The Morning After Pill

In this episode of “We Talk Back”, Tambam and AJ get into their S.I.N.S of the week and were joined by Kris Kaylin and Clay the host of “What Was Said” podcast. During the segment, Tammy tries to defend Drake (her boyfriend in her head) and his new diss track, Caitlyn Jenner's comments about O.J. Simpson and more. Next, they get into different discussions about relationships, sexuality, and personal experiences. They also touch on transactional sex and the stigma surrounding the LGBTQ+ community. Lets discuss in the socials below.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
and the Black Effect Network.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
to talks back.

Speaker 1 (00:16):
What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
new episode of We Talk Back and show dedicated to
you niggas and these bitches. This is your co hosts
a j.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
We have a guest to go back to niggas and bitches.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
I mean, she got these dreamers and Chaser or spoke Yo,
these niggas and you host my home got the leading, y'all.
We got some guests we talked about. Y'all know, I
am a fucking Charlestonian, okay, and I'm back at home

(00:50):
and I got let click on. We talked back. What
was said? Knowing y'all. Okay, you got play and Chris Kaylin,
the Princess of Charleston, so plaint look sh listen. You

(01:12):
know it's a group, it's a it's a nice couple
of groups of young black women and Charleston and I
love to look at them. Okay, I'll be on Instagram like,
hey girl, you're like that. I'm good. You ain't with
that nigga no more. Yea, also cute. They all lit,
they all got ship going on. These are my friends.
Okay y'all here.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
I was like, I'm flying to Charleston. Who who is bombed?
That we can get?

Speaker 4 (01:39):
I was like, right now, I got that text message
at work. I wanted to quit.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
That. You ain't got no money for your We got
chicken and watermelon, that's all. We got. More wine. The
wine is good.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
The wine is definitely good.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
And it's it.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
I don't got no money for y'all, but thank y'all
for coming. Really appreciate it.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
How was your weekend?

Speaker 4 (02:04):
Whoa you asking? When my man? I meant.

Speaker 5 (02:09):
Asking when my voice sounds like a man, So that
means it was like, great weekend I had when time?

Speaker 6 (02:15):
Now I'm had a weekend when you like look back
at the videos and you was like, I did that.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
Yes, it was a weekend full of tking smoking hookah.

Speaker 7 (02:24):
I don't smoke cuoca, but tequila.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Where'd y'all be doing? They wave more lit than meet.

Speaker 7 (02:30):
Y'all tora, So it was a festival.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
I missed that.

Speaker 7 (02:35):
It was Saturday.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
What would you do?

Speaker 7 (02:37):
You wasn't looking at in the loop. That's what it was.

Speaker 4 (02:39):
It's Okay, some time you have to excuse Nippy, I
call her Nippy.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
I'm sorry, but no.

Speaker 6 (02:46):
So they have doo doos, the money, some local artists
and it was just like an amazing festival downtown.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
So that is the Charleston Coachella. Okay, yes, no, it's Torah.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Because yeah, a mixed crowd is.

Speaker 6 (03:02):
Just black black black black black black, excellent black joy,
just black black food.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
You gotta dress, yes, you do.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
It's like real festival.

Speaker 6 (03:12):
Yes, and girl, because let me tell you something. These
shorts I had on, I was looking real think you
want to listen, and people can't believe it. I couldn't
believe in myself. That's why I keep looking at the picture.
But I was outside. Okay, you know, the girls.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Single very much.

Speaker 6 (03:30):
I got I'm trying to have five boyfriends TV, I
have five boyfriends. Well I'm trying to get five so
but I am staking a long none of your business man, all, well,
they're all my man, but you know I got you know, listen,
I'm literally I was like, I'm back outside this summer.
I am feeling myself. So I'm trying to collect these

(03:50):
niggas like infinity stones.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Why not.

Speaker 6 (03:55):
Wait now, you only probably pussy for wine and then
it's funny. I literally no, But I literally had this
conversation with one guy and I told him. I was like,
he was like, I like your vibe and I was like,
coolcause I don't want to have sex with.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
You, like, but this is my thing. What's wrong with pop?

Speaker 1 (04:09):
So we have a pussy.

Speaker 7 (04:13):
Rock condomn But still just having sex with five.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
People is a lie a lot of energy.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
I mean, is it per week?

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yo? A woman?

Speaker 4 (04:30):
He would be I'll be pregnant, but all my kids
going to d s s.

Speaker 8 (04:34):
All right, let's all right, let's start with Drake live,
baby's father.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
Everybody is just like on my baby father back, and
I just don't understand.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
What's going on.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
You are not drinks.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Everybody met, he met, everybody that's mad at him.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
He gave them a hit.

Speaker 7 (04:56):
He gave him a number one and that's what he
said in the song.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
And it's just so crazy that you know, you bite
the hand that feeds you. But let's get into it.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Drake feedt niggas.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
I hit up me if you number.

Speaker 4 (05:05):
One in their hand that Drake was feeding in that.

Speaker 2 (05:10):
When I put your number one in your hand, bars oh,
I forgot about that video with Drake.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
That video with Drake, Drake said.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
I forgot about that Drake video. Could forget. It was
kind of slim though it was long, but it was slim.

Speaker 4 (05:25):
It was It wasn't even completely hard.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Though lasted dick on Twitter is wild. It was very
much doable, right, none off, It's not hard. I mean
some people have big soft dick.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
Well that's your opinion, but skinned men don't, like they
don't do it for you don't. Yeah, yeah, you know
how I like white men.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
But still my niggas like very much. So that's my
man black.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
That's mental.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (05:58):
I just kind of feel like that thing with Drake,
like everyone wanted a chance to jump on him, and
it's just like when everybody know, like when everybody dog
polling on you, then it's fun.

Speaker 7 (06:05):
But it's just kind of like, that's why I think
it's happening right now.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
That shit happened to me on a vacation with some bitches.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
I went on.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
It's like when bitch got mad at me and then
all the bitch was like yeah, and then I.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Heard you, Yeah, that's what's going on with Drake. Yeah,
like abuse obviously all of them bitches about one uber Thurmy.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
So Drake posted a picture from one of my favorite movies,
Kill Bill.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
Did y'all see it? And it was like where he was.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
He was like, Umer Thurman was on her way to
get over in e she E and she was fighting
the Crazy eighty eight that's what they were called.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
I think that's her name. And he posted that picture
because it's all them people trying to get him.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
And then Uma Thurman was probably one of his cousins,
was like, you white, so.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
I don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
She was like you need this, you need this, and
it was the yellow racer outfit.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Dam.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
He was like, yeah, I need that because the pen
is the herd. Torri Hanso, Torri Hanso. Do you know
did you'all watch Kill Bill?

Speaker 1 (07:08):
I mean, no good? How could you have not seen
that video? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:14):
No, y'all need to go take some time and see
those movies one and Kill Bill two. That was a
beautiful reference.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
For this battle. Honestly, it really is.

Speaker 2 (07:24):
But the Kendrick Lamar the release that came out, they
say it's all AI, it's not real. So, but I
can't wait to hear what he has to say because
he's lyrical too, so he's gonna come with them bars now.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
Drake or Ken Gamar.

Speaker 7 (07:38):
I just can't believe they called bitch out.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
I'm kind of confused on why y'all.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
Are bitch out.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
That's wow, it's a rap battle?

Speaker 4 (07:45):
What literally like?

Speaker 3 (07:47):
But they did not his spirit?

Speaker 4 (07:49):
Oh please?

Speaker 5 (07:51):
When and when there's a rap battle, there's nothing on limits.

Speaker 7 (07:55):
Is it almost like when you when be something and
you want to delete a tweet?

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Is that that same thing?

Speaker 7 (08:00):
But you just you dropped the whole album.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
Have you ever done or said anything that didn't sit
right with you and you wanted to like just we
can't and make a mince.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
For Yeah, I did, but like you're a rapper. Let's
be very clear. And I said this last week Drake
and j Cole. Okay, they're raised by who white women
and they have hide their hands when somebody get on
that ass. Okay, I don't know this, not say that.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
Okay, you want to invite me to over your fest,
do it?

Speaker 3 (08:36):
I disagree with her.

Speaker 4 (08:37):
They said you are white.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
Actually, Rick Ross said he's white. Okay, Rick Ross had
three sixty lightels, so he needed to shut the fuck up.

Speaker 7 (08:50):
Actually it is on his ass.

Speaker 4 (08:52):
I'm sorry, but that's you, lady. I don't see she
is weight mascow.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
What does that mean, Clay, that's another episode.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
I don't even know what Rick Ross was upset about.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
I don't even know how he really got into it.
It does appear that they are are all teaming up
on Drake. We know Drake been number one for a
long time. For many years now, you know what I'm saying.
He done ran circles around people who are these people
raf a long time. But see there's a thing that's
not That's why I said earlier. Is he engineered?

Speaker 9 (09:22):
No?

Speaker 1 (09:23):
We know Drake is very much so talented. But is
he an actor like de Grassi acting as a rapper?
Is he costplaying a rapper?

Speaker 2 (09:31):
Rappers aren't cost playing though, if you're gonna be honest,
Like a lot of the things they say, they don't live.

Speaker 7 (09:37):
That Shiit same thing with Future, but there was like
he doesn't do any of the drugs.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
Yeah, but he raps about doing drugs.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
He created drug culture and rap in many ways, but
he don't do drugs, you know, So it's all they're entertainers.

Speaker 4 (09:49):
You call. None of them do drugs. I know future
doesn't he said it, really he doesn't.

Speaker 3 (09:54):
What do you call it? What's the one with the
little grass that looks you definitely do drugs? Kodat Black.
He looks good now, he looks better.

Speaker 6 (10:08):
Look thank you, yod looks good now. Okay, so you
would ride Kodak what backwards?

Speaker 4 (10:17):
You know that's giving you. Let me get back to
this topic. We'll see it.

Speaker 7 (10:24):
When you take them drugs out of his system.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
It's amazing what they can do for you.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
I mean, next topic.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Damn you.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
I like Kodak Black, Gemini, you know Gemini, but.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
He does look better.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Yeah, he looks healthy.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
He looks healthier.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Yeah, cosan not everybody or as a j I couldnot.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
I could not pay that extra money. He didn't want
to pay.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
That part why I feel like he's so funny. He's
so animated. He has like a personality. I love that,
like we can feel it with the screen because we're
not with them, you know.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
And I think he's cute.

Speaker 6 (11:02):
I've never watched and I don't think he's cute. I've
never watched any of his videos.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
So you cold look at the clips you think Kodak,
I think it looks better than Kodak looks.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
Really know you know what thinks?

Speaker 1 (11:15):
So long? Oh you tall? Well, you look taller than Kai.
I like your niggas. There's that you.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
Well, they say a lot about short niggas, So tell
us the truth is a.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Big baby big and tall at the same time. Maybe
excuse me, may be little and big at the same time.

Speaker 4 (11:32):
So in the word of Chris, the dick is really
giving baby arm.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
It's a tripod. It's sort of like this microphone stand. Oftentimes.
I don't like niggas over six foot.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
I'll back up with that.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
But if a nigga got on boneless boxers, then know
there must be inside things anyway.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
Boxes are on.

Speaker 7 (11:53):
Look at it just got out of jail.

Speaker 4 (11:54):
It's like the elastic is like the briefs. The boneless
they applied like the hospital.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
I call those.

Speaker 3 (12:01):
Bonus draws boneless draws.

Speaker 7 (12:04):
Boneless boxers.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Yo, sirbye, all right?

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Listen?

Speaker 2 (12:10):
Gynot was it with some tricking allegations Over the weekend,
a woman posted a photo online claiming that she slept
with Kai.

Speaker 3 (12:17):
A few years This is from a few years ago.

Speaker 1 (12:19):
I thought it was wow. I thought it was How
old is she and how old is he because he's
only twenty one and twenty two, now.

Speaker 3 (12:25):
Are you sure?

Speaker 1 (12:26):
Yeah? It was like three all right.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
Well, furthermore, she posted a screenshot of some messages in
which the twist streamer allegedly gave her five grand. So
I saw the allegations and was very quick to respond,
and he hopped on the stream and attempted to dismantle
some of the claims. In fact, he revealed his apple
Pant history and was able to prove that he never
set the woman five k allegedly. While she had proof
of the five k payment, it was allegedly from someone else.

(12:51):
Either way, there remains a bit of confusion as to
what really happened. However, Kay did admit to meet the woman.
After all, she does have pictures of them in bed,
which makes her side of the things hard to deny.

Speaker 1 (13:03):
So the young lady's name is Layla, and I believe
she has an onlyfan. She's a porn star. They kind
of linked up over some streaming shit that he'd be doing,
like you know, they were streaming together twitch there you go,
and they linked up. She was like, I wish she
was in Atlanta and somehow Yeah, but she showed proof

(13:23):
that He did pay her five thousand dollars times too,
but apparently he was supposed to pay her more and
he hadn't come through with the money, which is why
now she's putting out screenshots pictures of him laying up
on them tigle biddies looking like his son laying in
the bed with her, Like what the fuck?

Speaker 4 (13:40):
I just don't know why women like exposed men.

Speaker 7 (13:43):
I don't know why.

Speaker 4 (13:44):
I mean some porn stars why not.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
I don't know why you don't get paid up front?

Speaker 1 (13:53):
Where's my money? Like what's that?

Speaker 5 (13:54):
It's a job, so I would like a down payment
and then I expect you after you get that.

Speaker 4 (13:59):
Not getting my mother, No, I.

Speaker 2 (14:01):
Need all of it up front, paying after the nut
that's crazy your senses.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
Afterwards, Like right, I like how you do that? Like
you was wrong? You old?

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Mean as a matter, I don't like paying for nothing
after the fact that Like Klarna, I'll be like, but
you already wore that outfit.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
You know.

Speaker 4 (14:23):
Apple pay got it now too, so she could have
used Apple pants.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
That's why I can't with that Apple.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
No, but she could have done her payments and after
after pay Apple pay, if that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
After pay Apple pain.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
Yes, they have it. Now you can buy now, pay
later on Apple pay.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
Interesting. I never knew.

Speaker 3 (14:40):
I don't know if you could.

Speaker 4 (14:40):
Put pussy on there, you could send that five by
then that could be out there.

Speaker 1 (14:51):
Could you imagine lay away some pussy.

Speaker 4 (14:54):
Been lay some dick. You trying to tell me every two.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
Weeks, I don't pay.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
When if he paid you to give him some like
when he'd be like, okay, would.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
You accept, would you step where'd you accept after paid
for some couchie?

Speaker 3 (15:13):
No, you can't after pay me.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
For my pay it.

Speaker 4 (15:17):
You get the whole payment. It's on them now to
pay the rest rights.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
You all right?

Speaker 3 (15:21):
If you after pay me, after you pay, then we
can fuck complete. I'll pull up the fuck. That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
So he's saying he only gave her fifty dollars for Uber.
I watched, we watched this video. He's saying he ain't
paid her ship. He only paid her fifty dollars Uber,
and he like kind of puts some evidence up supposedly,
but I think her evidence is a little bit more convincing,
right because you're showing so people are saying, oh, well,
you can change the sin name and all this stuff,

(15:54):
and it'll show why was actually for what. I feel
like he did pay her the new your money and
then he didn't follow up with the rest. And then
she was also like, yeah, you don't want them to
know what she was paying me for and calling him
little Diddy. I wonder what.

Speaker 7 (16:11):
You know what a friend of mine? She went to
a Diddy party.

Speaker 6 (16:13):
She like when she was just like she said, security
came around and was like, you got to give us
your phones and she was like, That's when she left
because she was like, I don't know what the was
about to go down, but she was like security like
they came around with a cocaine platter. Needs a lot
of security, a cocaine platter. She was like, security is like,
you need to you don't need to give us your phone.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
You gotta leave, and she was like I left.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
I was like, I want to my story, no Diddy
allegedly whatever. I want to be like them r Kelly Survivors.

Speaker 1 (16:39):
What the fuck? She recorded multiple times on this podcast
saying how she would get on the yacht with Diddy.
I don't need to be next to, but they say
that Diddy into some ship, put the camera on me.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
God protects babies and pools.

Speaker 4 (16:58):
I also asked Diddy, what do you need?

Speaker 1 (17:01):
Kind can honeys? But would you be a part of
the freak off?

Speaker 4 (17:06):
What am I gonna do jack Off? I don't. I
don't do any of that.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
Well, I mean all the freak alls wasn't just remen Well,
I guess I was gonna put my legs for all
the players that was there.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
Do you think Saucy Santana was in there?

Speaker 3 (17:22):
I don't think you.

Speaker 2 (17:23):
I think.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
We've been sitting in Saucy Santana Saussy Santana videos.

Speaker 4 (17:31):
Sausty was there. I don't care what y'all say. Sausty
was there.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
If Miami was there, of course he was there.

Speaker 4 (17:37):
Was there?

Speaker 2 (17:37):
He says that if we're gonna move on before they cut,
they take our show off the air. Okay, o J Simpson,
everybody away from cancer, rf OJ.

Speaker 7 (17:48):
Rest in peace, o J. But did you see what
they said on Twitter?

Speaker 6 (17:51):
This Caitlyn Jenner was just kind of like good riddance,
and somebody responded to her was like your next missus
del fire.

Speaker 5 (17:58):
When o J was out, you orn't even Kaitlyn Jenner.
You were Bruce Let's story. So let's not talk about
something you don't know Bruce.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Now, y'all, remember she killed somebody in a car accident, Okay,
and she tweeted. I know y'all think it's cute to
compare a fatal car accident with multiple vehicles involved to
beat to a brutal murder. But remember OJ says something
to the effect of, I could kill her Nicole and
get away with it because I'm Oj Simpson. Girl. Shut

(18:28):
the fuck up.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
Wow, do y'all feel like Caitlyn Bruce has a right
to feel how she feels.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
No, no, no, it's not of their history.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
This is the nineties. They're all partying together. OJ is
fucking his wife, OJ is fucking the cold.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
No, but she was married to the Kardashian, the lawyer.
Initially she wasn't married to him yet. Yeah. So, so
the the rumor is is that Chloe is OJ's daughter,
and I mean supposed me, girl. He should have checked
on Chloe that I have a friend who has a
who has a daughter who who's biracial because her dad

(19:09):
is biracial and my friend is white and her daughter
looks like a white girl.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
But oh, J and biracial.

Speaker 1 (19:16):
Yeah, but sometimes like the jeans, right, that doesn't make sense.
But you don't want j to be Chloe daddy so bad?
That is that girl daddy?

Speaker 7 (19:25):
Her jeens might have been stronger. Well, she's not Rob Kardashian.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
She's not Rob order but really not.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
I don't know who's what I have to say.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
Oh, j came out of jail on my birthday. I
was born. My mom she was watching it in the hospital.
So I support old Jason.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
We don't give a fight at you that young. So
what okay, I'm like baby, No, Literally, it was just
such a big thing.

Speaker 6 (19:48):
I mean, I don't remember about the ojk's but I
don't know the thing about it. Like he really didn't
do I mean, I hate to be that person, but
he didn't do anything for the black community. It was
just kind of like everyone was happy he got off,
you know, allegedly killing two white people and getting off.
But it's like other than that, that nigga said, I'm
not black, I'm not white.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
I'm oj like.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
I feel like him, you feel I feel like that
you're sitting there black as I'd be.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Tired of these niggas.

Speaker 4 (20:10):
Understand that.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
Let me be honest, they actually am around.

Speaker 4 (20:14):
There's niggas and then there's black people. Right, So at
the end of the day, I'm black, but I do
have a little nigga.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
Let me tell y'all something.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
We gonna be black, and we're gonna be right back
after this commercial break. We'll be right back, all right, y'all.
So you know, I had to do some deep digging,
and I went and listened to y'all show, and I
listened to y'all what about your Friends episode talking about
friendship before y'all got into friendship, y'all talking about fucking

(20:43):
for free. Right. I was like, oh, sounds like a
topic for me. Right, So I wanted us to talk
about transactional sex, right, what does that look like? But
I also wanted us to start with our very first
time in our first time story, we're gonna get into
fucking for free.

Speaker 3 (21:04):
Well, first we just gonna talk about what like fucking.

Speaker 1 (21:07):
Period or sex period and what that was like. Some
of us it was a further back than no point
at me big, but they're gonna get it. We're gonna
start with y'all so she can try to remember. You
don't remember, I definitely remember my first Okay, let's be
very clear, I have an elephant memory.

Speaker 6 (21:28):
Okay, so my first time was actually with this guy.
We played t ball together growing up, so like news
that was three and you know, like at that time,
I thought like sex is gonna be like this amazing thing.
And then like it just happened so fast. I think
I was like sixteen, Sorry, mom, It was like it

(21:48):
was a summer.

Speaker 7 (21:50):
I was a summer.

Speaker 6 (21:50):
I was like, maybe uh, freshing our sophomore in high school,
and like after it happened, I was just like that's it.
So I did not have have sex again for like
until I got my actual like first boyfriend, and then
after that I was just like, oh, okay.

Speaker 1 (22:07):
This is fun.

Speaker 3 (22:08):
So wait, we need details, like where were you at
first time?

Speaker 6 (22:13):
I was at his grandmother's house upstairs in his room.
He said, what his gun am at the time, and
like we we take like we texted, made this whole plan,
like went over there you were going to do that? Yes,
I knew I was going to have sex, and I
think like it was just such a build up and
then like afterwards I was like that sex, Like damn that.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Did you shave yourcie first?

Speaker 2 (22:35):
I did?

Speaker 1 (22:35):
Because you're not the time.

Speaker 6 (22:36):
You know back then, you like your mind, like you're
supposed to be completely hairless, like a guy wanted to
be completely hairless and yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
So like.

Speaker 6 (22:49):
But yes, no childish, childish now I'm looking back at it.
But it was just like I don't know, like it
just happened so fast, y'all. Like I didn't want to
say five minutes, babe. Yeah, but like you it was
my first I didn't. Yeah, it was just I was
more of a like, dang, I lost my virginity. Okay,

(23:09):
so like I didn't know, like you know, even till now,
like as a woman, still learning things about myself, about
my body. But like I feel like sex didn't start
like feeling better until I got like older, because I
knew what I was doing.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
Yeah, so you can tell men like dang it.

Speaker 6 (23:27):
But you know what's crazy That same guy who took
my virginity after I was on the Breakfast Club the
second time, he texted me trying to talk to me,
and I'm like, no.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
Time, remember that time my house. I can'tnot stand. One
thing I can't stand is and I always be telling Tammy,
I got some goddamn uh h for uh M for h,
money for niggas, hi high and money because I cannot

(23:54):
stand when a blast in the past message you after
they seen you do something like, hey boy, you don't
know me? Oh you know another? No you know of me?
Nigga's gone.

Speaker 4 (24:05):
So you didn't answer a question, did you not?

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Or no?

Speaker 1 (24:07):
Like question our question?

Speaker 3 (24:11):
No, no, I don't know any woman that comes on her.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
I didn't have an orgasms.

Speaker 3 (24:16):
So you know, years later, until you.

Speaker 4 (24:18):
Realized I didn't know that women nuts for a long time,
like growing up, I didn't know that women nut. Like
I also didn't know that this ship either.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
No, wait, let's talk about your first time.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
Okay, what were you with the woman or with the
well we're gonna get into this one.

Speaker 3 (24:32):
Do you have two first time stories?

Speaker 4 (24:34):
So I have never tried a woman all of community.
So I am a strictly Dicky committee. I'm a member
of Strictly Dicky. So my first time I was seventeen
years old and I was on a hook up app. Mom,
it's the truth.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
He came over.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
I didn't know what I was doing because, like I
tell everyone, like, when you're gay, mama house, see where
you're going at, see.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Where she want to. So here's the thing.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
When you're gay, no one.

Speaker 5 (25:09):
Helps us raise like are raised to be gay, So
it's like who do I depend on and be like
let me call? So it's like I gotta learn on
my own. So granted, he was like, yeah, let's fuck,
and I.

Speaker 4 (25:21):
Said, let's do it.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Her bottom bothered.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
I was saying, like, I'm a verse bottom because I
like my ji, I like my dick to be touched
and like jack off.

Speaker 4 (25:38):
But it's like I do love like throwing it back,
like you know, Trina, like, look back, this nigga.

Speaker 1 (25:45):
Showed me a video. You want to actually throwing it
back of him.

Speaker 4 (25:51):
But I will say that the first time I was like, oh, ship,
this ship hurts, and if you're not doing it right,
it does hurt.

Speaker 5 (26:00):
It's gonna be like, uh, what the fuck is going on? Yeah,
And the first time I was like, oh my god,
I want to I catch something. We did use a condo,
but it pops, so when he pulled it out and
then we just like jack off together and my dad
mom just don't say.

Speaker 1 (26:15):
Shit, just don't listen.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
But yeah, so after that, you know, hook up apps
are like very big in the gay community.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
But it wasn't that Adam. For Adam, No, it was
Jack oh, I've never been on ADAM. For Adam, I
go on those websites and make sure, like I'm talking
to is on there. I'm looking for my man.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
So when you went on there with this person, did
you anticipate this all happening or it just kind.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
Of was like it was kind of like, wow, I
want to be gay, yo, gay er? You was already gay? No?

Speaker 4 (26:53):
No, no, no no, because you know, like I never
came out to anyone, so I think everyone assumed that
I was gay because y'all thought it.

Speaker 5 (26:59):
I told y'all, see what, y'all very sensitive. You know that,
you know that gay community sensitive. Yeah, but I never
told her I was gay. So I was just like, yeah,
I gotta hide this. And yeah, one day my mom
just asked.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
And I was like, you knew that.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
I always know.

Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, Mama is always always know.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
You know.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
One thing I can't stand about our.

Speaker 5 (27:19):
Community is that she was like, well, that's the story
for another day. But what happened was Trey Songs announced
that he was single on the radio. This is when
ninety three was really popping, and I was on my
way to elementary school and I said, oh my.

Speaker 1 (27:34):
God, it's my chance.

Speaker 4 (27:36):
And my mom was like.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
None, em, I.

Speaker 5 (27:41):
Just left it alone and I got out the car
that day with my red Samsung phone on my act like.

Speaker 4 (27:44):
I was playing Tetra whoever it is, it's my d
so ever since I've been a bad bitch.

Speaker 3 (27:56):
Where were you going to ask?

Speaker 2 (27:56):
Agent?

Speaker 1 (27:57):
No, I'm not gonna see's good. You never know who
we're inspiring on here. No, I was gonna say. What
I was going to say is that, you know, while
we're talking about the LGBTQ community, you know, black women
we get a lot of like hate from black men
for and they say it's encouraging the community, but it's
not encouraging. These are literally black women's children. These are

(28:20):
fucking kids exactly. So maybe you should check yourself a
little bit, because what's the problem. I'm not saying that
it is okay, and I'm not saying it's a problem.
Let people be who the fuck they are and accept
people for they are because guess what, gay niggas got
preference to. Just because somebody is gay doesn't mean they're
like yo ass yeah, Like they automatically think somebody want them,

(28:46):
like nigga, like you're broke. They may not want your
broke ass either we don't want you, they don't want.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
Over All, black mothers want their kids to be happy.

Speaker 1 (28:54):
That's that's it.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
Being gay.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
So just on gay levels. On the next episode, I'm
almost touching the never mind this.

Speaker 3 (29:08):
A comedian just said that that gay is not like
a light switch.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
Is not like on and off.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
It's like a light dimmer.

Speaker 4 (29:14):
It's like bright.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
It's like the rock or is I don't know.

Speaker 4 (29:19):
Being gay is hard. I don't care what nobody saying.
Being gay is hard. You want to know why. You
gotta make sure your hair is done. You gotta ma
sure your nails down. You gotta make sure that you're
doing the mother you're dusty, your hair is on me. Man,
you gotta make sure everything. And it just always has
to be like.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
There hej your first time, Oh my god, what is happening?
Like I don't look that was.

Speaker 4 (29:44):
Like a donkey.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
You're trembling.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
I remember the guy. I met this guy in the
hospital when my niece was born. I remember when I
met him right and when we had sex. He didn't
know I was a Because my performance has always been
you know you got here, yes, okay, equestrian. You know

(30:10):
you know I've always been you don't tell him. No,
I didn't tell him. But like the next day, like,
I'm using the bathroom. You I'm young. You don't know
what the fuck is going on. You think you're grown.
And I'm using the restroom and the pea isn't coming out.
It's a whole condom stuck in me for a day,
and so I'm texting, like not texting at the time,

(30:31):
I'm calling, like did you lose something You weren't gonna
tell me. Oh, so I just cried. And then the
boyfriend I had at the time, like my neighborhood boy No, no,
you didn't know. Don't the game if I ever the

(30:53):
guy like my neighborhood boyfriend. You know, everybody got their
neighborhood boyfriend, Like y'all have.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
A neighborhood boyfriend.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
Never heard the term in my life. This was my nigga.
We had never had sex neighborhood boyfriend. No, we never did.
We would kiss and hugging stuff, but we would never
sex before uh. He he was like, I had a
hicky on my neck. All type of ship was going on.
He can on Mom's my mama house. I had a

(31:21):
hippy iky on my neck. He was talking to me
so crazy, like you a stupid bitch, like you let
him do such and sex that you like really making
me feel terrible. Oh while I got a balloon coming
out of my kouchie, just not knowing nothing. This is
this is my dumb bitch story for the fucking episode.

Speaker 4 (31:38):
Was so dumb.

Speaker 5 (31:39):
You are really dumb.

Speaker 1 (31:41):
Horrible story. Look maybe about I want to say, maybe
years later. Now at this point, I might be in
my late twenties. My mom just got rid of her
house phone number. She has a housephone now, but the
phone number just got changed. So imagine you have the
same housephone number your whole life. So this person called

(32:02):
my house phone looking for me. But I heard he
was a crackhead person. No he wasn't, no, no, no,
he was a teenager at the time. But he's a crackhead. Now, wow,
what a way that in your first time. I'll see
what I do the niggas I made him smoke crack.

Speaker 4 (32:22):
Okay, So what you're seeing over there is you have
soilk city.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
I don't even know where to, I don't even know
what my story. Jesus may be chasing that high. Okay,
such as a j crack, Yes, that's a good thing
or crackish the first episode.

Speaker 4 (32:48):
Of housh would you let him like sniff the crack
off of it?

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Of course?

Speaker 3 (32:57):
So my first time story it sounds like something out
of it, like a GD Bloom book.

Speaker 1 (33:01):
Honestly, Oh.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
No, no, no, not that GD Bloom. So my boyfriend
and we were in high school. He was the quarterback.
I was in cheerlead. His parents were out of town.
So it was our homecoming game. So we went to
his house after the game.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
We did not win. It would have been a better
story if we won the game, but we not.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
Really we were kids. We were like seventeen.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
And like. So he had this big ass house and
he was like, wait outside, and it was so dark outside.
I remember like waiting outside like thinking, I'm like, oh
my god, I'm scared out here. And then finally when
he brought me in. He took me to his room
and he had all these little t light candles lit
all over.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
Look, he had like he had Laurence.

Speaker 3 (33:52):
Hill playing all right.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
He took my virginity. It was like really sweet.

Speaker 5 (33:58):
That was my first love question, like when he first
slipped it in, like did you make the like the
love basketball?

Speaker 3 (34:05):
I definitely, I definitely did.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
I remember feeling like this is so different, this feels
it's not unusual, this feels weird, you know. I remember
feeling like that. But it was very special though.

Speaker 4 (34:19):
It was one of those.

Speaker 3 (34:23):
No I think he like working a tobooth for something.

Speaker 4 (34:26):
Now, like.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
Yo, like I said, middle fingers, our old life. But
he was he was our quarterback then.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
I used to wear his letterman jackets like.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
He was that nigga.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
Then his brother was in the NFL, so he got
him a little Mercedes school like me and like man
like man, but then he didn't do well in high school.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
Right, same?

Speaker 3 (34:54):
All right, So we talked about our first time.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
Now we're going to talk about your first time with
the new partner as an adult, like how does that look?

Speaker 1 (35:04):
And the day we don't had a lot of first
time since the first time.

Speaker 2 (35:07):
Okay, exactly that first time? No, no, no, not the
best first time? Like all right, have you ever had
sex with a new partner?

Speaker 3 (35:13):
And like the day after you're coming, like do I
still like him or.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Maybe we shouldn't, Just like I'm waiting on him to
call me, and I like, what does that look like
for y'all? Is that like a different experience or like, AJ,
what do you think.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
I like the build up to first sex, Like I
watched I saw this this video Instagram one time and
the lady was like, you know, to get that feeling
because it's a different feeling when you have sex with
somebody the first time, like the build up to it,
and they really can make a breaker relationships sometimes, like
you could be really into this person until I have sex.

Speaker 6 (35:56):
I've ghosted after sex. I don't know, but y'all, but
I would definitely need that person a game. No, not
if the sex is not good. Okay, I tell clear this.
Do you tell men if their dick isn't good?

Speaker 1 (36:08):
Or yes? It's our folks that men think they be
throwing it all.

Speaker 7 (36:12):
You need to stop saying that because you're.

Speaker 2 (36:15):
Not a man.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
I would not like if guys talk about y'all pussy.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
But I never had that problem. That wouldn't all like.

Speaker 6 (36:23):
That?

Speaker 1 (36:24):
Would you smell like fish? Have you ever smelled the
couchie before?

Speaker 4 (36:29):
I mean it's been very fresh the ones I have smell.

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Let's just listen. I need to hear the story why
you were smelling coucie and you don't want no cuchie.

Speaker 5 (36:38):
Well, first of all, I hang with a lot of girls,
and it was just like, oh, like, why did your
pussy let roast beef?

Speaker 3 (36:44):
All right, I can't win.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
Because all labis are not created equally, Okay, everybody is different.
Say when you got pencil dicks, you got crooked heads,
you got like people got to messed up. Circumcision also
should be going on with min and e penises. We
don't be putting that stuff out.

Speaker 5 (37:03):
So then why would y'all talk about something y'all don't
like meant for other people to talk about.

Speaker 7 (37:07):
Y'all know, if you're not mind with a small dick,
you're's not gonna fuck me again.

Speaker 1 (37:11):
That's the thing.

Speaker 4 (37:12):
When you see that the dick is small, before that
you should say get out. I meant out, No, it's
a coom Please state because like this is a little explicit.
But I have a big dick.

Speaker 6 (37:26):
Ye.

Speaker 4 (37:28):
But at the same time, it's just like I'm gay,
so I don't really talk like I do talk.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
But oh that did did going away? It goes somewhere, yo,
I cannot die, I can anyway.

Speaker 6 (37:44):
I was talking to this guy and like the this
is all khalifault and we just want to go to here.
He's like, oh, you should talk to him. You should
talk to him. The guy would bring a podcast all
type of shit. So build up was there.

Speaker 7 (37:57):
The fore play was great, but then when he stuck
it in, I'm just like, where's the rest?

Speaker 9 (38:02):
Like it was just not like in an episode like that,
and it's just like it was cool, but it's like
pressure man, legion, right, and that's the thing, so like
you're gonna have big dick and I gotta work, yes,
Like it's a lot of pressure, like and he was like.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
You know, he was working there, but for me, it
just wasn't enough.

Speaker 6 (38:21):
So like when I was leaving his house, I was like,
you know, I like him, like he has a lot
of great qualities, but I don't know if I can
just satify like yeah, And then he ended up pissing
me off anyway, so.

Speaker 4 (38:30):
He's able easy to cut him off. Was when he
told you to turn on the light and look at it.
So I think I was amazing, what'd you do?

Speaker 3 (38:45):
You looked at it? And he said.

Speaker 1 (38:49):
I knew it was never happening again. I just wanted
to be in the dark, baby, like what it was
the light going to do? Illuminated, like what do you
want me to say?

Speaker 4 (39:01):
No, y'all don't like when men are like verbal and bed.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
I love them verbal, but not like that. Don't be
acting like you're dick big and it's not. Don't be
doing me like that.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
Now.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
You forced me to tell you the truth.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
Because if I like you, I'll make you feel like
it's big you.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
You get mad like that little dick. As soon did
she get mad, she's telling the truth. If you share it,
I'd be like, I know you ain't sharing my little
bigg out like, don't like or nerve if you'd embarrass us.
Shrimp you right? It is rough being a man. Okay,

(39:46):
I want y'all niggas.

Speaker 4 (39:49):
All I have to say is I think that y'all
should ask for dicks.

Speaker 1 (39:53):
I don't like. I always say that self what.

Speaker 4 (39:56):
I'm gonna get myself in cell phone.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
Save lives because I definitely will ask for I don't
like unsolicited cock shots, but yeah, send me a cock shots.
I can see because once I already got on the mind,
I seemed low visual. So you sing as nice? I
want to yeah, jack off, but them picture some niggas
be knowing how to catch the angles. Though, so them
shit could be misleaddence. I like being put it next

(40:19):
to a remote because I like to build rapport and
like the guy. First, that's my downfall.

Speaker 7 (40:25):
I was like, I like to like them, and then
like when I see it as like, oh fuck, that
is unfortunate.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
Yeah, but you've never already said you never liked the
guy and had sex with him and then like liked
him still even though the penis wasn't.

Speaker 6 (40:39):
I tried, but it just didn't work because he wasn't
stretching that ith. He was gone, And you know what,
I put my rolls down. I am too much strong
without my rolls, so I just had to That's.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Why I stopped. I say that I threw mine in trash.
I threw my roles in trash.

Speaker 7 (40:56):
I stopped it hits, so.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
I don't have no man.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
I threw min It's been so long, alright, So it's
been some long since you've been gone. Oh wait, I
got some more and that's it's a coming home.

Speaker 4 (41:17):
It's been long for you, oh very long for me.
So what have you been doing for It's very long?

Speaker 1 (41:22):
Twenty twenty three now you and smashed in twenty twenty three.

Speaker 7 (41:26):
You're just kidding because I was still a bit this
is April.

Speaker 4 (41:29):
Yeah, it's a lot like oh my god, to be
multiple not multiple, but like I.

Speaker 2 (41:36):
Just want I need like something real. I need a real,
super solid connection with someone.

Speaker 1 (41:42):
No, that's how I felt to wait.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
So it's just in the crock pot summary.

Speaker 7 (41:45):
Yeah, I wasn't.

Speaker 6 (41:46):
I'm not having casual sex anymore. I'm like, if I'm
fucking with you, then that's and that's why it was
kind of.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
I think that's most women, right. I don't like I
can't do casual sex, but yeah, some women are just
I don't. That's their job though.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Imagine a woman who's been like married for ten years
and then get a divorce. She outside, you know, trying
the waters out and doing all the things.

Speaker 3 (42:09):
But me, I've been doing all the things.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
I'm ready to doing.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
I'm ready to like we ain't miss a beat.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
Now that niggas would listen to that, like she's a
whole you know, Like that's not.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
What I meant. I don't.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
I just been single, you know, I've been Huh.

Speaker 4 (42:25):
Sometimes I don't believe that women can be horse y'all,
just like dick, what's wrong with that?

Speaker 1 (42:30):
Thank you, friend, thank you for understanding wrong with that?

Speaker 4 (42:33):
Are you sucking it? What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (42:36):
I feel like in my twenties I was more sexually active.
Like in my thirties, and you slow down a whole lot.

Speaker 4 (42:44):
I feel like, well, I just turned thirty in October,
but I don't know.

Speaker 6 (42:47):
I just feel like I feel like I'm more comfortable
with my body and like, I know how I like
to have sex. I know what, I know what I
like my body, and I'm like verbal now, so it's
just kind of like if I don't like something, I'm
just not gonna go along with it.

Speaker 7 (42:59):
So I don't know this. We're confident myself. So now
I like sex well, I mean I always like that,
but like it more now.

Speaker 3 (43:04):
The older I've got, absolutely you're going to continue to
like it more.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Listen, have y'all ever had sex with someone and I
told him why the sex wasn't good and how it
could be better.

Speaker 4 (43:15):
I need to get to that.

Speaker 7 (43:16):
I'm not that grown yet. This guy that I dealt with,
he was like, the sex was great, but he's just
not verbal, and I want him to be verbal.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
Like, I don't know how, I don't know. I can't
stand in somebody quieter, like you got to say something.

Speaker 4 (43:28):
What's your favorite line?

Speaker 1 (43:30):
A line?

Speaker 4 (43:31):
I don't know, it has to be a favorite line.

Speaker 7 (43:34):
Like good girl. If I hear a good girl, it's over.

Speaker 4 (43:36):
Good girl.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
Girl.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
My favorite line is you're writ and your light bill paid.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
I don't know if I got a favorite line. I
don't think. That's the only time I like get nominated, though.
Don't boss me around any other time I bullied me.

Speaker 4 (44:06):
Shit, yes I am.

Speaker 3 (44:10):
Not the sol you're doing that. Shit, Yes I am.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
You're saying, do you feel like women, especially in younger women,
do you feel like in today's society, all right, me
and AJ's age, you have sex.

Speaker 3 (44:26):
With someone, you have like a super emotional connection right away.

Speaker 2 (44:29):
Do you feel like the women now are just more
like men, where they casual casual sex more and just
be okay with it.

Speaker 6 (44:36):
I think so, Like I don't know, I feel like
casual sex is just like a thing, and that's how
I'm like, Uh, for me, I just wanted like more
of a connection, like I'm just not trying to be
fucking just to be fucking. But like, I don't know,
I feel like women are treating things like mini's d's
the way they're approaching.

Speaker 7 (44:51):
It like if you're gonna talk to me, I'm gonna
talk to you.

Speaker 4 (44:53):
If you're gonna have a bunch of bitches, i'ma have a.

Speaker 7 (44:54):
Bunch of niggas.

Speaker 6 (44:55):
So it's almost like a competition type thing. So I
feel like, deep down just as women like we know, like.

Speaker 7 (44:59):
We want something to nurture, to have to make hours.

Speaker 6 (45:02):
But it's like I feel like you're going with like
society and then like your actual logic and what you
want to do.

Speaker 4 (45:08):
So it's almost like a battle.

Speaker 1 (45:09):
So like even when Sexy Ray with the song fuck
my Baby Dad, like you don't mean that you don't
want to have a whole human with somebody else and
not be with them. So I feel like a younger
generation yet it got all these fun these nigga songs
and all that, but deep down inside, like a real
woman wants to be loved. You want that connection with
with whoever you're giving your body to. So I feel
like it's like a trauma response when you because we

(45:32):
was on the Whole podcast earlier on and we talked
back and I said that howen does not fucking heal,
because it doesn't if you're going through a bunch of bullshit.
Just laying up with anybody is not going to make
you feel good about you. So if that's what you're using.

Speaker 4 (45:48):
No disagree. You want to know why I disagree.

Speaker 5 (45:50):
I feel like hoeng is allowed with women to know
what they want and the next man or their following
man that they want like next.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
So if he's not going hoeing is just having sex,
Clay getting.

Speaker 4 (46:03):
To know can get money.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
But you're having horror, having horror absolutely, but you're not
getting to know anybody out here.

Speaker 4 (46:12):
Y'all just wanted to sound bad. There's nothing wrong with
being a little.

Speaker 7 (46:17):
Girl who was hoeing instead of healing, and she's so
angry she has.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
Mental health issues on her own that she needs to
heal on herself.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
That's what we're saying. If you already got some ship
going on, everybody, you're just letting a bunch of people
get on top of you. It's not gonna fix with
some that's some people's outlet, you know what I'm saying.
When when it becomes an outlet for whatever you've got
going on internally is not going to help. Okay, So
y'all can say, y'all, what happened? Yeah, niggas. It's not

(46:57):
the fucking addy over here. It's empty fitting all over
hell that is unhinged, not she calling up her legs.

Speaker 2 (47:12):
Dumb bitch story, so because we've all been a dumb
bitch at least once or twice.

Speaker 3 (47:18):
Alright, So y'all, we had this setting.

Speaker 2 (47:20):
On our show called Dumbitch Story or some series, and
that's where you share a time where you got played
by the opposite.

Speaker 5 (47:27):
Oh my god, shit, the all you want to go first,
go first? Because actually I just went back.

Speaker 1 (47:38):
It's okay, I support you either.

Speaker 4 (47:40):
So let me tell you basically, I'm gonna make it short.

Speaker 5 (47:43):
My dar man cut me off because he said he
was going to propose to his girlfriend, and I said,
what am I supposed to do?

Speaker 4 (47:50):
He was consistent, So long story short, time.

Speaker 7 (47:55):
Came back around and he texted me and I um
blocked him.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
And gays to her yet, but you know I checked
that Facebook. You can't hide nigga, yo.

Speaker 7 (48:13):
They won't block you from a post mouth open.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
Now.

Speaker 5 (48:19):
We have hooked up three times already since the block
supposed proposal. But I told myself, you know, going into
the summer, I think I'm going to slowly leave him.
Alone because they culture it gets like born unless they're
like real good.

Speaker 4 (48:35):
He was real good, but now it's just like you
left me.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
N Yo, mouth's open, scary your head like I don't
lie up said to know that.

Speaker 3 (48:49):
My man is cheating, but also cheating.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
With a man with a bottom man.

Speaker 2 (48:53):
Oh, let me ask this right, quid before with a
big cheating with a man with a big dig bigger
than yours.

Speaker 1 (48:59):
Like what in the world. I know you're on a
stupid bit dumb bitch stories, but as a gay man,
do you think that men should tell women if they've
been with a man or not at a point in
your life. No, that is a fucking fight, dog.

Speaker 4 (49:15):
Let me tell you why.

Speaker 5 (49:18):
Sometimes you have to forgive people and understand that people
go through things and then they probably heal from it.
So some men, a lot of men that y'all don't know,
have been touched, so they like to use that and
I'm sorry that storyline of yeah, I was touched while
I was little, so this is what I did. Not
all gay men were touched, So I don't like when
everybody say that. But then it's just like want to
they heal from it. However, once you had bussy. You

(49:42):
will always have bussy.

Speaker 1 (49:43):
No, no, I'm not talking about Okay, so that is
not like I can't even get into it. I'm not
talking about like a child as a child. I'm talking
about like, say, for instance, you're a you're in college,
and you fucked on a couple guys. Oh got you
dig suck a couple of guys, and now here it
is you're getting married. But if the woman asks you

(50:04):
and you neglect to tell her, that is being deceitful
as far as I'm concerned, because I need to know,
because I feel like that is a particular mindset, right.

Speaker 4 (50:13):
But why are you already going in with that mindset?
I mean men? Why women lie too? What were you
doing too?

Speaker 1 (50:19):
You get fucking men?

Speaker 4 (50:21):
But here's my thing. I fuck your daddy. He wants
to go past and Parama is getting you a dick
suck in college. Honestly, sometimes don't even feel like that's gay.

Speaker 1 (50:33):
What oh god, look we'll get a mad fuck Okay, yeah, okay,
never mind, that's a different conversation.

Speaker 4 (50:42):
Bring me back later.

Speaker 1 (50:46):
Listen.

Speaker 2 (50:48):
I get what Clay saying a little bit because as
much in the black community, like you can't come back,
you know women are not women can women can show
you a whole I was with seventeen bitches in college,
and I'm gonna show you a highlight.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
But a man, he doesn't have that option. He can't
come back to women and be in.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
With open arms.

Speaker 7 (51:12):
In a white community, he could, but.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
Yeah, in a black community, women are not going to
accept him bad.

Speaker 4 (51:16):
This is my thing. Have y'all been with girls? And
are y'all wanting y'all because one your man said? I
don't want to deal with that. I never been with
a girl.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I've never been with a woman.

Speaker 4 (51:24):
I feel like women are bisexual.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
Look right here, Like I feel like that's straight.

Speaker 3 (51:35):
I'm very much straight.

Speaker 5 (51:36):
See but I feel like if you were really with women,
you would like the studs, windn't you because you're like
a pretty bitch?

Speaker 1 (51:43):
No, you like girly girls. I don't. I would never
like the study.

Speaker 7 (51:46):
I don't understand why I need masculinely like like I
will never state.

Speaker 6 (51:51):
In the other study like I might as well get
a man. This is how I feel you get stars
bothered me. I would never funk with him, like you're
a bitch.

Speaker 4 (52:01):
I could be a bitch.

Speaker 6 (52:02):
I just I really don't like get what it stalks,
but why you got a fat ass and you gay?
Like why are you a haircut like the man, but
you got these big titties and a fat ass?

Speaker 2 (52:15):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (52:16):
A fot cool? If I were a lesbian, I would
want a woman. Yes, I would be what a feminine woman?
Because what's the point of having a never mind? Okay, y'all, I.

Speaker 3 (52:30):
Used to like young and though I used to think, like,
you're just missing the end. Y'all, tell everybody where they can.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
Dumblin story.

Speaker 3 (52:48):
Oh yeah, you haven't told your real.

Speaker 1 (52:50):
Quick so I'm gonna tell my dumb story.

Speaker 6 (52:53):
I was talking to this guy and like I cut
him off because he was just not a good person.
Like it was like anig the nigga lied about his
grandmama falling and he I'm a maid live on his grandmama.
He's a cycle path, right, so he never wanted to
go out. I always had excuse me now going out.
So cut him off because I'm like, nigga, no, so
stop talking to him. Two weeks later, he shows up
to Jamaica with his girlfriend, so the dumbitch store didn't

(53:14):
come yet.

Speaker 7 (53:15):
Him and his girlfriend broke up. He swings the block
in December and here I am. I'm like, sure, come back.

Speaker 4 (53:23):
Why not, dumb bitch, dump bitch.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
She had to end of the day like.

Speaker 6 (53:27):
Listen you the princess and Charleston wave, come on back.
So after that, I was like, no, be a smart bitch.
Stop talking to him Stan on business. So I was like,
you're gonna be a smart bitch.

Speaker 1 (53:37):
And you can still business. Eat your pussy.

Speaker 7 (53:41):
After he did that, after he ate my ass, I
still business.

Speaker 4 (53:44):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
So then I went to this event, y'all.

Speaker 6 (53:48):
As soon as I like walked up to the red carpet,
why was he on the red carpet with his girlfriend?
The nigga held his phone in front of his face
as if he could not see me, as if the
phone made him invisible, like a little use an.

Speaker 1 (54:01):
iPhone as a.

Speaker 7 (54:05):
Son who could call on my forehead.

Speaker 6 (54:08):
And I walked up to him and I was like, well, hey,
and that nigga didknock get me the eye called that.
He was like hey, Chris, and he left and I
was like, you know what, So that was my dumbite story.
Don't never let that nigga spind a block.

Speaker 7 (54:18):
That was yeah, because he's still a terrible person.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
Yeah I did. Yeah, we be knowing. That's the thing.
We be knowing. We be knowing. It's a y'all, it's
okay to be a dumb bitch. Sometimes that's just don't
be an habitual dumb bitch. Okay, that's okay. We love y'all.
If you like it, I love you so much.

Speaker 4 (54:43):
People even about you, about women in general.

Speaker 3 (54:45):
Okay, whatever, Where they can find you, where they can
listen to your show, all your things, please plug it.

Speaker 4 (54:51):
You go first, Okay, boom. So I'm Clay. You can
find me a diary of understore Clay on Instagram, Snapchat, No,
I Lied, Instagram, TikTok and Twitter or x. And you
can find me on Snapchat at Clay with four Wives
three Its.

Speaker 6 (55:10):
Your girl, Chris Kaylen, the Princess at Charleston. You can
follow me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok at Chris Kaylin, Twitter,
The Underscore Chris Kayln, Chris forher k k R I
s k A.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
Y l I N.

Speaker 7 (55:20):
We gotta do it.

Speaker 4 (55:21):
And then you can find both of us at I'm Clay,
I'm Chris Kaylen.

Speaker 1 (55:25):
And this is the What What Said? Podcast? And what
was said? All right, We love y'all so much. Thank y'all.
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(55:45):
AJ Holiday. You're Greade a Bay kick It tam I.

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Speaker 1 (55:53):
And never hold your peace. Bye bye, rye