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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:26):
Let us Thank you nephew. Subject Can I trust them
alone together? Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for two
years and we just bought a house. We had a
housewarming party in December, and my oldest and dearest girlfriend
stayed with us for two days. After most of our
guests left, we decided to play a game of never

(00:48):
Have I Ever. One of my husband's friends from college
asked if anyone had ever kissed their best friend. My
best friend and I took a drink, which means we
had kissed before. My husband was so intrigued that he
asked us to kiss again, and everybody started cheering us
on mind you. I was tipsy, so I straddled my

(01:11):
best friend and gave her a big kiss with tongue.
It was all fun and games until all of our
guests were gone, and my husband kept begging us to
kiss one more time. He could tell I was getting mad,
so he stopped and he got into bed. I went
to take a shower, and when I got out, he

(01:31):
was not in the bed. He was in the kitchen
with my best friend. I made him get back in
the bed. He said it was hard to sleep after
what he saw earlier, and then he had the nerve
to ask me if I'd ever done a threesome with
my best friend. He had never ever mentioned a threesome
to me, so I was furious with him. Next day,

(01:54):
when I was taking my best friend to the airport,
I told her what my husband asked me. Her response
threw me off. She said that he's trying to spice
things up and it might be fun. I started cursing
her out, but she swore she was joking. She's supposed
to come back to stay with us next month for
her birthday, but I don't know if I could trust

(02:15):
them together. My husband said he does not want her.
Our friendship will end if I don't let her stay
with us. What should I do? Okay, you're the one
that threw everybody off, okay with your drunk self. You're
giving mixed messages this one minute, you're kissing a girl
and liking it. The next minute you're all holier than

(02:38):
thou about it. And you know the answer. If you
have to ask if they can be trusted, you already
know then in your mind right now, they can't. So
you're gonna have to go with that. She's either going
to have to stay in a nice hotel if she
comes to see you, or you have to go there
and hang out with her for her birthday. In other words,
she can't come to your house right now until you, guys,

(02:59):
get this all straightened out. If you ever do, why
play with fire and invite temptation back into your house.
But then you have to realize something. You're the only
one mad, You're the only one cussing your best friend out.
When are you going to take the blame for this?
You started this? I mean, how drunk were you supposed
to be? You said you were tipsy, but you got

(03:22):
on your girl and straddled her and tongue kissed her.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
You did that?

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Okay, what did you expect?

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Was going to happen.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
Did you not think your husband or anyone would get
turned on and want more? The way you were performing
you you were with it and your husband just went
with it too. And please do not blame this on
the alcohol.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
You knew what you were doing.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
Steve, Well, right there, one of my least favorite subjects.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
Here I go, did Steven should?

Speaker 3 (03:55):
I've been married two years and we just bought a
house and we had a house woman party in December,
and my he hear the key to this. My oldest
and dearest girlfriend stayed with us for two days, and
after most of our guests left, we decided to play
a game of never have I ever? Right there, let's stop.

(04:19):
There's an age limit to these types of games.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Listen to me.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
If you are married, don't play No Hearts truth or Dawn,
don't don't spend the bottle, none of this now. If
you married and you trying to stay married, stay away
from these type of damn games. One of my husband's
friends from college, see y'all too old for this. One

(04:51):
of my husband's friends from college ask if anyone had
ever kissed their best friend.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Naw, I don't know. See me right here.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
If I'm a woman and my husband's friend from college.
Question is have you ever kissed your best friend? Now
I'm looking upside their head. Now he always see this
letter about something else right now, because I ain't never,
because you know, unless he was just if he just
said ladies, ladies and said woman in here that has

(05:27):
ever kissed their best friend? But no, he just too
other question, has anybody in here ever kissed their best friend?

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Now?

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Y'all two dudes are best friends too, So now that's
all that's where my mind at. I'm just saying that
would have been a big question mark for me. My
best friend and I took a drink, which means we
had kissed before. My husband was so increaged that he
asked us to kiss again, and everybody started cheering us own.
Now mind you, I was tipsy, so I straddled my

(05:58):
best friend. See this ain't the first time either, because
you knew how you did it then, and that alcohol
made you remember. I straddled my best friend and gave
her a big kiss with tongue. It was all fun
and games until our guess were gone and your husband
kept begging us to kiss one more time.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
Come on, don't do that. We'll do that one.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
Everybody else part of it with He could tell I
was getting mad, so he stopped and got in bed.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
What you mad for?

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Hang on? Hang on, Steve, Okay, I'll hear you mad
about well. Have part two of your response coming up
on today's Strawberry Letter at twenty three minutes after. The
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All right, come on, see let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is can I trust them alone together?

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Can you trust them alone together?

Speaker 3 (07:30):
Y'all had a y'all, y'all out of college, you married,
y'all had a housewoman party y'all have bought this new house.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Y'all over at the house, drinking that.

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Somebody's stupid idea was to play a game of never
have I ever?

Speaker 2 (07:44):
And then one of your husband's friends.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
From college, some guy asked if anybody had ever kiss
their best friend, which I would be looking upside my
husband's best friend head, and my husband goes, well, where
has come from?

Speaker 2 (07:58):
Buddy, y'all ain't see that.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
My best friend and I took a drink, which means
we had kissed before. My husband was so intrigued he
asked us to kiss agains we kiss again. I straddled
her and I gave her a big kiss with tongue.
It was all funny games. Everybody went home, and their
husband kept begging y'all to do it again until you
got mad? Now what you mad for? And Shirley said

(08:23):
it best in her response, You're the only one mad
in this letter, and you mad continuously. So he stopped
and got in bed. I went to take a shower.
When I got out, he wasn't in bed. I know
get there, well, he ain't downstands I know good in hell, well,
he ain't invent over there. I ain't gonna go to bed.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
You're in the shop.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
Let me go down in here and holler at her.
He was in the kitchen with my best friend. I
made him go get back into bed. He said, I'm
hard to sleep after what he saw earlier. And he
had the nerve to ask me if I had ever
done a threesome with my best friend. Why not such
a I fetch question. He had never mentioned a threesome

(09:03):
to me, so I was furious with him. Here you
are mad again. No he didn't mention it. But he
also had never seen you straddle somebody in.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Tongue kiss him.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
So this is a this is a this is a
night full of revelations.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
He just sitting there. The hellam I'm married too? You
mean to tell me?

Speaker 3 (09:27):
Next day, I was taking my best friend into the airport.
I told her what my husband asked me. Her response
threw me off. She said he's just trying to spice
things up and it might be fun. I started cursing
her out, but she swore she was just joking. She's
supposed to come back to stay with us next month
for her birthday.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Your husband cannot wait for her birthday. She gonna come
back and stay with y'all. That's marked on the calendar.
But I don't know if I can trust them together.
My husband says he does not want her. That's not true.
That's why he was downstairs in the kitchen when you

(10:08):
went in there to take a shower. Our friendship will
end if I don't let her stay with us.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
What should I do? Well, y'all got.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
A interest in friendship. But let me just say this,
Bishop Bonner. I saw him online one time. Bronner, Bishop
Bronner out of Atlanta. Great, great minister. He said, be
careful of people who play victim in circumstances that they created.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
All y'all had to do, all y'all had to do
is never play this game. All you had to do
is never have straddled your girlfriend in turn.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
See all this had to yo And now your husband
he'll he can't sleep, Ain't no where the hell I
can sleep?

Speaker 2 (11:05):
After what I here? Man?

Speaker 3 (11:09):
What's who I live with? What's happening here? They both
they still here? What What is we doing? If you
ever had a threesome?

Speaker 2 (11:16):
I'm mad? What he don't give you?

Speaker 1 (11:18):
That?

Speaker 2 (11:18):
I made him go back to bed. He well, he
wasn't sleeping.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
This is when you lay on your pillow on your
back with your hands folded, staring at the ceiling, and.

Speaker 2 (11:30):
Your legs is crossed.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
That's where you your hands are folded behind your head. Yeah,
so you know, look, lady, you created this whole situation
with this little stupid game. And let this be a
message to everybody that's married out there. Don't play the
games you played in college. Once you out of college,

(11:54):
it might seem like fun, but it's not gonna gold
that way because you got two it your stake.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
Y'all have bought a house now, it was a house warming.
They warmed it up. It was a house hot all
him out.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
You just strouded your girlfriend tongue kissing her, your husband, girls,
and the cold thing about me it is you kissing
another girl.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
Theydn't really bother him, that dude.

Speaker 3 (12:23):
He'd turned that whole house out, But you kissing another girl.
He's not looking at it like that. He thinking of possibilities.
That's that's what he's looking at.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
And he has the whole damn ain't nobody said that.
I've been living this whole damn time. I couldn't y'all
do it again? Yeah, that's how I got to that.
We ain't doing it no more. Right, So, let me

(12:58):
ask you a question. This game right here? Uh what's
it called? Never have I ever?

Speaker 3 (13:01):
Is that you play it with cards or something liquor?

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Ok So if you if they ask the question and
you've done it, you take a drink.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
Done it, you take the said.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
I don't know why I see right here, Old listen,
I keep telling y'all how important line is. Okay, it really,
y'all the importance of lining.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
Y'all just don't believe me? All right?

Speaker 1 (13:31):
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