October 20, 2021 • 25 mins
On this first episode, Curly and Maya discuss crushes. A topic that leads to these besties confessing their strangest crushes. Yep, cartoons are involved.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey, what are you doing in here? Yeah? What's the password?
Oh my gosh, you have a crushed on, Curly? What
get in here? Welcome to the very first episode of
the Super Secret Best Club Podcast. My name is Maya Murio.
I am a video content creator and musician, actor, all
(00:26):
the things. I am also a social media pop star
I call myself that. And my name is Curly. I
am a writer, personality actor who also does social media stuff.
So we are real life besties. Yeah, we talked every
single day, multiple times a day, and we wanted to
just invite our audience to join in on the fun.
You can expect so many things on this podcast like love, astrology,
(00:48):
ghosting boys, manifestation, manifestation, and a lot of giggles and
spit overloose. Okay, well, I don't know if that's congratulations.
You have finished your initiation. Welcome to the Super Secret
Besty Club Podcast. Yes, and now we're going to suck
(01:09):
you in the neck. And now we're not we're not,
we're not. Um? Can we pull their hair? Well with
their consent? Today we're talking about crushes. So me and
my friend Jeshua we also say that we have a
crunch and a crunch is like, oh, I have a crunch,
(01:32):
and a crunch is like, I think worse. It's more
of an inside joke. But today we're talking about crushes.
By the way, j was one of your lifetime best
What is the inside Crunches are like we kind of
got it from random things because I have a crunch
crunch on you. But then we were like when we
really kind of like someone, we're like, I have a crunch,
(01:56):
oh my god, versus like crushes are I think because
we you know, crushes like mainstream and where like you
have a crunch. I am a crunch. So you guys,
everyone can use that, by the way, take it run
with it. So according to Google, a crush is a
brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.
(02:18):
I don't know how I feel about that definition, unattainable
or inappropriate. I was like, no, thank you. A crush
to me is somebody you kind of like you like
them in cursive. I love that. That's so cute. I
just love having crushes. I feel like it's like exciting.
You get excited. It's like brand new. It's like you
(02:39):
open up a gift on Christmas Day and it's the
gift that you wanted, it's the new blouse that you
bought at the store. Then yes, Okay. I've been watching
a lot of Love Island, Love Island, UK, Australia, USA.
I've noticed there's a pattern where the chemical aspect of
a crush with you know, you kind of get They
(03:03):
call it fanny flutters or butterflies. You get a physical
reaction of like I like them, and it's kind of
like you have your rose colored glasses on. They call
it Fannie flutters, but you know what a fanny is. Yes,
it's a budda. Yes, Fanny flutters, so that poudanda is quivering. Yes,
Fanny flutter. Yeah. And for the guys, it's a Willie wobble.
(03:25):
Oh my god. That's in Australia. Also, they say toasts
like tarst tarst, you burn the tarst. Anyway, I'm so
stuck on Willie wobble and like if anybody was like,
you gave me a Willy wabble, like that's disgusting, don't talk,
don't look like Fanny flo flutter? What food? Hello? So
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I've seen them on this show be very excited about
these people that they are coupled up with a couple
of days, and then once that chemical reaction stuff starts
wearing off, they're like, oh, you breathe, the way you
eat is weird, and then it goes away. So my
question is, sometimes these crushes can be an illusion, and
(04:12):
how do you know if it's a crush that is
a potential partner. A crush is kind of you should
go in on it understanding that it's kind of an illusion,
that it's That's why it makes it so fun because
you kind of create these stories around this person, Like
sometimes you haven't even had a conversation with the person
and you're like, that's my gym crush, or like that's
my crush, that's my work crash, and like do you
(04:34):
know him now? He's just really hot and I see
him make photo copies every day. A crush doesn't have
to involve any sort of real aspects of life, and
I think that's what makes it kind of fun. You
haven't even gotten to the point where like do you
talk to your family, what's your family? Like, what's your ambition?
Crushes are just kind of like throw away things until
they become serious. But I want to know when was
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your first crush, curly. My first crush was actually on
several other kids in preschool a right start, and I
remember there was this one kid named Gabriel, and Gabriel
I was like, I love you, Gabriel, Gabriel, if you're
listening to this, let me know if you can return
(05:16):
his affections. Yes, And you know, my other crush was
a Joshua in the second grade. I remember, like Josh,
I was, It's always a josh What about you? When
was your first crush? His name was Alexander, and we
ended up actually dating when I was like eighteen. He
was my first kiss too. This is a spoiler, um,
(05:37):
because we're gonna be talking about first later down the road.
We were in kinder We were in preschool. Yeah, we
were in preschool, and his grandmother was friends with my
mom because they worked at the local newspaper and we
ended up going to the same school. And I remember
he kissed me randomly. He was a Capricorn. He kissed
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me randomly, and I was like, that was my first kiss.
And I was also like, I thank him. He's really cool.
I think it was only because he kissed me, though
I don't I don't remember anything else. I remember us
playing Mario Kart and I just was not good at it.
And I'm still not good at your type though, Like
a guy who kisses you and then plays Mario Kart,
(06:19):
it's the way to your heart. Wow, drag me no,
Like there's no growth here. I feel like, yeah, I
think that one of my early crushes. I actually am
also sidebar. I am one of those people that I
literally get a crush on every one. Like the other day,
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I was on set for this thing and I walked
out and I had a crush on the makeup art.
It's like, oh my god, they're kind of cute. And
then I walked on set and I met like the
director and I was like, oh my god, he's kind
of and I was like, I'm sure one of these
series like my VA Chair. And then I went back
to the green room and there the next guest was there,
and I was like, I have a guard on you,
like I super I'm always like, okay, I'm going to
describe how you are when you have a crush. Okay,
(07:03):
oh my god. So I matched with this guy area
and we matched on hinge and he's super cute, and
so we met up and made out a little bit.
He's like into this not and blah blah blah blah,
And yeah I like him, but I don't really know
because his breath kind of stings a little bit. And
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then you like, we'll just talk. We'll bring up crushes
every moment that we get to talk because it's just
tonight breaking news on tender News. You'll just talk about
it a lot, which is what we do because it
gets we get a little bit obsessed, right, I love it. Sidebar.
People have dubbed that like curly, what's the butt? Like
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I love him so much, but yes, it's the signature.
But sure, I knew a friend who I dated or
I dated his X and I probably like I just
don't like their posture and the I'm like, oh, well,
I feel like when I know you have a crush.
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Oh I met this guy and like we had a
really good conversation and we liked this and we played this,
and you know, we played video games together. We went
into Picnics and the and no no, and I'm like how,
I'm like, how long has it been that you, like,
I've been talking to this person. You're like literally we
just matched yesterday, Like how oh, like, there have been
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moments where you would tell me like a whole as
story and I'm like, when did you match Friday? What
days to today? It's Sunday, However, met them, crushed on them,
and now broken up with them by three thirty on Sunday.
It was not expecting you to go you know what? Yeah,
sometimes and I'm always like, they're they're different. This that's different.
(09:00):
And I remember you being like, Maya, they're all different
because they're different people. I'm like, they're different because it
just feels different. I don't know. I think they will
always be different people always. Yeah. I do have crushes
that will escalate because I create This is bad, Okay,
I've I've seen a lot of TikTok's from dating coaches,
(09:24):
and they say, when you first match with somebody on
a dating app, like immediately go and like ask them
to hang out or hang out with them. Like the
more you talk to them on social media or whatever
it is, the more you're creating this fantasy in your head.
And then when you meet them, it's like your expectations
(09:44):
are left to kind of like I don't know, just
fall away. And then you're you get disappointed and then
you're like, I don't really like them when you didn't
even really give them a chance to be them. Yeah,
but I almost feel like that's kind of the hope
of a crush too, is like you are not allowing
the realistic, the real parts of an individual to kind
(10:06):
of infiltrate your idea of them, And that's why it's
a crush. When you actually have a crush on somebody,
what do you do? I agree with your scenario of
me curly when I have a crush, because I, yeah,
I get a little too infatuated and excited. And I
think that just has to do with maybe media and
(10:29):
television and movies and Disney, because we're like, oh my gosh,
is they saying, is this how we meet in an uber?
In an uber? What do you call it? A meet cute? Yes?
So a neat cute is what happens in movies where
it's like a cute introduction to them. We're like, oh, no,
we bumped into each other and I dropped my books
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and you're helping me pick them up, and we accidentally
touch hands and its electrifying, and then our eyes meet
and then now I have a crush. Right now, I'm pregnant.
Well that's now I'm bregnant. That's the other thing too,
(11:12):
Like what do you do when you have a crush? Right?
Because for me, I alert, I flew with everyone by
the way like and sometimes unintentionally and when I but
when I have a crush, I think that I can
be a little bit more intense than I would like
to be. I am very much like so when do
you want to get married? But I like, don't actually
want to get marrie because I'm an anxious avoidant, So
(11:34):
I like, like, where are you going? Give me attention?
And then they like leave and I'm like and then
they're about it, and I'm like, get off of me.
I never want to smell you or see you again,
you know. And I'm an avoidant, anxious. So I think
that's why we work. Yes, that makes sense, it doesn't
make sense. So we're both where none of us are secure.
None of us are secure at all. I mean a
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little bit. But yeah, when I have a crush, it's
very much. I think I don't really show them that
I like them at first at all. Everyone I've ever
dated has been like, I don't know that you liked me.
I'm like saying what like, I looked at you, I
mean eye contact, and I touched your elkbod. What did
you think that elbow touching showed up? Yeah, I also
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feel like we're both kind of mean. I'm a little
mean when I have a question somebody because I'm trying
to fight the feeling. I'm trying to not let them
know and not let myself know that I'm with that.
You don't want to reveal your cards too soon. You
don't want to put all your eggs in your baskets,
you don't want all your ducks in the road just yet.
But I'm also a little bit You don't want the
pumpkin to pie. You don't want Oh my god, I
(12:38):
love that the pump don't I want to? But I
want you to pie on this. No, I don't think so.
I don't think we like that right now. I feel
like for me, I am a little mean when crushing
on somebody because I want to see what can they
take and what can they do? And I also just
want to throw them off a little bit and be
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like not so much. But I also can be a
little intense and be like, I just want you to
know that, um, I love you, have you always been
like that, because you know, when we grow up, crushes
change versus like when we were a little or oh
my god, yes, like crushes always changed. I used to
have crushes on like I'm like, I really just want
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to marry a dj NO girl, Like I need someone
who what are your dreams, what are your ambitions? Now?
I really want to Mary cool deeds are cool. But
also I'm like, I need you home. I want to cuddle.
Where we're going to be at the club at three o'clock.
I want to marry like someone who is a vet,
like a veterinarian, someone who can take care of our dogs.
Mind changed a little bit. I have crushes and a
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lot of musicians because I'm a musician. And when I
when I see any one of my crushes be passionate
about what they do, it could be their passionate about
working um for the sanitation companies. I'd be like, hell, yeah,
that's my man sanitize these pups. Yeah. Well actually in
the Yeah, there was like this guy that I dated, Sagittarius,
(14:06):
who worked on Boeing, like for airplanes, and at the
time he was really passionate about it because he's like,
it's cool that I get to help these people launch
these planes, and I'm like, Wow, that's Almaz. So you
love you. You love to help people launch planes so
people can get to plan. That's so hot. Like the
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weirdest things where I mean that hasn't changed. I will
say it hasn't changed at all. Any person who is
passionate about anything, I have a crush on you. It's
one of the weirdest crushes you've ever had. And I know, Okay,
a lot of people are gonna relate to me. This
isn't weird, Okay. Simba from Mine King and Casper Casper
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their friendly ghosts in the nineties, Why Simba Laddin? What
was it about Simba? His full beer and his broad shoulders? Yeah?
Do I even have to explain? God, do I even
have to explain? What was it about Casper that made
you have up a quiff a fanny quip a fanny
flutters Fanny flutter, Right, sir? When I saw Simba, right,
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it was his voice and signing with the Casper, the
friendly ghost, right, It's just the voice. And yeah, I
remember as young girl, I would be like, oh my gosh,
I mean sidebar that kind of really goes towards my
theory that you could be like an ugly little troll.
But if you have a sexy voice voice like me,
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if you smell good and you have a sexy voice,
you can be like a tiny little potato person. And
I would be like, get up in these Aladdin's voice.
Aladdin and Hercules can show you the wow. Okay, first
of all, you're a fake fan because you don't know
that those are two completely different voices. There's singing voice,
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there's his singing voice, and then there's yeah, I I
dated someone who sounded like a Laddin. You're like, let's
get one thing straight. I'm only here because you sound
like a Laddin. What happened? They sounded like his speaking voice,
not his singing voice. And I'm like, I don't know.
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It sounded a little bit like a bad boy. And
I'm like, I don't know. It's something about voices that
I'm like, I like you, something about voices. I'm really
big on voices and smell and hair and height and girth,
and I am just like, I have a crush on you.
If you have one of those things and not the other,
I might still actually really like you. I love crush.
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I haven't had a crush in a long time is
like your most recent crush, but you can think of
off the top of your head. I don't know, I
haven't had one in a while. I don't remember what
it feels like. I mean I do. I feel like
I change so much and I'm like, who would this
maya have a crush on? And like how would I
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go about it now? Because I feel like I went
through such a transitional period and you haven't heard me
talk about any crushes, right, No. I feel like for me,
crushes are like just for fun. They're not meant to
be anything. You've got to keep it in check. This
is just fun. Well, I did match with somebody yesterday
that was really cute, and I was like, this could
be a potential crush and only because his bio said
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I floss, And so I messaged him what's your favorite
brand of floss? Wow? And what did he say? Nothing? Wow? Wow?
What do you want him to say? Umm? Game? And
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that brings us to our astrology section. Who do you
crush on the most? Oh? My gosh, I always say this,
and you know, my somebody will walk into a room
and I feel like aries smell like spiritual cologne. There's
something about aries men that I'm like, I don't really
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get crushed on girls that often, but I do become
like super tight with them because there's so much fun
that we are. I'm glad that somebody said it. I
get crushes on virgos and libras libras, but I understand virgos,
but libras, it's just you know what it is. I
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love the virgos that i've dated in their prime Virgo
I'm thinking of fruit anyway. They've been very intellectual and smart,
had a solution for everything, and like I can be
an a and it goes. Sometimes it can be like
a logistic a low. Sometimes it's and but most of
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the time I'm like, yeah, I'm such a mess, fixed
me tell me what I need to do, and they
do and it's and I think I like being the
crazy and the fiery and the passionate, and I like
that they are kind of like shy. I love shy
boys are kind of shy. It's kind of weird because
I feel like I'm People think that I'm louder than
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I actually am, but I'm kind of shy and very
to myself, like I'm would you say I'm quieter, not quieter,
but I'm kind of like a little bit more. I
think I'm quiet, but you're quiet with first impressions, with
first people, the beginning, but then you open up and
you crack a lot of jokes, and I think I'm
the opposite. I will meet people and I'm jokes, joke chokes,
and then the more you get to know me, I'm like,
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do you just want to sit and talk about life? Yeah?
I I feel like I bring out Let's dance and
then we'll dance to Selena. What signs do you think
like get crushes on you? Well, recently there was a Leo,
there's a Sagittarius. I don't really know. I think in
the past it has been virgos and libras um such.
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The fire signs just start. I don't think I can
date fire, So why I feel like fire signs love
fire sign No, not me. I don't like anyone but myself.
I don't have a Pisces moon. You don't even know
me Pisces rising. Okay, Well, what we're talking about crushes?
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I am a double Aries Harry's son, Har's moon aries Venus.
So I it's like if you don't catch my interest,
Like there's a certain time period and it's very small.
There's there's a small window, and if it's not in
the weirdest way, and it's not like you have to
be bold or big, it's just be interesting. And if
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you're not, I forget about it, and I not like
I move on to the next I'm just like I'm
over it. So I don't I don't know. I feel
like I'm very like interesting, you know. I feel like
not to toot my own horn. Hello, I'm waiting. I
literally looked right at the back of your head right now,
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like the side of your head, like yes, it's that horns.
But I feel like I keep it interesting in whatever
situation i'm in, like it's interesting, and if you're not
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giving me that same energy back, I'm okay. Or if
you're trying to be the most interesting one. I don't know.
And I feel like a lot of fires signs do
that Virgoes and and Earth signs, like all Earth signs
let me be a little crazy, and I like, yeah,
I like when they like it, and they're just like
looking like you're so dumb, and I'm like I am
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dumb there when I see areas. Guys, I'm like, where
are you from? You're fascinating. But you know what I
think that they don't why they don't like us is
because we have fun. But we're also like, okay, we
have to study now because we have a test tomorrow.
And I feel like a lot of fire stents are like,
why I don't want to do that. I never studied
on the tests before my life. And virgos are like, okay,
we had fun, but get back in the car. We
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got to go home. And that concludes our astrology section
thing thang, But before we go, we would love to
give you a little bit of advice as far as
what to do when you have a crush and how
to suss out if they're just a crush or they
could be a p P potential partner. Okay, fine, I'll go.
(22:43):
I feel like, look, when you have a crush, I
think that it depends on what kind of situation you have.
If you are in a space where you can tell them, hey,
I have a little crush on you, it's fun, like
let's see what happened, Let's see what pops off if
you can't and it's just for fun and it's just
like a little bit of like a getaway from your
life where you can dage them about somebody and just
have a little crush. Do it up, have fun, like,
don't take it too personally, don't make it something that
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it's not, don't get too invested too and don't hurt
yourself over just a little crush. And if you want
to know of this person is a p P potential partner,
I think you know, put them in different situations. Take
them out to a restaurant or go out in public,
see how they are around people. Like there's a lot
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of things you could do that will If they're just
a crush, then you know this was just a crush.
Or you fall more in love with them and you
like like them, and you take a little bit a
strand of their hair and you wrap it up with
ribbon and some cinnamon, and then you break it and
wrap and then you ask the spirits to bring them
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and then you say, bring them to me, give it
to me, give them to me. That's how I get
all my men. Well, everybody, thank you so much for listening.
We appreciate you so much. Please feel free to leave
his calm men's and suggestions as far as other topics
that we should catch up on. But Maya, where can
people find you? On social media? You can find me
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at Maya in the Moment, m A y A in
the Moment on all social media platforms. What about you, Well,
you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at the
Curly v Show be as a victor. Well, guys, thank
you so much. You don't have to go home, but
you certainly have to get out of our story house.
I have a crush. Okay, everybody, let me get here.
(24:30):
I have a crush on the person who's listening right now.
I have a crush on your you in the in
the white shirt, sitting in the passenger's side. If your
best friends, you're a car, I want your number. I
will give you my kitchen slide into my d m
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Hey, what are you doing in here? Yeah? What's the password?
Oh my gosh, you have a crushed on, Curly? What
get in here? Welcome to the very first episode of
the Super Secret Best Club Podcast. My name is Maya Murio.
I am a video content creator and musician, actor, all
(00:26):
the things. I am also a social media pop star
I call myself that. And my name is Curly. I
am a writer, personality actor who also does social media stuff.
So we are real life besties. Yeah, we talked every
single day, multiple times a day, and we wanted to
just invite our audience to join in on the fun.
You can expect so many things on this podcast like love, astrology,
(00:48):
ghosting boys, manifestation, manifestation, and a lot of giggles and
spit overloose. Okay, well, I don't know if that's congratulations.
You have finished your initiation. Welcome to the Super Secret
Besty Club Podcast. Yes, and now we're going to suck
(01:09):
you in the neck. And now we're not we're not,
we're not. Um? Can we pull their hair? Well with
their consent? Today we're talking about crushes. So me and
my friend Jeshua we also say that we have a
crunch and a crunch is like, oh, I have a crunch,
(01:32):
and a crunch is like, I think worse. It's more
of an inside joke. But today we're talking about crushes.
By the way, j was one of your lifetime best
What is the inside Crunches are like we kind of
got it from random things because I have a crunch
crunch on you. But then we were like when we
really kind of like someone, we're like, I have a crunch,
(01:56):
oh my god, versus like crushes are I think because
we you know, crushes like mainstream and where like you
have a crunch. I am a crunch. So you guys,
everyone can use that, by the way, take it run
with it. So according to Google, a crush is a
brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate.
(02:18):
I don't know how I feel about that definition, unattainable
or inappropriate. I was like, no, thank you. A crush
to me is somebody you kind of like you like
them in cursive. I love that. That's so cute. I
just love having crushes. I feel like it's like exciting.
You get excited. It's like brand new. It's like you
(02:39):
open up a gift on Christmas Day and it's the
gift that you wanted, it's the new blouse that you
bought at the store. Then yes, Okay. I've been watching
a lot of Love Island, Love Island, UK, Australia, USA.
I've noticed there's a pattern where the chemical aspect of
a crush with you know, you kind of get They
(03:03):
call it fanny flutters or butterflies. You get a physical
reaction of like I like them, and it's kind of
like you have your rose colored glasses on. They call
it Fannie flutters, but you know what a fanny is. Yes,
it's a budda. Yes, Fanny flutters, so that poudanda is quivering. Yes,
Fanny flutter. Yeah. And for the guys, it's a Willie wobble.
(03:25):
Oh my god. That's in Australia. Also, they say toasts
like tarst tarst, you burn the tarst. Anyway, I'm so
stuck on Willie wobble and like if anybody was like,
you gave me a Willy wabble, like that's disgusting, don't talk,
don't look like Fanny flo flutter? What food? Hello? So
(03:48):
I've seen them on this show be very excited about
these people that they are coupled up with a couple
of days, and then once that chemical reaction stuff starts
wearing off, they're like, oh, you breathe, the way you
eat is weird, and then it goes away. So my
question is, sometimes these crushes can be an illusion, and
(04:12):
how do you know if it's a crush that is
a potential partner. A crush is kind of you should
go in on it understanding that it's kind of an illusion,
that it's That's why it makes it so fun because
you kind of create these stories around this person, Like
sometimes you haven't even had a conversation with the person
and you're like, that's my gym crush, or like that's
my crush, that's my work crash, and like do you
(04:34):
know him now? He's just really hot and I see
him make photo copies every day. A crush doesn't have
to involve any sort of real aspects of life, and
I think that's what makes it kind of fun. You
haven't even gotten to the point where like do you
talk to your family, what's your family? Like, what's your ambition?
Crushes are just kind of like throw away things until
they become serious. But I want to know when was
(04:55):
your first crush, curly. My first crush was actually on
several other kids in preschool a right start, and I
remember there was this one kid named Gabriel, and Gabriel
I was like, I love you, Gabriel, Gabriel, if you're
listening to this, let me know if you can return
(05:16):
his affections. Yes, And you know, my other crush was
a Joshua in the second grade. I remember, like Josh,
I was, It's always a josh What about you? When
was your first crush? His name was Alexander, and we
ended up actually dating when I was like eighteen. He
was my first kiss too. This is a spoiler, um,
(05:37):
because we're gonna be talking about first later down the road.
We were in kinder We were in preschool. Yeah, we
were in preschool, and his grandmother was friends with my
mom because they worked at the local newspaper and we
ended up going to the same school. And I remember
he kissed me randomly. He was a Capricorn. He kissed
(05:58):
me randomly, and I was like, that was my first kiss.
And I was also like, I thank him. He's really cool.
I think it was only because he kissed me, though
I don't I don't remember anything else. I remember us
playing Mario Kart and I just was not good at it.
And I'm still not good at your type though, Like
a guy who kisses you and then plays Mario Kart,
(06:19):
it's the way to your heart. Wow, drag me no,
Like there's no growth here. I feel like, yeah, I
think that one of my early crushes. I actually am
also sidebar. I am one of those people that I
literally get a crush on every one. Like the other day,
(06:40):
I was on set for this thing and I walked
out and I had a crush on the makeup art.
It's like, oh my god, they're kind of cute. And
then I walked on set and I met like the
director and I was like, oh my god, he's kind
of and I was like, I'm sure one of these
series like my VA Chair. And then I went back
to the green room and there the next guest was there,
and I was like, I have a guard on you,
like I super I'm always like, okay, I'm going to
describe how you are when you have a crush. Okay,
(07:03):
oh my god. So I matched with this guy area
and we matched on hinge and he's super cute, and
so we met up and made out a little bit.
He's like into this not and blah blah blah blah,
And yeah I like him, but I don't really know
because his breath kind of stings a little bit. And
(07:27):
then you like, we'll just talk. We'll bring up crushes
every moment that we get to talk because it's just
tonight breaking news on tender News. You'll just talk about
it a lot, which is what we do because it
gets we get a little bit obsessed, right, I love it. Sidebar.
People have dubbed that like curly, what's the butt? Like
(07:47):
I love him so much, but yes, it's the signature.
But sure, I knew a friend who I dated or
I dated his X and I probably like I just
don't like their posture and the I'm like, oh, well,
I feel like when I know you have a crush.
(08:08):
Oh I met this guy and like we had a
really good conversation and we liked this and we played this,
and you know, we played video games together. We went
into Picnics and the and no no, and I'm like how,
I'm like, how long has it been that you, like,
I've been talking to this person. You're like literally we
just matched yesterday, Like how oh, like, there have been
(08:37):
moments where you would tell me like a whole as
story and I'm like, when did you match Friday? What
days to today? It's Sunday, However, met them, crushed on them,
and now broken up with them by three thirty on Sunday.
It was not expecting you to go you know what? Yeah,
sometimes and I'm always like, they're they're different. This that's different.
(09:00):
And I remember you being like, Maya, they're all different
because they're different people. I'm like, they're different because it
just feels different. I don't know. I think they will
always be different people always. Yeah. I do have crushes
that will escalate because I create This is bad, Okay,
I've I've seen a lot of TikTok's from dating coaches,
(09:24):
and they say, when you first match with somebody on
a dating app, like immediately go and like ask them
to hang out or hang out with them. Like the
more you talk to them on social media or whatever
it is, the more you're creating this fantasy in your head.
And then when you meet them, it's like your expectations
(09:44):
are left to kind of like I don't know, just
fall away. And then you're you get disappointed and then
you're like, I don't really like them when you didn't
even really give them a chance to be them. Yeah,
but I almost feel like that's kind of the hope
of a crush too, is like you are not allowing
the realistic, the real parts of an individual to kind
(10:06):
of infiltrate your idea of them, And that's why it's
a crush. When you actually have a crush on somebody,
what do you do? I agree with your scenario of
me curly when I have a crush, because I, yeah,
I get a little too infatuated and excited. And I
think that just has to do with maybe media and
(10:29):
television and movies and Disney, because we're like, oh my gosh,
is they saying, is this how we meet in an uber?
In an uber? What do you call it? A meet cute? Yes?
So a neat cute is what happens in movies where
it's like a cute introduction to them. We're like, oh, no,
we bumped into each other and I dropped my books
(10:51):
and you're helping me pick them up, and we accidentally
touch hands and its electrifying, and then our eyes meet
and then now I have a crush. Right now, I'm pregnant.
Well that's now I'm bregnant. That's the other thing too,
(11:12):
Like what do you do when you have a crush? Right?
Because for me, I alert, I flew with everyone by
the way like and sometimes unintentionally and when I but
when I have a crush, I think that I can
be a little bit more intense than I would like
to be. I am very much like so when do
you want to get married? But I like, don't actually
want to get marrie because I'm an anxious avoidant, So
(11:34):
I like, like, where are you going? Give me attention?
And then they like leave and I'm like and then
they're about it, and I'm like, get off of me.
I never want to smell you or see you again,
you know. And I'm an avoidant, anxious. So I think
that's why we work. Yes, that makes sense, it doesn't
make sense. So we're both where none of us are secure.
None of us are secure at all. I mean a
(11:55):
little bit. But yeah, when I have a crush, it's
very much. I think I don't really show them that
I like them at first at all. Everyone I've ever
dated has been like, I don't know that you liked me.
I'm like saying what like, I looked at you, I
mean eye contact, and I touched your elkbod. What did
you think that elbow touching showed up? Yeah, I also
(12:17):
feel like we're both kind of mean. I'm a little
mean when I have a question somebody because I'm trying
to fight the feeling. I'm trying to not let them
know and not let myself know that I'm with that.
You don't want to reveal your cards too soon. You
don't want to put all your eggs in your baskets,
you don't want all your ducks in the road just yet.
But I'm also a little bit You don't want the
pumpkin to pie. You don't want Oh my god, I
(12:38):
love that the pump don't I want to? But I
want you to pie on this. No, I don't think so.
I don't think we like that right now. I feel
like for me, I am a little mean when crushing
on somebody because I want to see what can they
take and what can they do? And I also just
want to throw them off a little bit and be
(13:00):
like not so much. But I also can be a
little intense and be like, I just want you to
know that, um, I love you, have you always been
like that, because you know, when we grow up, crushes
change versus like when we were a little or oh
my god, yes, like crushes always changed. I used to
have crushes on like I'm like, I really just want
(13:21):
to marry a dj NO girl, Like I need someone
who what are your dreams, what are your ambitions? Now?
I really want to Mary cool deeds are cool. But
also I'm like, I need you home. I want to cuddle.
Where we're going to be at the club at three o'clock.
I want to marry like someone who is a vet,
like a veterinarian, someone who can take care of our dogs.
Mind changed a little bit. I have crushes and a
(13:43):
lot of musicians because I'm a musician. And when I
when I see any one of my crushes be passionate
about what they do, it could be their passionate about
working um for the sanitation companies. I'd be like, hell, yeah,
that's my man sanitize these pups. Yeah. Well actually in
the Yeah, there was like this guy that I dated, Sagittarius,
(14:06):
who worked on Boeing, like for airplanes, and at the
time he was really passionate about it because he's like,
it's cool that I get to help these people launch
these planes, and I'm like, Wow, that's Almaz. So you
love you. You love to help people launch planes so
people can get to plan. That's so hot. Like the
(14:28):
weirdest things where I mean that hasn't changed. I will
say it hasn't changed at all. Any person who is
passionate about anything, I have a crush on you. It's
one of the weirdest crushes you've ever had. And I know, Okay,
a lot of people are gonna relate to me. This
isn't weird, Okay. Simba from Mine King and Casper Casper
(14:53):
their friendly ghosts in the nineties, Why Simba Laddin? What
was it about Simba? His full beer and his broad shoulders? Yeah?
Do I even have to explain? God, do I even
have to explain? What was it about Casper that made
you have up a quiff a fanny quip a fanny
flutters Fanny flutter, Right, sir? When I saw Simba, right,
(15:18):
it was his voice and signing with the Casper, the
friendly ghost, right, It's just the voice. And yeah, I
remember as young girl, I would be like, oh my gosh,
I mean sidebar that kind of really goes towards my
theory that you could be like an ugly little troll.
But if you have a sexy voice voice like me,
(15:42):
if you smell good and you have a sexy voice,
you can be like a tiny little potato person. And
I would be like, get up in these Aladdin's voice.
Aladdin and Hercules can show you the wow. Okay, first
of all, you're a fake fan because you don't know
that those are two completely different voices. There's singing voice,
(16:05):
there's his singing voice, and then there's yeah, I I
dated someone who sounded like a Laddin. You're like, let's
get one thing straight. I'm only here because you sound
like a Laddin. What happened? They sounded like his speaking voice,
not his singing voice. And I'm like, I don't know.
(16:26):
It sounded a little bit like a bad boy. And
I'm like, I don't know. It's something about voices that
I'm like, I like you, something about voices. I'm really
big on voices and smell and hair and height and girth,
and I am just like, I have a crush on you.
If you have one of those things and not the other,
I might still actually really like you. I love crush.
(16:49):
I haven't had a crush in a long time is
like your most recent crush, but you can think of
off the top of your head. I don't know, I
haven't had one in a while. I don't remember what
it feels like. I mean I do. I feel like
I change so much and I'm like, who would this
maya have a crush on? And like how would I
(17:12):
go about it now? Because I feel like I went
through such a transitional period and you haven't heard me
talk about any crushes, right, No. I feel like for me,
crushes are like just for fun. They're not meant to
be anything. You've got to keep it in check. This
is just fun. Well, I did match with somebody yesterday
that was really cute, and I was like, this could
be a potential crush and only because his bio said
(17:35):
I floss, And so I messaged him what's your favorite
brand of floss? Wow? And what did he say? Nothing? Wow? Wow?
What do you want him to say? Umm? Game? And
(17:58):
that brings us to our astrology section. Who do you
crush on the most? Oh? My gosh, I always say this,
and you know, my somebody will walk into a room
and I feel like aries smell like spiritual cologne. There's
something about aries men that I'm like, I don't really
(18:20):
get crushed on girls that often, but I do become
like super tight with them because there's so much fun
that we are. I'm glad that somebody said it. I
get crushes on virgos and libras libras, but I understand virgos,
but libras, it's just you know what it is. I
(18:42):
love the virgos that i've dated in their prime Virgo
I'm thinking of fruit anyway. They've been very intellectual and smart,
had a solution for everything, and like I can be
an a and it goes. Sometimes it can be like
a logistic a low. Sometimes it's and but most of
(19:06):
the time I'm like, yeah, I'm such a mess, fixed
me tell me what I need to do, and they
do and it's and I think I like being the
crazy and the fiery and the passionate, and I like
that they are kind of like shy. I love shy
boys are kind of shy. It's kind of weird because
I feel like I'm People think that I'm louder than
(19:29):
I actually am, but I'm kind of shy and very
to myself, like I'm would you say I'm quieter, not quieter,
but I'm kind of like a little bit more. I
think I'm quiet, but you're quiet with first impressions, with
first people, the beginning, but then you open up and
you crack a lot of jokes, and I think I'm
the opposite. I will meet people and I'm jokes, joke chokes,
and then the more you get to know me, I'm like,
(19:50):
do you just want to sit and talk about life? Yeah?
I I feel like I bring out Let's dance and
then we'll dance to Selena. What signs do you think
like get crushes on you? Well, recently there was a Leo,
there's a Sagittarius. I don't really know. I think in
the past it has been virgos and libras um such.
(20:14):
The fire signs just start. I don't think I can
date fire, So why I feel like fire signs love
fire sign No, not me. I don't like anyone but myself.
I don't have a Pisces moon. You don't even know
me Pisces rising. Okay, Well, what we're talking about crushes?
(20:35):
I am a double Aries Harry's son, Har's moon aries Venus.
So I it's like if you don't catch my interest,
Like there's a certain time period and it's very small.
There's there's a small window, and if it's not in
the weirdest way, and it's not like you have to
be bold or big, it's just be interesting. And if
(20:56):
you're not, I forget about it, and I not like
I move on to the next I'm just like I'm
over it. So I don't I don't know. I feel
like I'm very like interesting, you know. I feel like
not to toot my own horn. Hello, I'm waiting. I
literally looked right at the back of your head right now,
(21:17):
like the side of your head, like yes, it's that horns.
But I feel like I keep it interesting in whatever
situation i'm in, like it's interesting, and if you're not
(21:37):
giving me that same energy back, I'm okay. Or if
you're trying to be the most interesting one. I don't know.
And I feel like a lot of fires signs do
that Virgoes and and Earth signs, like all Earth signs
let me be a little crazy, and I like, yeah,
I like when they like it, and they're just like
looking like you're so dumb, and I'm like I am
(21:59):
dumb there when I see areas. Guys, I'm like, where
are you from? You're fascinating. But you know what I
think that they don't why they don't like us is
because we have fun. But we're also like, okay, we
have to study now because we have a test tomorrow.
And I feel like a lot of fire stents are like,
why I don't want to do that. I never studied
on the tests before my life. And virgos are like, okay,
we had fun, but get back in the car. We
(22:20):
got to go home. And that concludes our astrology section
thing thang, But before we go, we would love to
give you a little bit of advice as far as
what to do when you have a crush and how
to suss out if they're just a crush or they
could be a p P potential partner. Okay, fine, I'll go.
(22:43):
I feel like, look, when you have a crush, I
think that it depends on what kind of situation you have.
If you are in a space where you can tell them, hey,
I have a little crush on you, it's fun, like
let's see what happened, Let's see what pops off if
you can't and it's just for fun and it's just
like a little bit of like a getaway from your
life where you can dage them about somebody and just
have a little crush. Do it up, have fun, like,
don't take it too personally, don't make it something that
(23:05):
it's not, don't get too invested too and don't hurt
yourself over just a little crush. And if you want
to know of this person is a p P potential partner,
I think you know, put them in different situations. Take
them out to a restaurant or go out in public,
see how they are around people. Like there's a lot
(23:26):
of things you could do that will If they're just
a crush, then you know this was just a crush.
Or you fall more in love with them and you
like like them, and you take a little bit a
strand of their hair and you wrap it up with
ribbon and some cinnamon, and then you break it and
wrap and then you ask the spirits to bring them
(23:46):
and then you say, bring them to me, give it
to me, give them to me. That's how I get
all my men. Well, everybody, thank you so much for listening.
We appreciate you so much. Please feel free to leave
his calm men's and suggestions as far as other topics
that we should catch up on. But Maya, where can
people find you? On social media? You can find me
(24:07):
at Maya in the Moment, m A y A in
the Moment on all social media platforms. What about you, Well,
you can find me on TikTok and Instagram at the
Curly v Show be as a victor. Well, guys, thank
you so much. You don't have to go home, but
you certainly have to get out of our story house.
I have a crush. Okay, everybody, let me get here.
(24:30):
I have a crush on the person who's listening right now.
I have a crush on your you in the in
the white shirt, sitting in the passenger's side. If your
best friends, you're a car, I want your number. I
will give you my kitchen slide into my d m
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