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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter Pop Pop live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now, and
you never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
This one right here might be Youles, buckle up and
hold on tight.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
We got it for you.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Drop every letter thanking a few subject Alexa call my
bay do. Stephen Shirley, I'm dating a forty seven year
old player. We've been together for almost two years and
I told him marriage was the goal for me when
we started dating, and he said he wanted to be
married too. I was at his house over the weekend
(00:48):
and we were listening to music through his phone and
his phone rang. He usually won't have his phone connected
to bluetooth because we've had a mishap before when one
of his co workers called and his bluetooth announced her.
It was a lady named Carmen, and I eventually found
out that he and Carmen had sex before we started dating.
He still hangs out with Carmen, even though he knows
(01:11):
I don't like it. Back to the most recent incident,
we were watching a movie and Alexa announced that he
had a call from quote my Bay. He calls his
niece Bay and she calls him a lot to ask
for money. But my intuition kicked in and I wanted
to be sure it was his niece. He took a
(01:31):
shower and his phone was still connected to the bluetooth.
I went to the front of the house and said, Alexa,
call my Bay. I got Carmen's voicemail. I confronted him
in the shower, and he calmly told me I was
dead wrong for what I did and I should leave
because I was not about to ruin his weekend. I left,
(01:52):
and days later he still has not addressed who Carmen
is to him. He jokingly tells me that I'm crazy,
but he still loves me. He keeps asking me to
come over and said he can't sleep without me. I'm
not going to let this slide. Why is she my Bay?
Should I leave him alone and let Carmen have him? Wow?
(02:18):
All right, come on, Sis, You're not anything special necessarily
to this man, because you said yourself, he's a player.
It's nothing wrong with you wanting to get married and
letting him know how you feel about that. But because
of his track record with Carmen and god knows who else,
he is not a good candidate to be your husband.
(02:38):
He's forty seven years old, still out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
If he's doing it.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Now, what do you think this so called playa is
going to do if you were to marry him? More
of the same. When people show you who they are,
you've heard the saying, please believe them. Okay, I think
you're wasting your time with this guy. You also said
this is not the first incident, and after you confronted
him in the shower, he kicks you out. He said
(03:03):
you should leave because he didn't want you to ruin
his weekend, never addressing you know the fact that Carmen
is listed as his bay and he still sees her.
I think he's still hanging out with Carmen. You said
he was, And what do you think they're doing when
they're hanging out. We say on this show all the time,
especially Steve, men and women can't be friends. So I
(03:25):
think you have a decision to make because you really
don't want to waste two more years with him, and
miss Carmen, do you? So let this go, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Let me start at the bottom of the letter. Alexa
called my bay. I'm not going to let this slide.
Why is she my bay? Should I leave him alone
and let Carmen have him? Well, you don't have to
leave him alone to do that. Carmen already got it,
(03:55):
and you do too. This is a letter of believe.
You don't want to believe what you heard. That's all
this is. You just don't want to believe what you heard.
You're dating a forty seven year old player. You ain't
hear that. You ain't here that you wrote it. I'm
(04:18):
dating a forty seven year old player. You don't want
to believe what you heard. You don't want to believe
what you read. We've been together almost two years and
I told him marriage was the goal for me when
we started dating, and he said.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
He wanted to be married too.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, but he did not tell you he wanted to
be married to you.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You didn't hear that. You ain't believe that when you
heard it.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He said he wanted to be married too, He didn't
say to who?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And he didn't say to you.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
He is not one time told you he wanted to
marry you. He said his goal is to be married.
He just did not say to you. I was at
his house over the weekend and we listened to music
through his phone and his phone right, he usually won't
have his phone connected to Bluetooth?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Who do that? Who do that? Lord?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Do that?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Who do that?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Because we had a mishap before. We had a mishap.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Before, and he's still One of his coworkers calling Bluetooth
announced her It was a lady named Carmen. I eventually
found out he and Cormen had sex before we started dating.
He still hang out with Carmen even though he know
I don't like it. What wait a minute, what part
of this you don't believe? You just said you found
out that him and Carmen had sex before y'all started dating.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
He still hanging out with Coming even though he know
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
You didn't like having sex with Comming, but he did
one more time. You didn't like having sex with Coming,
he did. He still hang out with her even though
he know I don't like it. You ain't supposed to
like it, he do. But you didn't hear that. You don't.
(06:16):
You don't want to believe nothing you hear. Back to
the most recent incident, were watching the movie and Alexa
announced that he had a call from my babe. He
calls his niece babe, and she calls him a lot
to ask for money. My tuition kicked in. I wanted
to be sure it was his niece. He took a
shower and his phone was still connected to the blue tooth.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
What hang on, Steve?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Right there?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Lord?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Who do that? Well?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
That Part two of your response coming up at twenty
three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject Alexa
call my bay. We'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
At the Salvation Army gives beyond situation and season. While
lights are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, You can be
the difference for a family in need right in your
local community. Your donation puts presents under the tree today
and food on the table all year long, warm hearts
(07:18):
and homes beyond the Christmas season. By donating twenty five
dollars a month at Salvation ARMYUSA dot org, help a
neighbor in need, through the holidays and beyond.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
All Right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject Alexa, call my bay.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
This woman doesn't want to believe nothing. She here.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
She's dating a forty seven year old player. You told
him you wanted marriage as to go when y'all started dating.
He said he wanted to be married too. You say
he's a forty seven year old player. You didn't hear that.
He said he wanted to be married too, but he
didn't say to you. You didn't hear that. You was
at his house listening to music through the phone, his
phone ring. He usually don't have his phone connected to
(08:01):
bluetooth because we had a mishap before. Once you have
one mishap with me, you ain't finna have this one again.
So now whenever you come over my phone, ain't finna
be on connected on nothing. One of his coworkers call
his bluetooth announcing lady ain't calming. I eventually found out
that he in come and had sex before we started dating.
He still hangs out with Calming, even though he know
(08:25):
I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
He still hang out with Comming.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
What do you think him in calm and is doing
when they hanging out, right, they had.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Sex together before you started dating.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Now you're dating that he still hang out with her
and he know I don't like it, but he do though,
But he dude, though he know I don't like him
having sex with Come. You ain't got to like the
sex with Come. He likes the sex wi Come. He
not giving calming up. Back to the most recent and
(09:05):
we're watching the movie and the let's announced that he
had a call from my babe.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
He calls his niece bathe and she calls him a
lot to ask for money.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
But my tuition kicked My intuition kicked in, and I
wanted to be sure it was his niece. He took
a shower and his phone was still connected to the bluetooth. Lord,
have messa Jesus what you just said in the latter
we had a mishap before, now again you had a mishap,
and now a third time.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
He don't give a damn bout you at all.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Because there's no way he should be in that shower
and that phone not dunc take to his thigh.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
It's no way to his thigh.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Why he taking the shower on solid and airplane mode,
make sure I would to the I would took a
shower his phone. I went to the front of the
house and said, Alexa called my babe. I got Calmon's voicemail.
I confronted him in the shower, and he calmly told me, hey, baby,
(10:10):
you dead wrong for what you did, and you know what.
I want you to leave because now I'm not about
you not about to ruin my weekend with all this out.
I ain't got to have you over here doing this
here because Carmen can come over here and ain't she
ain't no trump. I left, and days later he has
still not addressed who Calming is. To him, calm it
(10:31):
is my babe. What you don't see, we see it.
He still has not addressed who Calmed is. Carming is
my bab that I had sex withfore I started dating
with you that you didn't like, but I do, and
so I'm still hanging out with her.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
And what you think we hanging out doing?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
He jokingly tells me that I'm crazy, but he still
loved me.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
He joking. Listen to me.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
He chokingly tells you you crazy, but he still loved me.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
How does that sound?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Girl? You graat I love you. He's so great. I
love you. You know.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Coming come go talking about comed BB you know I
love you. That's what he did. Yeah, he keeps asking
me to come over and said he can't sleep without you.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Listen to what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
He keeps asking me to come over and say he
can't sleep without you. He keep asking you to come
over because he can't sleep without you. Well comminate that.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
He's baby.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
That he had sex week before y'all start dating, and
then you found out that you don't like it, but
he still hang out with her because he like her sex.
Here's the next line. Why is she my bab because
she has sex with him and no drama? Should I
leave him alone and let Carmen have him? You ain't
(12:09):
got to leave him to do that. Carmen already got him.
You don't have to leave him and let Carmen have him.
Carmen has him. Which part of this letter did you
not believe lady?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
All of it? Because I believed it all. So now
let's have him.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Let's no matter what happens, no matter what Alexa say,
watch me fix it. Go ahead, Shirley, call her say
something that that y'all Alexa phone ring. I'm sitting here
with this girl and I'm my Alexa Ring and you
know it's a woman.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
But I've watched me talk out it. Go ahead?
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Maybe who is that?
Speaker 1 (12:45):
I heard a female voice?
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Who is that? Oh? There wasn't no female.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I clearly heard a woman.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
No, No, that's my nephew. You know.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Your nephew would be a man or Hey, so.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Our baby, we accept him. You don't have to accept him?
What are you flipped that? What it is next? Alexa? Quick?
Who is ben Babe? Yeah? You read the letter. Bae
(13:22):
is my niece? Why is your niece? Why do you
call your niece bank?
Speaker 3 (13:28):
I'm listening because her real name is.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
That.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Please leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
and at Steve PRBFM dot com, and check out the
Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Please you're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter Pop Pop live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now, and
you never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
It could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
This one right here might be Youles, buckle up and
hold on tight.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
We got it for you.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Drop every letter thanking a few subject Alexa call my
bay do. Stephen Shirley, I'm dating a forty seven year
old player. We've been together for almost two years and
I told him marriage was the goal for me when
we started dating, and he said he wanted to be
married too. I was at his house over the weekend
(00:48):
and we were listening to music through his phone and
his phone rang. He usually won't have his phone connected
to bluetooth because we've had a mishap before when one
of his co workers called and his bluetooth announced her.
It was a lady named Carmen, and I eventually found
out that he and Carmen had sex before we started dating.
He still hangs out with Carmen, even though he knows
(01:11):
I don't like it. Back to the most recent incident,
we were watching a movie and Alexa announced that he
had a call from quote my Bay. He calls his
niece Bay and she calls him a lot to ask
for money. But my intuition kicked in and I wanted
to be sure it was his niece. He took a
(01:31):
shower and his phone was still connected to the bluetooth.
I went to the front of the house and said, Alexa,
call my Bay. I got Carmen's voicemail. I confronted him
in the shower, and he calmly told me I was
dead wrong for what I did and I should leave
because I was not about to ruin his weekend. I left,
(01:52):
and days later he still has not addressed who Carmen
is to him. He jokingly tells me that I'm crazy,
but he still loves me. He keeps asking me to
come over and said he can't sleep without me. I'm
not going to let this slide. Why is she my Bay?
Should I leave him alone and let Carmen have him? Wow?
(02:18):
All right, come on, Sis, You're not anything special necessarily
to this man, because you said yourself, he's a player.
It's nothing wrong with you wanting to get married and
letting him know how you feel about that. But because
of his track record with Carmen and god knows who else,
he is not a good candidate to be your husband.
(02:38):
He's forty seven years old, still out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
If he's doing it.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Now, what do you think this so called playa is
going to do if you were to marry him? More
of the same. When people show you who they are,
you've heard the saying, please believe them. Okay, I think
you're wasting your time with this guy. You also said
this is not the first incident, and after you confronted
him in the shower, he kicks you out. He said
(03:03):
you should leave because he didn't want you to ruin
his weekend, never addressing you know the fact that Carmen
is listed as his bay and he still sees her.
I think he's still hanging out with Carmen. You said
he was, And what do you think they're doing when
they're hanging out. We say on this show all the time,
especially Steve, men and women can't be friends. So I
(03:25):
think you have a decision to make because you really
don't want to waste two more years with him, and
miss Carmen, do you? So let this go, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Let me start at the bottom of the letter. Alexa
called my bay. I'm not going to let this slide.
Why is she my bay? Should I leave him alone
and let Carmen have him? Well, you don't have to
leave him alone to do that. Carmen already got it,
(03:55):
and you do too. This is a letter of believe.
You don't want to believe what you heard. That's all
this is. You just don't want to believe what you heard.
You're dating a forty seven year old player. You ain't
hear that. You ain't here that you wrote it. I'm
(04:18):
dating a forty seven year old player. You don't want
to believe what you heard. You don't want to believe
what you read. We've been together almost two years and
I told him marriage was the goal for me when
we started dating, and he said.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
He wanted to be married too.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, but he did not tell you he wanted to
be married to you.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
You didn't hear that. You ain't believe that when you
heard it.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
He said he wanted to be married too, He didn't
say to who?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And he didn't say to you.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
He is not one time told you he wanted to
marry you. He said his goal is to be married.
He just did not say to you. I was at
his house over the weekend and we listened to music
through his phone and his phone right, he usually won't
have his phone connected to Bluetooth?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Who do that? Who do that? Lord?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
Do that?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Who do that?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Because we had a mishap before. We had a mishap.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Before, and he's still One of his coworkers calling Bluetooth
announced her It was a lady named Carmen. I eventually
found out he and Cormen had sex before we started dating.
He still hang out with Carmen even though he know
I don't like it. What wait a minute, what part
of this you don't believe? You just said you found
out that him and Carmen had sex before y'all started dating.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
He still hanging out with Coming even though he know
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
You didn't like having sex with Comming, but he did
one more time. You didn't like having sex with Coming,
he did. He still hang out with her even though
he know I don't like it. You ain't supposed to
like it, he do. But you didn't hear that. You don't.
(06:16):
You don't want to believe nothing you hear. Back to
the most recent incident, were watching the movie and Alexa
announced that he had a call from my babe. He
calls his niece babe, and she calls him a lot
to ask for money. My tuition kicked in. I wanted
to be sure it was his niece. He took a
shower and his phone was still connected to the blue tooth.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
What hang on, Steve?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Right there?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Lord?
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Who do that? Well?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
That Part two of your response coming up at twenty
three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject Alexa
call my bay. We'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
At the Salvation Army gives beyond situation and season. While
lights are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, You can be
the difference for a family in need right in your
local community. Your donation puts presents under the tree today
and food on the table all year long, warm hearts
(07:18):
and homes beyond the Christmas season. By donating twenty five
dollars a month at Salvation ARMYUSA dot org, help a
neighbor in need, through the holidays and beyond.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
All Right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject Alexa, call my bay.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
This woman doesn't want to believe nothing. She here.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
She's dating a forty seven year old player. You told
him you wanted marriage as to go when y'all started dating.
He said he wanted to be married too. You say
he's a forty seven year old player. You didn't hear that.
He said he wanted to be married too, but he
didn't say to you. You didn't hear that. You was
at his house listening to music through the phone, his
phone ring. He usually don't have his phone connected to
(08:01):
bluetooth because we had a mishap before. Once you have
one mishap with me, you ain't finna have this one again.
So now whenever you come over my phone, ain't finna
be on connected on nothing. One of his coworkers call
his bluetooth announcing lady ain't calming. I eventually found out
that he in come and had sex before we started dating.
He still hangs out with Calming, even though he know
(08:25):
I don't like it.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
He still hang out with Comming.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
What do you think him in calm and is doing
when they hanging out, right, they had.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Sex together before you started dating.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Now you're dating that he still hang out with her
and he know I don't like it, but he do though,
But he dude, though he know I don't like him
having sex with Come. You ain't got to like the
sex with Come. He likes the sex wi Come. He
not giving calming up. Back to the most recent and
(09:05):
we're watching the movie and the let's announced that he
had a call from my babe.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
He calls his niece bathe and she calls him a
lot to ask for money.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
But my tuition kicked My intuition kicked in, and I
wanted to be sure it was his niece. He took
a shower and his phone was still connected to the bluetooth. Lord,
have messa Jesus what you just said in the latter
we had a mishap before, now again you had a mishap,
and now a third time.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
He don't give a damn bout you at all.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Because there's no way he should be in that shower
and that phone not dunc take to his thigh.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
It's no way to his thigh.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Why he taking the shower on solid and airplane mode,
make sure I would to the I would took a
shower his phone. I went to the front of the
house and said, Alexa called my babe. I got Calmon's voicemail.
I confronted him in the shower, and he calmly told me, hey, baby,
(10:10):
you dead wrong for what you did, and you know what.
I want you to leave because now I'm not about
you not about to ruin my weekend with all this out.
I ain't got to have you over here doing this
here because Carmen can come over here and ain't she
ain't no trump. I left, and days later he has
still not addressed who Calming is. To him, calm it
(10:31):
is my babe. What you don't see, we see it.
He still has not addressed who Calmed is. Carming is
my bab that I had sex withfore I started dating
with you that you didn't like, but I do, and
so I'm still hanging out with her.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
And what you think we hanging out doing?
Speaker 3 (10:55):
He jokingly tells me that I'm crazy, but he still
loved me.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
He joking. Listen to me.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
He chokingly tells you you crazy, but he still loved me.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
How does that sound?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Girl? You graat I love you. He's so great. I
love you. You know.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
Coming come go talking about comed BB you know I
love you. That's what he did. Yeah, he keeps asking
me to come over and said he can't sleep without you.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Listen to what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
He keeps asking me to come over and say he
can't sleep without you. He keep asking you to come
over because he can't sleep without you. Well comminate that.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
He's baby.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
That he had sex week before y'all start dating, and
then you found out that you don't like it, but
he still hang out with her because he like her sex.
Here's the next line. Why is she my bab because
she has sex with him and no drama? Should I
leave him alone and let Carmen have him? You ain't
(12:09):
got to leave him to do that. Carmen already got him.
You don't have to leave him and let Carmen have him.
Carmen has him. Which part of this letter did you
not believe lady?
Speaker 2 (12:22):
All of it? Because I believed it all. So now
let's have him.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
Let's no matter what happens, no matter what Alexa say,
watch me fix it. Go ahead, Shirley, call her say
something that that y'all Alexa phone ring. I'm sitting here
with this girl and I'm my Alexa Ring and you
know it's a woman.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
But I've watched me talk out it. Go ahead?
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Maybe who is that?
Speaker 1 (12:45):
I heard a female voice?
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Who is that? Oh? There wasn't no female.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
I clearly heard a woman.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
No, No, that's my nephew. You know.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Your nephew would be a man or Hey, so.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Our baby, we accept him. You don't have to accept him?
What are you flipped that? What it is next? Alexa? Quick?
Who is ben Babe? Yeah? You read the letter. Bae
(13:22):
is my niece? Why is your niece? Why do you
call your niece bank?
Speaker 3 (13:28):
I'm listening because her real name is.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
That.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Please leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram
and at Steve PRBFM dot com, and check out the
Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Please you're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Monster: BTK
'Monster: BTK', the newest installment in the 'Monster' franchise, reveals the true story of the Wichita, Kansas serial killer who murdered at least 10 people between 1974 and 1991. Known by the moniker, BTK – Bind Torture Kill, his notoriety was bolstered by the taunting letters he sent to police, and the chilling phone calls he made to media outlets. BTK's identity was finally revealed in 2005 to the shock of his family, his community, and the world. He was the serial killer next door. From Tenderfoot TV & iHeartPodcasts, this is 'Monster: BTK'.
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