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Speaker 1 (00:01):
All right, guys, this is from Maxie and Lexington and Steve.
Maxie says, my son is a thirty three year old
bachelor and he was out of town Friday morning, so
I dropped off his mail that was at my house.
Some girl came to his door as I was walking in.
She was only wearing her underwear. I asked her who
she was and if she was supposed to be there.

(00:22):
She ignored me and sat on the sofa with her
almost naked behind on the cushions. I called my son
and he said he gave her a key. I told
him she was rude. He said, she's not rude at all,
She's very sweet. Does this mean he's serious about her?
If she has a key? What if he really likes her?
Do I have any say so in the matter?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Key? And obviously not really came over there and she
was rude, And you came over there and she was
just over there? Do you have any say so? Did
he ask you? Could he date her? And when you
came in and she saw you and just sat on
the couch and crossed her leg, she fine, And her

(01:06):
answer her question, yeah, because a girlfriend trying to figure
out who you are. I'm the one in here naked
now now, yeah, you don't have no say so, lady,
And why do you want your son? Thirty three? Thirty three?
He do what he wanted to do.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Yeah, obviously he gave her a key.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
She got a keep.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Mommy said the girl was rude. He said, she's very sweet,
and she's very sweet.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Mama, mama, and mama, you're gonna quick coming around here?

Speaker 1 (01:44):
What I noted? Wow? All right, so she has mom
has mama?

Speaker 2 (01:52):
Did you see her there? All right?

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Moving on? We do have another one, Steve. This is
from Raquel and Austin. Raquel says, two years ago, I
got pregnant by my ex and he ghosted me until
I had the baby. I banned him from a hospital
when I gave birth, and he was deeply hurt. He
is holding a grudge against me and using it to
not be in his child's life. Is it okay for

(02:21):
him to be mad about missing the birth? But I
went through an entire pregnancy alone. Why can't he see
that I'm hurting too? And how do we move past
all this mess? Wow?

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Two wrongs don't make a right. I understand your frustration
with him, of course, just leave you hind try you
dealt with the whole pregnancy by yourself. That he wrong
on so many levels for that. But then maybe the
light bulb went off and he went, hey, man, I
have a responsibility. I got to show up and do

(02:56):
my duty now. So that's the upside of it. He
wanted to be there. He's not denying that it's his.
And you know, people handle the news wrong. Did he
leaving you hanging? Was he wrong for that? One hundred percent?
One thousand percent? And you have every right to be hurt.

(03:16):
Now you've banned him from the hospital. He's hurt. So
now with you all at somebody gonna have to move
past something for the sake of the child, exactly. So
that's all it is to it. Somebody got to be
the bigger man, and it might have to be you.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
So what should she say?

Speaker 2 (03:40):
The steak gonna make him be a better man? Ready
or not? Tag here we go.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
So should she call him and say, I mean, make
a truth.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
You said what I wanted to say. Nobody's gonna have
to be the bigger man. I don't know what she
need to do. But not letting him see the baby.
That don't work out for the baby.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Right right, But you said someone has to make the
move and it might have to be heard, So.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
I don't you know, but both of y'all can't sit
over there in y'all corner be mad at each other.
Not the only one gonna suffers the child.

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Yeah yeah, yeah, y'all over there pouting and all that.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Yeah yeah. I think you're gonna have to let this
man see this baby, and y'all act like adults and.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Work through it.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Monica, can't nobody know what you're doing, baby, You've got
to all right.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
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