FULL INTERVIEW: Comedian Ms Pat Opens Up On Using Jokes Out Of Tragedy, Tami Roman Experience + More!

Comedian Ms Pat Opens Up On Using Jokes Out Of Tragedy, Tami Roman Experience + More!

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
What's up. It's way up with Angela ye Jasmine brand.
Of course he is here with me. And you know
I love comedians that it's like my favorite thing to
do ever is always going to a comedy show and said,
we have one of the top terror comics in the
room with us, Miss Pat. Hey, thank y'all for having
me not just a comic though, but also an author yes,

(00:24):
also creator. Right, you have your own show, the Miss
Pat Show. Also you have a deal with BT plus
bt plum Viacom, I mean an entrepreneur all of that.
So congratulations on everything. Thank you. Oh, I'm most important
job Folky's tool abor shows. I claim them all. And

(00:45):
those are things that you talk about on the Miss
Pat Show. Though yes, yes, some people I feel like
shy away from having those real conversations. Well, I think
the network likes to shy from sha away from having
real conversations. And the great thing about streaming is it
allows you to go there. So you know, the only
difference between Miss Patt Show and any other show, it's
just I it was a it was a voter out

(01:07):
there for a vote for a mother like me, so
they always put mothers on TV. That was perfect ain't
nobody perfect, right? You know, I'm a mother on TV
that's a convicted felon. There's a lot of mothers that
convicted felons. So so for years, the industry just left
that blanket. They didn't want to they didn't want to
give that those people a voice, and I'm just that
voice for them, And that's why I worked. And I

(01:28):
remember early on you said it took like five years.
Five years to get it went to it went to Fox,
and from Fox and went to Hulu, and then Hulu
shot the pilot. Then it ended up at BT plus
and they gave it a chance and it took off.
I should subscribe to BT plus for the Miss Past show.
You shouldn't know. That's why I subscribe. Well, thank you.

(01:49):
I appreciate that. Jasmine's like, I have your subscription past
or never wrong with that? You ever like you have
more freedom because it's BT plus so you can talk
about the streaming. Yes, yes, you have more freedom in
terms of because of streaming. Do you ever get any
pushbacks from any topics? Because I feel like y'all talk

(02:09):
about everything, But is there one topic that you had
to fight for or well, we did an episode I
think in season one, season two a derogatory episode, and
we said all the derogatory returns from every race, and
one of the terms that they pushed back on was
jap slap. Where I grew up in the South. So

(02:30):
Mama was like, I jap slap the hell out of you, Southern. Yeah,
that like Jewish American Princess Jap. It's like hidden Asians. Oh,
it's like hidden, it's not really Asian. It had nothing
to do with Asian. Black. Mummy said, I jet slapped
the hell at you. That mean backhand you. That's what
it means. My husband said, do you realize where that

(02:53):
term came from? And he told me, said it was
when when Japanese people was in a concentration camp or
something like that, and that's where the term came from.
So he said it's racist, and I was like it's
racist and he was like yeah, and I was like, no,
it's not. So when he was doing this derogatory term,
I said the word and at the time, you know,
people was abusing Asian people and they pull back on it,

(03:15):
but then they let the word chink go through. It
was like, that's even worse. And you know what's crazy,
because you know, I'm haf Chinese. People don't realize you're
not supposed to use that. They don't know it. Like
people's names will be like chinky Eye like or they'll
use that word like as a description, you know, not
meaning for it to be derogatory, but not knowing that
you're not supposed to say it. I had to tell
people like, you know, you're not supposed to say that, worried.

(03:37):
So that was the biggest thing that they pushed back back.
That was no, I'm saying based off all the stuff
that y'all talk about on the show. I'm like, oh,
and it's time. If you're not from a certain community,
you're not supposed to Like, if you're in a community,
they let you use words, but when they got you
use the in word all day long, yeah a million times. Community,

(03:59):
Yeah they will let they will fire somebody for that.
Well they will, yeah, but they never And I told them,
I'll tell me. I said, y'all, let us say the emerror,
but when we want to say something else, it's a pushback,
which is crazy. Right. So you know, you have your
fights with networks, and I mean, if you didn't have
your fights and people wouldn't be doing a job. Yeah,

(04:19):
but all right, now, I remember you also talk about um,
you know, from the darkest places and you've been through
a lot. That's where you can find humor in that
and that's kind of how you take control and power
over that narrative. Or is there anything that you haven't
been able to laugh at in your life? Well? I
think it was season two. Um. The first season, we

(04:39):
wanted to do an episode about my mom and boyfriend,
but lested us. We wrote the episode and everything, and
then I was like, I'm not ready to tell this,
and so we had to strip rid and everything. I
just went to the network. I said, we gotta pull it.
I'm not ready. We did it in a second season,
and I tell you, when we did it in a
second season, it was so healing for me. So that

(05:00):
would be the biggest thing for me, you know, getting
that out there, and so many people called me. It
was like, I mean, so many people wrote me. It
was like, oh my god, miss pet thank you for
telling that. Because so many women are scared to speak
up about molest station, and people also shut it out
of their lives and their thoughts. There's things that happened
that you're like, I don't know if this is true
really happened? That's what several times I have to call

(05:22):
my sons. I'd be like, did that really happen? You know?
Do you remember this? Because my mama and boyfriend would
take us to the graveyard and molest us, and so
as you get older, you started thinking is this a dream?
What was crazy? Because my friend threw me a surprise
birthday party when I turned fifty and I pull up
at this place where I never go, and I was like,

(05:43):
why the hell they got me over here? So I
get to the party and everybody say surprised, and I
was like, and I get the mic. I said, who
threw the party? And it was my girl question, who
do my head? I said, did you ever done on you? That?
That's a cemetery across the street where he molested us,
saying which I thought was hilarious, But the whole room went,
what I mean? Because if you can't I'm fifthy, I

(06:04):
can't cry by the crop the man is dad what
it's done, It's done. I just find lealty in it.
But she literally booked my fifthy and birthday part across
the street from the graveyard. Well, it was funny to me.
Do you ever talk to your family beforehand before you,
like talk about something so sensitive like this, Do you
talk to them beforehand or no? You just go for it.

(06:25):
I just go forward, okay? And then and obviously this
is based a lot on your life. So do y'all
sit down and have like pitch sessions at home with
the kids, like, you know, we should do an episode
on this. It's like you have the one where she
sent out on nudes. You know. No, if it happens,
I just I just I don't go to my family.
I go to the room, like, let me tell you
what happened in my family this week. And that's how

(06:46):
episode is created. Right. But I'm not gonna go and
ask my kids what are you think about this? I
don't want. I don't want to hear that. But I'm
saying they might want to pitch something too, Like, well,
if they pitched something to me, and if it's good,
I take it there. But no, I'm not gonna sit
down and say, you know, it's just episode. When are
y'all thinking about this? So how do you feel about it?
I don't give a damn how you feel. I'm out
here making money. Don't do it. I won't talk about
it your day. Really send you a nude of herself

(07:08):
by accident. No, that was that happened to somebody else,
But gapper took actually happened to my girlfriend. Happened to
my girlfriend daughter. So I take from everybody else's life too.
I did the one about the pocket Pussy with a
little Boy or the Pocket Pussy because at the time Amazon,
if you order Pocket Pussy, they will also seeing you
a deal dough for free. Oh wow, he's a twin

(07:29):
and he gave the deal dough. He got a deal
on to his twin sister, which I thought was hilarious.
So we turned it into an episode. You know. I
always think, too, it's good that we didn't have camera
phones coming up, because can you imagine if people were
able to film and take pictures of all this shit
we used to do. It'll be rough for me we

(07:51):
went there. It'll be rough for me. They'll be taking
my cram. Now. I'll tell a something that you. I
recently said that you to do another book, and yeah,
it's like, do you know what it's gonna be on? Ye? Um,
it's it's in the work. It's the other book is.
We're working on some things now, but I don't know.
It probably be some essays or something. Who knows. So

(08:14):
because the lat has happened, your life is so different now,
it is so different. How do you feel differently it?
What's the biggest difference in terms of like how your
life was before? You know, I don't feel different people
like your famous I said, no, I have a job
like you have a job. You know, That's how I look.
You have a fun ass job. Though I do have
a fun ass job. I look at it as getting
up every day going to work. I don't look at

(08:34):
it as you know, I can get to meet somebody famous,
or I get to do you know, big things, or
I'm going to a war show. I just look at
it as work. What do you think has been the
most exciting time that you could be like, I can't
believe I'm here, Like, have you had one of those
surreal experiences? Yes? And it was when I went to
my husband last year in January, last year in December,

(08:56):
and I say, you can retire time. My husband worked
at General Rotors for almost twenty two years, and he
had about six about eight years ago because he needed
thirty and I said, you could retire. What do you
say initially? What was the first thing he said? He
left that was you know, that's that's one of the

(09:17):
big biggest moments of my career. That's amazing. And he now,
he said, at home and get on my damn there
he stuck it through. It was thirty years because I
was a hood right. His mama did not like me.
Oh no, no, no she did. She would even love
me more. But in the end we was okay. But
in the beginning it was rough. Honey. She was like,

(09:39):
you taking my good Christian's son. You're a drug dealer.
You a check like man, you're bid and then your
hum leaving for you take a tear maya bid and
a woman old Jane Brown looking half with damn. Yeah,
you always had a mouth like this as like a
little girl always. I was a musty kid at school,
so the key people, Yeah, she said, you was musty.
So the key kids were messed with me. I to

(10:00):
learn how to jump. I hadn't learn how to talk
back and fight. See it's crazy how you don't realize
things that you go through when you're a kid, how
much later in life it can actually benefit you. Yes,
because at the time it could be difficult, but then
later on you're like, now that I think about it,
Like coming up, I was always had to fight for
this or talk about this, or defend myself in this way.

(10:20):
And now that's your job. That's my job. And it's
so crazy because people went to school with me, like
you the same as you was in the element school.
Because you know, I went to high school for one
year and I dropped out end up having kids. But
people who know me all my life, they was like, say, no,
this is just how she acts, right, Yeah, I'm just
happy I can you know I was able to get
a career off of just being me. I didn't help

(10:41):
to turn into nobody else or nothing else. I'm just me.
Now you're also going to be helping other people out,
which I think is amazing. Like even with Jordani Cooper, right,
he's the one that helped create the show with you,
and he's directing in season three, yes for the first time,
which is great to see. And you always are a
big champion for and now you have this deal with
BT plus and so what are some of the things

(11:04):
that Jared bringing to the network. Well, um, I'm I
have some projects that we're working on, and I'm that
they bought or getting ready to buy. And you know
we need to pitch to Miss Patte. If you want
to pitch somebodda, she could make it happen pretty much,

(11:24):
pretty much that I remember walking in the room to
sell the Miss Pass show, and I just told him myself,
I know I'm a plus size woman, but you know
you see him all the time making mockeryal plus size woman.
Either we gotta hit, get hit hit or hit in
the face with a pie, or we don't get laid,
or they have all kind of stereotippical I'm not that chick.
I've been sexual acted since the sixth grade. I can

(11:45):
afford to buy my own food. You ain't him in
my face with no pie. We're not doing fat people stuff.
And that was the first thing I told Foxy. They
never asked me to do it because I'm not. I'm
not that silly fat grade you know I was. I
was in my late forties. I'm somebody, mama. I don't
got time to be running around playing on the TV

(12:05):
show where I can't get no six because they think
fat girls we only can get sex in the middle
of the night when we get up, I mean when
we get up and cook a whole four meal. I
don't eed cook. Oh damn, well, I'm chick fil like
this girl. That's all I like you. Yeah, I was
reading that you like chick fil You like a coffee
from the gas station. Yeah, like, I might have to

(12:27):
give us some of my coffee from my company. Okay,
I love coming for that. I start Bucks is a
little too strong for me. It is strong, and I
just like going and I love gas stations quick quick trip.
Oh my god, got the best coffee. Now. Another thing,
since this is about this segment is called Master Your Comedy,
where we highlight comedians who are amazing. I want to

(12:48):
talk about other comics. Have they helped you? Because I
hear a lot of times and people's careers they've had
people that have really been in chamental and bringing them
to the next level. But then we also hear a
lot about the competition. You know, in the world of comedy.
I don't have no competition. Leaders don't compete, so I
ain't compete with nobody. But some people feel competitive with you.
You know. I don't know if they're feeling competitive with me,
because I'm not paying it. I'm not giving you that energy.

(13:11):
I'm not. I don't have time for that. I'm a
grown ass woman. Have you always felt have you always?
Were you ever competitive? Did you always feel like I'm
not I compete against myself? Okay, that's who I compete
against it. I'm just being honest. When you get wrapped
up with what somebody else is doing, it takes the
focus off what you're doing. Right. So if I'm competing
against myself, I see what I'm doing to make myself better.

(13:33):
I'm not looking at Tiffany had It or some more
anybody else. I'm happy for them. Yeah, honestly I am.
You do what you do, and I'm gonna do what
I do because I don't think we all got the
same lane. But what about feeling the love now too?
Because you know, we also want to get flowers to
people who might have done things that have helped or
even just gave you some encouragement. Have you had Have

(13:54):
you felt that? Yeah? I felt a lot of that.
I mean, you know when I when I you know,
the very first two I ever did that was huge
was Kat Williams and I did his tour, and my
father died and he looked up and he realized I
was playing in the funeral. He went in the back
room and came out with a whole stack of cash
and was like, go bury your daddy, And can't nobody

(14:15):
say nothing to me about Kat Willie. People feel really
strongly about Kat, like people that for me. Everybody has
examples of what Kat has done. Man, Kat is a
good person. I mean I opened for d Ray. I
have to give a shout out to d Ray Davis
because d Ray Davis allowed me. He taught me how

(14:36):
to headline. That was times I was open up for
other comedies that was only give me ten minutes. D
Ray would say, go up that and don't come off
to you run out of jokes. That's amazing. And each
time he was never threatened about how funny I was
getting or how it was you know, how much new
jokes out, or how much time I was doing. He
just always been a champion. I mean Bert Chriischer, I

(14:59):
mean Joe Rogan, go above and beyond. It's so many
people out there that helped me out where I'm at. No,
that's good because I always feel like it's nice when
you can give people the credit for that. Yes, yes, yes,
I mean, aren't your fear. I mean there's so many
comics that helped me when other people wouldn't. And your
headlining this uh now, these aren't just comedy rooms. These

(15:20):
are more like bigger it's a theater, theaters. It's called
your Girl. Don't made it? Okay, When did you first
feel like I made it? Would people tell you the
fans be like, but when did you feel that, Like
the first time you were like your girl that made it,
the first time you said it to yourself, you know what.
Let's be honest. I mean, the last three years has

(15:43):
been really great for me. And I'm such a big
d I wire. So I saved my money and I said,
I said, I'm gonna build me a mansion because if
I didn't want to buy a mansion because I didn't
want you know, I wanted what I wanted, and so
I said, I want to customize it all that. So
I saved over a million dollars and I built me

(16:04):
a mansion. Let's not brush over that. I saved over
a million dollars. I built made it. Okay, I got it,
got it, and I bought I bought seven acres. I
knocked it down I knocked the house. Damn no, no
general contract, and I did how to architect, and I
made some mistakes. But that thing going up and get

(16:25):
inspected tomorrow. We yea, that's a huge deal. And you
said you want to host your own show. You would
love to host a show, Yeah, because I want to.
I want to host a d I watch show with
real content. I get so tired of seeing fake d Oh.
You take down that walls boom, and it's not eight

(16:47):
thousand dollars. Me, Me and y'all could kick down a
wall for three just three three feet, that's all it take. Yeah,
And I'm like, stop launching the right people, because I
remember I had some um there was a flood in
my base, mean from the neighbors right they were doing
some construction. Their basement flooded and then it caused my
basement to get wet. Then I have mold, so then
I had to call them to cut the mold out.

(17:08):
And then they try to charge me like fifteen thousand
dollars to sheet rock back the basement. I called, you know,
one of my neighbors, and he just made me buy
the sheet rock and he just did it for some pizza.
And you know, and I gave him some money, but
that shouldn't cost fifteen thousand dollars. You don't know dollars.
But you can always go out there and google what
does it call she rock? What does it cause to?

(17:31):
You know? Build a house? The internet is pretty much yeah,
you know, it's a probably about eighty percent true. And
building a house is way cheaper than buying one that's
already built that you're gonna need to fix anyway. And
then sometimes people do these flips and they do them
so cheap. Oh, actually, you want to hear something crazy.
So I go with my nephew house, and I'm such
a deal. I just I don't want to see anybody

(17:53):
living in shingles. That's me. So I'll go with my
nephew house. And he didn't want me to come over,
but somehow I ended up over there. He bought a
flip house and had mold all in the bathroom, and
I was like, oh my god, yea. I said, I'm
gonna remotel your house, and he was like, what I said,
I'm gonna remote your whole house. What happened was I
bought a lot of stuff for the house that I said,

(18:14):
make a mansion. Then I realized I need to customize
a mansion. So I had about all of these capitals
from these little place called lows. You know what, I'm
a little second hand place about all of this stuff,
and I couldn't use it anymore. So I have a
house full of stuff that will make your house little nice.
So I just went in his house and I tore
his upstairs. Dad and I and when I had it
all put back, and I just finished his two bedroom,

(18:36):
three bedrooms and two bathroom. I started in the bathroom,
so now moving to the kitchen in the living room,
and it has blown his mind, said yourself passionate about
it too. That's why, Yeah, I love thea. And it's
just you know, anybody that's you know, like when they
in need, especially family members to see that smile on
his face. He's the first time homeowners, but he bought

(18:58):
a piece of crape picked them. And I told him,
I said that how your house is one hundred twenty thousands.
There's no where you're gonna go in a good school
system and live you just got got, But I'm gonna
help you. I put a roof on this house. I
don't done the three bedrooms, and I had already had
a cabinets for the kitchen. I thought I was gonna
put in my customer, I said, boy, you already got
a cabinets in the box. So every time I tell

(19:19):
them to throw some away, I got the trash can
out there, I got him going up, I got everything
going on. That's amazing. And that's a good lesson to
learn though, because I will say, when someone's buying the house,
make sure you get it inspected by a therapy. You
got it inspected, but through the through the relative inspect
the third party who, yeah, independently, don't. And I told him,

(19:40):
I said, she wanted to make the sale, so that's
why she made sure you bought this house. Girl. I
had water dumping up on the house. I had to
have the whole trench dug out. But it's here, no there.
I just thank God every day that I was I'm
blessed to be able to do this for him. Yes, Yes,
that's what I feel like this to show you to

(20:00):
be pitching next. Yeah, I've been talking about it. I've
been begging for a dry show for the longest because
you know, there's so many people out there that go
through you know that the struggles and can't get their house,
or they buy flip houses and realize there's a piece
of craps and now they stuck. But nobody's talking about

(20:20):
those people that didn't need it, who can't go back
and fix those things because they thought they was already. Yeah,
sometimes you use your last when you close on the house.
And that's another thing, because it's always gonna cust you
more than you think. Like, once you close, there's gonna
be things that you have to do that you didn't anticipate. Yeah,
pipes in the wall that was already busted with bandaids
and tapes around them. They do all kind of I

(20:41):
mean his house, I was like I can't. I said,
why don't you come get me? His like he had
so many water leaks, but they had painted the sellers
so you can see until it started looking again and
started linking again. And then I tear on his wall.
Mold all behind this wall that's dangerous. And his kids
was like the nose was running. The baby stay sick
all the time. As soon as I taught those bad

(21:01):
through no more coffee and it's it's He has a
little boy named dream right, and he was like everything knew.
That just touches me every time I go over there,
as I did one of their rooms and Marvel capiting
American and I did one on them in a video game,
And that's everything knew. Tea, listen and the passion when

(21:22):
you talk about this, that's how you can really tell
that that's something and you know what else I was
thinking about because you know, we've heard your story. I
read your autobiography right this, um show that miss Passion
was based a lot on your life. But when it
comes to your kids and when you were raising them,
because you were a young mother, you know, do you
have tough conversations with them about things that happened when
they were young that they were like, man, you know

(21:44):
coming up it was hard because you were going doing
this or you know what we Me and my daughter
had a conversation probably five years ago because I got
arrested and um, when she went to kindergarten and that
that that did something until her that I wasn't there
for her first school and I did time. I did

(22:05):
a year and a half and for the longest she
held it over my head and so I had to
go back. And that's one of the that's one of
the biggest regrets, not being able to see her go
to Kindegar. But I had to tell her, I said,
do you realize I was your mother? But I was fourteen, right,
And I said, all I was trying to do is survive.
So I didn't even I wasn't even supposed to at you,

(22:28):
So I didn't know them by being a damn mama.
But all I knew is that I love you, and
I wanted to survive, and I wanted to protect you
from going through the things that I went through. And
you know, I was selling drugs I while I was
in an abusive relationship, and she was there to see
a lot of that, and a lot of that just
drew it just it just it just put a wedge

(22:48):
in our relationship for years. Yeah, my oldest she's thirty
six now, right, Yeah, So you know, that's one of
the conversations that we've had several times. That's amazing that
she had the real lies. I don't think she realized
her mother was fourteen, Yeah, because I can't. It's hard
to fathom. I think, Yeah, I mean, I'm my age
now and I'm not mature in certain ways, and I'm

(23:09):
a mom, you know what I mean. So being fourteen,
I can't imagine. I have a fourteen year old at
my house where I have customed my niece kids, and
I look at them like, oh my god, I had
a damn baby on my hip when I was their
ages and here they are playing video games and baby, well,
you want to I think I read two years ago
you went to therapy. I want to counsel counseling with
my husband because you know, I've been married a long

(23:31):
time and you know, like they say, black people don't
believe in counseling. And my career started to really blow up.
And my husband had always always taken care of the family,
and that was the one thing he knew he could do.
So when I when I wanted to move back to Atlanta,
and I say, you got to quit your job, and
he's like, what the fuck what you mean? I work
at General Motives. I've always take care of my family.

(23:53):
You're not gonna take my manhood. And it just it
created a big problem. And then you started to realize
you in this marriage, all you do is work, and
then you acted on TV and then you realize this
is the husband I won't not that man, but that's
the marriage you want the TV, you know how it
seemed so perfect, and I was like, I don't feel
the same way I feel when I'm on you know,

(24:16):
my marriage should be like this what I'm doing on TV.
And so I realized we had some issues and we
went to counselor and it was it was the best thing. Ever.
That's amazing because it changes the dynamics of the relationship.
He sends to being this, and then it kind of like,
and you have to be considerate of that too, as
your star is rising. And I didn't. I didn't really,

(24:38):
I didn't know that was this problem. I found out
in counselor because the more the more my career started
to grow, the more he would just move away, like
I would come home. And in counsel I found out
he said, when she came up the road, she gave
me anxiety. When she came off the road, she gave me, okay, anxiety.
And I was like, how the fuck I get you anxiety?
I'm your wife, right, But you know, he knew, he

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he knew what my career were headed. To me, I
was just working. But he to him, he felt like
he was just losing his position as a head of
the household. So he was like, I was just waiting
on any day for you to tell me that he
was gonna leave me. And I was like, who the
hell are you talking about? You like, now, we did
this together. But I could understand that fair. Yeah, the

(25:20):
whole their whole marriage. He was the head of the household. Yeah,
because people had that fair when one person in the
relationship and the change is and then like, are they
gonna blow up and leave us behind it? And it
happens all the time. It happens all the time in Hollywood.
You blow up and then you get a whole new mate.
And then the person who held you down. You know,
this person ain't living in life that they should be living.
But you never know what goes on behind behind doors either.

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But and I told him, I said, I didn't know
I was supposed to be leaving you, right, you know,
I sent the years old. I ain't got time to
be starting noble, what the hell wrong with you? You You
know why my titters are uneasy? I got explained that
somebody knew and you. And what I love about the
Miss pat Shout is episodes became related. You had one
that was like botox and fillers. Right, there was a

(26:04):
Fillers party that you guys had and then you had
a bad reaction in the episode. But there is so
much pressure. Like I saw Tammy Roman when she was
on the Breakfast Club talking about like just looking at
herself and looking at and feeling like you're not perfect,
you know. I tell Timmy every day on say Timmy's
like she feels that like that Terman's the only child,

(26:25):
but she feels that void in my life where my
sisters on Craig and when I go to that seat,
it's like a family. And I still talk to Timmy
when she out doing her nine thousand all the Jaws
and when she when when I found out that she
had that that issue, and I told her, I said,
you beautiful. She said, well, I don't see what you see?
She said, I see fat. I said, if you fat,

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what the fuck am I? I must be a blip?
If you fat, well what am I? When I need
to go look at me mirror. We still laugh about

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it to this day, but I tell her all the time,
you know, you just never know what people are suffering through. Yeah,
And she's beautiful and I tell her that all the time.
I runningly take her, takes her, and she randomly takes me.
And I just tell I said, you're beautiful, right, yeah,
and I tell her stop sing them got them cigarettes?
You start? Yeah, but you know coke. Yeah, she's been coke, coke, coke. Yeah,

(27:40):
get started. Yes, right, you're right. But yeah, that was
a good episode with the fillers because I feel like
that's so popular now. I saw black China says she's
getting rid of hers. I saw who else was. It
was another actress who was saying that she regrets getting
all the fillers and things. Yeah, she got because you're
beautiful as you are. You know, you just allowed and
society to tell you what you need to look like,

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you know. I mean everybody should do things that's healthy
for them. I'm not saying don't go get thee little thing,
as long as you understand you know the consequence, don't
overdo it. Don't overdo it. They out here buying asses.
Let me tell y'all something, God don't make mistakes. Some
of y'all gotta be flat booted. Yeah, but ratting. Now,
everybody gotta ask. Even I was. I was in La

(28:24):
and I've seen the Korean people with ask and I'm like,
what is going on? It's always funny when you see
people who you would not think when you're just like, damn,
that person is that real? No? You know that mean
what you say? He's like that don't even happen in
that race. Ain't no asses in that community? Yeah, it's
what are you talking about? So you know, that's the

(28:46):
thing we did. We did that episode to say, you know,
you're beautiful the way you are, but with the whole
thing going on in society and everybody want to look alike.
Women just don't think they're beautiful. Black women buying lips
what the weak bowling lives right right? Were born? They
just pomping them up, pumping them up like it's mental

(29:07):
When yeah, when did all that happen? And I also
felt like sometimes putting foreign things in your body can
affect you mentally. It can. That's why I want use tampons.
I use a path. Yes, yeah, they will blow they
will blow up inside of yours. But they do say
sometimes tampons can make you bleed more. Yeah, yeah, so
that I will never I've never use them. Stop it.
I mean, and people just got to get back the

(29:29):
root of loving themselves. I just don't think people do
all that alongside. But that is not reading the comments right,
because that was part of the episode two. Because it's hard.
Sometimes people in the comments can say really harsh things.
Oh they've been talking about me all week they have, yes,
you know, co hosting over there. They're always talking shit,

(29:50):
but now you hear it. But then sometimes it's a lot.
I saw a lot of positive things because this is
what you do already. Anyway, Well, I can't take when
you can do what I do, then talk to me.
You can't do what I do. That's why you're on
the fucking phone type it. Well, I'm I'm arguing with
somebody who work at Starbull. Sorry what did I say?
Because I mean, look, it happens to me all the
time too, and I'm like, man, I don't want to

(30:11):
have to care about something I don't care about, exactly,
say like, I don't want to start caring about things
I don't care about. So you gotta be focused always.
And that's true too. But you know what people were
talking before the Internet was created, just down the phone
and it'd be like Glory Gee was down the street
at the church talking about you. She said, Joe ass state.
That's the same year. The only thing that we can
see the purse. Yeah, that's it. And then they can't

(30:32):
see us. We can't see that. It doesn't matter. People
are gonna talk. They talked about Jesus. They took a
lonely white man who came in here to say, y'all
soul and put him on the cross and left him
in the sun with no suntan lotion. This is an
evil damn world. If y'all put a white man on
the cross with no suntan lotion, I don't stand a chance. Well,

(30:53):
and look at least you got the mansion to go
kick it back in, so you damn right mansion built
from the ground. That fat what's your favorite room in
the mansion? I ain't no mansion. It's a house mansion.
Go ahead. I put a beauty salon in there. See
now I did pull a beauty slaw. I didn't. Don't

(31:13):
nobody have a beauty salon in the house mansion. I
put four laundry rooms in there. Okay, that's yeah, definitely enough.
But this is my design. This four laundry rooms because
there's three floors with an elevator, so the girls are
upstairs on the floor and my son is and I
built the podcast house to to do it sounds like

(31:34):
a lovely house. It is mansion. It's a lovely mansion.
Can we own the mansions? I'm on the red house
because if you say house, you won't spend as many taxes.
That matters, but out of me smart matching to get
you more tax Thank you so much for coming through. Honestly,

(31:56):
it is a pleasure to have you here always. You know,
every time I see you and I let you show
nothing but love it and I appreciate it each and
every time now because I love to see you win
all the time. So thank you. I want to go
see your thank you. And that's pat mastery of comedy.
Where yall where