October 4, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband falls asleep on the couch all the time while he's scrolling through his phone. The other night, I thought the TV was up too loud, so I went to tell him to turn it down a little bit. He was knocked out with his phone on his chest and he had his AirPods in. I took them out, and when I did, I could hear a video on his phone and there was music playing and a woman in the background. I started watching the video because a woman was bare chested. She'd bent over and kissed a man and told him to take a selfie with her.................................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
And if you're in need of advice, if you want
advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit
your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARBFM dot com and click submit
Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on
the air, just like we're gonna read this one right here,
right now, and you never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
It could be yours.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Lad, It's time for the Strawberry Litter.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
My good friend, Shirley Strawberry, Thank.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
You, my good friend Junior.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Subject he fell asleep with the video on Dear Stephen, Shirley.
My husband falls asleep on the couch all the time
while he's scrolling through his phone. The other night, I
thought the TV was up too loud, so I went
to tell him to turn it down a little bit.
He was knocked out with his phone on his chest
and he had his AirPods in. I took them out,
(00:52):
and when I did, I could hear a video on
his phone and there was music playing and a woman
in the background. I started watching the video because a
woman was bare chested. She'd bent over and kissed a
man and told him to take a selfie with her.
My husband turned around on the video and kissed the
woman dead in the mouth.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
She laughed and.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Said it was a video, not a picture. He said, oh,
heck nah, and told her to delete the video. I
guess she thought she deleted it, but she didn't, and
I could see my husband put his shirt on and
fasten her bra for her. I went through his text
after that, and he asked if she deleted the video,
(01:36):
and she said she didn't because it was special. She
told him she was going to send the video to him.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
And she did.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
His next text was, look at my baby. I sent
the video to my phone before I deleted it off
his phone. I texted the lady back from his phone
to let her know that I saw it and I
would appreciate it if she didn't see my husband anymore.
My husband admitted that he went over to her house
and intended to have sex, but couldn't go through with it,
(02:05):
and that's why he only had his shirt off. He
said it was lust that got the best of him
and he came to his senses and left. He said
it will never happen again. Stephen Shirley, what am I
supposed to do with this confession. Should I get the
woman's side of the story, Well, clearly you don't need it.
What are you supposed to do with his confession, you asked, Well,
(02:28):
first of all, it wasn't a confession.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
That was not a confession.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
It was a cover up, and it was a ball
faced lie and a bad lie at that LUs got
the best of him and he couldn't go through with it,
so he put his clothes on it. What he couldn't
go through with it?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Okay, that was ridiculous. You need the woman's side of
the story. No, you do not.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
You asked that you don't need it. You saw what
you saw, You heard what you heard on his phone?
All right, of course your husband admitted he was over.
There was caught on video. What part of look at
my baby? Look at my baby? What part of that
sign not in a relationship with her? That's right, you said.
(03:11):
He fastened her bra he put his shirt on. That's
what people do when they're done having sex. They they
button up their clothes, put their clothes on, you know,
fasten their bras.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
All that.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
They fastened bras and put shirts on. That's what they
do when they're done. Again, you do not need the
woman's side of the story, your husband's lives and the video.
That's all the evidence you need. That's more than enough
to know what really went down.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Steve god D Right, boy, My response is not for
the dude in the letter. My message would be for
the men who are hearing this, for those who have
not yet fail victim to this type of idiocy, ignorance.
(04:02):
Low level boy. You know, I didn't know where this
was going. My husband falls asleep on the couch all
the time. I do that a lot myself. He was
scrolling through his phone. I do that sometime, you know.
The other night, I thought the TV was up, so
I told him one in there to tell him turn
it down a little bit. He was knocked out, dead
(04:23):
sleep with his phone on his chest and he had
his air pots in. I took him out, he took
she took the air pods out. I'm telling y'all, man,
y'all have got to start using stuff with chords on it.
You can't this bluetooth technology. I can hear a video
(04:44):
on his phone and that was music playing and a
woman in the background. I can't help this. Let me
just say this, Let me stop right now. I'm not
gonna be a help this man in this letter. This
help that I'm gonna provide us for the men who
have not yet fallen prey to stuff. I started watching
in the video because the woman was bad chested. God, okay,
(05:04):
no problem. She bent over and kissed. Yeah, this wasn't
a problem right now. I thought he was on a
porn site, you know, one nine hundred collars, you know,
something like that. But she bent over and kissed the
man and told him to take herself with her. My
husband turned around on the video and kissed the woman
(05:26):
dead in the mouth. God, dog, dog, this Wesson. Now, dog,
listen to me. There is no help for you and
a dog that ain't no lie you can tell to
get rid of eyewitness encounters. I can only help you
if you are not if you don't have eyewitness encounters,
(05:47):
I can get out of anything. If there's no eyewitness encounter.
You kissed her dead in the mouth. She laughed and
said it was a video, not a picture. He said,
oh hell no, and told her to delete the vidar.
Now you own Now you on camera, trying to get
rid of evidence that should have never been evidenced anyway.
(06:08):
I guess she thought she deleted it, but she didn't.
And I could see my husband put his shirt on
and fasten her braw for her. Bro all these years,
I've never put a brawl.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
On a person.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Well, he could teach you.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
He got to be young, because we'll that ain't what
we do. I'll get you out of it. I put
it back on you though.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
All right, hang hang on.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
That is a disaster.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, it is part two of.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Your response coming out at twenty three minutes after the subject.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Yeah, today's gallery letter, he fell asleep with the video on.
We'll get back to it right after this. You're listening.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Morning show.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
First subject, he fell asleep with the video on.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
This is the most incriminating letter we've ever had.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
On this all time.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
It's just incriminating.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I can't you know any other time I can help
a brother out, but this you on video committing a crime.
Then you're on the video trying to get rid of
the evidence of the crime, and you talking, and is
your face you on the video with this woman that
your wife picks up off your chest. You fell asleep
(07:30):
on the couch, had the phone on your chest ear posy.
Your wife always going there and had to wake you up.
She going there and take your earbup buds out, and
she could hear video playing with music in the background.
Turns out it was a woman talking. She picks up
the phone. She looks at it because the woman is
bad chested. In the video, the woman leans over and
kisses a man and tells how to take a picture
(07:51):
with him. You turn around the video and it's her husband,
the one that sleep on the couch, Tom kissing this
woman dead in the mouth. God talk and he ain't
got his shirt on and she topless. She thought it
was a picture. He said, oh hell no, erase it.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
She didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
He puts his shirt on on video and help her
put her bra on on video. Brother, this is this over,
it's nothing. I can I nothing so now, And she did.
I could see my husband put his shirt on, okay.
He asked her if she deleted the video, and she
(08:33):
said she didn't because it was special. She told him
she was gonna send him the video and she did.
His next text was, look at my baby, man, you
just steal your ass is down in the hole, just
putting dirty in on yourself.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Now you just stupid. Now, dog, what happened to delete? Soon?
As you see stuff?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What that at?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
What?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Ass at?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
His next text was looking my baby? Then this woman
sent the whole video to her phone before she deleted
it off of his phone. I text the lady back
from his phone to let her know that I saw
it and I would appreciate it if she didn't see
my husband anymore. My husband, huh good, This letter just
(09:22):
took so many bad turns. My husband admitted that he
went over to her. God damn, now, this is something
I can't I just can't bring myself to this.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I just can't do that. I know it. I know it.
I know it. I know it.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I know I swear to God, I know it. I
know he on video kissing this woman with no shirt on.
I know she topless in the video. I know he
looked in the video, looked at it and said that's
my baby. I know he in the video putting his
shirt on and helping her put her bral. I know
his wife looking at this video I'm looking at I
(10:05):
know it. But then all of this got busted. She
saw the video put it on her phone. The wife did,
and then you called the woman and said I appreciate
it if you don't see.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
My husband no more. And then, yo, just the blind in.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
My husband admitted that he went over to her house
and intended to have sex. That's what I just can't
bring myself to admit this. It's nothing in me that
can help me do it. And so now listen to
(10:43):
what he did though did he tried?
Speaker 3 (10:45):
But he young? My husband admitted he went over to.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Her house intended to have sex, but he couldn't go
through through with it, and that's why he only had
his shirt off. He said it was just lust that
got the best of him, and he came to his
senses and left. He said, it will never happen again.
Step and Shirley, What am I supposed to do with
(11:09):
this confession? Should I get the woman's side of the story. Well,
let me go on and just throw the rest of
the dirt on this boy, because you ain't getting out
this grave, homie. This is a burial. We are at
a funeral. This letter, this is obituary. We didn't read
the Strawberry letter. This was obituary. This is the end
(11:31):
of something. Unless your wife is just stupid. Now, your
wife did call her and say, hey, look, leave my
husband alone. Here's the problem with this letter. You went
over to her house with the intent to have sex.
I would have never admitted that. Look I'm over there,
that's me on the video. I don't know how I
(11:51):
got in that house. I was at a club. Somebody
slipped something in my drink. I woke up and I
was just naked. We're gonna do something, but I'm not
fin to tell you that I went over there in
my intent was to have sex. I'm not finna go
over there and tell me that. Here's the problem with
making this a one time event. You said, look at
(12:12):
my baby. Now, I've been on tour in my life.
I've had some one nice dance. I've never woke up
or rolled over and said, wow, look at my baby.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
I don't even know you. How I'm calling you. I
just met you.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
And if I just met you, why is I'm helping
you put your brong? I don't even know you like that?
He said, it will never happen again. It'll never be
on video again. That's the damn all I have to
say to anybody that heard this letter, Why.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Did you not delete this damn video?
Speaker 4 (12:46):
Immediately take her phone from her, go to the photo section.
Delete it off that and go down to videos and
delete it. You y'all have got to start using delete.
This would have never happened had you deleted.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
It, all right, Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter
on Instagram and Facebook at Steve Harvey FM, and check
out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Coming up next to this Junior and sports Talk. Right
after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
And if you're in need of advice, if you want
advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit
your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARBFM dot com and click submit
Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on
the air, just like we're gonna read this one right here,
right now, and you never know, it could be yours.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
It could be yours.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Lad, It's time for the Strawberry Litter.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
My good friend, Shirley Strawberry, Thank.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
You, my good friend Junior.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Subject he fell asleep with the video on Dear Stephen, Shirley.
My husband falls asleep on the couch all the time
while he's scrolling through his phone. The other night, I
thought the TV was up too loud, so I went
to tell him to turn it down a little bit.
He was knocked out with his phone on his chest
and he had his AirPods in. I took them out,
(00:52):
and when I did, I could hear a video on
his phone and there was music playing and a woman
in the background. I started watching the video because a
woman was bare chested. She'd bent over and kissed a
man and told him to take a selfie with her.
My husband turned around on the video and kissed the
woman dead in the mouth.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
She laughed and.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Said it was a video, not a picture. He said, oh,
heck nah, and told her to delete the video. I
guess she thought she deleted it, but she didn't, and
I could see my husband put his shirt on and
fasten her bra for her. I went through his text
after that, and he asked if she deleted the video,
(01:36):
and she said she didn't because it was special. She
told him she was going to send the video to him.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
And she did.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
His next text was, look at my baby. I sent
the video to my phone before I deleted it off
his phone. I texted the lady back from his phone
to let her know that I saw it and I
would appreciate it if she didn't see my husband anymore.
My husband admitted that he went over to her house
and intended to have sex, but couldn't go through with it,
(02:05):
and that's why he only had his shirt off. He
said it was lust that got the best of him
and he came to his senses and left. He said
it will never happen again. Stephen Shirley, what am I
supposed to do with this confession. Should I get the
woman's side of the story, Well, clearly you don't need it.
What are you supposed to do with his confession, you asked, Well,
(02:28):
first of all, it wasn't a confession.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
That was not a confession.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
It was a cover up, and it was a ball
faced lie and a bad lie at that LUs got
the best of him and he couldn't go through with it,
so he put his clothes on it. What he couldn't
go through with it?
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Okay, that was ridiculous. You need the woman's side of
the story. No, you do not.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
You asked that you don't need it. You saw what
you saw, You heard what you heard on his phone?
All right, of course your husband admitted he was over.
There was caught on video. What part of look at
my baby? Look at my baby? What part of that
sign not in a relationship with her? That's right, you said.
(03:11):
He fastened her bra he put his shirt on. That's
what people do when they're done having sex. They they
button up their clothes, put their clothes on, you know,
fasten their bras.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
All that.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
They fastened bras and put shirts on. That's what they
do when they're done. Again, you do not need the
woman's side of the story, your husband's lives and the video.
That's all the evidence you need. That's more than enough
to know what really went down.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Steve god D Right, boy, My response is not for
the dude in the letter. My message would be for
the men who are hearing this, for those who have
not yet fail victim to this type of idiocy, ignorance.
(04:02):
Low level boy. You know, I didn't know where this
was going. My husband falls asleep on the couch all
the time. I do that a lot myself. He was
scrolling through his phone. I do that sometime, you know.
The other night, I thought the TV was up, so
I told him one in there to tell him turn
it down a little bit. He was knocked out, dead
(04:23):
sleep with his phone on his chest and he had
his air pots in. I took him out, he took
she took the air pods out. I'm telling y'all, man,
y'all have got to start using stuff with chords on it.
You can't this bluetooth technology. I can hear a video
(04:44):
on his phone and that was music playing and a
woman in the background. I can't help this. Let me
just say this, Let me stop right now. I'm not
gonna be a help this man in this letter. This
help that I'm gonna provide us for the men who
have not yet fallen prey to stuff. I started watching
in the video because the woman was bad chested. God, okay,
(05:04):
no problem. She bent over and kissed. Yeah, this wasn't
a problem right now. I thought he was on a
porn site, you know, one nine hundred collars, you know,
something like that. But she bent over and kissed the
man and told him to take herself with her. My
husband turned around on the video and kissed the woman
(05:26):
dead in the mouth. God, dog, dog, this Wesson. Now, dog,
listen to me. There is no help for you and
a dog that ain't no lie you can tell to
get rid of eyewitness encounters. I can only help you
if you are not if you don't have eyewitness encounters,
(05:47):
I can get out of anything. If there's no eyewitness encounter.
You kissed her dead in the mouth. She laughed and
said it was a video, not a picture. He said,
oh hell no, and told her to delete the vidar.
Now you own Now you on camera, trying to get
rid of evidence that should have never been evidenced anyway.
(06:08):
I guess she thought she deleted it, but she didn't.
And I could see my husband put his shirt on
and fasten her braw for her. Bro all these years,
I've never put a brawl.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
On a person.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Well, he could teach you.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
He got to be young, because we'll that ain't what
we do. I'll get you out of it. I put
it back on you though.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
All right, hang hang on.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
That is a disaster.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, it is part two of.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Your response coming out at twenty three minutes after the subject.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Yeah, today's gallery letter, he fell asleep with the video on.
We'll get back to it right after this. You're listening.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Morning show.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
First subject, he fell asleep with the video on.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
This is the most incriminating letter we've ever had.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
On this all time.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
It's just incriminating.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
I can't you know any other time I can help
a brother out, but this you on video committing a crime.
Then you're on the video trying to get rid of
the evidence of the crime, and you talking, and is
your face you on the video with this woman that
your wife picks up off your chest. You fell asleep
(07:30):
on the couch, had the phone on your chest ear posy.
Your wife always going there and had to wake you up.
She going there and take your earbup buds out, and
she could hear video playing with music in the background.
Turns out it was a woman talking. She picks up
the phone. She looks at it because the woman is
bad chested. In the video, the woman leans over and
kisses a man and tells how to take a picture
(07:51):
with him. You turn around the video and it's her husband,
the one that sleep on the couch, Tom kissing this
woman dead in the mouth. God talk and he ain't
got his shirt on and she topless. She thought it
was a picture. He said, oh hell no, erase it.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
She didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
He puts his shirt on on video and help her
put her bra on on video. Brother, this is this over,
it's nothing. I can I nothing so now, And she did.
I could see my husband put his shirt on, okay.
He asked her if she deleted the video, and she
(08:33):
said she didn't because it was special. She told him
she was gonna send him the video and she did.
His next text was, look at my baby, man, you
just steal your ass is down in the hole, just
putting dirty in on yourself.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Now you just stupid. Now, dog, what happened to delete? Soon?
As you see stuff?
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What that at?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
What?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Ass at?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
His next text was looking my baby? Then this woman
sent the whole video to her phone before she deleted
it off of his phone. I text the lady back
from his phone to let her know that I saw
it and I would appreciate it if she didn't see
my husband anymore. My husband, huh good, This letter just
(09:22):
took so many bad turns. My husband admitted that he
went over to her. God damn, now, this is something
I can't I just can't bring myself to this.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
I just can't do that. I know it. I know it.
I know it. I know it.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
I know I swear to God, I know it. I
know he on video kissing this woman with no shirt on.
I know she topless in the video. I know he
looked in the video, looked at it and said that's
my baby. I know he in the video putting his
shirt on and helping her put her bral. I know
his wife looking at this video I'm looking at I
(10:05):
know it. But then all of this got busted. She
saw the video put it on her phone. The wife did,
and then you called the woman and said I appreciate
it if you don't see.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
My husband no more. And then, yo, just the blind in.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
My husband admitted that he went over to her house
and intended to have sex. That's what I just can't
bring myself to admit this. It's nothing in me that
can help me do it. And so now listen to
(10:43):
what he did though did he tried?
Speaker 3 (10:45):
But he young? My husband admitted he went over to.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Her house intended to have sex, but he couldn't go
through through with it, and that's why he only had
his shirt off. He said it was just lust that
got the best of him, and he came to his
senses and left. He said, it will never happen again.
Step and Shirley, What am I supposed to do with
(11:09):
this confession? Should I get the woman's side of the story. Well,
let me go on and just throw the rest of
the dirt on this boy, because you ain't getting out
this grave, homie. This is a burial. We are at
a funeral. This letter, this is obituary. We didn't read
the Strawberry letter. This was obituary. This is the end
(11:31):
of something. Unless your wife is just stupid. Now, your
wife did call her and say, hey, look, leave my
husband alone. Here's the problem with this letter. You went
over to her house with the intent to have sex.
I would have never admitted that. Look I'm over there,
that's me on the video. I don't know how I
(11:51):
got in that house. I was at a club. Somebody
slipped something in my drink. I woke up and I
was just naked. We're gonna do something, but I'm not
fin to tell you that I went over there in
my intent was to have sex. I'm not finna go
over there and tell me that. Here's the problem with
making this a one time event. You said, look at
(12:12):
my baby. Now, I've been on tour in my life.
I've had some one nice dance. I've never woke up
or rolled over and said, wow, look at my baby.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
I don't even know you. How I'm calling you. I
just met you.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
And if I just met you, why is I'm helping
you put your brong? I don't even know you like that?
He said, it will never happen again. It'll never be
on video again. That's the damn all I have to
say to anybody that heard this letter, Why.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
Did you not delete this damn video?
Speaker 4 (12:46):
Immediately take her phone from her, go to the photo section.
Delete it off that and go down to videos and
delete it. You y'all have got to start using delete.
This would have never happened had you deleted.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
It, all right, Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter
on Instagram and Facebook at Steve Harvey FM, and check
out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Coming up next to this Junior and sports Talk. Right
after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
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