Ask The CLO - 06.27.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is asked the CLO with Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve,
here we go. This one's from Marshall in Kansas City.
Marchelle says, I reconnected with a male friend after five
years of not talking because his sex was garbage. We
did it only once and I put him in the
friend zone afterwards. He wants us to try dating again.

(00:24):
So should I test the waters first to see if
he's better at sex?

Speaker 2 (00:30):
I mean, what are you talking about? Should I test
the waters first before you what?

Speaker 3 (00:37):
She does it again?

Speaker 2 (00:38):
What do you mean test the waters first before she
does it again? How do you test the water?

Speaker 4 (00:43):
It right on into the water again?

Speaker 1 (00:44):
She wants to do it.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Yeah, she's asked, Well, she did it, that's all.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
She did before? It was She did it one time.
It was garbage. She put him in the friend zone.
Now she's calling us to say, should I test the
waters again before I go in?

Speaker 4 (00:57):
How do you test the waters? You will have sex
with you dude again? Right?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
She wants to see if he's learned anything. If he's well, only.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
One way to find out. You can't ask you what
you're gonna ask? Are you still garbage and bad? Baby?
I ain't never done.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
I learned how to do it, yet I turned him up.
I turned him out, But he got five years. Depending
on how old he is, you know, if he and
his farty, it's gonna be the same. Now, if he
was twenty one, might be in for a surprise.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
Oh it's a big surprise. But if it's.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Forty forty five, he the same dude, misguiding women.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
He's a tide.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
Should she take a chance or not?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Oh, you ain't the only that's why he available? You
ain't the only one. Discovery why you think every time
you talk to him, his is available?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
That part after? Yeah, all right, go ahead, all right,
here we.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Go, Suki and Oklahoma, says my seven year old son told.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
Me that his teacher is a brown cow.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
He said his classmates call her that his teacher is black,
and he is one of the only three blacks in
the class. Do I need to start calling these racist
parents or should I talk to the principal?

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yeah, you need to start calling these racist parents and
start with your little racist boy.

Speaker 4 (02:29):
They got him. He down there repeating what he hear.
She's the brown cow.

Speaker 2 (02:35):
And it's to be a minute, and y'all need to
check you. Yeah, yeah, because this is how it starts.
If it goes unchecked, it gets it gets out of head.

Speaker 4 (02:45):
And he's and he's seven, So yeah, you got to
say something.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Okay, all right, all right. Dakwanda in Terrytown says, my
husband told me that he offered his coworker a ride
to work after her car was stolen. I found her
page on Instagram and she's got a lot of revealing
pictures of her big old butt and she's cute. You
forbid him from taking her to work?

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Why do you think he offered to ride. That's why
he offered to ride. So you can forbid him or
whatever you want. But you know he already offered.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
Nice.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
He wanted a friend. He wasn't doing that.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
He wants a friend?

Speaker 2 (03:41):
What s it's being nice?

Speaker 4 (03:45):
For?

Speaker 2 (03:45):
What me and everything men do is with purpose. Every
single thing is with purpose. Packing because you need a ride,
let her daddy take her to work. She ain't got
no girlfriends can drop us off. But the women on
the job just got caused. Why you volunteer? You already

(04:08):
know the conversation he catches here, Go ahead and pick
up and see what happened.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
Trying to be a better person than get a woman
to ride. That's all. I'm just trying to better get
an uber apping.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
I don't get the problem all this stuff that's out here.
Now she need to ride. Her car got stove. Now
you're finish, take our car over there in that racked
neighborhood and now we ain't got no ride.

Speaker 4 (04:35):
You breaking it down yellow.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
So you're telling Dakwanda, yes, she should forbid her husband
from taking her to work.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
Why he tell her all he had to do was
go and pick her up. Well you even early?

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Now you know I got some pre work things I
got to do. Anything can happen though, right because I
mean God forbid if you get an accident with this woman.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
Well it's happening now. He'd have told the truth. And
look where he be a strawberry letter. I told you
all about this truth.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Now, I have told you over and over about this truth.
Just walking in the house confessing so stupid behind it
ain't tired for that. Now you'd have looked up her
page here he but if she wouldn't fine, it'd be okay.

(05:35):
If she wasn't fine, you wouldn't be offering the ride.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
It's a catch twenty two I get it, understand.

Speaker 2 (05:42):
Don't I want the lookly people that they call man.
I'm going to work people talking, well, Look who Steve
got over there? Boy?

Speaker 4 (05:52):
He ain't doing good, is it? Man? Look at that dude.
He got a ride hair mo in the work. I
know I'll get a divorce. Just ain't about white. They
know what you're looking at over here.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
This ain't Joe carm find your business.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
He's being a nice man, just helping it help.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
Wonderful personality too beautiful on the inside.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
All right, Moving on last one.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Crazy uh Vedra in Memphis says, I've been dating a
guy for a while and his eight year old son
is very rough and likes to tackle me and wrestle
with me. I've had several bruises, and I've asked him
to control his son, but he won't. I avoid the
boy whenever possible, because I'm going to hurt him. Should

(06:49):
I knock his little butt out one good time?

Speaker 2 (06:51):
That's what you got to do it he coming at
a tackle, Just raise your knee, put it dead on
his chin, rock his little oop. Sorry, here's what you do.
Tackle him when he tackle him first he ain't looking.

(07:12):
Just put your foot in his lower back and send
him across the room dead into them blinds. He's eight.

Speaker 4 (07:19):
Now you need it, and I stop all that tackling.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
Uh huh, why what? Why wasn't his dad saying.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
My grandson used to bite me when he saw me that.
I beat his back and we stopped all the biting ended.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
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