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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the c l o uh to
Shonda or maybe maybe I should know. I'm sorry, Toronto.
Her name is Toronto, Toronto, and Lafayette says, my husband's
sister is having problems in her marriage, so she's staying
with us. When I got home from work, she was
wearing one of my robes. I will gladly get her
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some things if need be. So how do I nicely
tell her that my stuff, my stuff is off limits.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Let me catch you ass in this robe? Will get him? Nicely?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
She said, nice nicely?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
That's it? Off of second, just walk up there, Just
tad off of hem. Or if I can't wear the robe,
ain't nobody gonna wear a rope? Take a butcher knife
and cut the cold, cut the bill, just swinkle, just
do whood stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Here's my question. Is she's saying anything while she's cutting
the robe off?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Oh yeah, yeah, everybody cussing and cutting is a part
of it.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, it goes, it goes.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Yeah, and see, don't look the same on you no more?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
All right? Moving on to Marissa and Stockbridge, Marissa writes,
I'm thirty eight years old and my husband likes to
watch porn while we're intimate. He says, he imagines that
I'm the women in the video. This doesn't sit well
with my soul. Does this mean that he is not
satisfied with my body and normal intimacy?
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Well, he imagined that you the women in the video.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Uh, huh, you do what?
Speaker 2 (01:36):
What? What? What did you text? What did you write us?
This fault? He just told you. He imagines that you
are the women in the video. So he takes his
mind off you and puts it on huh. And instead
of doing you, he's doing huh. Which partities you don't get.
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Just don't sit right with my soul. You ain't got
to drag your soul and it is.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It did take it somewhere else, didn't it. That's the
name of the movie.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Back in the day.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
She needs to shut that down, all right, Frankie in Texas.
As we move on, Frankie says, my son's child, that
would be your grandchild. My son's child and child's mother
live with me. She can't stay with my son because
he has a new girlfriend. But he still comes to
have sex with his child's mother. And I don't need
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to be hearing that, and neither does the child. What
should I do, got it.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Well, you got to put a stop to that in
your house. Your house, you could actually put a stop
to that and just tell him that he's being disrespectful.
Very and then now he has a new girlfriend somewhere
else but his former girlfriend and baby with his mama.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Right, and he has his own.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Live with the mama too.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah, he has his own house that you know, he
has this new girlfriend over I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Well, so you got to take all this to your house. Yeah,
and you coming back over here still having relations with
her in front of me and this boy. That ain't
gonna work being disrespectful. You need to sit the girl
down at that and ask her what's wrong with her.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's what Frankie should do, because that's what she wants
to know. What should she do?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Well, you need to have conversations with your son about
being respectful of your house and your rules. Secondly, you
need a conversation with this girl and just go what's
wrong with you? Yeah? Now, you ain't good enough to
go with him, You ain't good enough to be with him.
You got you gotta stop being good enough to do
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him better than that?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Good?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Yeah? And then mama's food right after that though.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
That's pretty damn good.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Don't you come in. That's the bright side for you.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
That's why you that's why you do pranks.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
All right, Steve, here's the last one. This one's Nevea
in Culver City. Naveah says, I've been dating a man
for fourteen years and we both turned forty in December.
I was hoping for an engagement ring for Christmas, but
he said the ring is custom made and won't be
ready until Valentine's Day. If I don't get it, then
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should I leave?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Well, she's been they've been dating. What what?
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Okay, what what do y'all want me to say?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Say it? Just say it?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
You hell, listen to me. I've said this one hundred
times on this show. Why is it that women do
not understand this fact that you have every right to
know and have a say so with the direction your
life is going. Again, you have a right to have
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a say so and know the direction in which your
life is going. That's your right as a human being.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, stop right there. Why don't they Why don't they then?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
Because you think that you're supposed to center around and
wait on somebody else to make a decision. About your
life when you have the power to exact the decisions
you want. Example, Okay, the reason you keep waiting on
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a ring and don't get it is because a ring
is not a requirement of yours. It is a hope
of yours. And if that ain't the hope of his,
then all hope is lost.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
We're hopeless.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
So why don't you make it a requirement for this
to continue? I am no.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Fourteen years that's a little long's life.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
And now it's custom made and it won't be ready
to custom boy? What boy? Stop them? Rings ain't custom made.
Their ass is in k jewler, they in the window
or they in the window. You ain't got enough smart
to make a damn custom ring?
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Are you nuts?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Let me tell you something, man, if you go in
there and pick out that diamond in that setting, your
ass can come back tomorrow the ring ready? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Okay, one more question, And because we need to understand this,
see go ahead. Well why fourteen years? I mean, why
would you stay with someone for fourteen years without anything?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
A lot of people have done because because you keep
waiting on this theme to happen, that you have not
made a requirement. And I keep telling y'all listen to me, ladies.
A wedding day is a woman's dream. The wedding day
is not the man's dream. All the man dreams of
is the chick of his dreams. We don't dream of
our wedding day. And if we can get to chick
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without the wedding day, bam, he got what he oh? Don't?
Speaker 1 (07:35):
All right? Clo, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
This is Steve Harven Martin show man. Here.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
That twenty four year old girl is dating this sixty
five year old man that buys and does everything for her.
Five months ago, I met another man closer to my age.
He took me to a family reunion and to my surprise,
my sugar daddy is his stepdaddy.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
He ain't say anything, and I showed didn't because his
wife is down.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Now you over there got to be quiet and stupid,
but you're dating the man's day.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Son. My question is, is the sugar daddy his daddy?
Your daddy?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Where is his daddy?
Speaker 2 (08:07):
How many daddies you got? I'm gonna be that's Morder
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