December 20, 2023 • 6 mins
Can one trust the parking lot guard with an affair secret or nah? How do parents raise kids in a blended family situation?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Time now to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
This one is from Billy in Ohio. Steve Billy right,
but listen to this. Billy writes, I'm tied up in
an affair with a woman that loved to have sex
on the back seat of her Chevy Tahoe. This past Sunday,
(00:22):
I was at church with my wife and she pulled
up to the church and texted me to come outside.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I left church and went to the back seat of
the tahoe.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Afterwards, I nodded at the parking lot, got guard, and
I went on back in church. The next Sunday, the
security guard told me that my secret was safe with him.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Should I trust him or not? You? First of all?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Dog? First of all, first of all, should I trust
him or not? Let's start with you stupid?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Please?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, that's a dog. Crazy, He the security god. You
had to climb in the backseat or y'all had to
go into the backseat. Either way, you went in the
back door, or you climbed over the sea. He saw it,
and he tells you, hey, man, your secrets safe with me.
Should I trust him? Okay, let's say you don't trust him.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
What's your next move ain't.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Hold of hold let me, let me, let me guess
you're gonna have him killed?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Dog?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
What the hell can you possibly do? Can you trust him?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Dog?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
You stupid man. We ain't answering that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you could trust him. Why did you go out there
and get in that contact.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I can't get past that.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Got a church church?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
All right, billy, you're on your own, so says the celo.
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
This one is from New Mommy and Monroe, Louisiana. She says,
I'm a twenty four you old mother of a two
year old boy, and I'm engaged to a man that
is not my child's dad. He's planning to adopt my son,
and he's already talking about how he's going to discipline him.
My son is at the age where he says no
to everything. Anything's it's cute. My fiance says it needs
(02:18):
to stop now, and he needs something better than the
swat on his butt that I gave him. He says,
he needs a leather strap on his butt. But that's
a bit harsh for a two year old. How can
I defend my baby from this?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Well, I think that's a little harsh for two years
I grew up in spranks, but not at two. No, brother,
you need to pull up and you need to talk
to you, to you, to your future husband about it,
because obviously he has no children. Anybody talking about striking
a baby at two, I'm just gonna say, you need more.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
You need a strap on a two year old? Are
you kidding me? Now?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
You can traumatize. You need to sit down and have
a talk with him. And I would suggest y'all probably
need to go to some type of counseling about child
wearing because there's so many other ways to raise children now.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
But I cannot condone a guy coming in and.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Talking about he needs something harder than a little spat
on the butt.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I think I think that's dangerous. That's dangerous. Conversation. Is
this a science thing?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
You need to pull up till you get a real
understanding because you can't move this man in his house
and he talking about the house severe he needed.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
It's a two year old and he's going to adopt
this point.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
No. I mean, I appreciate you loving him, but he's
got the wrong idea of discipline and definitely the wrong time.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Two at a belt? Are you crazy?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
What two year old doesn't say no, that's a terrible it's.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
A terrible tune.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
You listen to me. You should buy those books. I
forgot the name of it. Everybody used to give it
out to pregnant women to show you the stages of
development and a child and what to look for.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah, and you know, like by two they should be
doing this. Everybody tell you the first they learned no
in the tubes and they're starting to shape themselves about
likes and disslikes and so no, it is a scientist
say this. I have a problem with what you're saying.
It's not being contraar. They just all say no.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
That's their first little taste of independence. Yeah, that's it.
That's all it is.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Yeah, making walk no No, yeah no, how he messing
your day up because he just said no.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
It's beyond me.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
He told me, no, he's not a good candidate to
me for a husband or a daddy.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Out of the question, Man.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Mickey and Teenack New Jersey says, my sister hooked me
up with one of her co workers and we went
out on a blind day. The day was great, and
she offered to cook for our second day. I got
to her house ready to eat good and instead I
was shocked by what I walked then to her shoes
were all over the entrance to her place, and cat
hair was all on her kitchen seat cushions.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I could see her laundry.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Room from the kitchen and it was full of piles
of dirty underwear. I told her I'd lost to my
appetite and left. Now she's giving my sister grief at work,
and my sister is mad at me. How is this
my fault? Please help me.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
It ain't. I'm not dating a trifle woman. No, you
nasty food all over your house, cat hair on the thing. Well,
I don't want your damn food. I like eating in
clean plates.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Now, you knew I was coming, You invited me over,
and this is how your house looked. This is knowing
you coming. What's going to happen when she get comfortable
with you coming? Let's pop up? So people normally put
their best foot forward. If this is the best foot,
I don't want see the other foot, and I don't
give damn my sister mad at me?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
You date a nasty head?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
All right, Destiny and Orlando says the guy I've been
dating for three years. He's a relationship counselor because he
posts videos of his life experiences and girls flock to
his posts for advice. He responds to their comments and
flirts with them. He says it's all part of gaining trust,
so the women will pay to see him speak. His
first paid event is in two weeks in Vegas, and
(06:17):
he hasn't invited me.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Do I trust the process and let him go? Or
should I buy my own ticket to Vegas?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
No? Look, he's your boyfriend. You didn't get invited. Secondly,
why would you buy a ticket to his event? Thirdly,
why would he not invite you exactly? And fourthly, why
are you trying to hang on to something that don't
want to be held on? Two three years? He a
dating expert, he'd be flirting. He finna go to Vegas
(06:46):
and flirt?
Speaker 2 (06:47):
All right? Thank you? You up in that blocking you're
listening morning show
Time now to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
This one is from Billy in Ohio. Steve Billy right,
but listen to this. Billy writes, I'm tied up in
an affair with a woman that loved to have sex
on the back seat of her Chevy Tahoe. This past Sunday,
(00:22):
I was at church with my wife and she pulled
up to the church and texted me to come outside.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I left church and went to the back seat of
the tahoe.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Afterwards, I nodded at the parking lot, got guard, and
I went on back in church. The next Sunday, the
security guard told me that my secret was safe with him.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Should I trust him or not? You? First of all?
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Dog? First of all, first of all, should I trust
him or not? Let's start with you stupid?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Please?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, that's a dog. Crazy, He the security god. You
had to climb in the backseat or y'all had to
go into the backseat. Either way, you went in the
back door, or you climbed over the sea. He saw it,
and he tells you, hey, man, your secrets safe with me.
Should I trust him? Okay, let's say you don't trust him.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
What's your next move ain't.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Hold of hold let me, let me, let me guess
you're gonna have him killed?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Dog?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
What the hell can you possibly do? Can you trust him?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Dog?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
You stupid man. We ain't answering that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you could trust him. Why did you go out there
and get in that contact.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I can't get past that.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Got a church church?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
All right, billy, you're on your own, so says the celo.
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
This one is from New Mommy and Monroe, Louisiana. She says,
I'm a twenty four you old mother of a two
year old boy, and I'm engaged to a man that
is not my child's dad. He's planning to adopt my son,
and he's already talking about how he's going to discipline him.
My son is at the age where he says no
to everything. Anything's it's cute. My fiance says it needs
(02:18):
to stop now, and he needs something better than the
swat on his butt that I gave him. He says,
he needs a leather strap on his butt. But that's
a bit harsh for a two year old. How can
I defend my baby from this?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Well, I think that's a little harsh for two years
I grew up in spranks, but not at two. No, brother,
you need to pull up and you need to talk
to you, to you, to your future husband about it,
because obviously he has no children. Anybody talking about striking
a baby at two, I'm just gonna say, you need more.
Speaker 4 (02:55):
You need a strap on a two year old? Are
you kidding me? Now?
Speaker 3 (02:59):
You can traumatize. You need to sit down and have
a talk with him. And I would suggest y'all probably
need to go to some type of counseling about child
wearing because there's so many other ways to raise children now.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
But I cannot condone a guy coming in and.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Talking about he needs something harder than a little spat
on the butt.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I think I think that's dangerous. That's dangerous. Conversation. Is
this a science thing?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
You need to pull up till you get a real
understanding because you can't move this man in his house
and he talking about the house severe he needed.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
It's a two year old and he's going to adopt
this point.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
No. I mean, I appreciate you loving him, but he's
got the wrong idea of discipline and definitely the wrong time.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Two at a belt? Are you crazy?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
What two year old doesn't say no, that's a terrible it's.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
A terrible tune.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
You listen to me. You should buy those books. I
forgot the name of it. Everybody used to give it
out to pregnant women to show you the stages of
development and a child and what to look for.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah, and you know, like by two they should be
doing this. Everybody tell you the first they learned no
in the tubes and they're starting to shape themselves about
likes and disslikes and so no, it is a scientist
say this. I have a problem with what you're saying.
It's not being contraar. They just all say no.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
That's their first little taste of independence. Yeah, that's it.
That's all it is.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Yeah, making walk no No, yeah no, how he messing
your day up because he just said no.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
It's beyond me.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
He told me, no, he's not a good candidate to
me for a husband or a daddy.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
Out of the question, Man.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Mickey and Teenack New Jersey says, my sister hooked me
up with one of her co workers and we went
out on a blind day. The day was great, and
she offered to cook for our second day. I got
to her house ready to eat good and instead I
was shocked by what I walked then to her shoes
were all over the entrance to her place, and cat
hair was all on her kitchen seat cushions.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I could see her laundry.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Room from the kitchen and it was full of piles
of dirty underwear. I told her I'd lost to my
appetite and left. Now she's giving my sister grief at work,
and my sister is mad at me. How is this
my fault? Please help me.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
It ain't. I'm not dating a trifle woman. No, you
nasty food all over your house, cat hair on the thing. Well,
I don't want your damn food. I like eating in
clean plates.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Now, you knew I was coming, You invited me over,
and this is how your house looked. This is knowing
you coming. What's going to happen when she get comfortable
with you coming? Let's pop up? So people normally put
their best foot forward. If this is the best foot,
I don't want see the other foot, and I don't
give damn my sister mad at me?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
You date a nasty head?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
All right, Destiny and Orlando says the guy I've been
dating for three years. He's a relationship counselor because he
posts videos of his life experiences and girls flock to
his posts for advice. He responds to their comments and
flirts with them. He says it's all part of gaining trust,
so the women will pay to see him speak. His
first paid event is in two weeks in Vegas, and
(06:17):
he hasn't invited me.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Do I trust the process and let him go? Or
should I buy my own ticket to Vegas?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
No? Look, he's your boyfriend. You didn't get invited. Secondly,
why would you buy a ticket to his event? Thirdly,
why would he not invite you exactly? And fourthly, why
are you trying to hang on to something that don't
want to be held on? Two three years? He a
dating expert, he'd be flirting. He finna go to Vegas
(06:46):
and flirt?
Speaker 2 (06:47):
All right? Thank you? You up in that blocking you're
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