June 29, 2022 • 36 mins
On this episode you better work!! Curly and Maya dig into Style, what it means and Curly lets his fashion bona fides loose!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, what are you doing here? You better work? Comes don't? Well? Wow,
those so silish of us, get in here. My name
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is Curly and I'm Maya and Welcome to the Super
Secret Best Clubs Podcast, a super secret club where we
talk about super secret things, a super secret, more time secret.
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendships, heartbreaks, men,
and of course, our favorite secrets. Welcome to another episode
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of the Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast. Today we're talking
about fashion and style and style and fashion exactly. It's
something that really kind of mystifies people. I feel. I
feel like people. I was like, I don't know my
style is or I don't know what to do, and
even people who do have style are constantly like, I
don't know who I am anymore, I don't know what
to do. Um, it's really like a big deal. Sidebar,
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I didn't want to touch up on super fast. I
just listened to today's episode of our podcast and I
said like seventy five times, So I apologize in advance
for all of that. Today I will be more mindful
of how many times I say like, but keep you
on anyways, Okay here, Um, what is style? Style is?
According to Dictionary dot Com on go aggle. Um, it
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is a manner of doing something or a distinctive appearance,
typically determined by the principles according to which something is designed.
Whatever the funk that means you're goofy today, You're a
goofy girl today. I'm like, I have a heart out
it too, and your all, what the fund does that mean?
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Go aggle? I just think whatever anyway, Um, what does
that mean to you? MAYA style means? I well, at
first it was very intimidating because I came from Arizona
and sorry, maybe at the time whatever, like, nobody had style.
The only people who had style that I wanted to
be like was Lizzie McGuire Raven Simone, and you could
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buy their clothing at Claire's. And I could never fit
into Claies or limited to or not not claars limited
to do you remember limited to? Yeah? Absolutely, I could
never fit in that. So I think I felt from
early on that style wasn't for me, with like curves
and a butt and boobs and a waist and all
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of these things. You know. So what did you think?
Were you like, I guess I'll just not be stylish. Yeah,
I think I like also associated it with a lot
of like vanity and vain people, and like I almost
wanted to be like, I don't care about my style.
I don't care about this in that and I would
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wear a lot of frumpy clothes because I was like, no,
I care about the mind and the soul. But I'm like,
it would never make me feel good because I would
never I never felt good in anything I wore because
I never really learned how to dress myself. But now
I feel like we're going to get into it. But
now I feel like I like it. I like style. Yeah,
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I feel like for me. Early on, I was a
huge Selina fan when I was really young, and I
saw that she was into fashion, and I was like,
oh my god, that's so cool. I'm into fashion too.
And I saw that she designed dresses, and so I
was like, I wanted design dresses. And by the time
I was in high school, I think people know the
story and I'll be really fast about it. Um I
actually used to ask girls in high school if I
could design their prom dresses. I actually asked my sister
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back and desi Herkaniana dress, and she was like never
in nine years, um uh, And I was like, well, okay,
I'll ask these girls in high school if I can
design and they let me. And then when I, you know,
graduated high school, I didn't really go to like a
real college. I went to technical school to learn how
to do fashion um and then I went down to
work for like David LaChapelle and Jeremy Scott, who are
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huge in the art fashion world. Cause Curly has Curly
is fashion. Curly has been like I know you you
talk about you think you talk about this a lot
and that a lot of people know this. A lot
of people don't know this. Oh yeah, I know this,
and I don't. I never get tired of hearing about it.
Like my best friend needs to work with now in
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time to Yeah, I mean like David Studios was like
the mecca, and Jeremy's this was at the beginning before
like he became like the head and mosqu you know,
like if you see anything on like some of your
favorite CARDI b Loves, Katie Perry, Rihanna and the Mickey helmet,
Like we did that at Jeremy Scott when we did
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the Mickey glasses that Lady Gaga wore, those Linda Fero
glasses that turned into Mickey Mouse ears like that was us.
The wings on Adidas, that was us, like that, I
was there for those moments, right, Like, I don't want
to say that was what I was. I was just there.
That's why. Sorry, pause, this is just me being mad
for you. That's why when people are like he's copying
bad Bunny style, I'm like, bad Money probably copied his
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style because Curly has been in the game for a while.
Has you look at all of his like pictures. He's
played with a lot of different fashion that I've seen,
Mr Bad Bunny. I don't know, I'm not saying, but
every time I hear Curly talk about how someone was
like you bad Bunny, I want to I want to
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punch them. I want you and you know I mean
to be fair. Bad Funny to me has really taken
on a lot of the looks that my queer Latin
friends have taken on are my queer my queer black
and brown friends have taken on um since the early
two thousands, So I've never surprised by what he wears
and like, oh yeah, like my friend has already did
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that a while. Look, my friends did that already. My
friend Martin already did that, like all these people already
did it. Um. But yeah, so for me, like I
love style, Like I look at style as a way
that you can show up in the world. How do
you want the world to see you? Like? Style really does,
unfortunately determine the way that people treat you in social settings, right, Like, um,
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somebody can walk You always hear the stories about people
who work in retail where they're like, this person just
walked in, like looking like they're wearing a potato sacks, um,
And you know, she ended up being the princess of
that that country and she spent one thing, but we
treated her like ship in the beginning. Like style really
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does kind of say a lot about the person in
more ways than we think. So for me, it's actually
something that is very important to me that I'm constantly
changing because I'm constantly changing how I want to be
perceived in the world. Do you feel like it influences
like how does we talked about like body image issues
before or how does style embody image issues all that
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stuff go hand in hand for you? I mean, look,
I feel like my body has changed as we know,
we talked about we talked we mentioned this earlier talking
about our sizes and how we feel in our body.
Right Like I at the time was a little bit
thicker and very insecure, so I could only wear certain
types of colors maybe blues, dark greens, um black, because
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I was like, I know, I look good. I can
only wear certain fabrics, like certain cottons. We could sense
you in tighter, certain things with zippers. You know, a
good zipper, We'll go a long way. My zippers always
like I'm like, come on, girl, yes, buttons forget buttons
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Like buttons are not buttons. Buttons are like yeah, they're
like hanging on by a single thread. And I'm like, damn,
it's gonna off in somebody's face and like their eye
out and they're ready. They got you all night. Um.
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But I feel like, you know, it's changed a lot
for me depending on how I feel, um, But for you,
I feel like, you know when you talk about your
style change, like we were literally just talking to This
is kind of how this topic was born because mine
and I were on the phone literally yesterday in the
morning talking about how her style has changed and how,
by the way, Curly calls me every morning like seven
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the buck crack of dawn. He's like, where are you sleeping.
I'm like I was. He's like, oh my god, I'm
like talking about like life things early in the morning.
I had to be like, stop, I just woke up.
I'm going to be gruppy for the rest of the
day to be there. I called me talking about boys
and you staid of talking about work, and I was like, okay,
are like no, I did. You're lying right now to
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the park talking about boys. Oh my god, which I like,
but yeah, we were talking about it. We're talking about
style and stuff. Because I came from Arizona and I
didn't I didn't see a lot of representation from my
body type. I'm like an in between E like I can't.
I mean right now, I like to be transparent. I
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like gained a lot of weight from the pandemic stuff,
and I'm at the heaviest I've been. But I'm like
the happiest I've been because I'm just like, I'm trying
to have this harmonious relationship with my body image and
eating and clothes. Like I'm I'm really trying to work
hard to find clothes that make me feel good and
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not clothes that are like, oh what, like I don't know,
just trying to say something. And I noticed every time
I picked something that makes me feel good, like I'm like,
I don't know, Like that night, I feel like I'm
floating on a cloud. Like when I wore that blue outfit,
I was like, and it was comfortable. I was wearing
like these like basic shorts like underneath and then like
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my crocs, Like I felt really great. But it took
me a while to get there. I think mostly just
because of lack of lack of clothing honestly that fit
me in stores, Like I really had to search, um
and scour the internet and just stores to find a
pair of pants that fit me. And the only pants
that would fit me, and I've tried on a lot
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of pants everywhere else was forever twenty one pants back
in the day. They were the only ones that would
fit my butt and my thighs and my stomach, um
without like a gap in the back. So um, it was.
It was, you know, and I still go through it
a lot as my body fluctuates and changes. Um. But
I think I just was like, you know what, like
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I feel good. If I feel good, then nobody can
tell me anything. The on the flips too, Like I
will say, like, uh, size inclusivity when it comes to
fashion is actually really really really new, and it's like
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barely like the tip of the iceberg where people like
Chloe Kardashian have to be like it's such a big
deal that we carry every size in our collection in
a stuff like that should not be that is a
big deal and that's crazy. But also like you should
carry every size, like what is the what's going on?
You know? So it is the thing that I always
hear um women or just people in general from different
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sizes being like it's really new. Like even when you
get down to like sustainability talk, when you're like you
should shot vintage, it's like they weren't making my side.
And plus these girls are buying like on TikTok, it's
a trend where they buy a bigger clothes and cut
them and change them into I'm like, well, you know, um,
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I feel like for me right now, I've done a
lot of different stiles and things that make me feel comfortable.
I kind of feel like I'm kind of going through
it in terms of my own style because you know,
I came up in the early two thousands when style
was just like throw everything on, you know, like you
got a glitter bell, Oh my god, that's gonna go
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so good with your ruffle skirt, Oh my god. And
you should also wear like this over the shoulder top
and what are you gonna do with you here? Oh god,
we have to crimp your hair. Like it was still
kind of like I have ever been on the crimping
trend at all? Never, Oh god, what about like the
crimping for sure is going to come back? Or I
think you try to come back already trying. I don't
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get it. I think that for me, style changed drastically
with the dawn of Kim Kardashian and Kanye because I
think that they kind of made ath leisure where the
kind of go to style where people really dipped into
the solid colors, the monotones, the earth tones, um, the
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body con stuff um. And to me that was kind
of the death of style. I remember being like, what
about you know, um problem um or Chris or Jean Charles,
like these designers that really were like pushing things forward
and and croissant. It sounds I'm like Dijontard and catch
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you not of guys us. And now I was just
saying that I feel like there's an oversaturation of style.
I feel like style is so easy. I literally like
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look at people and I'm like, yeah, you can look
at a photo on Instagram and just get dressed. Like
back in the day, if you were dressed in off
you probably listen, you were a god kid. If you
were dressed as a skater, you were a skater kid.
If you were a raver, you probably listen to the
house and techno. And now it's like no, I just
like it and you're like, wow that you're right. Zs
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are posers. What I'm saying is it's a double edged sword,
right because you're gen Z. So by the way, I
don't come for our especializ gen Z starts. So yeah,
I say a month between I will say this that
I do think that what's really cool about this younger
generation in terms of the world and style. It is
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really cool that people just wear whatever the hell they
want to wear. So, yes, it's changed that your style
no longer necessarily informs a lifestyle, but it is really
cool to live in a world where if you're wanting
to wear a pearl necklace and you're like this, like
big old dude, you're like, Okay, throw on the pearl necklace.
You have a date with the pearl necklaces. Huh, because
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I haven't. This is the thing. I have a theory
that every year, every two years straight, sis men will
find the one item that they're like, oh my god,
I'm going and I'm like, oh my god, and then
they kill it. They're like look at me fine, and
you're like, okay, we get it. It was the pro necklace. Um,
it was the pink hoodie a couple of years ago.
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The earring, the one earring. It was the the neon
orange beanie. For a second, I'm like, oh my god,
like we get it. Like it's too much, it's too much.
It's I'm like rings. I don't know. Do you judge
people according to their style, like when they're like your
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friend or like a lover, like a boyfriend, Like like
what about a guy, like do you care how he
dresses a little bit? But I also am very like
I have been in a place where I had no
idea what I was doing for style, So I don't
judge that hard. Um I do love Like I'm trying
to think of whose style I really loved when I
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was dating them um K pop boy Um. He definitely
I liked his style. He was really cute. He would
wear like these like baggy hoodies and then like I
don't know, he like had this crisp white shirt that
felt super soft and when you're laying down and you
like you put your hand on his chest and you're
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like a night. This year, he never wore it again
because we broke up. Wow, and he's dead now to us,
not in real life, to me, to me, not in
real life, God to last. I hope you dream well.
You you are a little more critical of people's styles,
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but you're critical in terms of you know, I think
it always like I literally will look at somebody and
I kind of my virgo assets to be like, oh,
I know what would look good on you. Let's try this.
I think we should do this. Da da da. I
have to really bite my tongue and hold onto my
opinion really hard, because sometimes I'm like I already know
what's going to look at on you, Like I already
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I can look at it and be like, um, what
do you want to try? So the way that I
do it. When people are like talking about styles and
like pick a celebrity that you really like that, you
feel like you could live and be comfortable in their clothing,
create a mood board, like let's just say it's Tracy
Ellis Ross right, Like for people who want to go
live with my glamorous, Um, what would Tracy where and
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what would she not wear? So like Tracy Ellis Ross
on the red carpet might go in like a color
blocking and and really cool silhouettes, but you wouldn't see
her in like a crew neck sweater and sweat. So like, okay,
I'm not going to wear the crewneck and you know
what I mean, Like you kind of set your boundaries. Um,
So with my friends, I'm kind of like, um, why
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not have fun? And we also are very fortunate we
live in l A. Most of our friends work as
creative and so why wouldn't you want to look like
a creative In terms of men that I'm dating? Um, yeah,
that's a tricky one. Most of my boyfriends I have
been like, uh, what what's that? Like, I just in translation,
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you're like calculating. Do I like that? I Will have
an opinion about it later and call my at the
book crack of dawn to tell her about it. Absolutely
I mean I had one boyfriend, God bless him with
friends now years ago, we invited him to like a
downtown party with a bunch of queer fashion head kids
and he showed up wearing a rhinestone Christian atta J
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button down and he was like, oh my god, he
thought he was servant, and I was like, not Christian,
who is that? He's kind of like um back in
the day. He was like the Von Dutch, it's like
Vonda Christian add I think that's a said like John Deere,
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all those brands that like, we're kind of had like
their name. And then Charlie Davidson like, see, even if
you showed up an a Lisa Frank sweater, I'd be
like retro, I'm here for it. Got it. Like these
brands felt a little bit more douchy, like Bond Dutch,
and Christian felt very douche. So are you like the
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Regina Georgs? Who are You're like, oh my god, I
love that bracelet where you get it? No, I'm actually
ugly I've ever seen you know. We actually just had
a conversation you and I about this because people you
were like, you have to be mindful about what you
say because people are listening to you, like yeah, the
dark room that we'll remember that conversation for the rest
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of our lives. Literally, I went to the mall with
one of my friends and he picked up these like
bracelets um that had like charms on him. It was
like black plastic and leather and had like a feather
charm on it, and he was like, what do you
think about this? I should buy this? And I'm like,
I'm looking at his style. I'm looking at where I
think he can go with the style, and I know
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that that's not his style. I know that he's just
wasting money because he thinks it's a cute item. And
so I was like, no, I don't think so. And
then you know, I think it comes off as me
being like ill, but I'm just kind of planning for
the person, if that makes sense. And I'm saying a
little bit of m you don't but you say you
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don't toudge them, No, I think I'm I think people
do the best with how they feel, and and like
even today, I don't feel very cute, Like I've worn
this this um uh plaid thing like probably three days
in a row, and then like a lot of videos
and I have like another video that I'm shooting later
today after this, So I'm like this, did I really
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want to wear? Like, I just don't feel like I
just don't feel like it's so I'm just and it's
hot and I feel a little subconscious. So I'm just
kind of like, I don't know, I always get self
conscious during the summer because it's hot, and I still
feel some type of way about wearing shorts or like
you know, short dresses, and that's something I'm still working through.
But what I do like to wear that makes me
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feel good is like I love crop tops, I love
type pants, I love baggy pants. Anything that like, um,
can chop up my body in a way that's that
can like focus on the waist because it's like the
kind of smaller part of my body so that it
tricks the eye a little bit. Um. And then we're
also talking that, I was like, oh, I've gained weight,
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Like where's this weight going? And I like knock something
over with my butt. I'm like it's that yeah, like
um sidebar. We were talking. We were also talking about
like the silhouettes, right, like I call that the universal
two inches Like I'm like I don't care what shape
you are, what gender you are, like whatever sort of
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body type you have. If you go like two inches underneath,
like where the bottom of your boobs might be, or
like where the bottom of your peck might be, like
two or three inches, that part always seems to be
like smooth and like really like a little bit above
your belly button. Yeah, like it always looks really good.
And so if you were like a highwaystiit skirt and
like a crop top, but you show those two three
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inches off, you're gonna look sexy. If you are worried
about your body in any sort of way, those two
to three inches always I don't care if you're like pregnant,
I don't care if like whatever, Like they're just sexy,
Like they're just like show sorry, show like a little
bit underneath it is always sexy. I don't care. Like
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you're welcome, take that tip, run with it. Um. The
other thing that I wanted to say to is um,
like for me currently, like I'm I usually pick a theme,
so I'll be like I only want to look like
a blue hoole. So now I'm a bluehole. I'm wearing feathers.
I'm wearing like all of my grandmother My grandmother used
to give me feathers and make earrings, so like all
of my feathers, I wear all of my goal like
all of my necklaces. And then I'm like, now I'm
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an aboilo, so I only want to look like an aboilo,
highwaisted slacks, little old man's sweaters, cute little button knobs.
And then now I'm like in like a daddy phase,
like I only want to dress like a daddy who's
hanging out on his front lawn with his coffee in
the newspaper. So like I only really wear like solid
colors like white. I'm only wearing white these days, and
like maybe blue, Like I don't really do anything else.
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I'm very much that maybe some grays like yeah, cream
absolutely like so that's kind of like where I'm at,
and I stick to it and letting the silvers come
out in my beard and let the silvers come out
on the side of my head. Like I'm kind of
like in daddy mode right now. But it's been so
like cool to see you change your style and to
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know that any one of us can do that at
any moment, and then we go absolutely I mean for
some people. I think it's a little more accessible because
of the place we live in. But also the internet
has a lot of different clothing options now, like more
than than before, which is great. And I think that
is the thing that you were saying before of how
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people are really leaning into changing all of their style,
like wearing golf things or just because they want to
and not necessarily because they subscribe to them the music.
Even though back in the day I did dress very
emo and I did listen to emo music. Um So
when I see people wearing those types of things, I
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am like, Wait, you didn't go through the ugly duckling
phase of not knowing how to do your eyeliner and
and work towards that. Now you look like all of
the teenagers and the preteens have such great style, and
I'm like, where is your struggle coming from? Where is
the where is the ugly? Because I swear to God,
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my my dad used to call me and my phone,
I swear to God, my dad used to call me
my friends the Racconets because we had we had harsh
black eyeliner all over and would wear black shirts and
like we look like that's actually really cool. Names to
the recounts. Yeah, um, what advice would you have for
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people who are like looking for their style, like it's
kind of a scary thing. Well, what was very beneficial
for me was, um, if it's not triggering for you
at all, like I would um get my measurements. I
would measure myself my body down to my ankles, my feet,
like my my neck, my chest, my waist, my wrists, everything, um,
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my fingers, so that I would feel more empowered to
know that I know this thing is not going to
fit me because I see the sizes and the dimensions
and I know it's I know it's not gonna fit,
so I'm gonna ask for something else. When I don't
do that, when I'm unaware of all these things, and
I'm just like, yeah, it goes it goes bad, especially
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for work things like when they're asking for wardrobe and
I give them a blank size and I don't specify
I have like a bigger bottom than I do, like
my waist and I have bigger arms than I do.
You know, it's like try to become as empowered. And
I keep saying like harmonious because that's what like my
um holistic counselor is teaching me to to say is like,
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have that good relationship with clothes and your body and
your self esteem so that it feels good to you,
because it's like a superpower. Once you lock into feeling
good for you, I swear to God, nobody can tell
you anything. So definitely, like do some research on your
body type, um, because there's a lot of things in
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this world that make us feel like just make us
feel like we lose our power in these clothes when
they don't fit us, and then we spiral. So it's
always good to really know what your body type is,
what feels good to you. Is this is sitting outfit
or is this a standard outfit sitting outfit or standing outfit?
Today I'm going to be sitting a lot, and I
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was like, oh, I'm like I'm even going to change
into some um like workout pants with this outfit. I'm
just like it's I'm gonna be sitting and i just
want to be comfortable and I'm still gonna look cute though.
So definitely educating yourself on your own body is like,
so it was so important to me. Absolutely, that's that's
such an important thing too, because like understanding your body
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understanding like what you're insecure about, what you're actually proud of.
How do you kind of like accentuate the parts of
yourself that you're really proud of. Like, I love my legs,
I think I have a really I have I have
like nicer arms. I feel so like, what are different
things that I can wear to show that off? I
feel like it does get really hard depending on where
you live, depending on the type of people that you're around,
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depending on your exposure to different sorts of communities. It
is hard, right, Like if you're the only person in
your town or in your area that wants to wear
white eyeliner on the inside of their eyes because they
feel like it makes me pop more, but everybody around
me thinks that you look crazy. Um, it gets a
little hard. I think that. Um it is a struggle
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and it takes a lot of energy to put your
foot down and be like, this is how I want
to express myself. Which is why when you see people
doing it, you gotta give them their props, because you've
gotta be like, that's hard. That is not easy to
walk around over here with whatever whatever you're wearing and
really really own it. Welcome to the astrology portion of
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the podcast Curly, I have a quection for you, which
sign signs tend to be the most stylish in your
perspective of Oh my god, cross I feel like different
signs do it differently. I mean, Virgos would be very
big about being meticulous about their look. Everything is probably
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gonna be thought out and calculated. I make sure that
I have one item that is the focal point. I
don't dress too loud. But then I think of like
Alexis Garcia, who um is a cancer and dresses like
She's one of the best dressers I've ever seen in
my entire life, Like, but she has a lot of
Virgo in her chart does she and the impactable style
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another Virgo um. I'm trying to think of people who
make me go wow. Jazz is a Libra like she
dresses so beautifully, you dress really well like aries um Leo's,
I feel like would probably be good dressers as well.
Who do you think it would be like a bad
dresser Like, I think somebody who wouldn't care. UM that
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I've experienced in my own personal UM life and experiences
with them is Aquarius. For me, I had a boyfriend,
I had a boyfriend who was in Aquarius and he
just did not care. And um, he was the person
who was like my first love and then came back
(30:13):
after ten years literally last year. I was like, it's you.
It's always been you. I want to be with you.
And you know, not only was he even more um
emotionally abusive than ever, but he also got worse in
his style. So I was like, all right, because Aquarius,
(30:34):
they don't care about authority, and he did not care
about authority. He doesn't care about society, he doesn't care
about like looking good for anyone else, Like he just didn't.
He didn't care, Like it just is not something. And
I would like somebody to care, because I would like
somebody to feel like their best self and I would
love to feel like my best self with them and
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walk into a party and be like, wow, that's a
hot couple. You know, Well America or world or wherever
you're listening to this, well universe, Um, you heard it
here first. If you're an Aquarius, maya thinks that you
can't dress and no, I did it. I had some
Aquarius male roll the cliff, roll the clip. There's a clip,
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there's a clip, clipt the clip I think that people
can't dress, and I said no based on my my thing,
but I think Pisces are very Pisces can dress. Leo,
very cute les can dress My dad. My dad is
a Leo and he used to dress up as like
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in patrugal style always and he dressed me at one
point for like a video and it looked really cool.
Like he's also an artist, so he has that. Also
a rock star so yeah, and a rock story. Um.
He we have this thing that I forgot what his
fashion drag name would be. It's called like I forgot
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like Patricia something is his like femi fashion side that
he says comes out. Um. My mom is self conscious
sometimes with her style nowadays, but she's learning more and
she's such terious rising Aquarius Pisces moon. She's learning more
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on like how to get back to what she felt
like when she was growing up, like in when she
was my age, because she had style like my parents
could dress. She does. She just she just gets like
I mean, we had me and her at a conversation
literally this morning that she was like, I'm I'm learning
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I'm to be more comfortable with my body as my
body fluctuates and she bought this beautiful like orange dress
because she goes for comfort more than anything, which I get.
But she doesn't feel her best like she just she
just does the bare minimum, and I know she doesn't
feel her best. Body is banging like she's got big booty,
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big chee cheese, small waist like banging. So I'm just like,
come on, mom, like you're hot like today, I had
to be like, you're so pretty. She's like, thank you.
So I think definitely like the fire signs, but fire
signs are a little bit more like we're dressing to
prove a point sometimes. M h, I can see that.
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What about capricorns anyway? That concludes our style section Capricorns
to like, there's a hattag on Twitter that concludes our
astrology section. By the way, I fucking just for the record,
I love capricorns. I'm just you guys. You guys can
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take it. You guys. You guys have your head so
far up your own asses that you can take a joke.
If you can take your own head up your ass,
you can take a joke and say nut. Alright, my
final thoughts, how do you plead um? And that concludes
the astrology section of the Podcastcorns. I didn't I didn't
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hear that. I heard the capricorns infiltrate my brain and
be like, oh, just the explosion, just a bomb. I
dropped of talking to ship anyway. You plead, I plead
like this all plean though, Please where what you want
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and feel good in it, and educate yourself about your
body and your body type to your own standards. Um,
because it is all a science, and but it's also
very spiritual. And if you're not feeling good in something,
take it off and just go naked. Yeah, I will
say this. I think that life is so short, life
(34:59):
is so shore. And if you can show up for
yourself by throwing just a little glitter on or putting
whatever you want to put on, do it like, go
off like do it for you. And if you feel beautiful,
and if you feel good and you feel confident, that
is truly all that matters, because you, my friend, are
the center of your own universe. Universe, your own universe.
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Hey, what are you doing here? You better work? Comes don't? Well? Wow,
those so silish of us, get in here. My name
(00:22):
is Curly and I'm Maya and Welcome to the Super
Secret Best Clubs Podcast, a super secret club where we
talk about super secret things, a super secret, more time secret.
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendships, heartbreaks, men,
and of course, our favorite secrets. Welcome to another episode
(00:46):
of the Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast. Today we're talking
about fashion and style and style and fashion exactly. It's
something that really kind of mystifies people. I feel. I
feel like people. I was like, I don't know my
style is or I don't know what to do, and
even people who do have style are constantly like, I
don't know who I am anymore, I don't know what
to do. Um, it's really like a big deal. Sidebar,
(01:09):
I didn't want to touch up on super fast. I
just listened to today's episode of our podcast and I
said like seventy five times, So I apologize in advance
for all of that. Today I will be more mindful
of how many times I say like, but keep you
on anyways, Okay here, Um, what is style? Style is?
According to Dictionary dot Com on go aggle. Um, it
(01:30):
is a manner of doing something or a distinctive appearance,
typically determined by the principles according to which something is designed.
Whatever the funk that means you're goofy today, You're a
goofy girl today. I'm like, I have a heart out
it too, and your all, what the fund does that mean?
(01:54):
Go aggle? I just think whatever anyway, Um, what does
that mean to you? MAYA style means? I well, at
first it was very intimidating because I came from Arizona
and sorry, maybe at the time whatever, like, nobody had style.
The only people who had style that I wanted to
be like was Lizzie McGuire Raven Simone, and you could
(02:18):
buy their clothing at Claire's. And I could never fit
into Claies or limited to or not not claars limited
to do you remember limited to? Yeah? Absolutely, I could
never fit in that. So I think I felt from
early on that style wasn't for me, with like curves
and a butt and boobs and a waist and all
(02:40):
of these things. You know. So what did you think?
Were you like, I guess I'll just not be stylish. Yeah,
I think I like also associated it with a lot
of like vanity and vain people, and like I almost
wanted to be like, I don't care about my style.
I don't care about this in that and I would
(03:00):
wear a lot of frumpy clothes because I was like, no,
I care about the mind and the soul. But I'm like,
it would never make me feel good because I would
never I never felt good in anything I wore because
I never really learned how to dress myself. But now
I feel like we're going to get into it. But
now I feel like I like it. I like style. Yeah,
(03:23):
I feel like for me. Early on, I was a
huge Selina fan when I was really young, and I
saw that she was into fashion, and I was like,
oh my god, that's so cool. I'm into fashion too.
And I saw that she designed dresses, and so I
was like, I wanted design dresses. And by the time
I was in high school, I think people know the
story and I'll be really fast about it. Um I
actually used to ask girls in high school if I
could design their prom dresses. I actually asked my sister
(03:44):
back and desi Herkaniana dress, and she was like never
in nine years, um uh, And I was like, well, okay,
I'll ask these girls in high school if I can
design and they let me. And then when I, you know,
graduated high school, I didn't really go to like a
real college. I went to technical school to learn how
to do fashion um and then I went down to
work for like David LaChapelle and Jeremy Scott, who are
(04:05):
huge in the art fashion world. Cause Curly has Curly
is fashion. Curly has been like I know you you
talk about you think you talk about this a lot
and that a lot of people know this. A lot
of people don't know this. Oh yeah, I know this,
and I don't. I never get tired of hearing about it.
Like my best friend needs to work with now in
(04:26):
time to Yeah, I mean like David Studios was like
the mecca, and Jeremy's this was at the beginning before
like he became like the head and mosqu you know,
like if you see anything on like some of your
favorite CARDI b Loves, Katie Perry, Rihanna and the Mickey helmet,
Like we did that at Jeremy Scott when we did
(04:47):
the Mickey glasses that Lady Gaga wore, those Linda Fero
glasses that turned into Mickey Mouse ears like that was us.
The wings on Adidas, that was us, like that, I
was there for those moments, right, Like, I don't want
to say that was what I was. I was just there.
That's why. Sorry, pause, this is just me being mad
for you. That's why when people are like he's copying
bad Bunny style, I'm like, bad Money probably copied his
(05:11):
style because Curly has been in the game for a while.
Has you look at all of his like pictures. He's
played with a lot of different fashion that I've seen,
Mr Bad Bunny. I don't know, I'm not saying, but
every time I hear Curly talk about how someone was
like you bad Bunny, I want to I want to
(05:34):
punch them. I want you and you know I mean
to be fair. Bad Funny to me has really taken
on a lot of the looks that my queer Latin
friends have taken on are my queer my queer black
and brown friends have taken on um since the early
two thousands, So I've never surprised by what he wears
and like, oh yeah, like my friend has already did
(05:56):
that a while. Look, my friends did that already. My
friend Martin already did that, like all these people already
did it. Um. But yeah, so for me, like I
love style, Like I look at style as a way
that you can show up in the world. How do
you want the world to see you? Like? Style really does,
unfortunately determine the way that people treat you in social settings, right, Like, um,
(06:19):
somebody can walk You always hear the stories about people
who work in retail where they're like, this person just
walked in, like looking like they're wearing a potato sacks, um,
And you know, she ended up being the princess of
that that country and she spent one thing, but we
treated her like ship in the beginning. Like style really
(06:40):
does kind of say a lot about the person in
more ways than we think. So for me, it's actually
something that is very important to me that I'm constantly
changing because I'm constantly changing how I want to be
perceived in the world. Do you feel like it influences
like how does we talked about like body image issues
before or how does style embody image issues all that
(07:02):
stuff go hand in hand for you? I mean, look,
I feel like my body has changed as we know,
we talked about we talked we mentioned this earlier talking
about our sizes and how we feel in our body.
Right Like I at the time was a little bit
thicker and very insecure, so I could only wear certain
types of colors maybe blues, dark greens, um black, because
(07:25):
I was like, I know, I look good. I can
only wear certain fabrics, like certain cottons. We could sense
you in tighter, certain things with zippers. You know, a
good zipper, We'll go a long way. My zippers always
like I'm like, come on, girl, yes, buttons forget buttons
(07:46):
Like buttons are not buttons. Buttons are like yeah, they're
like hanging on by a single thread. And I'm like, damn,
it's gonna off in somebody's face and like their eye
out and they're ready. They got you all night. Um.
(08:10):
But I feel like, you know, it's changed a lot
for me depending on how I feel, um, But for you,
I feel like, you know when you talk about your
style change, like we were literally just talking to This
is kind of how this topic was born because mine
and I were on the phone literally yesterday in the
morning talking about how her style has changed and how,
by the way, Curly calls me every morning like seven
(08:30):
the buck crack of dawn. He's like, where are you sleeping.
I'm like I was. He's like, oh my god, I'm
like talking about like life things early in the morning.
I had to be like, stop, I just woke up.
I'm going to be gruppy for the rest of the
day to be there. I called me talking about boys
and you staid of talking about work, and I was like, okay,
are like no, I did. You're lying right now to
(08:57):
the park talking about boys. Oh my god, which I like,
but yeah, we were talking about it. We're talking about
style and stuff. Because I came from Arizona and I
didn't I didn't see a lot of representation from my
body type. I'm like an in between E like I can't.
I mean right now, I like to be transparent. I
(09:18):
like gained a lot of weight from the pandemic stuff,
and I'm at the heaviest I've been. But I'm like
the happiest I've been because I'm just like, I'm trying
to have this harmonious relationship with my body image and
eating and clothes. Like I'm I'm really trying to work
hard to find clothes that make me feel good and
(09:39):
not clothes that are like, oh what, like I don't know,
just trying to say something. And I noticed every time
I picked something that makes me feel good, like I'm like,
I don't know, Like that night, I feel like I'm
floating on a cloud. Like when I wore that blue outfit,
I was like, and it was comfortable. I was wearing
like these like basic shorts like underneath and then like
(10:01):
my crocs, Like I felt really great. But it took
me a while to get there. I think mostly just
because of lack of lack of clothing honestly that fit
me in stores, Like I really had to search, um
and scour the internet and just stores to find a
pair of pants that fit me. And the only pants
that would fit me, and I've tried on a lot
(10:22):
of pants everywhere else was forever twenty one pants back
in the day. They were the only ones that would
fit my butt and my thighs and my stomach, um
without like a gap in the back. So um, it was.
It was, you know, and I still go through it
a lot as my body fluctuates and changes. Um. But
I think I just was like, you know what, like
(10:46):
I feel good. If I feel good, then nobody can
tell me anything. The on the flips too, Like I
will say, like, uh, size inclusivity when it comes to
fashion is actually really really really new, and it's like
(11:08):
barely like the tip of the iceberg where people like
Chloe Kardashian have to be like it's such a big
deal that we carry every size in our collection in
a stuff like that should not be that is a
big deal and that's crazy. But also like you should
carry every size, like what is the what's going on?
You know? So it is the thing that I always
hear um women or just people in general from different
(11:31):
sizes being like it's really new. Like even when you
get down to like sustainability talk, when you're like you
should shot vintage, it's like they weren't making my side.
And plus these girls are buying like on TikTok, it's
a trend where they buy a bigger clothes and cut
them and change them into I'm like, well, you know, um,
(11:53):
I feel like for me right now, I've done a
lot of different stiles and things that make me feel comfortable.
I kind of feel like I'm kind of going through
it in terms of my own style because you know,
I came up in the early two thousands when style
was just like throw everything on, you know, like you
got a glitter bell, Oh my god, that's gonna go
(12:13):
so good with your ruffle skirt, Oh my god. And
you should also wear like this over the shoulder top
and what are you gonna do with you here? Oh god,
we have to crimp your hair. Like it was still
kind of like I have ever been on the crimping
trend at all? Never, Oh god, what about like the
crimping for sure is going to come back? Or I
think you try to come back already trying. I don't
(12:34):
get it. I think that for me, style changed drastically
with the dawn of Kim Kardashian and Kanye because I
think that they kind of made ath leisure where the
kind of go to style where people really dipped into
the solid colors, the monotones, the earth tones, um, the
(12:56):
body con stuff um. And to me that was kind
of the death of style. I remember being like, what
about you know, um problem um or Chris or Jean Charles,
like these designers that really were like pushing things forward
and and croissant. It sounds I'm like Dijontard and catch
(13:31):
you not of guys us. And now I was just
saying that I feel like there's an oversaturation of style.
I feel like style is so easy. I literally like
(13:53):
look at people and I'm like, yeah, you can look
at a photo on Instagram and just get dressed. Like
back in the day, if you were dressed in off
you probably listen, you were a god kid. If you
were dressed as a skater, you were a skater kid.
If you were a raver, you probably listen to the
house and techno. And now it's like no, I just
like it and you're like, wow that you're right. Zs
(14:13):
are posers. What I'm saying is it's a double edged sword,
right because you're gen Z. So by the way, I
don't come for our especializ gen Z starts. So yeah,
I say a month between I will say this that
I do think that what's really cool about this younger
generation in terms of the world and style. It is
(14:36):
really cool that people just wear whatever the hell they
want to wear. So, yes, it's changed that your style
no longer necessarily informs a lifestyle, but it is really
cool to live in a world where if you're wanting
to wear a pearl necklace and you're like this, like
big old dude, you're like, Okay, throw on the pearl necklace.
You have a date with the pearl necklaces. Huh, because
(14:58):
I haven't. This is the thing. I have a theory
that every year, every two years straight, sis men will
find the one item that they're like, oh my god,
I'm going and I'm like, oh my god, and then
they kill it. They're like look at me fine, and
you're like, okay, we get it. It was the pro necklace. Um,
it was the pink hoodie a couple of years ago.
(15:22):
The earring, the one earring. It was the the neon
orange beanie. For a second, I'm like, oh my god,
like we get it. Like it's too much, it's too much.
It's I'm like rings. I don't know. Do you judge
people according to their style, like when they're like your
(15:42):
friend or like a lover, like a boyfriend, Like like
what about a guy, like do you care how he
dresses a little bit? But I also am very like
I have been in a place where I had no
idea what I was doing for style, So I don't
judge that hard. Um I do love Like I'm trying
to think of whose style I really loved when I
(16:02):
was dating them um K pop boy Um. He definitely
I liked his style. He was really cute. He would
wear like these like baggy hoodies and then like I
don't know, he like had this crisp white shirt that
felt super soft and when you're laying down and you
like you put your hand on his chest and you're
(16:23):
like a night. This year, he never wore it again
because we broke up. Wow, and he's dead now to us,
not in real life, to me, to me, not in
real life, God to last. I hope you dream well.
You you are a little more critical of people's styles,
(16:46):
but you're critical in terms of you know, I think
it always like I literally will look at somebody and
I kind of my virgo assets to be like, oh,
I know what would look good on you. Let's try this.
I think we should do this. Da da da. I
have to really bite my tongue and hold onto my
opinion really hard, because sometimes I'm like I already know
what's going to look at on you, Like I already
(17:07):
I can look at it and be like, um, what
do you want to try? So the way that I
do it. When people are like talking about styles and
like pick a celebrity that you really like that, you
feel like you could live and be comfortable in their clothing,
create a mood board, like let's just say it's Tracy
Ellis Ross right, Like for people who want to go
live with my glamorous, Um, what would Tracy where and
(17:28):
what would she not wear? So like Tracy Ellis Ross
on the red carpet might go in like a color
blocking and and really cool silhouettes, but you wouldn't see
her in like a crew neck sweater and sweat. So like, okay,
I'm not going to wear the crewneck and you know
what I mean, Like you kind of set your boundaries. Um,
So with my friends, I'm kind of like, um, why
(17:49):
not have fun? And we also are very fortunate we
live in l A. Most of our friends work as
creative and so why wouldn't you want to look like
a creative In terms of men that I'm dating? Um, yeah,
that's a tricky one. Most of my boyfriends I have
been like, uh, what what's that? Like, I just in translation,
(18:19):
you're like calculating. Do I like that? I Will have
an opinion about it later and call my at the
book crack of dawn to tell her about it. Absolutely
I mean I had one boyfriend, God bless him with
friends now years ago, we invited him to like a
downtown party with a bunch of queer fashion head kids
and he showed up wearing a rhinestone Christian atta J
(18:42):
button down and he was like, oh my god, he
thought he was servant, and I was like, not Christian,
who is that? He's kind of like um back in
the day. He was like the Von Dutch, it's like
Vonda Christian add I think that's a said like John Deere,
(19:05):
all those brands that like, we're kind of had like
their name. And then Charlie Davidson like, see, even if
you showed up an a Lisa Frank sweater, I'd be
like retro, I'm here for it. Got it. Like these
brands felt a little bit more douchy, like Bond Dutch,
and Christian felt very douche. So are you like the
(19:27):
Regina Georgs? Who are You're like, oh my god, I
love that bracelet where you get it? No, I'm actually
ugly I've ever seen you know. We actually just had
a conversation you and I about this because people you
were like, you have to be mindful about what you
say because people are listening to you, like yeah, the
dark room that we'll remember that conversation for the rest
(19:51):
of our lives. Literally, I went to the mall with
one of my friends and he picked up these like
bracelets um that had like charms on him. It was
like black plastic and leather and had like a feather
charm on it, and he was like, what do you
think about this? I should buy this? And I'm like,
I'm looking at his style. I'm looking at where I
think he can go with the style, and I know
(20:12):
that that's not his style. I know that he's just
wasting money because he thinks it's a cute item. And
so I was like, no, I don't think so. And
then you know, I think it comes off as me
being like ill, but I'm just kind of planning for
the person, if that makes sense. And I'm saying a
little bit of m you don't but you say you
(20:33):
don't toudge them, No, I think I'm I think people
do the best with how they feel, and and like
even today, I don't feel very cute, Like I've worn
this this um uh plaid thing like probably three days
in a row, and then like a lot of videos
and I have like another video that I'm shooting later
today after this, So I'm like this, did I really
(20:55):
want to wear? Like, I just don't feel like I
just don't feel like it's so I'm just and it's
hot and I feel a little subconscious. So I'm just
kind of like, I don't know, I always get self
conscious during the summer because it's hot, and I still
feel some type of way about wearing shorts or like
you know, short dresses, and that's something I'm still working through.
But what I do like to wear that makes me
(21:17):
feel good is like I love crop tops, I love
type pants, I love baggy pants. Anything that like, um,
can chop up my body in a way that's that
can like focus on the waist because it's like the
kind of smaller part of my body so that it
tricks the eye a little bit. Um. And then we're
also talking that, I was like, oh, I've gained weight,
(21:38):
Like where's this weight going? And I like knock something
over with my butt. I'm like it's that yeah, like
um sidebar. We were talking. We were also talking about
like the silhouettes, right, like I call that the universal
two inches Like I'm like I don't care what shape
you are, what gender you are, like whatever sort of
(22:00):
body type you have. If you go like two inches underneath,
like where the bottom of your boobs might be, or
like where the bottom of your peck might be, like
two or three inches, that part always seems to be
like smooth and like really like a little bit above
your belly button. Yeah, like it always looks really good.
And so if you were like a highwaystiit skirt and
like a crop top, but you show those two three
(22:22):
inches off, you're gonna look sexy. If you are worried
about your body in any sort of way, those two
to three inches always I don't care if you're like pregnant,
I don't care if like whatever, Like they're just sexy,
Like they're just like show sorry, show like a little
bit underneath it is always sexy. I don't care. Like
(22:43):
you're welcome, take that tip, run with it. Um. The
other thing that I wanted to say to is um,
like for me currently, like I'm I usually pick a theme,
so I'll be like I only want to look like
a blue hoole. So now I'm a bluehole. I'm wearing feathers.
I'm wearing like all of my grandmother My grandmother used
to give me feathers and make earrings, so like all
of my feathers, I wear all of my goal like
all of my necklaces. And then I'm like, now I'm
(23:04):
an aboilo, so I only want to look like an aboilo,
highwaisted slacks, little old man's sweaters, cute little button knobs.
And then now I'm like in like a daddy phase,
like I only want to dress like a daddy who's
hanging out on his front lawn with his coffee in
the newspaper. So like I only really wear like solid
colors like white. I'm only wearing white these days, and
like maybe blue, Like I don't really do anything else.
(23:27):
I'm very much that maybe some grays like yeah, cream
absolutely like so that's kind of like where I'm at,
and I stick to it and letting the silvers come
out in my beard and let the silvers come out
on the side of my head. Like I'm kind of
like in daddy mode right now. But it's been so
like cool to see you change your style and to
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know that any one of us can do that at
any moment, and then we go absolutely I mean for
some people. I think it's a little more accessible because
of the place we live in. But also the internet
has a lot of different clothing options now, like more
than than before, which is great. And I think that
is the thing that you were saying before of how
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people are really leaning into changing all of their style,
like wearing golf things or just because they want to
and not necessarily because they subscribe to them the music.
Even though back in the day I did dress very
emo and I did listen to emo music. Um So
when I see people wearing those types of things, I
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am like, Wait, you didn't go through the ugly duckling
phase of not knowing how to do your eyeliner and
and work towards that. Now you look like all of
the teenagers and the preteens have such great style, and
I'm like, where is your struggle coming from? Where is
the where is the ugly? Because I swear to God,
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my my dad used to call me and my phone,
I swear to God, my dad used to call me
my friends the Racconets because we had we had harsh
black eyeliner all over and would wear black shirts and
like we look like that's actually really cool. Names to
the recounts. Yeah, um, what advice would you have for
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people who are like looking for their style, like it's
kind of a scary thing. Well, what was very beneficial
for me was, um, if it's not triggering for you
at all, like I would um get my measurements. I
would measure myself my body down to my ankles, my feet,
like my my neck, my chest, my waist, my wrists, everything, um,
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my fingers, so that I would feel more empowered to
know that I know this thing is not going to
fit me because I see the sizes and the dimensions
and I know it's I know it's not gonna fit,
so I'm gonna ask for something else. When I don't
do that, when I'm unaware of all these things, and
I'm just like, yeah, it goes it goes bad, especially
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for work things like when they're asking for wardrobe and
I give them a blank size and I don't specify
I have like a bigger bottom than I do, like
my waist and I have bigger arms than I do.
You know, it's like try to become as empowered. And
I keep saying like harmonious because that's what like my
um holistic counselor is teaching me to to say is like,
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have that good relationship with clothes and your body and
your self esteem so that it feels good to you,
because it's like a superpower. Once you lock into feeling
good for you, I swear to God, nobody can tell
you anything. So definitely, like do some research on your
body type, um, because there's a lot of things in
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this world that make us feel like just make us
feel like we lose our power in these clothes when
they don't fit us, and then we spiral. So it's
always good to really know what your body type is,
what feels good to you. Is this is sitting outfit
or is this a standard outfit sitting outfit or standing outfit?
Today I'm going to be sitting a lot, and I
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was like, oh, I'm like I'm even going to change
into some um like workout pants with this outfit. I'm
just like it's I'm gonna be sitting and i just
want to be comfortable and I'm still gonna look cute though.
So definitely educating yourself on your own body is like,
so it was so important to me. Absolutely, that's that's
such an important thing too, because like understanding your body
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understanding like what you're insecure about, what you're actually proud of.
How do you kind of like accentuate the parts of
yourself that you're really proud of. Like, I love my legs,
I think I have a really I have I have
like nicer arms. I feel so like, what are different
things that I can wear to show that off? I
feel like it does get really hard depending on where
you live, depending on the type of people that you're around,
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depending on your exposure to different sorts of communities. It
is hard, right, Like if you're the only person in
your town or in your area that wants to wear
white eyeliner on the inside of their eyes because they
feel like it makes me pop more, but everybody around
me thinks that you look crazy. Um, it gets a
little hard. I think that. Um it is a struggle
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and it takes a lot of energy to put your
foot down and be like, this is how I want
to express myself. Which is why when you see people
doing it, you gotta give them their props, because you've
gotta be like, that's hard. That is not easy to
walk around over here with whatever whatever you're wearing and
really really own it. Welcome to the astrology portion of
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the podcast Curly, I have a quection for you, which
sign signs tend to be the most stylish in your
perspective of Oh my god, cross I feel like different
signs do it differently. I mean, Virgos would be very
big about being meticulous about their look. Everything is probably
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gonna be thought out and calculated. I make sure that
I have one item that is the focal point. I
don't dress too loud. But then I think of like
Alexis Garcia, who um is a cancer and dresses like
She's one of the best dressers I've ever seen in
my entire life, Like, but she has a lot of
Virgo in her chart does she and the impactable style
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another Virgo um. I'm trying to think of people who
make me go wow. Jazz is a Libra like she
dresses so beautifully, you dress really well like aries um Leo's,
I feel like would probably be good dressers as well.
Who do you think it would be like a bad
dresser Like, I think somebody who wouldn't care. UM that
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I've experienced in my own personal UM life and experiences
with them is Aquarius. For me, I had a boyfriend,
I had a boyfriend who was in Aquarius and he
just did not care. And um, he was the person
who was like my first love and then came back
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after ten years literally last year. I was like, it's you.
It's always been you. I want to be with you.
And you know, not only was he even more um
emotionally abusive than ever, but he also got worse in
his style. So I was like, all right, because Aquarius,
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they don't care about authority, and he did not care
about authority. He doesn't care about society, he doesn't care
about like looking good for anyone else, Like he just didn't.
He didn't care, Like it just is not something. And
I would like somebody to care, because I would like
somebody to feel like their best self and I would
love to feel like my best self with them and
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walk into a party and be like, wow, that's a
hot couple. You know, Well America or world or wherever
you're listening to this, well universe, Um, you heard it
here first. If you're an Aquarius, maya thinks that you
can't dress and no, I did it. I had some
Aquarius male roll the cliff, roll the clip. There's a clip,
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there's a clip, clipt the clip I think that people
can't dress, and I said no based on my my thing,
but I think Pisces are very Pisces can dress. Leo,
very cute les can dress My dad. My dad is
a Leo and he used to dress up as like
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in patrugal style always and he dressed me at one
point for like a video and it looked really cool.
Like he's also an artist, so he has that. Also
a rock star so yeah, and a rock story. Um.
He we have this thing that I forgot what his
fashion drag name would be. It's called like I forgot
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like Patricia something is his like femi fashion side that
he says comes out. Um. My mom is self conscious
sometimes with her style nowadays, but she's learning more and
she's such terious rising Aquarius Pisces moon. She's learning more
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on like how to get back to what she felt
like when she was growing up, like in when she
was my age, because she had style like my parents
could dress. She does. She just she just gets like
I mean, we had me and her at a conversation
literally this morning that she was like, I'm I'm learning
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I'm to be more comfortable with my body as my
body fluctuates and she bought this beautiful like orange dress
because she goes for comfort more than anything, which I get.
But she doesn't feel her best like she just she
just does the bare minimum, and I know she doesn't
feel her best. Body is banging like she's got big booty,
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big chee cheese, small waist like banging. So I'm just like,
come on, mom, like you're hot like today, I had
to be like, you're so pretty. She's like, thank you.
So I think definitely like the fire signs, but fire
signs are a little bit more like we're dressing to
prove a point sometimes. M h, I can see that.
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What about capricorns anyway? That concludes our style section Capricorns
to like, there's a hattag on Twitter that concludes our
astrology section. By the way, I fucking just for the record,
I love capricorns. I'm just you guys. You guys can
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take it. You guys. You guys have your head so
far up your own asses that you can take a joke.
If you can take your own head up your ass,
you can take a joke and say nut. Alright, my
final thoughts, how do you plead um? And that concludes
the astrology section of the Podcastcorns. I didn't I didn't
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hear that. I heard the capricorns infiltrate my brain and
be like, oh, just the explosion, just a bomb. I
dropped of talking to ship anyway. You plead, I plead
like this all plean though, Please where what you want
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and feel good in it, and educate yourself about your
body and your body type to your own standards. Um,
because it is all a science, and but it's also
very spiritual. And if you're not feeling good in something,
take it off and just go naked. Yeah, I will
say this. I think that life is so short, life
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is so shore. And if you can show up for
yourself by throwing just a little glitter on or putting
whatever you want to put on, do it like, go
off like do it for you. And if you feel beautiful,
and if you feel good and you feel confident, that
is truly all that matters, because you, my friend, are
the center of your own universe. Universe, your own universe.
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