March 12, 2025 • 28 mins
Jana and Allan are in the hot seat with a spicy round of Q&A!
They agreed to answer ANYTHING about topics like how they met, how they fight, and what their sex life is like. Nothing is off the table!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.
This week's Adult Education, we are having a redo on
Q and A because well, A, we don't have a guest,
and so we thought it would be fun to do
a redo of Q and A because the last time
Alan was a little not in truth. Now, you weren't
(00:25):
loving the questions true or false?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah, for different reasons. I mean, someone are about soft
and fluffy, aren't they? And then some of them were
just you should appreciate my hair, young lady, you're married
the bowl geier about how long.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Some of them were.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Some of them were about soft and fluffy, and others
were just a little bit strangely.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Do you go through counseling?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That's a normal question. Okay, So here we go, Hannah,
Hannah enerjecked my love Alan.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I went to the followers and I was like, listen,
Alan wants the intrusive questions, and they delivered.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
You're ready, they did, so I hope you're ready.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
The jan the jan at there jamites little fans.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay, Hannah, do you want to ask us the questions?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
We'll start easy, we'll start using Okay, Abigail is asking
is another baby still on the table for you, guys.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
No, why was that so definitive?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Because we've we've discussed the reality of it and actual
there's the there's a thought of it and how great
it would be, and then the reality of it, which.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Is what's the reality how great it would be?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
The reality is you're pregnant for nine months, which is
tough for you.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I feel like when you say that, you make it
about you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Because I know you went through it was it was
you were so brave and strong, but it was really
tough for you. There was a lot of anxiety around
it because of things that could go wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
And look how great it went.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
MM.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I think we should be grateful for how great that
one went. I don't think we should maybe in atle.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Discussion, what's the percentage for you, like if you had
to percentage it out, what is the percentage for another baby?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Seventy thirty?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Oh, so you're saying there's good. That's like way better
than I thought you were going to say. I thought
you were going to say like ninety nine to one.
You know what I would like to do? If I
truly what I would like to do? Are you ready
for it?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
If it's something that you've floated before, and then I'm
pretty play it on my answer to it.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No, we're not going to do surrogacy. Yeah, I understand,
I'd like to, but you don't want to. But what
if we try for three months and if it doesn't happen.
We tried it, and we tried it, We tried that,
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and then okay when we stop if it was it
wasn't meant to be.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't think we need to try for long.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Why you just think you have super sperm?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yeah? I was.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
I'm fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Are you really?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah? Next question, all the discussions all right?
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Another easy one. Would you guys ever move to Scotland?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
No?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Wow, you were so quick? Why why in this area?
Are you quick? In life and everywhere else? It's like
a sloth.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Because when something's clear in my mind, they will foist
that without without having to deliyate. I walk slowly, yes, granted,
I do things other things slowly because I need to
think about them so I can come back with solutions
of proper answers.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
What about the lady that's like five minutes with her
hand with the coffee out the window, I'm like, Alan,
please grab the coffee from the Starbucks window and it's
like this one.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
And then she's actually called me a sloth before.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yes, I've also videoed one in the zoo and said
he's in his natural habitat. I would love my own.
I would love a condo one day in Scotland. Why
your parents maybe are getting older.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
M hm.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
And maybe we could spend summers out there and then
airbnb it or something like that.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
That's totally different from would you live in Scotland.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
That's living in Scotland, not.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
That's having a holiday home in Scotland.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Okay, okay, okay, here's the only here's the only time
I go back in eleven Scotland.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
If I got offered the Rangeers job, oh.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, which we talked about, He's like, listen, if that
opportunity ever gets He's like, we need to move to Scotland.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I'm coming.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Well I would need to too, because that would be really
hard to live eleven months away from each other for
eleven months.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Of course, absolutely you would be there, So yes, we
would live in Scotland, if.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
If, and only if he coaches for the Rangers.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
If I got the Rangelers job, however, a holiday home
in Scotland then the absolutely one hundred percent. I would
think about that because it's beautiful. It is in the summer.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Next question, okay, Alan, what is the first thing you
noticed about Jianna that made you want to slide into
her DMS?
Speaker 5 (05:50):
And also when was the first time you googled her?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Good question, don't lie because I still don't think you tell.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
It ignoring that outside noise and trying to focus on
your question. So the question was what was the first
thing I noticed about her?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Yeah? What did you? What did you notice about her
that made you slide into her?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
DMS plus smile one hundred percent, always say the same
thing one million percent.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
The second question was what when was the first time
you googled her?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Did you google me before you DMed me or after
you dm me?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
After?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And when I googled, I didn't do like a a
Google proper Google search like deep search, so I don't
know when timeframes after a dmder but I did. I
did obviously google you, but not didn't dive into like
a deep investigation of your past or who you were interested.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
I think I've always said I don't give a shit
about your past.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I know on our first date, did you did you
know how many times I was married.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I think I think i'd probably seen I had Lenya.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And it didn't bother you.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
No, not, So everyone makes mistakes, mistakes of me. Here's
my language.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Next question, Okay, Jenna, you mentioned it was hard for
you to talk about sex with Mike. Is it different
with Alan?
Speaker 1 (07:24):
He like, it's light years different. I actually have a
husband that wants to have sex with me and not
other women. So it is the most refreshing thing in
the world to feel. To feel wanted, to feel sexy.
I did. I felt like the most. I felt like
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the ugliest, un sexiest woman. In my last marriage, he
never wanted to have sex with me. He never touched me,
he never like it. It was like pulling teeth to
have any sort of affection. This man can not keep
his hands off of me. He loves having sex with me.
He makes me feel so beautiful and sexy and wanted,
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and it is a it's just a it's completely different experience,
so much so that I feel like all the things
that I had felt in my last marriage and the
things that he would say about me, And how you know,
if I only wore this or if I didn't just
wear t shirts to bed, Like, no matter what I wear,
you always make me feel sexy. And but for a
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while I didn't feel that way. But spending obviously, and
you know the things that you say to me, I'm like, no,
he actually like or things with like you don't make
comments like sometimes I okay, I had in my old
clothing line that bombed Jolie and Jace. I still wear
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just those long sleep shirts because they're so comfortable. They
were overly priced and that was a bad call, bad distributors, whatever,
But I still wear those long over what and they're like,
it's like a granny dress. I could just left off,
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but it's so comfortable, and like, you make me feel
sexy in that?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Does you look sexy? And Everson.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
And I just have never had that, so it is
light years different. It's a totally different experience. I actually
have a end within that sexualness of it. We enjoy
it and it works, if you know what I mean.
It all works.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
All right.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
This leads listen to our next question. No, yeah, but
it's coming. Who wants to have sex more?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I disagree. I think we equally equally want to have sex.
Like there's times when I'm more aggressive in the area,
but mostly yeah, sure you, But I think it's pretty equal.
It's not like I'm just like, oh okay.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Few he wants it again. Yeah, I think there's a
good balance within it. Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Here's your position question, Alan, what's more intrusive? What's your
favorite position? To feel the most connected to one another?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Ah, to feel the most connected? I would say normal,
missionary because we can lock eyes.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Did you just wink at me? I would have to agree.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Yeah. I think when I'm in pop of Jannah, because
then we can we can look at each other.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yes, I'm getting like goosies.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
You can see my face.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yeah, I think general, massionary posession because then we can
see each other.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah. And kissy kiss Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Johnah loves not journals. We love kissing each other. But
she kisses me so hard that I get no.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
He has very sensitive lips.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
A little thing in my lip like a bruise.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Next question, Okay, where is the wildest place or strangest place.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
You guys have had sex?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
So this question has always been interesting because I have
never been like a wild like ooh, gotta do it here,
or you know, when I hear people talking about the
crazy places they've had sex. I'm just like the classic
let's do it in the past.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you know that as well.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
We haven't really had like a wild and crazy I remember.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
The time in Phoenix when we were in the car
and we were all.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Like, oh, that got close. We didn't actually have sex,
but that was like that was that took us back
to like, you know, being young. You know that was
that was that was hot and feisty. Yeah, because I'm like,
I didn't want to get in trouble. I didn't want
to get in trouble. We like started making out and
I didn't want to get caught doing it on the
side of the road, so I'm like, let's go.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And you were also pregnant, so like mobility assues might
have come up, but.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I would say we did it on a balcony one time,
didn't we Arizona was hot and steamy. See this is
why was she like pregnant. Jana was very uh sexual.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I'm trying to think of as an unusual place. I
don't think so joel and kiss someone.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah, I don't people like see that. That's where I
get them a little like like I don't I don't
want people saying that it's a little I'm private in
that area where I just want it between us. I
don't want I don't want to get caught. I don't
want to. I mean, god, I got caught my junior
year of high school.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I'm just saying, sure, you get caught getting pumped? Yeah,
year of high school?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Yes, Oh my god, I've never told you that story. No,
it was my senior year. Sorry, senior year, I've never
told you that. By my high school boyfriend's dad and
mom also am no. At their house, they were they
came home early, and they went through the side door
and then his dad, you know, or his mom said
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pick up the condom. Oh, it was so like awful,
And then I tell my mom I was having sex.
It was terrible. It was literally awful. I hear them
walk in, and then I see his dad standing and
we are butt naked on their living room couch and
he's like, and I mean I screamed and ran upstairs.
And then I'm crying in the bathroom. And then his
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mom's say, go pick up the condom. And then she's like,
you have twenty four hours to tell your mother. I'm like,
oh my god, I'm just gonna kill me.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Sorry, Okay, unusual place, but don't think we've got an
unusual place though.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Now the bed, we're boring in that way, but we're
not boring under the sheets.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
Heyo, I would be mortified if I ever got caught.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Literally, it was the worst.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
That's a few outside instances.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Oh yeah, but we we are surrounded by woods. Those
were hot. Yeah, yeah, outside in the back by the pool,
but again we're surrounded by by woods.
Speaker 5 (14:39):
Favorite date night you've had so far?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
My favorite date night was the Valentines where he made
the restaurant in the woods over by the fire pit
that he him and Jase made and the kids were
the little servers and they made dinner. That was the
most thoughtful date night ever. Yeah, that's probably as well
or Italy honeymoon close toss up.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
How do you beat Italy? That's crazy? That sounds amazing,
is how you beat it?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That was that was the name of the restaurant. They
made a restaurant, so he got a restaurant sign like
the kids colored Rosselio's super cute.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
That's sweet, very sweet, Alan, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Good move there again, nothing like I've ever had before.
Speaker 5 (15:27):
From Lauren, How often do you guys fight.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
It's interesting to me what people call a fight. What
deems it being a fight?
Speaker 1 (15:35):
That's a good question. What deems it being a fight?
Speaker 4 (15:38):
Well, what's a I guess it's probably different for every couple.
I'm like, what's a fight for you?
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
I think our last fight would have been a misunderstanding
or no, it wasn't a misunderstanding. But back in a
couple of months ago, where wasn't totally upfront. You weren't
totally up front about some thing, which then triggered something
within me. Yeah, and so thats caused a little stir.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
So an actual argument, proper argument, probably once every three months.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I don't know if those ratios are good.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
We really don't fight that often.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
We have we have little She gets hoffy.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I get huffy because I get overwhelmed with a lot
of things.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Yeah, because I've just got nothing going on. I don't
get overwhelmed.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
You get quiet, but I do get I get I
get like, I do get huffy. But you also get
quiet and huffy in your own way.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Yeah, because we perceive the communication different to what that
actually is. Okay, answer to the question, probably once every
three months.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I disagree with that. I would say like once every
like four to five, like a real fight. But again,
we don't really like fight.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Fight. It's a hard question. Yeah, no question, good question.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
I would say we are. We've gotten a lot better
with how we communicate and solve problems so that it
doesn't become a fight. I'll say that, Yeah, I apologize,
and given that's not true, what did I do the
other day? It was a joke, No, But what did
I do the other day? I was huffy? And so
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I came out of the gym and I you were
working out outside, and I walked up to you and
I said, I'm.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Sorry, actually really cute. What it was? Cute? It was nice.
I appreciate you that.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Yeah, because I knew. I knew I was being huffy.
I knew that I was being But why based off
what I started my period? It always always goes back
to my period. But it was true, like I was huffy,
I hold a lot of things in a few days
before my period and then lo and behold you know.
I was like, oh, that makes sense. But I did
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come out and I said, I'm sorry, it's not so
it's not always you, but a lot of times, I
feel like what we have been really good at has
been able to go okay. We now are understanding each
other's communication, and instead of having the big blow up
fights like we would not big blow up fights, but
like the big fights like every few months or whatever,
we don't really have those anymore because of how we've
been able to understand each other more and the more
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that we grow together, the more that we understand our
communication and what we're feeling. And you have more empathy now,
which is a beautiful thing. So how often do you fight, Hannah?
Speaker 5 (18:34):
I would say my husband and Alan are probably similar.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
He really diffuses any Like when I get huffy, he
like really tries to diffuse and almost like starts doing
laundry or story around the house.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
It is the same thing, like he'll be like all
of a sudden making the kids lunches, and I'm like
he's sweet. He's just like trying.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Bringing me something I want, yes, And I'm like you,
I'm like, I need something to distract me and then
I can collect my thoughts and I can come back
and apologize.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Yeah, but we don't. We don't fight a lot like
you guys. It's probably disagreements on things, disagreements.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah, I think we've got younger kids as well, You're
more open to disagreements and stress.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Therefore, Yeah, I think it's fighting, is I bet you would.
I think to go back to the actually the question.
Fights we probably have like two a year, and disagreements
are you know, once and once every other month, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Yeah, yeah, which I feel like is very normal when
you're living with a whole other human who has a
different way of doing things, and you've got young kids
that are adding stress to the relationship.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
So I'm similar to you guys. With my relationship.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
We maybe fight, yeah, twice a year, it's like a
big fight, but otherwise it's just little disagreements.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
And yeah, and even within those fights, like you know,
there's still so much love. That's the thing. Like it's
so different. And I think the difference too with our
fighting is when we fight, it's not like my previous
fights with Xes have been explosive and abusive and bad
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with him, it's like just the typical we're having a fight.
We all might say a few things we don't love.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
And I think we're both stolen. Yeah when it comes
to fight. Yeah, Like, well I'm not given in and
I'm not given in, so therefore.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
But it's like night and day. What a fight, It's like,
it's like a healthy fight.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Yeah, Jess wants to know, did you guys get married
before the Scotland wedding?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Done? Done? Dune breaking news? We Actually, these are the
questions that I don't get, Okay, can I just give
what was her name? Jessica?
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Jess's life married before we get married in Scotland? That
is why these are the ones. These are the exact
ones that I don't get.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Can I defend my girl Jess?
Speaker 3 (21:17):
And my response is not personally against Jess. My response
is do you like how.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
We just named you Jess girl Jessica? But can can we?
I think we should answer it, don't you do you
want me to answer it?
Speaker 2 (21:32):
No?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I think we should answer though, because listen, you started
wearing your ring mm. And there was a lot of
questions if we got married, and we did not answer them,
and there was a piece of me and even my
girlfriends asked so much so that Catherine is the most
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and I love her to death. She's my best friend
in the entire freaking world. And we are in New
York City. Yeah, and I just knew. I knew, I
knew she was going to ask me. I knew she
was going to.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Well, of course people, I'm walking around the ring on, right, But.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
I just knew I knew she was going to ask him.
This was months after you had the ring on, So
you put the ring on in January, and we're going
to answer the question for the first time, but you
but so she's been now I was like, oh, he
just you know, he'd just put it on. And I
just didn't want to say anything else to it because
I I've always been incredibly open, incredibly open, yeah too much,
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like so much so that I've you know, wish I
would have kept a few things to myself, right, And
so with this it was nice to not say anything
and let people think whatever they wanted to think, because
I didn't want to share. And it was something between
us that we decided that we weren't going to elaborate
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more on it. And at the end of the day,
we had a baby, So who cares if you did
have a ring on before we got married, because we
had a we we have a son. We had a
son together, you know, and it was I think it
was weird for us not to be married when we
had Roman in the hospital. There was a piece of
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it where it was like we weren't technically married then.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Yeah, looking back at it now, just answer your question. Yeah,
we got married in January and we made it formal
people in July.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Jin What.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
When did we married Jeane thirteen? Right, Yeah, I think
so July thirteenth, Jesus.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
July thirteenth to night, Okay, so yeah, But I think
part of it was also a lot of a lot
of people in our situation, i e. Foreign UK people
were making the legalities and the formalities long before the
wedding just so they could focus on the planning of
the wedding.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
I think a lot of it was that as well.
But also we were like we were like desperate to
manor each other.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Yeah, we were, and so this is what we did.
And so because there was a piece of and so
that we wanted to do this before we had Roman.
But I didn't want I wanted our wedding to be
the actual wedding day, which is July thirteenth, But I
also wanted I wanted that to be special. I didn't
want anything to be taken away from that day. So
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what we did was after we had Roman. We still
had that feeling like this is so weird that we're
not married, you know, officially, and we have a son together.
And so we went to the courthouse in January and
we had a uh and then I started thinking, how
are we going to have, you know, pastor Kevin going
to come over? But I was like, I don't want
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to do any of it. I don't want to I
don't want to exchange vows. I don't want to do
because I want to save that piece for the wedding.
I want to save I want to save all of it.
Let's just get someone over. So it was a notary.
He was just a simple notary. He was so sweet.
He was the mother of and this lady was so
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sweet the Williamson County Clerk's office or whatever, you know.
I said, do you know anyone that can just privately
just sign a piece of paper for us? You know,
we don't want to do the whole vows back and forth.
And she's like, well, actually, my son, like you can
absolutely come over to your house. And we're like great,
So four o'clock, like before before the kids got home,
it was like three o'clock in the afternoon before the
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kids came home. We he came over and he's like,
all right, so no vows. I was like, no, we
want to make that special, keep it, you know, keep
it to that day. And it was, you know, the
piece of paper we signed it, he put the ring on.
I didn't put my ring on. We save that as
well too, but just to have that little something for
us that was special to us that we didn't announ
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to everybody. And and I even when the January was
it twelfth or twenty first. I got to look back now,
but I think it was a twenty first, But I
almost I drafted up a thing on January twenty first
to be to say, you know, happy one year Bay,
Like you know, we didn't share this, and but this
was a moment between us. I ended up not posting
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it because I'm like, our wedding date is July thirteenth.
We just made it official a little earlier. But I
didn't want to, like I wanted to almost say we
did it privately and it was between us and we
had that moment. But I still just so want to
just honor our wedding day because that was a day
we actually made official. And I didn't even really tell you.
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I mean we didn't really say a husband wife even
a lot then too, because I didn't want.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
To keep an everything for the moment of in Scotland.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Yeah, and before you go to Scotland, like you have
to do all that paperwork anyways, So that's why it's
like you couldn't sign it down, like you have to
do it before you go overseas. So that's why we're like,
all right, we'll just we'll just do it. But there
was something so beautiful and just private and precious about
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us holding that together and it just being like just
us having that together without the whole world. But Catherine,
when she kept hounding me, not really hounded, I mean
not hounding, but she was in the car and she said, Okay,
I just need to know, like did you guys get married,
Like why is he really wearing the ring? And sweet
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Kristen does what Christen does, and just like on behalf
of my client. You know, she's not gonna it is
whatever she wants to say, and you don't have to say.
But Catherine and I are big on you know, I
don't want to lie to her, And so I ended
up saying to her, yes, we are technically, but it's
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just been something that we've wanted to privately keep together.
He's not calling me wife, not calling him husband, but
it's something that we wanted for ourselves. And I don't
want to say anything else, and she goes, okay, so
that's it. Yes, So yes we did, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (28:11):
I hope that makes things easier for you in life.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (28:15):
Okay, well, I think I think we ended on that note. Alan,
you did great. How are the questions this time around
for you?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
They were better? I think we can do a second
round at some point.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
What would be the question that you don't want to
be asked?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
I don't think it's I would really want to swell that,
avoid that.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Nothing good to know. Stay tuned for next Q and A.
Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.
This week's Adult Education, we are having a redo on
Q and A because well, A, we don't have a guest,
and so we thought it would be fun to do
a redo of Q and A because the last time
Alan was a little not in truth. Now, you weren't
(00:25):
loving the questions true or false?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Yeah, for different reasons. I mean, someone are about soft
and fluffy, aren't they? And then some of them were
just you should appreciate my hair, young lady, you're married
the bowl geier about how long.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Some of them were.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Some of them were about soft and fluffy, and others
were just a little bit strangely.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Do you go through counseling?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
That's a normal question. Okay, So here we go, Hannah,
Hannah enerjecked my love Alan.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I went to the followers and I was like, listen,
Alan wants the intrusive questions, and they delivered.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
You're ready, they did, so I hope you're ready.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
The jan the jan at there jamites little fans.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay, Hannah, do you want to ask us the questions?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
We'll start easy, we'll start using Okay, Abigail is asking
is another baby still on the table for you, guys.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
No, why was that so definitive?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Because we've we've discussed the reality of it and actual
there's the there's a thought of it and how great
it would be, and then the reality of it, which.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Is what's the reality how great it would be?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
The reality is you're pregnant for nine months, which is
tough for you.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I feel like when you say that, you make it
about you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Because I know you went through it was it was
you were so brave and strong, but it was really
tough for you. There was a lot of anxiety around
it because of things that could go wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
And look how great it went.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
MM.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
I think we should be grateful for how great that
one went. I don't think we should maybe in atle.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Discussion, what's the percentage for you, like if you had
to percentage it out, what is the percentage for another baby?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Seventy thirty?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Oh, so you're saying there's good. That's like way better
than I thought you were going to say. I thought
you were going to say like ninety nine to one.
You know what I would like to do? If I
truly what I would like to do? Are you ready
for it?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
If it's something that you've floated before, and then I'm
pretty play it on my answer to it.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
No, we're not going to do surrogacy. Yeah, I understand,
I'd like to, but you don't want to. But what
if we try for three months and if it doesn't happen.
We tried it, and we tried it, We tried that,
(03:17):
and then okay when we stop if it was it
wasn't meant to be.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't think we need to try for long.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Why you just think you have super sperm?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yeah? I was.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
I'm fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Are you really?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Yeah? Next question, all the discussions all right?
Speaker 5 (03:39):
Another easy one. Would you guys ever move to Scotland?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
No?
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Wow, you were so quick? Why why in this area?
Are you quick? In life and everywhere else? It's like
a sloth.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Because when something's clear in my mind, they will foist
that without without having to deliyate. I walk slowly, yes, granted,
I do things other things slowly because I need to
think about them so I can come back with solutions
of proper answers.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
What about the lady that's like five minutes with her
hand with the coffee out the window, I'm like, Alan,
please grab the coffee from the Starbucks window and it's
like this one.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
And then she's actually called me a sloth before.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Yes, I've also videoed one in the zoo and said
he's in his natural habitat. I would love my own.
I would love a condo one day in Scotland. Why
your parents maybe are getting older.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
M hm.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
And maybe we could spend summers out there and then
airbnb it or something like that.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
That's totally different from would you live in Scotland.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
That's living in Scotland, not.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
That's having a holiday home in Scotland.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Okay, okay, okay, here's the only here's the only time
I go back in eleven Scotland.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
If I got offered the Rangeers job, oh.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, which we talked about, He's like, listen, if that
opportunity ever gets He's like, we need to move to Scotland.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I'm coming.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Well I would need to too, because that would be really
hard to live eleven months away from each other for
eleven months.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Of course, absolutely you would be there, So yes, we
would live in Scotland, if.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
If, and only if he coaches for the Rangers.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
If I got the Rangelers job, however, a holiday home
in Scotland then the absolutely one hundred percent. I would
think about that because it's beautiful. It is in the summer.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Next question, okay, Alan, what is the first thing you
noticed about Jianna that made you want to slide into
her DMS?
Speaker 5 (05:50):
And also when was the first time you googled her?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Good question, don't lie because I still don't think you tell.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
It ignoring that outside noise and trying to focus on
your question. So the question was what was the first
thing I noticed about her?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Yeah? What did you? What did you notice about her
that made you slide into her?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
DMS plus smile one hundred percent, always say the same
thing one million percent.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
The second question was what when was the first time
you googled her?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Did you google me before you DMed me or after
you dm me?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
After?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And when I googled, I didn't do like a a
Google proper Google search like deep search, so I don't
know when timeframes after a dmder but I did. I
did obviously google you, but not didn't dive into like
a deep investigation of your past or who you were interested.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
I think I've always said I don't give a shit
about your past.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I know on our first date, did you did you
know how many times I was married.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I think I think i'd probably seen I had Lenya.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
And it didn't bother you.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
No, not, So everyone makes mistakes, mistakes of me. Here's
my language.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Next question, Okay, Jenna, you mentioned it was hard for
you to talk about sex with Mike. Is it different
with Alan?
Speaker 1 (07:24):
He like, it's light years different. I actually have a
husband that wants to have sex with me and not
other women. So it is the most refreshing thing in
the world to feel. To feel wanted, to feel sexy.
I did. I felt like the most. I felt like
(07:45):
the ugliest, un sexiest woman. In my last marriage, he
never wanted to have sex with me. He never touched me,
he never like it. It was like pulling teeth to
have any sort of affection. This man can not keep
his hands off of me. He loves having sex with me.
He makes me feel so beautiful and sexy and wanted,
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and it is a it's just a it's completely different experience,
so much so that I feel like all the things
that I had felt in my last marriage and the
things that he would say about me, And how you know,
if I only wore this or if I didn't just
wear t shirts to bed, Like, no matter what I wear,
you always make me feel sexy. And but for a
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while I didn't feel that way. But spending obviously, and
you know the things that you say to me, I'm like, no,
he actually like or things with like you don't make
comments like sometimes I okay, I had in my old
clothing line that bombed Jolie and Jace. I still wear
(08:56):
just those long sleep shirts because they're so comfortable. They
were overly priced and that was a bad call, bad distributors, whatever,
But I still wear those long over what and they're like,
it's like a granny dress. I could just left off,
(09:16):
but it's so comfortable, and like, you make me feel
sexy in that?
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Does you look sexy? And Everson.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
And I just have never had that, so it is
light years different. It's a totally different experience. I actually
have a end within that sexualness of it. We enjoy
it and it works, if you know what I mean.
It all works.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
All right.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
This leads listen to our next question. No, yeah, but
it's coming. Who wants to have sex more?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I disagree. I think we equally equally want to have sex.
Like there's times when I'm more aggressive in the area,
but mostly yeah, sure you, But I think it's pretty equal.
It's not like I'm just like, oh okay.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Few he wants it again. Yeah, I think there's a
good balance within it. Yeah. Absolutely.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Here's your position question, Alan, what's more intrusive? What's your
favorite position? To feel the most connected to one another?
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Ah, to feel the most connected? I would say normal,
missionary because we can lock eyes.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Did you just wink at me? I would have to agree.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Yeah. I think when I'm in pop of Jannah, because
then we can we can look at each other.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yes, I'm getting like goosies.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
You can see my face.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yeah, I think general, massionary posession because then we can
see each other.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah. And kissy kiss Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Johnah loves not journals. We love kissing each other. But
she kisses me so hard that I get no.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
He has very sensitive lips.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
A little thing in my lip like a bruise.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Next question, Okay, where is the wildest place or strangest place.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
You guys have had sex?
Speaker 1 (11:47):
So this question has always been interesting because I have
never been like a wild like ooh, gotta do it here,
or you know, when I hear people talking about the
crazy places they've had sex. I'm just like the classic
let's do it in the past.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
Yeah, you know that as well.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
We haven't really had like a wild and crazy I remember.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
The time in Phoenix when we were in the car
and we were all.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Like, oh, that got close. We didn't actually have sex,
but that was like that was that took us back
to like, you know, being young. You know that was
that was that was hot and feisty. Yeah, because I'm like,
I didn't want to get in trouble. I didn't want
to get in trouble. We like started making out and
I didn't want to get caught doing it on the
side of the road, so I'm like, let's go.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And you were also pregnant, so like mobility assues might
have come up, but.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I would say we did it on a balcony one time,
didn't we Arizona was hot and steamy. See this is
why was she like pregnant. Jana was very uh sexual.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
I'm trying to think of as an unusual place. I
don't think so joel and kiss someone.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah, I don't people like see that. That's where I
get them a little like like I don't I don't
want people saying that it's a little I'm private in
that area where I just want it between us. I
don't want I don't want to get caught. I don't
want to. I mean, god, I got caught my junior
year of high school.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I'm just saying, sure, you get caught getting pumped? Yeah,
year of high school?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Yes, Oh my god, I've never told you that story. No,
it was my senior year. Sorry, senior year, I've never
told you that. By my high school boyfriend's dad and
mom also am no. At their house, they were they
came home early, and they went through the side door
and then his dad, you know, or his mom said
(13:40):
pick up the condom. Oh, it was so like awful,
And then I tell my mom I was having sex.
It was terrible. It was literally awful. I hear them
walk in, and then I see his dad standing and
we are butt naked on their living room couch and
he's like, and I mean I screamed and ran upstairs.
And then I'm crying in the bathroom. And then his
(14:00):
mom's say, go pick up the condom. And then she's like,
you have twenty four hours to tell your mother. I'm like,
oh my god, I'm just gonna kill me.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
Sorry, Okay, unusual place, but don't think we've got an
unusual place though.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
Now the bed, we're boring in that way, but we're
not boring under the sheets.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
Heyo, I would be mortified if I ever got caught.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Literally, it was the worst.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
That's a few outside instances.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Oh yeah, but we we are surrounded by woods. Those
were hot. Yeah, yeah, outside in the back by the pool,
but again we're surrounded by by woods.
Speaker 5 (14:39):
Favorite date night you've had so far?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
My favorite date night was the Valentines where he made
the restaurant in the woods over by the fire pit
that he him and Jase made and the kids were
the little servers and they made dinner. That was the
most thoughtful date night ever. Yeah, that's probably as well
or Italy honeymoon close toss up.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
How do you beat Italy? That's crazy? That sounds amazing,
is how you beat it?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
That was that was the name of the restaurant. They
made a restaurant, so he got a restaurant sign like
the kids colored Rosselio's super cute.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
That's sweet, very sweet, Alan, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Good move there again, nothing like I've ever had before.
Speaker 5 (15:27):
From Lauren, How often do you guys fight.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
It's interesting to me what people call a fight. What
deems it being a fight?
Speaker 1 (15:35):
That's a good question. What deems it being a fight?
Speaker 4 (15:38):
Well, what's a I guess it's probably different for every couple.
I'm like, what's a fight for you?
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (15:43):
I think our last fight would have been a misunderstanding
or no, it wasn't a misunderstanding. But back in a
couple of months ago, where wasn't totally upfront. You weren't
totally up front about some thing, which then triggered something
within me. Yeah, and so thats caused a little stir.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
So an actual argument, proper argument, probably once every three months.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Why are you laughing?
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I don't know if those ratios are good.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
We really don't fight that often.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
We have we have little She gets hoffy.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
I get huffy because I get overwhelmed with a lot
of things.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
Yeah, because I've just got nothing going on. I don't
get overwhelmed.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
You get quiet, but I do get I get I
get like, I do get huffy. But you also get
quiet and huffy in your own way.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Yeah, because we perceive the communication different to what that
actually is. Okay, answer to the question, probably once every
three months.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
I disagree with that. I would say like once every
like four to five, like a real fight. But again,
we don't really like fight.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Fight. It's a hard question. Yeah, no question, good question.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
I would say we are. We've gotten a lot better
with how we communicate and solve problems so that it
doesn't become a fight. I'll say that, Yeah, I apologize,
and given that's not true, what did I do the
other day? It was a joke, No, But what did
I do the other day? I was huffy? And so
(17:27):
I came out of the gym and I you were
working out outside, and I walked up to you and
I said, I'm.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Sorry, actually really cute. What it was? Cute? It was nice.
I appreciate you that.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Yeah, because I knew. I knew I was being huffy.
I knew that I was being But why based off
what I started my period? It always always goes back
to my period. But it was true, like I was huffy,
I hold a lot of things in a few days
before my period and then lo and behold you know.
I was like, oh, that makes sense. But I did
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come out and I said, I'm sorry, it's not so
it's not always you, but a lot of times, I
feel like what we have been really good at has
been able to go okay. We now are understanding each
other's communication, and instead of having the big blow up
fights like we would not big blow up fights, but
like the big fights like every few months or whatever,
we don't really have those anymore because of how we've
been able to understand each other more and the more
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that we grow together, the more that we understand our
communication and what we're feeling. And you have more empathy now,
which is a beautiful thing. So how often do you fight, Hannah?
Speaker 5 (18:34):
I would say my husband and Alan are probably similar.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
He really diffuses any Like when I get huffy, he
like really tries to diffuse and almost like starts doing
laundry or story around the house.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
It is the same thing, like he'll be like all
of a sudden making the kids lunches, and I'm like
he's sweet. He's just like trying.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Bringing me something I want, yes, And I'm like you,
I'm like, I need something to distract me and then
I can collect my thoughts and I can come back
and apologize.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Yeah, but we don't. We don't fight a lot like
you guys. It's probably disagreements on things, disagreements.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
Yeah, I think we've got younger kids as well, You're
more open to disagreements and stress.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Therefore, Yeah, I think it's fighting, is I bet you would.
I think to go back to the actually the question.
Fights we probably have like two a year, and disagreements
are you know, once and once every other month, I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (19:36):
Yeah, yeah, which I feel like is very normal when
you're living with a whole other human who has a
different way of doing things, and you've got young kids
that are adding stress to the relationship.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
So I'm similar to you guys. With my relationship.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
We maybe fight, yeah, twice a year, it's like a
big fight, but otherwise it's just little disagreements.
Speaker 1 (19:57):
And yeah, and even within those fights, like you know,
there's still so much love. That's the thing. Like it's
so different. And I think the difference too with our
fighting is when we fight, it's not like my previous
fights with Xes have been explosive and abusive and bad
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with him, it's like just the typical we're having a fight.
We all might say a few things we don't love.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
And I think we're both stolen. Yeah when it comes
to fight. Yeah, Like, well I'm not given in and
I'm not given in, so therefore.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
But it's like night and day. What a fight, It's like,
it's like a healthy fight.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Yeah, Jess wants to know, did you guys get married
before the Scotland wedding?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Done? Done? Dune breaking news? We Actually, these are the
questions that I don't get, Okay, can I just give
what was her name? Jessica?
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Jess's life married before we get married in Scotland? That
is why these are the ones. These are the exact
ones that I don't get.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Can I defend my girl Jess?
Speaker 3 (21:17):
And my response is not personally against Jess. My response
is do you like how.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
We just named you Jess girl Jessica? But can can we?
I think we should answer it, don't you do you
want me to answer it?
Speaker 2 (21:32):
No?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I think we should answer though, because listen, you started
wearing your ring mm. And there was a lot of
questions if we got married, and we did not answer them,
and there was a piece of me and even my
girlfriends asked so much so that Catherine is the most
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and I love her to death. She's my best friend
in the entire freaking world. And we are in New
York City. Yeah, and I just knew. I knew, I
knew she was going to ask me. I knew she
was going to.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Well, of course people, I'm walking around the ring on, right, But.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
I just knew I knew she was going to ask him.
This was months after you had the ring on, So
you put the ring on in January, and we're going
to answer the question for the first time, but you
but so she's been now I was like, oh, he
just you know, he'd just put it on. And I
just didn't want to say anything else to it because
I I've always been incredibly open, incredibly open, yeah too much,
(22:38):
like so much so that I've you know, wish I
would have kept a few things to myself, right, And
so with this it was nice to not say anything
and let people think whatever they wanted to think, because
I didn't want to share. And it was something between
us that we decided that we weren't going to elaborate
(23:01):
more on it. And at the end of the day,
we had a baby, So who cares if you did
have a ring on before we got married, because we
had a we we have a son. We had a
son together, you know, and it was I think it
was weird for us not to be married when we
had Roman in the hospital. There was a piece of
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it where it was like we weren't technically married then.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Yeah, looking back at it now, just answer your question. Yeah,
we got married in January and we made it formal
people in July.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Jin What.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
When did we married Jeane thirteen? Right, Yeah, I think
so July thirteenth, Jesus.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
July thirteenth to night, Okay, so yeah, But I think
part of it was also a lot of a lot
of people in our situation, i e. Foreign UK people
were making the legalities and the formalities long before the
wedding just so they could focus on the planning of
the wedding.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
I think a lot of it was that as well.
But also we were like we were like desperate to
manor each other.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Yeah, we were, and so this is what we did.
And so because there was a piece of and so
that we wanted to do this before we had Roman.
But I didn't want I wanted our wedding to be
the actual wedding day, which is July thirteenth, But I
also wanted I wanted that to be special. I didn't
want anything to be taken away from that day. So
(24:34):
what we did was after we had Roman. We still
had that feeling like this is so weird that we're
not married, you know, officially, and we have a son together.
And so we went to the courthouse in January and
we had a uh and then I started thinking, how
are we going to have, you know, pastor Kevin going
to come over? But I was like, I don't want
(24:56):
to do any of it. I don't want to I
don't want to exchange vows. I don't want to do
because I want to save that piece for the wedding.
I want to save I want to save all of it.
Let's just get someone over. So it was a notary.
He was just a simple notary. He was so sweet.
He was the mother of and this lady was so
(25:16):
sweet the Williamson County Clerk's office or whatever, you know.
I said, do you know anyone that can just privately
just sign a piece of paper for us? You know,
we don't want to do the whole vows back and forth.
And she's like, well, actually, my son, like you can
absolutely come over to your house. And we're like great,
So four o'clock, like before before the kids got home,
it was like three o'clock in the afternoon before the
(25:37):
kids came home. We he came over and he's like,
all right, so no vows. I was like, no, we
want to make that special, keep it, you know, keep
it to that day. And it was, you know, the
piece of paper we signed it, he put the ring on.
I didn't put my ring on. We save that as
well too, but just to have that little something for
us that was special to us that we didn't announ
(26:00):
to everybody. And and I even when the January was
it twelfth or twenty first. I got to look back now,
but I think it was a twenty first, But I
almost I drafted up a thing on January twenty first
to be to say, you know, happy one year Bay,
Like you know, we didn't share this, and but this
was a moment between us. I ended up not posting
(26:20):
it because I'm like, our wedding date is July thirteenth.
We just made it official a little earlier. But I
didn't want to, like I wanted to almost say we
did it privately and it was between us and we
had that moment. But I still just so want to
just honor our wedding day because that was a day
we actually made official. And I didn't even really tell you.
(26:44):
I mean we didn't really say a husband wife even
a lot then too, because I didn't want.
Speaker 3 (26:49):
To keep an everything for the moment of in Scotland.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Yeah, and before you go to Scotland, like you have
to do all that paperwork anyways, So that's why it's
like you couldn't sign it down, like you have to
do it before you go overseas. So that's why we're like,
all right, we'll just we'll just do it. But there
was something so beautiful and just private and precious about
(27:14):
us holding that together and it just being like just
us having that together without the whole world. But Catherine,
when she kept hounding me, not really hounded, I mean
not hounding, but she was in the car and she said, Okay,
I just need to know, like did you guys get married,
Like why is he really wearing the ring? And sweet
(27:35):
Kristen does what Christen does, and just like on behalf
of my client. You know, she's not gonna it is
whatever she wants to say, and you don't have to say.
But Catherine and I are big on you know, I
don't want to lie to her, And so I ended
up saying to her, yes, we are technically, but it's
(27:55):
just been something that we've wanted to privately keep together.
He's not calling me wife, not calling him husband, but
it's something that we wanted for ourselves. And I don't
want to say anything else, and she goes, okay, so
that's it. Yes, So yes we did, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 3 (28:11):
I hope that makes things easier for you in life.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (28:15):
Okay, well, I think I think we ended on that note. Alan,
you did great. How are the questions this time around
for you?
Speaker 3 (28:23):
They were better? I think we can do a second
round at some point.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
What would be the question that you don't want to
be asked?
Speaker 3 (28:29):
I don't think it's I would really want to swell that,
avoid that.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
Nothing good to know. Stay tuned for next Q and A.
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