December 20, 2023 • 39 mins
When movies really impacted us (or misguided us?). In this episode our duo will expose the side effects of too much romantic movie magic. Get ready to reconsider your favorite love scenes and embrace the chaos of real love, imperfections and all!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What are you doing here?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Don't you share, you idiot.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
It's me.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's always been me. What come over here, you big hunker, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I'm gay Maya.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Oh yeah. Also, this is a Wendy's Cane and Frosty.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
She's near here.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Wait, I work at the Wendy's ol.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
My name is Curly and I'm Maya.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
And Welcome to the Super Secret Bestie Clubs Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Welcome to another a super sy good Besty Club podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
I have been singing my nephews.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I live to make my nephews laugh, and I've just
been making everything like a country song. So they brought
Cane's Chicken too the house yesterday and I was like,
I like my chicken.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
F I'm Cage, I'll make you laugh and I'm not
your nephew.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
And I'm like, I like my chicken if I'm pay chicken,
and I just won't it, And my what did I say?
I was like, I won it in my yummy, tell
me that's right, and they were like, what yummy tell me?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Oh my god, you're a legend. I need to learn
from you. My nephew is ten months old. He's about
to be actually this month, he'll be eleven months. He like,
I used to sing this song for him that's like
baby jeep bibbajee bit bibbajee bbjeep bubba gee and it
(01:55):
he went crazy and now it's not hitting. It's not hitting.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
That don't happen And he looks he makes his audition.
I'm like, okay, I gotta come up with another song.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, yeah, but I feel like we're adhd brains anyways,
new song anyways, Like yeah, but how's your spirit today?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
My spirit's good?
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I am.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I made a little cameo with my friend in Stefo's
webisode series called and Then they were roommates. It is
super cute and she was like, Maya, I'm gonna have
a bigger role next year, she promised, But this year
my role was just my butt. She was like, can
we just use your butt for a scene? I'm like
(02:39):
for sure. I'm like so in the morning. It kind
of made me feel like oh, I don't want to
be like hyper sexualized. But then I'm like, wait, no,
that's not this thing. You know, you have those like thoughts.
You're like, am I being hyper sexualized? And you're like, no,
you're not.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So I feel good.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
It was a real fun morning. We did that, and
then I came home and call my mom.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Your booty is a star of its own.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Do you remember years ago the VMA's Chris Rock was
talking about j Loo arriving and I'll never forget it.
He was like, Jlo arrived, Jlo's here, and people clapped
and he was like, she arrived in two limos, one
for her and one for her booty.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And you know what I identify with that?
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
It is having a big body part or big body
parts in general. You're not you can't think the same
as normal people, like you have to really think of
these body parts as okay, one, but she got a
tie to get in the car, all right, and now
pulling the legs up and in. You know, but we
(03:46):
make it worse.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Shout out so much. I love that so much. What's
our topic today?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
So today? First of all, I just want to say,
think of what we said has anything.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
To do yet the topic exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
We're just like catching up. But we saw the Beyonce movie,
the Renaissance film the other day, right, and we were
just thinking, like, huh, movies. What movies shaped us or
might have messed us up or inspired us? In love?
I feel like I have a lot to say about Renaissance,
(04:24):
and I feel like we'll get to that later. But
on that topic, because Renaissance was very it shaped everything.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yeah, so I'm actually going again tonight to watch it again.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh my god, it's so freaking good. I think I'm
going to take my mom to see it when I
get to Phoenix. But movies and shows are so impactful,
I think my freaking phone, hold on, it's again. I
heard that you're not supposed to date or that you
(04:56):
should turn off your dating apps during December. Why this
dating coach, Anwar said that you shouldn't be matching with
anybody on dating apps in December because they should be
focusing on family or something, and that the super Bowl
of dating apps super Bowl of Dating is in January.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Okay, well, this is like.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Another scientist dating scientists anyway, So movies and shows have
inspired us shaped our lives. We just want to give
you some some of the movies from our time that
kind of shaped us in different.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Ways, right, yeah, particularly in love.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I think like my movie movies that kind of, like
I would say, inspired my opinion on what to look
for and while while simultaneously fucking up my ideas of
what true love actually is. And I have my top
five and I think you have your top five? Two? Right?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yes? Should we get started? Yep?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
The line welcome to the Disney Channel movie Disney Disney.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Channel number five.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
There's a dj in La that you still want number five.
I didn't do that really that well, but it was
something like that. Anyways, Number five for what like I
forgot what his name was, La people will know.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
So my first one is Sleepover, the two thousand and
four movie with Alexa. Now her name is Pennvega, but
Alexa Vega was in famously four Spy Kids, and she
married and this has nothing to do with the movie,
but I just want to put this out there. She
married one of the big time rush boys and now
(06:46):
they might be Republicans. Anyway, I was like, damn, we
lost one, we lost one. So this movie came out
in two thousand and four. I don't think it was
that big, but it shaped my image and my love
(07:06):
life because it was a movie about preteens who are
about to be in high school who want to do
this scavenger scavender hunt. Whoa is this Kevin? Yeah, they
want to do the scavenger hunt to prove themselves that
they're gonna be the coolest and they can sit at
the tables next year for high school. They don't want
to sit by the dumpsters, so they do this whole
big night where they sneak out at a slumber party.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I've never seen this movie, and they're like, they're.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Thirteen fourteen, But just like that alone, I could never
sneak out of my parents.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
They would know.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, Like I feel like Latine parents were just parents
of color. Any parents like there No, they we might
not have like air tags or alarm systems for our bodies,
but they have those spiritually and instinctual.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Literally, my mom's name and my phone is saved as
missed us because.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
They just know the first time that I did sneak
out and maybe lost my virginity, I came back in.
My mom knew exactly that I lost my virginity.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
So like watching that movie as a preteen, I thought
that that was going to be my life, that I
would able, I would be able to sneak out and
boy I thought wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
But also one of the big moments, I don't know
if anybody else notice this, there's a chubby girl who
named Yancy.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Why A and C? Why huh?
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yancy? Okay, sorry, I'm very passionate about this. Yes, And
the whole time they're making fat jokes like all this shit,
and then she's talking to one of her besties, and
her besties like she's like, oh, well, why do you
have trouble finding guys? And Yancey's like Yancy, She's like,
because I'm fat. And then she's like, well just find shees, well,
(09:04):
what do you like to eat? She was brownie and
she was just find someone who likes to eat brownies.
So at the end of the fucking movie, Oh, she
finds another plus sized guy and she asks him do
you like brownies? And he says, are you kidding? Brownies
are a very important food group.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
And so that for me told me, oh, because I'm chubby,
I have to just find somebody else who's chubby because
that's all I deserve.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
That really did affect me, although I will say that
the idea of a chubby guy who likes Brownie is
enough to call them a whole ass.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Food group is so sexy to me. I met if
I met a.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Man right now who was like football billed chubby and
he's like, faer Brownie. You know me if we're at
the cheesecakes factory and he said, Babe, let's get it.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
I get what you're saying. I get you're saying completely,
but I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
As an impressionable like preteen going into my teens, to
see that, I was like, oh okay, Like it made me.
It made me be like, I know my place in
this world.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Like I love that movie.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
That's so nineties, so two thousands. This is not one
of my movie picks.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
But in the movie Ever After honorable mention, sorry, Drew
Barrymore as a Cinderella. She has a sister who is
a chubby sister, and when she goes to the costume
ball at the end of the movie, she's a horse
and they dress he up as a horse, and she too,
can only date another chubby man who like and there's nothing.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Wrong with that. It's just the thing of like, this
is who you're supposed to be with, because God forbid
anybody else would like either of you, you know, Like
it just was something that I was like, oh, like,
but even at that age, I was like, this is weird.
That's not right, you know. But the last thing is
(11:01):
that Alexa is fourteen I think in the movie, and
she gets with I think he's an eighteen year I
think he just graduated high school and they get together.
I may be wrong, but I remember the age difference
being very different, and I was like, how the fuck
are they promoting like a thing of like older being
(11:24):
attracted to older men and the older men being attracted
to a fourteen year old.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I know the two thousands were so weird. I actually
want to watch this movie. I've never seen it.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
The log line is desper.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
To improve their social status, four best friends enter into
an all night scavenger high against a popular clique in
their school.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I'm in yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
And so they're trying to sit at the cool spot
at lunch because they don't want to sit by the dumpsters.
Sitting by the dumpsters means that you're gonna be a
loser your entire high school career.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Also disclaimer date we want to date. Like if you
like the Chubbies, date the Chutes. If you like the Skinnies,
date the Skinnies. If you like the in between these,
date the in between These me personally, if you're a chubbyman,
I was made for you, Bavid. So, my first pick
is a cinematic classic starring two iconic women by the
(12:19):
name of Mary Kay Nashley Olsen.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
And you know what, I thought, You're gonna see something
else they.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Are in it. What were you gonna what do you think?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
I was gonna say, maybe the Loka Oh oh, you
know what? I thought of that one too, But this
one and this one is the Os and it's called
It Takes Two. It is like a nineteen eighty seven
or whatever film. And I remember there was a line
in the movie with a comma, what's her name? Kirsty Ali?
(12:53):
Problematic Kirsty Ali? She oh, yes, is talking about love
and it's kind of like the love quote throughout the
whole movie. And she says that she wants a type
of love.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
You know.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
She goes, you know that, can't eat, can't sleep, Reach
for the stars over the fence World Series kind of love,
And that line has always kind of like stayed in
my head as what I got about that basically, like
the type of love that I want to feel like,
you know, like the World series type of love, like
that excitement, And so it kind of like stuck with
(13:26):
me in a lot of ways when I think of
love just that quote in general.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
But I think that that one didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Necessarily fuck me up, but I think that it was
my early signs of early days of waiting.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
For the spark, looking for the spark in relationships. But yeah,
but that's just me. That's just me.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah, that I forgot about that.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
What's that movie called It Takes Two?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
It takes two? Yes, Yeah, and they set up like
her and somebody else.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Yeah, it's like the parent trap almost, but it's really good.
There's a piano scene. As a kid, Oh my god,
you know how certain things tickle you as a kid
where you're just like that is the funniest thing. I
remember going into that movie in movie theaters, and there
was a scene where one of the girls eats a
s cargo and she puts the snail in her mouth
(14:39):
and she just does that like Lucille ball type of
like you know, and she's like.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
It tastes like a balloon. And I literally I remember
just like gut guttural belly.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Laughing as a kid in the theater. I'm like, yeah,
got me, you got me? Well, I just yawned.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Next one's Next four.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
When Harry met Sally.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I always talk about this. I watch this every single
year around New Year's by myself, usually because it's it's
like a little ritual. But I love this movie for
so many different reasons. It's one of my favorite movies
of all time, just because of the progression of their
friendship and how that is kind of like documented throughout
(15:31):
the movie. Like it's not just from like they meet
and then you know, and you know this like tiny
backstory that they used to be together. It's like you
see them the moment that they first meet when they
are going off from college. They just graduated college and
they are going to do like a road trip together.
They hate each other, and then they meet each other again,
(15:51):
hate each other, meet each other again, Hey, you're kind
of cool, Let's be friends. And so it's a friend
enemies to friends to lovers, yeah, type of thing.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Credit though, you know by the way.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
In case you hear me moving around, my Chloe, the
terror went up these stairs and she cannot get back down,
so now I have to walk my ass.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Chloe, Chloe, girl, this is not the Chloe show.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Like my mom always says, Okay, that's that's this dog.
Come on, go over here, come on. No, you know
what though, Okay, first of all, a Billy Crystal.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
This is what it's like to be on the phone.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
No literally, like Sean.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Tell yesterday was like girl, It's like every every conversation
Chloe has to make a cameo Chloe, chill, I'm gonna
take you downstairs, but I need you to stop wiggling.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
It always happens. Well I'm talking.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Like this girl.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
I mean, look, remember I found her in the streak.
She got hit by a car. She's just kind of
like anyways, Okay, I know I won't. I wanted to say,
like your movie, like, it's kind of interesting to see
Billy Crystal as kind of like a sexual figure in
that movie. Because Billy Crystal, I think for our generation is.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Timo and what yeah, Michael Zowski from my.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Generation, he's Timone. I feel she was Tomon. You didn't
know that he's yeah, he's Timone. No, yes, no he's not.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
He's that was Nathan Lane. What Billy Crystal? Billy Crystal?
Yeah no, Nathan Lane. You freaking nerd.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
So sorry, Yeah, Nathan Lane, you just fucked my entire child.
You mean to tell me that? For years I have
like thought, I was like, man, that Billy Crystal, like.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Yeah, like it's crazy that kissed her origination he was Timone,
and I'm like, no, that's Nathan Lane. Billy Crystal is
Mike Wazowski.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
I always was like, damn different, Billy Crystal.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
He had two iconic roles, like in the universe, you know,
he had uh that one from Monsters and then he
had Timone.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I always thought icon But wow, that's very us.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Anyway, that's I'm not even done with like my sentimental
analysis anyway, glad we learned something to that was that
was scary. You would have said that in public if
(19:06):
I wasn't a good friend. If I was not a
good friend, I would have just let you drowns. I
would have just let that happen. I'm a good friend.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Okay, go ahead with your analysis.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
So fast forward. Basically, the New Year's scene is so
It's great because like the night before they are or
no a couple. I would say like a month or
a couple of weeks after they like finally sealed the deal,
like they did the do because she's all emotional and
all this stuff and he comforts her and you know,
(19:42):
they have sex. They do the do and then he
kind of goes her after he kind of gets in
his head and you know, basically, what I'm saying is
he's a virgo. Once he realizes on New Year's Eve,
he runs to her and I feel like I've said
this on the podcast before, but this is what he runs.
(20:03):
And then he sees her and he says, when you
realize you want to spend the rest of your life
with somebody, you want the rest of your life just
start as soon as possible. That's just like you, Harry.
You say things and it makes me want to hate you,
and he's like yeah, he's basically that's when they get together.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I actually think that.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
Movie is dangerous because sidebar I had never seen that
movie before with Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan, Like, I
just didn't have it in me.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Because you're like Timo.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I like Tim and in your Lane Lane yea, my
guy here Anastasia until you give me that.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Good job, good job.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
But there was an older black gentleman next to me
on an airplane and I was like going through like
the movies, and he's like that movie right there, that's
a great movie.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
And I was like, I've never seen that.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
He's like, you have, no were seen When Harry Met
Sally And I was like no, And I'm like, you
know what, Like what a beautiful signal from the universe
that like a wonderful elder next to me is telling
me to watch When Harry Met Sally, And he was like,
you're gonna you're gonna love the orgasm scene in the
sandwich shop, and he waited like he kind of watched
(21:19):
it with me, and then when that went on the screen,
he was so excited and he's like this is this
and he's like this he just wanted me to crack
up so hard.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
And I loved it.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
And so I kind of have like a little special
memory with that movie now because of him. But it
is but I was gonna say that movie is danger
just because as I was watching it, it was making
me kind of think about.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Like who in my life is that person? Who in
my life has given me this?
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yes, that's what I was gonna say, is that is
how it shaped me? Is like who do I not?
Who am I not realizing right now is actually the
person for me later on down the road, you know?
But I can't think of anyone?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Well, No, I was like, who is like that person?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Who?
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Who am I doing that to? Like? Who is somebody
that I'm like? Fuck?
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Like I really want to see what happens with that person.
I feel like I'm Meg in a lot of ways.
Who do you feel like you are? Meg?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
But also a little bit of Billy or Yeah, Harry, I.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Feel like I'm Meg.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
I feel like most people with Harry, I'm like, I
don't feel like I I think when I know somebody
is not for me, I'm I'm usually right.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
And I think they know that too.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
All right, next one? Okay, we kind of share this one.
I don't know what number this is for you, so
I don't know if you want to.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Like, I didn't rank them, I just put okay, So
my next.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
One, my number four is Selena. Hey, thank you.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
There's a lady squished on the stage right now. Lady,
stop getting squished on this stage.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Oh my god, lady, stop getting squitchedish.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Imagine you're like your acting career, like the highlight of
your acting careers.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Like I'm the lady that got squished on the Selena stage.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
I feel like whenever my hair is curly and I
put it in a slick back like ponytail, I look
like Chris pett.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Is And that's you back there. Yes, you know that's
my favorite.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Hot whose Desjoints hotel room.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah yeah, we have Okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
So Selena and Chris Perez are to me the Romeo
and Juliet of the modern Latin world, right, and we
love it.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
We love a tragic story. The family didn't like it,
but they loved each other and they were young love.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
They were about to get divorced before she died, supposedly
quote supposedly.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
But like, I feel like that's why people love it
so much, because it's kind of like this eternal of
young love that will live on forever in the way
that Romeo and Juliet has.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
But I think that that moment in particular for me,
was kind of like I feel like I want to
find my Chris Perez, right, Like I want to feel
somebody who is just down for the ride, somebody who uh,
if I needed to perform on stage, they'd be right
there with me, like waiting for me on stage or
backstage or whatever.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Right, and even feeling like, uh, that part where she goes, oh,
is that you? Was that you back there?
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Like and she kind of like hits him and she's like,
I may not be street wise and all that, but
at least.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I'm not dumb. Yeah, and she hits him in her
like hair jiggles.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I'm going to recreate that whole You have it all
set up.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
But like or we should do it well.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
I think it'd be funnier with you if you played
both characters, to be honest, it'd be so fucking funny.
But I do feel like we've all had that moment
with our guys, and we've all kind of been like, damn,
we put up with a lot of shit, like the
girls and the femmes and the relationship put up with
a lot of shit where we go, I know that
that's not you, and I know that I know the
(25:15):
real you, and so I'm gonna stay around longer, is
what I feel.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Sorry, it's the bad boy. Yeah, So for me, it's
exactly exactly.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
That.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I mean, I'll hop on that we'll just combine our
Selena was in mine too, and it definitely was the
bad boy thing, the bad boy.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
Nice guy, bad boy, nice guy.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Yeah, because there are nice guys that are bad boys.
My mom's like, I got a bad boy who's a
nice guy, and I'm you know, my dad, I'm like,
he's just you guys are just both nerds. Yeah, like
what bad guy was you know whatever? Yeah, it made
me kind of gravitate towards that group, is like wanting
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a bad boy but knowing he's a nice guy. But
also I think the complexities of how it is to
be like just a woman who is like super successful
in her family having to uphold not only what it's
like to be a Latina daughter, sister, wife, and then
(26:39):
having to be an icon at the same time. Like
it really showed because I remember as a kid, I'm like, oh,
I want to be like Selena when I grew up,
and I'm like, wow, you really get she got stretched
so thin and so many different parts of her life
and then for it to be cut so short. I
think it was something that was like and and for
(26:59):
it to be real, this really happened. This is a
real person, you know, Like I feel like it was
just there's something I would love to know, if there's
any like I don't know, spiritualists out there, like the
meaning of that movie impacted. I mean, that movie impacted
so many lives that have been like a part of
(27:21):
our foundation as artists and creatives, as lovers in general,
and just people. And I don't think it was just
because she had that tragic thing where she you know,
someone shot her and she died young. I think it
was like just her presence and what it means to
be in between the hyphen I think it was such
(27:41):
a powerful movie to watch as a kid growing up
that I'm like, that is the movie I'm putting on
for my nephews, you know, because I wanted to shape
them too. And yeah, I think that's how it kind
of shaped me a little bit, but mostly for the
bad boy thing for love.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
I feel like for me, it was definitely the Romeo
and Juliet thing, right, Like there is the tragedy of
the death is the whole story of two star cross
lovers find each other who went maybe more yeah, who
were maybe not meant to be together, And so I
feel like that kind of made me feel like, you know,
do I go against my whole family and friends when
(28:21):
I find somebody that I love. You know, nowadays we're like,
and girl, if you if your friends and your family
are saying no, there might be a reason, you know.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
But when I saw that movie, that was a big,
big thing for me.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Okay, so we're gonna skip.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Guys, we had five, but we've.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Been talking too much, so we're just gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
We're done.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Oh man, I can't just do one. Okay, I'll do three.
I'll do I'm going to do three, and they're for
different reasons. I'm going to be super quick about it. Twilight, okay,
five hundred Days of Summer and Funny Girl.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
All okay, Yes, I never seen so Twilight.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Oh my god, Twilight because it made me kind of
think that relationships should be hard and challenging in order
to get the person at the end. Like that shit
shaped me so much. I read the books, I saw
the movies. I read the books again last year. I
saw the movies again last year and I was like,
whoa this is? But also it's like you want to
(29:30):
I'm like, I want to be in a love Triangle
five Hundred Days of Summer because when I first watched
it growing up, I thought that Summer Zoda Chanel was
the villain, and then I watched it as an adult
after going through relationships and stuff, and I saw that
(29:50):
Joseph Gordon Levitt is actually the villain because the entire
time she kept stating her boundaries, this is I don't
want a relationship, this is not what I want. And
then she ends up like marrying somebody else later like immediately,
because she didn't know what she wanted with him, and
he knew he wanted her, but he dis I mean,
he went beyond her boundaries. You know, so wild funny girl,
(30:15):
because you know, it's Barbara Streis and it's like what
it's like to be a freaking star and also have
to have a family and herd. The entire time, her
man was intimidated by her and chose to go to jail.
Oh sorry, I'm spoiling the movie for you.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Yeah. Well, I mean that's just that's just a character thing, right,
That's not.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Like it's basically just like, you know, he was super
intimidated by her success, and yet she all she wanted
was love and to be a star and it was
basically in this movie she had to choose. So that's
just something that like, you know, and being a funny
girl at the same time, where like you're not really
sexy because you're just a funny, silly girl, but then
(30:56):
what happens when you do turn it in to a woman,
Like are you not funny girl anymore?
Speaker 1 (31:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (31:02):
So those are my big ones.
Speaker 3 (31:03):
I saw that one a lot too, because Funny Girl
has that song where she's like, hey, is that what
is She's like here?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
How does it go?
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Yeah, that's I don't know what the movie's about. I
don't know anything.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
I just know that that if you go and listen
to that song on your Spotify, your Apple music, it
is so good, just the vocal.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But she's on her way to get her man, Okay.
So that is how I feel also in life too,
when I'm like I'm fighting for you, that is how
I feel. I will get on a boat and go.
You didn't ask me to go, but I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Get on okay.
Speaker 3 (31:46):
Because I took it as like she's kind of like
I'm that girl. It's giving like Taylor, like why can't
you see he like, what is she's the cheer captain
and well, you're gonna watch the movie.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
You gotta watch the movie because everyone's telling her to
pick her career and she wants love for once.
Speaker 3 (32:06):
And as your cousin, Curly, if you're listening to me
right now, pick your career. They can take everything they
want away from yet, but if you stay on top
of your shiet, you'll always have Yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
They can't take nothing away. They can take anything away
from us without our permission.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
I always say that people can take everything they want
away from yet, but they can't take your story away.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
That's always gonna be your story.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
Okay, so my top three super fast, I mean my
last top three is and I'll be I'll do the
same thing to Titanic.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Anything.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Leonardo DiCaprio in the late nineties or early two thousand
fucked me up. Please insert a noise here of slack,
and that is a sound. That is the sound of
my kahunhon. When anytime he was on the screen, I
just felt like he made me believe in love as
a young kid, because I was like, I love.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
This man, and then I another bad boy, nice guy.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
I developed this thing where I couldn't watch any more
Leonardo DiCaprio movies as a young teenager, because it just
hurt me too much.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
It hurt me too much that I couldn't be with him,
Like I just loved him Little Mermaid, you know, I
was super that was on mine too. Yeah, I loved
it so much. Me and Prince Eric, he was just
the ideal man. Whatever. But I will say that the
show that fucked me up, just like Skins till this day.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
Skins, Skins, Oh you're not seen.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Skins No till this day. I still think in terms
of this show, and it's Sailor Moon. Sailor Moon fucked
me up.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
If you're not familiar with Sailor Moon, Salor Moon is
Salor Moon is the Moon Princess and she's in love
with Darien, who is the Earth Prince. And the entire
is how much she loves this Earth Prince, and how
much she loves her friends and how much stuff, and
so there are episodes where Prince Darien had no idea
who Sailor Moon was.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
He was like, who are you? And she would know
in her head, like you're my soulmate, Like we're gonna
be king and Queen.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
They call it like Crystal Tokyo, like the future city
is called Crystal Tokyo. And she would know, like we're
gonna have a kid together, like we're gonna have like
a kingdom, like you are the queen. I am the
queen and you are the king like and then there
would be episodes where she would forget and he would
remind her, and it was all these different things where
(34:35):
like they just knew, like their northern star was like
each other no matter what.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
And I think that that me.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
I remember being in the third grade and being like
William Moran, I am Sailor Moon.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
And you still to this day, still talking about him,
still talking about him on your podcast Love.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I will talk about that man so the day I die,
you know, a uh wi? I love him?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
So then we need to have him as a guest.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
Oh my god, I can't. I can't be around him
for too long.
Speaker 3 (35:07):
I explode, like I'm just like I am so full
of love for this human now on a deeper spiritual level,
but I just love him too much. I think I
would I would shrivel up and turn into a little
raisin and then burst into.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
A million pieces.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
But I feel like till this day, I can look
at somebody and go, I think that you and I
are meant to be the rulers of our own Crystal
Tokyo and the future, and we have a relationship because
also too sidebar, Sailor Moon and Prince Drian had a
relationship that spanned space and time, like they lived on
(35:41):
the Moon together, they died, they were reborn on Earth,
and then they had they were the rulers in future Earth. Right,
So you're like, I look at somebody and you hope
to go, I knew you before this, and I will
know you after this, And I think that's why you know.
It kind of me up in a lot of ways
because truly, I'll be on date number three and I'm like,
(36:04):
Prince Darrian, is that you assuming that I'm Sailor Moon.
I mean, we could switch, but those were the movies
and shows that fucked.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Up my point of views in love.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
I would say, wow, Yeah, I'm I'm glad to have
learned this piece of the love expectations.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Are Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Our producer sound engineer Kadina said, the love expectations are
over the roof haha aka thanks to Sailor Moon.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Yeah, I mean Salor Moon just and it was an
anime and it's an anime.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
Look anime till this day is just changing lives. Talk
to our bestI choice about it?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
And now for our zodiac section section section section section,
What is the one sign.
Speaker 1 (37:03):
That fucked up our ideas of what love should be? Like? Maya,
you got one sign? Hit it?
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (37:12):
One signe sign? Just one.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
It's a tie between Aquarius and Virgo.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Wow, both avoidant signs.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Mine, mine would be a tie between aries.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
And I would say, like most of my loves, like
in my life have that I have felt, have had
a lot of fire. So I would say fire signs
for sure.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
They just like they feel they feel what about us?
They feel? Y'all feel avoidant to me?
Speaker 2 (37:49):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Like you know how you're like? Oh? Like like, oh,
virgos are avoidant or virgos run or whatever? Whatever? I
feel like fire.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Signs run from me. I think they run from my
scorpio energy probably.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Well, that's different by moonlight, just like unhealed, unhealed Aquarius
get a little gas lighty never and virgos get a
little bit like cold. Uh, I don't like the cold.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
I don't like it. Well, if we get cold because
you asked for it.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
Thank you so much, everybody for joining us on another
episode of The Super Secret Secret where virgos and Aries
rains supreme.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
Oh and that is the end of the zodiac section.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
You can't even thank you so much again, Thank you
so much for listening to another episode of The Super
Secret Bestie Club. Curly, how can they find you on
social media?
Speaker 3 (38:56):
You can find me at the Curly v Show on
Instagram and TikTok a right. Where can people find you
on social media?
Speaker 2 (39:02):
You can find me at Maya in the Moment, m
a ya in the Moment, and hit us up on
our social media to let us know what you want
to hear on a future episode of The Super Secret
Best Club Podcast.
Speaker 1 (39:14):
Okay, and let us know too if any of our
choices fucked you up. Bye.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
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What are you doing here?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Don't you share, you idiot.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
It's me.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's always been me. What come over here, you big hunker, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
I'm gay Maya.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Oh yeah. Also, this is a Wendy's Cane and Frosty.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
She's near here.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Wait, I work at the Wendy's ol.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
My name is Curly and I'm Maya.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
And Welcome to the Super Secret Bestie Clubs Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Get in here.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Welcome to another a super sy good Besty Club podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
I have been singing my nephews.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
I live to make my nephews laugh, and I've just
been making everything like a country song. So they brought
Cane's Chicken too the house yesterday and I was like,
I like my chicken.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
F I'm Cage, I'll make you laugh and I'm not
your nephew.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
And I'm like, I like my chicken if I'm pay chicken,
and I just won't it, And my what did I say?
I was like, I won it in my yummy, tell
me that's right, and they were like, what yummy tell me?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Oh my god, you're a legend. I need to learn
from you. My nephew is ten months old. He's about
to be actually this month, he'll be eleven months. He like,
I used to sing this song for him that's like
baby jeep bibbajee bit bibbajee bbjeep bubba gee and it
(01:55):
he went crazy and now it's not hitting. It's not hitting.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
That don't happen And he looks he makes his audition.
I'm like, okay, I gotta come up with another song.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, yeah, but I feel like we're adhd brains anyways,
new song anyways, Like yeah, but how's your spirit today?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
My spirit's good?
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I am.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I made a little cameo with my friend in Stefo's
webisode series called and Then they were roommates. It is
super cute and she was like, Maya, I'm gonna have
a bigger role next year, she promised, But this year
my role was just my butt. She was like, can
we just use your butt for a scene? I'm like
(02:39):
for sure. I'm like so in the morning. It kind
of made me feel like oh, I don't want to
be like hyper sexualized. But then I'm like, wait, no,
that's not this thing. You know, you have those like thoughts.
You're like, am I being hyper sexualized? And you're like, no,
you're not.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So I feel good.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
It was a real fun morning. We did that, and
then I came home and call my mom.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Your booty is a star of its own.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Do you remember years ago the VMA's Chris Rock was
talking about j Loo arriving and I'll never forget it.
He was like, Jlo arrived, Jlo's here, and people clapped
and he was like, she arrived in two limos, one
for her and one for her booty.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And you know what I identify with that?
Speaker 1 (03:23):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
It is having a big body part or big body
parts in general. You're not you can't think the same
as normal people, like you have to really think of
these body parts as okay, one, but she got a
tie to get in the car, all right, and now
pulling the legs up and in. You know, but we
(03:46):
make it worse.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Shout out so much. I love that so much. What's
our topic today?
Speaker 2 (03:56):
So today? First of all, I just want to say,
think of what we said has anything.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
To do yet the topic exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
We're just like catching up. But we saw the Beyonce movie,
the Renaissance film the other day, right, and we were
just thinking, like, huh, movies. What movies shaped us or
might have messed us up or inspired us? In love?
I feel like I have a lot to say about Renaissance,
(04:24):
and I feel like we'll get to that later. But
on that topic, because Renaissance was very it shaped everything.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yeah, so I'm actually going again tonight to watch it again.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Oh my god, it's so freaking good. I think I'm
going to take my mom to see it when I
get to Phoenix. But movies and shows are so impactful,
I think my freaking phone, hold on, it's again. I
heard that you're not supposed to date or that you
(04:56):
should turn off your dating apps during December. Why this
dating coach, Anwar said that you shouldn't be matching with
anybody on dating apps in December because they should be
focusing on family or something, and that the super Bowl
of dating apps super Bowl of Dating is in January.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Okay, well, this is like.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Another scientist dating scientists anyway, So movies and shows have
inspired us shaped our lives. We just want to give
you some some of the movies from our time that
kind of shaped us in different.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Ways, right, yeah, particularly in love.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I think like my movie movies that kind of, like
I would say, inspired my opinion on what to look
for and while while simultaneously fucking up my ideas of
what true love actually is. And I have my top
five and I think you have your top five? Two? Right?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yes? Should we get started? Yep?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
The line welcome to the Disney Channel movie Disney Disney.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Channel number five.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
There's a dj in La that you still want number five.
I didn't do that really that well, but it was
something like that. Anyways, Number five for what like I
forgot what his name was, La people will know.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
So my first one is Sleepover, the two thousand and
four movie with Alexa. Now her name is Pennvega, but
Alexa Vega was in famously four Spy Kids, and she
married and this has nothing to do with the movie,
but I just want to put this out there. She
married one of the big time rush boys and now
(06:46):
they might be Republicans. Anyway, I was like, damn, we
lost one, we lost one. So this movie came out
in two thousand and four. I don't think it was
that big, but it shaped my image and my love
(07:06):
life because it was a movie about preteens who are
about to be in high school who want to do
this scavenger scavender hunt. Whoa is this Kevin? Yeah, they
want to do the scavenger hunt to prove themselves that
they're gonna be the coolest and they can sit at
the tables next year for high school. They don't want
to sit by the dumpsters, so they do this whole
big night where they sneak out at a slumber party.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I've never seen this movie, and they're like, they're.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Thirteen fourteen, But just like that alone, I could never
sneak out of my parents.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
They would know.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, Like I feel like Latine parents were just parents
of color. Any parents like there No, they we might
not have like air tags or alarm systems for our bodies,
but they have those spiritually and instinctual.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Literally, my mom's name and my phone is saved as
missed us because.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
They just know the first time that I did sneak
out and maybe lost my virginity, I came back in.
My mom knew exactly that I lost my virginity.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
So like watching that movie as a preteen, I thought
that that was going to be my life, that I
would able, I would be able to sneak out and
boy I thought wrong.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
But also one of the big moments, I don't know
if anybody else notice this, there's a chubby girl who
named Yancy.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Why A and C? Why huh?
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yancy? Okay, sorry, I'm very passionate about this. Yes, And
the whole time they're making fat jokes like all this shit,
and then she's talking to one of her besties, and
her besties like she's like, oh, well, why do you
have trouble finding guys? And Yancey's like Yancy, She's like,
because I'm fat. And then she's like, well just find shees, well,
(09:04):
what do you like to eat? She was brownie and
she was just find someone who likes to eat brownies.
So at the end of the fucking movie, Oh, she
finds another plus sized guy and she asks him do
you like brownies? And he says, are you kidding? Brownies
are a very important food group.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
And so that for me told me, oh, because I'm chubby,
I have to just find somebody else who's chubby because
that's all I deserve.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
That really did affect me, although I will say that
the idea of a chubby guy who likes Brownie is
enough to call them a whole ass.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Food group is so sexy to me. I met if
I met a.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Man right now who was like football billed chubby and
he's like, faer Brownie. You know me if we're at
the cheesecakes factory and he said, Babe, let's get it.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
I get what you're saying. I get you're saying completely,
but I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
As an impressionable like preteen going into my teens, to
see that, I was like, oh okay, Like it made me.
It made me be like, I know my place in
this world.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Like I love that movie.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
That's so nineties, so two thousands. This is not one
of my movie picks.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
But in the movie Ever After honorable mention, sorry, Drew
Barrymore as a Cinderella. She has a sister who is
a chubby sister, and when she goes to the costume
ball at the end of the movie, she's a horse
and they dress he up as a horse, and she too,
can only date another chubby man who like and there's nothing.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Wrong with that. It's just the thing of like, this
is who you're supposed to be with, because God forbid
anybody else would like either of you, you know, Like
it just was something that I was like, oh, like,
but even at that age, I was like, this is weird.
That's not right, you know. But the last thing is
(11:01):
that Alexa is fourteen I think in the movie, and
she gets with I think he's an eighteen year I
think he just graduated high school and they get together.
I may be wrong, but I remember the age difference
being very different, and I was like, how the fuck
are they promoting like a thing of like older being
(11:24):
attracted to older men and the older men being attracted
to a fourteen year old.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
I know the two thousands were so weird. I actually
want to watch this movie. I've never seen it.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
The log line is desper.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
To improve their social status, four best friends enter into
an all night scavenger high against a popular clique in
their school.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I'm in yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
And so they're trying to sit at the cool spot
at lunch because they don't want to sit by the dumpsters.
Sitting by the dumpsters means that you're gonna be a
loser your entire high school career.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Also disclaimer date we want to date. Like if you
like the Chubbies, date the Chutes. If you like the Skinnies,
date the Skinnies. If you like the in between these,
date the in between These me personally, if you're a chubbyman,
I was made for you, Bavid. So, my first pick
is a cinematic classic starring two iconic women by the
(12:19):
name of Mary Kay Nashley Olsen.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
And you know what, I thought, You're gonna see something
else they.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Are in it. What were you gonna what do you think?
Speaker 3 (12:29):
I was gonna say, maybe the Loka Oh oh, you
know what? I thought of that one too, But this
one and this one is the Os and it's called
It Takes Two. It is like a nineteen eighty seven
or whatever film. And I remember there was a line
in the movie with a comma, what's her name? Kirsty Ali?
(12:53):
Problematic Kirsty Ali? She oh, yes, is talking about love
and it's kind of like the love quote throughout the
whole movie. And she says that she wants a type
of love.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
You know.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
She goes, you know that, can't eat, can't sleep, Reach
for the stars over the fence World Series kind of love,
And that line has always kind of like stayed in
my head as what I got about that basically, like
the type of love that I want to feel like,
you know, like the World series type of love, like
that excitement, And so it kind of like stuck with
(13:26):
me in a lot of ways when I think of
love just that quote in general.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
But I think that that one didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Necessarily fuck me up, but I think that it was
my early signs of early days of waiting.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
For the spark, looking for the spark in relationships. But yeah,
but that's just me. That's just me.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Yeah, that I forgot about that.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
What's that movie called It Takes Two?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
It takes two? Yes, Yeah, and they set up like
her and somebody else.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Yeah, it's like the parent trap almost, but it's really good.
There's a piano scene. As a kid, Oh my god,
you know how certain things tickle you as a kid
where you're just like that is the funniest thing. I
remember going into that movie in movie theaters, and there
was a scene where one of the girls eats a
s cargo and she puts the snail in her mouth
(14:39):
and she just does that like Lucille ball type of
like you know, and she's like.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
It tastes like a balloon. And I literally I remember
just like gut guttural belly.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Laughing as a kid in the theater. I'm like, yeah,
got me, you got me? Well, I just yawned.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Next one's Next four.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
When Harry met Sally.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I always talk about this. I watch this every single
year around New Year's by myself, usually because it's it's
like a little ritual. But I love this movie for
so many different reasons. It's one of my favorite movies
of all time, just because of the progression of their
friendship and how that is kind of like documented throughout
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the movie. Like it's not just from like they meet
and then you know, and you know this like tiny
backstory that they used to be together. It's like you
see them the moment that they first meet when they
are going off from college. They just graduated college and
they are going to do like a road trip together.
They hate each other, and then they meet each other again,
(15:51):
hate each other, meet each other again, Hey, you're kind
of cool, Let's be friends. And so it's a friend
enemies to friends to lovers, yeah, type of thing.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Credit though, you know by the way.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
In case you hear me moving around, my Chloe, the
terror went up these stairs and she cannot get back down,
so now I have to walk my ass.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Chloe, Chloe, girl, this is not the Chloe show.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Like my mom always says, Okay, that's that's this dog.
Come on, go over here, come on. No, you know
what though, Okay, first of all, a Billy Crystal.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
This is what it's like to be on the phone.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
No literally, like Sean.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
Tell yesterday was like girl, It's like every every conversation
Chloe has to make a cameo Chloe, chill, I'm gonna
take you downstairs, but I need you to stop wiggling.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
It always happens. Well I'm talking.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Like this girl.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
I mean, look, remember I found her in the streak.
She got hit by a car. She's just kind of
like anyways, Okay, I know I won't. I wanted to say,
like your movie, like, it's kind of interesting to see
Billy Crystal as kind of like a sexual figure in
that movie. Because Billy Crystal, I think for our generation is.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
Timo and what yeah, Michael Zowski from my.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Generation, he's Timone. I feel she was Tomon. You didn't
know that he's yeah, he's Timone. No, yes, no he's not.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
He's that was Nathan Lane. What Billy Crystal? Billy Crystal?
Yeah no, Nathan Lane. You freaking nerd.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
So sorry, Yeah, Nathan Lane, you just fucked my entire child.
You mean to tell me that? For years I have
like thought, I was like, man, that Billy Crystal, like.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Yeah, like it's crazy that kissed her origination he was Timone,
and I'm like, no, that's Nathan Lane. Billy Crystal is
Mike Wazowski.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
I always was like, damn different, Billy Crystal.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
He had two iconic roles, like in the universe, you know,
he had uh that one from Monsters and then he
had Timone.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I always thought icon But wow, that's very us.
Speaker 2 (18:46):
Anyway, that's I'm not even done with like my sentimental
analysis anyway, glad we learned something to that was that
was scary. You would have said that in public if
(19:06):
I wasn't a good friend. If I was not a
good friend, I would have just let you drowns. I
would have just let that happen. I'm a good friend.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Okay, go ahead with your analysis.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
So fast forward. Basically, the New Year's scene is so
It's great because like the night before they are or
no a couple. I would say like a month or
a couple of weeks after they like finally sealed the deal,
like they did the do because she's all emotional and
all this stuff and he comforts her and you know,
(19:42):
they have sex. They do the do and then he
kind of goes her after he kind of gets in
his head and you know, basically, what I'm saying is
he's a virgo. Once he realizes on New Year's Eve,
he runs to her and I feel like I've said
this on the podcast before, but this is what he runs.
(20:03):
And then he sees her and he says, when you
realize you want to spend the rest of your life
with somebody, you want the rest of your life just
start as soon as possible. That's just like you, Harry.
You say things and it makes me want to hate you,
and he's like yeah, he's basically that's when they get together.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I actually think that.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
Movie is dangerous because sidebar I had never seen that
movie before with Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan, Like, I
just didn't have it in me.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Because you're like Timo.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I like Tim and in your Lane Lane yea, my
guy here Anastasia until you give me that.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Good job, good job.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
But there was an older black gentleman next to me
on an airplane and I was like going through like
the movies, and he's like that movie right there, that's
a great movie.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
And I was like, I've never seen that.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
He's like, you have, no were seen When Harry Met
Sally And I was like no, And I'm like, you
know what, Like what a beautiful signal from the universe
that like a wonderful elder next to me is telling
me to watch When Harry Met Sally, And he was like,
you're gonna you're gonna love the orgasm scene in the
sandwich shop, and he waited like he kind of watched
(21:19):
it with me, and then when that went on the screen,
he was so excited and he's like this is this
and he's like this he just wanted me to crack
up so hard.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
And I loved it.
Speaker 3 (21:31):
And so I kind of have like a little special
memory with that movie now because of him. But it
is but I was gonna say that movie is danger
just because as I was watching it, it was making
me kind of think about.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Like who in my life is that person? Who in
my life has given me this?
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yes, that's what I was gonna say, is that is
how it shaped me? Is like who do I not?
Who am I not realizing right now is actually the
person for me later on down the road, you know?
But I can't think of anyone?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Well, No, I was like, who is like that person?
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Who?
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Who am I doing that to? Like? Who is somebody
that I'm like? Fuck?
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Like I really want to see what happens with that person.
I feel like I'm Meg in a lot of ways.
Who do you feel like you are? Meg?
Speaker 2 (22:21):
But also a little bit of Billy or Yeah, Harry, I.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Feel like I'm Meg.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
I feel like most people with Harry, I'm like, I
don't feel like I I think when I know somebody
is not for me, I'm I'm usually right.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
And I think they know that too.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
All right, next one? Okay, we kind of share this one.
I don't know what number this is for you, so
I don't know if you want to.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Like, I didn't rank them, I just put okay, So
my next.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
One, my number four is Selena. Hey, thank you.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
There's a lady squished on the stage right now. Lady,
stop getting squished on this stage.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Oh my god, lady, stop getting squitchedish.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Imagine you're like your acting career, like the highlight of
your acting careers.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Like I'm the lady that got squished on the Selena stage.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
I feel like whenever my hair is curly and I
put it in a slick back like ponytail, I look
like Chris pett.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
Is And that's you back there. Yes, you know that's
my favorite.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Hot whose Desjoints hotel room.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah yeah, we have Okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
So Selena and Chris Perez are to me the Romeo
and Juliet of the modern Latin world, right, and we
love it.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
We love a tragic story. The family didn't like it,
but they loved each other and they were young love.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
They were about to get divorced before she died, supposedly
quote supposedly.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
But like, I feel like that's why people love it
so much, because it's kind of like this eternal of
young love that will live on forever in the way
that Romeo and Juliet has.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Right.
Speaker 3 (24:07):
But I think that that moment in particular for me,
was kind of like I feel like I want to
find my Chris Perez, right, Like I want to feel
somebody who is just down for the ride, somebody who uh,
if I needed to perform on stage, they'd be right
there with me, like waiting for me on stage or
backstage or whatever.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
Right, and even feeling like, uh, that part where she goes, oh,
is that you? Was that you back there?
Speaker 3 (24:34):
Like and she kind of like hits him and she's like,
I may not be street wise and all that, but
at least.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
I'm not dumb. Yeah, and she hits him in her
like hair jiggles.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I'm going to recreate that whole You have it all
set up.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
But like or we should do it well.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
I think it'd be funnier with you if you played
both characters, to be honest, it'd be so fucking funny.
But I do feel like we've all had that moment
with our guys, and we've all kind of been like, damn,
we put up with a lot of shit, like the
girls and the femmes and the relationship put up with
a lot of shit where we go, I know that
that's not you, and I know that I know the
(25:15):
real you, and so I'm gonna stay around longer, is
what I feel.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Sorry, it's the bad boy. Yeah, So for me, it's
exactly exactly.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
That.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
I mean, I'll hop on that we'll just combine our
Selena was in mine too, and it definitely was the
bad boy thing, the bad boy.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
Nice guy, bad boy, nice guy.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Yeah, because there are nice guys that are bad boys.
My mom's like, I got a bad boy who's a
nice guy, and I'm you know, my dad, I'm like,
he's just you guys are just both nerds. Yeah, like
what bad guy was you know whatever? Yeah, it made
me kind of gravitate towards that group, is like wanting
(26:15):
a bad boy but knowing he's a nice guy. But
also I think the complexities of how it is to
be like just a woman who is like super successful
in her family having to uphold not only what it's
like to be a Latina daughter, sister, wife, and then
(26:39):
having to be an icon at the same time. Like
it really showed because I remember as a kid, I'm like, oh,
I want to be like Selena when I grew up,
and I'm like, wow, you really get she got stretched
so thin and so many different parts of her life
and then for it to be cut so short. I
think it was something that was like and and for
(26:59):
it to be real, this really happened. This is a
real person, you know, Like I feel like it was
just there's something I would love to know, if there's
any like I don't know, spiritualists out there, like the
meaning of that movie impacted. I mean, that movie impacted
so many lives that have been like a part of
(27:21):
our foundation as artists and creatives, as lovers in general,
and just people. And I don't think it was just
because she had that tragic thing where she you know,
someone shot her and she died young. I think it
was like just her presence and what it means to
be in between the hyphen I think it was such
(27:41):
a powerful movie to watch as a kid growing up
that I'm like, that is the movie I'm putting on
for my nephews, you know, because I wanted to shape
them too. And yeah, I think that's how it kind
of shaped me a little bit, but mostly for the
bad boy thing for love.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
I feel like for me, it was definitely the Romeo
and Juliet thing, right, Like there is the tragedy of
the death is the whole story of two star cross
lovers find each other who went maybe more yeah, who
were maybe not meant to be together, And so I
feel like that kind of made me feel like, you know,
do I go against my whole family and friends when
(28:21):
I find somebody that I love. You know, nowadays we're like,
and girl, if you if your friends and your family
are saying no, there might be a reason, you know.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
But when I saw that movie, that was a big,
big thing for me.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Okay, so we're gonna skip.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Guys, we had five, but we've.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
Been talking too much, so we're just gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
We're done.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Oh man, I can't just do one. Okay, I'll do three.
I'll do I'm going to do three, and they're for
different reasons. I'm going to be super quick about it. Twilight, okay,
five hundred Days of Summer and Funny Girl.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
All okay, Yes, I never seen so Twilight.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
Oh my god, Twilight because it made me kind of
think that relationships should be hard and challenging in order
to get the person at the end. Like that shit
shaped me so much. I read the books, I saw
the movies. I read the books again last year. I
saw the movies again last year and I was like,
whoa this is? But also it's like you want to
(29:30):
I'm like, I want to be in a love Triangle
five Hundred Days of Summer because when I first watched
it growing up, I thought that Summer Zoda Chanel was
the villain, and then I watched it as an adult
after going through relationships and stuff, and I saw that
(29:50):
Joseph Gordon Levitt is actually the villain because the entire
time she kept stating her boundaries, this is I don't
want a relationship, this is not what I want. And
then she ends up like marrying somebody else later like immediately,
because she didn't know what she wanted with him, and
he knew he wanted her, but he dis I mean,
he went beyond her boundaries. You know, so wild funny girl,
(30:15):
because you know, it's Barbara Streis and it's like what
it's like to be a freaking star and also have
to have a family and herd. The entire time, her
man was intimidated by her and chose to go to jail.
Oh sorry, I'm spoiling the movie for you.
Speaker 1 (30:31):
Yeah. Well, I mean that's just that's just a character thing, right,
That's not.
Speaker 2 (30:35):
Like it's basically just like, you know, he was super
intimidated by her success, and yet she all she wanted
was love and to be a star and it was
basically in this movie she had to choose. So that's
just something that like, you know, and being a funny
girl at the same time, where like you're not really
sexy because you're just a funny, silly girl, but then
(30:56):
what happens when you do turn it in to a woman,
Like are you not funny girl anymore?
Speaker 1 (31:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (31:02):
So those are my big ones.
Speaker 3 (31:03):
I saw that one a lot too, because Funny Girl
has that song where she's like, hey, is that what
is She's like here?
Speaker 1 (31:14):
How does it go?
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Yeah, that's I don't know what the movie's about. I
don't know anything.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
I just know that that if you go and listen
to that song on your Spotify, your Apple music, it
is so good, just the vocal.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But she's on her way to get her man, Okay.
So that is how I feel also in life too,
when I'm like I'm fighting for you, that is how
I feel. I will get on a boat and go.
You didn't ask me to go, but I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (31:44):
Get on okay.
Speaker 3 (31:46):
Because I took it as like she's kind of like
I'm that girl. It's giving like Taylor, like why can't
you see he like, what is she's the cheer captain
and well, you're gonna watch the movie.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
You gotta watch the movie because everyone's telling her to
pick her career and she wants love for once.
Speaker 3 (32:06):
And as your cousin, Curly, if you're listening to me
right now, pick your career. They can take everything they
want away from yet, but if you stay on top
of your shiet, you'll always have Yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
They can't take nothing away. They can take anything away
from us without our permission.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
I always say that people can take everything they want
away from yet, but they can't take your story away.
Speaker 1 (32:31):
That's always gonna be your story.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
Okay, so my top three super fast, I mean my
last top three is and I'll be I'll do the
same thing to Titanic.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Anything.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
Leonardo DiCaprio in the late nineties or early two thousand
fucked me up. Please insert a noise here of slack,
and that is a sound. That is the sound of
my kahunhon. When anytime he was on the screen, I
just felt like he made me believe in love as
a young kid, because I was like, I love.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
This man, and then I another bad boy, nice guy.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
I developed this thing where I couldn't watch any more
Leonardo DiCaprio movies as a young teenager, because it just
hurt me too much.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
It hurt me too much that I couldn't be with him,
Like I just loved him Little Mermaid, you know, I
was super that was on mine too. Yeah, I loved
it so much. Me and Prince Eric, he was just
the ideal man. Whatever. But I will say that the
show that fucked me up, just like Skins till this day.
Speaker 2 (33:35):
Skins, Skins, Oh you're not seen.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Skins No till this day. I still think in terms
of this show, and it's Sailor Moon. Sailor Moon fucked
me up.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
If you're not familiar with Sailor Moon, Salor Moon is
Salor Moon is the Moon Princess and she's in love
with Darien, who is the Earth Prince. And the entire
is how much she loves this Earth Prince, and how
much she loves her friends and how much stuff, and
so there are episodes where Prince Darien had no idea
who Sailor Moon was.
Speaker 1 (34:09):
He was like, who are you? And she would know
in her head, like you're my soulmate, Like we're gonna
be king and Queen.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
They call it like Crystal Tokyo, like the future city
is called Crystal Tokyo. And she would know, like we're
gonna have a kid together, like we're gonna have like
a kingdom, like you are the queen. I am the
queen and you are the king like and then there
would be episodes where she would forget and he would
remind her, and it was all these different things where
(34:35):
like they just knew, like their northern star was like
each other no matter what.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
And I think that that me.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
I remember being in the third grade and being like
William Moran, I am Sailor Moon.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
And you still to this day, still talking about him,
still talking about him on your podcast Love.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I will talk about that man so the day I die,
you know, a uh wi? I love him?
Speaker 2 (35:02):
So then we need to have him as a guest.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
Oh my god, I can't. I can't be around him
for too long.
Speaker 3 (35:07):
I explode, like I'm just like I am so full
of love for this human now on a deeper spiritual level,
but I just love him too much. I think I
would I would shrivel up and turn into a little
raisin and then burst into.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
A million pieces.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
But I feel like till this day, I can look
at somebody and go, I think that you and I
are meant to be the rulers of our own Crystal
Tokyo and the future, and we have a relationship because
also too sidebar, Sailor Moon and Prince Drian had a
relationship that spanned space and time, like they lived on
(35:41):
the Moon together, they died, they were reborn on Earth,
and then they had they were the rulers in future Earth. Right,
So you're like, I look at somebody and you hope
to go, I knew you before this, and I will
know you after this, And I think that's why you know.
It kind of me up in a lot of ways
because truly, I'll be on date number three and I'm like,
(36:04):
Prince Darrian, is that you assuming that I'm Sailor Moon.
I mean, we could switch, but those were the movies
and shows that fucked.
Speaker 1 (36:13):
Up my point of views in love.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
I would say, wow, Yeah, I'm I'm glad to have
learned this piece of the love expectations.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Are Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Our producer sound engineer Kadina said, the love expectations are
over the roof haha aka thanks to Sailor Moon.
Speaker 1 (36:35):
Yeah, I mean Salor Moon just and it was an
anime and it's an anime.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
Look anime till this day is just changing lives. Talk
to our bestI choice about it?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (36:54):
And now for our zodiac section section section section section,
What is the one sign.
Speaker 1 (37:03):
That fucked up our ideas of what love should be? Like? Maya,
you got one sign? Hit it?
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (37:12):
One signe sign? Just one.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
It's a tie between Aquarius and Virgo.
Speaker 1 (37:19):
Wow, both avoidant signs.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Mine, mine would be a tie between aries.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
And I would say, like most of my loves, like
in my life have that I have felt, have had
a lot of fire. So I would say fire signs
for sure.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
They just like they feel they feel what about us?
They feel? Y'all feel avoidant to me?
Speaker 2 (37:49):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (37:50):
Like you know how you're like? Oh? Like like, oh,
virgos are avoidant or virgos run or whatever? Whatever? I
feel like fire.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Signs run from me. I think they run from my
scorpio energy probably.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Well, that's different by moonlight, just like unhealed, unhealed Aquarius
get a little gas lighty never and virgos get a
little bit like cold. Uh, I don't like the cold.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
I don't like it. Well, if we get cold because
you asked for it.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
Thank you so much, everybody for joining us on another
episode of The Super Secret Secret where virgos and Aries
rains supreme.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
Oh and that is the end of the zodiac section.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
You can't even thank you so much again, Thank you
so much for listening to another episode of The Super
Secret Bestie Club. Curly, how can they find you on
social media?
Speaker 3 (38:56):
You can find me at the Curly v Show on
Instagram and TikTok a right. Where can people find you
on social media?
Speaker 2 (39:02):
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