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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time for your favorite segment, Steve asked the
CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, ready for your love questions.
This one is from Tally in Kansas. Tally writes, my
seven year old son came home and told me that
his dad has a new girlfriend and he hates her.
I told him that's not nice to say about anyone,

(00:21):
and he said she made two steaks for her and
his dad, and she gave him chicken tenders. I spoke
to my ex and asked if my son was telling
the truth, and he said that his child is fine
with chicken tenders.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
He's only seven. Now we've got a problem.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Because my ex is on board with his unequal treatment
of his own child. Should I talk to him? Should
I have a talk with them before this gets any worse?

Speaker 3 (00:46):
What? Well, we have a situation here, Taty. First, your
question was your son hates your ex's new boyfriend. Now
you hear from her, Well you hate her now, So
we're not everybody in Teleyhouse hate the new girl. So

(01:09):
now we do have a problem. And you've spoken to
him and the seven year old on his steak, Now
I can understand. I don't know why you got these
chicken tenders turned into hate for you. I would have
been more than happy when I was seven, and plus
when I was seven. Back in them days, I wasn't
allowed to say I didn't want nothing. I hate them
damn chicken tenders, and shut my damn mouth. If I don't

(01:30):
up my mouth about them damn chicken tenders, them chicken
tenders would have got packed up in me and it
wouldn't have been as hard to go to the bathroom
next time.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
So that's any way.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
It would have happened. Yeah, you know what, now you
just let these chicken tenders out the next time you go.
So that's what it would have happened. In him. Do
you have a little situation. I think you should just
talk to him or your ex, and he really would
have been fine with the chicken tenders. I think this
is an overreaction. Your boy's seven years old. He's smart,

(02:04):
he's manipulative. He know to come in here with you
and say the right thing. So please be aware of
how smart and cunning kids are. I'm gonna come in
and upset my mama. I'm gonna tell her I hate
her because they had steaks and they gave me chicken tenders. Well,
you know you got a little bitty ass teeth, so
you know we got a little baby teeth, little baby

(02:26):
teeth posted to eat chicken tenders. I don't think it's
that big of a deal, and I wouldn't let this
little boy drive a wedge in it right down. This
unequal treatment is because he's not equal. What you don't
like is it was done by the new girlfriend, and
he made sure you knew it. Quite a slick moved
from the seven year old that loves his mother deally tally,

(02:49):
and he's just doing what little boys do because he
doesn't know yet that it's okay to love two people.
He does not know that yet, and so he's picking sides.
He's chosen you. But let's not make it any harder
than it can be. Yeah, very good, the chicken Tenders's fine.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
Feel love all right. Moving on to Aaron in Oklahoma.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Aaron says, my mother's sixty four year old boyfriend makes
comments about my butt and it's making me uncomfortable. I'm
five to three and I'm a curby girl, but I
dress very conservatively. I've told my mother that he is
a dirty old man, and she said he means no harm.
It is underhanded way of giving a compliment. My husband
is about to get involved since my mom thinks it's cute.

(03:33):
I'm forty years old, so I don't need my husband's help.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
How do I stop this dirty old fool?

Speaker 3 (03:39):
Uh uh no, No, let your husband Hanley. Let your
husband Hanley. You're gonna whoop be there, but just let
him hand it. You're forty, you don't need your husband.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
You don't.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
But the husband can talk to him a little bit
different in a man. Any more comments about my lady behind,
he's going to be a problem for you. Be cho behind.
You just got a little man said it'll end a
lot quicker. See you then already went to yo mama
about it. It didn't work out. Now you're gonna go
to him. How you think it's gonna work out? Let
your husband talk to the man and it'll be done.

(04:15):
It's just a respectful conversation. He that's sixty four year old,
don't want it.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Forty.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
He don't want that?

Speaker 2 (04:21):
What he won't he fast?

Speaker 3 (04:24):
See I'm sixty four. I'm telling you that ain't what
we want. Look at the ring, scared of it, but
we don't need that. A lot of speed moving around
in that room, and it ain't coming from him. A
lot of speed in that room, a lot of endings,
and it ain't coming from the sixty four year old.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
All right's moving, that's behind him. You're on point this morning.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Celo Courtney in Tampa writes that I am recently divorced
and I have a crush on my coworker. I heard
he's messing with another girl at work, so I don't
need or want any drama. He won't admit that he's
messing around, but the fact that he's sinking around with
me makes me believe it's true. We've done everything except
go all the way, and I want him badly, but

(05:11):
for some reason, he's holding back. I invited him to
my house.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
But he won't come.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Does this mean he is with another woman and he's
trying to be faithful to her? Lady?

Speaker 3 (05:21):
Are you for real?

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Huh?

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Yep, she's for real?

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Wait? Are you for real?

Speaker 2 (05:25):
Courtney?

Speaker 3 (05:26):
You all have done everything but go all the way.
He won't go all the way. You invited him to
your house, but he won't come. You know he's dating
a coworker that he's fooling around with you don't want
no drama, but you right on the edge of creating drama. Can't.
I can't help you, Courtney, because it seems to me
like you want to do what you want to do regardless.

(05:49):
Now you just need Uncle Steve's permission. I'm not gonna
give it to you.

Speaker 2 (05:52):
Good, that's what she wants.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
You're dating this man is dating another woman on the job.
But he won't admit it. But you know it. He
don't admit to you either. You just got divorce. Why
would you jump into somebody that's in a relationship. That's
probably why you got divorced in the first place. Somebody

(06:14):
would meet somebody already in a relationship, Courtney. Let's not
be stupid here, Courtney. There are other men out there.
Open up your pool, get on a day, app Quit
trying to find your man. At your job and your church,
it's the same people down there every week. Open up

(06:38):
your but it's the same men every week at the church.
Ain't no new men coming to the church. It's new
women coming to the church. Ain't no new men coming
to the church. Men sign up for church like Republicans
sign up for the vaccine.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
Dang, and we all want it. Right there. This it
leave it right there?

Speaker 3 (07:08):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Does this mean he is with another woman and he's
trying to be faithful to her?

Speaker 3 (07:15):
It means he don't want you? What you're trying to
put it out here? He don't want you. He'd have
done everything with you except go all the way. You'd
invited him over the house and he won't come. One
and one is two.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Yes, what you won't?

Speaker 3 (07:30):
Whatever he doing, don't worry about that. He don't, won't you? Hello?

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Will come on Courtney, Come on, Courtney girl. All right,
thank you, Clo. You're listening Morning Show