October 25, 2024 • 10 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what's I don't
know your baby at all at all.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So given them.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Bu bus things and not listening to me, to other,
(00:38):
I loot joy Joy.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
You don't to do that.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
You love.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Your money very.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
You gotta turning about, got to turn the mouth, turn,
got to turn out the turn.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Out, turn the money. Look, come.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Come on, you'll think, uh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You'll listen to the voice. Now, come on, digny one
and only.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Steve Harvey got a radio show one more time partner,
Steve Harvey got a radio show.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Man.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
How amazing is that? How good has God been to me?
How good has He been to you? Just check yourself sometimes,
just sit up and just just run a survey. Just
look at your life where it's at. That might not
be where you want it to be, but that's probably
some decisions you made. But really, though, in spite of
(02:39):
all the crazy mistakes I don't made, I mean, man,
I I I look back at some of the decisions
I done came up with, and and man, it's it's
it's just amazing He let me live.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I mean, it's it's and and and to exist the
way I exist it. That's nothing but.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Grace, mercy, favor all that is. That's what my mama
praying for me when I wasn't praying for myself. That
had to be it, because, man, I can truly tell
you I have made enough mistakes man, stuff you would
never even know about, and recovered from.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Them all you can too, and I don't care what
you've done.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Marvin Sap has a song out that says he saw
the best in me when everyone else around me could
only see the worst in me. You know that's an
important song man, especially you know. I want to talk
to men today because man, being a man is so
(03:41):
so difficult. Please know it has been my quest ever
since I was a little boy. My father had one ambition, son,
I don't care what you do, but when I get
through raising you, you will be a man. That's all
I want you to be. And he never cared what
I did for a living, and it never made a
(04:02):
difference to him. You're going to be a man. Manhood
is difficult. Now, ladies, just listening to this, I'm not
saying womanhood ain't. I don't know what it takes to
be a woman, so you know, but I do know
exactly what it takes to be a man. So you know,
sometimes when you talk to people on the radio, you
have to preface things because people are just going he
(04:23):
trying to make it look like womanhood.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
No, That's not what I'm doing. I'm just talking to
men today to explain to them that they by theyself
and struggling trying to figure this thing out, that you
are not alone in your quest for manhood. That is difficult,
I gotta tell you, man manhood is that kind of difficult,
and it becomes even more compounded if a young boy
(04:49):
does not have a male role model. I've said it
a thousand times. I'll say it again. A young boy
without a male role model is like an explorer without
a map.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Well, I have a.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Suggestion for everybody that's struggling with manhood and all of
the men out there that are men. This messages for
all of us, and it's for me too.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I was listening to Joyce Myers the other day and
she made a statement, she said, sometimes you got to
do the right thing, even when it feels wrong. You know,
one of the difficulties of manhood is peer pressure and
the misguided principles of manhood. See what God wants us
(05:33):
to be as men and what we believe manhood is.
It is sometimes two different things. I'll give you an example.
I wrote this book for women, right and I was
telling them the three ways that a man shows his love,
and I call them three p's. We profess, we protect,
and we provide. Every man who is a man, that's
(05:56):
how he exhibits love. When I talk, he talk, keep
comforting with our great nurturersts. But when it comes down
to it, what we all want to do, what is
in our DNA, is to profess our love for something
you as a woman, to protect you as a woman,
and to provide for you as a woman. That's in
our DNA. Now, sometimes that gets messed up, and I'll
(06:18):
give you an example. Sometimes when a boy doesn't have
the proper, real role model in his life, he takes
that principle of love that we all possessing us every man,
the professing part, the protecting, and the providing part, and
we misplay it. That's why gangs exist. Gangs exist off
those three principles. What's the first thing a gang member do?
(06:41):
He professed, he claim a hood. That's the first thing
you do this is my neighborhood. I'm deuce Trey, I'm
triple hh, I'm doot, de doup, I'm purple, I'm red,
I'm blue.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
The first thing they do is claim that's professing. That's
how we show our love.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
But it's misguided though. Now we professing something that ain't
even good for us. Your hood, your gang, your click.
Now guess what Now we got to protect it. So
now as a protection part of our love, here we go.
You come down here, we gonna do this to you.
You go over there, they gonna do that to you.
(07:19):
You protect your hood, This your turf, this all you got.
You ain't ain't nobody coming down here with blue on.
Can't nobody come over here with red on. You can't
come over here with purple on. You can't come over
here with black and gold on. And we and we
protect that because that's in our DNA. And then what's
the third thing we provide? So guess what the gang
need money?
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Guess what we do.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
We selling drugs, were selling women, we're selling guns. It
go back to the same thing.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Man.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I don't know how God gave it to me that
way when I was writing a book, but he showed
it to me along the way. That's how men love well.
When you don't have a role model in your life.
Guess what now that love is misplaced, is misguided. It's
off track, Ain't no.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Man?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I told you that, really you're supposed to take this
love and give it to a woman.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You're really supposed to profess, protect and provide for a woman,
not your gang set. Now you professing your hood, repping
the color, you protecting your territory, shooting people driving by
coming over you on your street, and then you provide.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Now you're out here selling drugs and guns for the
same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
When a boy does not have a male role model,
he has a misguided way of looking at manhood.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Here's the deal.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
See, God created all of us in his image. That
means He's put some of our DNA in him. That's
why it's in your DNA to profess, protect, and provide
because guess what, that's what God do for us, because
we His children. I'm just talking to me in right now.
I'm just telling you, man, I had to wake up
about five years ago. I wasn't doing what God wanted
(08:52):
me to do, and then he shook me. He said, Man,
I'm gonna bring about some changes in your life. I'm
gonna cause some things to happen that's gonna put you
in a position. And this time you're gonna listen to me,
because if you don't, you're gonna keep living in this
pain you've been in.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
But you put yourself in this pain. I owe no
blame to no one else but myself. Please, no, I
know that.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
And that's how you really get to manhood. When you
figure out what you have been done wrong. You can't
blame this on none of your exes because you a man.
You can't go my xd this. No, No, you a man, pardner.
You got to take responsibility for yours and yours alone.
If you got kids, you got to get to them
some kind of way. Write them a letter, send them
(09:35):
the money. If she won't let you see it, for
the money, whatever, send the money to a mama. Do
what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
As a man.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Do what God wants you to do, man, because he's
not letting us off the hook for what we're supposed
to be just cause you ain't doing it. And if
you do it, you turn your life around. Just hollering
at the fellas today that's all.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Sorry about that, you're listening
Speaker 4 (09:59):
Morning show
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what's I don't
know your baby at all at all.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
So given them.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Bu bus things and not listening to me, to other,
(00:38):
I loot joy Joy.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
You don't to do that.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
You love.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Your money very.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
You gotta turning about, got to turn the mouth, turn,
got to turn out the turn.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Out, turn the money. Look, come.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Come on, you'll think, uh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You'll listen to the voice. Now, come on, digny one
and only.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Steve Harvey got a radio show one more time partner,
Steve Harvey got a radio show.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Man.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
How amazing is that? How good has God been to me?
How good has He been to you? Just check yourself sometimes,
just sit up and just just run a survey. Just
look at your life where it's at. That might not
be where you want it to be, but that's probably
some decisions you made. But really, though, in spite of
(02:39):
all the crazy mistakes I don't made, I mean, man,
I I I look back at some of the decisions
I done came up with, and and man, it's it's
it's just amazing He let me live.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I mean, it's it's and and and to exist the
way I exist it. That's nothing but.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Grace, mercy, favor all that is. That's what my mama
praying for me when I wasn't praying for myself. That
had to be it, because, man, I can truly tell
you I have made enough mistakes man, stuff you would
never even know about, and recovered from.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Them all you can too, and I don't care what
you've done.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
Marvin Sap has a song out that says he saw
the best in me when everyone else around me could
only see the worst in me. You know that's an
important song man, especially you know. I want to talk
to men today because man, being a man is so
(03:41):
so difficult. Please know it has been my quest ever
since I was a little boy. My father had one ambition, son,
I don't care what you do, but when I get
through raising you, you will be a man. That's all
I want you to be. And he never cared what
I did for a living, and it never made a
(04:02):
difference to him. You're going to be a man. Manhood
is difficult. Now, ladies, just listening to this, I'm not
saying womanhood ain't. I don't know what it takes to
be a woman, so you know, but I do know
exactly what it takes to be a man. So you know,
sometimes when you talk to people on the radio, you
have to preface things because people are just going he
(04:23):
trying to make it look like womanhood.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Ain't.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
No, That's not what I'm doing. I'm just talking to
men today to explain to them that they by theyself
and struggling trying to figure this thing out, that you
are not alone in your quest for manhood. That is difficult,
I gotta tell you, man manhood is that kind of difficult,
and it becomes even more compounded if a young boy
(04:49):
does not have a male role model. I've said it
a thousand times. I'll say it again. A young boy
without a male role model is like an explorer without
a map.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Well, I have a.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
Suggestion for everybody that's struggling with manhood and all of
the men out there that are men. This messages for
all of us, and it's for me too.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You know.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I was listening to Joyce Myers the other day and
she made a statement, she said, sometimes you got to
do the right thing, even when it feels wrong. You know,
one of the difficulties of manhood is peer pressure and
the misguided principles of manhood. See what God wants us
(05:33):
to be as men and what we believe manhood is.
It is sometimes two different things. I'll give you an example.
I wrote this book for women, right and I was
telling them the three ways that a man shows his love,
and I call them three p's. We profess, we protect,
and we provide. Every man who is a man, that's
(05:56):
how he exhibits love. When I talk, he talk, keep
comforting with our great nurturersts. But when it comes down
to it, what we all want to do, what is
in our DNA, is to profess our love for something
you as a woman, to protect you as a woman,
and to provide for you as a woman. That's in
our DNA. Now, sometimes that gets messed up, and I'll
(06:18):
give you an example. Sometimes when a boy doesn't have
the proper, real role model in his life, he takes
that principle of love that we all possessing us every man,
the professing part, the protecting, and the providing part, and
we misplay it. That's why gangs exist. Gangs exist off
those three principles. What's the first thing a gang member do?
(06:41):
He professed, he claim a hood. That's the first thing
you do this is my neighborhood. I'm deuce Trey, I'm
triple hh, I'm doot, de doup, I'm purple, I'm red,
I'm blue.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
The first thing they do is claim that's professing. That's
how we show our love.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
But it's misguided though. Now we professing something that ain't
even good for us. Your hood, your gang, your click.
Now guess what Now we got to protect it. So
now as a protection part of our love, here we go.
You come down here, we gonna do this to you.
You go over there, they gonna do that to you.
(07:19):
You protect your hood, This your turf, this all you got.
You ain't ain't nobody coming down here with blue on.
Can't nobody come over here with red on. You can't
come over here with purple on. You can't come over
here with black and gold on. And we and we
protect that because that's in our DNA. And then what's
the third thing we provide? So guess what the gang
need money?
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Guess what we do.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
We selling drugs, were selling women, we're selling guns. It
go back to the same thing.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Man.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I don't know how God gave it to me that
way when I was writing a book, but he showed
it to me along the way. That's how men love well.
When you don't have a role model in your life.
Guess what now that love is misplaced, is misguided. It's
off track, Ain't no.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Man?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I told you that, really you're supposed to take this
love and give it to a woman.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
You're really supposed to profess, protect and provide for a woman,
not your gang set. Now you professing your hood, repping
the color, you protecting your territory, shooting people driving by
coming over you on your street, and then you provide.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Now you're out here selling drugs and guns for the
same thing.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
When a boy does not have a male role model,
he has a misguided way of looking at manhood.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
Here's the deal.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
See, God created all of us in his image. That
means He's put some of our DNA in him. That's
why it's in your DNA to profess, protect, and provide
because guess what, that's what God do for us, because
we His children. I'm just talking to me in right now.
I'm just telling you, man, I had to wake up
about five years ago. I wasn't doing what God wanted
(08:52):
me to do, and then he shook me. He said, Man,
I'm gonna bring about some changes in your life. I'm
gonna cause some things to happen that's gonna put you
in a position. And this time you're gonna listen to me,
because if you don't, you're gonna keep living in this
pain you've been in.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
But you put yourself in this pain. I owe no
blame to no one else but myself. Please, no, I
know that.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
And that's how you really get to manhood. When you
figure out what you have been done wrong. You can't
blame this on none of your exes because you a man.
You can't go my xd this. No, No, you a man, pardner.
You got to take responsibility for yours and yours alone.
If you got kids, you got to get to them
some kind of way. Write them a letter, send them
(09:35):
the money. If she won't let you see it, for
the money, whatever, send the money to a mama. Do
what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
As a man.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Do what God wants you to do, man, because he's
not letting us off the hook for what we're supposed
to be just cause you ain't doing it. And if
you do it, you turn your life around. Just hollering
at the fellas today that's all.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Sorry about that, you're listening
Speaker 4 (09:59):
Morning show
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