May 12, 2025 • 7 mins
Relationship advice from our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
This is from Chandra and Harlem.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Chandra writes, my boyfriend is thirteen years younger than I am.
I am not a cougar because he makes more money.
My dad loves to refer to him as the baby
when he sees them, when he sees him. So how
do I get my dad to respect my choice? How
can my dad love me and do that?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
See, you think cougar thunder is because he makes more money.
That ain't what cougarism is. Cougarism is when an older
woman gets a younger man. Hey, what finance ain't never
been a part of the cougar ris. Now your daddy
is messing with him because he knows this has a time.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Schituler, What are you saying?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
He calling him the baby and the boy because he
know this ain't gonna last long.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
This man not gonna be here that long.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Why do you say that though?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Eight thirteen years? That's what I'm saying. I ain't seen
a lot of them last. I ain't saying they came,
but I just ain't seen a lot of them last.
What do you mean he's at thirteen year age difference
in a woman being thirteen years older than a man.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yes, sir, but it can work with a man and
a woman because your bility.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Because of money.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
The older man has money when the younger man has money.
Let me explain something to you. He got the practice
through you, and this young boy might not have got
all the practice out of his system yet.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Moving on to Melinda in Saint Petersburg, Melinda writes, my
twenty four year old daughter wants me to throw her
a birthday party for her twenty fifth birthday. She just
went out of town with her dad and his new wife,
so I told her to get him to throw her party.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
She called me petty. Did I come off as jealous
A little bit?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Just went out of town, just went out trip.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Yeah, And twenty five is their big birthday and I've
had to call for up for a few of them.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So you know, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
You know, lady, you being mad at the husband and
the new wife has nothing to do with what you
want to do for your daughter, right, So figure out
what you want to do with your daughter.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Because it's her twenty fifth birthday. Are you not gonna
get her nothing?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
That's the question. Yeah, or with his new wife.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
They got money for all of that, They got money
for a party.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah, come over here with but then the twenty five
year old here they are being being spoiled. My daddy
gave me this, now what you're gonna give me? And
now she don't give it to her? Then her mama
being petty. Right, you know these kids nowadays, well we
got to generate all of us have raised.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, admittedly all are looking on Colo
to Abe and Syracuse. Abe writes, I was dating a
girl and her ex disrespected her in front of me.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I ended up fighting the dude. She got back with him.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Weeks later, they broke up again, and she's trying to
get me back. I like her a lot, she apologized
a million times.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Should I go back?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
You fool? You're a food dog? Yeah, you're fool. You're
a fool.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You with her, her ex disrespect her, You get in
a fight with the dude, She goes back to the dude.
They break up again. She come back to you, and
won't you back dog. I don't know what she's doing
to both of y'all, but one of y'all gonna get killed.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
What about this is poison. This is poison.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
What about your standard line, Steve, Oh, she's fine, she's fine.
What about that?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I got all that, but I'm not finna get.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
You draw the line a.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Couple of fine people. I'm getting hookedful my wife and
my daughters. After that, that's I can't. Yeah, now, if
I saw somebody disrespecting y'all, I come to y'all defense,
but hopefully it won't turn into a fight.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
But I'm not gonna stand there and get and get dusty.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
But it doesn't say that you're you're clear that the
other got her ex beat him up because he just
said I ended up fighting the dude.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
He didn't see.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
He never gave us description on who got the butt. Well, regardless, uh.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Huh, regardless, you're not fighting, No.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Don't fight.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
We and are lost every time I see the dude,
now I got a problem with him.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah come on now, yeah, yeah, so do not go back.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
But then you left me after I fought for you.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Right, you ain't that fat.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I can't believe you guys said that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
All right, that's what I think.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I think he won. He said he won.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
But all the time that you wrote.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Us, that's a louseless move.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
All right, last one clo. This is from Cat in
West Hollywood. Cat writes, I let an old friend crash
at my place and the second night he was walking
around in his underwear. It was very sexual and it
turned me on. But I didn't say anything. There's a
lot of sexual tension. Should I address the elephant in
(06:08):
the room?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Well, the elephant trunk is what drew your attention?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Good one, Steve Goode.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
You should you address addressed the elephant in the room
or undressed the elephant?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Want to do? Because I think that's where we're going
with him.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
She said it was very sexual and she was turned on.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
He walked right around in there. Yeah, y'all ain't gonna
be here. Y'all gonna be different kind of friends.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah, and how long is he crashing and her?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
At least till we do it? If he's.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
It sounds like that's gonna be tonight. Wow, all right, Steve,
she didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
She didn't say anything, though it's.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
On and cracking.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Matter of fact, it didn't already happened since she wrote
this letter.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Oh oh that's old. When we get you, Oh yeah,
this letter? You wrote the letter. The next day he
did what he was doing draws. You know what's on?
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yes, yes, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
How you doing today?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
That's his voice.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Can I get you anything what you need? All right?
You want me to bring it back in here for you.
You need to peel off your bed.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
You're listening hard morning show
It's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
This is from Chandra and Harlem.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Chandra writes, my boyfriend is thirteen years younger than I am.
I am not a cougar because he makes more money.
My dad loves to refer to him as the baby
when he sees them, when he sees him. So how
do I get my dad to respect my choice? How
can my dad love me and do that?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
See, you think cougar thunder is because he makes more money.
That ain't what cougarism is. Cougarism is when an older
woman gets a younger man. Hey, what finance ain't never
been a part of the cougar ris. Now your daddy
is messing with him because he knows this has a time.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Schituler, What are you saying?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
He calling him the baby and the boy because he
know this ain't gonna last long.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
This man not gonna be here that long.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Why do you say that though?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Eight thirteen years? That's what I'm saying. I ain't seen
a lot of them last. I ain't saying they came,
but I just ain't seen a lot of them last.
What do you mean he's at thirteen year age difference
in a woman being thirteen years older than a man.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yes, sir, but it can work with a man and
a woman because your bility.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Because of money.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
The older man has money when the younger man has money.
Let me explain something to you. He got the practice
through you, and this young boy might not have got
all the practice out of his system yet.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Moving on to Melinda in Saint Petersburg, Melinda writes, my
twenty four year old daughter wants me to throw her
a birthday party for her twenty fifth birthday. She just
went out of town with her dad and his new wife,
so I told her to get him to throw her party.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
She called me petty. Did I come off as jealous
A little bit?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Just went out of town, just went out trip.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Yeah, And twenty five is their big birthday and I've
had to call for up for a few of them.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
So you know, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
You know, lady, you being mad at the husband and
the new wife has nothing to do with what you
want to do for your daughter, right, So figure out
what you want to do with your daughter.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Because it's her twenty fifth birthday. Are you not gonna
get her nothing?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
That's the question. Yeah, or with his new wife.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
They got money for all of that, They got money
for a party.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Yeah, come over here with but then the twenty five
year old here they are being being spoiled. My daddy
gave me this, now what you're gonna give me? And
now she don't give it to her? Then her mama
being petty. Right, you know these kids nowadays, well we
got to generate all of us have raised.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, admittedly all are looking on Colo
to Abe and Syracuse. Abe writes, I was dating a
girl and her ex disrespected her in front of me.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I ended up fighting the dude. She got back with him.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Weeks later, they broke up again, and she's trying to
get me back. I like her a lot, she apologized
a million times.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Should I go back?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
You fool? You're a food dog? Yeah, you're fool. You're
a fool.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You with her, her ex disrespect her, You get in
a fight with the dude, She goes back to the dude.
They break up again. She come back to you, and
won't you back dog. I don't know what she's doing
to both of y'all, but one of y'all gonna get killed.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
What about this is poison. This is poison.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
What about your standard line, Steve, Oh, she's fine, she's fine.
What about that?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
I got all that, but I'm not finna get.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
You draw the line a.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Couple of fine people. I'm getting hookedful my wife and
my daughters. After that, that's I can't. Yeah, now, if
I saw somebody disrespecting y'all, I come to y'all defense,
but hopefully it won't turn into a fight.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
But I'm not gonna stand there and get and get dusty.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
But it doesn't say that you're you're clear that the
other got her ex beat him up because he just
said I ended up fighting the dude.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
He didn't see.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
He never gave us description on who got the butt. Well, regardless, uh.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Huh, regardless, you're not fighting, No.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Don't fight.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
We and are lost every time I see the dude,
now I got a problem with him.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah come on now, yeah, yeah, so do not go back.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
But then you left me after I fought for you.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Right, you ain't that fat.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
I can't believe you guys said that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
All right, that's what I think.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I think he won. He said he won.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
But all the time that you wrote.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Us, that's a louseless move.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
All right, last one clo. This is from Cat in
West Hollywood. Cat writes, I let an old friend crash
at my place and the second night he was walking
around in his underwear. It was very sexual and it
turned me on. But I didn't say anything. There's a
lot of sexual tension. Should I address the elephant in
(06:08):
the room?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Well, the elephant trunk is what drew your attention?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Good one, Steve Goode.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
You should you address addressed the elephant in the room
or undressed the elephant?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Want to do? Because I think that's where we're going
with him.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
She said it was very sexual and she was turned on.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
He walked right around in there. Yeah, y'all ain't gonna
be here. Y'all gonna be different kind of friends.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah, and how long is he crashing and her?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
At least till we do it? If he's.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
It sounds like that's gonna be tonight. Wow, all right, Steve,
she didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
She didn't say anything, though it's.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
On and cracking.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Matter of fact, it didn't already happened since she wrote
this letter.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Oh oh that's old. When we get you, Oh yeah,
this letter? You wrote the letter. The next day he
did what he was doing draws. You know what's on?
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yes, yes, exactly.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
How you doing today?
Speaker 2 (07:28):
That's his voice.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Can I get you anything what you need? All right?
You want me to bring it back in here for you.
You need to peel off your bed.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
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