December 26, 2023 • 60 mins
This week is a party! While in Las Vegas for the AVN Awards, the ladies were joined by Glamazon Tyomi & Daddy Heff, a domme who also brought his sub to the episode! This week Daddy Heff shares his MILKING experience and how a man’s masculinity is not in his butt while also sharing how he navigates BDSM. While Daddy Heff shares a sex tip for the Dommes, Tyomi steps in to address the myth about thick girls not taking D and how she shows us as a switch in her BDSM relationships. We also get a live demonstration on Daddy Heff and his submissive who shares how turned on she gets by physical touch from Daddy.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Poor Blad.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
This is y'all. I'm a girl, Maydy Baka is dawny
aka all of it, y'all, I'm weezy.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
If you're watching us on the YouTube, ill like YouTube
were taking?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
What is that old?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
People think to say you watched us on the YouTube?
A bitch, I feel old. It's a Friday night. I
was reading a book before I came in here, bitch. Oh,
I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in here.
But imagination, oh wait, I was gonna say, this table
ship is like really giving me seven year ago vibes?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah, it's four years man to upgrade it. Yeah, we started.
We were like, I remember I.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Was there, Yes, but we guys, if you are listening,
we are currently in Vegas because, as you guys know,
we are nominated hopefully winners by the time this drops,
but we are nominated for or an Avan Award. So
we came out here and we got me working. So
she was like, well, let's record a podcast out there
because I don't want anyways, So we're now recording podcasts
(01:10):
in Vegas, and we are joined by some great people
which I'm super excited to finally have on the pod. Well,
Glen was on Tyomi. We have a friend who has
been on the pod a year ago. Right, I just
being I appreciate you. You did great at our live show.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Too, I did. We crushed it, and y'all help me
start on my tour and I still don't ride Dick.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
And then we are joined as well by someone who
I just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're
out here.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
At the same time, we have Daddy he Hello, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Now I have to ask you because I know even
when we when we met each other, you said daddy
does have to be mentioned, like yes, I have to
call you daddy the whole the whole episode or what.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
The rebellious one? Right?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
You don't want me to call you, do you? If
your name is Weezy, I call you. I can call
you we.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Maybe if you got your mama name weasel or something.
Oh no, but like let me ask. If someone doesn't
do you not respond?
Speaker 4 (02:11):
That's correct? So, because here's here's the thing, right is
that say, for example, if you give someone your name,
like say say you say your name is Taquana just
for the night. If they call you Kwana, you'd be like,
I don't know who Kuanta is.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
You feel disrespected?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
What about women that have a daddy?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Why? I doesn't because here's the thing. You calling me
daddy doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Father?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I feel like daddy though is much like a cirt,
like it's something that's it's like it's given me giving
up power.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
So if I already have someone that's my dom, now
I don't. I'm just trying to play devil.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
If I have a dom, right, and then you say
call me dad and I'm like, I can't it is
it like you just.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
But no, here's the thing you said, what's your name?
I said, my name is Daddy heth right. So if
you are say you are a felm dom right, and
your filmdom name is Mama Wesey right now, if I'm like,
I don't want to call nobody else mama, But it's not.
It's not about what you feel. It's about it's about respects.
(03:21):
Respect is If your name is Mama Weasey, I'm going
to call you Mama wese because that's how you introduce
yourself to me right, hold.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
For God God as a wold of God Father has
it's the whole different dude.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Wait, there is a God damn Father. Here's the thing right.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
See when when I have people who who mess with
my shadow right and would like to come in and
tease a little bit, so they got this from I
have this pastor outfit right right?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
No excuse me, It's okay, it's.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
It's a priest.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's a priest and not pastor. No, no, no, I ain't
gonna hold you.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
You might want to stay pastor because priests be out
here dealing with the little boys. You want to say,
beyond call thought you was a pastor because we had
that white suit when you lined up all them booties.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
That see, like I was telling someone that's so skeasy too. Definitely,
that's wow.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It'd be the children from Well then, real quick, what
has you out here? Uh? In Vegas for a v N?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Well, this is something I've been wanting to manifest for
for a long time. So I was just like, I
got the time and I met I met the place
in my in my life and my career as far
as my business, where if I want if there's a
trip I need to go to. I'm going to go
to and I've always wanted to come to to a man.
So SIS was like, you're coming to a VN bro.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Okay, and you do have a yes with you for
the people listening again watching.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
So this this is the fantabulous, delicious, gorgeous, sexy as
a motherfucker the naked unicorns.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I wish you would have brought your unicorn in here, though, like,
what do you mean? No, that's her horn.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
But she has a unicorn like a little buddy that
she carries, so like, I'm an unicorn collector. That's how
we actually connect it because she's a little.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Animate sh is.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
This is porn weekend, bitch, you better get all in
the sex realm yard.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Okay, let's give it actually then, well.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Real quick, this is something new then we used to
back in the day have something called the kink of
the week. What is now We've been talking about unicorns
in the essence of a woman joining in on a
couple and that's.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
So not just splain to them. I call myself the
unicorn because I'm a newist. I like being naked. And
also I was told that my pussy is magical. So
I'm a unicorn. This is me and stuffy form. This
is my personality. I'm walking around with my personality in
(06:13):
the stuffy form. Wait, so you both collect unicorns. I
collect unicorns because I'm a little, so I do age play.
My little is like three four years old. So I've
been collecting stuffy since I was a kid. And so
when I found out that being a little is a
thing in like kink, I was like, oh shit, Wow,
I didn't know you were a little.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I did not know you was a little. You don't
know that I know you know what it is.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
It's interesting to meet women that can be alpha in
other spaces.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
And we're gonna get into that because because you're such
a dom I'm surprised that you can.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Tell on me.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Made my mother get on her knee would have been
a little wow. And so I didn't always know that
I was. So she just helped my mama ride dick
a yoga ball. That's exactly yeah. And I didn't know
if she could get down, but she got down. I
was happy about that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Okay, And real quick, before we give the mic back
to daddy, have how long have you been unicorning like
in this way? And is there a confusion as well
when you explain that your unicorn.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Yeah, people always assume that it's the lifestyle term. When
I say that I'm a unicorn, I was like, no,
it's le naked unicorn.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
That's my corn star name. And it's just because your
pussy's magical.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Yes, okay, I mean I'm magical in itself, but she
has her own what are her powers?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Got to ask the people who.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Daddy have hold on? Take the mic back. I need
to know what is the powers like down there?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Hold on?
Speaker 4 (07:52):
In the famous words of Dave Chappelle, one.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Here for now.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
But here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard
the legend of that magical pussy. Okay, I heard It's
like a land of paradise, and make believe, bitch.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I ain't gonna hold y'all. I'm about to come in
with it with a unicorn horn on my mother head
for the rest of the year. But I don't watch
its powerful too. So I'm a unicornt. I do have
a question. What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are
the three of y'all all together here today?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Okay? So me and this guy, we have a long history.
His name in my phone can I say it?
Speaker 4 (08:39):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
No, his name in my phone is the original name
that I met him under. So when I first started
my blog back in twenty eleven, he found me and
he used to have a radio show on blog talk
radio what was it every Wednesday, every Wednesday night, and
so I would come on right I would come on
and do the sex position of the week because on
(08:59):
my block when I started Dick Gleam on one dot com,
every Monday, I would do a sex position of the week.
And so this guy has had so many legendary people
who are popping right now on his show in the
early days. And that's how we met. We just became
super cool. Like ts Madison is one of the people
that the thick, the big big bitch, Yes Yo Yo
(09:24):
met her on his show back in twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
So we had an amazing conversation and like like on
the air, I experienced. I talked about the time when
I experienced having a prostate orgasm and getting my pro
state milk. I talked about my process on my radio show,
and I would have like certain things about about men's
mental health and stuff like that, but most of it
(09:49):
was about nasty, nasty, freaky that.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Oh yeah, gone, we'll go back to unicorn.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
So all right, So here's the thing. A lot of
men have issues with the process as they get older
because it gets it gets swollen, right, and when it
gets swollen get you get estrogen and testosterone in there
and the toxins, and then that's how they get prostate cancer,
the polyts in their prostate. So what happens is when
someone actually goes in and stimulates the pro the prostate,
(10:29):
it massages it and deflects it.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
This is when Vinny said he made somebody squirt from there.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
But also this is what I'll be telling y'all s
So basically, if we just out here fingering niggas bootth holes,
we could keep them from getting pro Yes, whoa not.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Just the prost you gotta here?
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Okay, but wait, fucking somebody in the ass can cure cancer?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
No no, no, no, no, no, I won't cure cancer. However, what.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
That actual prostate massage? Yes, it's given cure as long
as search we've recently found on horrible decisions from daddy
half as you know.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I want to ask you though, because with blackness, specifically,
they don't want their bootle hole being touched whatsoever. So
was it a was it a woman that said it's
not gonna hurt? Was it a doctor? Was it you
going to the doctor and enjoying it the first time?
So how did you do it?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
So here's the thing. Yes, when I was a freshman
in college. Now, I was already at an advanced stage,
right far as I eat pussy the first time when
I was fifteen, Right, so I've been eating pussy. But however,
(11:50):
you know, we were in it. We were in a
sexual situation and she said, don't get mad, but I'm
gonna lick your buddy. I was like, now no, I'm like,
I'm like eighteen. I was like, okay, let's see what happens.
Oh my god. And I didn't really understood. I didn't
understand what that feeling was. But when she had me
(12:12):
hold my legs willingly and she was looking at them,
I was like trying to tell y'all, me let me
tell you, fellas, listen, let go of that ego and listen.
You may need some roots. Shock will work. Let me
tell you something, Let me tell you something. She would
(12:32):
She'll look you like, she'll look you like a toddler.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Let me lick you up, let me lick.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
You down, Come on down, turn around, all around. If
y'all know that, let me nikky girl like your lover.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Shit. I want to know, was this the age that
you got melt?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
No, see, I'm giving you the genesis.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
You got into your hole? Yeah right, because I don't
I don't like that was just tongued. When did you
When did you graduate to the fingers?
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Oh? You know, maybe a few years later? Like okay,
I had, I had, I had a partner and she
stuck the tip of her finger in my ass.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I'm just like, okay, don't stop now. Can I ask
you a question? As a dom? Sure, that to me
is a very submissive thing to do normally, Like even
I talk about pegging all the time. I always feel
like the dom and a lot of times the men
become my bitch.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
So because your ass is your manhood a lot of times,
especially with black men, how is a dom?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Do you even do you switch?
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Do you consider that being submissive or do you find
a way psychologically to still feel like you're a dominant
in that position?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Well, at that point in time when I'm when I'm
opening myself up, so his thing his the disclaimer by
me saying this, I'm not saying that I a number
one have been pegged number two like to be paid. Okay,
so remember that, so disclaimer, okay, disclaimer all right. So however,
(14:08):
I do know at that moment when I do decide
to be I have to trust someone right, and I
could be vulnerable with him and I and I know
that they're there for my pleasure. Right when I could
trust someone enough right that I could just spread my
booty cheeks, you know what I'm saying, and and getting
(14:29):
getting licked like a day, like a day, belvety hand
a week.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay, wait go background blog talk radio.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Y'all met you were doing sex positions and then and
we just became friends and we just send like this everything.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
We went down the rabbit hole then, yeah, we did.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
I just want to know if you guys don't have sex.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
We've never no. So this is like my brother. It's
funny because like that's my.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Girls be saying. But girls say that, but like homeboys.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
People get confused because they see us like kiss on
the lips when we greet each other.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
But that's just how we greet each other.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
But like we are like a brother and sister, just
a lot kinkier and open with our ship, Like we
be naked around each other and everything.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
It's just what it is. But we're not blood. But
blood wouldn't make us any closer, you know.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Like we've literally grown up in this industry together. So
anything that I had an opportunity to be a part of,
I always brought him in.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
So then industry wise, you're both here for AVAN, but
you do Exodica a lot.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Now I work for Exotica.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
We got nominated and found out because the fan DMed
me and said wow, truly I hit weezy. She's like, well,
you know we nominated. I said, girl, I just got
a DM and a fan said, we're nominated. I think
I told Adam twenty two they were nominate, Like literally literally,
we're not aware, and so we were like, well, we
have nobody at ABN.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
No one even reached out to us and let us
know that we were nominated. I'm not surprised.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
They just put you out on the fly.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
We pretty much were just on the one T can
promote us.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
How many horror podcasts just put them all in right,
all of them crazy is and we did go down
the list we are were whenever this drops, one of
only two black pods even recognized.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Yes, so shocking, which I'm not gonna lie. Went to
the convention today.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
I went to the convention today and was able to
really like walk around I random people that I knew,
like I actually read well, No, I read wrong.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I did not run into many black people, but I
did running run into King Nazir, who has been on
the pod before.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
I also run into Adam and and.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Uh and Uh, Lenna Lenna and then my friends. Then
I knew that we're already working there, but there were
not many black people, not many black porn stars either,
And I was like, okay, I see, okay, interesting, But
I do want to ask you then, because you also
have been in attendance the difference between the conventions and
(17:05):
what someone may be able to expect at a porn
or sex convention.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
So I work for Exotica as the resident sex expert
in the sumer are coordinated for the show, and I
have since twenty seventeen, but even prior to that time,
Oh yeah, I've been yeah, my peoples, but prior to that,
like actually working for them. I did every Chicago Exotica
since twenty twelve. Wow, yes, I'm like you like ten
(17:30):
years in the game basically, basically, I mean twelve years
in general.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
In the game. Maybe like just take the keys right now,
you can give me the keys.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
So there's a strict difference between Exotica and av AVN
is like the industry show, like the big industry show.
So a lot of the big production companies are out,
the big stars who do at the contract work with
like Browsers and Bang Bros. And in like a game
exactly all in there signing, right, and so it's like
the professional show. And then there's the award show where
(18:01):
you know it means something to be nominated for an
an award because you're recognized by the adult industry. Right.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
But over the last few years, ABN has an organization
has pretty much plummeted. And I'm saying it's publicly because
everybody knows that it's a true So I'm okay with
saying how did it happen? But I'm not with that information.
So it's not it does it have anything to do
with the only fans and a lot.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
Of there used to be way more people that worked
for the organization and be due to internal stuff. Now
there's not as much staff and so you could see, like,
and everyone was saying it when they came onto the
floor that the organization was not the same, that it
just seemed like it was a shell of what it
(18:48):
used to be.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
I do wonder if it has anything to do with
And we've talked about this on the pot too, especially
with only fans now porn Hub, all of just the
umbrellas of porn has something as well to do with
tech now, and there have been a lot of tech
layoffs over the last couple of years. And the vanilla
(19:09):
shit that I even wanted to bring up is that
now in the state of Louisiana, you have to show
ID or how to verify your age now to even
go on to pornhub dot com or any adult site.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh yeah, hol on the South, the Bible belt is wildly.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
So I never heard it.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
But don't tell you why I like this, Oh you do?
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Like?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Hold on, let me read it before first. I'm gonna
read it because okay, so y'all can understand. So it
is now saying that many may be familiar with the
common pop up message that implores people to verify that
they're eighteen years or order before accessing a porn site. However,
in Louisiana, people have to have to begin providing legitimate
proof that they're a legal adult before visiting adult websites.
(19:51):
The law, dubbed Act four forty, officially wanted to effect
on January first of this year, and it's centered on
protecting people under the age of eighteen from quote unquote
commercial entities who distribute material harmful to minors aka pornography.
Pretty much, you're gonna have to start uploading your passport,
your ID or something to even verify yourself before going
(20:13):
onto these sites. Which because I've been really into porn,
Lady Only Fans does do that as well.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
In order to even.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Only Fans is also like a register but for me
to pay to watch. So here's my two reasons why
I like this. And even though I do think it's
insane that I have to log in to watch porn.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
But I know that in most cases when people are
uploading porn or watching like child or anything, we always
find out after the fact, right right. And they've said
a lot of times that when you have people that
get arrested for aggressive sex or violence against women, there's
a trend in their porn, and so I do. There's
(20:50):
always a trend in their porn, like they're watching certain
type of porn. Now, I do love flucaqua. However, I
mix it up with lesbian You know what I'm sayes
that give X murderer no.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
But so if you're like starting to watch really violent ship,
maybe you need to be the kids.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
But I'm curious how this like so for in the
in the state of Louisiana, specifically Twitter, I watched so
much I was gonna.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
Say, what about there's no way that they're gonna be
able to like but itself is the number one youth site, right,
and it's the number one site for what's the word
when not revenge porn? But like someone didn't give consent.
Oh it's consensual, non consent, thank you?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
No no, no, no, not that like like a nose fucked
me and took a cell phone video of it and
uploaded and uploaded. Oh that's revenge.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Yeah yeah, I'm actually talking about actual scenes of lisensual.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
What are what are y'all's thoughts on?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Because by the way, when I lived over in in Singapore.
When I studied abroad, you had to get a VPN
just even access. So a lot of other count of
Asian countries you have stipulate just to watch.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Netflix. So scene that we just went through.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
The reversal of even Row versus Wade and now this
is happening, yes down there on the Bible Go. What
are y'all thoughts on Louisiana even doing like that? Do
you think more states follow?
Speaker 1 (22:16):
And how does that affect the space?
Speaker 3 (22:19):
So on one hand, I do appreciate that there has
to be another level of verification because you can just
say yes, I'm eighteen, and then you're in the site right,
which doesn't have any true weight to it. So somebody
could be fourteen logging on to peign hub just because
they click.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I show you the click. But also is that the
kid's fault? Where's your daddy? But that work? No? But
like that's the whole point.
Speaker 3 (22:48):
That's why it makes it good because parents can't watch
their children twenty four to seven, right, and then with
technology you have a broader access. So I think it
is good that it puts restrictions on there because people
get the misconception from watching porn. They think that that's
(23:08):
how it's supposed to be when it's not real. My
porn is real, by the way. My issue though, is
like y'all doing with that extra information though that's somebody's
whole like government information. Girl, we stand up for clear
they got our information. I mean, yes, they got yes.
And but I'm gonna say this though people don't know this,
but a lot of the big names are owned by like.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Only a few companies, which I did notice there was
an agency room even at the convention. So even like
when when I was doing the emails to get us
the tickets and stuff, a lot of the response was, oh, well,
that's normally done through agents. That's normally the agency handle
all of that, and but your was, well, it's.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Me and her, which is weird because if you're nominated,
it's just be an easy thing.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
And it didn't help to say, well we're nominated. We
were like tickets for the award show. But yeah, like
a lot of the girls are. And it's weird because
that's I would love to have an agent on here
to describe the difference between agency and pimping.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Because there's a lot it's a lot of that it's
a lot. I ain't gonna hold you. I saw a
lot of people. Okay, so.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
It's like.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Pimp.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I'm like, damn, I wish I could have just asked
one of them to come on the pot to it
is pimp sitting baby and there and there you could
tell like they.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Just remember we almost had a pimp on the show
and then we found out he was beating somebody.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Oh yeah, well that's what they do.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
It's just crazy or not. I was gonna say that
for agencies. I learned a little bit about the business
of sex agency. So right now, in today's culture, the
volume of money that people are making is from crowdfundings, yes, right,
which is a fami, fans are whatever. So what happens is,
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let's just say you're the baddest bitch that can square
a million miles an hour, Well, how are we to
find you if you're just a normal person in the world.
So much like a talent agency like Mandy and I
have w me right, these agencies take a fee to
then broaden the spectrum with you. And what happens is
because they have relationships with let's say a porn hubb
or you porn or whatever, it might be you then
get to be on a front part of a page
(25:20):
for exchange and whatever payola that they do in porn.
So that's how the agencies work, and they track from
when you've started on a quarterly basis like this is
a full time thing. Some of them are taking in
upwards of thirty five percent, depending on if the girl
has like, no, it is my professional corporate But think
(25:41):
about it if I'm just like, let's just say I'm
a badass receptionist that's got one hundred followers, or maybe
I have no face and I wanted to show my toes.
How am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feet
up there? They got agents, potmotils, they could.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
They got agents for everything. Yeah, for everything.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
People like people have no limits to what they like?
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Do you have limits?
Speaker 4 (26:07):
Daddy? Up? I wait?
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Now how does she say this?
Speaker 4 (26:14):
What what I said?
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Because you got softer when you do well, you said,
it's not like they call me daddy. No.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
But okay, so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right.
It can be yeah yah yeah, or you could be
like hello, ladies, So it's the vibration of the lower tone.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
You gonna make all these bitchess pusses. What at work period?
They gotta go to a bandroom? Go back to the
unicorn joke. Now, I did want to ask.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
Both of you guys for a whore dirve. So our
hoo dirve section is sex tips, and I want to
start with you, Daddy have I would love for you
to give a tip or a man who is maybe
just being.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Introduced to being a dom in his relationship. What tips
would you have for for beginner doms?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Make sure that whoever your partner is, that y'all have
a trusting relationship because if they don't trust you, then
they don't think that you can keep them safe or
protect them. Right, So it's about trust. So like your
partner can't submit to you. If you want someone to submit,
you can be like you're gonna submit.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
No, what does what is keeping someone safe and protected
look like?
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Just because I'm not going to the to the to
the corner club, would that be getting shot up all
the time and stuff like that? Like I don't walk
around with a bulletproof vest? What does protection and safety
look like from a partner? And I think because that's
an issue I'm having even in my relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Well, I like I need somebody.
Speaker 4 (27:45):
I'm gonna let niked unicorn ancidents.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
Okay, yes, there we go. How does thatd have keep
you safe?
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Well, we met in twenty twenty through my dom Madam Cartney,
and we went to where Madame Carmen like a New
York medical No not New York, madimal car with a see.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
We went to what was there space? We went to
in Atlanta. I'm familiar with the laws. Okay, so we went.
They do a lot of gay parties there. Now I
had a horrible experience at the loss. I'm not used to.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
I'm not used to how things happened because we have
Madame Carmen, she has kink Nick and our events are
always always safe and protected. But anyway, this guy decided
it was okay to grab my ass and right away
that he helped correcting him.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
He did not have my co.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
We we actually we met because through my through my dom,
we were Oh, I thought you guys met that night? Sorry, no, no, no,
we went to the play party the night that we met.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play
party that absolutely makes sense, that is and if you
got listened to a Patreon episode, I just had a
mirror from both sides of the bed, and we talked
about the etiquette of men in sex clubs. So I
don't think it's talked about enough like that. First of all,
we have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, I got
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to get it real well. Tune into our Patreon, Patreon
dot contact slash Horrible Decisions. Uh, it's just we We
had to have the conversation because even in terms of
approaching men, or like when men approached me knowing that
I come with my partner, like they'll just talk to
me and not even acknowledge him, and then I get
Then it's just a whole bunch. Anyways, we talk about
it on Patreon. I wanted to come to you for
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a whore Drm Tyomi.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
You have been going off off on Twitter, onf phone.
This has been dog period, just sit and people are
just loving it.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
But I wanted you to give a tip to the
thick girls who have sex and also please also share
the myth busting fact that thick girls can't take dick.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
So I put out a sweet and I was like,
rumor has it that thick girls can't take dick? Is
this true?
Speaker 3 (30:05):
Now? There were more people that came back and said,
it's actually a myth. It depends on the person, and
it depends on the amount of foreplay. And that's actually
ding ding Dean the truth.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
What do you think it stems from? Because like there's
always no got anywhere it stems from.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
So, because so I already have the answer, what I'm
doing is just generating public discourse that people talk about it. Right, So,
after I let the tweet go off for like twenty
four to forty eight hours, I said, all right, I've
had enough of this.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Let me tell you what I guess. Sure, Okay, I'm curious.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
Can't understand why somebody would say that either. I've like
the people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all the time.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
I'm like, what is it? Stamina?
Speaker 3 (30:49):
No, No, it's the perception that if you are in
a larger body you need firmer or harder handling, and
it's not true. And so you have more cushions, You
have cushion with women that are thicker. Yes, they're being
rougher with us because they assume that our bodies have
to be treated that way because of what the outside
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looks like. But it's like it's still vagina, still push.
It still has a bottom, aka the service.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
So what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (31:17):
And if we're not warmed up, just like skinny girls,
we're not going to be able to receive the full
dick we need for a play.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
We need to be treated with safety.
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Safety looks like whatever a person says they need to
feel comfortable in a situation, and everybody has a different
level of what that looks like. And literally men were
saying that women were saying that thick girls was like,
I don't know about job, but over here, I'm taking dick.
I said, yeah, me too, And I personally go into
my my situations with lovers like hey, let me guide
(31:50):
you into how to open me up before you try
to go to poundtown. You can't go to Poundtown out
of the gate. Even if I get on top out
the gate. I've been warmed up to a certain a
point where I can sit on the dick and it's comfortable.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
So the myth is just And one.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Guy said it in the thread. He was like, I
think the myths just comes from like one time there
was a guy who just wanted to rush into it,
and he assumed because he was rushing in that all
thick chicks can't take dick because he didn't take the
proper time to actually wark my body.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Right, No, it wasn't. It was most of all it
was not.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
But you know, they literally do feel like and I
mean I've been thinking my whole guy exactly so I know.
But yeah, they definitely come in I guess wanting to do.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
They come in so hot and relax. It's like I
ain't even warmed up yet exactly.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Like niggas get so excited because yeah, yeah, but I
mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's like
but but dog like right, you like all of that,
but relax like and sometimes I think that they they
think their erections are going to disappear, so as soon
as an erection is there, it's like.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Times sometimes I disappear in my thighs. They may be
between my thighs. I'll be like, so you're not the
one for me? Is the the little cushion between my
thigh and knee, Like.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Wait what you don't get the biggest between your thighs
and been your leg And have guys like.
Speaker 3 (33:22):
Her mind like they don't think it start fun, but
it feels do they spit there first? How does it
get what in I mean, my love, myneds be sweating
sweat if he was not boy. But the guys, yes,
(33:44):
the guy. You gotta think guys and they stay together.
It's just like they'd be rubbing and get legs and
they're not in.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
But yeah, moistened. And now wait, you kept talking about
being warmed up. Would love to know because I mean, yes,
you did give us for Dirk, but what is your
favorite way to get warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so
I like stimulating conversations.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
You know what I'm saying, well, not even read a book,
but like I like to debate about ship like hip hop.
You know you talk to me about like a right
facts of hip hop and ship. But also like I
like to be touched. So outside of like the mental
simulation of my body, get back to the body in
the boy knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip
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me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like
I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So if
I give you consent, please explore my body. I got
a body like I need you to like cuff my booty.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
A certain ways.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
I need you to get all around like the thickness
of my thighs, and then I like to be choked,
you know, like play with my naked I got choked, yo, yo.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
The best thing that happened to me so far yesterday. Yes,
it was your brain went right back yo. Yeah, I
got choked out on the couch.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
I was like, I remember this as I was fading
to black, now as you were fitting to please before
I got that much? Do you like to be choked
until you're like I like to be challenged to the
point to see like how far can I go before
our pass out? But I only do that with partners
that I trust, and this is a partner. It's no,
(35:12):
absolutely not. I have to monitor it because a lot
of guys like they think they know, but they really don't.
So I have to train them in the moment and
then give safe worst and stuff. This partner is somebody
I've known since like twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, so he
knows me, he knows my body, and we hadn't seen
each other in years. But he it was like clockwork,
like just jumping right back in. He knew how to
do it, the right amount of pressure. He has big
(35:34):
hands and let it Oh my god. Yeah, So that
in itself like me like.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Big hands and being choked.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
I like big hands being choked, big big men big. Yes,
you do you know I don't like a big I'm
gonna be with you. If you give me a skinny
nigga with a big dig I'll take that too. I
had a threat about that shit too. I used to go, Bro,
I gotta say the skinniest I told I said this
maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with Whisky
(36:02):
recently and Mandy has been talking about him for a year. Bro,
you seeing that, I'll tell you that nigga looks something me.
Speaker 3 (36:09):
There was a d wonder who play is gay? This
woman couldn't even concentrate, bro, that's how fine he was.
I took a picture with Wiz I know Satday Night seen,
and she was like, why y'all y'all go together?
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I hit her because I don't even want to see
nobody take pictures with him. I was acting like a
pa Okay, I was the producer on.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Ain't seen it, I.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Just know it.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
But I would love to be walking funny after that. Well,
I wanted to make sure we got to a horrible decision.
Is Daddy have I'm gonna ask you some questions. Of course,
so we've gotten into I mean clearly you being milked
and everything else, but I wanted to really get into
(37:00):
to bring up the milk and party you and you,
but especially with you being here. Tell me I thought
that it was right because you identify as a switch.
I want to confirm you are only a dom.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
You are not a switch?
Speaker 4 (37:14):
Correct? Well, I am mostly a dom, okay, but sometimes
I will switch.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
And then so with that, can you explain not only switching,
but I want to talk about if there is a
difference in roles and genders within being a dom or
a sub, like what that looks like from a man's perspective,
and if it changes across genders or not.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
I know how we show up as submissives because we're women.
I know me as a dome.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
Everyone only assumes I'm a dom when I'm pegging a nigga,
But there's other ways, even vocally, right, But I want
to know, like if there is clear distinctions with the
roles and genders between doms subs.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
In my opinion, just I think it's sort of gender fluid,
okay with with you know, dominant submissive is very it's
a very beautiful, fragile space. So it's not like men
are more dominant. Some some men, even though they appear dominant,
are really very submissive, very right, But they don't they
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don't feel and they don't feel safe enough for trusting
anyone enough who they can be submissive to.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,
a lot of women don't create that safe space. I
say that to my homegirls a lot, because when I
do experience the things I experienced actually may be like,
damn girl, how you be finding all the same type
of niggas. It's in the same type of shit. You
don't like I don't find them. It's that they or
(38:45):
I've allowed them the space for us to do these things.
And I'm like, you probably have either sett in conversations
something to let men know that you would judge them
in certain exact or it's like this right, for example,
talking about pegging. Right, I think there's probably two ways
women are doing it. Like if you're talking about horrible decisions,
(39:08):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
So I was listening a horrible decision today and Mandy
was saying how she pegged you ever been bad? Or
you're like okay, So I thought it was really kinky
because Mandy did would you be done to try that?
Like when you're already putting something down.
Speaker 4 (39:25):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't
want to show up for you and they're not the
dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
I think someone said on the show the key to
masculinity isn't in you asshole. But at the same time,
when hearing a tone like that, I would I've got
a nigga ask you had an divorce.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
No, well, damn you almost the things you could be
proud of us you never even know. When you hear that,
you're like, oh.
Speaker 4 (40:00):
Because because think about it this way, right, it's the
same same way where if a woman squirts for the
first time, that's the guy's first time experiencing people shame her,
and she won't do it again because she associates squirting
with shame with a partner. Right, So it's the same
thing women. Right, Well, I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks
(40:21):
I'm just speaking about myself. It's that once again, you
have to trust the person. You have to trust that
you're not going to attract somebody who's gonna be who
who makes you feel that they gonna tell your business.
So he's the thing that I gave this advice to
someone I was associated with a while ago, and I said, listen,
(40:42):
it's I hear around town too much that you like
to get paid, Like, don't let everybody pick you. Though
I told him that, I said, man, listen, you gotta
be you have to be very discerning about your actions, right,
Like you can't just be like, oh, that's the that's
the pagan guy. I just get in good with him
(41:03):
and uns.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
I feel like he is the pagan guy. And I
feel like, I know you're talking about we had on
the show. Maybe it is, Maybe it isn't. No, it's
not having someone else. Some people want to some people, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (41:21):
But that's what That's what I'm saying. So like you
just have to establish those different roles in as far
as dominant so like me personally, like I have to
really trust you to the fact that I would just
like bend over and allow you to just go to
work on me spanking.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Now, I want to know, do you have to trust
someone to dominate them, like to trust yourself.
Speaker 4 (41:48):
But there's a level of trust. First of all, I
trust myself, right, and when say, when Necker Unicorn trusts me,
then I know at that point in time if she
trusts me, that's all that matters. Because but I'm also
trusting that she's not going to do anything crazy, especially
if I'm doing having like knife play or something, have
a knife.
Speaker 1 (42:08):
After we got safety?
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Go Wait a second, So nine play, how do you
introduce that you're into that? Is there blood happening? To
explain ninth place? And so this and y'all are if
y'all are, y'all listen, these are black people. Uh here
way the knife play, let's get into it because that's interesting.
Speaker 4 (42:29):
All right.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
So he's.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
Like, yeah, so's the thing. Wow, I don't think they
make knives, but.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
All right, I was. I just thought the murders. Sorry wait,
Swiss army.
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Like or like well not like a big like a
big chef's no what like like like Michael Myers like
them kind of big knives like that or you can
use you can real.
Speaker 1 (42:59):
Not sex nice?
Speaker 4 (43:00):
Right? No, I don't. I don't think there's the such
thing as.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
Candles question.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
Like like the sex and I can be like play
almost it could look it could look like I'm just
really I.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Want to know how you introduce.
Speaker 4 (43:39):
All right. So so here's the thing. So you have
to ask, okay with saying the closed mouth, don't get fed,
here's the thing you know you want that, well, let
me let me explain this to you, all right. So
when you go through the things of what's your hard
limits and your soft limits, what are you open to?
This is when negotiation, right, So like give it for example,
(44:01):
like this riding crop here, like it's nice to leathery here,
but on this end it has little spikes. Okay. So
the thing is, even though I want to use it
on you, I have to say, Mandy, do I have
your consent to use this? That's the negotiation. And if
you touch it, you say can I touch it? Daddy?
If I say sure, touch it and if you say no,
(44:25):
then I take it away. But if you say yes,
not me personally. I told you I really want to
use it on you, but if you tell me no,
but I gotta respect that. So I pulled it away, right,
I pulled things away. So it's about it's you always
have to ask first. So with the knife, the knife
has to be something where like you're like, oh I
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would try that, got to be gott to be adventurous, right.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
So what you were just cutting some tomatoes and was like,
can I stab you? Usually where he does his like
his sessions, right, all of his tools are laid out,
so a.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
N okay, now this is so then you're asked.
Speaker 3 (45:08):
Well, what's that about? So I remember my first time
when knife play was with King New War. Okay, it
was at Exotica at that because King No War and
he's the mess of everything. Yes, yet absolutely do anything wrong?
Speaker 1 (45:20):
No, no, I don't think.
Speaker 3 (45:21):
But we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage
at Exotica, like a week before.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
He said I want to do knife play with you.
Are you open to that?
Speaker 3 (45:31):
Because he already had a list of like my soft
Heart and Maybies right, knife flight was like a maybe.
So I was like, well, what kind of knife you're using?
He explained, I don't think it would matters, so he
so I said okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,
he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me
at TSA, so I had to go buy another one.
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It's not my normal knife, but it's what it looks like.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Are you with it?
Speaker 3 (45:55):
It had like a little knob on it, I was like, okay,
I trust you. Yes, now he told me were a
fish net like of body stocking. During the performance, the
little knob kept getting stuck as he was dragging the
knife across my body to cut off the stocking. I
was shook out, froze, but I trusted him. So we're
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on stage, it's a performance. I gotta keep my face
together and still be sexy.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
And I'm like on a low seat, like I ain't
trying to tap out. But Boker, you do it.
Speaker 3 (46:26):
You know.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
It's so for me.
Speaker 1 (46:27):
I was like, whoa, it's everybody to experience.
Speaker 3 (46:30):
I don't know if I will try it again anytime soon,
but I do like when knife play is used with
wax play, so the nice you're not and you're not
cutting because you talked about the fish nuts. So nine
play is clothes. You can cut clothes off, so you're
not getting wax.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
No blood, no no.
Speaker 4 (46:52):
If if you're in the blood plate and your bottom
is in the blood play, then there's then there's blood, right,
But if you're not, basically the knife, you're just it's aation,
so it's just grazing across the skin that you would
feel the sensation of the edge of the knife on
your skin, right and to the point where you could
where you where you could where you could use the
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point of the knife.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
Now, because we are black, black, white, you said.
Speaker 3 (47:27):
We're not doing the blood because honestly, if someone told
me knfe play, I probably wouldn't guess that there was
no blood in it.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
I thought that there was blood, and I didn't hear that.
I didn't hear dash they once that for knife play instead,
he'll use a credit card.
Speaker 2 (47:40):
If they're blindfolded, like saying he would show them the knives,
but to feel it, he would only use like that's
he would do credit cards.
Speaker 3 (47:48):
I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you
want to go, because for a person who likes to
play hard, nice play is like on the harder side
of things.
Speaker 1 (47:56):
Yeah it is.
Speaker 3 (47:57):
Now, I'm personally not a blood play person. It's a
lot with a lot of safety protocol that goes with
that that I'm just not willing to do.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
But also I like my skin, saying I only want
I don't even want you, right, that's just bleed outside
of it. I've only heard of one black person doing
blood play, and it was Orlando.
Speaker 3 (48:13):
Oh yeah, and it was I I met a dom,
a Black dom at fat Con in twenty twenty sixteen
who was straight needling it on the con floor and
I was just like, god, damn, I never seen like
the first time Si.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Yeah, like needles, Orlando, did she have you done that?
It's pulling blood? That's not true. Yeah, that's a hard note.
Speaker 4 (48:38):
I have a phobia of needles. Like so even when
I go get tested, I'll be about to pass.
Speaker 3 (48:43):
Out, bron when I get tested and they be saying
stuff like, oh, do you have sex stuff?
Speaker 4 (48:48):
Right, like for real life? Okay, Like so needles for me, no,
but not a night for me because like I'm really
I'm really a very sensual domb. So for me, like
I'm all about it's all about sensation, taking the mind somewhere,
blindfolding everywhere. So like whether the way I flog, the
way I use all my impact, in the way I
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hands bang is very sensual, gotcha. So for me, like
you know, I'm big, I'm a big look feeling right,
So I was always a big, kung ful like person.
So but but like different movements like this like learning
tachi and stuff like this. So basically the knife is
(49:30):
all It's all like a move like energy. Yeah. So
so basically when I when I do BDS and play,
everything is about energy.
Speaker 2 (49:40):
So that's why he Look, they worried about what's on TV. Now,
Karate kids, got your ass, Karate can't look everything's just turned.
Speaker 4 (49:57):
Sure example which example?
Speaker 1 (50:00):
There we go?
Speaker 3 (50:00):
Here we go?
Speaker 4 (50:02):
What may I excuse me? May I personal sluct this
is my personal slut? Oh yeah, all right, so here's
the thing, right, So we're gonna talk about choking a
little bit, right, so hold on you doing a demo.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
It's an audio experience now. Now Black Effect pays us
for the audio, but.
Speaker 4 (50:27):
I want to show you what happens, right, So like
I'm big into energy, right, it's all about the touch
right as time we was talking about about the touch.
Speaker 1 (50:36):
Okay, it's giving meditation all that, right.
Speaker 4 (50:43):
Because we're working on this hard space to right, and
then we could tap up here right to release some things, okay, yes,
and then we can go in here like this, squeeze
a little bit.
Speaker 1 (51:06):
Bleep out the titty you remember, mm hmmm, they're gonna
hit us at work. M yellow. That was yellow, that's
(51:30):
what she said. Yellow. Yellow means okay, yes, yellow down.
But that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,
although you were the thing to watch. I looked at
you a few times and you were getting it's obvious.
Speaker 3 (51:54):
And you know, it's nice to see that because I've
definitely been in the presence of doms that think they
have to keep that face one.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
Just so hard.
Speaker 3 (52:01):
And it's like as nice to see us to act
ye it is yea, And sometimes that act kind of
makes me not buy into it, right. It feels like
just completely perform performative, and so I appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (52:13):
And so like I'm a I'm an exhibition. It's like
I like like even going to like like.
Speaker 1 (52:19):
We know, resort. Oh, but y'all are talking, so you
like to be watched?
Speaker 4 (52:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (52:24):
Okay, well great because I'm going out tonight, told us
and so and so you want to join us?
Speaker 1 (52:30):
You know you don't be wanting to go. You're not
coming to the play party. Wait, are you kidding? Show
that we're paratyp you know how we're bothering?
Speaker 4 (52:45):
We we we have right, that's right going people?
Speaker 1 (52:51):
Is it like hotel room? Yeah, it's well, I mean yeah,
I don't know either. I'm wait before we go, before
we leave to uh just because you're here.
Speaker 4 (53:06):
I did want to know.
Speaker 2 (53:07):
I've recently shared a list of sex clubs and because
we're in Vegas, have either of y'all been to the
Green Door?
Speaker 1 (53:19):
Is that what it is out here? I can't think
about the one that I went to, but but the
one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,
I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But
it was out here?
Speaker 3 (53:32):
Okay, So it was the way that they handled it.
I can't even think of the name of it. I'm
going to find it. But the way that they handle
her being assaulted did not please. She put it on Twitter,
she read about it.
Speaker 1 (53:43):
I wanted.
Speaker 2 (53:44):
I know, like more people are trying to venture into
these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know, to
experience the play parties how I have, especially in New York,
but I know it's different everywhere, and so definitely want
to make sure that we continue to share the safe
spaces to go to. Yes for us and especially especially
(54:08):
for us, And then maybe if you guys can share,
if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups
as well for people to be vetted.
Speaker 1 (54:15):
And joined to come to the type of parties. Yeah,
we like we like some we just don't vetting.
Speaker 3 (54:22):
Yeah, we just don't invite anybody everybody to come in,
Like we got to see what you look like your
social media and follow instructions.
Speaker 1 (54:29):
That's the moment. That's the main thing.
Speaker 3 (54:30):
It's like if there is a vetting form and we
say feel out everything, and you'll feel out everything, but
one thing, you're not coming because you're not following instructions.
If you can't follow simple instructions, and how can we
trust you to actually abide by consent? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (54:44):
Right, So people don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (54:45):
And like with me being a switch, right, being both
dominant and submissive, Right, I'm dominant when I have to
control things when I'm like on to host to care
of people. And then in my personal life, like there's
partners that I both dom and sub for. It depends
(55:06):
on the dynamic of our relationship, right, and if I
trust them with my safety, because I don't just switch
for anybody, right, I'm not going to see that's the
missive side of me unless I rushed you.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
And so people are like, I know.
Speaker 4 (55:19):
You were a kitt.
Speaker 3 (55:20):
I didn't know you were a little I didn't know
you were whatever. It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that
because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve
to see me like that.
Speaker 1 (55:27):
Well, y'all, we are sitting here with a father, a unicorn,
and a kidd.
Speaker 4 (55:31):
Yes, how many I bless you, my child, just like
you the right.
Speaker 1 (55:47):
To list my ass. My ass was read for like
you made me lick a shoe bit damn you. I
was at their rooms and you made people chance. Oh
and you know I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (56:04):
But now.
Speaker 1 (56:06):
I didn't go words ship see you using wrong word.
Speaker 2 (56:09):
Now, Mandy's so hard with this battle that she said, sorry,
it hurts so bad. Well, y'all, we I'm just so
glad we got to do this well in Vegas. Please
please please let all of our listeners know where they
can follow you, find you and if you have anything
(56:30):
coming up, parties, a lessons, of classes.
Speaker 1 (56:33):
All the things.
Speaker 3 (56:38):
Yes, you can find me on I'm at real gleamozon
Tyomi and on Twitter where we have public discourse about
six At Glemazon, Tommy type it in because they have
me shuttle band or something.
Speaker 1 (56:51):
That's just how it is exactly.
Speaker 3 (56:55):
And if you're trying to learn how to ride but
also as a woman, feel better about your body and
like just more embodied. Theocowgirl Workout dot Com. We are
online you can work out from the comfort of your own.
Speaker 1 (57:06):
Home, and it's hard. I'm a botified version, y'all.
Speaker 3 (57:11):
So you know, I have people with like disabilities who
are also in my tribe, and I make sure that
as people come into my containers that I accommodate them
as much as possible. So I've been working on like
new methods just to make sure everybody feels like they
can keep up at their own pace. And I'm launching
the Pleasure Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform,
(57:32):
and I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all
year again resident sexperson and our coordinators. So if you
are an educator and you're listening to the show and
you want to be considered to teach, go to Exotica
Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have
to approve you. Yeah, please feel it out, come and
join us at the Expo. Four shows, y'all, just a
(57:55):
lot you can teach, but we do four shows every year,
so go to our webs We do need a live
show come through like got cha.
Speaker 2 (58:01):
Yeah, listen, gotcha, We're gonna were gonna put that into
the universe issues.
Speaker 1 (58:06):
Yes ahead to get it. And you can find me
on Instagram and Naked Underscore, Unicorn Underscoring. All of my
links are there. I'm shadow band. Yeah yeah, because I'm
shadow Band on everything as well. All right, un everybody
(58:30):
where they can follow you find you get into not
literally but maybe.
Speaker 4 (58:43):
Yes, my child, you can find me an Instagram at
Real Daddy Health, Twitter, Daddy Underscore Health if you want to. Also,
we got the health Lifestyle community that's going to be
coming soon. That's a page subscripts and what's going to
have exclusive content all things lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (59:04):
Are y'all all in Chicago or I'm in Chicago, he's
in Charlotte. I wasn't taking now I'm here, so everybody from.
Speaker 2 (59:12):
All over, but we are all in Vegas and guys,
before we get out of here, y'all have heard us
say it, we gonna say it again. We want our
London teings. Y'all gotta come out and see us, all right,
say Valentine's Day, we are in London.
Speaker 3 (59:27):
Make sure you get your tickets. Let we are at
the Clapham Gramm. We're so excited. We got a gang coming.
Vinnie's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are
bringing our entire production to London. This is not going
to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.
This is just like our real show that we've been
doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it to.
Speaker 1 (59:46):
I'm ready to go across the water. We have been international, bitch.
We did Toronto well.
Speaker 3 (59:52):
In Mexico and Jamaicico, we did, We did, but it
wasn't that was We didn't make I go on the pond.
We did, but not a listen as someone who has
multiple shows in London, flexed real.
Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Quick, have fun.
Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
Make sure you get your tickets. It's s W A
C E n T dot shoes, that's s h o
O b S dot com. Get your tickets now and
bring your man your side, check your side, nigga, whoever.
Speaker 1 (01:00:23):
It's Valenti.
Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
We don't have a single lady section and if you
have the nerve to bring a couple, as I am
a single bitch, I'm I'm basically so.
Speaker 1 (01:00:32):
Sweezy's gonna join y'all for sex right after.
Speaker 2 (01:00:35):
Thank you'all for tuning in to get another episode of
Horrible Decisions,
Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Poor Blad.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
This is y'all. I'm a girl, Maydy Baka is dawny
aka all of it, y'all, I'm weezy.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
If you're watching us on the YouTube, ill like YouTube
were taking?
Speaker 1 (00:23):
What is that old?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
People think to say you watched us on the YouTube?
A bitch, I feel old. It's a Friday night. I
was reading a book before I came in here, bitch. Oh,
I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in here.
But imagination, oh wait, I was gonna say, this table
ship is like really giving me seven year ago vibes?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah, it's four years man to upgrade it. Yeah, we started.
We were like, I remember I.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Was there, Yes, but we guys, if you are listening,
we are currently in Vegas because, as you guys know,
we are nominated hopefully winners by the time this drops,
but we are nominated for or an Avan Award. So
we came out here and we got me working. So
she was like, well, let's record a podcast out there
because I don't want anyways, So we're now recording podcasts
(01:10):
in Vegas, and we are joined by some great people
which I'm super excited to finally have on the pod. Well,
Glen was on Tyomi. We have a friend who has
been on the pod a year ago. Right, I just
being I appreciate you. You did great at our live show.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Too, I did. We crushed it, and y'all help me
start on my tour and I still don't ride Dick.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
And then we are joined as well by someone who
I just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're
out here.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
At the same time, we have Daddy he Hello, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Now I have to ask you because I know even
when we when we met each other, you said daddy
does have to be mentioned, like yes, I have to
call you daddy the whole the whole episode or what.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
The rebellious one? Right?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
You don't want me to call you, do you? If
your name is Weezy, I call you. I can call
you we.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Maybe if you got your mama name weasel or something.
Oh no, but like let me ask. If someone doesn't
do you not respond?
Speaker 4 (02:11):
That's correct? So, because here's here's the thing, right is
that say, for example, if you give someone your name,
like say say you say your name is Taquana just
for the night. If they call you Kwana, you'd be like,
I don't know who Kuanta is.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
You feel disrespected?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:29):
What about women that have a daddy?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Why? I doesn't because here's the thing. You calling me
daddy doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Father?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I feel like daddy though is much like a cirt,
like it's something that's it's like it's given me giving
up power.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Right.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
So if I already have someone that's my dom, now
I don't. I'm just trying to play devil.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
If I have a dom, right, and then you say
call me dad and I'm like, I can't it is
it like you just.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
But no, here's the thing you said, what's your name?
I said, my name is Daddy heth right. So if
you are say you are a felm dom right, and
your filmdom name is Mama Wesey right now, if I'm like,
I don't want to call nobody else mama, But it's not.
It's not about what you feel. It's about it's about respects.
(03:21):
Respect is If your name is Mama Weasey, I'm going
to call you Mama wese because that's how you introduce
yourself to me right, hold.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
For God God as a wold of God Father has
it's the whole different dude.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Wait, there is a God damn Father. Here's the thing right.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
See when when I have people who who mess with
my shadow right and would like to come in and
tease a little bit, so they got this from I
have this pastor outfit right right?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
No excuse me, It's okay, it's.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
It's a priest.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's a priest and not pastor. No, no, no, I ain't
gonna hold you.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
You might want to stay pastor because priests be out
here dealing with the little boys. You want to say,
beyond call thought you was a pastor because we had
that white suit when you lined up all them booties.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
That see, like I was telling someone that's so skeasy too. Definitely,
that's wow.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It'd be the children from Well then, real quick, what
has you out here? Uh? In Vegas for a v N?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Well, this is something I've been wanting to manifest for
for a long time. So I was just like, I
got the time and I met I met the place
in my in my life and my career as far
as my business, where if I want if there's a
trip I need to go to. I'm going to go
to and I've always wanted to come to to a man.
So SIS was like, you're coming to a VN bro.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Okay, and you do have a yes with you for
the people listening again watching.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
So this this is the fantabulous, delicious, gorgeous, sexy as
a motherfucker the naked unicorns.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I wish you would have brought your unicorn in here, though, like,
what do you mean? No, that's her horn.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
But she has a unicorn like a little buddy that
she carries, so like, I'm an unicorn collector. That's how
we actually connect it because she's a little.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Animate sh is.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
This is porn weekend, bitch, you better get all in
the sex realm yard.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Okay, let's give it actually then, well.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Real quick, this is something new then we used to
back in the day have something called the kink of
the week. What is now We've been talking about unicorns
in the essence of a woman joining in on a
couple and that's.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
So not just splain to them. I call myself the
unicorn because I'm a newist. I like being naked. And
also I was told that my pussy is magical. So
I'm a unicorn. This is me and stuffy form. This
is my personality. I'm walking around with my personality in
(06:13):
the stuffy form. Wait, so you both collect unicorns. I
collect unicorns because I'm a little, so I do age play.
My little is like three four years old. So I've
been collecting stuffy since I was a kid. And so
when I found out that being a little is a
thing in like kink, I was like, oh shit, Wow,
I didn't know you were a little.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I did not know you was a little. You don't
know that I know you know what it is.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
It's interesting to meet women that can be alpha in
other spaces.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
And we're gonna get into that because because you're such
a dom I'm surprised that you can.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Tell on me.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Made my mother get on her knee would have been
a little wow. And so I didn't always know that
I was. So she just helped my mama ride dick
a yoga ball. That's exactly yeah. And I didn't know
if she could get down, but she got down. I
was happy about that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Okay, And real quick, before we give the mic back
to daddy, have how long have you been unicorning like
in this way? And is there a confusion as well
when you explain that your unicorn.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Yeah, people always assume that it's the lifestyle term. When
I say that I'm a unicorn, I was like, no,
it's le naked unicorn.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
That's my corn star name. And it's just because your
pussy's magical.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Yes, okay, I mean I'm magical in itself, but she
has her own what are her powers?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Got to ask the people who.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Daddy have hold on? Take the mic back. I need
to know what is the powers like down there?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Hold on?
Speaker 4 (07:52):
In the famous words of Dave Chappelle, one.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Here for now.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
But here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard
the legend of that magical pussy. Okay, I heard It's
like a land of paradise, and make believe, bitch.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
I ain't gonna hold y'all. I'm about to come in
with it with a unicorn horn on my mother head
for the rest of the year. But I don't watch
its powerful too. So I'm a unicornt. I do have
a question. What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are
the three of y'all all together here today?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Okay? So me and this guy, we have a long history.
His name in my phone can I say it?
Speaker 4 (08:39):
No?
Speaker 3 (08:39):
No, his name in my phone is the original name
that I met him under. So when I first started
my blog back in twenty eleven, he found me and
he used to have a radio show on blog talk
radio what was it every Wednesday, every Wednesday night, and
so I would come on right I would come on
and do the sex position of the week because on
(08:59):
my block when I started Dick Gleam on one dot com,
every Monday, I would do a sex position of the week.
And so this guy has had so many legendary people
who are popping right now on his show in the
early days. And that's how we met. We just became
super cool. Like ts Madison is one of the people
that the thick, the big big bitch, Yes Yo Yo
(09:24):
met her on his show back in twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
So we had an amazing conversation and like like on
the air, I experienced. I talked about the time when
I experienced having a prostate orgasm and getting my pro
state milk. I talked about my process on my radio show,
and I would have like certain things about about men's
mental health and stuff like that, but most of it
(09:49):
was about nasty, nasty, freaky that.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Oh yeah, gone, we'll go back to unicorn.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
So all right, So here's the thing. A lot of
men have issues with the process as they get older
because it gets it gets swollen, right, and when it
gets swollen get you get estrogen and testosterone in there
and the toxins, and then that's how they get prostate cancer,
the polyts in their prostate. So what happens is when
someone actually goes in and stimulates the pro the prostate,
(10:29):
it massages it and deflects it.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
This is when Vinny said he made somebody squirt from there.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
But also this is what I'll be telling y'all s
So basically, if we just out here fingering niggas bootth holes,
we could keep them from getting pro Yes, whoa not.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Just the prost you gotta here?
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Okay, but wait, fucking somebody in the ass can cure cancer?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
No no, no, no, no, no, I won't cure cancer. However, what.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
That actual prostate massage? Yes, it's given cure as long
as search we've recently found on horrible decisions from daddy
half as you know.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
I want to ask you though, because with blackness, specifically,
they don't want their bootle hole being touched whatsoever. So
was it a was it a woman that said it's
not gonna hurt? Was it a doctor? Was it you
going to the doctor and enjoying it the first time?
So how did you do it?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
So here's the thing. Yes, when I was a freshman
in college. Now, I was already at an advanced stage,
right far as I eat pussy the first time when
I was fifteen, Right, so I've been eating pussy. But however,
(11:50):
you know, we were in it. We were in a
sexual situation and she said, don't get mad, but I'm
gonna lick your buddy. I was like, now no, I'm like,
I'm like eighteen. I was like, okay, let's see what happens.
Oh my god. And I didn't really understood. I didn't
understand what that feeling was. But when she had me
(12:12):
hold my legs willingly and she was looking at them,
I was like trying to tell y'all, me let me
tell you, fellas, listen, let go of that ego and listen.
You may need some roots. Shock will work. Let me
tell you something, Let me tell you something. She would
(12:32):
She'll look you like, she'll look you like a toddler.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Let me lick you up, let me lick.
Speaker 4 (12:38):
You down, Come on down, turn around, all around. If
y'all know that, let me nikky girl like your lover.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Shit. I want to know, was this the age that
you got melt?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
No, see, I'm giving you the genesis.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
You got into your hole? Yeah right, because I don't
I don't like that was just tongued. When did you
When did you graduate to the fingers?
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Oh? You know, maybe a few years later? Like okay,
I had, I had, I had a partner and she
stuck the tip of her finger in my ass.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
I'm just like, okay, don't stop now. Can I ask
you a question? As a dom? Sure, that to me
is a very submissive thing to do normally, Like even
I talk about pegging all the time. I always feel
like the dom and a lot of times the men
become my bitch.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
So because your ass is your manhood a lot of times,
especially with black men, how is a dom?
Speaker 1 (13:39):
Do you even do you switch?
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Do you consider that being submissive or do you find
a way psychologically to still feel like you're a dominant
in that position?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Well, at that point in time when I'm when I'm
opening myself up, so his thing his the disclaimer by
me saying this, I'm not saying that I a number
one have been pegged number two like to be paid. Okay,
so remember that, so disclaimer, okay, disclaimer all right. So however,
(14:08):
I do know at that moment when I do decide
to be I have to trust someone right, and I
could be vulnerable with him and I and I know
that they're there for my pleasure. Right when I could
trust someone enough right that I could just spread my
booty cheeks, you know what I'm saying, and and getting
(14:29):
getting licked like a day, like a day, belvety hand
a week.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay, wait go background blog talk radio.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Y'all met you were doing sex positions and then and
we just became friends and we just send like this everything.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
We went down the rabbit hole then, yeah, we did.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
I just want to know if you guys don't have sex.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
We've never no. So this is like my brother. It's
funny because like that's my.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Girls be saying. But girls say that, but like homeboys.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
People get confused because they see us like kiss on
the lips when we greet each other.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
But that's just how we greet each other.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
But like we are like a brother and sister, just
a lot kinkier and open with our ship, Like we
be naked around each other and everything.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
It's just what it is. But we're not blood. But
blood wouldn't make us any closer, you know.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Like we've literally grown up in this industry together. So
anything that I had an opportunity to be a part of,
I always brought him in.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
So then industry wise, you're both here for AVAN, but
you do Exodica a lot.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Now I work for Exotica.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
We got nominated and found out because the fan DMed
me and said wow, truly I hit weezy. She's like, well,
you know we nominated. I said, girl, I just got
a DM and a fan said, we're nominated. I think
I told Adam twenty two they were nominate, Like literally literally,
we're not aware, and so we were like, well, we
have nobody at ABN.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
No one even reached out to us and let us
know that we were nominated. I'm not surprised.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
They just put you out on the fly.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
We pretty much were just on the one T can
promote us.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
How many horror podcasts just put them all in right,
all of them crazy is and we did go down
the list we are were whenever this drops, one of
only two black pods even recognized.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Yes, so shocking, which I'm not gonna lie. Went to
the convention today.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
I went to the convention today and was able to
really like walk around I random people that I knew,
like I actually read well, No, I read wrong.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
I did not run into many black people, but I
did running run into King Nazir, who has been on
the pod before.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
I also run into Adam and and.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Uh and Uh, Lenna Lenna and then my friends. Then
I knew that we're already working there, but there were
not many black people, not many black porn stars either,
And I was like, okay, I see, okay, interesting, But
I do want to ask you then, because you also
have been in attendance the difference between the conventions and
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what someone may be able to expect at a porn
or sex convention.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
So I work for Exotica as the resident sex expert
in the sumer are coordinated for the show, and I
have since twenty seventeen, but even prior to that time,
Oh yeah, I've been yeah, my peoples, but prior to that,
like actually working for them. I did every Chicago Exotica
since twenty twelve. Wow, yes, I'm like you like ten
(17:30):
years in the game basically, basically, I mean twelve years
in general.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
In the game. Maybe like just take the keys right now,
you can give me the keys.
Speaker 3 (17:38):
So there's a strict difference between Exotica and av AVN
is like the industry show, like the big industry show.
So a lot of the big production companies are out,
the big stars who do at the contract work with
like Browsers and Bang Bros. And in like a game
exactly all in there signing, right, and so it's like
the professional show. And then there's the award show where
(18:01):
you know it means something to be nominated for an
an award because you're recognized by the adult industry. Right.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
But over the last few years, ABN has an organization
has pretty much plummeted. And I'm saying it's publicly because
everybody knows that it's a true So I'm okay with
saying how did it happen? But I'm not with that information.
So it's not it does it have anything to do
with the only fans and a lot.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
Of there used to be way more people that worked
for the organization and be due to internal stuff. Now
there's not as much staff and so you could see, like,
and everyone was saying it when they came onto the
floor that the organization was not the same, that it
just seemed like it was a shell of what it
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used to be.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
I do wonder if it has anything to do with
And we've talked about this on the pot too, especially
with only fans now porn Hub, all of just the
umbrellas of porn has something as well to do with
tech now, and there have been a lot of tech
layoffs over the last couple of years. And the vanilla
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shit that I even wanted to bring up is that
now in the state of Louisiana, you have to show
ID or how to verify your age now to even
go on to pornhub dot com or any adult site.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh yeah, hol on the South, the Bible belt is wildly.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
So I never heard it.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
But don't tell you why I like this, Oh you do?
Speaker 4 (19:29):
Like?
Speaker 2 (19:29):
Hold on, let me read it before first. I'm gonna
read it because okay, so y'all can understand. So it
is now saying that many may be familiar with the
common pop up message that implores people to verify that
they're eighteen years or order before accessing a porn site. However,
in Louisiana, people have to have to begin providing legitimate
proof that they're a legal adult before visiting adult websites.
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The law, dubbed Act four forty, officially wanted to effect
on January first of this year, and it's centered on
protecting people under the age of eighteen from quote unquote
commercial entities who distribute material harmful to minors aka pornography.
Pretty much, you're gonna have to start uploading your passport,
your ID or something to even verify yourself before going
(20:13):
onto these sites. Which because I've been really into porn,
Lady Only Fans does do that as well.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
In order to even.
Speaker 3 (20:20):
Only Fans is also like a register but for me
to pay to watch. So here's my two reasons why
I like this. And even though I do think it's
insane that I have to log in to watch porn.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
But I know that in most cases when people are
uploading porn or watching like child or anything, we always
find out after the fact, right right. And they've said
a lot of times that when you have people that
get arrested for aggressive sex or violence against women, there's
a trend in their porn, and so I do. There's
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always a trend in their porn, like they're watching certain
type of porn. Now, I do love flucaqua. However, I
mix it up with lesbian You know what I'm sayes
that give X murderer no.
Speaker 3 (21:02):
But so if you're like starting to watch really violent ship,
maybe you need to be the kids.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
But I'm curious how this like so for in the
in the state of Louisiana, specifically Twitter, I watched so
much I was gonna.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
Say, what about there's no way that they're gonna be
able to like but itself is the number one youth site, right,
and it's the number one site for what's the word
when not revenge porn? But like someone didn't give consent.
Oh it's consensual, non consent, thank you?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
No no, no, no, not that like like a nose fucked
me and took a cell phone video of it and
uploaded and uploaded. Oh that's revenge.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Yeah yeah, I'm actually talking about actual scenes of lisensual.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
What are what are y'all's thoughts on?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Because by the way, when I lived over in in Singapore.
When I studied abroad, you had to get a VPN
just even access. So a lot of other count of
Asian countries you have stipulate just to watch.
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Netflix. So scene that we just went through.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
The reversal of even Row versus Wade and now this
is happening, yes down there on the Bible Go. What
are y'all thoughts on Louisiana even doing like that? Do
you think more states follow?
Speaker 1 (22:16):
And how does that affect the space?
Speaker 3 (22:19):
So on one hand, I do appreciate that there has
to be another level of verification because you can just
say yes, I'm eighteen, and then you're in the site right,
which doesn't have any true weight to it. So somebody
could be fourteen logging on to peign hub just because
they click.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I show you the click. But also is that the
kid's fault? Where's your daddy? But that work? No? But
like that's the whole point.
Speaker 3 (22:48):
That's why it makes it good because parents can't watch
their children twenty four to seven, right, and then with
technology you have a broader access. So I think it
is good that it puts restrictions on there because people
get the misconception from watching porn. They think that that's
(23:08):
how it's supposed to be when it's not real. My
porn is real, by the way. My issue though, is
like y'all doing with that extra information though that's somebody's
whole like government information. Girl, we stand up for clear
they got our information. I mean, yes, they got yes.
And but I'm gonna say this though people don't know this,
but a lot of the big names are owned by like.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
Only a few companies, which I did notice there was
an agency room even at the convention. So even like
when when I was doing the emails to get us
the tickets and stuff, a lot of the response was, oh, well,
that's normally done through agents. That's normally the agency handle
all of that, and but your was, well, it's.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Me and her, which is weird because if you're nominated,
it's just be an easy thing.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
And it didn't help to say, well we're nominated. We
were like tickets for the award show. But yeah, like
a lot of the girls are. And it's weird because
that's I would love to have an agent on here
to describe the difference between agency and pimping.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Because there's a lot it's a lot of that it's
a lot. I ain't gonna hold you. I saw a
lot of people. Okay, so.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
It's like.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Pimp.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I'm like, damn, I wish I could have just asked
one of them to come on the pot to it
is pimp sitting baby and there and there you could
tell like they.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Just remember we almost had a pimp on the show
and then we found out he was beating somebody.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Oh yeah, well that's what they do.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
It's just crazy or not. I was gonna say that
for agencies. I learned a little bit about the business
of sex agency. So right now, in today's culture, the
volume of money that people are making is from crowdfundings, yes, right,
which is a fami, fans are whatever. So what happens is,
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let's just say you're the baddest bitch that can square
a million miles an hour, Well, how are we to
find you if you're just a normal person in the world.
So much like a talent agency like Mandy and I
have w me right, these agencies take a fee to
then broaden the spectrum with you. And what happens is
because they have relationships with let's say a porn hubb
or you porn or whatever, it might be you then
get to be on a front part of a page
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for exchange and whatever payola that they do in porn.
So that's how the agencies work, and they track from
when you've started on a quarterly basis like this is
a full time thing. Some of them are taking in
upwards of thirty five percent, depending on if the girl
has like, no, it is my professional corporate But think
(25:41):
about it if I'm just like, let's just say I'm
a badass receptionist that's got one hundred followers, or maybe
I have no face and I wanted to show my toes.
How am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feet
up there? They got agents, potmotils, they could.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
They got agents for everything. Yeah, for everything.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
People like people have no limits to what they like?
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Do you have limits?
Speaker 4 (26:07):
Daddy? Up? I wait?
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Now how does she say this?
Speaker 4 (26:14):
What what I said?
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Because you got softer when you do well, you said,
it's not like they call me daddy. No.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
But okay, so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right.
It can be yeah yah yeah, or you could be
like hello, ladies, So it's the vibration of the lower tone.
Speaker 1 (26:31):
You gonna make all these bitchess pusses. What at work period?
They gotta go to a bandroom? Go back to the
unicorn joke. Now, I did want to ask.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
Both of you guys for a whore dirve. So our
hoo dirve section is sex tips, and I want to
start with you, Daddy have I would love for you
to give a tip or a man who is maybe
just being.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
Introduced to being a dom in his relationship. What tips
would you have for for beginner doms?
Speaker 4 (27:02):
Make sure that whoever your partner is, that y'all have
a trusting relationship because if they don't trust you, then
they don't think that you can keep them safe or
protect them. Right, So it's about trust. So like your
partner can't submit to you. If you want someone to submit,
you can be like you're gonna submit.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
No, what does what is keeping someone safe and protected
look like?
Speaker 2 (27:27):
Just because I'm not going to the to the to
the corner club, would that be getting shot up all
the time and stuff like that? Like I don't walk
around with a bulletproof vest? What does protection and safety
look like from a partner? And I think because that's
an issue I'm having even in my relationship.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Well, I like I need somebody.
Speaker 4 (27:45):
I'm gonna let niked unicorn ancidents.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
Okay, yes, there we go. How does thatd have keep
you safe?
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Well, we met in twenty twenty through my dom Madam Cartney,
and we went to where Madame Carmen like a New
York medical No not New York, madimal car with a see.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
We went to what was there space? We went to
in Atlanta. I'm familiar with the laws. Okay, so we went.
They do a lot of gay parties there. Now I
had a horrible experience at the loss. I'm not used to.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
I'm not used to how things happened because we have
Madame Carmen, she has kink Nick and our events are
always always safe and protected. But anyway, this guy decided
it was okay to grab my ass and right away
that he helped correcting him.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
He did not have my co.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
We we actually we met because through my through my dom,
we were Oh, I thought you guys met that night? Sorry, no, no, no,
we went to the play party the night that we met.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play
party that absolutely makes sense, that is and if you
got listened to a Patreon episode, I just had a
mirror from both sides of the bed, and we talked
about the etiquette of men in sex clubs. So I
don't think it's talked about enough like that. First of all,
we have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, I got
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to get it real well. Tune into our Patreon, Patreon
dot contact slash Horrible Decisions. Uh, it's just we We
had to have the conversation because even in terms of
approaching men, or like when men approached me knowing that
I come with my partner, like they'll just talk to
me and not even acknowledge him, and then I get
Then it's just a whole bunch. Anyways, we talk about
it on Patreon. I wanted to come to you for
(29:35):
a whore Drm Tyomi.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
You have been going off off on Twitter, onf phone.
This has been dog period, just sit and people are
just loving it.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
But I wanted you to give a tip to the
thick girls who have sex and also please also share
the myth busting fact that thick girls can't take dick.
Speaker 1 (29:59):
So I put out a sweet and I was like,
rumor has it that thick girls can't take dick? Is
this true?
Speaker 3 (30:05):
Now? There were more people that came back and said,
it's actually a myth. It depends on the person, and
it depends on the amount of foreplay. And that's actually
ding ding Dean the truth.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
What do you think it stems from? Because like there's
always no got anywhere it stems from.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
So, because so I already have the answer, what I'm
doing is just generating public discourse that people talk about it. Right, So,
after I let the tweet go off for like twenty
four to forty eight hours, I said, all right, I've
had enough of this.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Let me tell you what I guess. Sure, Okay, I'm curious.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 3 (30:42):
Can't understand why somebody would say that either. I've like
the people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all the time.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
I'm like, what is it? Stamina?
Speaker 3 (30:49):
No, No, it's the perception that if you are in
a larger body you need firmer or harder handling, and
it's not true. And so you have more cushions, You
have cushion with women that are thicker. Yes, they're being
rougher with us because they assume that our bodies have
to be treated that way because of what the outside
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looks like. But it's like it's still vagina, still push.
It still has a bottom, aka the service.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
So what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (31:17):
And if we're not warmed up, just like skinny girls,
we're not going to be able to receive the full
dick we need for a play.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
We need to be treated with safety.
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Safety looks like whatever a person says they need to
feel comfortable in a situation, and everybody has a different
level of what that looks like. And literally men were
saying that women were saying that thick girls was like,
I don't know about job, but over here, I'm taking dick.
I said, yeah, me too, And I personally go into
my my situations with lovers like hey, let me guide
(31:50):
you into how to open me up before you try
to go to poundtown. You can't go to Poundtown out
of the gate. Even if I get on top out
the gate. I've been warmed up to a certain a
point where I can sit on the dick and it's comfortable.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
So the myth is just And one.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Guy said it in the thread. He was like, I
think the myths just comes from like one time there
was a guy who just wanted to rush into it,
and he assumed because he was rushing in that all
thick chicks can't take dick because he didn't take the
proper time to actually wark my body.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
Right, No, it wasn't. It was most of all it
was not.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
But you know, they literally do feel like and I
mean I've been thinking my whole guy exactly so I know.
But yeah, they definitely come in I guess wanting to do.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
They come in so hot and relax. It's like I
ain't even warmed up yet exactly.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
Like niggas get so excited because yeah, yeah, but I
mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's like
but but dog like right, you like all of that,
but relax like and sometimes I think that they they
think their erections are going to disappear, so as soon
as an erection is there, it's like.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Times sometimes I disappear in my thighs. They may be
between my thighs. I'll be like, so you're not the
one for me? Is the the little cushion between my
thigh and knee, Like.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Wait what you don't get the biggest between your thighs
and been your leg And have guys like.
Speaker 3 (33:22):
Her mind like they don't think it start fun, but
it feels do they spit there first? How does it
get what in I mean, my love, myneds be sweating
sweat if he was not boy. But the guys, yes,
(33:44):
the guy. You gotta think guys and they stay together.
It's just like they'd be rubbing and get legs and
they're not in.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
But yeah, moistened. And now wait, you kept talking about
being warmed up. Would love to know because I mean, yes,
you did give us for Dirk, but what is your
favorite way to get warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so
I like stimulating conversations.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
You know what I'm saying, well, not even read a book,
but like I like to debate about ship like hip hop.
You know you talk to me about like a right
facts of hip hop and ship. But also like I
like to be touched. So outside of like the mental
simulation of my body, get back to the body in
the boy knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip
(34:22):
me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like
I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So if
I give you consent, please explore my body. I got
a body like I need you to like cuff my booty.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
A certain ways.
Speaker 3 (34:33):
I need you to get all around like the thickness
of my thighs, and then I like to be choked,
you know, like play with my naked I got choked, yo, yo.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
The best thing that happened to me so far yesterday. Yes,
it was your brain went right back yo. Yeah, I
got choked out on the couch.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
I was like, I remember this as I was fading
to black, now as you were fitting to please before
I got that much? Do you like to be choked
until you're like I like to be challenged to the
point to see like how far can I go before
our pass out? But I only do that with partners
that I trust, and this is a partner. It's no,
(35:12):
absolutely not. I have to monitor it because a lot
of guys like they think they know, but they really don't.
So I have to train them in the moment and
then give safe worst and stuff. This partner is somebody
I've known since like twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, so he
knows me, he knows my body, and we hadn't seen
each other in years. But he it was like clockwork,
like just jumping right back in. He knew how to
do it, the right amount of pressure. He has big
(35:34):
hands and let it Oh my god. Yeah, So that
in itself like me like.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Big hands and being choked.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
I like big hands being choked, big big men big. Yes,
you do you know I don't like a big I'm
gonna be with you. If you give me a skinny
nigga with a big dig I'll take that too. I
had a threat about that shit too. I used to go, Bro,
I gotta say the skinniest I told I said this
maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with Whisky
(36:02):
recently and Mandy has been talking about him for a year. Bro,
you seeing that, I'll tell you that nigga looks something me.
Speaker 3 (36:09):
There was a d wonder who play is gay? This
woman couldn't even concentrate, bro, that's how fine he was.
I took a picture with Wiz I know Satday Night seen,
and she was like, why y'all y'all go together?
Speaker 4 (36:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (36:23):
I hit her because I don't even want to see
nobody take pictures with him. I was acting like a
pa Okay, I was the producer on.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
Ain't seen it, I.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Just know it.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
But I would love to be walking funny after that. Well,
I wanted to make sure we got to a horrible decision.
Is Daddy have I'm gonna ask you some questions. Of course,
so we've gotten into I mean clearly you being milked
and everything else, but I wanted to really get into
(37:00):
to bring up the milk and party you and you,
but especially with you being here. Tell me I thought
that it was right because you identify as a switch.
I want to confirm you are only a dom.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
You are not a switch?
Speaker 4 (37:14):
Correct? Well, I am mostly a dom, okay, but sometimes
I will switch.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
And then so with that, can you explain not only switching,
but I want to talk about if there is a
difference in roles and genders within being a dom or
a sub, like what that looks like from a man's perspective,
and if it changes across genders or not.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
I know how we show up as submissives because we're women.
I know me as a dome.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
Everyone only assumes I'm a dom when I'm pegging a nigga,
But there's other ways, even vocally, right, But I want
to know, like if there is clear distinctions with the
roles and genders between doms subs.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
In my opinion, just I think it's sort of gender fluid,
okay with with you know, dominant submissive is very it's
a very beautiful, fragile space. So it's not like men
are more dominant. Some some men, even though they appear dominant,
are really very submissive, very right, But they don't they
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don't feel and they don't feel safe enough for trusting
anyone enough who they can be submissive to.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,
a lot of women don't create that safe space. I
say that to my homegirls a lot, because when I
do experience the things I experienced actually may be like,
damn girl, how you be finding all the same type
of niggas. It's in the same type of shit. You
don't like I don't find them. It's that they or
(38:45):
I've allowed them the space for us to do these things.
And I'm like, you probably have either sett in conversations
something to let men know that you would judge them
in certain exact or it's like this right, for example,
talking about pegging. Right, I think there's probably two ways
women are doing it. Like if you're talking about horrible decisions,
(39:08):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (39:08):
So I was listening a horrible decision today and Mandy
was saying how she pegged you ever been bad? Or
you're like okay, So I thought it was really kinky
because Mandy did would you be done to try that?
Like when you're already putting something down.
Speaker 4 (39:25):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (39:26):
You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't
want to show up for you and they're not the
dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
I think someone said on the show the key to
masculinity isn't in you asshole. But at the same time,
when hearing a tone like that, I would I've got
a nigga ask you had an divorce.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
No, well, damn you almost the things you could be
proud of us you never even know. When you hear that,
you're like, oh.
Speaker 4 (40:00):
Because because think about it this way, right, it's the
same same way where if a woman squirts for the
first time, that's the guy's first time experiencing people shame her,
and she won't do it again because she associates squirting
with shame with a partner. Right, So it's the same
thing women. Right, Well, I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks
(40:21):
I'm just speaking about myself. It's that once again, you
have to trust the person. You have to trust that
you're not going to attract somebody who's gonna be who
who makes you feel that they gonna tell your business.
So he's the thing that I gave this advice to
someone I was associated with a while ago, and I said, listen,
(40:42):
it's I hear around town too much that you like
to get paid, Like, don't let everybody pick you. Though
I told him that, I said, man, listen, you gotta
be you have to be very discerning about your actions, right,
Like you can't just be like, oh, that's the that's
the pagan guy. I just get in good with him
(41:03):
and uns.
Speaker 1 (41:05):
I feel like he is the pagan guy. And I
feel like, I know you're talking about we had on
the show. Maybe it is, Maybe it isn't. No, it's
not having someone else. Some people want to some people, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (41:21):
But that's what That's what I'm saying. So like you
just have to establish those different roles in as far
as dominant so like me personally, like I have to
really trust you to the fact that I would just
like bend over and allow you to just go to
work on me spanking.
Speaker 1 (41:42):
Now, I want to know, do you have to trust
someone to dominate them, like to trust yourself.
Speaker 4 (41:48):
But there's a level of trust. First of all, I
trust myself, right, and when say, when Necker Unicorn trusts me,
then I know at that point in time if she
trusts me, that's all that matters. Because but I'm also
trusting that she's not going to do anything crazy, especially
if I'm doing having like knife play or something, have
a knife.
Speaker 1 (42:08):
After we got safety?
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Go Wait a second, So nine play, how do you
introduce that you're into that? Is there blood happening? To
explain ninth place? And so this and y'all are if
y'all are, y'all listen, these are black people. Uh here
way the knife play, let's get into it because that's interesting.
Speaker 4 (42:29):
All right.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
So he's.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
Like, yeah, so's the thing. Wow, I don't think they
make knives, but.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
All right, I was. I just thought the murders. Sorry wait,
Swiss army.
Speaker 4 (42:47):
Like or like well not like a big like a
big chef's no what like like like Michael Myers like
them kind of big knives like that or you can
use you can real.
Speaker 1 (42:59):
Not sex nice?
Speaker 4 (43:00):
Right? No, I don't. I don't think there's the such
thing as.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
Candles question.
Speaker 4 (43:16):
Like like the sex and I can be like play
almost it could look it could look like I'm just
really I.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Want to know how you introduce.
Speaker 4 (43:39):
All right. So so here's the thing. So you have
to ask, okay with saying the closed mouth, don't get fed,
here's the thing you know you want that, well, let
me let me explain this to you, all right. So
when you go through the things of what's your hard
limits and your soft limits, what are you open to?
This is when negotiation, right, So like give it for example,
(44:01):
like this riding crop here, like it's nice to leathery here,
but on this end it has little spikes. Okay. So
the thing is, even though I want to use it
on you, I have to say, Mandy, do I have
your consent to use this? That's the negotiation. And if
you touch it, you say can I touch it? Daddy?
If I say sure, touch it and if you say no,
(44:25):
then I take it away. But if you say yes,
not me personally. I told you I really want to
use it on you, but if you tell me no,
but I gotta respect that. So I pulled it away, right,
I pulled things away. So it's about it's you always
have to ask first. So with the knife, the knife
has to be something where like you're like, oh I
(44:46):
would try that, got to be gott to be adventurous, right.
Speaker 3 (44:49):
So what you were just cutting some tomatoes and was like,
can I stab you? Usually where he does his like
his sessions, right, all of his tools are laid out,
so a.
Speaker 1 (45:03):
N okay, now this is so then you're asked.
Speaker 3 (45:08):
Well, what's that about? So I remember my first time
when knife play was with King New War. Okay, it
was at Exotica at that because King No War and
he's the mess of everything. Yes, yet absolutely do anything wrong?
Speaker 1 (45:20):
No, no, I don't think.
Speaker 3 (45:21):
But we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage
at Exotica, like a week before.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
He said I want to do knife play with you.
Are you open to that?
Speaker 3 (45:31):
Because he already had a list of like my soft
Heart and Maybies right, knife flight was like a maybe.
So I was like, well, what kind of knife you're using?
He explained, I don't think it would matters, so he
so I said okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,
he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me
at TSA, so I had to go buy another one.
(45:51):
It's not my normal knife, but it's what it looks like.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Are you with it?
Speaker 3 (45:55):
It had like a little knob on it, I was like, okay,
I trust you. Yes, now he told me were a
fish net like of body stocking. During the performance, the
little knob kept getting stuck as he was dragging the
knife across my body to cut off the stocking. I
was shook out, froze, but I trusted him. So we're
(46:17):
on stage, it's a performance. I gotta keep my face
together and still be sexy.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
And I'm like on a low seat, like I ain't
trying to tap out. But Boker, you do it.
Speaker 3 (46:26):
You know.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
It's so for me.
Speaker 1 (46:27):
I was like, whoa, it's everybody to experience.
Speaker 3 (46:30):
I don't know if I will try it again anytime soon,
but I do like when knife play is used with
wax play, so the nice you're not and you're not
cutting because you talked about the fish nuts. So nine
play is clothes. You can cut clothes off, so you're
not getting wax.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
No blood, no no.
Speaker 4 (46:52):
If if you're in the blood plate and your bottom
is in the blood play, then there's then there's blood, right,
But if you're not, basically the knife, you're just it's aation,
so it's just grazing across the skin that you would
feel the sensation of the edge of the knife on
your skin, right and to the point where you could
where you where you could where you could use the
(47:15):
point of the knife.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
Now, because we are black, black, white, you said.
Speaker 3 (47:27):
We're not doing the blood because honestly, if someone told
me knfe play, I probably wouldn't guess that there was
no blood in it.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
I thought that there was blood, and I didn't hear that.
I didn't hear dash they once that for knife play instead,
he'll use a credit card.
Speaker 2 (47:40):
If they're blindfolded, like saying he would show them the knives,
but to feel it, he would only use like that's
he would do credit cards.
Speaker 3 (47:48):
I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you
want to go, because for a person who likes to
play hard, nice play is like on the harder side
of things.
Speaker 1 (47:56):
Yeah it is.
Speaker 3 (47:57):
Now, I'm personally not a blood play person. It's a
lot with a lot of safety protocol that goes with
that that I'm just not willing to do.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
But also I like my skin, saying I only want
I don't even want you, right, that's just bleed outside
of it. I've only heard of one black person doing
blood play, and it was Orlando.
Speaker 3 (48:13):
Oh yeah, and it was I I met a dom,
a Black dom at fat Con in twenty twenty sixteen
who was straight needling it on the con floor and
I was just like, god, damn, I never seen like
the first time Si.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Yeah, like needles, Orlando, did she have you done that?
It's pulling blood? That's not true. Yeah, that's a hard note.
Speaker 4 (48:38):
I have a phobia of needles. Like so even when
I go get tested, I'll be about to pass.
Speaker 3 (48:43):
Out, bron when I get tested and they be saying
stuff like, oh, do you have sex stuff?
Speaker 4 (48:48):
Right, like for real life? Okay, Like so needles for me, no,
but not a night for me because like I'm really
I'm really a very sensual domb. So for me, like
I'm all about it's all about sensation, taking the mind somewhere,
blindfolding everywhere. So like whether the way I flog, the
way I use all my impact, in the way I
(49:08):
hands bang is very sensual, gotcha. So for me, like
you know, I'm big, I'm a big look feeling right,
So I was always a big, kung ful like person.
So but but like different movements like this like learning
tachi and stuff like this. So basically the knife is
(49:30):
all It's all like a move like energy. Yeah. So
so basically when I when I do BDS and play,
everything is about energy.
Speaker 2 (49:40):
So that's why he Look, they worried about what's on TV. Now,
Karate kids, got your ass, Karate can't look everything's just turned.
Speaker 4 (49:57):
Sure example which example?
Speaker 1 (50:00):
There we go?
Speaker 3 (50:00):
Here we go?
Speaker 4 (50:02):
What may I excuse me? May I personal sluct this
is my personal slut? Oh yeah, all right, so here's
the thing, right, So we're gonna talk about choking a
little bit, right, so hold on you doing a demo.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
It's an audio experience now. Now Black Effect pays us
for the audio, but.
Speaker 4 (50:27):
I want to show you what happens, right, So like
I'm big into energy, right, it's all about the touch
right as time we was talking about about the touch.
Speaker 1 (50:36):
Okay, it's giving meditation all that, right.
Speaker 4 (50:43):
Because we're working on this hard space to right, and
then we could tap up here right to release some things, okay, yes,
and then we can go in here like this, squeeze
a little bit.
Speaker 1 (51:06):
Bleep out the titty you remember, mm hmmm, they're gonna
hit us at work. M yellow. That was yellow, that's
(51:30):
what she said. Yellow. Yellow means okay, yes, yellow down.
But that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,
although you were the thing to watch. I looked at
you a few times and you were getting it's obvious.
Speaker 3 (51:54):
And you know, it's nice to see that because I've
definitely been in the presence of doms that think they
have to keep that face one.
Speaker 1 (52:00):
Just so hard.
Speaker 3 (52:01):
And it's like as nice to see us to act
ye it is yea, And sometimes that act kind of
makes me not buy into it, right. It feels like
just completely perform performative, and so I appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (52:13):
And so like I'm a I'm an exhibition. It's like
I like like even going to like like.
Speaker 1 (52:19):
We know, resort. Oh, but y'all are talking, so you
like to be watched?
Speaker 4 (52:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (52:24):
Okay, well great because I'm going out tonight, told us
and so and so you want to join us?
Speaker 1 (52:30):
You know you don't be wanting to go. You're not
coming to the play party. Wait, are you kidding? Show
that we're paratyp you know how we're bothering?
Speaker 4 (52:45):
We we we have right, that's right going people?
Speaker 1 (52:51):
Is it like hotel room? Yeah, it's well, I mean yeah,
I don't know either. I'm wait before we go, before
we leave to uh just because you're here.
Speaker 4 (53:06):
I did want to know.
Speaker 2 (53:07):
I've recently shared a list of sex clubs and because
we're in Vegas, have either of y'all been to the
Green Door?
Speaker 1 (53:19):
Is that what it is out here? I can't think
about the one that I went to, but but the
one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,
I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But
it was out here?
Speaker 3 (53:32):
Okay, So it was the way that they handled it.
I can't even think of the name of it. I'm
going to find it. But the way that they handle
her being assaulted did not please. She put it on Twitter,
she read about it.
Speaker 1 (53:43):
I wanted.
Speaker 2 (53:44):
I know, like more people are trying to venture into
these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know, to
experience the play parties how I have, especially in New York,
but I know it's different everywhere, and so definitely want
to make sure that we continue to share the safe
spaces to go to. Yes for us and especially especially
(54:08):
for us, And then maybe if you guys can share,
if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups
as well for people to be vetted.
Speaker 1 (54:15):
And joined to come to the type of parties. Yeah,
we like we like some we just don't vetting.
Speaker 3 (54:22):
Yeah, we just don't invite anybody everybody to come in,
Like we got to see what you look like your
social media and follow instructions.
Speaker 1 (54:29):
That's the moment. That's the main thing.
Speaker 3 (54:30):
It's like if there is a vetting form and we
say feel out everything, and you'll feel out everything, but
one thing, you're not coming because you're not following instructions.
If you can't follow simple instructions, and how can we
trust you to actually abide by consent? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (54:44):
Right, So people don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (54:45):
And like with me being a switch, right, being both
dominant and submissive, Right, I'm dominant when I have to
control things when I'm like on to host to care
of people. And then in my personal life, like there's
partners that I both dom and sub for. It depends
(55:06):
on the dynamic of our relationship, right, and if I
trust them with my safety, because I don't just switch
for anybody, right, I'm not going to see that's the
missive side of me unless I rushed you.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
And so people are like, I know.
Speaker 4 (55:19):
You were a kitt.
Speaker 3 (55:20):
I didn't know you were a little I didn't know
you were whatever. It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that
because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve
to see me like that.
Speaker 1 (55:27):
Well, y'all, we are sitting here with a father, a unicorn,
and a kidd.
Speaker 4 (55:31):
Yes, how many I bless you, my child, just like
you the right.
Speaker 1 (55:47):
To list my ass. My ass was read for like
you made me lick a shoe bit damn you. I
was at their rooms and you made people chance. Oh
and you know I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (56:04):
But now.
Speaker 1 (56:06):
I didn't go words ship see you using wrong word.
Speaker 2 (56:09):
Now, Mandy's so hard with this battle that she said, sorry,
it hurts so bad. Well, y'all, we I'm just so
glad we got to do this well in Vegas. Please
please please let all of our listeners know where they
can follow you, find you and if you have anything
(56:30):
coming up, parties, a lessons, of classes.
Speaker 1 (56:33):
All the things.
Speaker 3 (56:38):
Yes, you can find me on I'm at real gleamozon
Tyomi and on Twitter where we have public discourse about
six At Glemazon, Tommy type it in because they have
me shuttle band or something.
Speaker 1 (56:51):
That's just how it is exactly.
Speaker 3 (56:55):
And if you're trying to learn how to ride but
also as a woman, feel better about your body and
like just more embodied. Theocowgirl Workout dot Com. We are
online you can work out from the comfort of your own.
Speaker 1 (57:06):
Home, and it's hard. I'm a botified version, y'all.
Speaker 3 (57:11):
So you know, I have people with like disabilities who
are also in my tribe, and I make sure that
as people come into my containers that I accommodate them
as much as possible. So I've been working on like
new methods just to make sure everybody feels like they
can keep up at their own pace. And I'm launching
the Pleasure Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform,
(57:32):
and I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all
year again resident sexperson and our coordinators. So if you
are an educator and you're listening to the show and
you want to be considered to teach, go to Exotica
Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have
to approve you. Yeah, please feel it out, come and
join us at the Expo. Four shows, y'all, just a
(57:55):
lot you can teach, but we do four shows every year,
so go to our webs We do need a live
show come through like got cha.
Speaker 2 (58:01):
Yeah, listen, gotcha, We're gonna were gonna put that into
the universe issues.
Speaker 1 (58:06):
Yes ahead to get it. And you can find me
on Instagram and Naked Underscore, Unicorn Underscoring. All of my
links are there. I'm shadow band. Yeah yeah, because I'm
shadow Band on everything as well. All right, un everybody
(58:30):
where they can follow you find you get into not
literally but maybe.
Speaker 4 (58:43):
Yes, my child, you can find me an Instagram at
Real Daddy Health, Twitter, Daddy Underscore Health if you want to. Also,
we got the health Lifestyle community that's going to be
coming soon. That's a page subscripts and what's going to
have exclusive content all things lifestyle.
Speaker 3 (59:04):
Are y'all all in Chicago or I'm in Chicago, he's
in Charlotte. I wasn't taking now I'm here, so everybody from.
Speaker 2 (59:12):
All over, but we are all in Vegas and guys,
before we get out of here, y'all have heard us
say it, we gonna say it again. We want our
London teings. Y'all gotta come out and see us, all right,
say Valentine's Day, we are in London.
Speaker 3 (59:27):
Make sure you get your tickets. Let we are at
the Clapham Gramm. We're so excited. We got a gang coming.
Vinnie's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are
bringing our entire production to London. This is not going
to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.
This is just like our real show that we've been
doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it to.
Speaker 1 (59:46):
I'm ready to go across the water. We have been international, bitch.
We did Toronto well.
Speaker 3 (59:52):
In Mexico and Jamaicico, we did, We did, but it
wasn't that was We didn't make I go on the pond.
We did, but not a listen as someone who has
multiple shows in London, flexed real.
Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Quick, have fun.
Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
Make sure you get your tickets. It's s W A
C E n T dot shoes, that's s h o
O b S dot com. Get your tickets now and
bring your man your side, check your side, nigga, whoever.
Speaker 1 (01:00:23):
It's Valenti.
Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
We don't have a single lady section and if you
have the nerve to bring a couple, as I am
a single bitch, I'm I'm basically so.
Speaker 1 (01:00:32):
Sweezy's gonna join y'all for sex right after.
Speaker 2 (01:00:35):
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