be out. They're
gonna be holl on that this.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
Weekend rehearsal dinner Thursday night and on Friday's the wedding.
And they met on hinge. So that should give people hope.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
You have nothing going on?
Speaker 6 (20:21):
Literally five pm, spray t hands So I won't really,
I can't leave or do anything.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
So she drops some food by Rais. He's like, I
for anything.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
I mean, hey, candles, you can.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Borrow Valentine's spending. Sometimes they do these massive numbers. It
doesn't make sense because I don't know the difference. But
like two point two billions spent on candy. What does
that even mean? I don't have many people are doing it.
It's a lot of money. It is a lot of money,
but it's not one person, it's the whole world. Yeah, Like,
what's the difference?
Speaker 3 (20:50):
Sixty percent of flowers purchased by women on Valentine's they
are going to themselves.
Speaker 6 (20:53):
Yea sixty interesting.
Speaker 5 (20:56):
That's interesting. And guys, I'm gonna tell you I do that.
I'm telling you don't buy flowers today, buy and tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (21:01):
But it'll be too late tomorrow will not? You can
do both?
Speaker 6 (21:05):
Well, well, they're discounted.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
He's no, Yeah, I get it, a lot cheaper estimated
amount of money that women spend on Valentine's Day for
the man.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
Oh twenty five dollars.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
Yeah, ten bucks seventy five fifty seven dollars. Estimated that
men spend on women one hundred and fifty.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
Two dollars race at two hundred, so two hundred two
forty nine.
Speaker 4 (21:26):
Good wow, Hey, women, step it up.
Speaker 2 (21:30):
To what it's It's definitely not a dude holiday.
Speaker 4 (21:34):
Why are you in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (21:35):
And love goes both ways? Man, it's not a one
way street, right.
Speaker 6 (21:39):
Have any of the girls on the show ever sent
themselves flowers on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 8 (21:43):
I never sent myself, but I have bomb my own flowers.
Oh yeah, oh yeah, I've never like just yeah, I've
gone in.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Roses are like like tulips.
Speaker 8 (21:52):
Like they're typically some flowers. Those are my favorite flowers.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
You just put them there so people will go, oh,
you got flowers.
Speaker 12 (21:57):
No, I typically call myself out say that I bought
them for myself.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
Do you expect anybody to send you flowers?
Speaker 8 (22:04):
No, but sometimes my parents do.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
I like that sweet, but not like you don't feel
like a dude, a mystery dude or some dude's gonna
send you flowers to really impress No.
Speaker 8 (22:12):
I mean, I really don't have a roster.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
That's why.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
Okay, that's why girls though, will post online like like
Morgan said, she'll post them sometimes be like I bought
these for myself.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
That way a bunch of guys like, oh, I'll buy
you flowers.
Speaker 5 (22:25):
She can get all the what happens, Yeah, that's she
gets all the compliments about all these guys. Oh, I
would do it. You're so beautiful, You're so amazing. It's like, okay,
it's a thirst trap.
Speaker 8 (22:35):
No, it's like the Miley Cyrus.
Speaker 6 (22:39):
The thing.
Speaker 8 (22:41):
It's like the Miley Cyras song. I can buy myself flowers.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Good luck, everybody, don't forget you got to come to
work tomorrow. You stay out too late partying or lunch
box playing red soccer. I implore you to evaluate the situation
and probably go out with your wife.
Speaker 4 (22:55):
Thank you for your advice.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
You're welcome. Morgan, do you feel like you're a self
avatageer when it comes to dating.
Speaker 12 (23:02):
I never felt that way originally, but yes lately, because
I'm just I assume that the other shoe was always.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
Going to drop.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
You feel like it's eventually gonna go bad anyway, So
why not run it yourself?
Speaker 12 (23:13):
Yeah at this point, because I'm like, I don't need
to get hurt, so I'll just cut ties now and
get out.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
So where are you now with this guy?
Speaker 8 (23:20):
So we've been on five dates?
Speaker 2 (23:22):
Is this Twister guy?
Speaker 8 (23:23):
This is Twister guy?
Speaker 4 (23:24):
Got it?
Speaker 8 (23:24):
Yeah? Akay, cowboy cowboy.
Speaker 12 (23:26):
Yes, we've been on five dates and we facetimed a lot.
But I just don't feel like he's taking the initiative,
Like he's not being like, hey, I like you, or hey,
like I want to see you again, but like he's
still texting me and facetiming.
Speaker 8 (23:41):
Me all the time.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Do you feel like he's not taking the initiative because
he's maybe playing this with other people too.
Speaker 12 (23:47):
I don't know, Like, and I just don't know if
I'm being like so sensitive and I'm I rush things.
I don't feel like I'm rushing. I mean, it's been
five dates.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
What do you expect to happen after five dates as
far as where you too, not maybe define the relationship,
but at least to find something yeah.
Speaker 12 (24:01):
Or just be like take the initiative to be like, hey,
I'm interested in you and I would like to see
you again and make a plan to see each other again.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
Well that hasn't happened.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
He doesn't make a plan to see you again.
Speaker 6 (24:11):
No, but you planned the five dates?
Speaker 12 (24:13):
No, no, No, he planned the first two and then
I kind of helped with the last three.
Speaker 8 (24:18):
He started it and then I kind of helped.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
I don't like how this feels, especially early on.
Speaker 8 (24:23):
That's see, that's how I feel.
Speaker 12 (24:24):
But I can't tell if I'm just being too harsh
or too critical, and I just don't He keeps texting me,
and he keeps facetiming me, which is showing me that
he's interested.
Speaker 8 (24:33):
But is he not interested enough to put an extra.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Effort or is he just let me say this, He
may be super interested in you, but or is he
just keeping you around because he's keeping a few people around.
Speaker 12 (24:45):
That would be what I would be worrying about. Yeah,
like he's trying to build a roster.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Yeah, or you're a backup, or he's got threes deciding
within You could be furt I don't know. It does
feel weird. When I started dating my wife, I was
just asking all the time, you do this? One?
Speaker 3 (24:58):
Do that?
Speaker 2 (24:58):
What do this?
Speaker 6 (24:59):
Like?
Speaker 2 (24:59):
I was taking big initiative because I didn't want to
let that slip away because I was like, dang, she's
so cool. If I don't do it, somebody else is
going to, Like I worried that would happen. So and again,
everybody's different. I feel like if you really wanted to
be in it, he would make more of an effort
to get you in it with him.
Speaker 8 (25:20):
See That's how I'm feeling.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
But not every dude's like that. Why don't you do
since you're doing these uncomfortable things right like you're yeah,
why don't you just ask him? Hey, what's up?
Speaker 6 (25:29):
Like?
Speaker 2 (25:29):
What would you ask him if it wasn't weird, if
it wasn't weird, and you can ask him anything in
the whole world would ask him?
Speaker 8 (25:33):
Okay, So I did kind of do this.
Speaker 12 (25:35):
So after the Twister date, he hadn't like really followed up.
He'd been like, that was really fun and that was it.
He wasn't like, hey again.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
I bet you he's got other girls.
Speaker 12 (25:45):
And so I literally just kind of like I started
matching his effort and I just kind of pulled back
and he was like, well, why didn't you ask me
to hang out? And I'm like, I feel like you
don't like me, so why would I ask you to.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Hang out, could he be intimidated by you?
Speaker 8 (26:02):
There's always a possibility.
Speaker 12 (26:03):
I get told that a lot, but I also just
don't feel like I want somebody who's.
Speaker 8 (26:07):
Going to be intimidated by me.
Speaker 2 (26:08):
I agree with that too.
Speaker 6 (26:09):
And it sounds to me like you want someone that's
going to take initiative and plan things. And if he's
already showing you he can't do that for dates three, four.
Speaker 8 (26:16):
And five, or he doesn't want to do that, yeah, yeah.
And I even told him like, I was like, hey.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Broke, does he have decent job?
Speaker 8 (26:22):
I don't know he has a decent job.
Speaker 12 (26:24):
And I've even told them like I want someone who
takes initiative.
Speaker 8 (26:27):
And plan things.
Speaker 12 (26:28):
I gave him the guidebook to be like this is
what I need. And still we're not having the follow up.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Let's still do the dudes here, guys. Let's go to
Ray first. Ray, Mundo, you and babe be married for
a bit. Now, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (26:40):
I would imagine you guys would be hanging out a
lot more than you have. It just seems like it's forced.
A relationship's never forced. This thing's done, though.
Speaker 3 (26:47):
Okay, Eddie, Yeah, I'm with ray on this it's just
the whole, like this is what I want, This is
what I need after like five dates to me is
too much, Like I don't understand why people just can't.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Have fun and let it build.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
So it's her fault. Well, I think it's both of
their fault. It's like with too much of just like you,
even if he's intimidated by it, Like what intimidated by what?
Like maybe there's too many demands. I don't know, okay,
but you know what I mean. It's just like the
intimidation factors, like it should be a fun relationship.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
I agree, But at what point then do you go, Hey,
I do really like you and maybe I'll just chilling
in other people for a minute to see if we
end up being a thing.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
Yeah, I think there's just so many games involved here,
Like what if.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
He's playing too cool?
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Sometimes girls are like, yeah, is coming on too quick?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
Coming on too quick?
Speaker 5 (27:28):
And maybe he'd been told to be abby level like
that that's a little like you find a ways to
hit Abby when she's not Like when I listen to Morgan,
I don't get more Abby vibes from Morgan where she's
all in after one hour of talking. But I think
this dude is sort of like, Man, I'll get my
(27:48):
cake when I want cake, But on Wednesdays, I'm gonna
go get cookies over here, and on Thursdays, I'm gonna
get ice cream over here.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (27:56):
On Saturday, if I got no ice cream or cookies,
I guess I'll go get some.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Do you feel like he dedicates the weekends like the
primetime spots to you?
Speaker 8 (28:05):
Yeah? I mean the last time we hung out was
a Saturday night.
Speaker 12 (28:07):
This is also what gets me though, is like he
can text me a lot and FaceTime me in evenings,
like I don't think he's going on other dates?
Speaker 2 (28:15):
Is he ever in like it looks like a restroom,
like a restaurant bathroom.
Speaker 12 (28:19):
No, but I'm like, if you can FaceTime me for
an hour, why don't you just ask me to hang out?
Speaker 2 (28:26):
So even if he doesn't have a roster, which I
don't think he does, my personality doesn't seem like one
that you and him would thrive together because it feels
like he may be a bit shy, And.
Speaker 8 (28:39):
That's kind of what I'm thinking. I feel like I.
Speaker 12 (28:41):
Want someone who wants to take initiative wants to show
up in the same effort that I'm putting in.
Speaker 6 (28:46):
I don't. I don't think you well, I don't know
if you just said think or feel you know that's
what you want.
Speaker 8 (28:51):
Yeah, I've heard you. Sorry, I have couple of times.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Do you know why don't you just say that to him?
Do you like him?
Speaker 8 (28:56):
I do?
Speaker 12 (28:57):
But this has been off putting, Like I definitely have
a little bit of an itch now.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Then you got to just give it one final honest
go and go like, hey, look, I really like you,
Like what are we doing here? You don't have to
say a relationship, but like I need you to take
a little bit of uh, just some authority here, and
like I need you to plan stuff. I need you
to be that dude because for me, that's what I'm
looking for. And if he doesn't, then who cares?
Speaker 8 (29:21):
Is it too much?
Speaker 12 (29:22):
After I've already kind of said it once and it's
only been five dates, Like, is it just too much?
Speaker 8 (29:26):
And it's just not.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Worthingh I wouldn't do it right now? Maybe go on
like two more dates and then you at seven dates
you could pretty much.
Speaker 8 (29:32):
Say, but if we're going to go on.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
Six months instead of say, hey, you know how you
face on me for an hour last night?
Speaker 4 (29:40):
Why didn't you just come over?
Speaker 6 (29:42):
Like, why don't you just He'll be like, well, you didn't.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Invite me for you can do that. You can, That's
what I'm worried about. You can feel that out. He
may just be so passive, though, I mean, what if
he's just an extremely passive guy like that.
Speaker 8 (29:53):
Yeah a little bit.
Speaker 12 (29:54):
He's very laid back, and I just maybe I just
can't date somebody that's super passive.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
Like Eddie's super lad back pass him. We date wonderfully.
I'm type A and he's very passive.
Speaker 8 (30:04):
But see, I don't want to be that like I.
Speaker 12 (30:06):
You know, there's a lot online about like the feminine
masculine energy. I very much want to be in my
feminine energy. I don't want to take the masculine role.
I've had to, and I've been in those relationships and
those weren't enjoyable for me.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Then you can't stay in this purgatory place regardless. You
either got to cut it and run, or you got
to make one more statement of hey, this is what
I'm looking for it and if he doesn't give it
to you, then you go.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Because you're just in a purgatory. You're gonna be miserable regardless.
You're in the middle space.
Speaker 12 (30:30):
I know, I just couldn't tell if I was self
sabotaging though, or I'm.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Like, I think now you're maybe holding on a little
too long. Okay, Yeah, so all right, well good luck.
Let us know. I think it's like twister with them
who come right over again? Foret about it. Probably there's
a voicemail we got last night.
Speaker 9 (30:47):
Back in December, I signed up to be a partner
in Hope with Jews. And that's forward to a couple
of weeks ago, and I received my two shirts, my
this Shirt Saved Live shirts and my fifth and Joy shirt. Well,
the first day that I wore my Saint Jude shirt,
I won tickets to the Tennessee Boat and Fishing Expo.
Let's fast forward to today.
Speaker 11 (31:06):
First day I get to wear my Pimp and Joy
sweatshirt and I win two tickets to sam Hook. So
my question is, do you guys put luck in the
fabric of the shirts or do you just put it
in the package before you send it off?
Speaker 2 (31:20):
Fabric, Yeah, it's woven. Yeah, it's thucky fabric. Yeah, and
everybody that becomes a partner in Hope with us. At
some point during the year when they wear that shirt,
lucky things happen to them. Just one one for sure,
sometimes more. And I can't guarantee it at all because
you may miss it. Yeah but oh right, like you
(31:40):
may not even know. There may be a lottery winning
a lot of ticket on the floor.
Speaker 5 (31:43):
And you just don't pick up, pick it up. Yeah,
you got to take advantage of it.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
But if you become a partner in Hope and you
have your Pimp and Joy shirt on, at least once
a year while you're wearing that shirt, something very lucky
will happen to you. It's up to you to prevent
forest fires. Sorry, it's up to you. Yes, give it.
Who don't pollute? Yeah, all right, thanks, I appreciate that.
Thanks for coming up becoming a partner and Hope. All right,
let's play. This is Calvin the truck Driver.
Speaker 9 (32:08):
Man.
Speaker 7 (32:08):
I want to say, Ian munksick, he blew me away?
Speaker 6 (32:13):
This guy home run awesome man.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
I hope his music gets out there.
Speaker 9 (32:17):
I'm already damming right now.
Speaker 4 (32:19):
Is on Rowland.
Speaker 9 (32:19):
Thanks for the show.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Love him Ian awesome, like legit authentic good talented. Just
that dude for real, go back, go to our YouTube
page and watch him perform because it was awesome. Just
go look for the Bobby Bone though. You'll be going.
I know after he performs, I want to howl like
I'm running campfire. Yeah I did it for a long time. Yeah,
I know.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Pile of stories.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
So if you're on the fans about whether or not
to vote in the upcoming presidential election, Taylor Swift or
Travis Kelsey could be people that help you make up
your mind, like the.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Taylor effect on vote, help your mind. You don't need
to vote, that's what you're depending on to make up
your mind. You don't know.
Speaker 6 (33:01):
It's like, let's just say, if either one of them
encouraged you to vote, like a poll was taken, It's like, yeah,
if Travis Tomyo was voting for and Taylor they told me, like,
I'd be like, Okay, fine, that's what I'm gonna vote.
Speaker 2 (33:12):
Those people shouldn't vote. I don't think everybody should vote.
I think if you don't know what you're talking about,
if you don't know anything about it, maybe you don't vote.
Maybe if you do and you do, just I don't know.
Ten percent research, figure out what you believe in, and
then go and find out what they believe in. That's
you should vote. I think everybody should do teens Teaed's
he'd been of research, and then go vote. But I
(33:33):
don't think everybody should vote if they have no idea
what they're voting for. And if you're waiting on Travis
or Taylor to tell you to vote, maybe just stay home.
That's just that's a I get it. I think the
best thing is whomever it is, if it's Taylor, if
it's whatever famous person bringing awareness that hey, this is
the day we vote. Learn what you're about, so you
(33:54):
can learn what it's about and then go vote. I
like that, but it's always weird when people just go
vote because the celebrity tells them to vote for whomever.
By the way, I am endorsing, I was just kidding.
Speaker 8 (34:05):
Well, we definitely like The Rock.
Speaker 6 (34:07):
I feel like if he ran for something, we might
vote for him. And Chris Jansen says that a duet
with The Rock is pretty close to happening this year.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
I feel like The Rock would be funny to run,
but then once they run, it gets a little different
and they're not as likable. Because then you find out
what they're about, and some people just don't like what
some people are about. Yeah, that's always the case.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
That's like, who is the wrestler just at the body
of ventur Yeah, but it was so it wasn't as
toxic back then.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Yeah, I mean you're talking about the toxic politics is
like the last ten years. But he ran as an
independent though and governor of Minnesota, was really well liked.
But yes, if you're famous now, it's just almost better.
Either you're passionate and you stand for something or you
don't do anything, because if you're just loosely associated, people
(34:52):
are gonna not like you and you're not even gets
the benefit of really putting forth anything that you believe in.
So yeah, here, yeah Swartzenegger, he was a wrestler. But
Ronald Reagan actor actor, Yeah, way before us.
Speaker 6 (35:05):
But yeah, all right, So Finance Buzz is looking for
someone willing to listen to a full twenty four hours
of breakup songs, and they're doing it to create the
ultimate breakup playlist because they're gonna judge people's reaction or
monitor how they're responding to the music, and the person
that gets picked is going to get paid eleven hundred dollars.
But I was thinking we should have something here where
(35:28):
someone has to listen to twenty four hours of I
don't know, some sort of music, and we monitor and
we make our ultimate.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Yeah, you do it, Amy, go for it.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
I always say I wouldn't ask anyone to do that
something that I wouldn't do, the go right right.
Speaker 6 (35:41):
So, I mean, I feel like it would be a
good emotional release twenty.
Speaker 2 (35:44):
Four hours on starting now let us know.
Speaker 6 (35:47):
I know that it could last that long. But the
ultimate breakup playlist, I guess will be coming to us
soon once they collect this data. I Mamy, that's my pile.
Speaker 4 (35:56):
That was Amy's pile of stories.
Speaker 6 (35:58):
It's time for the good news ready.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Katie is a kindergarten teacher in Minnesota at a Catholic school, and.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
She wanted to surprise her students with her wedding.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
She's about to get married this next weekend, and so
she said, you know, I want to involve all my students.
So what they did during their daily mass, they brought
all the students in, not just from her class, from
the whole school, and they acted like it was just mass.
But then she had a wedding ceremony. So her husband
showed up. They walked down the aisle. They had flower girls,
scripture readers and all that. But then she does get
(36:32):
married like on Sunday, so she just wanted to do
that for her class.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I thought it was really really cool.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
There was a little warm up and then on the
way out they all had palm fombs.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
They threw rice on her. It was really cool. Well,
a couple things. You know, if lunchbox would have rice
in like second grade he'd been pounding them with, it
wouldn't even have been like a little flicker. It had
been like wham, because there are always those kind of kids.
He was one of those kind of kids. Yeah he was.
And you know she must really love those kids as
she's thinking about that. Yeah, she's getting wet married and
(37:01):
she wants to have those kids at are wedding, Like
that's the kind of teacher that you want.
Speaker 5 (37:05):
It's a little weird she did it before her wedding
because now the husband's seen her in her wedding dress,
everything's ruled.
Speaker 3 (37:10):
They didn't have to wear the same Maybe they're not
wearing she didn't wear the same wedding dress.
Speaker 4 (37:14):
I would hope not.
Speaker 2 (37:15):
Okay, Well you think that's that big of a deal,
I would hope.
Speaker 3 (37:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
I mean, have you ever seen a wedding ven.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
I would be willing to bet money that she didn't
wear the same wedding dress at school that she's gonna
wear for her actual wedding as well. Oh goody, you'd
have been chunking rice.
Speaker 4 (37:28):
Oh I do it as an adult.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
You do when you go to a wedding.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
Yeah, my brother in law got married and they were like,
I don't know if you threw flowers or what. In
the wedding players walking around going all right now when
they walk down and you're gonna throw it, And I'd
been drinking. I was like, like, throw it, no, do
not throw it at their face. Throw it above them.
It'll ruin the pictures. If you whacked him right in
the face with him.
Speaker 3 (37:48):
He showed him. Good job, dude. You didn't throw anything
at our wedding. At my wedding, you didn't have anything
to throw. Had sparklers, Oh yeah, you didn't burness with them.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Yeah, well that's a little different.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
Right in the butt, dging someone on fire and throwing
rice at someone, that's a little different.
Speaker 4 (38:03):
Rice bad though, because it's bad for the birds.
Speaker 2 (38:05):
Yeah, I don't think they do that as much anymore.
I think they do a different kind of thing that
looks like rice. It's still rice. Like bird. It is
an organic bird rice, but it's still rice. Okay, there
you go. That's what it's all about. That was telling
me something good.
Hosts And Creators
Bobby Bones
Amy Brown
Lunchbox
Eddie Garcia
Morgan Huelsman
Raymundo
Mike D
Abby Anderson
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