Ask The CLO - 11.18.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
This is from Diana in Wilmington.

Speaker 1 (00:06):
Diana writes, my husband has a thirteen year old son
from his first marriage. He dropped his son off on
Sunday and came home with the plate of food that
his ex wife cooked. I was so mad. He said
I should cook more often? Should still be eating at
his exes house?

Speaker 3 (00:27):
Question? Food? I can't believe he said that.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
I can't you should cook more often?

Speaker 4 (00:35):
Because you might as well have said you should cook
more often because she cook all the time. You might
as well have said that because that's what she heard.
Should should he be eating in his exes house?

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Oh? You got to speed that up? Did you hear yoursel?
Oh you heard it too.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
God, wantn't have to draw attention to it.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
I can't stand him.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
Yeah no, but man, I mean you and him eating? Bro.
I can't get into that one.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
I should he still be eating at his excess house?

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Uh? He brought his.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
Son over there was eating, He got a plate. I
don't you need to start cooking? You need to start
cooking over other people's house eating? He should ate that
in the car now, God, I'm gonna let that one go.
I can't help you home.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
He's on his own. You're the celo.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Well, no, the lady wrote the letter.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
She do need to start cooking, moto whatever.

Speaker 5 (01:46):
Yeah, he should have put in his car, he should rocket. Yeah, yeah,
I ate that on the way. I wouldn't have brought
that to that.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah, obviously she can cook though, all right?

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Moving on to Lester and fort Wayne at Lester writes,
my wife is eighteen year Lester, My wife is eighteen
years younger than I am. And at first things were great.
But five years later she still thinks of ways to
waste my money. She wants to go skiing for the holidays.
How do I convince her to start creating holiday traditions

(02:24):
at home?

Speaker 3 (02:26):
See the five years later? Though you old, you're getting
older and older. She want to create holiday traditions. She
want to go skiing.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
She married you because of your ability to allow her
to do things like that where some of the younger guys.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
Couldn't afford it.

Speaker 4 (02:46):
Hit Now you want to start cutting back, but you
use that to get her.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
In the beginning.

Speaker 4 (02:52):
Let's be real, it was y'all promoting that I can
take care of you.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
I'll give you what you need me security.

Speaker 4 (03:01):
Yeah, that's how you you lure it in. Now she
want to go skiing for Christmas? You want her to
bake cookies at the house. Well, she's almost twenty years
younger than you. Let's say you fifty, she thirty. Let's
say you sixty, she forty. That gap strong dog.

Speaker 2 (03:20):
So you're saying he married for love. She married for money.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
He married for LUs.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Oh, he married for luss and cook.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (03:29):
She's a young fine thing, and she married for money.
He can't believe he got her. She married for security
and money.

Speaker 4 (03:38):
She's not gonna be on no holiday traditions because she
don't think you're gonna be here that much.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Maybe twenty years from now she will.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
And might have something to do it. Next question, She
all right.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Moving on to Rashida and Bradington, Rashida writes, I've gained
ten pounds and I'm self conscious. I asked my boyfriend
how I looked before I left the house, and he
said I had a nice dress that covered up my belly.
He blurted it out, like he's bothered about me gaining weight?

Speaker 2 (04:11):
Was that a sign?

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Direct direct hit? Missile?

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Okay said like he was thinking it, but didn't had
sense enough not to say it like that. What did
he really mean by that?

Speaker 3 (04:28):
The good thing? You covered up all that stomach?

Speaker 2 (04:31):
So she just ten pounds of stomach fat?

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Wow, so you just gonna sit.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
So you just gonna you just over there, you're just
gonna keep on well, so.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
You don't quit trying.

Speaker 4 (04:44):
I'm so glad it is though, But a lot of
these men that's complaining by weight got weight.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, yeah, that's very.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
I'll be going like, oh man, you're over here with
all this stomach.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
But they're not. Men aren't judged by their looks. Women are.
You know, their.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Beauty, right, that's always that's that's about the same. That's what.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
Well, if you get judged quicker, women are judged. I
don't care money, no money, You get judged on how.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
You look, right, exactly what men based on income level
can be overlooked.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
True good men?

Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah, okay, So so when they told me what you're
doing over here, that would by looks.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
Directly about your look jr. How old was you then
about twenty two twenty three? Yeah, you ain't had no money, no, no,
no money.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
But that's it.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
But it didn't win yeah, but see that ain't gonna
last long because you know.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Ain't nobody dating nobody for they.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
Have for sure if you're broke. Yeah, he come over there.
Yeah he ain't had no money, didn't he?

Speaker 2 (06:11):
But he was cute.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah that q go out the window down when you
got to go down to the hospital.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Though, Oh god, they come.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
Lot.

Speaker 3 (06:26):
It's wrong with him.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Time, Maybe what's wrong? Okay? You all right?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
So so you're saying that she needs to lose her
ten pounds, basically is that she wants to ten pounds.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
Look, it's always in your best interest. It's always in
your best interest to be your best self. I'm going
through that right now with me. I bought a tuxedo
last year.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Had it cut, uh huh.

Speaker 4 (07:01):
You know, I was down sixteen percent body fat. See
now I'm up to nineteen now now that tucks that
I had cut it don't need cutting now I need
it open.

Speaker 2 (07:16):
See for three more body fats?

Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah, three percent body fat, you know, especially if it's
in the stomach. So being boom, I gotta get there.
I cannot now I'm in the process of getting that
back off because that took cost way too much.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
One of Tommy spanks.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Okay, I want to Tommy swanks.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
Tommy got spanks. Somebody told hood of tale jokes. Nobody
tell hood tale jokes.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
Used to wear spanks? All right, come on the top
of the hour. It wasn't a it wasn't a secret.
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