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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Remy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Erica. So in
a minute, we're gonna call her and see you tell
us why she's ghosting, and maybe get another date. But first, Remy,
how long has it been since you heard from Tarika.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
It's been about two weeks now, Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Have you reached out to her?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I mean at first I was reaching out, but you
know I've kind of gotten the point and you know,
held back recently.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
But why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Yeah? Sure, So we went out to a stake place
in town I really like, and then after that every
went out for a froio and then we even went
out a little dive bar I really like after that.
So I don't know, it was a great night, you know,
you know, we met up around seven, and you know,
by the time I dropped her off, it was you know,
almost already night. So great night, a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
This is always weird to me when you go to
three different locations and then you get ghosted, because at
that point you have a pretty good feeling that like,
this person wants to spend time with you, like you
had it out two different times.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Did you feel like she was super nice?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah, she was super nice. I like, you know how
we talked a while before even our first date, and like,
I don't know, we're both vib been really good together.
And yeah, it was really weird that she didn't tell
me anything was wrong.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
So could it be like work or family related that
she's not like something's going on in her personal life?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Yeah, I mean she she's some like she really had
her stuff together. But you know, it's definitely possible she
could get this guy busy. But you know, like I said,
it's been in a couple of weeks, so I forgured
if she wanted to go out another date, maybe she
would have answered me. But I really at least, you know,
want to know why.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that
she liked you? Did she say that or is there
something that could have possibly happened that would have made
the date kind of take a turn?
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Like so I guess the one thing is I was
making like kind of some suggestive comments, like you know,
because things were going so well, like you know how
much I like her and stuff, and it seemed like
those feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know,
maybe I pushed too hard, like that's the one thing
I could really think of.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
But like what did you say? What direction were you pushing? Like,
oh I really liked you, I can't get married yeah or.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, nothing like that, but just like, oh,
you know, next time we'll have to do this, and
you know, things like that, like you know kind of
you know, you know, insinuating that you know, this wouldn't
be the only you know, date.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I think that's some good things.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or
any reason did you'd be getting ghosted?
Speaker 5 (02:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I don't know, Like, uh, I don't know. Maybe I
wasn't dressed right, like I was wearing like corduroy pants
or something. Maybe she was chuding me on that. I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Corduroys are in now, so is ish okay, so maybe
you were.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Getting judged on that, Like I mean, I like them,
How tight were they?
Speaker 6 (02:59):
They? Just?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Right?
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Man?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Okay? All right, well we'll see if that is the issue.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another date if you still want.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Okay, all right, also appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
So we'll play a song come back, and get your
first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first day follow up if you're just joining us,
Remy is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Tarika.
So in a second, we're going to call her and
see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and
(03:31):
maybe get him another date. But first, Remy, why don't
you catch everybody up on your date with Tarica.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
So, yeah, we went out to steak place, we had
frozen yogurt, you know, we went to a dive bar,
you know, all together. We were together probably for about
five hours. It's a great day, you know it. Text
her a few times after the date, but now it's
been about two weeks, haven't heard from her. Don't know
if she was judging me on my quarter roy painment
some of the talent that was making, you know, you know,
(03:57):
hoping that we would you know, who wouldn't be our
only date anything like that, And yeah, I'm just really
like to hear from her again, or at least find
out like why I'm an.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Okay cool, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Hell you?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Okay? Here we go, Hi, I speak to Erica. Please.
This is hey Tarica. How are you?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
My name is Jewbell and I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Hi, Sarah, I'm Nina. I'm also on the show. Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Serious. Please, that's cool.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
You listen to the show.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Ever.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Yeah, we do a.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Segment on the show called the First Date follow Up,
where if you go on a date with somebody and
ghost them, that person emails us to call you up
and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Okay, so we got an email about you?
Speaker 6 (04:57):
Okay, all right.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
It's from a dude named Remy.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
Oh no, oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yep, a ghost Remy?
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Can I say yes?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
And no?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Okay? Yeah? Would you mind explaining to us what that means? Though,
I get like, I.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
Definitely put off messaging him back. I'll put it that way.
I've put off messaging.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Him back, so he's not totally ghosted yet, it's just delayed.
Just mailed him a letter. At this point, it sounds funny.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
It wasn't anything like I literally just got thrown off.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
That was that was it. Like, it wasn't like anything.
I was just thrown off. Okay, So I couldn't stop
thinking about what happened where we went to get frozen yogurt,
like like I don't know what happened, but like he
he like became like a monster in that proio shop,
Like he added every thing that they had available for
(06:02):
toppings and stuff, and he went bonkers, like he added
everything like.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Cookies and gummy.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Bears and sprinkles and the chocolate syrup and the strawberry.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Yeah it sounds.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Yeah, it sounds like something I do too. I know
he's sending forty bucks.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Some things are so good. I don't understand just one right.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Well, it was my thought process, but I was like,
I was like weird. I was like, okay, this thing
is going to weigh forty pounds. And I was just
like has you never been to one of these places
like this first time out of the house, Like well,
I just I guess I thought about it like way
too much. And then I was like, well, I'll get
back to him. You know. I was still in my
head and then I completely forgot to get back to him.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Okay, it sounds like something, Victoria.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Yeah, obviously you're judging him on having so many toppings?
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Does that?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Does that tell you something about his character? Or you're
just really not sure how somebody can mix cookies and
gummy bears together. I'm not really understanding how this was
like an ick for you.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
It just it was just like a lot like I
think I was just donned. It was kind of like
a train wreck kind of thing. I was just watching it.
Speaker 6 (07:23):
And I just can't I just can't stop thinking about it.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Okay, let me ask you this, Erika. This will help
me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt?
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Oh? Well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,
you know, two.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
Three flavors that like all make sense together, but no toppings.
I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like,
let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like
some fresh strawberries on it or something like that that
makes sense, Like I do a couple of things.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Yeah, no, no, I get it now. Her closet is
like it's color coordinating.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
It is actually yeah, see Okay, it just needed to understand. Okay,
why the chaos. The chaos is a good word for it.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, that's the reason that you're ghosting is because of
the toppings on his froyo.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
I was just kind of picturing, you know how, like
there's those people at the like soda fountains that they
get like a splash of every single flavor in the
cup like that always.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
Okay, I do that too.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
What.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah, it's a very incoction. It's called a Nina.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
I understand you called your name like Nina aid, do
you know like lemonade was like?
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Anyways, Erica, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
I should also let you know that Remy is on
the phone listening and wants to talk.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
To a little.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
So yeah, I guess I kind of like you could
say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt, like you've heard
of the kid in the candy store, while I'm like
the man in the frog place, like I just can't
make my mind. So I guess maybe I don't want
to hold on the date, so deciding I just sided
a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
I don't think you need to apologize.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I don't know. I'm just pretty offended.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
So I love it.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
Okay, So I clarification, I'm so sorry. I was not offended.
I was just blown away flesh. My mind is just
blown Like I don't think I had the power to
think after that.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza
or something, but you know, I like to order a
lot of topics on.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Those too, So I was gonna say, like, how many
topics go on your pizza?
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Like are you one of those people that put party
concina butter or something, but maybe.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Some sausage and pine apple and green pepper and onion
and Canadian bacon and taco and you know, pepperoni and
black ollows, green olives, So not too many mushrooms, but
not too many toppings.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
But I.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
Don't know like that well at least like with Pizza's
you can usually order like a half and half.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
So but yeah, so it was just a proio huh.
Like it was really kind of just going around an
ear from you. Oh, Like I wasn't really like ghosting
me because of it. I just got in my head.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
About it, and then I honestly I meant to get
back to you, and then I.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Just I didn't like that.
Speaker 6 (10:23):
That's what like, I wish I had a better use,
I wish I had a clever and I have nne.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
It was just, would you like to go out with
me again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay
for most of it. I don't know how much is
FROO cost if you guys get FROO, but we'll pay
for it.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I mean, I guess the bag.
Speaker 6 (10:39):
Your question is like, is he willing to go out
with me again?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
That's fair?
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Yeah, you know that, uh pizza with the twenty toppings
sounded pretty good now, so that'd be awesome.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just don't.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Get the twenty topping pizza. I like to be good
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