October 17, 2024 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
In entertainment news, former First Lady Michelle Obama will headline
a voter rally in Atlanta. Former President Jimmy Carter cast
his ballot for Kamala Harris weeks after his one hundred birthday,
and Jay Z extends his deal with the NFL. Also,
The Victorious Secret Fashion Show returns with the one and
only Tyra Banks. We'll talk about all of these stories
(00:25):
at the top of the hour, but right now it
is time to ask the CLO with the Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This one's from Gia and Norcross. Gea writes,
my husband and I are twenty five. He got caught
having sex with an older woman at work.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
He didn't get fired, but she did.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I believed him when he said she forced herself on him.
My friends say I'm naive and he's a cheater. Should
I stand by him or not?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Can use that he did? She workest herself on me? Where? Where?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
How?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
You know the part that's that that's hard about that?
But young lady, look, first of all, let me say this.
If you want your marriage to work, go ahead and
fight through it. Cheat. He did cheat. That's a fact
that that is a fact that he did cheat. I
(01:37):
didn't know you could use that one, though, she throws
herself on me. I've never even tried that one because
I know what I have to feel and do to
actually be engaged. So right there as you got to
be excited, right how very But it's the consent though,
(02:02):
So young lady, if you're trying to make your marriage work,
then go and stand line. You know. But and ain't
ain't no older woman forced herself on you. He twenty five,
Come on there, he twenty five.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Force.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Moving on to Porsche in Huntsville, Portia said, I had
a fling with a girl I met. I met at church.
It was an experimental time for me, and we're still
good friends. I'm about to get married. And she asked me,
if my husband knows about our history, is this something
he would hold against me if I told him?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Why would you tell him? Stupid? No, don't tell him.
It's experimental stage. Stop running your mouth, shut up, be quiet.
Go d du da da dun dun dad. Go do
the bell song, walk down that aisle, Get your little
flower kids out there, get your ring brear. O't go
(02:59):
in there, don't no, he don't know, and nor will he?
And why are you still talking to her? Does he
know how history? We ain't got no history. Do you
think he'll hold that against me? Yeah? Probably probably? Why risky? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
And if it ever come up? Lie?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
What starting off?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Excuse me? She had a fleeing with a girl she
met at church. You don't think it's time to lie.
Fleeing girl at church? What? So this is lie? How
far the bounce is the lie on me? Don't don't listen,
(03:51):
Just do like uncle Steve, to keep it to yourself.
Don't run in the start at your house with your man.
Don't put no ideas in his head that this is
how you are. Oh, this is what we're doing. No, no,
don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Moving on to Cassandra and new Haven. Cassandra says, my
husband and I went to his niece's wedding and his.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Toast to the newlyweds was so embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
He talked as if marriage was terrible, and I get
on his last nerve.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Why would he do it?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
There? Was he joking? Or is that how he really feels?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well a great joke, and all of us will tell
you this is ninety percent truth. He was sitting there.
You know, you do get on his nerves, though I
could tell you that flat out. Most men have jokes
about that. Though most men who are married have jokes
(04:52):
about that. The only person that don't joke about that
is choking because he's not. He said, it was so
embarrassing it should have been, and he was trying to
be funny, and it was at your expense. You're still man,
but you do get on his damn nerves. Don't know
(05:14):
that last nerds true? Y'all that at the wedding, and well,
I got it. He thought about his way, he said,
but he's selfish. Well, don't ask me to toast if
you don't want my Yeah, if you don't want this
here right here, then ask somebody in ask you. You
(05:37):
probably give a nice toes, but you're kind of crazy too.
So y'all need my gonna start with what you do
it for.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
The wedding?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Don't ask me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
So y'all can't say nothing nice.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Really, you're gonna say something truthful.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Now we telling the truth?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Oh, okay, one is wonderful, but maybe you maybe you
got to bite into the bad a couple of times.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
To the last one. This is Dernie and Herndon.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
She writes, my husband is a pushover and I make
all of the decisions. I hate when our children talk
back to him, and I've told him that they don't
respect him. I refuse to be the bad guy all
of the time. How do I get him to be
more of a disciplinarian.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I'm the direct opposite. So I don't know. I don't know.
You're talking a pushover? No, no, no, no kids talking back, No,
don no. I was talking my two gressos the other day,
three of them, had all three of them lined up.
He was BJ, Noah and Ezra had them all lined
(06:51):
up and howl are we talking now? BJ? Is you so?
BJ and Noah the same age, A eight, and then
Ezra was five and DJ just like you out from
Jason's kids that they they don't never get cussed at.
(07:12):
That's what I found out because her nine nine said,
now tell pop party, Mommy and daddy don't use bad
language when they're talking to us. Said, well, your damn
daddy ain't here, so.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah, I want to know what BJ said.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
B J was sitting there, tear it up.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
BJ back in his eyes where you were bussing at.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Them that, Yeah, because they had done something wrong. Yeah,
so the hor's fitn't happened. It was, you know, it
was kind of severe, look a little shocking for August.
He started with I'm a each show.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Coming up. At the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you. Right after this. You're listening
to Harvey Morning Show.
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
In entertainment news, former First Lady Michelle Obama will headline
a voter rally in Atlanta. Former President Jimmy Carter cast
his ballot for Kamala Harris weeks after his one hundred birthday,
and Jay Z extends his deal with the NFL. Also,
The Victorious Secret Fashion Show returns with the one and
only Tyra Banks. We'll talk about all of these stories
(00:25):
at the top of the hour, but right now it
is time to ask the CLO with the Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This one's from Gia and Norcross. Gea writes,
my husband and I are twenty five. He got caught
having sex with an older woman at work.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
He didn't get fired, but she did.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
I believed him when he said she forced herself on him.
My friends say I'm naive and he's a cheater. Should
I stand by him or not?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Can use that he did? She workest herself on me? Where? Where?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
How?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
You know the part that's that that's hard about that?
But young lady, look, first of all, let me say this.
If you want your marriage to work, go ahead and
fight through it. Cheat. He did cheat. That's a fact
that that is a fact that he did cheat. I
(01:37):
didn't know you could use that one, though, she throws
herself on me. I've never even tried that one because
I know what I have to feel and do to
actually be engaged. So right there as you got to
be excited, right how very But it's the consent though,
(02:02):
So young lady, if you're trying to make your marriage work,
then go and stand line. You know. But and ain't
ain't no older woman forced herself on you. He twenty five,
Come on there, he twenty five.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Force.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Moving on to Porsche in Huntsville, Portia said, I had
a fling with a girl I met. I met at church.
It was an experimental time for me, and we're still
good friends. I'm about to get married. And she asked me,
if my husband knows about our history, is this something
he would hold against me if I told him?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Why would you tell him? Stupid? No, don't tell him.
It's experimental stage. Stop running your mouth, shut up, be quiet.
Go d du da da dun dun dad. Go do
the bell song, walk down that aisle, Get your little
flower kids out there, get your ring brear. O't go
(02:59):
in there, don't no, he don't know, and nor will he?
And why are you still talking to her? Does he
know how history? We ain't got no history. Do you
think he'll hold that against me? Yeah? Probably probably? Why risky? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
And if it ever come up? Lie?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
What starting off?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Excuse me? She had a fleeing with a girl she
met at church. You don't think it's time to lie.
Fleeing girl at church? What? So this is lie? How
far the bounce is the lie on me? Don't don't listen,
(03:51):
Just do like uncle Steve, to keep it to yourself.
Don't run in the start at your house with your man.
Don't put no ideas in his head that this is
how you are. Oh, this is what we're doing. No, no,
don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Moving on to Cassandra and new Haven. Cassandra says, my
husband and I went to his niece's wedding and his.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Toast to the newlyweds was so embarrassing.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
He talked as if marriage was terrible, and I get
on his last nerve.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Why would he do it?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
There? Was he joking? Or is that how he really feels?
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well a great joke, and all of us will tell
you this is ninety percent truth. He was sitting there.
You know, you do get on his nerves, though I
could tell you that flat out. Most men have jokes
about that. Though most men who are married have jokes
(04:52):
about that. The only person that don't joke about that
is choking because he's not. He said, it was so
embarrassing it should have been, and he was trying to
be funny, and it was at your expense. You're still man,
but you do get on his damn nerves. Don't know
(05:14):
that last nerds true? Y'all that at the wedding, and well,
I got it. He thought about his way, he said,
but he's selfish. Well, don't ask me to toast if
you don't want my Yeah, if you don't want this
here right here, then ask somebody in ask you. You
(05:37):
probably give a nice toes, but you're kind of crazy too.
So y'all need my gonna start with what you do
it for.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
The wedding?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Don't ask me.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
So y'all can't say nothing nice.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Really, you're gonna say something truthful.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Now we telling the truth?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Oh, okay, one is wonderful, but maybe you maybe you
got to bite into the bad a couple of times.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
To the last one. This is Dernie and Herndon.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
She writes, my husband is a pushover and I make
all of the decisions. I hate when our children talk
back to him, and I've told him that they don't
respect him. I refuse to be the bad guy all
of the time. How do I get him to be
more of a disciplinarian.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
I'm the direct opposite. So I don't know. I don't know.
You're talking a pushover? No, no, no, no kids talking back, No,
don no. I was talking my two gressos the other day,
three of them, had all three of them lined up.
He was BJ, Noah and Ezra had them all lined
(06:51):
up and howl are we talking now? BJ? Is you so?
BJ and Noah the same age, A eight, and then
Ezra was five and DJ just like you out from
Jason's kids that they they don't never get cussed at.
(07:12):
That's what I found out because her nine nine said,
now tell pop party, Mommy and daddy don't use bad
language when they're talking to us. Said, well, your damn
daddy ain't here, so.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah, I want to know what BJ said.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
B J was sitting there, tear it up.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
BJ back in his eyes where you were bussing at.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Them that, Yeah, because they had done something wrong. Yeah,
so the hor's fitn't happened. It was, you know, it
was kind of severe, look a little shocking for August.
He started with I'm a each show.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Coming up. At the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you. Right after this. You're listening
to Harvey Morning Show.
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