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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO with our Chief
Love Officer Steve Harvey.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Keela from Saint Paul says, my husband lies when the
truth will do. He is not a convincing liar, so
all I have to do is keep questioning him and
he ends up telling the truth. Why do most men
think their wives can't handle the truth? I believe in
being honest at all times. But you got.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well fix this. I believe I can fly. Thanks, you
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
But I ain't jumped. Yeah, you know what I mean.
I mean cool, Now, I got what you're saying. Now
listen to me, Oh you do? Why do most me
and live? First of all, let's understand something. Let's get
this cleared up. Women lie too, That's true, so it's
not no. Why do all me and lie real me
and lie for protection purposes, to protect your emotions from
(01:02):
what we think will create a bad feeling in you?
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Now feel I can handle the truth?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah? Okay, you may be able to handle the truth,
and most women can handle the truth, But in getting
to the point of handling it, there is a there
is a period in there where the reaction to the
truth is what we don't want.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
That's what you don't like.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, See, it ain't the fact that we don't think
you can handle the truth.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
It's just we just think that your reaction.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
To the truth is gonna put us in a position
that we don't really want to be in.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I don't think. Yeah, they don't want to call it.
That's all it is.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
It's protection a lot of times too. This is for you.
The understand that part right there lies for you.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
It's for you.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Well, okay, okay, all right, all right, all right, let
me be fair. It depends on what the lie is.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Some lives, it's got conditions to.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Some lives are necessary, some lives are not necessary.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I'll give you a necessary lie. Okay, your wife, get
dressed and come out and say what you think.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
M That ain't the time for the truth, and it's
necessary in the time for What you got to do
is compliment that outfit. So y'all can get out of
this house and go where y'all going, because if you don't,
she can't go back in there. We're already late. That
becomes a necessary lie. Second necessary lie, I'm going over here,
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but you don't go over there. You go somewhere else.
Then you come home and the wife said where you
being and then you tell her what you told her
you was going. But she done find out different. And
now here she come. You wasn't at Ernie's house because
Ernie came over here looking for you.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Ernie, come over here, Finn. Now we got life three sixty.
We could track it now, So yeah, you come up
with something else with that. You and Ernie. Now you
got to come up with the lie because I see
your phone. I did say I was going over ernie house,
but that's not what this absence you are. So I
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went down to the pool hall. I can see where
you went. Okay, well that's what I went. I just
wanted to go down there and chill.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Well, I thought about going to ernie house, but then
I ain't want to be bothered with Ernie. But that's why.
So Ernie came over here. That's where Ernie came over
here looking for me.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Fix it, fix it.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Question, Hirley frustrated, Ernie, ain't your boy more?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Ernie just gonna go over to the house, all right.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Moving on to Tererika and Huntsville, Terreka says, my daughter
woke up and chose violence. She threw a shoe at
me when I told her to stop hitting our dogs.
I pointed my finger at her and yelled at no,
she's only three, but she told her daddy on me.
He went, He said, I went too far? Was I
too rough on her?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Three years old?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
You had this baby, yes, right, yes, the one you
made Carrie for note.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Chose violence and threw a shoe at you.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Do you know how much you I would have had
to tell my daddy.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
When he got home. One of the main things is
my daddy would want to know where the shoe is.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
And then that's why I would require medical attention so
we can go get this shoe out, because that one
would have happened to me. I chose violence and my mama.
But see y'all new now, So y'all doing this new
form of reason. You're letting your chief children decide, and
you're letting you and yeah, and when it got to
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the point where children are deciding.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Too much stuff, Yeah, we got some of us.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Okay, So no, I ain't no, and and and your
husband in here talking about siding with her and all
that help.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I'll fixate you. But you're the woman at the house.
You could fix all that.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
She won't tell nothing else, and your husband ain't gonna
question you about nothing else.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Handle it like you posed to you the queen of
the castle. Come on, we got our ass whipped at three?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
At three? What you mean she chose by right? No? No, no, no,
no three, We chose by right right?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
All right.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Moving on to Veronica and Calu met, Veronica writes, my
husband and I have sex in a car on our
lunch break for fun. My boss whose females said that
my hair was mashed up in the back and my
clothes were wrinkled.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Today when I went back in the office.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Is she on to me?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Or was she hated?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Hayden, Yeah she was because.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Your boss told you your hair messed up and your
clothes wrinkled in the back. That it could be both, Yeah,
but but it sounded like I hate get your act
together suggestion.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
To me least your husband.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yeah, I'm cool, but you do know your hair messed
up and your clothes is wrinkled in the back.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Now, your boss ain't the only one see.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
That good point?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
So is she on to you or is she hating?
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Could it be she trying to help you out because
she didn't say nothing to you. Just say, hey, you
know your hair messed up in the back and your
clothes is ring.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah, get all that together. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Yeah, you're a damn food Yeah at your black job.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
But now here she is. Is she owned to me?
Or is she hate? Yeah, she doesn't get it. A
lady tied dog. It's ignorant.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah yeah, come on, get it together.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Messed up they cleaning up in that par i. Ain't
gonna clean it up, but they may.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
They ain't got a cleaning all right, coming up at
the top
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Of this, mister jeremerphobic, understand that you feel of