April 19, 2023 • 32 mins
The Super Secret Bestie Club is back for a second season! Did you miss us?!
Join Curly and Maya as they go through the possible signs that someone might like-like you! What are they? How do you know? Should you plan that wedding after they see your story three days in a row? Plus learn which zodiac signs fall too quickly and which just... don't. What are you waiting for? Welcome back and get in here!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, what are you doing here?
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh my gosh, you're here again. Do you like legos
or something?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yeah? And which one? Mir or her? Though it's probably okay. Anyways,
get any here. My name is Curly and I'm Maya
and welcome to the Super Secret bestI Club Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Oh my goodness, will say a little say a little
prayer before we start this. This is going to be
the best podcast episode we've ever done in our freaking lives.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
That's right. Season two two Baby.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Your Secret Besty Club.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Super Super Secret Best Club and Joyce and Joyce.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
And one two day currently Wow, here we are here.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
We are back again.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Welcome back to the Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Now you can actually see what the Super Secret Bestie
Club actually looks like. It's just hearts and plush animals.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Excuse me, animals. This is the mascot of our show,
Rata Tuy.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Rat, the cooks very on Brat And.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Oh it's a five star restaurant. Do you own a
five Star restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Well no, I'm saying that we are rats that cooks.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Oh we are rats.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Well, guys, here we are again another episode of your
favorite show with your two favorite best famous besties. And
as we like to stay here, tell your other cousins
to go sit over there and get with from us.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yeah, we don't want to see them. So we're back
again season two yay.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Which by the way, was like such a journey to
get here. But here we are.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So how do you feel that this is like a
new freaking season.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, look, we're very excited. We've been seeing a lot
of people sending us messages and asking us when season
two is coming, and we're here. We made it. We're
excited to talk about new stuff with brand new ideas,
brand new topics, hopefully some cute outfits along the way,
and a little bit more of information because we're putting
like a little more research into what we're talking about.
(02:22):
These that's you, that's me.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't do research.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
That's my virgo ness coming through being like, let's look
up random information.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I say, you know what, I respect you, I
respect your needs and I respect your wants. Yeah, and
I want you to do that because it makes you
feel good.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I like looking up random information to be honest, It's
a really good pastime for me.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
What are we talking about today?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Well, today we're going to talk about how do you
know when they like you? Signs that they like you?
Or how do you know when somebody likes you?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You know when you get that you know when you
like get that feeling when all the things add up
and you're like, wait a second, they freaking like.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Me or you like them? Wait? Can you tell when
someone likes you?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
H yes, yes, Sometimes it's very obvious, and sometimes it's
like are you playing hard to get? Or are you
just nice? Are you just nice to me?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I have I have trouble knowing if somebody likes me
or if they're just flirting with me, because I flirt
a lot when I'm like somewhere I look a certain
type of way.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Even if you don't like them, I don't if I
don't have if I don't have any intention, because like
sometimes people just fall in love with us.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Uh huh, right. I think it's different for girls too,
because girls like if you give one Like for girls,
if you make eye contact with some guy on the sidewalk,
he thinks you're flirting and you like him, so I
think it's you can't do but me. I'll be in line, Yeah,
the line like seven to eleven, and I'd be like, hey,
I like your choice of hot dogs here. Just kidding.
(04:09):
I like hot dogs, not seven eleven hot dogs.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Kidding anyway, So today we're gonna be talking about signs
that they like you.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah, because I'm sure you're sitting in your car right now,
on your toilet, or wherever you are in your room,
or wherever you listen to us, and you're wondering if
that guy in accounting has a crutch on you and
a crunch a crunch crund I added a ch in there. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
So we're here to help you, to give you signs
from us from our our clubhouse, Secret, Bestie club, Love Play,
Real book.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Yes, chapter one, yeah, section one. Okay. So I always
say that the first thing that the way that I
can tell somebody likes me is what you call the glimmer. Okay.
I'll notice it when I say hello to somebody and
I introduced myself and they look at me for just
a split second longer, like when you look at somebody
(05:13):
you're like, hi, how are you nice to meet you?
And then you look away. But when they like you.
But when they like you, they go like, Hi, how
are you nice to meet you? And they just like
I don't know. It's like to me, it's like here,
give me a hand.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Here, like this is crazy because you know Curly loves me,
like has a crush.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I had a crush on it for a week. Anyways, Okay,
so you're like, hi, how are you nice to meet you?
And you just stay like a split second longer and
then you I think that's like me, That's how I
can tell somebody likes me. I'm like, oh, they or
they held on a little too long.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
So like, I didn't coin the term glimmer. I just
like I found it when I was researching for this
episode too. But it's like that thing where it's it's
just the look in their eyes that you're like, whoa.
It's almost like it looks a little glossy yeah, and
it looks a little bit like they're picturing their life
(06:07):
with you while you're talking and not even listening to
what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
It's like imagine you walk into a store and you
see a sweater that you're like, I love that sweater.
Imagine you are that sweater.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're imagining, like imagining all the places you'd wear that sweater.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Yeah, Like you said, the gaze, hold you hold your
gaze a little bit longer. You can literally see like
this little sparkle in their eyes.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yea.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
And from my experience as a Love Island expert, I've
seen every single episode of Love Island that there has
been a lot of a lot of But usually when like,
they'll look at their lips, like if they want to
kiss someone or if they want to like like them,
(06:53):
they'll they'll just like look at their lips.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Uh huh. Doesn't that make you feel? And somebody looks
at anything other than your eyes, if they look at
your I'm like, oh no, yeah exactly, Oh yeah, You're like,
oh my god, d I sinking my teeth, like what
is going on? They're looking at something, they have a
moco you know. So I don't know if I would
you would make me more insecure if you stared at
anything other than my eyes versus just giving me the
(07:18):
extra case you know, do you give o ho soos?
Like when you like somebody, Like when I like somebody,
I will like kind of lean a certain type of
way and I look at them.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Well, that brings us into like well before that, like
direct eye contact. Yeah, and this is what I researched too.
If you just researched, like, how do you know they
like you? It says a direct eye contact triggers a
little hormone called oxy oxy oxytocin oxytoxytocin that helps us
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feel connected and bonded to another person.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
You know who else that happens to when you do that,
don't look at me dogs. If you look dogs square
in the face, like in their eyes like your own dogs.
Don't look at some strangers. Don't be walking you make
it eye contact with the dog because you might they
might chew your face that random people's dog.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
I take my dog. I take my dog Punky who's
in Arizona, and they hold his face like this and
I just stare. That's how we bond.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
They say that it builds oxytoastin between you and the dog,
and the dog gets oxytosin too.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
So we were just talking about little body language.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Oh yeah, look, I think to me, that's the ultimate
way to tell if somebody likes you is do they
touch you? Are they like making eyes at you? How
are they looking at you? How is their body? My
legs are wide open? Your body language is all of that, Like,
I think that that really plays a big role. And
(09:00):
if you like somebody, are they looking at you? Are
they making eye contact? We read somewhere that like how
is your belly place in place of the person? So
if your belly is towards them.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
A lot of things are towards me.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
For those of you who can't see this right now,
like literally my cana is like I need to look
at something for me.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yeah, body language is another huge signal of whether they
like you or not. And of course it's like you
never know because because like our producer Josie was like,
has there been a time when somebody has given you
that like body position but they actually weren't interested?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Yes? This is confusing really.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Yeah. So one of the ways is like like you said,
shaking hands and a little bit longer than usual.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, maybe a little this.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
We have soft hans.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I have very soft pans except for my calluses because
I also like to pull ups.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Well my hands are kind of rough because I play
the switch.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So wait, so do you think that people have sent
me mixed signals with their body language, so it's harder
for you to tell sometimes.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
So like, for example, some of the body languages would
be like the feet thing. I'm always looking at people's feet,
and this is on New Girl, like an episode of
New Girl, where like if their feet when you're standing
are pointed towards you, then they're like they're kind of interested, yeah,
and I've noticed that. But the mixed signals have been
(10:44):
when their feet are pointed to one person and then
pointed to me, and I'm like, oh, they.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Like also too, we forgot to say that, Like it's
going to change based off of where you are, Like
if you're at a rush and a waiter comes up
to you, the signals are different than if this is
your coworker, especially because of like a lot of different
things right now that you have to be safe and
not come off a certain type of way if you
don't want trouble, or if it's like somebody else the
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way you know. Like Also it's interesting to think too,
because I think that sometimes the body knows before you
know in your head. Like I had an ex boyfriend
who had no idea that he liked me until somebody
else told him I think you like him, and he
was like, I think you're right, and then we were
together for a while. But I don't think he knew
(11:36):
that he liked me for a while. I mean, I also,
by the way, do this thing that when I really
like somebody, I try to be a little less obvious
about it because I don't want to be because my
virgo double scorpio asks like I have to fight, like
I will show you. I'm like a romantic. I like to,
you know, get you flowers and do little things and
feel like, oh I thought of you, I got you this.
(11:57):
And then so I have to fight like the.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Urge to so you have to fight your body to
not do like. There's this thing called the lean in.
I think, and you know what I've seen this. I've
seen like a video compilation of every like celebrity couple
or like just a couple in general. The person who
is leaning in more likes them more.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Yeah, we talked about or.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
Vice versa, like or if they're both leaning in. I've
seen it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, we have to dissect a few photos the other
day Maya and.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I and I was good at it.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, we have to look at some photos like.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Exhibit a because that the person the people we were
looking at, like one of the people, one of the
one of the persons, yeah in question was leaning more
in yeah, and the other guy was kind of like
leaning a little bit, a little bit but not a lot.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yeah, you know, but yeah, I think that for me,
there's two things. There's always the thing of when somebody
likes you, you will know it, like they will make
they will show you that they like you. They will
make the effort, they will ask you questions, they'll engage
with you, they'll think about you when you're not there.
They'll remember that you like ratitue. So when they see ratitude.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Somewhere the abuse that just occurred right now, you know
you did not just grab Remy the ratitude from his
freaking not His name is Remy and he makes Ratitui.
The movie is called Gratitude.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
I don't like you now, So you know, like it's
hard to it's hard to tell with a lot of
different signs and a lot of different things.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
But so another thing too, and then we'll move on
to the next section, is that they touch you a
lot more.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Do you do that? I do it absolutely, I'll do
that on the first date, Like when I was dating
and I would like reach over the table and be like,
oh my god. Sometimes though, because I have tattoos on
my hands, guys will do that to me a lot,
where they'll grab my hand like literally like kind of
turned me a little bit like, well, someone, I can
cub your hand. Yeah, and they'll just be like, oh,
(14:05):
I like your tattoos, but that's so intimate to.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Grab somebody lifted the hair on my hands.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
So you know what I do, and guys do that
do to me grab my hand, I go like that
the spider. I make my hands really like hands. You
don't like someone that's the body language you're looking forward.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I just we just care listening right now, and we
just like spread our hands out, like.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Your hands like turning into like starfish spiders, like you
have like the worst finger writis on your fingers.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Oh my god. There was this guy who like tried
to hold my hand on the first day. He was
the guy who put his head on my shoulder and
he went like he went like this, and I like
like try to hold my hand, and I went, oh, okay,
So because I wasn't ready.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
You actually pats also have like a lot of not
to go into battylang, batty language, baddy language. But pats
can also be kind of demeaning and a little bit like,
so if anybody who you are wondering if they like you,
if they pat you at all, but even if they
like you, don't.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Let my mom pets.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Not like that.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Just hit me right now. She'll hug and she'll do
the little like pats, and I have to tell her.
I'm like, don't pat me because it makes me like,
I don't know, like it makes me want to throw up.
I'm like, do do this, But it's because I don't know.
She just she doesn't think about it. Yeah, but yeah,
it does feel like but that's not her intention at all.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
I think it's a little bit of like the circle
circle circle, Pat, Pat Pat. I think that's a nice
circle circle circle. I don't.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I don't like the pet pet pet at the end.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
In the gay world, by the way, I feel like
it's a little bit more obvious when somebody likes you,
because you're like hello, and before you know it, there's
a dick in your mouth. And then that's just kind
of the way that not in my experience, because I'm
not in my experience because I'm a little bit more.
And as we know, she's a little lady. I'm a
(16:24):
little lady.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So the next section is about emotional attentiveness. So, like,
I knew this guy liked me because he was doing
all the things that I wanted my ex to do,
but I didn't really like I didn't like him that much.
Like he he texted me like, oh, text me when
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you land.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
That's sweet though, I say that very That means I
like you.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Too, that's very sweet.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Yeah, what is emotional attentiveness?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Like emotional attentiveness is like how attentive are they to
your emotions and just emotions in general, Like.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
So like if something happens, are they there for you,
the emotionally available for this?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Yeah, and that could also be like I guess so
because some people don't know how to be attentive to emotions.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, Like one time you were dating that one guy
who like didn't check on you.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah, protest guy.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Yeah, when you were going on a shoot or something.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
It was a weird thing that was happening during like
COVID and the protests and stuff where my roommate had
like stickers on her back of her car that said,
like black lives matter, and this guy, this like tall
man like started talking shit to her and then and
then she started talking shit to them, and he was
like he was just very like I don't know. He
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was this weird white man and we're like, he knows
where we live. Like it was it was just a
very scary situation that we were like, holy shit, like
is he going to come back and like murder us
or whatever because it was such a heightened time and
this guy was like that sucks. Hopefully it doesn't come back.
I'm like, yeah, hopefully it doesn't go back. You should
come here and cud on me and make sure he doesn't.
(18:08):
But what or at least be like sorry, because I
had my other guy friends be like do you need
us to be there?
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Like do you yeah? Yeah, I offer to pick you up.
I think yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
I mean everybody was just like it was like a
really weird, like weird thing, and I think he just
didn't know how to do that. But I also think
he didn't like me as much too, because like when
you like someone, you want them to feel safe and
you want them to you want to hold space for
them in some way and as much as you can
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so that they know, oh wow, I feel really safe
with this person. I feel really good versus.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Like that looks yeah, I will say though with me, Like,
there's a lot of things where sometimes I don't know
how to react to a certain situation. And it doesn't
necessarily mean that I don't like you. It just means
that I didn't think about that. I really feel like
the lines between liking people, somebody liking you and you
liking them, it's so blurred. It's so blowred. Your body
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is so blow I really feel like it's blurred because
sometimes I might like, you know, I might like somebody,
but I don't want to make them feel like uncomfortable
in any sort of way. Or they might like me
and they don't want me to feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
And it's just about communication, Like are they asking questions
about your life?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Are they interested in like what you did today? Or
are they starting to build those blocks? Like that's how
you know you're creating a connection with somebody and that
they're interested in, Like, how does that make you feel?
That's so cool that you're doing that. I had somebody
that I ghosted. Oh yeah, do all the things, all
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the right things, but I think he liked me too quick.
It was too fast.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
They like everybody too quick and too fast. Oh shit, sorry,
look that sign that I just mentioned impalagon impi lagon.
It's like well alsos.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Also, he had he knew me from social media years before.
He sent me a DM like four years ago, like
sliding into my DMS, and he didn't remember that, and
like just certain things that I was like, it doesn't
feel like we're on an even field, like you already
made up your mind about me. But I knew that
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he really really liked me because when we were facetiming. Also,
he had intense glimmer, but I felt like I was
doing a stand up show. I feel like it was like, hey, everyone,
thank you so much for going up well today, and
it's like he's laughing. And then and then when he
when I would throw back to him, he would be like, huh.
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I'm like, okay, let's wrap this up, like.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
All right, But did you like him at any point?
Speaker 2 (21:03):
I did in the beginning, And so that's why when
I was like, oh my god, that's so sweet that
he's like text me when you land like, I don't know,
that's really cute.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I think when you like somebody. There is a little
bit of like there's look, I also know there's some
people who when they like somebody, they fight it. They
fight it really hard.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Do you think I fight it? Do you know when
I like somebody?
Speaker 1 (21:30):
I have trouble telling when you like somebody, to be honest,
so like, I can't imagine somebody that you actually like
trying to read.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
You like at work. We were at work and I
liked probably the only guy that I liked that we
were around.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
I mean I knew because I was like invested in it.
It was like my little like little work novela you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
I wanted to see that that could have been so good.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
I don't know if he knew.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Do you think he knew that I liked him?
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Yeah, for sure, you think so, yeah, Joyce, Yeah, oh yeah,
I think I make it a little obvious. I would
always walk around his desk. I would always be like,
can you help me set up?
Speaker 1 (22:10):
And A like their big likes by the way they're there, Yeah,
what about me? Can you tell and I like somebody?
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yes? Really definitely you'll go you say I like them? Yeah, no,
you are pretty quick.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
What depends like it? I can be like, oh, I
like them, They're cool, but like to really like them
is different, So I guess it's I guess for me,
it's the thing of like how to what extent, Like
you can like somebody like, oh they're cute, I kind
of like them. I kind of have a little question
or you're like, oh, I really like them.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Well, because like we're like we've been talking about like
are they making a connection? Are they making an effort
to make a connection? And I feel like you do that,
Oh yeah, like you will make an effort to create
a connection with them, like hanging out with them at
various different places. You always like hang out with the
family first, their friends, or bring them to bring them
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to your friends and stuff like that's how I know that.
I'm like, okay, like yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
You know. But I also, like I say, thinking about
it in different ways. I'm trying to think about the
person who because it's different levels of like right, like
I'm thinking about the when you first meet somebody at
work and you have a coworker and you're like, I
like this person at work, do they like me back?
And I think that that's kind of where I'm thinking
of versus like the we've already established that we like
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each other. Now I'm going to bring you into my circle,
and you're going to bring me into your circle.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Welcome to the zodiacs in a while, but here we
are again.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
I guess what we're not gonna do today? We you? We?
I'm not going to cap hard on capricorns. You're gonna
what cap hard on capricorns?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
What is cap No? It just felt like give me
the definition. It just felt like wordplay.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
So how do you know when a Virgo sign likes you?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
How do I know when a Virgo sign likes you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:15):
How do you How would I know that a Virgo
likes me?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Oh? If a Virgo likes you, they pay probably pay attention.
So look, I think the different signs will do different
things for sure when they like you. I think a
Virgo will pay attention to certain details, that'll remember certain things.
I actually, as I've gotten older, will take notes. So
like the guy that I was seeing, I take notes.
So when he points out something and he's like, oh,
I really like that's my favorite chocolate bar, He'll say
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certain things I take. I have a note thing so
that I know for Christmas or for birthdays.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I can check my what Yeah, you tell me that
you don't do that.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
I did that with this guy.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Oh but guys that you like not your best friends?
Like what are my favorite chips?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Well now I know Lemon Laise. Anyway, what about Aries?
What do you think about Aries?
Speaker 2 (25:05):
It's very we're very blunt. I think we're very like,
we're very there. I like you sometimes or we're just
like very intense about it, like when we hang out
or like big flirts.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
I feel like that as has never had a crush
on me because I don't think I've ever met and Aries. Yeah,
that's like given me.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Has ever had a crush on you?
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:30):
What about but no, we'll downplay it though, definitely, but
we're it's like we'll downplay it, but you still know.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
What about geminis? How are geminized? When I have a crush
on somebody, you won't know.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
They will never even if you're married, you still will
not know geminized like you, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Gemini won't tell you or they'll just that they'll like
only tell you when they they're in one of their
moods and then they are over it.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yeah, it's like which person they are?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Taurus is I feel like we'll tell you that they
like you, but like they won't say you that they
like you, but they'll show you something like a big
dedicated move, like I showed up for you. That means
I like you that like, but what are okay? I
feel like my mom and my sister. That's how they
show love. They're like I dedicated seventy five years. See
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you and you're like, but you could have given me
a compliment in the hallway and I would have saw
for that.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Which sign is the most obvious about liking someone?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Oh, I mean, I feel like the easy answer is
the scorpio, right, but I also feel like scorpios would
hide it. Scorpios Scorpions are really intense, like they're very.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Like obvious about it.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
I think Pisces my most Why didn't I say that?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
It's very much like they'll follow you around. I love Pisces,
and I'm saying I can say that because I have
a lot of Pisces in my chart.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, yeah, always like I love Piscey's energy. But I'm
always like, meet me at my pace, like meet me
in the way that.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Like you have one sometimes yeah, all.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
My faces, I'm like you have it all, you're so good,
but like give me the space, low it down?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, which one is?
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Like?
Speaker 2 (27:16):
The least obvious. Geminis are the ones I've experienced. They'll
make you think that they like you and then be
like they'll pull it away and be like what mm hmmm,
I was just flirting that space.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Libras you never know because they're so like.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Libras are the same way, but they won't take it away.
They'll just like they'll be all up in it and
then they'll disappear.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I really feel like Burgos might be the least obvious.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Yeah, a little bit.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I think like Burgos are just kind of like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
Don't It was hard with the the virgo at work.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
I can't tell oh, yeah, we're just like yeah, we're
kind of like.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Do you think he liked me?
Speaker 1 (28:01):
I don't know. I think there were moments where I
felt like, oh, I think maybe he does. But then
that's what I'm saying, Like, I also like virgos. I
don't know, we're just messy signs. I think.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
I don't know, but I do know that the other
virgo that I started to date was intimidated by that
Virgo Aquarius.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
I feel like, we'll tell you that they like you,
or they'll make you feel like they like you, but
then they forget about it. Another view alone, be like
I like this other person, like flateral.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Aware Sagittarists, I think Sagittarius. Still they'll let you know
for a little bit, and then they'll also run away
because they like five other people.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Yeah, oh oh yes, I think Earth signs the way
that you can tell if an Earth sign likes you.
In case you're wondering if Pedro in the gottenness section
of the medical that you work at and me that
you work.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
At that you know, how as you know that I
work there, if.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
You want, if he's an Earth sign, he will do
grand jessure is for you that are not They're not grand.
They're just like really loving and caring and thoughtful. If
you're a fire sign and they like you, I don't
know if you're an air science who knows who knows
air signs anyways?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
On their own own? You know, I can't I respect it.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
And then what's the other one? Water sign? Oh? Man,
a water sign.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Cancers will let you know.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
They have written you a book of poetry.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Yeah yeah, already they just changed the name.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
I also will say this that I learned how to like,
I learned how to be more thoughtful in my love
languages because of the water signs. Like otherwise I had,
I didn't know how to do it. Well.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
That concludes the Zodiac portion of the podcast.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Well, look, okay here at the end of the day,
if you want to know if somebody likes you, the
best thing to do, if you can, and if it's
safe for you to do it, is to tell them
how you feel and see if it's reciprocated. Because I
will say that there's a psychological thing about thinking do
they like me? Do they not like me? And it
eats at you. It can be like kind of it
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can turn into an obsession. So the quicker that you
get out of it, and the quicker that you say, hey,
I like you, is it mutual? You can get out
of it. If you're not gonnat in trouble. If you're
the boss and you have like just like consider where
you are, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
If you if you really tell your boss that you
like them, that you're in love with them, and maybe
it'll come with the race, and maybe it'll come with
the severance package and the lawsuits and the way you're
getting money. Yeah, I think if you're wondering if they
like you or not, like, ah, man, it's so tempting
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to do those tarot card readings and like those TikTok
like readings as well, like if they like you or
not whatever, But the best way to find out if
they like you is just to ask do it today?
Do it right now?
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Yeah, when you get to work, I'm sure you just.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Not work well. Work situation.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I feel like that's even rather it two. He's done
with you earlier, he never got back up. Yeah, I mean,
just tell them signs it And if you like somebody
to like, be smart about how you tell them, be
smart about how you show them the signs. But be
an adult about it and just go for it.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Thank you so much for coming back to Season two
of The Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast. We hope you
enjoyed Curly. How can they find you on social media?
Speaker 1 (31:34):
Oh, you can find me at the Curly b Showa Victoria,
I changed it music Victor on all social media platforms.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
You can find me at my in the Moment, m
A y A in the moment on everything and uh yeah,
hit us up on our socials. If you have any
ideas for future episodes, we are going to be adding
in like an advice little column section soon, so hit
us up, let us know. We love you so much
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and thank you for coming back.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
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We like you equal, we like you probably equal. Make
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh my gosh, you're here again. Do you like legos
or something?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yeah? And which one? Mir or her? Though it's probably okay. Anyways,
get any here. My name is Curly and I'm Maya
and welcome to the Super Secret bestI Club Podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Oh my goodness, will say a little say a little
prayer before we start this. This is going to be
the best podcast episode we've ever done in our freaking lives.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
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Speaker 2 (00:49):
Your Secret Besty Club.
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Super Super Secret Best Club and Joyce and Joyce.
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And one two day currently Wow, here we are here.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
We are back again.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Welcome back to the Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Now you can actually see what the Super Secret Bestie
Club actually looks like. It's just hearts and plush animals.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Excuse me, animals. This is the mascot of our show,
Rata Tuy.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Rat, the cooks very on Brat And.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Oh it's a five star restaurant. Do you own a
five Star restaurant.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Well no, I'm saying that we are rats that cooks.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Oh we are rats.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Well, guys, here we are again another episode of your
favorite show with your two favorite best famous besties. And
as we like to stay here, tell your other cousins
to go sit over there and get with from us.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yeah, we don't want to see them. So we're back
again season two yay.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Which by the way, was like such a journey to
get here. But here we are.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So how do you feel that this is like a
new freaking season.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, look, we're very excited. We've been seeing a lot
of people sending us messages and asking us when season
two is coming, and we're here. We made it. We're
excited to talk about new stuff with brand new ideas,
brand new topics, hopefully some cute outfits along the way,
and a little bit more of information because we're putting
like a little more research into what we're talking about.
(02:22):
These that's you, that's me.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I don't do research.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
That's my virgo ness coming through being like, let's look
up random information.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
And I say, you know what, I respect you, I
respect your needs and I respect your wants. Yeah, and
I want you to do that because it makes you
feel good.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I like looking up random information to be honest, It's
a really good pastime for me.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
What are we talking about today?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Well, today we're going to talk about how do you
know when they like you? Signs that they like you?
Or how do you know when somebody likes you?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You know when you get that you know when you
like get that feeling when all the things add up
and you're like, wait a second, they freaking like.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Me or you like them? Wait? Can you tell when
someone likes you?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
H yes, yes, Sometimes it's very obvious, and sometimes it's
like are you playing hard to get? Or are you
just nice? Are you just nice to me?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I have I have trouble knowing if somebody likes me
or if they're just flirting with me, because I flirt
a lot when I'm like somewhere I look a certain
type of way.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Even if you don't like them, I don't if I
don't have if I don't have any intention, because like
sometimes people just fall in love with us.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Uh huh, right. I think it's different for girls too,
because girls like if you give one Like for girls,
if you make eye contact with some guy on the sidewalk,
he thinks you're flirting and you like him, so I
think it's you can't do but me. I'll be in line, Yeah,
the line like seven to eleven, and I'd be like, hey,
I like your choice of hot dogs here. Just kidding.
(04:09):
I like hot dogs, not seven eleven hot dogs.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Kidding anyway, So today we're gonna be talking about signs
that they like you.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah, because I'm sure you're sitting in your car right now,
on your toilet, or wherever you are in your room,
or wherever you listen to us, and you're wondering if
that guy in accounting has a crutch on you and
a crunch a crunch crund I added a ch in there. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
So we're here to help you, to give you signs
from us from our our clubhouse, Secret, Bestie club, Love Play,
Real book.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Yes, chapter one, yeah, section one. Okay. So I always
say that the first thing that the way that I
can tell somebody likes me is what you call the glimmer. Okay.
I'll notice it when I say hello to somebody and
I introduced myself and they look at me for just
a split second longer, like when you look at somebody
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you're like, hi, how are you nice to meet you?
And then you look away. But when they like you.
But when they like you, they go like, Hi, how
are you nice to meet you? And they just like
I don't know. It's like to me, it's like here,
give me a hand.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Here, like this is crazy because you know Curly loves me,
like has a crush.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I had a crush on it for a week. Anyways, Okay,
so you're like, hi, how are you nice to meet you?
And you just stay like a split second longer and
then you I think that's like me, That's how I
can tell somebody likes me. I'm like, oh, they or
they held on a little too long.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
So like, I didn't coin the term glimmer. I just
like I found it when I was researching for this
episode too. But it's like that thing where it's it's
just the look in their eyes that you're like, whoa.
It's almost like it looks a little glossy yeah, and
it looks a little bit like they're picturing their life
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with you while you're talking and not even listening to
what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
It's like imagine you walk into a store and you
see a sweater that you're like, I love that sweater.
Imagine you are that sweater.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
You're imagining, like imagining all the places you'd wear that sweater.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Yeah, Like you said, the gaze, hold you hold your
gaze a little bit longer. You can literally see like
this little sparkle in their eyes.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yea.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
And from my experience as a Love Island expert, I've
seen every single episode of Love Island that there has
been a lot of a lot of But usually when like,
they'll look at their lips, like if they want to
kiss someone or if they want to like like them,
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they'll they'll just like look at their lips.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Uh huh. Doesn't that make you feel? And somebody looks
at anything other than your eyes, if they look at
your I'm like, oh no, yeah exactly, Oh yeah, You're like,
oh my god, d I sinking my teeth, like what
is going on? They're looking at something, they have a
moco you know. So I don't know if I would
you would make me more insecure if you stared at
anything other than my eyes versus just giving me the
(07:18):
extra case you know, do you give o ho soos?
Like when you like somebody, Like when I like somebody,
I will like kind of lean a certain type of
way and I look at them.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Well, that brings us into like well before that, like
direct eye contact. Yeah, and this is what I researched too.
If you just researched, like, how do you know they
like you? It says a direct eye contact triggers a
little hormone called oxy oxy oxytocin oxytoxytocin that helps us
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feel connected and bonded to another person.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
You know who else that happens to when you do that,
don't look at me dogs. If you look dogs square
in the face, like in their eyes like your own dogs.
Don't look at some strangers. Don't be walking you make
it eye contact with the dog because you might they
might chew your face that random people's dog.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
I take my dog. I take my dog Punky who's
in Arizona, and they hold his face like this and
I just stare. That's how we bond.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
They say that it builds oxytoastin between you and the dog,
and the dog gets oxytosin too.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
So we were just talking about little body language.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Oh yeah, look, I think to me, that's the ultimate
way to tell if somebody likes you is do they
touch you? Are they like making eyes at you? How
are they looking at you? How is their body? My
legs are wide open? Your body language is all of that, Like,
I think that that really plays a big role. And
(09:00):
if you like somebody, are they looking at you? Are
they making eye contact? We read somewhere that like how
is your belly place in place of the person? So
if your belly is towards them.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
A lot of things are towards me.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
For those of you who can't see this right now,
like literally my cana is like I need to look
at something for me.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Yeah, body language is another huge signal of whether they
like you or not. And of course it's like you
never know because because like our producer Josie was like,
has there been a time when somebody has given you
that like body position but they actually weren't interested?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Yes? This is confusing really.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Yeah. So one of the ways is like like you said,
shaking hands and a little bit longer than usual.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, maybe a little this.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
We have soft hans.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I have very soft pans except for my calluses because
I also like to pull ups.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Well my hands are kind of rough because I play
the switch.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So wait, so do you think that people have sent
me mixed signals with their body language, so it's harder
for you to tell sometimes.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
So like, for example, some of the body languages would
be like the feet thing. I'm always looking at people's feet,
and this is on New Girl, like an episode of
New Girl, where like if their feet when you're standing
are pointed towards you, then they're like they're kind of interested, yeah,
and I've noticed that. But the mixed signals have been
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when their feet are pointed to one person and then
pointed to me, and I'm like, oh, they.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Like also too, we forgot to say that, Like it's
going to change based off of where you are, Like
if you're at a rush and a waiter comes up
to you, the signals are different than if this is
your coworker, especially because of like a lot of different
things right now that you have to be safe and
not come off a certain type of way if you
don't want trouble, or if it's like somebody else the
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way you know. Like Also it's interesting to think too,
because I think that sometimes the body knows before you
know in your head. Like I had an ex boyfriend
who had no idea that he liked me until somebody
else told him I think you like him, and he
was like, I think you're right, and then we were
together for a while. But I don't think he knew
(11:36):
that he liked me for a while. I mean, I also,
by the way, do this thing that when I really
like somebody, I try to be a little less obvious
about it because I don't want to be because my
virgo double scorpio asks like I have to fight, like
I will show you. I'm like a romantic. I like to,
you know, get you flowers and do little things and
feel like, oh I thought of you, I got you this.
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And then so I have to fight like the.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
Urge to so you have to fight your body to
not do like. There's this thing called the lean in.
I think, and you know what I've seen this. I've
seen like a video compilation of every like celebrity couple
or like just a couple in general. The person who
is leaning in more likes them more.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Yeah, we talked about or.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
Vice versa, like or if they're both leaning in. I've
seen it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, we have to dissect a few photos the other
day Maya and.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
I and I was good at it.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, we have to look at some photos like.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Exhibit a because that the person the people we were
looking at, like one of the people, one of the
one of the persons, yeah in question was leaning more
in yeah, and the other guy was kind of like
leaning a little bit, a little bit but not a lot.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yeah, you know, but yeah, I think that for me,
there's two things. There's always the thing of when somebody
likes you, you will know it, like they will make
they will show you that they like you. They will
make the effort, they will ask you questions, they'll engage
with you, they'll think about you when you're not there.
They'll remember that you like ratitue. So when they see ratitude.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Somewhere the abuse that just occurred right now, you know
you did not just grab Remy the ratitude from his
freaking not His name is Remy and he makes Ratitui.
The movie is called Gratitude.
Speaker 1 (13:25):
I don't like you now, So you know, like it's
hard to it's hard to tell with a lot of
different signs and a lot of different things.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
But so another thing too, and then we'll move on
to the next section, is that they touch you a
lot more.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Do you do that? I do it absolutely, I'll do
that on the first date, Like when I was dating
and I would like reach over the table and be like,
oh my god. Sometimes though, because I have tattoos on
my hands, guys will do that to me a lot,
where they'll grab my hand like literally like kind of
turned me a little bit like, well, someone, I can
cub your hand. Yeah, and they'll just be like, oh,
(14:05):
I like your tattoos, but that's so intimate to.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Grab somebody lifted the hair on my hands.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
So you know what I do, and guys do that
do to me grab my hand, I go like that
the spider. I make my hands really like hands. You
don't like someone that's the body language you're looking forward.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
I just we just care listening right now, and we
just like spread our hands out, like.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Your hands like turning into like starfish spiders, like you
have like the worst finger writis on your fingers.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Oh my god. There was this guy who like tried
to hold my hand on the first day. He was
the guy who put his head on my shoulder and
he went like he went like this, and I like
like try to hold my hand, and I went, oh, okay,
So because I wasn't ready.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
You actually pats also have like a lot of not
to go into battylang, batty language, baddy language. But pats
can also be kind of demeaning and a little bit like,
so if anybody who you are wondering if they like you,
if they pat you at all, but even if they
like you, don't.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Let my mom pets.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Not like that.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Just hit me right now. She'll hug and she'll do
the little like pats, and I have to tell her.
I'm like, don't pat me because it makes me like,
I don't know, like it makes me want to throw up.
I'm like, do do this, But it's because I don't know.
She just she doesn't think about it. Yeah, but yeah,
it does feel like but that's not her intention at all.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
I think it's a little bit of like the circle
circle circle, Pat, Pat Pat. I think that's a nice
circle circle circle. I don't.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I don't like the pet pet pet at the end.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
In the gay world, by the way, I feel like
it's a little bit more obvious when somebody likes you,
because you're like hello, and before you know it, there's
a dick in your mouth. And then that's just kind
of the way that not in my experience, because I'm
not in my experience because I'm a little bit more.
And as we know, she's a little lady. I'm a
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little lady.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
So the next section is about emotional attentiveness. So, like,
I knew this guy liked me because he was doing
all the things that I wanted my ex to do,
but I didn't really like I didn't like him that much.
Like he he texted me like, oh, text me when
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you land.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
That's sweet though, I say that very That means I
like you.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Too, that's very sweet.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
Yeah, what is emotional attentiveness?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Like emotional attentiveness is like how attentive are they to
your emotions and just emotions in general, Like.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
So like if something happens, are they there for you,
the emotionally available for this?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Yeah, and that could also be like I guess so
because some people don't know how to be attentive to emotions.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Yeah, Like one time you were dating that one guy
who like didn't check on you.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah, protest guy.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Yeah, when you were going on a shoot or something.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
It was a weird thing that was happening during like
COVID and the protests and stuff where my roommate had
like stickers on her back of her car that said,
like black lives matter, and this guy, this like tall
man like started talking shit to her and then and
then she started talking shit to them, and he was
like he was just very like I don't know. He
(17:46):
was this weird white man and we're like, he knows
where we live. Like it was it was just a
very scary situation that we were like, holy shit, like
is he going to come back and like murder us
or whatever because it was such a heightened time and
this guy was like that sucks. Hopefully it doesn't come back.
I'm like, yeah, hopefully it doesn't go back. You should
come here and cud on me and make sure he doesn't.
(18:08):
But what or at least be like sorry, because I
had my other guy friends be like do you need
us to be there?
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Like do you yeah? Yeah, I offer to pick you up.
I think yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
I mean everybody was just like it was like a
really weird, like weird thing, and I think he just
didn't know how to do that. But I also think
he didn't like me as much too, because like when
you like someone, you want them to feel safe and
you want them to you want to hold space for
them in some way and as much as you can
(18:40):
so that they know, oh wow, I feel really safe
with this person. I feel really good versus.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Like that looks yeah, I will say though with me, Like,
there's a lot of things where sometimes I don't know
how to react to a certain situation. And it doesn't
necessarily mean that I don't like you. It just means
that I didn't think about that. I really feel like
the lines between liking people, somebody liking you and you
liking them, it's so blurred. It's so blowred. Your body
(19:10):
is so blow I really feel like it's blurred because
sometimes I might like, you know, I might like somebody,
but I don't want to make them feel like uncomfortable
in any sort of way. Or they might like me
and they don't want me to feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
And it's just about communication, Like are they asking questions
about your life?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
Are they interested in like what you did today? Or
are they starting to build those blocks? Like that's how
you know you're creating a connection with somebody and that
they're interested in, Like, how does that make you feel?
That's so cool that you're doing that. I had somebody
that I ghosted. Oh yeah, do all the things, all
(19:52):
the right things, but I think he liked me too quick.
It was too fast.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
They like everybody too quick and too fast. Oh shit, sorry,
look that sign that I just mentioned impalagon impi lagon.
It's like well alsos.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Also, he had he knew me from social media years before.
He sent me a DM like four years ago, like
sliding into my DMS, and he didn't remember that, and
like just certain things that I was like, it doesn't
feel like we're on an even field, like you already
made up your mind about me. But I knew that
(20:32):
he really really liked me because when we were facetiming. Also,
he had intense glimmer, but I felt like I was
doing a stand up show. I feel like it was like, hey, everyone,
thank you so much for going up well today, and
it's like he's laughing. And then and then when he
when I would throw back to him, he would be like, huh.
(20:55):
I'm like, okay, let's wrap this up, like.
Speaker 1 (21:00):
All right, But did you like him at any point?
Speaker 2 (21:03):
I did in the beginning, And so that's why when
I was like, oh my god, that's so sweet that
he's like text me when you land like, I don't know,
that's really cute.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
I think when you like somebody. There is a little
bit of like there's look, I also know there's some
people who when they like somebody, they fight it. They
fight it really hard.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
Do you think I fight it? Do you know when
I like somebody?
Speaker 1 (21:30):
I have trouble telling when you like somebody, to be honest,
so like, I can't imagine somebody that you actually like
trying to read.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
You like at work. We were at work and I
liked probably the only guy that I liked that we
were around.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
I mean I knew because I was like invested in it.
It was like my little like little work novela you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
I wanted to see that that could have been so good.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
I don't know if he knew.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Do you think he knew that I liked him?
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Yeah, for sure, you think so, yeah, Joyce, Yeah, oh yeah,
I think I make it a little obvious. I would
always walk around his desk. I would always be like,
can you help me set up?
Speaker 1 (22:10):
And A like their big likes by the way they're there, Yeah,
what about me? Can you tell and I like somebody?
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Yes? Really definitely you'll go you say I like them? Yeah, no,
you are pretty quick.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
What depends like it? I can be like, oh, I
like them, They're cool, but like to really like them
is different, So I guess it's I guess for me,
it's the thing of like how to what extent, Like
you can like somebody like, oh they're cute, I kind
of like them. I kind of have a little question
or you're like, oh, I really like them.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Well, because like we're like we've been talking about like
are they making a connection? Are they making an effort
to make a connection? And I feel like you do that,
Oh yeah, like you will make an effort to create
a connection with them, like hanging out with them at
various different places. You always like hang out with the
family first, their friends, or bring them to bring them
(23:03):
to your friends and stuff like that's how I know that.
I'm like, okay, like yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
You know. But I also, like I say, thinking about
it in different ways. I'm trying to think about the
person who because it's different levels of like right, like
I'm thinking about the when you first meet somebody at
work and you have a coworker and you're like, I
like this person at work, do they like me back?
And I think that that's kind of where I'm thinking
of versus like the we've already established that we like
(23:29):
each other. Now I'm going to bring you into my circle,
and you're going to bring me into your circle.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Welcome to the zodiacs in a while, but here we
are again.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
I guess what we're not gonna do today? We you? We?
I'm not going to cap hard on capricorns. You're gonna
what cap hard on capricorns?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (23:59):
What is cap No? It just felt like give me
the definition. It just felt like wordplay.
Speaker 2 (24:08):
So how do you know when a Virgo sign likes you?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
How do I know when a Virgo sign likes you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (24:15):
How do you How would I know that a Virgo
likes me?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Oh? If a Virgo likes you, they pay probably pay attention.
So look, I think the different signs will do different
things for sure when they like you. I think a
Virgo will pay attention to certain details, that'll remember certain things.
I actually, as I've gotten older, will take notes. So
like the guy that I was seeing, I take notes.
So when he points out something and he's like, oh,
I really like that's my favorite chocolate bar, He'll say
(24:39):
certain things I take. I have a note thing so
that I know for Christmas or for birthdays.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
I can check my what Yeah, you tell me that
you don't do that.
Speaker 1 (24:50):
I did that with this guy.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Oh but guys that you like not your best friends?
Like what are my favorite chips?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Well now I know Lemon Laise. Anyway, what about Aries?
What do you think about Aries?
Speaker 2 (25:05):
It's very we're very blunt. I think we're very like,
we're very there. I like you sometimes or we're just
like very intense about it, like when we hang out
or like big flirts.
Speaker 1 (25:20):
I feel like that as has never had a crush
on me because I don't think I've ever met and Aries. Yeah,
that's like given me.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
Has ever had a crush on you?
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (25:30):
What about but no, we'll downplay it though, definitely, but
we're it's like we'll downplay it, but you still know.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
What about geminis? How are geminized? When I have a crush
on somebody, you won't know.
Speaker 2 (25:43):
They will never even if you're married, you still will
not know geminized like you, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Gemini won't tell you or they'll just that they'll like
only tell you when they they're in one of their
moods and then they are over it.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Yeah, it's like which person they are?
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Taurus is I feel like we'll tell you that they
like you, but like they won't say you that they
like you, but they'll show you something like a big
dedicated move, like I showed up for you. That means
I like you that like, but what are okay? I
feel like my mom and my sister. That's how they
show love. They're like I dedicated seventy five years. See
(26:18):
you and you're like, but you could have given me
a compliment in the hallway and I would have saw
for that.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
Which sign is the most obvious about liking someone?
Speaker 1 (26:27):
Oh, I mean, I feel like the easy answer is
the scorpio, right, but I also feel like scorpios would
hide it. Scorpios Scorpions are really intense, like they're very.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Like obvious about it.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
I think Pisces my most Why didn't I say that?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
It's very much like they'll follow you around. I love Pisces,
and I'm saying I can say that because I have
a lot of Pisces in my chart.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, yeah, always like I love Piscey's energy. But I'm
always like, meet me at my pace, like meet me
in the way that.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Like you have one sometimes yeah, all.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
My faces, I'm like you have it all, you're so good,
but like give me the space, low it down?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah, which one is?
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Like?
Speaker 2 (27:16):
The least obvious. Geminis are the ones I've experienced. They'll
make you think that they like you and then be
like they'll pull it away and be like what mm hmmm,
I was just flirting that space.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Libras you never know because they're so like.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Libras are the same way, but they won't take it away.
They'll just like they'll be all up in it and
then they'll disappear.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I really feel like Burgos might be the least obvious.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
Yeah, a little bit.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I think like Burgos are just kind of like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
Don't It was hard with the the virgo at work.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
I can't tell oh, yeah, we're just like yeah, we're
kind of like.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Do you think he liked me?
Speaker 1 (28:01):
I don't know. I think there were moments where I
felt like, oh, I think maybe he does. But then
that's what I'm saying, Like, I also like virgos. I
don't know, we're just messy signs. I think.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
I don't know, but I do know that the other
virgo that I started to date was intimidated by that
Virgo Aquarius.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
I feel like, we'll tell you that they like you,
or they'll make you feel like they like you, but
then they forget about it. Another view alone, be like
I like this other person, like flateral.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Aware Sagittarists, I think Sagittarius. Still they'll let you know
for a little bit, and then they'll also run away
because they like five other people.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Yeah, oh oh yes, I think Earth signs the way
that you can tell if an Earth sign likes you.
In case you're wondering if Pedro in the gottenness section
of the medical that you work at and me that
you work.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
At that you know, how as you know that I
work there, if.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
You want, if he's an Earth sign, he will do
grand jessure is for you that are not They're not grand.
They're just like really loving and caring and thoughtful. If
you're a fire sign and they like you, I don't
know if you're an air science who knows who knows
air signs anyways?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
On their own own? You know, I can't I respect it.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
And then what's the other one? Water sign? Oh? Man,
a water sign.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Cancers will let you know.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
They have written you a book of poetry.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
Yeah yeah, already they just changed the name.
Speaker 1 (29:32):
I also will say this that I learned how to like,
I learned how to be more thoughtful in my love
languages because of the water signs. Like otherwise I had,
I didn't know how to do it. Well.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
That concludes the Zodiac portion of the podcast.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Well, look, okay here at the end of the day,
if you want to know if somebody likes you, the
best thing to do, if you can, and if it's
safe for you to do it, is to tell them
how you feel and see if it's reciprocated. Because I
will say that there's a psychological thing about thinking do
they like me? Do they not like me? And it
eats at you. It can be like kind of it
(30:07):
can turn into an obsession. So the quicker that you
get out of it, and the quicker that you say, hey,
I like you, is it mutual? You can get out
of it. If you're not gonnat in trouble. If you're
the boss and you have like just like consider where
you are, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
If you if you really tell your boss that you
like them, that you're in love with them, and maybe
it'll come with the race, and maybe it'll come with
the severance package and the lawsuits and the way you're
getting money. Yeah, I think if you're wondering if they
like you or not, like, ah, man, it's so tempting
(30:42):
to do those tarot card readings and like those TikTok
like readings as well, like if they like you or
not whatever, But the best way to find out if
they like you is just to ask do it today?
Do it right now?
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Yeah, when you get to work, I'm sure you just.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Not work well. Work situation.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I feel like that's even rather it two. He's done
with you earlier, he never got back up. Yeah, I mean,
just tell them signs it And if you like somebody
to like, be smart about how you tell them, be
smart about how you show them the signs. But be
an adult about it and just go for it.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
Thank you so much for coming back to Season two
of The Super Secret Bestie Club Podcast. We hope you
enjoyed Curly. How can they find you on social media?
Speaker 1 (31:34):
Oh, you can find me at the Curly b Showa Victoria,
I changed it music Victor on all social media platforms.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
You can find me at my in the Moment, m
A y A in the moment on everything and uh yeah,
hit us up on our socials. If you have any
ideas for future episodes, we are going to be adding
in like an advice little column section soon, so hit
us up, let us know. We love you so much
(32:06):
and thank you for coming back.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
Get it out of here, and I like you. If
you're listening to this, oh.
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