Ask The CLO - 11.19.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time for us to ask the CLO. Our
chief love Officer, Steve Harvey elv and Vancouver writes, I
was facetiming my husband when a lady came and kissed
him on the cheek and said good night. He said
he saw her earlier. Yeah, right, but this is what
he said, that he saw her earlier in the restaurant

(00:20):
and their old friends from the neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Why would an old friend kiss him goodbye?

Speaker 3 (00:27):
What hey, let me just let me say this.

Speaker 4 (00:32):
You know, normally I try to find a way to
get a man out of jail.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah you do.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
Normally.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
I am a firm believer in her. Find a good
lie and tell him.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
I've said this many times.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
So the only way he could fix this is he
must come up with a great lie. Yeah no, but
you face timing. You didn't see her walking towards you.
Now just cut your cameraf to click in. If I
see her walking over the men, I got something this
face time up with whoops something Act like I dropped

(01:08):
the phone and I'm pressing button so hard you ain't
even gonna stare. But she gonna see me stabbing at
this phone.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
I just know, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:17):
The fact that you let this woman come up on
you and kiss you and say good night.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
You got bro, I can't help she.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Knew what she was doing, she knew what she knew
what was doing.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
Was okay, I got all of that, Ladies, I agree
with that.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah, but what he let her fault?

Speaker 4 (01:39):
If I'm facetiming with my wife, ain't nobody come nowhere
near that face time?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Yeah, there's just no way. Yeah, he was stupid, all right?
Moving on to.

Speaker 4 (01:53):
Because you know, if you that stupid, you've done something
else before and you're gonna do something else.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
So I'm not gonna be save you. You're just too
stupid FACETI with other women.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, Tommy said he was super stupid.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
All right, Bro, I've been. I've been. Let me tell
you him. I've been in a meeting with women in
the meeting.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
Mardorie and FaceTime meet we I'm in the hallway because
I'm not gonna have to explain this.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
All right, Oh, go ahead, I know that that was
really something, Okay. Moving on to Meredith and Detroit, Meredith writes,
my husband usually goes outside to talk on the phone
because he's so loud, but lately he's been quieter when
he's out on the patio on the phone. I need
to know why he's so quiet all of a sudden.

(02:50):
Should I have a camera installed out back?

Speaker 4 (02:53):
Oh well, now you can put the camera out back
if you want to, but let me let me talk
to the fellas right now. This is what you do.
You get up, you go outside, and you talk, you know, FaceTime,
and let the walman walk up and keeps you good night.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
You should have been outside, man, I can't. That's just yeah,
I'm mad. I'm still mad at him. What you know?

Speaker 4 (03:24):
Now as far as you installing the camera. Look, I
wouldn't go through all of that, you know, you know
I'm not. I don't want to be in that marriage.

Speaker 3 (03:34):
Marriage no more. If I got the spy, yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
Got a partner to hide, a private eye to follow
his wife.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:48):
And so I after he told it to me, he said,
what would you do? I said, that's not my wife
no more. If I got to get a private eye
to go follow you.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
I'm not. I'm not going to do that. Yeah, you
just go where you're going. It's out there, just Colombo.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Too much. It is.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
You get where you're going. Your credit card ain't gonna
work I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Just let you all right.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
Moving on to Bow and East Point, Bow writes, I
met a beautiful woman on Instagram. I went to Miami
to meet her, and I found out she's married but
getting a divorce. I told her, let's put everything on
pause until she's single. She said, if I snooze, I lose.

(04:43):
Should I risk losing her? Please help?

Speaker 3 (04:50):
If you snooze, you lose.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
That's what she said. Yeah, she fine.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
You went to Miami. She getting a divorce. Let's put
everything on pause to you clear?

Speaker 3 (05:04):
All right?

Speaker 4 (05:04):
Now, I got jokes for that, but let me let's
have an honest conversation.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
The god in you said, let's pause until.

Speaker 3 (05:15):
You get clear.

Speaker 4 (05:19):
The devil in her said, if you snooze, you lose.
Right now, bro, I'm gonna tell you right now. She
may be fine, she may even be getting a divorce.
But if you move forward after you just told yourself
to the latest, you're fin to run up and you
fin to find out the very reason you said, let's

(05:42):
put this on pause till you get clear. And once see,
once a man verbally gives himself a warning and then
he goes against that warning, you fin to find out
why you had the warning. I can about one thousand
percent promise you that I like that. I can about
one thousand percent promise you that she may be getting

(06:02):
a divorce. I'm not saying she not, but something in
you said, hey, let's wait till we get clear.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Uh huh.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
That's you know.

Speaker 4 (06:10):
Sometimes God protects us, follow ourself, follow the dog. If
you don't follow that, you fin to find out why
you say it. I promise you you will. Dog.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
So he should risk losing her? Yes, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
Absolutely, If not as a it's a in their crystal ball,
I'll see it all.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
And it's a risk no matter what dog.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
He can lose most stuff too. Listen, because you're the
hottest man.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
Feel about the Yeah, divorce, lose, I lose?

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Okay, all right, last one, Steve, This is from Janey
in Houston. Janey writes, my coworker said she saw a
woman in my husband's car, and she pulled up to
speak and realized it wasn't me in the car. My
husband never mentioned it. Is it worth asking him about it?
Or should I assume my coworker had the wrong car.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
That's what that's what you want to go with.

Speaker 4 (07:08):
You want to assume, so you either you either you
either want to know or you don't want to know,
And it seemed to me like you don't want the truth.
So your assumption is to assume she pulled up to.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
The wrong car. Okay, then go with that, because.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
I promised you right now if you ask him about
this woman in the car, what the hell are you
talking about?

Speaker 2 (07:33):
Yeah, yeah, I know that's what I thought.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
It was the wrong car. Because I'm not fitting admitted

Speaker 2 (07:40):
You're listening hard morning show