Social Media Advice - 06.13.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Steve.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
This is from Cainetra in mid Lothian. Canetra says, I'm
old school when it comes to dating, and my boyfriend
is older, so I would expect him to get certain
things right. For example, he will text me when he
pulls up to let me know he's downstairs instead of
coming up to get me. So what. I live on
the second floor and he texts me all day long

(00:23):
instead of calling me. If I call him, he always
asks what's wrong. He also won't hold my hand in public,
and he won't sit beside me in restaurants. What's weird
is that he told me.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
That he loves me.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
How do I get this forty five year old man's
actions to match up with his words?

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Wait a minute, First of all, your actions are not.
You don't require anything. He texts you downstairs, You go
down there and get in a car.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Okay, m hm, instead of yeah, you can train a
man how to treat you okay.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
He texts you, you go down and get in a car.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
But you're mad about it now.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
He don't sit next to you in the restaurant because
he got it. He should be sitting there watching that door.
I don't sit next to my wife in the restaurant.
We sit across from each other, and I sit with
my I face the door. I got to see this door.
I gotta see what's happening. So there's nothing wrong with that.
He texts you and you respond. That's why he keep texting.

(01:24):
You've never said, hey, look, I don't care for text
I want to hear your voice. Call me if you
want this to continue. So it ain't what he doing wrong,
it's what you're allowing him to do. So once again,
and if a man loves you, he gonna accommodate.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
You sitting next to each other texting so stupid.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
All right, we have time for another one, Steve.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
So you're telling I just told it, Shirley.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, and to get her standards together. That's all all right,
We have to have time for another one. This is
from Levi and Saint Louis. Levi said, I had company
over watching TV and enjoying a bottle of bourbon, and
my date's phone kept ringing. She put it on vibrate
and it kept on vibrating. Finally I asked her if
she needed to check her phone. She said it was

(02:18):
her roommate and she'd call her. When she got in
the car, she asked if we could go on back
to my bed because she was ready to have sex.
I told her to go ahead and leave so she
could call her roommate. She seemed like she had a
few screws loose and she was hiding something. Did I
do the right thing? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:37):
You did, dog, Yeah you did. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Very rarely do me and make the smart decision in it.
That's going in the back to the bedroom because I'm
ready to have sex, the dog going it, lets go
is usually the response. Right, But you knew something was wrong.
You knew something was wrong.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
What was wrong?

Speaker 3 (03:00):
You know, some screws is loose, phone just vibrating. That
ain't your girlfriend? H So you know that's a problem.
And so that was a problem. And then uh, the
other one about you know, let's go on in the back,
bro and I'm gonna tell you something else to fine?

Speaker 1 (03:20):
And she really wasn't that fine?

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, Why do you say that? Why let the people
know why you said that?

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Turn it on some questions. Why do I say she
wasn't fine?

Speaker 3 (03:34):
If a woman said let's go on in the back
of the barroo, how you ain't going over there?

Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't care what screw you got loose in your head?
Who was about that? Later on?

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Yeah, you're like crazy anyway.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah, you know how many fine crazy people out of
been with.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Can noting about you having no loose screw? Was she
too aggressive in her approach?

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Which she to aggressive?

Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah? That phone, you know she might. You know that
you you don't know her dog. That phone just vibrating.
That sound like that sounded like call girl to me.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Oh wow, there with it.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, it's just ranging and ranging and ranging and ranging
in your roommate ain't calling you that much.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
But something, maybe something happened at the house.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
Surely his name is Levi. That's all.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
What you're listening to.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
The Steve Harvey Morning Show