“I FINALLY LOST MY VIRGINITY”

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello, Uh, Hi, can you hear me? Hi?

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hey, I can. What's your name?

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Let's go with Jack, Jack. What's up Jack? That sounds
like something Joe. That sounds like something Joe Biden would say,
what's up Jack?

Speaker 3 (00:17):
How you doing?

Speaker 2 (00:18):
How's life?

Speaker 1 (00:20):
Well, you know, it's it's upset, it's up, it's it stuns.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
Up and down.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Found Uh lately I've actually kind of texted you, uh
some kind of broad strokes information about myself.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Uh well, I I I did not get your text?
Why don't you? Why don't you say it to us again?

Speaker 1 (00:41):
Fair enough? Uh? So I'm an earth relatively new uh
started about a year ago. Uh, but I've been out
of work lately because of the knee injury, because of
a fight that I didn't want to get involved in,
but bachnically want until I got until other people stepped in.

(01:02):
Oh and I also recently lost my virginity.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
You recently lost your virginity?

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:09):
Yeah, yeah, I know.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
How how is that? Tell me that? Tell me tell
me all the juicy details if you so desire.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
Well, I mean technically nobody knows me, so why not?
It was a wonderful time. It was actually a first
date with a co worker, and you know, I would
have just been happy with just like a you know,
a date. But uh, you know, we were watching some anime,
some I think with death Notes, and eventually we started

(01:37):
to get a little freaky and uh yeah it was
pretty awesome. And uh, well what's really cool is there
seems to be a little uh spark between us, like, uh,
you know, we really enjoy each other's personality, like we
were co workers for like a year before we even

(01:59):
thought of doing anything.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Wow. Pretty cool, Pretty cool. All right, So this isn't
just a uh uh an anime induced sexual rendezvous. This
is uh the potential buds of something that could could
could last a while.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
I mean, don't get me wrong, those animated cities probably helped,
but I mean no, I think, uh, I mean, I think,
I mean because you really like you are the only
thing that might might worry me is you know, she
works a lot, which you know I give you know,
she she had a kid, so I mean she's gotta
care for her care for her kid. But I mean,
you know, you know I want to see her. I

(02:44):
don't think uh yeah, no, no, no, it's like get dead.
You gotta take care of that kid. But I don't know.
I mean, you know what I mean, I'm trying to
be respectful dead, but it's also like I want to
spend time with her, And TJ also went to say,
that's like I really want to spend time with you too.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Interesting interesting, interesting.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, So it's like we both want it. We both
get there's natural reasons why there's barriers. We're both readable adults.
It's just we want to see each other more. It
would be nice.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
What is the how many times have you guys rendezvous?

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Oh? Well the first uh well, after that first day,
my parents were out of town for quite a few days,
so you know, we had to have for ourselves, so
we made good ships to that pretty good uh yeah, yeah,
but uh we have I have that on taking her
to well. I guess I shouldn't say excadinly why it

(03:43):
is because uh you know right now I'm doing a
pretty good job and keep my calfe ambiguous. But it's
a really nice little uh little things that I would
have a nice little air on beyond romance to it
that she's really like only downside of the time falls a
lot of walking. But I can do it with my life.
I've gentually been doing daily walks for about a mile

(04:05):
or two to try to build up strength for my
knee surgery that's coming up.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Mmm all right, so let me let me recap this.
All right, So you're taking this lady out on a
romantic date to like a what like to like a
fucking botanical garden or something like.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
That, something like it. It's like a light show type thing.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Oh, very cool, very nice, guys. What I mean, you
don't have to tell me the nitty gritty, but what
what do you guys work at?

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Like?

Speaker 2 (04:32):
What kind of industry.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
We work at? We both work in a hospital. We
both work on a neurosurgical form.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Oh, holy fucking tits. Ye that's that's huge. That's a lot. Yeah, okay,
So you're both busy medical professionals and she has a kid.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Oh yeah, and she also had a second job that
she actually is gonna be starting back up soon too.
So it's like if I think she's busy, now, oh
you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Yeah, okay, but you're getting the vibe from her, because
I mean, that's the thing, right, is that like it's
hard to tell. I mean some some sometimes you kind
of sometimes your gut tells you and you can decide
whether or not you want to believe it. But it's
like hard to tell whether or not. It's like somebody
is like a lot of the times, yes, people are
like actually genuinely fucking busy. Like do you get the

(05:22):
vibe that she's like genuinely actually busy and wants to
wants to make it work. And she's not like.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Blowing you off. She's like like a teddy bear. She's
so sweet.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
And I also really think that she had a problem.
She she hasn't been she had had ashe was just
saying it before.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Mm hmmm mm hmm. And so hmmm, uh how long
have you guys? So you got but you guys are
not like in a religious a fairly new thing happening.
But yeah, you're trying to you're trying to invest in
the relationship with the hope being that it can become

(06:04):
a stable thing.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
Yeah. Well, and also she was telling me about how
uh well her baby dad yould tell I was telling
her one day, I really want to spoil you. It's
just like, oh, never handache. But it's like, wait, do
you have a you have a kid, your baby's dad
You never spoiled you. Never like you know, gate never
like gave you a bunch of like nice things. I'm like,
Mother's ding dope bony thing tacuts for Mother's Day from

(06:28):
him with a with a balloon, which is like that
is ridiculous.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
Okay, So you you're telling this lady, You're like, I
want to spoil you. I want to get you all
these nice things and and all that.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
I mean, I mean, I mean, nothing too crazy, I mean,
but I mean, I mean I want to I want
to give her some you know, nice things. A little
bit like uh I gave her this, Uh well, I
gave her this one. Uh this one break like like
you know, very you know, relatively cheap. She said, she doesn't,
you know, go for like the really nice things. So
I said, okay, some mean it'll flucks, but looks good,

(07:03):
you know what I mean. And I think it turned
out very nice.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Cool man, cool, This sounds nice. This sounds nice. So
this is this is your first first foray into like
a relationship.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
So it's like and she's really understanding of Also it's like, well,
I'm still trying to figure out what exactly is the
difference between you know, you know, thinking you have feelings
and actually having the feelings. I think I have the feelings,
but it's also like, you know, I've never had these
feelings before, you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah, totally totally can ask how old you are?

Speaker 1 (07:39):
Going on?

Speaker 2 (07:40):
Really cool, very nice, very nice.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
Right, here's a great thing about many it's now it's
not up because I used to be a virgin. Now
I'm an authentic man.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Very good, very nice. Do you feel different? Do you
feel like you know you've you've shed some metaphor weight?

Speaker 1 (08:01):
Well, you know, honestly, there's this great analogy I've heard
about having sex before that I thought and I still
think it's great sex, especially having sex for the first time.
It's like going to New York. You know, it's a
lot of fun. You know, it's a it's a new experience,
and you get to kind of connect with others because
you now have because by going to New York, you

(08:22):
have experience to kind of draw upon when you talk
about your students, you know, going to New York. At
the end of the day, it doesn't really change you.
You're not any different as a result. You just went
to New York. How was it? Did you have fun?

Speaker 2 (08:39):
Right? Right, No, yes, you you're You're the same guy
before and after you had sex for the first time.
It didn't. It didn't didn't really mature. It didn't. It doesn't. Yeah,
I guess if I mean so, some people have varying
degrees of UH it's shame or whatever associated with UH

(08:59):
for unity or whatever. But it's like, at the end
of the day, there's no you are the same person
before and after you lost your virginity. It didn't really
do it didn't. It didn't ultimately do much to change
your identity or your life.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Yeah, well, well one thing it did change. I found
out that differently. I've been brainwashed by porn and the
thinking that a that ache, that a actually big dick
isn't a big dick. And I found that out personally.
You know what I means.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
I actually hold on, let me see if I know
what you mean. Okay, you were brainwashed by porn into
thinking that. Okay, porn brainwashed you into thinking that.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
Basically I had like a maybe subpart uh, you know,
machinery at best during that and then actually.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
Have it turns out you actually have a huge cock.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Well, I would say, dude, but.

Speaker 2 (10:05):
Pretty good, pretty good. You saw well, look whether or
not look whether or not this experience was identity shaping
or life defining. It sounds like you're having a good time.
That's what matters.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
I mean they barely elevated me after my knee got
you went out and not being able to work that
Uh mainly that didn't that that didn't make me feel
super great about myself, and then that made me feel awesome.
I would I would have, but I'm like one of
those like cane dances that like you see like Sinatra
doing those old movies. If it wasn't for the fact
that I should twigged this thing.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
And who who? Tell me more about who? Who is
this lady that you're seeing that as the kid, Like,
what's her? What's her deal?

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Well, she's been working as uh well, she's the work
as a healthcare worker there for quite a while before
I was working there. She'sn uh she's very uh health
centric focused. She's in uh very focused. She's heavily focused
on making trying to make sure she uh you know,

(11:10):
uh keeps your mental in check. And uh it's not
that's the lose the way. It's a little bit harder
because she has to like metabolic. That's a let her unfortunately.
So it's it's so it's for I mean honestly because
it's it's worse really for her because like you know,
you know, your your body is the one that took
made me. H man, So I think it's beautiful, But

(11:30):
I mean I also understand how you know, you also
want to you know, benefit yourself from a health perspective,
and you know all that. So I also support you
trying to, you know what I mean. So it's like
I'm having to trade both sides of I think you're beautiful,
but also I support you, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
It's sweet, that's very nice. You sound like a sweet
good Jack. You sound like a sweet guy.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Thank you, thank you. I it's coming for you especially.
I appreciate that it finds you to be kind of
a very in such full person.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Oh thanks man, God damn h are you are you sound?
Are you happy?

Speaker 1 (12:06):
Jack?

Speaker 2 (12:07):
You sound like you're you sound like a joyful man.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Well, well that's what part is. Because of my b
being on disability, my dad said, I can only do
uh stationary work. And I'm not sure if you really
notice what nurses, especially on surgical floors do, but uh,
none of what they do is really stationary. They're constantly
moving up exactly. It's exactly. So it's like that basically

(12:31):
means Okay, you have to stay home and just focus
on recovery. And the ponts aroblem is with how the
system is set up. I mean, I basically have to
wait a month before my surgery and I did it
today if I if it is that with an option
and then the recovery for that, it's like a month.
So it's like that's two months that I can't work
or get full pay. So it's like, you know, but

(12:54):
I mean, I'm taking that, but it's also like I'm
getting paid also does not work? Is another way to
look at it.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Do you and you still you live with your parents?

Speaker 3 (13:03):
Right?

Speaker 2 (13:04):
Do you have? Are you hoping to move out at
some point soon now that you have like you know,
you got your money coming in, you.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Know, I am, I'm making ill want plans for it
right now. The plan is because especially I just had
my associates. My plan is to get my uh bachelor's uh,
which will allow me to get the certificates that allows
me to better specialize in my field. Make a bunch
of money, and then you know, paying for rents gonna
be just trump change.

Speaker 3 (13:34):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (13:36):
Yeah, for sure, for sure.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
I mean like it say I still, here's the thing
is now that I have a girlfriend, strug girl about that.
Now that I have a girlfriend and that I'm paid,
I kind of don't have a reason delete the house
at the public.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
Is it? But before you get ahead of yourself, is
this lady your girlfriends yet?

Speaker 1 (13:59):
I mean we we definitely think it's something. I think
she would she would be opposed to the term girlf
And apparently she's already told everybody at works had we've
you know, uh she you know did did that?

Speaker 2 (14:12):
She she she already she told everyone to work that
you guys had sex.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Apparently.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
I mean that's, I guess a good sign. That means
that there was.

Speaker 1 (14:25):
Apparently like a huge like flirt, so like apparently like
she it that I exactly new for her. So most
of mean it's all good things to too.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
I mean, well, Jack, it sounds like it sounds like, uh,
it sounds like everything is correct me if I'm wrong,
But from our fifteen minutes together, it sounds like things
are actually going pretty well in your universe.

Speaker 1 (14:50):
But yeoing, it's going well. I mean, you know it
could be better, but I mean, you know you can't
control people. I mean, you know, it just says I
forgave that guy that you know give you a bad
knee from now on?

Speaker 2 (15:05):
Wait which guy someone gave you a bad name?

Speaker 5 (15:08):
Well?

Speaker 1 (15:09):
Yeah, because that's what's going Why I have to have
the bad knee and uh some surgery comment up, It's because,
like I got, I got in some fight that I
didn't want to at a like a parade, right.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
Right, right, right, right right right? Did you tell me
the story of this fight earlier in this call?

Speaker 1 (15:25):
I don't think so. I think I taught touched on it,
but uh, you know you got but initally I kind
of threw a lot of interesting things that he is.
So it's uh aga, I'm playing for Game detected.

Speaker 2 (15:35):
Yeah, what happened with the fight? What?

Speaker 3 (15:36):
What?

Speaker 2 (15:37):
What?

Speaker 3 (15:38):
What?

Speaker 2 (15:38):
What transpired?

Speaker 3 (15:40):
So?

Speaker 1 (15:41):
Okay, So I was down to the parade. I was
trying to I was trying to just jill get some booze,
and this guy just uh won't please, won't leave me alone.
He starts swinging at me. I take him down the
first time, tell him to leave me alone. And then
he starts following me. I should have just uh, I
could have just uh, I would have just kept walking

(16:01):
because honestly, he was so drunk, and so he's take
down the first time. If I would have, uh would
have made it like a yard before stumbling on his
own face. But I got in my head about how
I didn't want to be looking over my shoulder the
whole time while I was at the parade, so I decided, okay,
let's just take care of this. And then uh, I
was only waiting to fight. But then uh, some other
people jumped in and uh then the way he uh,

(16:25):
he was able to rest his arms around my leg
and away where he was able to basically tackle into
my knee, and that caused my a cl and my
ladder o miniscus to get torn as a result.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
So, okay, hold on, I don't understand. I don't understand here.
You're at a parade, you're drunk. Why does he start
swinging first?

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Is it?

Speaker 2 (16:46):
Did you bump?

Speaker 1 (16:46):
No? No, no, no no no he no, he's drunk. I'm
just like, I'm just like a little bit buzz maybe
a little uh, you know, stoned. You know, I'm mostly
trying to like, you know, get it, get it the lag.
This is before I had a girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Okay, so how did you So why did he But
why did he swing at you?

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Because he was drunk as hell and just with with
intention to do harm. He was trying to from my understanding,
he was trying to fight people all day.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
Hmm. Okay, so he was so okay, So you're telling
me this guy was just you didn't like to hit
on his girlfriend or something.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
No, no, no, I was literally just passing this dude
by barely. Wait you try to try to talk to me.
But he was drunk and I did know what he
was saying and didn't like the way he was saying
to me. So I may have told him to funk off,
But I mean.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
You're and you're telling you're telling me that the first
you took him down, you like, what how would you do?

Speaker 3 (17:39):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (17:39):
The first time I did was well, basically, he swung
at me, so I uh, I grabbed like, uh, I
did the typical white boy thing of grabbing the back
of his shirt and swing and swinging at at the
back of his shirt and swinging at him while taking
him down, just because I didn't even want to fight
the dude, So why would I fight fair?

Speaker 5 (17:56):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (17:56):
But still hope whoever, I hope, whoever is like in
charge of it administering your disability didn't see you beat
this guy up.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
Because then.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
I was trying I can join my Dodger said, just
so that way they know exactly, because I'm pretty sure
when he tagled into my knee that was what tore
up my ato.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
But now, okay, so you grabbed the back of his
shirt and then just started like punching him.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, just started swinging at him while
also bringing him down into the ground.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Okay, and then what'd you do? You were like, all right,
now leave me alone, and then you walked.

Speaker 3 (18:32):
Away, uh more or less.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
I mean, I may have. And they have also called
him a super drunk, super dumb drunk or something like that.
But uh, you know, he was swinging at me for
no reason, I mean, kind of warranted, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
And then he starts following you.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
Yeah, yeah, he starts following me, you know, he you know,
he starts spearing up and then I take him down,
and then somebody and then something somebody else jumps in,
which allows him to uh that's up my knee and
I and then some things have it, but I'm as
to get away, uh more or less, mine's the knee on.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Pretty good? Pretty good.

Speaker 1 (19:14):
It's even a video of it if you want to
see it. I mean I don't want to, like I
want to show it the rest of the people because
my state sent it.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
But I mean, yeah, sure, yeah, you can, you can
send it. I can look at this video of you
beating up a guy in my free time.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
Sure if it's just in the in the text.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
Option with the sure, sure you can text that to me?
Wait can I can you text it to me right now?
And then I can live react to it?

Speaker 1 (19:41):
Yeah? Yeah, absolutely, I mean I had pulled out really quick.
I have it. Take here some okay, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:47):
I want to see this video of you beating this
guy up.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
It's uh, it's rude, I will say it's. Uh. It
even kind of when viral first.

Speaker 2 (20:00):
Gonna be honest, it went viral like oh you where
where did you put it online?

Speaker 1 (20:04):
I didn't do do anything. A bunch of other people,
like a bunch of people you see in the video,
like we were surrounded, sorry, doing a kind of same thing.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Let's see here. Okay, so you're on motherfucking world star here.

Speaker 1 (20:23):
Something like that for sure. Oh, here's one of them.
Here's one of them, all.

Speaker 2 (20:28):
Right, send it over. Yeah, let's see here, all right.
And okay, I'm actually looking at the text that you
sent me before you said, Hey, gek, I'm a nurse
out of work because of a bad knee. I've been
listening to a lot of smooth jazz while taking weed
and nitrous. Okay, that sounds fun. All right, Let's see
this video that's on facebookund amazing. Oh all right, hold on,

(20:54):
let's see this. Hold on, Hold okay. The first I
haven't watched the video yet, but the top comment this
is a I'm watching this on Facebook. You sent me
a Facebook link. The top comment is how the fuck
did they both lose?

Speaker 1 (21:13):
All right? Hold on? Well, well it's funny because it's
like you E would tell like to do somebody like
with kicking the other dude didn't. Well I'm not sure
if it shows.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
Sure we're actually really beating the ship out of this guy. Wow.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
I wasn't gonna play fight mood, and I felt like
this lank him.

Speaker 3 (21:32):
All right?

Speaker 2 (21:32):
Hold up, Oh, there's like a bunch of what was
this sort of a high school. Where the fuck is this?

Speaker 1 (21:38):
How kind of a gas station?

Speaker 2 (21:42):
Jesus Christ. You know this guy is like a lot
bigger than you too.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
And I mean, I don't want to say too much,
but apparently he might have been a member of something
or something.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (21:53):
I don't know what that even means. Oh wait, okay,
he's pinned you, but he's on top of you. Now,
Oh yeah, he's stomping on you. Wait, hold on, hold
hold on. What's your name again, dude?

Speaker 1 (22:08):
Uh? Jack? Jack?

Speaker 2 (22:10):
I don't think you won this fight?

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Well well again, well again, well again. I had in
control till the one dude jumped in.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Jack. I don't think Jack, I don't think you won
this fight.

Speaker 1 (22:24):
Man.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
This ended with this guy stop stomping on you, dude.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
And believe it or not, the stopping barely did anything.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
Uh let's see. Okay, I'm reading the comments. Now, why
are you guys saying they both lost? The big goofy
man got put on his face. That's extremely funny. Okay,
well now you got him. You had him in the

(22:54):
first half, though, I.

Speaker 1 (22:57):
Mean, well, yeah, I mean what happened?

Speaker 6 (23:00):
What I get what?

Speaker 1 (23:00):
I should have just left him down, you know, I
got you know, I basically gave him my lege. That
was not my issue.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
Wow, well, I feel like, uh, this is so this
is extremely funny. Are you are you okay? Well, look Jack,
I mean you you you had sex, you have a job,
or you have money coming in? Are you tell me
before we go? Are you planning on is? Did you

(23:31):
get everything out of your system? Are you ready to
not fight people anymore? Or or should the folks?

Speaker 1 (23:35):
I didn't want to fight that dude to begin with that.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
I was, bro, you look in the video you look
very excited to fight this guy.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
No, No, what I looked like with pissed off, like
he was annoying the fuck out of me. I told him,
leave me alone. I'm not in a playfy mood. He
can't follow followed me.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
He told he unfortunate. Look, believe whatever you want. But
he kind of looks like he won the fight. He
was at the by the end of the fight, you
were on the ground and he was stomping on you
and people had to take him away.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yeah. Yeah, Well, well when he taggled into me when
I was doing my atl Yeah so I good. Understanding
was kind of difficult by that point.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
Well, Jack stay out of trouble. Hopefully you and this
girl will get married and have beautiful children in a
beautiful life, or he'll be a beautiful step dad. Is
there anything else you want to say to the people
of the computer before we go?

Speaker 1 (24:45):
Yeah, be smart out there.

Speaker 3 (24:48):
It's dangerous, all right.

Speaker 2 (24:51):
Well, take care, Jack, good.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Luck you as well, Gek you as well. I wish
you blessings on blessings.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
Hey, you two men, take care.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
I bet that.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
For respect of that guy's privacy, I'm not going to
share the video, but I do wish that I could
jump somehow show it to the listeners. It is funny
because now that I watched that video where he pretty
clearly lost to the fight, it brings into credible I'm
not Here's the thing I'm when this podcast as a whole.

(25:25):
I'm not a big I'm not big on pressing people
as to whether or not I believe that they are
telling the truth. But it does bring into question. It
does bring this gentleman's credibility into question. He probably had sex.
Even if it didn't have whatever, whatever this man did

(25:47):
with his life was probably fine. I wish him good luck.
I hope he had hope he continues to have sex.
I hope he stays out of fights and uh may
ill oh bless him. Hello, Hey, what's up man? What's
your name? I'll go by Chudley, Chudley? What's happened in Shudley?

(26:09):
How can I? How can I get you today? What's
going on with you? Sir?

Speaker 5 (26:13):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
I have been really vibing with the conversations you've been
having lately with the last couple of people about kind
of having a decent or good life. I feel like
that arc from people being like, oh, my life's really
shitty to kind of finding that like piece and redemption,
like whether it be through Like I've been really vibing
with the talk about SSR eyes.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
I work in the medical.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Field, so it's always like yeah, it's always like I
don't know, people like villainize it because I work in
the emergency room. So you see a lot of people
who come in with like you know, they're on like
a huge list of these SSR eyes, and people just
see them as crazy. So it's kind of nice to
be able to see like, no, this actually helps like
normal people, Like this is you know, something very helpful

(26:56):
and not just his zombie drug to make crazy people
not crazy.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
So yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm
on my own ssri I journey right now. Who fucking
knows where it's gonna lead. But I mean, are you
do you are you into pills? Do you like popping pills.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
For a little bit. I was just doing like they
have like anti anxiety mens. I don't know if you've
ever heard of like like people sometimes people use like bendryl.
You can use like super simple like allergy meds is
like a way to like calm yourself down. Like when
I was in college, I used to Yeah, it's it's
pretty nice. Well it's not gnarly. It's actually really cool
because they're they're like as needed use. You know how

(27:40):
like with your meds right now, you probably have to
take them for like six weeks before you start seeing
like any kind of effect.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Yeah, these ones you can take like you're like, holy shit,
I feel like I'm gonna like puke from how much
I'm like shaking. So you could be like, all right, cool,
I'm just gonna take one of these and then I'll
feel a little bit better.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
Well that's the thing is they tell you they're like, yeah,
it's gonna start working in six weeks, and I'm like,
who the fuck has six weeks?

Speaker 3 (28:04):
Right? It's it's And then sometimes what happens is after
six weeks is up, You're like, well, fuck, I don't
feel any different, so now I gotta shine new one.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
Oh Jesus Christ, I don't know. I I kind of
talked about this to freaking death on this show. But
it's like, I who knows, if you know, I don't know,
if I don't know if having a magic pill is
going to fix everything. It's it's uh, it's a little
bit of a balancing act. But what's your name again, Chudley, Chudley? Well,

(28:37):
tell me about yourself, Chudley, what's going? Who are you?
Who are you? Chudley?

Speaker 3 (28:42):
Well? I guess currently, I don't know how I describe myself.
I work in and you are I want to go
into medicine. I'm applying a medical school, so that's the plan,
but my work kind of I don't know if you've
ever worked a job or kind of been in like
a field where you're like, this is what I want
to get into. Like, I know you've talked about doing

(29:03):
film and comedy, and then you actually see like the
nitty gritty of it, like the I guess, for lack
of better words, of blood and guts and you're like,
oh fuck, it's just really what I'm cut out to do,
Like am I really? Am I going to do this
for the rest of my life? That's kind of where
I'm at right now. It's not I know, I know
you've been talking about like the existential dread a lot lately,

(29:24):
but like it's that's how it feels. Unfortunately, I feel
like that's the epitomy of kind of what I'm dealing
with right now. I'm at like that weird liminal like
do I keep going through this or do I just
drop everything and do something completely different?

Speaker 2 (29:36):
So uh yeah, yeah, no you can, can't you You
kind of can get it, get in your head an
idea of like what a lifestyle is like, or of
what a path is like, and then right you go
and you actually see it and you're like, oh fuck,
I didn't know I had to like actually do things.
That's a fucking yeah bomber.

Speaker 3 (29:53):
It's it's crazy. I mean, I guess, specifically in the
New York's I'm like, you're always seeing like the craziest
shit that's like where you all the crazy stories, like
I have so many stories, Like it's actually so funny.
It's like all this crazy shit that you see all
the time. But then also like some of the doctors
and they just fucking hate themselves. They just hate their
jobs and they like hate themselves. They just I feel

(30:15):
like a lot of those people get into those professions
and then it's like something you get too far into
and you're like, well, it's like kind of the sunk
costs fallacy. You're like, fuck, I'm already too deep in.
I just have to keep pushing through.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
Okay. It makes you feel like these people hate themselves.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
They speak so poorly of the job, just in the
sense of like I'm like, you know, we have other people.
I have worked with other people. I'm a scribe, so
I'm like a glorified secretary. It's like you just write
down everything. You're just a con conscientious like spectator. I
don't touch anyone, I don't do anything. I'm just making
the charts. So I'm like a quote unquote perspective like

(30:53):
person for the field. So when I ask some of
these doctors, I'm like, hey, like I'm super interested in
doing this I've had people blade us like straight up
just tell me, like no, don't do it, Like this sucks,
Like do you see how tired I am? And you
see like all the crazy shit that's going on, it's
not gonna get any better, it's just getting worse. So
they just have this like very distinct like oh man,
it's like it's like a loading for themselves but also

(31:15):
for the people around them. They just become horrible, horrible
pieces of shit, which is like really it's really hard
to see because you're like, this is my doctor, Like
this is a potential person that I could see like
when I'm in pain or like when I'm like suffering
at my lowest, and they just hate themselves so much.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
Yeah, So that's.

Speaker 3 (31:32):
That's that's kind of a trippy thing to think about.
I don't know, I'm only speaking for my like from
where I'm at, so I don't know if that's more
of a widespread kind of systemic thing, but I would
assume everyone's got the same shit going on everywhere, so
it's probably similar at different places.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
How old are these doctors? These are like you know
like people in the like fifties and forties.

Speaker 3 (31:53):
No, you'd be surprised. Some of them are like I'm
not like super privy to like exactly how old they are,
but some of them are maybe mid thirties, early forties.
Most of the older guys there that are like in
their fifties, that kind of I feel like that's like
what they wanted to do. But it's also, uh, maybe
they kind of just swallow their pride and they're like
fuck it whatever, Like I'm already doing this, And I

(32:16):
hate to villainize the entire career because I feel like
the way that I'm speaking about it is very like reductionary.
Because then on the flip side, you have people who
are super like altruistic, who like will go like spend
thirty minutes with someone when they really only need to
spend like five minutes with them. And that's like, you know,
I can't speak to the entire profession, like I don't
want to taint the entire fucking I'm just speaking from

(32:38):
my own personal experiences and my grievances that I'm like, man,
this sucks. Like we have a lot of people here
who English isn't their first language, so that also comes
into play a lot too, where a lot of these
providers just become like super bitter. They're like, oh, you
don't speak English, all right, cool, We're gonna see the
next person. And I'm like, what the fuck, Like that's crazy,
Like just because they don't speak you are English, It's

(32:59):
like you're just gonna fucking skip him. Like it's not
it's this crazy stuff that goes.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
On all of them that's really crazy. Yeah, And so
you're a right now, you're a scribe and like all
these people that you're seeing in the er who like
fucking hate themselves, You're over here like, oh no, if
I keep going down this road, I'm gonna turn into
one of these people who hate themselves.

Speaker 3 (33:22):
That is one hundred percent my fear, Like currently as
it stands, I'm like, that is my fear, Like I
because I'm so I also see myself as like this
naive like twenty four year old. I'm like, dude, I'm
so like fresh and young, and I'm like, oh, I'm
gonna I'm gonna change the world, like I'm gonna do
all these things, and but I don't know what I'm
gonna be like twenty years from now. Like I talked
to my deurpist about that all the time. I'm like, dude,

(33:43):
this is like, that's my existential dread. That is what
I'm so concerned about, is that the pressures of the
job or whatever the other external factors are. These people
might have just looked just like me when they were
my age, but now twenty years down the line, they're
like a completely different person because I spend you know,
day and day out exposed to all this prap. So

(34:06):
that's that's that's a big fear of mind for sure.
It's like, yeah, I don't know how to control that.
There's no way that it's like trying to control the future.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
What did your therapists have to say about that? I'm curious.

Speaker 3 (34:20):
It's actually really interesting because I have I have two therapists,
not because not for any particular reason, but I have
the therapist that I've had for like the last like
four years, and she's not covered by my insurance. But
then the other one is, so I just have two
by chance. But anyways, one of them goes down the
physiological kind of logic behind it of like you know,

(34:41):
once you get twenty five to twenty six, your brain
kind of stops like making you neural pathways. So the
person that you are at like twenty five twenty six
is most likely the person that you're gonna be twenty
thirty forty years down the line. It sucks, I know, right,
that's like it's it's like fuck, Like well, okay, it's
kind of puts you in a box. But then my

(35:03):
other therapist kind of goes down this more like holistic
like spiritual route of like, well, all of the experiences
and everything that you've like lived throughout your life to
get to where you are now, I have like made
you the person that you are today, and that doesn't
necessarily dictate what's going to happen twenty thirty years down
the line because you have this like I'm not trying
to speak like to my ego or anything, but I

(35:23):
really do genuine genuinely feel like I'm a decent human being,
Like I actually try to like go above and be
hones specifically missetting, Like if someone a lot of the
times we have Spanish speakers, I'm bilingual, so I'll try
to help as much as possible, and I'm like spending
extra time with them when I'm not supposed to be,
like I've actually gotten in trouble for so spending more
time with them, which I'm like, that's so stupid, Like
why am I getting in trouble because I'm helping these people.

(35:46):
So I say that because I agree with the holistic
therapist kind of perspective of like if I don't want
to become those people twenty forty whatever you years down
the line, I won't because I'll just keep coming back
to the crux of who I am. And they always
speak about like you're developing your principles now, like what
are your principles that you can't like certain things that

(36:09):
you can't sway, those are going to be things that
are going to be you know, further down the line,
like I won't be able to compromise on these things,
and then those are just going to dictate like your relationships,
your workplace relationships, and then even just like your beliefs.
Like so I don't know that's the I lean into
that more. I hope that that's I stay true to
who I am. So that's the plan. But yeah, I'm sorry,

(36:33):
I hate to get like all spiritual and deep with you.
I feel like conversations.

Speaker 2 (36:39):
Get get spiritual and deep, get spiritual and deep, it's
all it's. Yeah, that therapy gecko has has slowly become
therapy for the gecko. So it's interesting to hear or
hear other people's perspectives on these on these things. Yeah yeah, old,

(37:01):
go ahead, yeah, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
I'm sorry. I was just gonna say that when I
first started listening to you, it's actually really funny. It's
a funny story that I'd always wanted to tell you.
So I started listening to you in twenty twenty one,
I think, and I was right. So I was kind
of going through like a relationship breakup and then my dogs,
both my dogs had just died, and I was like
so distraught that I couldn't even listen to music. And

(37:24):
I was like, dude, I have to do something, because
every time I got to my car, I was like crying.
And I literally was like, I think I was on
TikTok or something. I saw you pop up and I
was like, let me just listen to him, and you
were literally the only thing that was like I don't
know what it was like. I mean, you're awesome, You're fantastic,
but like something about like hearing about other people's stories
like was able to just calm me down. I was

(37:46):
like saying, oh, my god, I'm so distraught about all
this stuff, But somehow hearing about other people's plights kind
of made me feel like, Okay, I'm not the only
person in this world who's like, you know, suffering or
feeling like shitty, like kind of like that collect of like, okay, yeah,
we're all No one is perfect, like we're all kind
of all in this together.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
So interesting.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
I retrospectively thank you for that, like recroactively for sure.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
For sure. It's funny because it's funny to hear you
say that, because I've been yeah lately, for me to
calm down, I listened. I like to listen to things
that have like nothing to do with real life, Like
I'm listening to I'm listening to a lot of old
come down episodes. I'm listening to a lot of like

(38:36):
ranking all of the appearances of Walla Oigi and the
Mario Party games, like just ship that has nothing to
do with anything. It's interesting. I guess it's interesting to
me that when you're feeling down, you want to listen
to other people other things that are like life y,
you know, because it feel less alone. Yeah, instead of

(38:58):
like dround, instead of just like tuning completely out.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
It's yeah, No, I don't know. I don't. I wonder
if it's like feeding, Like sometimes I feel kind of
like weird about it. I'm like, am I feeding it?
Kind of like what you spoke about a couple episodes ago.
You were like, oh, if I'm like constantly telling myself
that I'm like depressed, or if I have these things,
then it's just going to become the identity that I live.
That's like sometimes my concern is, I'm like, if I
keep listening to this, am I just going to keep
reinforcing these thought patterns? But then you also the all

(39:26):
on the flip side of it too. I feel like
you also have that self awareness to know like, oh,
I'm already thinking about this, so it can't be my
reality because I know both sides right now, so I
can kind of like stop it. I know. It's like
you can split hairs. You can just split hairs intimately
with this, it's it's yeah, so yeah, I don't. I

(39:46):
try not to do that, and then I just I
do something like you said, like I watch all it,
I'll watch old episodes come down, or I'll do like
what else do I watch? Watch? Kso I feel like
that it's kind of like brand dead content. You just
kind of like tearing your brain off. He's just like,
oh man, so.

Speaker 2 (40:04):
What was I gonna say to you? Yeah, I guess yeah.
It's interesting. I feel that way too, where I'm thinking, like, Okay,
how do I don't want to hate myself in twenty years.
I'm pretty young, and I'm like, what decisions do I
need to make today? And as the days go on

(40:30):
to uh make it so that I don't I don't
hate myself. I see a lot of lately. I don't
know if I talked about this on the podcast slightly,
but I've been meeting a lot of like old people,
like older people who are happy. This isn't meeting. But
I hung out with my dad. My dad is sixty six,
and I hung out with him the other week. I

(40:53):
hung out with him and my uncle, and my dad
is like talking with my uncle about TV shows and
he's joking around and he he's making you know, he's
just like happy. He's just like seemed happy and calm
and he's in the moment, you know. And I thought
that was And then I hung out with like my
friend's dad and he was making jokes and happy and

(41:14):
calm and in the moment. And it's funny because my dad,
my friend's dad. These people like they like I'm sitting
I'm twenty seven. I'm sitting over here like having a
existential dread and like afraid I'm gonna about like you know,
death or whatever. And it's like these older people that
I'm meeting. I met this guy in an Uber He
was my Uber driver and he was like sixty something

(41:37):
and I was just and he was talking to me
about how he's been driving Uber for thirty five years
and how he has like a thirty two year old
son and a thirty year old daughter and they all
live together and he's like just very happy. He was
just talking to this very like happy guy about his
family and his life. And it's funny because all these
guys are like way closer to death than I am,

(41:58):
and they have way less fucking anxiety. Like they're just
like they're these these like they're present, they're calm, they're chilling,
they're living their lives. And I'm like, uh hm, how
does how did they get there where they're just like chilling?
How do people get to that? Cause it is like

(42:20):
being alive, being alive. Being conscious is tremendously if you
from a certain point of view, and in the point
of view that I think I've been like kind of
locked into for the past couple of months, is that
like being alive is like a tremendously frightening thing, and
yet we live in a world where people are able

(42:40):
to just kind of handle it and be okay and
watch The Bachelor and you know, take a shit and
like be everything, like be normal and calm, which I
think is actually the what you're supposed to do is
just be normal and calm. I don't know, I don't

(43:00):
know how people get that. I don't know if I
don't know if that's like a medication thing. I don't
know if that's a lifestyle thing. I don't know if
that's I don't know if some people just have it
and some people don't. But yeah, yeah, you know what's.

Speaker 3 (43:14):
I it's so interesting that you say that, because I
was thinking about that a lot. I kind of grapple
with mortality all the time too, about thinking exactly what
you're talking about, like especially in e or because you
see people just die all the time, right, But it's
so strange because you're, yeah, what you're saying too about
like I feel like the people who see there like
semi five and I'm like usually older, they're so calm,
and you know what the biggest I don't know because

(43:35):
this is a super antidotal I have no like hard
facts to back this, but it's like the support system
kind of like you're talking about with your dad and
your uncle, and I feel like they probably have a
good support system. They probably have like a networking of
you know, they're always talking to people. When you see
like families that have like you know, they come in
with their like ninety five year old grandma and she's
like just talking. She's super witty, she's super sharp, she's

(43:58):
usually just like lives on her own own, loves other people.
But it's just that I feel like it's that support system.
It's like you're able to like talk to someone on
a daily basis, and then you can people who come
in who are like sixty and they're like homeless unfortunately,
and they haven't talked to anyone in like a long
time or whatever, and they're just in these horrible, horrible conditions.
So I feel like it's just there's that like social somatic,

(44:18):
like you know, you have like access to like exactly
what you're talking about. So I don't know, that's that's
just kind of my guest. I do agree. I'm like,
I think maybe it is the family stuff, maybe these
the lifestyle stuff, but I yeah, I don't know. It's
I always wonder that too, because I'm.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Like you, like, you're one hundred percent right. It's a
fucking I think it's like a community thing and a
social support thing. Yeah, you know, and yeah, we like
the modern world is like a little it's the modern
world is very not conducive to that, and so you

(44:54):
kind of have to go out of your way to
figure out how to create that. If you know, a
lot of people are lucky enough that like community and
support systems are just like just kind of naturally occur
in their life through whatever it is they chose to

(45:16):
do for a living, or if they chose to have
a family or you know whatever. Some people aren't as
lucky and they did shit doesn't naturally occur and they
have to kind of go out and chase it and
look for it. But yeah, it's what you know. What's
funny is, Yeah, the modern world, I think it has
created a thing where it's been yeah, sure, isolating, but

(45:40):
it also conversely has given us a lot of tools
to break out of isolation. And yeah, I've talked about this.
I think I've been talking about the same three things
on this podcast for the past month.

Speaker 3 (45:58):
No.

Speaker 2 (45:59):
Yeah, but I don't know that they're they're they're the
they're the frequent things on my fucking mind. I you know,
it would be awesome because I hope somebody I don't know,
I hope maybe somebody listening to the who listens to
this podcast right early is like taking whatever, these same
three fucking things I'm talking about on the podcast, and
you maybe I get an email from them and they're like, hey,

(46:21):
I took those I took those three things you were
talking about on the podcast, and I made these changes
and I did these things, and now my life is different,
and I'll look at it and be like, oh shit,
I should do that too.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
You know that you can make the therapy get go,
like you could sell like a masterclass. You could do
like one of these classes.

Speaker 2 (46:42):
I would feel like.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
I'm going to facilitate your life.

Speaker 2 (46:45):
No, I would feel extreme. I think I'd feel extremely
uncomfortable doing like, uh something like that. Now, I feel
very uncomfortable doing something like that, although it is fun,
like coaching is fun because you don't have to do anything.
You just have to tell the people what to do.
It's way easier.

Speaker 3 (47:01):
Like when have you ever heard of a client telling
a personal coach that they're fucking up their life? Like,
I feel like that's not You could just tell you
could tell them whatever you want. They'd be like, okay, cool, Yeah,
I'm gonna do it. And then if it's not happen.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
No, there will There will never be a therapy Gecko course.
If you saw I think, I think I think that
you should you should have public You should have public
photos of the quality of your room first before you
sell a course, you know what I mean? Like, I

(47:34):
think if if people saw all the empty water bottles
and half filled diet mountain dew all over my fucking apartment,
they would they would not consider buying a course from me.

Speaker 3 (47:46):
That's what the field of psychiatry says, is like a
bedroom is a window into someone's mind, is what they say.
I don't know if it's true though, but.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
Yeah, don't tell don't open that diamountain dew and look inside,
because it'll show.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
You some.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
What's your name again, Chudley, Chudley, Chudley. It was nice
talking to you. I hope you find whatever the fuck
you're looking for in this crazy world.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Before we leave, can I tell you one er story
because that was just I just wanted to tell you
something funny to even out the spirituality of a fifth Yeah. So,
I mean you probably know people people put stuff in there,
but it happens pretty frequently. I think any orifice someone has,
he can do that. So we've had a we've had
a unnamed gentleman come in several times because he's gotten

(48:33):
something stuck in his butt. The first time it was
a brute shaving cream bottle. I don't know if you're
familiar with those. Like it's like a green bottle with
a very long stem. It's it's pretty sizable, Like when
you see it on the X You're like, how the
fuck did he get? Like I had no I had
no idea, and he walked in totally normal. You could

(48:54):
have just seen this guy walk down the sidewalk and
you would not have known that. He comes in says
that he tripped and fell and that it went up
his butt. They're like, all right, we're not going to
question you anymore. And then like a couple of weeks later,
dude comes back in samem and this time it was
a like a Suave shampoo bottle, which was like almost

(49:15):
twice the size of this thing. And even then den
I and I deny. He was like, I think a
friend put it up here, like I'm not sure how
I got up there, and that one was so far
that he actually had to get surgery to get that
one out. So and that that happens all the time.
You see, I've seen a dude put a glass weed

(49:35):
pipe up his butt and then he sat down and
broke I've seen, Yeah, that one was horrible too. And
now when he also said a friend, they never I
get it. I understand it's a very vulnerable. They're trying
to help you, but I'm like, you really, like you're
in this position, you don't want to just mess up
to it, Like I get it. But he's like, no, man,
like someone I was asleep and someone put it in
my butt and like I just I didn't know. I

(49:57):
just didn't wake up.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
No, at that point, it's like, you know, I put
this in my ass, Sorry that you have to now be.

Speaker 3 (50:03):
Here that Yeah, Now I get it. I'm just like,
I get it, dude, I get it. Like, but just
come on, dude, tarrott. We've seen that. We've seen a
couple of vegetables.

Speaker 2 (50:14):
Carrot's Carrot's not that bad. Those are biodegradable, right, right,
you do with the carrot after you take it out
of a guy's ass.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
That's a very good question because I asked after the
shampoo bottle and the shaving cream, I was like, did
you give it back to him? Because it was full.
You could see in the extra that there was still
like a pat like there was still something in it,
Like it wasn't just the bottle. They take it. They
it's considered bio it's considered a bio hazard, and they
throw it away. Yeah, so you don't get to keep
any of that, you know, even if you get like

(50:44):
I don't know if you've ever heard this, but if
you get your leg cut off, your arm cut off,
you don't get to keep it. They like, if you
keep it, or if you try to keep it, it's
a crime. I don't remember what the exact crime is,
but they will like literally just throw it away, and
you can't you can't trust it. Yeah, sometimes even your teeth.
Sometimes some like I don't know what it is with
certain gental procedures, but you're not even allowed to keep
your your own teeth, which is the craziest thing to me.

Speaker 2 (51:07):
But where is there just like a band in the
hospital or like they just didn't have a bunch of legs.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
I mean, at least at ours. I don't know if
we have like incinerators and shit, I don't really. I
don't think we do imputations at my hospital's pretty small.
But when they do, I'm pretty sure they just throwing
it anerator and it's just from dust to dirt, like
you go back to the earth, I guess, I don't know.
Or sometimes there's a whole other rabbit hole they have
that illegal body exchange. They have like this whole black market.

(51:36):
Barvard got in trouble for it recently for selling cadavers
like dead people to like the military and too like
other unfacilitated like medical facilities. They were making stupid money
off of it. It was crazy. They were just taking
dead people and just selling them for like hundreds of
hundreds of dollars, like it was the nuttiest thing to
think about.

Speaker 2 (51:57):
So well, look when I die, I mean, I don't.
I'm not going to need my arms and legs anymore,
so you can take them. Anyone can have them if
they want them.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
I want to be stopped to about I don't know,
fifty to one hundred pounds of fireworks, and I just
want to be placed in like a public setting. Yeah,
I launched off as fireworks. Yeah, yeah, that's the way
I want to go.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
What's your name again, sir Chedley? Chedley? Is there anything
else you want to say to the people of the
computer before we go.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
If you ever go to the emergency room and you
want to be seen super fast, this is so unethical,
But if you really do want to be seen really fast,
tell them you can't breathe, or tell them that you
have cardiac history and you will be seeing a shap
even if it's a bullshit complaint. But you did not
hear that from me.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
Pretty good, Pretty good. I'm glad somebody got something out
of this podcast.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
Hopefully, Yeah, I hope.

Speaker 2 (52:54):
So take care of Chedley. Thank you?

Speaker 3 (52:58):
Thanks Jack.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
What's up man? How you doing pretty good?

Speaker 5 (53:05):
How are you?

Speaker 2 (53:06):
I am hanging in there. I'm trying my best to
be alive as a human being on the planet. What's
what's up? Brother? What is it that made you want
to call into my little Gecko show today.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
I've been listening to you for a long time, and
I've tried to call about a bunch of random ship before.
But I don't know. Lately, I just went through some
shit at work and I worked for my girlfriend's parents.
So now I'm looking for a new job, and it's
fucking terrible.

Speaker 2 (53:44):
What kind of shit went on at the job with
your girlfriend's parents.

Speaker 5 (53:49):
I the day after Saint Patrick's Day, I tried to
call out of work and there's like a big old
mess and they docked my pay.

Speaker 3 (53:58):
So, yeah, did.

Speaker 2 (54:01):
You get too fucked up on St Patrick's Day?

Speaker 3 (54:04):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (54:04):
Yeah, Well, I mean well, I mean, I mean look,
I mean, I mean, you know, come.

Speaker 1 (54:11):
On, yeah, fair enough, fair enough.

Speaker 5 (54:13):
I didn't expect my pay to get docked, but I
did expect, like, you know, for it to be some trouble.

Speaker 2 (54:21):
Well, I mean, yeah, what, well, Well, well you wanted
to get like, oh, do I do you have like
PTO or something?

Speaker 3 (54:29):
No, I don't.

Speaker 5 (54:30):
I don't have any of that.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
I don't got.

Speaker 5 (54:31):
Benefits or nothing. I'm doing like construction in the landscaping.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
Wait, so wouldn't your pay obviously get docked if you
didn't if you don't go to work.

Speaker 5 (54:41):
No, No, I mean like permanently and minus three dollars
an hour.

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Oh, you pay got permanently docked.

Speaker 5 (54:49):
Yeah. Yeah, I got to find a new job.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
And they were doing that as retaliation for calling out
of work.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
Yeah, but the funny thing is I still went to work, attempted.

Speaker 2 (55:02):
To call out. You attempted to call out of work,
and so then they got mad at you for trying
to call out of work, so they docked your pay
because you tried to call out of work.

Speaker 1 (55:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (55:16):
It was a messy argument, and then I just threw
in the towel, was like, okay, fine, I'll go and yeah,
that's rough.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
Are you still with your girlfriends?

Speaker 1 (55:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (55:28):
Yeah, we've been together coming up six years.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
Okay, but so are you still in the job or
did you quit? And now you're looking for a new ship.

Speaker 5 (55:38):
I'm currently wiping off of tile, so I'm still I'm looking.
But yeah, I'm kind of stuck at the moment.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
Did this like damage your relationship with your girlfriend's parents.

Speaker 5 (55:54):
For like, for a couple of weeks, things seem normal now.
But obviously I'm not happy slave a way for you know,
all that rush money.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Yeah, yeah, what is your girlfriend? Is your girlfriend on
your side with this? Or is she like, yeah, you
fucked up?

Speaker 3 (56:11):
I don't know. She's kind of in between.

Speaker 5 (56:13):
She's like, it's you know, your fault because it would
have never happened. But she agrees that it's stupid.

Speaker 2 (56:22):
Yeah, what kind of job are you trying to get
outside of this?

Speaker 5 (56:26):
Well, that's what I'm on the sense on her now.
The plan was to go into plumbing, and but no
plumbing apprenticeships are hitting me back. I don't know if
I should like try to, you know, get like a
serving job and just wait up the summer, or I
have no idea. I'm living on an island right now.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
You live on an island? What islands?

Speaker 5 (56:50):
Tybee Island?

Speaker 2 (56:52):
Tybee Island. I'm gonna okay, wait, I'm gonna fucking we're
pulling out the maps. We're pulling out maps.

Speaker 5 (57:00):
I hope nobody uh on the island knows.

Speaker 3 (57:02):
Your show hold on?

Speaker 2 (57:04):
Okay? What is it called?

Speaker 5 (57:07):
Tybee Island?

Speaker 2 (57:08):
Ruh t y b e Tybee Island? Georgia. Oh shit,
I don't know Georgia had a fucking island. Oh shit, yeah,
you're right, okay, yeah, yeah, all right, you're right outside
of Savannah. Hold on, oh it's really an island. Is
this really an island? This isn't really an island. There's
like a it's connected to land, right.

Speaker 1 (57:33):
Well, it appears that way, but when the tide comes up,
you can only get to the island through the man
made road.

Speaker 2 (57:41):
Is this like I've never heard of this fucking place?
This is interesting. Is this like a like a beach
town where people who like Savannah folks like go to
fucking go on vacation.

Speaker 3 (57:50):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 5 (57:51):
People from all over the world actually end up here
amid a lot of crazy people.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
Cool. Are you trying to stay on Tybee Island?

Speaker 5 (58:00):
I'm staying till September. It's really expensive to live out here,
so we're gonna move into Savannah.

Speaker 2 (58:08):
So Tybee Island is more expensive than Savannah, like living
in the proper city.

Speaker 5 (58:14):
Yeah, yeah, much more expensive. It's like dominated by short
term vacation rentals. So the housing market's pretty rough.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Interesting. Interesting. How's what's the cost of living like in Savannah?

Speaker 5 (58:28):
It's I mean, it's uh, it's not terrible. It's hard
to find a good place because of you know, it's
like a college stun and all that. But you can
find a good spot if you if you wait around
for it.

Speaker 2 (58:44):
You live on an island in Georgia. I mean, look,
if you're thinking about going into the service industry, I'll
say this. I mean, I've never been a waiter, a
bartender or anything like that by friends who have, and uh,
I mean if you're doing it for a summer. I
have a friend he was he fucking like hated his

(59:05):
life and his job and everything, and he moved to
Rehoboth Beach to be a server over there, and now
he's like killing it. He has all these like fucking
other like server friends, and he's like in the whole
restaurant industry and the community and whatnot. So I don't
have firsthand experience being a server at a like in

(59:31):
a beach town or whatever, but uh, it's what are
you doing now? You're scraping grout off of a yeah,
a tile off a tile. I mean, I look, I
don't know what kind of person you are. I don't
know what what makes you tick, but like, at least
I guess with the service. With the service industry stuff,
like you get to be like people facing. You know,

(59:55):
there's you're working with other folks, you're outside of the
closed knit of your girlfriend's parents and ship.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
I feel like if you're in, if you want like, uh,
you know, if you want to be a little rascal,
that's the better place to do it.

Speaker 3 (01:00:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:00:15):
Well, my boss is pulling up right now. Nice talking
to you.

Speaker 3 (01:00:19):
I will call it suck.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
Too, all right, cool man, Well, good luck, good luck
with whatever you choose to do.

Speaker 5 (01:00:24):
Thank you all.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
Take care, Broye. I don't know. I'm not. I haven't.
I never worked as a bartender, but I fucking every
once in all here in New York. Every once in
a while, when I get bored, I volunteer at my
friend's comedy club. Shout out Sesh comedy. Every once in

(01:00:47):
a while, when I get bored, I go down there
and I'll sling I'll sling beers for him, and it's
it's it's kind of fun to like like have a
I mean, it's so funny because that's what I do
with this podcast. But it's kind of fun to have
like forced social interaction where like people have to talk

(01:01:10):
to you and you know, the parameters of the social
interaction are predetermined, and it's like it's good to have
something to do with your fucking hands, right like after
living in like the crazy abyss. Just having someone be like, hello,

(01:01:34):
I would like to buy a beer and I go, hey, man,
how you doing? I'm doing good? Can I get this beer?
And I go yes? And then I go and I
get them the beer and they go thanks. Something about
that that felt very makes you feel present in what
you're doing. I guess that's why fucking diner dash is

(01:01:56):
so popular. I don't know, I don't know what I'm
fucking talking about, but uh yeah, it's fun. It's it's
a it's a fun thing. I think. I don't know,
it sounds it's about if if like if you have
to like get like a you know, if you need
a gig. I feel like that's probably better than like,
you know, working out in a in a field or

(01:02:18):
anything like that. Just to be around some people. Hello, Hello, Hi,
what's your name?

Speaker 3 (01:02:24):
My name is Billy, Billy.

Speaker 2 (01:02:26):
What's up, Billy? How you doing? How's life?

Speaker 6 (01:02:29):
While it's so great to talk to you, I'm I'm
taking a break from doing taxes at the.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
Moment, Oh, yeah, tax season's coming up. Tax Season's coming up.

Speaker 6 (01:02:39):
It is I'm very nervous. It's the first time I'm
I'm doing it. But I have a I have a
couple of things that I want.

Speaker 3 (01:02:44):
To talk to you about.

Speaker 2 (01:02:45):
If that's okay, Yeah, let's do it. Hit me.

Speaker 6 (01:02:48):
Yeah, so I have we can we can either go
with So I used to be a bouncer on Broadway
in Nashville, and I have some interesting stories that I
could tell you, or or I am starting a I
can tell you about. I'm starting a touring fan activations company,

(01:03:10):
like a touring fan engagement company like go on the
road with different artists and stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:03:16):
A touring fan activation company. Well, let's do the self
promo at the end. Well, yeah, go ahead. Do you
have a story about Yeah, working at nash working on Broadway, Broadway,
I do, I have a place. Yeah, I'm curious what
kind of characters you run into.

Speaker 6 (01:03:32):
So I'm not going to mention the bar that I
used to work at. But I used to work night
shifts and I used to go in starting at like
five thirty and then I'd go and work until like
three in the morning, and then I have to walk
to walk back to this really sketchy parking garage. I

(01:03:53):
mean it wasn't sketchy, but it's like a couple of
blocks away and you got to walk past like some
people that are are out at three in the morning,
and I'd rather not do that, So I don't work
there anymore. But there was I'll tell you one story.
So we ended up. It was one of my first

(01:04:15):
days there, and one of there was it was late
at night and one of the there were some girls
coming in and so I'm standing at the front door
at this place and then my coworker, who is also
a bouncer, was standing next to me, and there are

(01:04:36):
these girls that are coming in and she just pulls
something out of her purse and just hands it to
him and just says and I'm like, okay, you know
what the fuck's going on here? And he's just like,
he tells me the story, He looks at it, it tells
me a story later about what it is, and he's like,

(01:04:58):
she just handed me a picture of her, like a
photo booth reel of her topless and just walked away,
and like she didn't even leave him her number or anything.

Speaker 3 (01:05:08):
But it's just like.

Speaker 6 (01:05:09):
Full titties and everything, and like didn't even didn't even
go and try to do anything afterwards. It was just
like like why are you giving me this here? And
then also it's just like my my thought, it was
just like do you just walk around with pictures of yourself?
Just do you just carry that in your purse and

(01:05:31):
just walking around and like hand them out to people?
Like I don't even think she was probably most likely
a Taurus. Like there was no she didn't even write
any like OnlyFans or anything on there. It was just
it was it was there.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
But I don't I respect that she's doing it for
the love of the game.

Speaker 6 (01:05:50):
She definitely of the game.

Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
And then also it's kind of like, uh, like how
the Joker leaves his like calling card, you know, you
know what I mean. It's a little like that, Yeah,
a little action.

Speaker 6 (01:06:07):
Yeah, so I have that. What else was there? So
a co worker was walking back to the parking garage
at three in the morning, well late at night, and
some random dudes followed him and like jumped in, like
almost jumped them. They pulled up in a van and

(01:06:28):
almost got out and you know, said hey, get in
the van, but he ended up running and just diving
into one of the the parking garages and they were
chasing after him and stuff. But you know, it comes,
it comes with the territory and in being Internashville, I guess.

Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
So I don't know, but.

Speaker 6 (01:06:46):
Yeah, so there's there's that, And I'm trying to think
of some other interesting stories at this particular bar that
I worked at, So I don't I don't particularly drink alcohol,
how I were at the At the bar that I
worked at, they would give you a free shift drink,
free shift drink after each each shift, so you get

(01:07:09):
done at three in the morning and then you get
a free beer and whatever. And it's just I don't know,
it's not particularly my thing, like it might be some people's,
it's not mine. But I don't know, I have something.
I can't think of any other interesting interesting stories from there.

Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
But did you ever get any fights? Did you ever
get fucked up? Oh?

Speaker 6 (01:07:29):
I had a couple of people try to fight me,
like and it was mostly and two evers listening to
this like nothing against Irish people, like I might you know,
it's I I'm got to I'm so fortunate I got
to meet like everyone from all across the world like
I got to meet some dude from Japan who didn't
even speak English, like it was so cool, you know,

(01:07:49):
I met people from Russia and whatever like, but the
only people that have ever tried to fight me were
from Ireland, like not even halfway drunk people either they're
just like pissed that they couldn't get in or or whatever,
or maybe they are like drunk or whatever. They just
did only people And this is this could be stereotype.

(01:08:13):
I'm not not at all trying to stereotype, but the
only people who have ever tried to fight me on
Broadway are people of Irish descent. But there's there's We're
also some really cool Irish people.

Speaker 2 (01:08:28):
What's your build? Like are you are you pretty jacked?
Were you able to like if somebody did like step
up to you, would you have been able to handle
the situation?

Speaker 6 (01:08:39):
So that's the crazy thing. Like, so, well, to answer
your question, now, I'm not like particularly jacked. I mean,
I'm fit and I've I've done martial arts, so like
I can handle myself, which is the only reason why
I decided to even.

Speaker 3 (01:08:54):
Take the job.

Speaker 6 (01:08:56):
I mean because of that, and I just couldn't find
a job. But no, the thing was that legally you
can't even fight You can't even fight them. It's like
you can't at this particular bar. We we didn't have
any earpieces or any communication whatsoever, and like legally you

(01:09:19):
can't like physically escort them out out of the bar.
So they're already drunk, they're in a very loud environment,
and you know, you can't you can't really do anything
about it, which is so interesting, and it doesn't help
with people like trying to, you know, trying to pick

(01:09:41):
fights either, because because you know, you just yell at people,
say hey, get out here, and like what are what
are they going to do? Like they're they're they're already
on vacation, having a good time whatever, which like there's
absolutely nothing wrong with that. I love that, you know,
I love to see people smile and have a good
time and whatever. But when it comes to the point
where you're just like being rowdy and whatever, and I

(01:10:04):
don't know, but yeah, that's the thing. We can't even
we couldn't even physically escort people out of like off
the premises, and since we didn't have any communication, we
couldn't really call anybody to help us either. And luckily
I didn't run into a whole lot of terrible situations
like that, but it was there were there were times

(01:10:26):
where it was like really close. Like there was this
lady one time where it was her and her husband
and they were just they were being obnoxious and she
was just kept blowing a bubble gun inside of the
place that I worked at. I'm like, no, no, we
can't keep doing this, and her husband got pissed, and

(01:10:49):
you know, I just kept I kept saying, okay, well,
you know, we need to get you out of here,
like come on, come follow me, and they wouldn't listen.
So I had to go and find I had to
leave the door and go find the coworker and say, hey,
we need to get these people out of here. But
I don't know, it was it was. It was an

(01:11:10):
interesting job, like I got to see and meet some
really cool people. Aside from like patrons, we would have
people come in who had just played The Ryman. For
anyone that doesn't know the Ryman Auditorium is, it's right downtown.
It's one of the most famous venues in Nashville and

(01:11:31):
in country particularly. But we had a lot of interesting
people just come in from the Ryman and then from
you know, from from that that area after they got
done playing the shows, to either just come hang out
or if they wanted to do an extra set or whatever.
Then it was interesting to see, like it was a

(01:11:52):
really fun job, but just not one that I care
to have anymore. It's just too dangerous. Got to get
you for me what you do now?

Speaker 3 (01:12:02):
So I do a.

Speaker 6 (01:12:03):
Lot of things, which is why I'm I'm working on tactics.
I do a lot of independent contract work, so I
I can't say too much, but I'm I'm an assistant
to an artist and we're working on a couple of things,
and that's all. That's all. I'll just leave it at that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
You work for ken, don't you.

Speaker 6 (01:12:23):
It's always you know, I would love to work for
Kendrick honestly, like he's I love him as a lyricist.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
When like somewhere somewhere along the line, when you say artist,
you mean a musician, right, yes, when did somewhere along
the line, I don't know, Like we used to it
used to just be like rapper or like singer songwriter
or like DJ or whatever. But now and like when

(01:12:50):
you when you thought of artist, you always it would
always come to mind, like, uh, like someone who makes
like visual art. And now artists like a type yea, yeah,
like a ball Bross type. And that was kind of
what it meant up until I swear on my life,
like in the last like five years. Artist Now now

(01:13:14):
artists more often than not means a musician of some kind,
like it used to mean, like when you said an artist,
you thought like a Pablo Picasso or like a fucking
like someone who makes like like a physical art of
some kind. But now now it almost unanimously goes to

(01:13:36):
mean a musician of some kind. Why do you think,
why do you think that switch happened?

Speaker 6 (01:13:42):
Well, I'm gonna you know what. You may hate me
for this, but I'm going to turn the question back
on you. Since like art, do comedians consider themselves artists?
Because it kind of is an art form, It most
definitely is an art form.

Speaker 2 (01:13:54):
No, comedians do not consider themselves artists, and uh if
they did, they would get made fun of.

Speaker 6 (01:14:02):
Okay, I could see that, all right, Yeah, But to
answer your question, you know, I don't know, I I
don't know. I don't know when that would would That's
an interesting point, like when would it have turned from
like Hey, I'm just a performer to you know, being

(01:14:22):
an artist, but I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:14:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (01:14:27):
That's that's interesting. I never really thought about it that way.

Speaker 3 (01:14:29):
That's cool though.

Speaker 2 (01:14:31):
So you do what do you What is it that
you were saying earlier? You do like a thing with
touring with the people.

Speaker 6 (01:14:37):
Yeah, well yeah, so I'm starting a touring fan engagement company.
Because when I say I, the term is activations, So
which is which I'm gonna I'm gonna rephrase it to
fan engagement because it just means it's just easier to explain.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
So an activation is when like the Monster Energy truck
comes to campus then gives out monster energy.

Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Yes exactly.

Speaker 6 (01:15:04):
And the reason why I phrase it like that is that,
you know, people when I go to explain it, like
people don't understand what it is, and that like I
didn't understand what it is. I didn't come into this
understanding like, hey, this is what an activation is. Like
I had to be explained to something. Like I sat
down with someone and they were just like, oh, well,
you're looking to do activations and like what the hell

(01:15:25):
is an activation? And so I was just looking it up.
So yeah, so I'm starting a company where I am
going the ideas to go on tour with different artists
and to interact with their general admission fans through just
different activations, like different games, different surprise merch giveaways, you know,

(01:15:48):
just different interesting, like cool things, and it's all curated
like directly to the artists and their fan base because
they're not going to you know, you're not going to
be interacting with let's say, Jimmy Buffett's fans. You're not
going to be interacting with his fans the same way
that you would with like I don't know, like I

(01:16:12):
don't know, Pink Floyds fans or whatever like something like that.
So it's all curated directly to the artists and their
fan bases to like what they want to do. And
it's all pre show. It's it's pre show because you
have to think about it, like you have doors that
open typically like so you as I don't know if

(01:16:33):
this is how it works for comedy, but like for artists,
typically they'll get in you know, around like an hour
or two, a couple hours before doors open so that
they can go in for sound check and set up
and do everything. And but doors will open at like
let's say the show's at eight. Doors will open at six,

(01:16:55):
so they they all have from six until eight o'clock
to either find their seat, to sit and figure out
what they're doing, and then you know, you find your seat.
And I'm not necessarily an anti social person, but I'm like,
I don't want to talk to the person that I'm
sitting next to if I can come with them. But so,

(01:17:15):
like you have, there's there's a missed marketing opportunity in
my opinion, to where you can just get two hours
of you know, and not you have two hours that
you're missing in between when doors open and then when
the actually show actually start marketing.

Speaker 2 (01:17:35):
What are we what are we supposed to market?

Speaker 6 (01:17:38):
It's well, I mean it's not necessarily it's marketing in
the sense that you are just strengthening your fan base.
I'm not saying you like this totally. I promise you.
This is not a pitch, Like I just wanted to
come here and just explain it the like you're it
would be your fan base, your your marketing. Like let's

(01:17:59):
say you have an album release and whatever, and you're
you're solely doing something for the album release, like a
I don't know, you have like a song or something
that you really want to push, but it's it's kind
of you know, you're really trying to get it out there.
You know, you do stuff based on that, that the

(01:18:21):
album or the song. So if you wanted to look
at it from like a marketing standpoint, then that's that's
what you would do. But from like a fan engagement standpoint,
you're just looking to just connect all the fans in
every way.

Speaker 2 (01:18:36):
Wait, okay, so hold on, hold on, hold on here,
hold on here, what's.

Speaker 6 (01:18:39):
Your Yeah, my name's Billy.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
Billy, I gotta be honest with you. Well, so what, so,
what the hell are you actually talking about?

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
What are you?

Speaker 2 (01:18:48):
What are you supposed to? What are you supposed to
be doing during this time? What is the marketing opportunity?
What are we what are we doing?

Speaker 6 (01:18:55):
It's so the marketing opportunity is too for fans to
just interact with, so I would be an extension of
the artist, and the marketing opportunity is to just connect
with general emission fans so that it's like on on,

(01:19:15):
like pre show.

Speaker 2 (01:19:17):
Okay, So so the the idea is like, all right,
so if I have my live show and the door
is open at seven, but the show is at eight.
I just I just chat with people from seven to eight.

Speaker 6 (01:19:30):
No, no, no, no, that's where I come in, because
you have I'm saying, you know, as as the artist.
We'll just say the artist. The artist is getting ready,
being like prepping for the show, just getting ready in
the green room, you know, just doing their thing. They
don't want to It's not that they don't want to
deal with everybody beforehand, but like, so.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
What, so what are you? What are you supposed to
do as an extension of the of the artists?

Speaker 1 (01:19:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:19:57):
So I play games with I play predetermined games with
the general emission fan base. That's like at the show.

Speaker 3 (01:20:06):
Does this? Does this make sense?

Speaker 2 (01:20:07):
You're like a pre show jesture.

Speaker 6 (01:20:11):
Yeah, sure, if you want to put it that way.

Speaker 2 (01:20:14):
That makes that makes some sense, That makes some sense. Yeah,
what's yeah? Okay, that makes some sense. Would you you play?
So you play games with?

Speaker 3 (01:20:27):
So?

Speaker 2 (01:20:27):
All right, so let's say the fans are going to
go see uh the I don't why do why? Why
can't I name a single band?

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:20:37):
Let's say we're going to go see The Grateful Dead
and we're there two hours early. You come over and
you you start playing Grateful Dead themed games with us. Yes, okay,
that's fun. I like that that could work. Yeah, can
we win? I can we win the prizes?

Speaker 3 (01:20:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:20:58):
So that's that's exactly what it. So you go and
it's all predetermined, like I would work on the like
with artists and their team to then go and say, hey,
you know this is what we know. You have a
show coming up on X y Z date right, and
then it's like, well, we have preset giveaways and you know,

(01:21:19):
like different, I have a if you've ever seen one
of them spinning wheel things, like the colorful spinning wheel things,
I have one of them with like the whiteboard things.
Well right on it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:31):
Well, well, Billy, look well I'll say this is I
think if you can if I like, if I were
on the Shark Tank right and you were pitching me
this idea, I would say something like, you know, well, normally, see,
here's the thing is, this is already normally when people
arrive early to a show, they already have a thing

(01:21:51):
that they do, which is they get really drunk. Also,
I'll say this, Billy, I'll say this before we go,
is if you can come up with an idea for
a pre show thing that is more fun than getting
really drunk. Then you got yourself a good idea in

(01:22:14):
your hands.

Speaker 3 (01:22:16):
Cool.

Speaker 2 (01:22:17):
But I I but I I you know. I wish
you good luck with this idea. I wish you good
luck with this idea.

Speaker 3 (01:22:22):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:22:23):
I appreciate Is there is there anything else you want
to say to the people of the computer before we go.

Speaker 6 (01:22:29):
Not to the computer.

Speaker 1 (01:22:31):
I do have a quick.

Speaker 2 (01:22:32):
Question for you, though, Yeah, please hit me.

Speaker 3 (01:22:35):
So.

Speaker 6 (01:22:35):
For the longest time I've been trying.

Speaker 5 (01:22:38):
To figure and if you can't say, then that's fine.

Speaker 6 (01:22:40):
For the longest time, I've been trying to figure out
what the background music is with the flute.

Speaker 3 (01:22:46):
That is that a topic?

Speaker 6 (01:22:48):
Is that a no go topic?

Speaker 2 (01:22:50):
If you go to the music, if you go to
YouTube and you search royalty free jazz music, it's one
of those. That's what I did. Okay, so I went
to Royalty Free Jazz music and so it's one of those.
It's one of those.

Speaker 6 (01:23:06):
Cool, awesome, all right, cool, thanks Lyle. I really appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (01:23:10):
Of course, take care, Billy, bye bye.

Speaker 3 (01:23:12):
I have a good one. Bite.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
That's an interesting idea. I hope he makes it. I
hope it works. Maybe that's funny. Maybe next maybe next year,
when you go to a Therapy Gecko show, Billy will
be out there juggling and playing Tic Tac dough with everyone,
and everyone will be you know, this is actually a
pretty good idea. Hello, folks, it's Lyle here. That's the
end of this episode. But get this, I'm releasing a

(01:23:39):
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(01:24:01):
regular show, they get recordings from my live shows, members
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doing this podcast. So here's a clip from this week's
members only bonus episode to be nineteen and fucking like,
why why are you? Why are you financially supporting this person?

Speaker 1 (01:24:23):
Uh? I completely love her.

Speaker 2 (01:24:26):
To guess here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna I'm
just gonna tell you a bunch of stuff. I'm just
gonna rant at you for a second. U Right, Okay,
you gotta at a certain point be able to protect
your own peace right because you're just You're only fucking
nineteen and she's only fucking nineteen. And it's great that
you love each other, but you both have to like

(01:24:49):
figure out your own shit before you try to, you know,
support somebody else. Man, you have nothing to give. You
can't give when you have nothing to give. If you
want to hear this full conversation, you can sign up
to become a premium member at Therapy Gecko dot supercast
dot com, or find the link in the episode description

(01:25:09):
that's therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com. All right, I
have nothing else to say.

Speaker 1 (01:25:17):
Therepy goes on the line, taking your phone calls every night.

Speaker 2 (01:25:21):
Therepy goes to a side.

Speaker 4 (01:25:23):
He's teaching you Cloud in the mead of your life,
but he's not really an expert.

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