May 3, 2023 • 27 mins
This week Curly and Maya want to know if they've ever been in love for real, or if they were just high... or both! What does it mean to be truly in love? How do the hormones and the chemicals in our bodies and brain affect how we see people and relationships. It's about to get real, and we've saved a spot for you at the Super Secret Bestie Club. Get in here!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, what are you doing in here? And what's the password?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I love him?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
No, you don't love him, You're you're high, but daddy,
I love him, or you're just high.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm high a little bit of both.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Maybe get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
My name is Curly and I'm Maya and welcome to
the Super Secret Pstie Clubs Podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets. Ah Here we are
again talk about love and my favorite topic in the
whole wide world.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Sonnis Holly Sylvie Shelby is a song called It's Like
the Romantic Friend Song. When I was in Paris, did
you find Love?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
In Paris?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I saw Redney the Rat of Tuey.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Does it make you feel love?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
When I saw Reddy the ratitui at the fucking Eiffel Tower,
ro wow, I know, Okay. During I was with these
people and they're like they're like these white people, like
Americans and never have been in a hood before, and
was just like just weirded out. And we were there
(01:21):
at night at like two am, and these guys tried
to fight the guy that we were with, and I
was like, oh my gosh, we're about to get into
a fight get murdered at the Eiffel Tower.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Oh, Remy, that's actually a good way to go. I
would think that if you were slain in front of
the Eiffel Tower and Remy is just over your dead,
bloody body and it's a rat.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
And then when I went to Disneyland the other day,
I saw another rat. I saw a mouse, an actual rat,
a mouse.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
It was a mouse, like a like a wild one.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Oh yeah. That's why they supposed that they have like
cats at Disneyland, right.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Because the cats help kill them and the cats are
like very like luxurious sidebar.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Can I just say that, I don't. I think we
talked about this before I called you on the phone.
I'm not a cat person. I'm there be a cat person.
But all I do on Instagram now is watch cat
videos because they're hilarious. Cats are so funny, Like I don't,
I don't know. I have dogs that have dogs in
my whole life, but cats just.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Like when they take their paw and they're like like,
don't do it, and they're.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like yeah, I just I saw one yesterday where he
was like curious about what was in the drawer, and
the drawer started to open, and it was like whoa,
And I was like, this is just hours of entertainments.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
What are we talking about today?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Today we're talking about am I in love? Or am
I high? I basically I was thinking, like when you
fall in love, you kind of feel like you're high,
Like sometimes when you're so in love you just can't
think straight. And it was reminding me a little bit
about like when I was first going sober, when I
was craving alcohol, when I was craving drugs, or even
sometimes my addiction to UH because once I went over,
(02:59):
I started to develop an addiction to food and I
gained forty pounds, and so I like think about, oh,
it's what is it? And I started to do more
research and I started to find a lot of fun stuff.
But I wanted to ask you before I get into that,
what do you feel when you're in love? How do
you know when you're in love?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's been a such it's been a I also I
am high. It's been such a long time that I
don't think I remember. Thank you for using a coaster.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah, I'm drinking coffee as usual in case I forgot.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
My coaster, but thank you for using one.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Absolutely, I'm a virgo anyways, So then what happens.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I don't, I just I don't know. I don't. I
don't remember, but I think it's like, yeah, you're a
little like cuckoo. Like there's birds flying around everywhere. There's hearts,
like animated hearts and birds. Yeah, suddenly the world is okay,
and like somebody cut you off in traffic. I don't
even freaking care because I'm in love, Like who cares?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
When I'm in love, I feel like I there's two
things I get, like crushes, and I'm like, oh my god,
I got They're so cute. When I'm in love, I
start to virgo the like the life in my idea,
like oh, I really like I like, I know that
Maya likes to make music, or you know, let's say
like Maya is a guy, Like I'm like, oh, he
likes to make music, and da da da, and so
(04:23):
what can I do to I start to think in
terms of gifts or how who do I know that
does music? Or how can I make collaboration? I start
to help like my love language is like life in planning.
And so once I start to do that, I start
to know like acts of service, access service, like oh,
I'm like, oh I'm in love, yeah, act of service.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Yeah, because you don't do that for normal people.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
I don't do that. Ever. I am terrible at gift giving.
I'm terrible at remembering birthdays Christmas. I'm like, can we
just kip it? Why do I have to buy you
a gift?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Can I just take a birthday?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
March twenty fifth?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh wow, Oh that's because you saw my flyer for
my invitation.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
This is true. I just saw her birthday in writing.
But I started to kind of think about, like all
the different things that I do. I do remember that
the first time I ever felt like, oh I am
in love was I was in the third grade. And
again I I'm friends with this individual. His name is
William Wren. Shout out to William Wren.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
William Moran. I've heard your name so many times.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Friendship there he there. We were to eight years old
to eight years old?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Are you hired me?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Am?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
I right?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
We both you hire him? We both had crooked ass teeth.
I remember, like we both had the bugs bunny teeth.
I had like gaps, like we were eight years old,
and I would.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Love to see your teeth before braces.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Oh my god, you're.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
So perfect now. And the fact that, like you said,
the crooked I want to see that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
But I remember William had a front one that was
kind of twisted a little bit, like he had the
two buck teeth. I fell in love, and I so
to plan our little third grade life together for the
rest of it. I think he was like whatever he
was into, I was into too, and I just would
think about him all the time, and up until the
eighth grade, I would write him all these love letters,
every song that I thought about, movies, different things. I
(06:13):
just imagined I was plugging me and him in like
I was the Moon Princess in Sailor Moon and he
was Toxedo Mask. He was Damien and we were gonna
like live our lives together in Crystal Tokyo, Sailor Moon.
Thank you? What about you?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Okay, Nerd. I remember in the third grade, Ivan Garcia,
Ivan Garcia, Okay, we this is dumb, This is so cringe,
this is peak cringe. Well not really, but this is
how I knew that I was meant to be on
(06:50):
like the cringe pathway. You know, we were like dating
and are great eight years.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Old third grade Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
And I had, you know, my notebook. He was like
one of many crushes. I loved Alex Rego, Ivan Garcia,
obviously Sean just be all, just because these guys were
just like like protecting me from bullies, they like me, kneing,
they like me. So I had like these rings, and
(07:28):
I gave a ring to Ivan and I had one too.
I'm like, we can wear them as like.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
What is not is not?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And then, like I remember, we would spend hours on
the phone and then we'd never talk to each other again.
So I think I'm not actually single. I'm accidentally still
in a relationship with Ivan Garcia, even if you're out there, Wait,
even if you're out there, I publicly make being up
(08:00):
with you on this pod. And I want my rings back.
I want my rings back. It's so dumb, the things
you do for love.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Oh my god, So I was gonna say this, So
it's safe to say that you were I have always
been a romantic. Yeah, So going into like what love
(08:36):
actually is, there's a lot of studies that show that
your brain actually goes through a phase, like a legit phase,
and when they go to compare what your brain is
doing to comparing it to a brain of people who
are in a relationship right now, or people who are
like they've been in it, or people who are in lust,
(08:58):
like they're just here for the pujangela and then they're
out of here. It's very different. It's very unique, right,
And so I was such do researchers it's And on
CNN they were talking about how researchers have included that
falling in love is much like this is much like
the sensation of feeling addicted to drugs with the release
of euphoria, including brain chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and adrenaline
(09:20):
and vasopressin. I don't know what that means. But not
only is it releasing all these different chemicals into your brain,
but the other thing that's fascinating is like there's two
different parts of your brain. One gets activated and one
gets deactivated. So like different parts of your brain that
allow you to kind of decipher whether someone is a
good person or not a good person gets like, so.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I deactivated this entire time, Yes.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
You get deactivated. So you're like you're kind of clouded,
and then the parts of you that are kind of
activated is like the reward system. This is like another
Harvard study, by the way, So the same parts of
your brain that seek out pleasure like set eating food
or even drug use are like activated when you fall
(10:04):
in love. It's like the same kind of chemicals. It's
the same kind of portions of your mind, so you
seek it out more. It is like a hit of
a drug. It is like going for another cookie. You know.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
I have been in love with Joe Jonas for very
long time, a long time, so I think that's why
I've been detached and haven't been picking like great people.
And as we discussed before, I'm still kind of in
a relationship that's been going on since I was eight
years old.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Ivan Garcia, Ivan Garcia, do you know where Ivan Garcia
is now?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
No? But you shorter than me, A short king.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
I wish that you could see how Maya's eyes like
got big they went A short.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
King, and I've been, yeah, a short king.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
I find that that all of those things, by the way,
that when I fall in love, those are all real things.
They kind of like cloud you in a way where
you feel kind of like a little obsessed where you're.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Like, yeah, you can get very obsessive.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
When's the less time you felt that actual human?
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I don't even know. It's been a lot that she's.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Into like weird like animals or anything. I was thinking cartoons.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Oh, I didn't even take that.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I didn't even think where the last time that you
were in love with an actual human? It was like
that shade went.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Over my head and I was like, what have I
been in love with an actual human? That was rude.
I don't think I've been in love since like years.
It's been years. I think I went into like a
little like reclose healing pod from like I think after
(11:47):
twenty twenty to now, and now I'm coming out like
like I have to redefine all that stuff now because
it's just not I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Is trying to look into her enter her past and
trying to I can't find it if she's ever been
like this, Like, but.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
I can give you an answer, Oh yeah, yeah, I'm see.
In twenty eighteen, I started dating. I can't call her
with the frog anymore.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Oh, because we've healed since season one.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I apologize it kind of. I don't know. I don't
think he was in love with me at all, but
then I maybe I do think that I was kind
of in love with him because it was something that
just ended and then we were like friends for years,
which is torture. But I don't know if that was love.
I think before that, Oh man, it's been a while.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
I feel like I'm currently in love right now.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Yeah, you are.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
You know, I'm definitely in love. I'm very like and
I think that part of that being in love is
I feel a lot of the symptoms of like, which
we'll get to later, which are some signs of, you know,
having the back and forth, the roller coaster of emotions,
having uh, feeling the connection when you're with the person,
(13:12):
the rise of truly the chemicals of just being in
physical contact with this individual, thinking about your future together,
really kind of being like well, which, by the way, sidewark,
people actually have trouble knowing when they're in love.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Because I don't. I don't. I don't think I know anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, I think people actually like they will sometimes misconstrue
because I love you know, when those chemicals are activated,
it does cause like sweaty palms, It causes like different,
uh things to happen, like so that you might think
that you're getting anxiety with this person right now, they're not.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
But as you're sitting right next to me talking about
being in love.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Hmm, if you think about it, like share from Clueless,
which she realized that she's in love with her stepbrother.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
God, I love Josh her stepbrother.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Yeah, she's in love with movies in the nineties.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
By the way that she's only sixteen.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
She's in love with her.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Stepbrother and he's eighteen and.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Also never been kissed. The teacher is in love with
Josie Rosie and she's his student anyways. So basically to
answer the question like are you higher you in love,
it's kind of a little bit of both. Your brain
is literally high right now, well, your brain is double
high right now.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
It's a little bit.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
But what do you think about this information? Like how
does this? How does that?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
It makes sense? Because you feel like not in your
right mind, you feel very much like I don't. I
mean because I think before I've gone to therapy and stuff,
I used to get very jealous and maybe like possessive.
Is that love?
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Actually, those are some of the symptoms that I was
reading is part of what kind of determines if. Yeah,
it is a part of unfortunately, because I think that
also brings up a different aspect of like are you
healthy in love? Are you toxic in love? Because I
think that toxic and love can make you do a
lot of creepy things like startup in stuff. Not that
(15:13):
we do that here. No one has a fake Instagram
in this house.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
That's not I don't or you know.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Show up at an nexus place or do things that
are problematic. No, I have way too much pride to
show up at a excess place unannounced, like.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Oh, I wouldn't never.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Way too much pride.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I'm like throw teepy or teepe their house.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Yes, I've never do that either. I've never did. I
have way too much pride to do different things like that.
But yeah, there's also the differences of being toxic in
love and healthy and love and healthy in love. I
think if you are aware of these certain things, if
you're aware that you're having kind of like obsessive thoughts
about the individual, if you're aware that you're being activated
(15:57):
in different ways, it's important to be like, oh, I
think I'm falling in love with this person, but I
need to be mindful of how I'm doing it and
how I'm going about it, because you also don't want
to lose yourself in love. You don't want to lose
yourself in and.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
I think that's been like my biggest fear is, like
I feel like I lost myself in like the two
relationships that were very influential to the rest of my life.
And I think that's something that I'm like, man, right now,
it's kind of a fear because I'm like, I created
this beautiful life and like I have a cool apartment
(16:29):
and I have my shit together and then to kind
of let somebody else in. Yeah, I'm like, and I'm
an artist. We're artists. We're emotional. Oh man, I can't
be anything but dramatic.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yeah, well you're in aries too, with a lot of
water in your.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Chart as well, with an aries Venus and an aries moon.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Wow. So I think the thing is is that you
have to practice falling in love like love really is.
I have been toxic in love before I've done like,
And I think growing up Latino as well, Latine Latina
latinxt or you kind of grow up thinking that watching
novelas or watching the passionate very Is that an earthquake? No,
(17:12):
it's ramon kind of a vibe. That's a Romey Michelle reference.
But like, you know, you're just like I remember I
had one boyfriend where when we would fight, he would
found his chest. He would be like, because I love you,
he would do this, and I fucking love a one
three beapre code for I love you in the name.
(17:36):
So yeah, I mean I was into that, and I
think as I've gotten older, as I've practiced, I realized
that I actually don't want a man who's beating his
chest when he's I would like a man who can
use his words and convey certain things and be like
I still like larger than life, like chival chivalrous actions
and movement. I just got really distracted. I really like
(17:59):
your what is that thing that your TV's on your
TV console?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
TV console?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Yeah, I like it. It's pretty. And then I like, yeah,
I think that you have to do that find a
way because when you meet the one, when you find
the person that you're going to fall in love with
and be with, I think you owe it to both
of yourselves to have a healthy representation and a healthy
idea of what it looks like to be in love,
what it looks like to stay in love, and what
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it looks like to do loving thing.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
You're so insightful, all right?
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Are you ready for some signs that Some signs that
you're in love include.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Emotional instability people don't eat or sleep sometimes when there
is a setback, but also you for it or increase
energy when things go right. By reading my notes and choosing,
are you thinking a lot about this part?
Speaker 1 (19:05):
According to Live science dot com, by the way these
I picked some of the more toxic things.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Finish, Yeah, but future planning, I ain't thinking about your
future the other person a lot.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
And then I picked two like more neutral.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Ones aligning interest, Yeah, feelings of empathy.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
So emotional and emotional instability. Although that sounds terrible, like
you know you're maybe you might be not able to
you might not be able to sleep or eat, or
you can't stop thinking about it, that actually makes you
come back for the for the high.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I do all of this with every single person ever.
I have every single.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Crush instability by myself.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
That's that's you're do I fall in love with every
single person. Is that what I'm that is that what
you're saying.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
I mean you might that might offer you some context
and clues into the way that you love people.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Context clues, yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Like also euphoria. Oh and then also you get like
levels of euphoria or increased energy when things go right.
So the high highs and the low lows can actually
create this thing of like you needing to take a
hit of somebody as if they are a drug.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
So seel it a little bit attacked right now.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah. The other one is intrusive thoughts. Are you thinking
a lot about this person and not always in a
healthy way, Like are you thinking about them in a
way that you're just like where are they? What are
they doing? I wonder what they're doing? Or are you
just kind of like, oh, do they like me? Are
they into me? Like these thoughts that kind of take
over your mind. There's a lot of statistics actually that
show that it's something weird, like a thirty five percent
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or seventy five percent that people get really into who
they are in love with, like thinking about them. And
I do that when I'm in love. If I hear
a love song, I'm like that's about me, And huh,
you know, I don't want to say his name but
I'm like, that's about me and you. And if I
watch a movie like you recommended the other day to
watch this rom com and I watch and I was like,
(21:04):
that movie's about me?
Speaker 2 (21:07):
You in Hall Hall?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Yeah, you know, aligning interest, that's boring, that's the same,
you know, do you guys have things in common? Do
you guys have common goals? And then feelings of empathy
is just like do I feel for the individual like
when they're hurt, when they're upset? Do I care enough?
Like do I care about that person enough to help
them when they're like sad or excited? And that those
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are some signs that you're in love. Basically I didn't
put them off. There's like twelve. But check out the
website live science dot com, which I don't know if
it's a credible source not sponsored. Here you ready for
the zodiac section?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Hey, everyone, come on down to the zodiac section of
the podcast Love Edition, Love Edition.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Am I in love or am I high?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Which sign makes me feel in love?
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Or high?
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Okay? So which signs make me feel and love? Are high?
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Pieces make me feel high all the time, even if
they're not.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Pieces are high all the time. They literally live in
like the like, yeah, I feel like enchanted the movie
like where everything's a fairy tale. That's the Pisce's brain.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yeah, and I'm half Pisces. Yeah, so yes, I agree.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yeah, Like those birds are not talking to you, but
in your head, they're singing to.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
You and they're real, and I believe for you that
they're real. I believe you that you believe that they're real. Yeah,
you know what about you? What signs?
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I mean? I think that for me, which signs are
high or are they in love? It's like, huh, who
would I pick? Pisces for sure? Probably all the water signs,
cancers like Scorpios, Scorpios. I'm like, are you hiring and love? Like? Oh,
I just picture them in their bedroom, like writing in
their notebook and getting what aries aries are?
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Just why did you make that face when I swing?
Speaker 1 (23:01):
I mad like a stink? I faced when I'm like
aries aris, I feel like, just like are always high,
like with their emotion. It's just the highs and the
all the fiery emotions and the passion. It's like, you're
probably just high in your brain.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
You're high in your brain. You need to be Virgos
need to be high in their brain.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
If I could show you a virgo's butthole, it is
turning coals into diamonds. If we were a fruit, it
would be a raisin. So yeah, I think you're right.
I think Virgos do need to be uh, we need
to loosen up a little bit in terms of like
are we high or in love? But when I'm in love,
I'm in love and I'm and you you got me,
(23:43):
you got man?
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Basically which signs are high in love all the time? Pisces? Sorry, Pisces,
and I think Leo's but I think they're high in
love with themselves all the time?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Is that true?
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Basically In conclusion, Pisce's rule, the love, oh man, the
love everything, Pisces.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Look, I think if we're going to talk about, if
you're asking me curly, do you think I'm hiring and love? Pisces,
take a breath, take a breath, do it? Yes? And
then if you want to figure out if you're just
in your fields or if you really love this person,
take some time, let them show you who they are.
Take it slow, and.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
I have a question for them. Yeah, are you in
love with the fantasy that you created or the actual person? Yeah,
more than likely it's your fantasy that you created because
you're an amazing artist.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
And you don't need to double text. Don't double text,
just let them text once and keep it short, keep
it cute. Tell you that brain, Tell that high as brain,
that cracked out pisces in love brain that it's going
to be over me. Okay, you got this, put that
phone down.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Delete your finstas cirl, Oh my god, lop checking his
activity on Venmo. Okay, anyway, and that concludes the zodiac
section of the podcast.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
In full. Look, I think that sometimes being in love
is scary for us. We don't know what it means.
We don't know what's going to do to us, to
our emotions and our life. But understanding that half of
it is you, but the other part is literally your brain.
It's something that's developed through evolution. Humans are meant to
fall in love, They're meant to seek out pleasure, they're
meant to go out there, and I think practicing it,
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it's healthy, it's fun. It hurts sometimes, but I think
what's the point of being alive if you can't get
in there, fall in love, get your heart broken, and
then get up and do it again.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
And again I've in Garcia. I would just like to
reiterate that we are no longer a couple anymore, and
you can reach out to my manager to figure out
my address to get me back those rings.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
What if you saw him and he was like, Hella
fucking fine now though, and he.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Gave me the ring, so I'd be like, I accept short,
king accept.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
Well, Maya, Where can people find you on social media?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
You can find me at Maya in the Moment, m
a ya in the Moment, on everywhere that is the
social media.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
And you can find me on social media at the
Curly V show, vias in Victor or Victoria or Valentine. Oh,
I have a new sneak named Valentine anyways on Instagram, Yeah,
I guess Instagram and TikTok and feel free to send
us ideas for shows, leave comments, send us dms. Thank
you so much for listening. Again, We really appreciate you
(26:42):
so much. We love you, we love you, and we're
not high we genuinely love you or where we were
high in love with you.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Love you bye. Make sure to hit that subscribe button
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Speaker 1 (27:06):
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
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Hey, what are you doing in here? And what's the password?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I love him?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
No, you don't love him, You're you're high, but daddy,
I love him, or you're just high.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I'm high a little bit of both.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Maybe get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
My name is Curly and I'm Maya and welcome to
the Super Secret Pstie Clubs Podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets. Ah Here we are
again talk about love and my favorite topic in the
whole wide world.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Sonnis Holly Sylvie Shelby is a song called It's Like
the Romantic Friend Song. When I was in Paris, did
you find Love?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
In Paris?
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I saw Redney the Rat of Tuey.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Does it make you feel love?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
When I saw Reddy the ratitui at the fucking Eiffel Tower,
ro wow, I know, Okay. During I was with these
people and they're like they're like these white people, like
Americans and never have been in a hood before, and
was just like just weirded out. And we were there
(01:21):
at night at like two am, and these guys tried
to fight the guy that we were with, and I
was like, oh my gosh, we're about to get into
a fight get murdered at the Eiffel Tower.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Oh, Remy, that's actually a good way to go. I
would think that if you were slain in front of
the Eiffel Tower and Remy is just over your dead,
bloody body and it's a rat.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
And then when I went to Disneyland the other day,
I saw another rat. I saw a mouse, an actual rat,
a mouse.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
It was a mouse, like a like a wild one.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Oh yeah. That's why they supposed that they have like
cats at Disneyland, right.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Because the cats help kill them and the cats are
like very like luxurious sidebar.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Can I just say that, I don't. I think we
talked about this before I called you on the phone.
I'm not a cat person. I'm there be a cat person.
But all I do on Instagram now is watch cat
videos because they're hilarious. Cats are so funny, Like I don't,
I don't know. I have dogs that have dogs in
my whole life, but cats just.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Like when they take their paw and they're like like,
don't do it, and they're.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like yeah, I just I saw one yesterday where he
was like curious about what was in the drawer, and
the drawer started to open, and it was like whoa,
And I was like, this is just hours of entertainments.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
What are we talking about today?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Today we're talking about am I in love? Or am
I high? I basically I was thinking, like when you
fall in love, you kind of feel like you're high,
Like sometimes when you're so in love you just can't
think straight. And it was reminding me a little bit
about like when I was first going sober, when I
was craving alcohol, when I was craving drugs, or even
sometimes my addiction to UH because once I went over,
(02:59):
I started to develop an addiction to food and I
gained forty pounds, and so I like think about, oh,
it's what is it? And I started to do more
research and I started to find a lot of fun stuff.
But I wanted to ask you before I get into that,
what do you feel when you're in love? How do
you know when you're in love?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's been a such it's been a I also I
am high. It's been such a long time that I
don't think I remember. Thank you for using a coaster.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah, I'm drinking coffee as usual in case I forgot.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
My coaster, but thank you for using one.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Absolutely, I'm a virgo anyways, So then what happens.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
I don't, I just I don't know. I don't. I
don't remember, but I think it's like, yeah, you're a
little like cuckoo. Like there's birds flying around everywhere. There's hearts,
like animated hearts and birds. Yeah, suddenly the world is okay,
and like somebody cut you off in traffic. I don't
even freaking care because I'm in love, Like who cares?
Speaker 1 (04:02):
When I'm in love, I feel like I there's two
things I get, like crushes, and I'm like, oh my god,
I got They're so cute. When I'm in love, I
start to virgo the like the life in my idea,
like oh, I really like I like, I know that
Maya likes to make music, or you know, let's say
like Maya is a guy, Like I'm like, oh, he
likes to make music, and da da da, and so
(04:23):
what can I do to I start to think in
terms of gifts or how who do I know that
does music? Or how can I make collaboration? I start
to help like my love language is like life in planning.
And so once I start to do that, I start
to know like acts of service, access service, like oh,
I'm like, oh I'm in love, yeah, act of service.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Yeah, because you don't do that for normal people.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
I don't do that. Ever. I am terrible at gift giving.
I'm terrible at remembering birthdays Christmas. I'm like, can we
just kip it? Why do I have to buy you
a gift?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Can I just take a birthday?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
March twenty fifth?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Oh wow, Oh that's because you saw my flyer for
my invitation.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
This is true. I just saw her birthday in writing.
But I started to kind of think about, like all
the different things that I do. I do remember that
the first time I ever felt like, oh I am
in love was I was in the third grade. And
again I I'm friends with this individual. His name is
William Wren. Shout out to William Wren.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
William Moran. I've heard your name so many times.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Friendship there he there. We were to eight years old
to eight years old?
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Are you hired me?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Am?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
I right?
Speaker 1 (05:31):
We both you hire him? We both had crooked ass teeth.
I remember, like we both had the bugs bunny teeth.
I had like gaps, like we were eight years old,
and I would.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Love to see your teeth before braces.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Oh my god, you're.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
So perfect now. And the fact that, like you said,
the crooked I want to see that.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
But I remember William had a front one that was
kind of twisted a little bit, like he had the
two buck teeth. I fell in love, and I so
to plan our little third grade life together for the
rest of it. I think he was like whatever he
was into, I was into too, and I just would
think about him all the time, and up until the
eighth grade, I would write him all these love letters,
every song that I thought about, movies, different things. I
(06:13):
just imagined I was plugging me and him in like
I was the Moon Princess in Sailor Moon and he
was Toxedo Mask. He was Damien and we were gonna
like live our lives together in Crystal Tokyo, Sailor Moon.
Thank you? What about you?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Okay, Nerd. I remember in the third grade, Ivan Garcia,
Ivan Garcia, Okay, we this is dumb, This is so cringe,
this is peak cringe. Well not really, but this is
how I knew that I was meant to be on
(06:50):
like the cringe pathway. You know, we were like dating
and are great eight years.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Old third grade Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
And I had, you know, my notebook. He was like
one of many crushes. I loved Alex Rego, Ivan Garcia,
obviously Sean just be all, just because these guys were
just like like protecting me from bullies, they like me, kneing,
they like me. So I had like these rings, and
(07:28):
I gave a ring to Ivan and I had one too.
I'm like, we can wear them as like.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
What is not is not?
Speaker 2 (07:39):
And then, like I remember, we would spend hours on
the phone and then we'd never talk to each other again.
So I think I'm not actually single. I'm accidentally still
in a relationship with Ivan Garcia, even if you're out there, Wait,
even if you're out there, I publicly make being up
(08:00):
with you on this pod. And I want my rings back.
I want my rings back. It's so dumb, the things
you do for love.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Oh my god, So I was gonna say this, So
it's safe to say that you were I have always
been a romantic. Yeah, So going into like what love
(08:36):
actually is, there's a lot of studies that show that
your brain actually goes through a phase, like a legit phase,
and when they go to compare what your brain is
doing to comparing it to a brain of people who
are in a relationship right now, or people who are
like they've been in it, or people who are in lust,
(08:58):
like they're just here for the pujangela and then they're
out of here. It's very different. It's very unique, right,
And so I was such do researchers it's And on
CNN they were talking about how researchers have included that
falling in love is much like this is much like
the sensation of feeling addicted to drugs with the release
of euphoria, including brain chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and adrenaline
(09:20):
and vasopressin. I don't know what that means. But not
only is it releasing all these different chemicals into your brain,
but the other thing that's fascinating is like there's two
different parts of your brain. One gets activated and one
gets deactivated. So like different parts of your brain that
allow you to kind of decipher whether someone is a
good person or not a good person gets like, so.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I deactivated this entire time, Yes.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
You get deactivated. So you're like you're kind of clouded,
and then the parts of you that are kind of
activated is like the reward system. This is like another
Harvard study, by the way, So the same parts of
your brain that seek out pleasure like set eating food
or even drug use are like activated when you fall
(10:04):
in love. It's like the same kind of chemicals. It's
the same kind of portions of your mind, so you
seek it out more. It is like a hit of
a drug. It is like going for another cookie. You know.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
I have been in love with Joe Jonas for very
long time, a long time, so I think that's why
I've been detached and haven't been picking like great people.
And as we discussed before, I'm still kind of in
a relationship that's been going on since I was eight
years old.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Ivan Garcia, Ivan Garcia, do you know where Ivan Garcia
is now?
Speaker 2 (10:37):
No? But you shorter than me, A short king.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
I wish that you could see how Maya's eyes like
got big they went A short.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
King, and I've been, yeah, a short king.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
I find that that all of those things, by the way,
that when I fall in love, those are all real things.
They kind of like cloud you in a way where
you feel kind of like a little obsessed where you're.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Like, yeah, you can get very obsessive.
Speaker 1 (11:05):
When's the less time you felt that actual human?
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I don't even know. It's been a lot that she's.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Into like weird like animals or anything. I was thinking cartoons.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Oh, I didn't even take that.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
I didn't even think where the last time that you
were in love with an actual human? It was like
that shade went.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Over my head and I was like, what have I
been in love with an actual human? That was rude.
I don't think I've been in love since like years.
It's been years. I think I went into like a
little like reclose healing pod from like I think after
(11:47):
twenty twenty to now, and now I'm coming out like
like I have to redefine all that stuff now because
it's just not I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Is trying to look into her enter her past and
trying to I can't find it if she's ever been
like this, Like, but.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
I can give you an answer, Oh yeah, yeah, I'm see.
In twenty eighteen, I started dating. I can't call her
with the frog anymore.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
Oh, because we've healed since season one.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
I apologize it kind of. I don't know. I don't
think he was in love with me at all, but
then I maybe I do think that I was kind
of in love with him because it was something that
just ended and then we were like friends for years,
which is torture. But I don't know if that was love.
I think before that, Oh man, it's been a while.
Speaker 1 (12:44):
I feel like I'm currently in love right now.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Yeah, you are.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
You know, I'm definitely in love. I'm very like and
I think that part of that being in love is
I feel a lot of the symptoms of like, which
we'll get to later, which are some signs of, you know,
having the back and forth, the roller coaster of emotions,
having uh, feeling the connection when you're with the person,
(13:12):
the rise of truly the chemicals of just being in
physical contact with this individual, thinking about your future together,
really kind of being like well, which, by the way, sidewark,
people actually have trouble knowing when they're in love.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Because I don't. I don't. I don't think I know anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, I think people actually like they will sometimes misconstrue
because I love you know, when those chemicals are activated,
it does cause like sweaty palms, It causes like different,
uh things to happen, like so that you might think
that you're getting anxiety with this person right now, they're not.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
But as you're sitting right next to me talking about
being in love.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Hmm, if you think about it, like share from Clueless,
which she realized that she's in love with her stepbrother.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
God, I love Josh her stepbrother.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Yeah, she's in love with movies in the nineties.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
By the way that she's only sixteen.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
She's in love with her.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Stepbrother and he's eighteen and.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Also never been kissed. The teacher is in love with
Josie Rosie and she's his student anyways. So basically to
answer the question like are you higher you in love,
it's kind of a little bit of both. Your brain
is literally high right now, well, your brain is double
high right now.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
It's a little bit.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
But what do you think about this information? Like how
does this? How does that?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
It makes sense? Because you feel like not in your
right mind, you feel very much like I don't. I
mean because I think before I've gone to therapy and stuff,
I used to get very jealous and maybe like possessive.
Is that love?
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Actually, those are some of the symptoms that I was
reading is part of what kind of determines if. Yeah,
it is a part of unfortunately, because I think that
also brings up a different aspect of like are you
healthy in love? Are you toxic in love? Because I
think that toxic and love can make you do a
lot of creepy things like startup in stuff. Not that
(15:13):
we do that here. No one has a fake Instagram
in this house.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
That's not I don't or you know.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Show up at an nexus place or do things that
are problematic. No, I have way too much pride to
show up at a excess place unannounced, like.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Oh, I wouldn't never.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Way too much pride.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I'm like throw teepy or teepe their house.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Yes, I've never do that either. I've never did. I
have way too much pride to do different things like that.
But yeah, there's also the differences of being toxic in
love and healthy and love and healthy in love. I
think if you are aware of these certain things, if
you're aware that you're having kind of like obsessive thoughts
about the individual, if you're aware that you're being activated
(15:57):
in different ways, it's important to be like, oh, I
think I'm falling in love with this person, but I
need to be mindful of how I'm doing it and
how I'm going about it, because you also don't want
to lose yourself in love. You don't want to lose
yourself in and.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
I think that's been like my biggest fear is, like
I feel like I lost myself in like the two
relationships that were very influential to the rest of my life.
And I think that's something that I'm like, man, right now,
it's kind of a fear because I'm like, I created
this beautiful life and like I have a cool apartment
(16:29):
and I have my shit together and then to kind
of let somebody else in. Yeah, I'm like, and I'm
an artist. We're artists. We're emotional. Oh man, I can't
be anything but dramatic.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yeah, well you're in aries too, with a lot of
water in your.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Chart as well, with an aries Venus and an aries moon.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Wow. So I think the thing is is that you
have to practice falling in love like love really is.
I have been toxic in love before I've done like,
And I think growing up Latino as well, Latine Latina
latinxt or you kind of grow up thinking that watching
novelas or watching the passionate very Is that an earthquake? No,
(17:12):
it's ramon kind of a vibe. That's a Romey Michelle reference.
But like, you know, you're just like I remember I
had one boyfriend where when we would fight, he would
found his chest. He would be like, because I love you,
he would do this, and I fucking love a one
three beapre code for I love you in the name.
(17:36):
So yeah, I mean I was into that, and I
think as I've gotten older, as I've practiced, I realized
that I actually don't want a man who's beating his
chest when he's I would like a man who can
use his words and convey certain things and be like
I still like larger than life, like chival chivalrous actions
and movement. I just got really distracted. I really like
(17:59):
your what is that thing that your TV's on your
TV console?
Speaker 2 (18:03):
TV console?
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Yeah, I like it. It's pretty. And then I like, yeah,
I think that you have to do that find a
way because when you meet the one, when you find
the person that you're going to fall in love with
and be with, I think you owe it to both
of yourselves to have a healthy representation and a healthy
idea of what it looks like to be in love,
what it looks like to stay in love, and what
(18:26):
it looks like to do loving thing.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
You're so insightful, all right?
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Are you ready for some signs that Some signs that
you're in love include.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Emotional instability people don't eat or sleep sometimes when there
is a setback, but also you for it or increase
energy when things go right. By reading my notes and choosing,
are you thinking a lot about this part?
Speaker 1 (19:05):
According to Live science dot com, by the way these
I picked some of the more toxic things.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Finish, Yeah, but future planning, I ain't thinking about your
future the other person a lot.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
And then I picked two like more neutral.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Ones aligning interest, Yeah, feelings of empathy.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
So emotional and emotional instability. Although that sounds terrible, like
you know you're maybe you might be not able to
you might not be able to sleep or eat, or
you can't stop thinking about it, that actually makes you
come back for the for the high.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I do all of this with every single person ever.
I have every single.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Crush instability by myself.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
That's that's you're do I fall in love with every
single person. Is that what I'm that is that what
you're saying.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
I mean you might that might offer you some context
and clues into the way that you love people.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Context clues, yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Like also euphoria. Oh and then also you get like
levels of euphoria or increased energy when things go right.
So the high highs and the low lows can actually
create this thing of like you needing to take a
hit of somebody as if they are a drug.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
So seel it a little bit attacked right now.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah. The other one is intrusive thoughts. Are you thinking
a lot about this person and not always in a
healthy way, Like are you thinking about them in a
way that you're just like where are they? What are
they doing? I wonder what they're doing? Or are you
just kind of like, oh, do they like me? Are
they into me? Like these thoughts that kind of take
over your mind. There's a lot of statistics actually that
show that it's something weird, like a thirty five percent
(20:44):
or seventy five percent that people get really into who
they are in love with, like thinking about them. And
I do that when I'm in love. If I hear
a love song, I'm like that's about me, And huh,
you know, I don't want to say his name but
I'm like, that's about me and you. And if I
watch a movie like you recommended the other day to
watch this rom com and I watch and I was like,
(21:04):
that movie's about me?
Speaker 2 (21:07):
You in Hall Hall?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Yeah, you know, aligning interest, that's boring, that's the same,
you know, do you guys have things in common? Do
you guys have common goals? And then feelings of empathy
is just like do I feel for the individual like
when they're hurt, when they're upset? Do I care enough?
Like do I care about that person enough to help
them when they're like sad or excited? And that those
(21:29):
are some signs that you're in love. Basically I didn't
put them off. There's like twelve. But check out the
website live science dot com, which I don't know if
it's a credible source not sponsored. Here you ready for
the zodiac section?
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Hey, everyone, come on down to the zodiac section of
the podcast Love Edition, Love Edition.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Am I in love or am I high?
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Which sign makes me feel in love?
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Or high?
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Okay? So which signs make me feel and love? Are high?
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Pieces make me feel high all the time, even if
they're not.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
Pieces are high all the time. They literally live in
like the like, yeah, I feel like enchanted the movie
like where everything's a fairy tale. That's the Pisce's brain.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yeah, and I'm half Pisces. Yeah, so yes, I agree.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yeah, Like those birds are not talking to you, but
in your head, they're singing to.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
You and they're real, and I believe for you that
they're real. I believe you that you believe that they're real. Yeah,
you know what about you? What signs?
Speaker 1 (22:36):
I mean? I think that for me, which signs are
high or are they in love? It's like, huh, who
would I pick? Pisces for sure? Probably all the water signs,
cancers like Scorpios, Scorpios. I'm like, are you hiring and love? Like? Oh,
I just picture them in their bedroom, like writing in
their notebook and getting what aries aries are?
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Just why did you make that face when I swing?
Speaker 1 (23:01):
I mad like a stink? I faced when I'm like
aries aris, I feel like, just like are always high,
like with their emotion. It's just the highs and the
all the fiery emotions and the passion. It's like, you're
probably just high in your brain.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
You're high in your brain. You need to be Virgos
need to be high in their brain.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
If I could show you a virgo's butthole, it is
turning coals into diamonds. If we were a fruit, it
would be a raisin. So yeah, I think you're right.
I think Virgos do need to be uh, we need
to loosen up a little bit in terms of like
are we high or in love? But when I'm in love,
I'm in love and I'm and you you got me,
(23:43):
you got man?
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Basically which signs are high in love all the time? Pisces? Sorry, Pisces,
and I think Leo's but I think they're high in
love with themselves all the time?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Is that true?
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Basically In conclusion, Pisce's rule, the love, oh man, the
love everything, Pisces.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Look, I think if we're going to talk about, if
you're asking me curly, do you think I'm hiring and love? Pisces,
take a breath, take a breath, do it? Yes? And
then if you want to figure out if you're just
in your fields or if you really love this person,
take some time, let them show you who they are.
Take it slow, and.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
I have a question for them. Yeah, are you in
love with the fantasy that you created or the actual person? Yeah,
more than likely it's your fantasy that you created because
you're an amazing artist.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
And you don't need to double text. Don't double text,
just let them text once and keep it short, keep
it cute. Tell you that brain, Tell that high as brain,
that cracked out pisces in love brain that it's going
to be over me. Okay, you got this, put that
phone down.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Delete your finstas cirl, Oh my god, lop checking his
activity on Venmo. Okay, anyway, and that concludes the zodiac
section of the podcast.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
In full. Look, I think that sometimes being in love
is scary for us. We don't know what it means.
We don't know what's going to do to us, to
our emotions and our life. But understanding that half of
it is you, but the other part is literally your brain.
It's something that's developed through evolution. Humans are meant to
fall in love, They're meant to seek out pleasure, they're
meant to go out there, and I think practicing it,
(25:33):
it's healthy, it's fun. It hurts sometimes, but I think
what's the point of being alive if you can't get
in there, fall in love, get your heart broken, and
then get up and do it again.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
And again I've in Garcia. I would just like to
reiterate that we are no longer a couple anymore, and
you can reach out to my manager to figure out
my address to get me back those rings.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
What if you saw him and he was like, Hella
fucking fine now though, and he.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Gave me the ring, so I'd be like, I accept short,
king accept.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
Well, Maya, Where can people find you on social media?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
You can find me at Maya in the Moment, m
a ya in the Moment, on everywhere that is the
social media.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
And you can find me on social media at the
Curly V show, vias in Victor or Victoria or Valentine. Oh,
I have a new sneak named Valentine anyways on Instagram, Yeah,
I guess Instagram and TikTok and feel free to send
us ideas for shows, leave comments, send us dms. Thank
you so much for listening. Again, We really appreciate you
(26:42):
so much. We love you, we love you, and we're
not high we genuinely love you or where we were
high in love with you.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
Love you bye. Make sure to hit that subscribe button
to hear more episodes every single week. The Super Secret
Steak Club Podcast is a production of Sonoto in partnership
with iHeartRadio's Mikotura podcast network.
Speaker 1 (27:06):
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