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December 13, 2023 47 mins

For this episode our dynamic duo reunite after what feels like a century of not sharing the same air (thanks, technology) to embark on the journey of catching up with each other's latest news in love, friendships, careers and family! 

Maya Murillo and Curly Velásquez are the hosts of the Super Secret Bestie Club with production support by Karina Riveroll of Sonoro Media in partnership with iHeart Radio's My Cultura Podcast network. If you want to support the podcast, please rate and review our show!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, Mayer, how are you doing?

Speaker 2 (00:01):
How are you doing?

Speaker 1 (00:02):
How are you doing?

Speaker 3 (00:03):
How are you doing?

Speaker 1 (00:04):
Now? How are you doing? Maya?

Speaker 4 (00:07):
I'm doing good.

Speaker 1 (00:07):
How are you? I'm good? But I'll tell you all
about it.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
Get in here. My name is Curly and I'm Maya.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
And welcome to the Super Secret Bestie Club podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
A super secret club where we talk about super secret things.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, like secrets that are super That's what it is.
In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men,
and of course our favorite secrets. Get in here, well, Maya.
Here we are another day and the Super Secret Bestial Club, Treehouse.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Universe and uh.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Today's special episode. Today we're just gonna talk about just
catch people up on our own personal lives. We're just
gonna update people and a lot of things where we
are real people dealing with real things. We are not
like better than anyone. Where we also deal with family love.
We did that too, Yeah, acne too, sad, Yeah exact,

(01:09):
Oh my god, I have a giant ZiT.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
We get gassed too.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Well, how are you? What's been like? What's been going
wrong with you? Well?

Speaker 3 (01:17):
The intention of this episode is as if I mean
because I was in Arizona for pretty much a month,
and I feel like I did not talk to any
of my friends, and like we caught up, like me
and you caught up on a phone call, like I
mean several phone calls, but I remember it was like
an hour and something and you're like, you're gonna have
to hang up because I'm just gonna keep talking on

(01:37):
the phone. And so this is that, this is that
we're catching up, you know, like this is a little
check in on our spirits some some of our favorites
right now, some glimmers. If you don't know what glimmers are,
they're the opposite of triggers. They're the beautiful things in
the world that I mean, triggers can do that as well,
But like a glimmer right now for me is that

(01:59):
there's a freaking rainbow outside still. If you heard the
last episode, there's a rainbow in that one, and there's
a rainbow in this one too. Maybe we're filming on
the same day, but I just can't not talk about it.
It's it's the wonders of the world, like it's made
for you to talk about exactly. I have to call
her out. So we're gonna check in and tell you

(02:21):
some uh, some things that are that we're obsessed with
right now. So let's let's get it going curly. What's
going on?

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Our first topic is like love, right like think the
oh wait, Mike Glimmer. Mike Glimmer, is I have been
feeling myself lately like Mike Glimmers, Like I have been
feeling like Mike Glimmers actually back, Like I know that
that's not what it means, Like that's not like.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
You're what it can be whatever saying it is.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
For but like for me, like I feel like Uha's
getting her group back right now, I'm just in my thing.
Love has been kind of an interesting thing, you know.
I've been kind of in the situation relationship for a
few years now, and I feel like I'm finally kind
of moving on and getting out of it and kind
of just being like accepting of the fact that we

(03:11):
can be good people and not for each other and
just keep it moving. You know, it's super hard, it's
very it's it's not as hard this time, if I'm
honest with you, Like it was harder the first three
times we broke up, But once you get up there
with a certain amount of numbers, like you're kind of

(03:32):
just like it. It is what it is.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
I must stay, you know, But you're not gonna stay.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
I must stay away is what I'm gonna do, you know.
But you know, I've been back out there. I'm dating,
I'm seeing what other people can bring to the energy
force field, and it has been great. Like different people
have different things that they can bring, that they can
offer you, that they can show up for you. I
have not lost faith in love. I have not lost

(04:01):
faith in the potential, the idea of not to use
more potential. But like you know, I have not lost
faith in the idea that there is I don't believe
in the fairy tale version of love. I don't believe
that there is something that is going to be perfect.
But I do believe that there is something out there
that can meet me where I'm at in terms of

(04:22):
my own frequencies. What about you, Like, where are you
at with your love right now?

Speaker 3 (04:27):
I'm a work in progress constantly. I feel like I
am really good at manifesting and being in the right
mindset for my career at times and money like, i
feel like I'm a great manifestor sometimes with love it
can I can get into a little bit of a trap,

(04:49):
like I can get into a little bit of a
hole or a spiral, And I think that's kind of
where I'm at now. I'm not dating anyone. I was like,
I just like looked on Hinge and saw somebody that
I had matched with before who lied about knowing me

(05:10):
from BuzzFeed and stuff?

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Do you remember him? See you a lot? I feel
like that happens to you a lot.

Speaker 3 (05:17):
Yeah, I have the.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Weirdest luck when it comes to like men stalkers, like not,
I don't know, like just weird stuff happened to you.
And considering how many people out there have my phone number, I.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
Never and I don't give my phone number out.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Literally, I will give my phone number out to people
like at the donut shop at some if you run
into me and ask me for my phone number, I'll
give you my phone number.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
I don't give my phone number out. But like this
person was like he had like messaged me like three
or four years ago on Instagram and dm me and
I found it and I was like, Hey, what's this.
He's like I don't remember that, or but I guess
it worked because we're talking now. I'm like, there are
just little things that I'd be like, oh yeah, like

(06:05):
I once for work, like back in the day, I
did this. He's like, oh yeah, I think I saw
that because you did this and that I'm like, but
you told me before that you didn't know what I
did for work, Like there are little things, you know that.
So I've experienced unfortunately, like a couple of those things,
and it's made me a little bit I don't want
to say bitter, but a little discouraged, you know. And

(06:26):
I feel like I'm trying to find my little glimmer
back for love and stuff, and like I'll meet people
and it just like I don't know, it's but I
think my mindset is not and I don't want to
blame myself for everything. But we are magicians of our

(06:46):
own lives, Like we are able to conjure up literally anything,
good emotions, bad emotions, like everything, and I just, yeah,
I just don't I don't think I'm in a really
good place with love right now, and I don't exactly

(07:07):
know where it's stemming from. But you know, I feel
a little sad girl. But it's fine.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
I was gonna say, doesn't it feel like everyone's like
a little staggered right now, Like you'll meet someone and
they're just like not quite and you're like, okay, well
maybe the next person like not quite. I don't know,
like is that how you feel at all?

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Or I'm I think it might be the holidays, you know,
like every year, I'm like, oh, next year, next year,
I'm gonna be with someone, and then it's next year
and I'm like, well, it's okay, it's just me. But
it's also like I fully trust in the universe, that
in the plan that the universe has for me and

(07:49):
God and whoever, that what I'm experiencing right now is
not because I'm being punished, because that's where I'll go.
I'll say that I'm like being punished or like why
is this always happened to me? Like I am totally
that person who talks that way, like of course this
would happen, or of course they would of course they
have a girlfriend, or of course they're with.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
So and so.

Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah, and so I'm trying to fight my way out
of that right now because it's you know, I don't
want to be like that. So it's yeah, and dating
apps and stuff have not been like the most successful
for me, and I will. It's I go out too,
Like I'll go out and meet people, but I think

(08:32):
I don't know. And then people are like, why are
you on those apps? So you need to be dating people?
I'm like, where do I find them?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (08:38):
A library, A library.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
A library. I know, it's such a weird thing. Like
the apps are weird, the world is weird. People are weird,
even just like for me, I when it comes to
finding love, I will meet somebody who's incredible, right, Like,
I'm like, they're really cool, and then I find out
that maybe they like to drink a little too much,
and I don't drink. I haven't had a drink in

(09:01):
eight years, right, So I'm kind of like, do I
want a boyfriend who still thinks it's really fun to
go to West Hollywood and drink all the time. Not really,
not so much for me. You know, other aspects too,
where you'll meet somebody who it's so funny. I'll meet
guys who are so emotionally intelligent, so on point with
so much of their personality, and we're bonding and he'll

(09:21):
be like, I'm a strict bottom, I'm a strict whatever,
I'm a strict top, I'm a strict this, and I'm
kind of like like I'm verse. So it's kind of like, oh,
I don't want to date like a strict bottom. I
don't want to date like a strict top, Like I
don't want to date like a guy who's like, oh
I don't like feminine men, Like we're gay, We're going
to be feminine at some point, you know. So it's

(09:42):
crazy because you know there's all these different, tiny little
details that go into finding somebody that I'm like, I
don't know, I haven't lost faith, Like I said, every
time I meet someone that I go, this could be it.

Speaker 3 (09:57):
I feel like I'm it's like in Peter Pan where
they're like, just believe. It won't work unless you believe,
like tinker Bell, like bringing her back. I feel like
that where they're telling me like just believe. Like I
do feel a little bit like I'm losing faith, like
a tiny, tiny, tiny bit, which is like I don't

(10:19):
know it just I think it's the holidays, you know,
you get a little bit lonely. But it's also like
these outside expectations of like you should be with the
loved one, the commercial like the commercials and the like
expectations of bringing someone home. And I'm like, first of all,

(10:40):
I would not bring someone home. Yeah, yeah, not unless
I was like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
I agree, like you know, wanting to bring somebody home.
What's what the kids call? Do they still say cuffing season?
I never understood a cuffing season meant.

Speaker 3 (10:55):
Cuffing season is when it's like before the holidays because
you want to bring them into like to have a
holiday boo and stuff.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
But I guess I never understood if they meant cuffing
is in like handcuffs, or cuffing is in like the
cuffs of your sleeves.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
Handcuffs, right, I don't know anyway.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
You know, the holidays bring in a lot of different things,
like with family and stuff, like we've had stuff with
family and and things that we're kind of dealing with
our own families that are real things like what's going
on with yours?

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Oh, you know, I think typical Latino family stuff like everybody.
It's it's wild when you think of your family, because
a part of you is like, would I choose these
people to be friends with them? Some family members know?
Some family members yes, like we are definitely together, we're
blood related or we are spiritually related. Everyone has so

(11:54):
many different personalities and boundaries and all this stuff. And
it's wild when you go from your community with your friends,
like I'm you know, living in LA and I'm from Phoenix.
So when I come from my little comfy like community
where everyone's working on themselves, and then you go to
your family and some people are you know, they some

(12:17):
of your family members are not into therapy or they're
just starting therapy or they need therapy or whatever. It
can get a little bit like messy. So I think
my family, my core family, is really really good. Like
baby G my little nephew, so freaking cute, he just
started walking, so beautiful, ten months old. And my other

(12:42):
nephew is eight years old. THEO he is also very sweet,
so freaking cute, and so talented already. Like I filmed,
I did this little like video with him and I
may post it later, but he I like directed him.
He did really good acting and he has like a

(13:04):
very very intense ADHD where he needs to be stimulated.
He's an only child. All of his cousins live in
another state, so he needs something to get his energy out.
I had a bunch of cousins, and you know I
would get my energy out by beating the ship out
of my brother. The same thing with my brother, like
he you know, we would we would fight so and
he doesn't have anyone to like express himself. So that

(13:27):
was beautiful. I took them to flag Staff and this
like beautiful cabin and we hung out. I did a
little thing at NAU and it was like a little
speech thing. Northern Arizona University. It was one of the
colleges that I was going to go to, and then

(13:48):
it was it's too far. It's like it's it's flag
Staff is like a it's where its snows, it's up north,
it's in Arizona. So I've been having really great like
family moments that have pushed us all to work on
ourselves to strengthen our family, like our core family, but

(14:09):
also our outer family. Like I think we're at that
time where every family has a moment where it's like, okay,
like let's shape up. You know, we want longevity, we
want more happy memories. And as you get older, like
I'm thirty, now, you have to take I mean it's
a whole thing of like are you responsible or do
you care? And I really do care to take some

(14:32):
responsibility for the legacy of my family, you know. So
that's where I'm at right now, is to create more
memories with them and traditions because I want to carry
like new traditions. I'm all about carrying on new traditions.
So yeah, it's it's just a time to everyone's just

(14:53):
kind of looking at themselves and being like this is great. However,
I want to speak my piece about something that happened
a couple of years ago, and we're like, okay, go ahead, yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah, let's talk about it. Yeah, yeah, we kind of
had something so like, my family right now is kind

(15:24):
of like dealing with a lot of death and a
lot of grief, I would say, which has been kind
of humbling in so many ways, but also just kind
of like, okay, let's go. Like, you know, my mom
was kind of not in contact with her sisters and
her brother for they talked, but like they didn't spend
a lot of time together. And one of my theas

(15:45):
was diagnosed with cancer and it brought us all together
right like we were spending the holidays together, we were
spending birthdays again together as a family, and then my
mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and it kind of
just you know, brought us all And sorry if I
get emotional, but it kind of brought us all back together,
like in a way that made us go drama aside,

(16:08):
things aside, Like we really have limited time with one another,
with the people that we love, right, I think between
my grandmother dying and then my dog dying, and then
my dad's dog, who also grew up with us. You know,
Lucy was fifteen years old. I'm the one that brought
her in. She was supposed to be my dog, and
then she became my dad's dog, like she just passed away.

(16:31):
So like my soul dog died, his soul dog died,
like his mom died, my grandma and then now dealing
with my grandma, my mom's stuff, like it is a lot.
But you know, people ask me, like, you know, a
lot of people are like are you okay, Like you
just got broken up with for the fourth time, like
you're dealing with all this stuff, and I'm kind of

(16:53):
like I'm good, Like I am within my gratitude, and
I think that what this has been, like what this
time has been for me is that everything is fleeting, right,
Like everything is constantly moving and growing and changing and
if you can stay in that space of being like

(17:13):
what you taught me, right, like observing versus absorbing, right,
like truly just witnessing everything around you, and the moments
of all these different things, like you start taking these
moments less for granted. Like one of my best friend's stepmoms,
like it's her mom, right, who also raised us, was

(17:33):
diagnosed with another form of cancer which is more which
is more severe, I guess, like it's more aggressive. And
even that like having these women in my life, like
these people in my life who raised me in a
lot of ways, kind of going through different things has
been something that you kind of go like, oh shit,

(17:56):
I have to be thankful that I still have the
autonomy that will inevitably leave all of us. You know.
It's like the ability to feed myself, the ability to
get into my car and drive myself, the ability to
kind of, you know, wipe my own ass, will at
some point, if I'm lucky to live long enough, leave me.

(18:18):
And so I'm thankful for the ability that I have now.
And I think that it's really funny. The other day
somebody asked me, like, how's her mom doing. I'm like,
she just told my dad to die three times, So
I think she's doing all right, Like I think personality
is still intact, like she's still thriving and doing well,
you know, And I laugh about you like that, like

(18:40):
I'm you know, my family is like, oh my god,
that's so fucked up, and you know, how do people
say that? And it was a big deal. But for me,
I'm like, you gotta laugh at shit that you can.
You can. You have to laugh at the shit that
you can laugh at, and you have to kind of
take time and be slow with the things that are
actually more serious and the things that actually matter, you know,

(19:04):
which goes four and before which goes into like our
next category of like mental health. Like you know, in
terms of my mental health, I'm surprisingly really good. Like
I feel like, like I said earlier, like Eslalita's getting
her group back, and I feel that being so close

(19:25):
to death and being so close to all these things
has taught me like I don't have time. We don't
have time, like Alua Arthur says, we are all dying,
you know, like we don't have time. Keep it moving,
keep it moving, keep going. So my mental health is
like it's good, it's poppin' how's your mental health right now?

(19:47):
Oh my Curly, I love you too.

Speaker 3 (19:54):
I love you too, Yet it's I and I feel
like I I've told you this before too, Like you
like people ask me to like how's Curly, I'm like, he's, Like,
you've had such a I mean, there's no good or
bad way of processing anything, especially what you're going through.

(20:15):
It just is the way you're processing it is the
way you're processing it. But you've had a really especially
with breakup stuff, you've had a really great outlook on
everything because like I can go very deep into a
hole and you can bring me out and be like, girl,
it's fine. I'm like, huh okay, you know, like I

(20:39):
feel like we can do that where we can bring
each other out of like these holes of just like
I don't know, you just get stuck in it. And
you've been like such a great example and teacher of
like how to how to have like a good state

(21:02):
of mind when shit hits the fucking fan.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
Yeah, I mean it's really it's perspective right, Like it's
very easy for me to go, damn my ex boyfriend,
you know this happened, and this happened or whatever, and
uh it's very easy to go Damn, I just lost
my grandma. Now, like I'm having to deal with stuff
with my mom, not even deal but having to you know,

(21:29):
experience these things. But I think that my perspective is
less like woe is me and more about like, wow,
out of all the grandmas, I got that one. Out
of all the moms, I got this one. Like out
of all the relationships I could have learned, Oh it's hard,
Like out of all the relationships that I could have had,

(21:49):
this like great lesson with or share time and space
with friends, family, dogs, like it was those. It's those
that are around you. It's the dogs that are around you,
the parents that you have, the fucked up relationships that
you have, the good ones like what a fucking blessing.
And I feel like when people get to the end

(22:12):
of their lives and they look back and they go, whoa,
they get it, They get the whole picture and everything
just like makes sense.

Speaker 5 (22:21):
You know, Yeah, are we SINCD or our periods SYNCD?

Speaker 1 (22:32):
I haven't. It's funny, I haven't actually cried about this,
Like I haven't really like let myself not let myself.
But I haven't really like cried over it. So it's
funny that I'm doing it here, not because I block
it out, but because I'm just like I like, I
go it's as my brain just goes right back into gratitude,

(22:54):
you know.

Speaker 3 (22:54):
I think it's helpful for people to hear that because
it's a reminder of like, if anything we have in
this life, it's it's gratitude, like, and that's something we
have to hold on to that will help us get through.
And it's not just like tell me five things that
you're grateful for. It's like gratitude is different than being thankful,

(23:20):
Like I feel like it's it's been commercialized so much,
and it's like gratitude at its core is like and
having that like throughout all of your life too, whether
you have lost somebody or not. Like it's a practice,
you know, it's it's a habit. And I think it

(23:41):
is such a great reminder for anyone listening to like
do a little gratitude check, yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
You know, like truly, and you're right, it's different than
being thankful. Being thankful is like I think I think
you you know, somebody gives you an extra scoop of
an ice cream and you're like, thank you, like, oh,
I'm thankful. Like gratitude is truly the deep spiritual step
back of being like you know, you go from being
like I accept it, so I celebrate it.

Speaker 3 (24:10):
I was gonna say, like it's it's I feel like
the highest form of acceptance, the most evolved form of acceptance,
where it's like I'm accepting this and I'm grateful for
the lesson and the lessons that I have and the experiences.
Like that's a huge, huge, huge thing that I feel
like I have been trying to work on with love also,

(24:32):
and just everything is like I can go to the
sadness so quickly and stay there versus like just being
grateful that I experience this thing with this person for
that amount of time, you know, like, and that is
so that's so important because things in our lives and
people like sometimes they're just experiences. They're not meant to

(24:55):
stay around for a long time. They're only meant for
us to be They're only meant in our lives for
that amount of time, and that's just it, you know,
Like we want things forever or for a while, and
that's just not realistic, you know, absolutely. And there I
feel like the more we accept and have gratitude for
those experiences. The I don't know, I feel like the

(25:17):
less sad we would be.

Speaker 5 (25:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
I'm speaking for myself absolutely.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
I mean, look, like I said earlier, there are some
things that warn't deep sadness. There are some things that
weren't deep depression. At what point do you say, thank
you for everything, thank you so much for the lessons.
I truly would not be the person that I am
today had it not been for you, I truly would
not be in the same space, at the same calmness,

(25:44):
at the same level of becoming an elder in my
own rights, had it not been for you. For my
grandmother who was here and who left, for my amazing dogs,
for my family, for you, my best friend, you know,
for other people in our lives Joyce Gattia, like for
the people listening to our podcast, like truly all a

(26:05):
part of the web that makes us, you know, for
Kadina who's working with us right now, for August, for
Josie who worked with us before too, like everybody just
all part of this tapestry that you kind of take
a step back and go, well done, Universe, like you did,
great kid. Well should we get into some fun some

(26:29):
fun things. Yeah, okay about it.

Speaker 3 (26:36):
So let's talk about some of our favorites right now.
Currently it's November twenty ninth, Wednesday, four fifty two pm. Currently,
do you have any favorite like songs that you're listening
to on repeat right now?

Speaker 1 (26:49):
I am all about City Girls right now. I just
saw that they release an album I think in October.
I think October that I was late for. They have
a song called bing Atta, and anytime the City Girls
talking Spanish, it just cracks me up so hard. Like
they have a song with Dojha Cat where they're like this,
they're talking about their cooter. They're like this couter bilingual,

(27:10):
and then one of the girls is like olah. And
then in this song Vinata, she's like I'm we like
aqua and then the other girl in the water the
background goes water so stupid. And then the way that
like American culture kind of like dips into like Latino

(27:31):
words where they go give me the inchilada back, Like
it's so like for us, we're like, out of all
the words you could have used to describe like a dick,
you choose inchilada. So it's very uh funny and how
it's very stereotypical, but it is my jama right now
on repeat City Girls being at that look it up?

(27:54):
What about you?

Speaker 3 (27:55):
Min Mine's the opposite Truesdale. They are a trio. They
do harmonies and it's a song called movie Star and
some of the lyrics are pull over in a parking lot,
slow dancing to my favorite song, you kiss Me. At
the perfect part, I'm feeling like a movie star, your

(28:16):
hands are upped around my waist. Nobody makes me feel
this way. I never done it. Then a part I'm
feeling like a movie star and this lyrics you're famous
to me. I'm trying to see if I'm famous to
you when we're out at a party and both lock

(28:36):
eyes when I know that we're leaving and we don't
ask why. Like, this is my manifestation song that I'm
trying to ingrain in my brain and it is. It
is the second most listen listen to song this year
and it just came out last month.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
Wait what if I listened to it? Yeah? Oh for you?

Speaker 4 (28:57):
For me?

Speaker 3 (28:58):
Oh okay, my Spotify rapped came out? Wow have you
done your Spotify rapped?

Speaker 1 (29:04):
Yeah? I did? Was your artists.

Speaker 3 (29:09):
Beyonce mine too.

Speaker 2 (29:12):
Oh, let me see hold on like.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Mine was Beyonce. Uh. The second one was a problematic
rapper who I blocked for a big part of the year.
Then I unblocked it, and I must have listened to
the albums.

Speaker 3 (29:30):
Miley Cyrus was on my Artists of the Year, which
I have a I listened to a lot of Fly.
I listened to Flowers when it first came out, but
I was like, that's kind of weird. And I also
had this thing with Miley that like, remember when there
was Miley and Mandy versus Demi and Selena, Like Miley

(29:52):
and Mandy were these two white girls who were like
making fun of Demi and Selena, And I love Demi
and Selena because I'm like, they're Latina like this in
that and Miley and Miley and Mandy we're just so
mean to them. So I just always have this like
weird little thing for Miley Sarrus and I'm like blocked.

(30:13):
I'm just kidding there, just like you. But I love
her music. I love her music, but not like that,
not for her to be in my top whatever. Anyway,

(30:38):
What about shows? What about shows or movies that you
What are you watching right.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Now literally, as you know, problematic faves obsessed. I love them.
I love them so muchs Kardashians.

Speaker 3 (30:52):
But you know what they're turning out. They're turning out
some good production.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
Like did you watch this last episode?

Speaker 3 (30:59):
I didn't, but I was it the one with North?

Speaker 1 (31:02):
Yeah, TikTok funny that honestly, like all the episodes sometimes
they're kind of boring, but like if Chloe's in it
for me, Chloe and Kim and North are so funny.
But Courtney is like bringing the narcissist talk. Like all
the sisters a whole family forgave Tristan for cheating on

(31:22):
Chloe because they're like, if it makes Chloe happy, we
forgive you. Courtney was like no, Like her daughter Penelope
was also like no, like I don't forgive Tristan.

Speaker 3 (31:32):
Courtney's Oh really yes she is?

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Wow. Yeah, Courtney's like she literally said to him, do
the how do you feel when you cheat? Like do
the words match the actions? Like do you have any remorse?
Like shee? I feel like she was asking him like
narcissistic questions like are you a narcissist? You know?

Speaker 3 (31:50):
And I was like, but I love that because like
I love that despite like at their core, you know,
removing all the problematic things, like their dynamic as sisters
like has been extremely crazy, Like they have literally physically
assaulted each other. They have said the most nasty things
to each other, and yet they are still down for

(32:13):
each other and will like you know, when Kim went
through the burglary burglary in France, you know, like they
were all shook, Like the sisters were all shook, and
compared to like you know, recent arguments they've had, Courtney
and Kim, like they're still gonna be down for each other,
you know. And and I wonder, I don't. I don't

(32:36):
believe it's all because of like their brand and their
TV show, Like I can truly see a sister ship
sisterhood with them, and I think that's what. And I
don't have any sisters, so I think sometimes like when
I'll watch, I'll feel guilty watching and I'll be like,
I wonder what it's like to have a sister, But
I feel like I would also be.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
The ship with my sister like they did, just being real,
you know, So maybe it's good that I don't have
a sister, But I'm watching, I'm watching Married at First
Site US version Married at First Site Australia, which is
blowing my mind.

Speaker 3 (33:11):
It's so good. I'm watching. I paused on Love Island
Australia because there's a girl who was on Married at
First Site Australia who's on Love Island Australia right now,
and I want to I want to catch up on
that lower first. I'm waiting for Love Island UK and

(33:32):
those are what I'm watching right now. I'm obsessed with Elemental.
I do see Elemental like that movie.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
I don't get it did.

Speaker 3 (33:41):
I liked it. I liked it because I want a
guy like like the like the Water guy. I think
he's so freaking cute.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
I felt like, I feel like it was just too like.
The storyline felt too weak for me, and the character
didn't feel witty enough for me. The characters didn't feel
like like. I knew she was angry, I knew she
had anger, she had angry issues, she burned things down.

Speaker 3 (34:10):
It's not my favorite. Yeah, it was all very like
one note.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
It was one note. That's how I feel.

Speaker 4 (34:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:17):
Yeah, I just loved because I think because I'm a
fire sign and I identify so much with the character.
You know that I'm more so attached to my own,
like that's me, I'm her, And yeah, I loved Elemental
and yeah, I think I'm just watching a lot of

(34:39):
like reality TV show reality TV shows. I don't think
there's any like scripted TV shows that I'm watching right now.
I run through them fast.

Speaker 1 (34:52):
I know they're so good, honestly, Like I like reality
shows where people look like fucking crazy, like the Classic Surgery.
The more crazier outfits, the more the phonier your pony is.
I want to watch it, like, I want to see
all that stuff. I'm like, like, what's selling Sunset. I'm like,
oh my god. Their faces are just getting like higher

(35:13):
and higher. Their boobs are getting bigger and bigger.

Speaker 3 (35:15):
Like the same thing for Marinet first Sight. Everyone has
lip fillers, and I kind of like, I don't know,
I've been thinking of getting lip fillers, but I don't
like when you turn to the side and you can
see like the duck part, like the duck lips.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
Yeah, I get fillers, but my mustache covers it.

Speaker 3 (35:34):
You can't even tell. You're like really really good. Yeah,
but I just don't like that look, you know, I
don't like that because everybody has it, and so now
I'm like, okay, you.

Speaker 1 (35:46):
Can tell sometimes when I'm like, what about food? What
do even do for food? I feel like for food,
I just it's between Mexican food and she it's like
and maybe Salvadory and soapas like that's my jam. But

(36:06):
if you give me, like if you tell me baby
g like baby curly, baby ge, baby curly. You know
Mexican food. You know what I did today? I or
to two burritos and I was here for it. It's just
so delicious. That's my jam.

Speaker 3 (36:24):
I'm a chicken finger girl. I'm a chicken strips girl.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
Oh and I.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
Had that the other day. I have not been eating
healthy with food lately, so that's something that I want
to get back on. Unfortunate. Have you been on any
trips or had any crazy experiences recently?

Speaker 1 (36:42):
No, but we are planning a trip. My cousins and
I are thinking about going to Costa Rica next year,
so we're talking about that. We're planning around it. But
it did have like a really cute thing that happened
to me the other day. I went to Melrose with
Chantelle Chantel heasting for those who are listening. She's another
really cool Latina and this guy was like, hey, do
you guys, do you mind like looking at my t

(37:06):
shirts and telling me what you think? And da da da.
So we were talking to him about his line, and
you know, we were just talking for a little bit
and I didn't really give him an opinion. But as
I was walking away, he was like, hey, is your
hair silver? And I'm and I was wearing a hat
and he was like I was like yeah, and he's
like how old are you? And I'm like, oh, I'm
thirty six. And he's like you look so young that

(37:29):
he's like the your silver is what threw me off,
And I'm like it was like a little bit of
like a disc but also like such a compliment that
I was like, oh my god, thank you so much.
So that was really a really cute experience that I
had lately where he's like, oh ha ha.

Speaker 3 (37:45):
Well, I had an experience on TikTok Live. Someone said
you look old and young at the same time, and
I said, what is what does that mean? And they
were like, look like forty two but also twenty five.

Speaker 1 (38:02):
I'm like, thanks, That's probably what this guy was trying
to say to me, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 (38:10):
I'm like, I miss who I was before I heard that.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
I love how people comment that, like, I miss who
I was six seconds ago.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
I miss who I was before I heard that. People
were like then everyone in the comments were like, what
are you talking about? She looks she looks like she's
twenty five, she looks like. I'm like, I'm thirty. I'm like,
but I'm I'm excited to be forty. Like yeah, Like,
I think it's so choogy when people are like I
don't want to be like when they talk about getting
older and that way, I stopped I'm stopping myself from

(38:43):
like saying, oh, I don't want to be older. I
don't want to look this way. I don't want to
look that because I'm like, wait, everything just gets better
and better, Like I feel so good being thirty. I
feel like I went to speak at that universe and
I was like, how old are you guys? And they're

(39:03):
like twenty twenty three, twenty four. I'm like ha ha,
and they're like how old are you? I'm like, I'm thirty.
They're like thirty. I'm like okay, yeah, yeah, you don't
want to say it like that, and I go. I
just feel like when I turned thirty, Like literally the
day I turned thirty, I felt like something chemically in

(39:24):
my brain changed. And they're like, yeah, your brain is
fully developed.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
I'm like, oh, thank you, twenty year old, thank.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
You, and yours is severely undeveloped. I was just like, yeah,
like when I turned thirty, like my brain just felt
like something clicked. They're like, yeah, you're your brain gets
fully developed at that age. So I'm like, great, So
this is what we got to work with for the
rest of our lives.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
This is it. We did it, and I've enjoying the peak.
I will say that if considering that I'm four years
away from if this is what I look like at
my late in my late thirties and my early forties,
I have been very blessed and I'm so thankful that
this is what the universe and doctor Yavino gave me.

(40:14):
Thank you. And now for our astrology section section section
section Maya, which star sign do you feel like you
are kind of like learning a lot from right now?

Speaker 3 (40:35):
Aquarius? Because my two nephews are Aquarius, and I see
them as they're so curious and they're such investigators, like
Aquarius babies, you know, at their purest form of maybe
they're a little bit influenced by the world, but at

(40:56):
their purest forms to investigate in question, like to not
just accept, like why do I have to do that?
Like you know what I'm saying, Like they even though
you're like, just do it. Like like my nephew THEO
was like throwing these uh he was playing with the
pool table and he was throwing the poll table balls
like against the wall. And I was like, and it

(41:18):
was against like the pool table wall, and it was
creating a lot of noise. And I go, THEO, can
you hold off on that until like tomorrow, I'm like,
and he's like why. I'm like, because thea Maya is
is overstimulated. Why. I'm like, cause the loud noises are
making me very anxious, Like oh okay, so tomorrow. What
time tomorrow? Like I'm like, I don't know, just like

(41:41):
just stop it right now. But like, I love how
curious they are, and I love that my sister in
law and my brother are such great parents to them.
And they don't like, they don't dim their curiosity or
their light. They encourage it. And so I've been learning
a lot from Aquarius because they're just I'm before I

(42:06):
was a little scared of them because I had dated
one before and it was like he had an issue
with authority. And so I'm starting to see like I
don't want these boys to have or whatever they choose
to identify as later, to have an issue with authority.
I want them to respect authority and ask questions, get
the answers they need to make their own decisions, but

(42:26):
also respect the elders and understand why they're saying these
certain things. So I think I'm learning a lot, also
a little bit about parenting, which is a little crazy.
I don't know's it's like this. My heart grew one
hundred thousand sizes since like THEO came into our lives
and aviews. Yeah, that it's been really enriching, and so

(42:52):
I've always wanted to feel what it feels like. And
I had a moment, speaking of experiences, also, I had
a moment on Thanksgiving where you know, my sister in
law was like, Oh, I'm going to put down the baby,
can I put him in your room? And I was like,
oh my god, Like if I would have thought, like
as a teenager that my little baby nephew would be

(43:13):
sleeping in my room. Like in the future, you.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
Would have cleaned it sooner.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
I would have cleaned it soon. Yeah. Yeah, But I
was like.

Speaker 6 (43:24):
Wow, you always have to do that, and you're not wrong,
and you're not wrong because you know it's not not clean.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
Oh my god, minus been Taurius. This year. I've learned
a lot from tourists. My last partner was a tourist,
My mom, my mom, who I have to spend the
most time with this year. I would say, my sister and.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
You were literally you grew inside of her a tourist body.

Speaker 1 (43:54):
Yeah, exactly, I grew in a toys body. My sister
who's a tourist, My sister who's my first protector. Ever,
aside from you know, my parents, I'm just learning so
much about them, like truly just the uh, the dedication
that they have to so many different things in their lives,
but truly, just the dedication that they have for people
that they love, like they will go to bat for

(44:16):
the people that they love. They will. They are selfless
and are ruthless in the way that they love. And
I mean that in a positive way. And it's been
kind of inspiring, but I'm also learning how the stubborn thing,
oh the girl, that stubborn thing, it is real, real, real,

(44:38):
and so' also just learning that, but it has allowed
me to reflect on my own shit where I'm like,
as a Virgo, I recognize that I also am very stubborn,
but I'm thankful that I'm not that stubborn.

Speaker 3 (44:51):
Taurus. I have to be like, do your own thing.
Come back to me when you want to. I'm not
pressuring you guys to like hang out with me or
to love me or whatever. Like literally do what you
want to do if you want to be around cool.
If not, whatever, I will let you know that I
admire and want your presence in my life. Yeah, but

(45:13):
I will not fight for like you know, I'm not
going to fight Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Do you boo boo? Well Maya. That concludes our Zodiac
section section section Confection. Where can people find you?

Speaker 3 (45:29):
You can find me at my in the Moment, m
a ya in the moment anywhere with the.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
Screen and you can find me at the kleyb Show
on Instagram and TikTok.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
Thank you so much for listening to another episode of
the Super Secret Bestie Club podcast. We hope you enjoyed
this little random check in and sorry we don't have
enough time to hear you and your check in, but
I guess that. Are you fine? Are you good?

Speaker 4 (45:58):
Good?

Speaker 3 (45:58):
That's great, awesome, that's awesome great, Okay, yeah, so let
us know on our social media. Hit us up like
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you bye bye.

Speaker 4 (46:41):
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