July 26, 2022 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 41 year old white lady and I work in corporate America with a very good job. I go to work dressed like a million bucks every day because I had help buying my designer pieces. I always start at the top when I date and I’ve never dated a man that is beneath me. A man isn’t even beneath me when we are having sex. I’m always on top in everything I do. I have a son and he likes the best of everything too..................................
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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Subject He's fired and I'm under new management. Dear Stephen Shirley,
I'm a forty one year old white lady and I
work in corporate America with a very good job. I
go to work dressed like a million bucks every day
because I had I had helped buying my designer pieces.
(00:47):
I always start at the top one I date, and
I've never dated a man that is beneath me. A
man isn't even beneath me when we are having sex.
I'm always on top and everything I do. I have
a sub and he likes the best of everything. I
work hard to keep him in a lifestyle that I
didn't have growing up. At work, I'm an executive and
(01:10):
I report to the president of the company. I had
a private affair with the last president of my company,
and he slipped up and his wife found out about me.
She didn't let him know anything. She went straight to
the board members of our company, and he would let go.
I felt terrible about it, and he wanted to continue
the affair, but it would have put my job in jeopardy,
(01:32):
so I moved on and prayed that the gossip woulden league.
Nine months later, we have a new interim president and
he's black. I love a man in power, and he's
not all that handsome, but he can dress and he
carries himself as though he runs the world. I guess
that he hasn't heard the gossip because he has already
asked me to go to lunch with him to give
(01:54):
him an overview of the day to day operations. Could
it be that I'm at the executive level and he
wants to hear from a manager, or is it because
he's interested in me. The best part is that he
is single and he is the interim president, so legally
we can do anything we want. He said, he's picked
the perfect place for us to go where we can
(02:15):
talk without distractions and he can get to know me.
Does this sound like he's coming onto me? Or is
this a professional lunch? Okay? Really, you already know, you
already know what the deal is. He asked you to
go out, and he's picked the place where you won't
(02:36):
be distracted and he can get to know you. That
is not lunch. That's a date. Okay, that is a date.
And surely you know that. You see that you are new.
You're not new at this dating thing. You're not certainly
not new at dating your bosses. I mean, isn't that
how it starts? You know, when they ask you to
go out like that, That's how it starts, right. So
(02:57):
my question to you is, what is your goal? Do
you want to get married eventually? Do you want to
be in a relationship? Do you just want to do
all the presidents in the company? I mean, what is
your goal? You're doing all that you're doing for a reason.
You wear designer clothes every day, you have a stylist
to pick out your designer pieces. You've never dated beneath you.
(03:18):
You're always on top, you say, even in the bedroom,
you sound very confident, very self assured, which is a
good thing of course, no self esteem problems here. But
my question still remains, what is your goal? What do
you want? Have you just written Steve and I to
brag or is there a means to the end. I
really don't think you would just be putting this much
(03:40):
effort into anything if you weren't purpose driven. You just
want you just will not come right out and say
that that's what you want. You want us to think
that you got it all together or you're on top,
as you say, but with no endgame in mind, that
doesn't make sense. You want to snag one of these
company presidents so you can continue your lifestyle and level up.
(04:01):
That's why, for sure, you are definitely gonna go out
to lunch with this new guy in hopes that he
could be the one that you finally get. Otherwise, why
would you even mention that he's single and it's legal.
You guys could do whatever you want. Listen, I say,
enjoy your date with him, but when you write us,
please be honest about your intentions. You are trying to
get a president. That's what it is. Say what it is, Steve. Okay,
(04:29):
I've moved. Yeah, I don't feel like play it alone, right.
You know, no, listen, let me stop. This has nothing
to do with race, so let me clear that up.
So while I'm giving my answer, this answer would apply
to anybody. You made it racial because you wanted to
(04:55):
let us know you are forty one year old white lady,
and you wanted to let us know the color of
the new interim president. We wouldn't have known no different.
You could have just said this is how I am,
this is what I do, but you made it racial.
I'm just the guy for it, Steve, let's go. Sixty
(05:20):
five years old, I'd have seen this movie before, so
let's go. You want to make it racial, and you
want to bank it what it is. Now Here he is.
This letter is about a white gold digger, so now
here we go. I'm a forty one year old white lady.
(05:44):
I don't know why you thought of necessary to tell
us that, but fine. I work in corporate America with
a very good job. I go to work dress like
a million bucks every day because I had help buying
my designer pieces. I always start at the top when
I date. I've never dated a man that is beneath me.
(06:10):
A man isn't even beneath me when we having sex.
I'm always on top in everything I do. Okay, white lady,
you better, you better explain this. White lady, I can't
call you by your name that you didn't give us,
(06:30):
that you described yourself as a white lady. Hang on,
black man, hang on, coming back more about the white
lady when we come back. That's right. Part two of
scene's response coming up in twenty three minutes after the
our subject. He got fired and I'm under new management.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
(06:52):
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right, come on, Seve,
let's recap today's strawberry letter and finish up with your response.
Because I'm not in the mood today. I told you
anything to play, so I'm an call it like it is.
This is a letter is about a white gold digger.
And the reason I'm starting off the letter with this
(07:14):
is a white gold dicker, because this is how the
woman started her letter. Dear Steve and ship she talking
about both. I am a forty one year old white lady.
This ain't even necessary, but that's what you want to
make it about. I'm the guy fight, White ladies say,
I work in corporate America with a very good job.
(07:35):
I go to work dressed like a million bucks every
day because I had help buying my designer piece. But
we already know what that is. I also started at
the top when I date that I've never dated a
man beneath me. A man isn't beneath me, even when
we having sex. I'm always on top in everything I do. Okay,
(07:56):
white lady, I have a son and he likes the
best of everything too. He ain't you. I work hard
to keep him in a lifestyle that I didn't have
growing up. And she ain't talking about just working hard
at her y'all. She working hard to date from the
(08:19):
top and stay on top at work. I'm an executive
and I report to the president of the company. I
had a private affair with the last president of my company.
He slipped up and his wife found out about me.
She didn't let him know anything. She went straight to
the board members of our company and he was let go.
Now this, I can assure you, was this a white
(08:42):
lady moved. The president you were sleeping with was white
because the black lady ain't keeping nothing to her and
to the board. Oh no, this fitning to be a
(09:02):
corporate ass whipping on display black women take it to
the house, the parking lot, the church, Facebook, Facebook Live,
just the Graham, her brother, her cousins, everybody involved, So
(09:25):
I know they. I felt terrible about it, and he
wanted to continue. But continue? Why would I continue? You
ain't on top lo right, he don't date the meat.
But it would have put my job in jeopardy. How
would it put your job in? Jefandy? He gonna Now,
you didn't get put in jeopardy when he got fired,
(09:48):
So that's a lot. It wouldn't have put your job
in Jepandy. I'm gonna prove it to you. Nine months later,
we had a new interim president and he's black. Okay, Yeah,
tell us that I love a man in power. Yes,
you do, because you are golden. And he's not all
that handsome. But he can dress in him carrish himself
as though he runs the world. A lot of ugly
(10:09):
people in char Trump was in charge, in charge, I'm
in charge of this radio show. I ain't all that good.
Look at my damn. So I get it. But but
you said, but he can dress and he carves himself
and run the world. Yes, I do him. So now
you got this black dude. I guess that he hasn't
(10:32):
heard the gossip because he has already asked me to
go to lunch with him to give him an overrule
the day to day operation. Could it be here where
she tried to place it? Yeah? Could it be that
I'm at the executive level and he wants to hear
from a manager. Or is it because he's interested in me?
She tried to trick us. No, lady, it's you the ones.
(10:56):
See you the ones, and now let me show you something.
The best part is he's single and he's the interim president,
so legally we can do what we want. Souse. Just
a minute ago, the reason you would not day the
white man after he got fired was because you said
(11:18):
it would put you It would have put my job
in jeopardy. How he didn't work out no more? He
don't even work out no more. But now you haven't
figured out that the black dude says he's single and
he the interim president. It's fine, so legally we can
do what we want. That is no where in a
(11:38):
corporate America that you can do what you want. The
ain't know where you can do what you want. You
want to get some rules, go get a job in
corporate America. He said, he's picked the perfect place for
us to go where we can talk without distractions and
he can get to know me. That this sound like
he's coming on to me or just a professional luncheon
(11:59):
hew fun. If you don't shut up with this bullcraft,
you a professional gold digger. You know how to dig
for gold. You haven't already decided the fact that he
ain't handsome don't matter. He dresses well and he can't
sup like he running the world and he'd got the power,
and all you look for his power. You don't date
(12:19):
beneath you? Girl, You just said all in you know
good in hell? Where or what this is? And my
question is which one of them designed a dresses You're
gonna wafter this damn lunch because your ass gonna have
whatever Cleveland you've got. And I'm pretty sure you the
boss of extra. With all these extra dudes you've been taking,
you're gonna have them shoved up under your boot hole
(12:46):
in kitchen. You wore gold digger latest time playing black dude.
I wish I knew you so I could give your
heads up and tell you what you stupid. Like most me,
she would be the woman with her rest mashed up
on the hot at the gym. Matched up all right?
Hit us up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM to
(13:08):
comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check us
out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up
it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're
listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show
It is time now for the Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com.
All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter
and we get your letter, and we could be reading
your letter live on the air, just like we're going
to read this one right here, right now, and you
never know, it could be yours. So write us. Yeah,
(00:24):
you never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We
got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew.
Subject He's fired and I'm under new management. Dear Stephen Shirley,
I'm a forty one year old white lady and I
work in corporate America with a very good job. I
go to work dressed like a million bucks every day
because I had I had helped buying my designer pieces.
(00:47):
I always start at the top one I date, and
I've never dated a man that is beneath me. A
man isn't even beneath me when we are having sex.
I'm always on top and everything I do. I have
a sub and he likes the best of everything. I
work hard to keep him in a lifestyle that I
didn't have growing up. At work, I'm an executive and
(01:10):
I report to the president of the company. I had
a private affair with the last president of my company,
and he slipped up and his wife found out about me.
She didn't let him know anything. She went straight to
the board members of our company, and he would let go.
I felt terrible about it, and he wanted to continue
the affair, but it would have put my job in jeopardy,
(01:32):
so I moved on and prayed that the gossip woulden league.
Nine months later, we have a new interim president and
he's black. I love a man in power, and he's
not all that handsome, but he can dress and he
carries himself as though he runs the world. I guess
that he hasn't heard the gossip because he has already
asked me to go to lunch with him to give
(01:54):
him an overview of the day to day operations. Could
it be that I'm at the executive level and he
wants to hear from a manager, or is it because
he's interested in me. The best part is that he
is single and he is the interim president, so legally
we can do anything we want. He said, he's picked
the perfect place for us to go where we can
(02:15):
talk without distractions and he can get to know me.
Does this sound like he's coming onto me? Or is
this a professional lunch? Okay? Really, you already know, you
already know what the deal is. He asked you to
go out, and he's picked the place where you won't
(02:36):
be distracted and he can get to know you. That
is not lunch. That's a date. Okay, that is a date.
And surely you know that. You see that you are new.
You're not new at this dating thing. You're not certainly
not new at dating your bosses. I mean, isn't that
how it starts? You know, when they ask you to
go out like that, That's how it starts, right. So
(02:57):
my question to you is, what is your goal? Do
you want to get married eventually? Do you want to
be in a relationship? Do you just want to do
all the presidents in the company? I mean, what is
your goal? You're doing all that you're doing for a reason.
You wear designer clothes every day, you have a stylist
to pick out your designer pieces. You've never dated beneath you.
(03:18):
You're always on top, you say, even in the bedroom,
you sound very confident, very self assured, which is a
good thing of course, no self esteem problems here. But
my question still remains, what is your goal? What do
you want? Have you just written Steve and I to
brag or is there a means to the end. I
really don't think you would just be putting this much
(03:40):
effort into anything if you weren't purpose driven. You just
want you just will not come right out and say
that that's what you want. You want us to think
that you got it all together or you're on top,
as you say, but with no endgame in mind, that
doesn't make sense. You want to snag one of these
company presidents so you can continue your lifestyle and level up.
(04:01):
That's why, for sure, you are definitely gonna go out
to lunch with this new guy in hopes that he
could be the one that you finally get. Otherwise, why
would you even mention that he's single and it's legal.
You guys could do whatever you want. Listen, I say,
enjoy your date with him, but when you write us,
please be honest about your intentions. You are trying to
get a president. That's what it is. Say what it is, Steve. Okay,
(04:29):
I've moved. Yeah, I don't feel like play it alone, right.
You know, no, listen, let me stop. This has nothing
to do with race, so let me clear that up.
So while I'm giving my answer, this answer would apply
to anybody. You made it racial because you wanted to
(04:55):
let us know you are forty one year old white lady,
and you wanted to let us know the color of
the new interim president. We wouldn't have known no different.
You could have just said this is how I am,
this is what I do, but you made it racial.
I'm just the guy for it, Steve, let's go. Sixty
(05:20):
five years old, I'd have seen this movie before, so
let's go. You want to make it racial, and you
want to bank it what it is. Now Here he is.
This letter is about a white gold digger, so now
here we go. I'm a forty one year old white lady.
(05:44):
I don't know why you thought of necessary to tell
us that, but fine. I work in corporate America with
a very good job. I go to work dress like
a million bucks every day because I had help buying
my designer pieces. I always start at the top when
I date. I've never dated a man that is beneath me.
(06:10):
A man isn't even beneath me when we having sex.
I'm always on top in everything I do. Okay, white lady,
you better, you better explain this. White lady, I can't
call you by your name that you didn't give us,
(06:30):
that you described yourself as a white lady. Hang on,
black man, hang on, coming back more about the white
lady when we come back. That's right. Part two of
scene's response coming up in twenty three minutes after the
our subject. He got fired and I'm under new management.
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
(06:52):
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right, come on, Seve,
let's recap today's strawberry letter and finish up with your response.
Because I'm not in the mood today. I told you
anything to play, so I'm an call it like it is.
This is a letter is about a white gold digger.
And the reason I'm starting off the letter with this
(07:14):
is a white gold dicker, because this is how the
woman started her letter. Dear Steve and ship she talking
about both. I am a forty one year old white lady.
This ain't even necessary, but that's what you want to
make it about. I'm the guy fight, White ladies say,
I work in corporate America with a very good job.
(07:35):
I go to work dressed like a million bucks every
day because I had help buying my designer piece. But
we already know what that is. I also started at
the top when I date that I've never dated a
man beneath me. A man isn't beneath me, even when
we having sex. I'm always on top in everything I do. Okay,
(07:56):
white lady, I have a son and he likes the
best of everything too. He ain't you. I work hard
to keep him in a lifestyle that I didn't have
growing up. And she ain't talking about just working hard
at her y'all. She working hard to date from the
(08:19):
top and stay on top at work. I'm an executive
and I report to the president of the company. I
had a private affair with the last president of my company.
He slipped up and his wife found out about me.
She didn't let him know anything. She went straight to
the board members of our company and he was let go.
Now this, I can assure you, was this a white
(08:42):
lady moved. The president you were sleeping with was white
because the black lady ain't keeping nothing to her and
to the board. Oh no, this fitning to be a
(09:02):
corporate ass whipping on display black women take it to
the house, the parking lot, the church, Facebook, Facebook Live,
just the Graham, her brother, her cousins, everybody involved, So
(09:25):
I know they. I felt terrible about it, and he
wanted to continue. But continue? Why would I continue? You
ain't on top lo right, he don't date the meat.
But it would have put my job in jeopardy. How
would it put your job in? Jefandy? He gonna Now,
you didn't get put in jeopardy when he got fired,
(09:48):
So that's a lot. It wouldn't have put your job
in Jepandy. I'm gonna prove it to you. Nine months later,
we had a new interim president and he's black. Okay, Yeah,
tell us that I love a man in power. Yes,
you do, because you are golden. And he's not all
that handsome. But he can dress in him carrish himself
as though he runs the world. A lot of ugly
(10:09):
people in char Trump was in charge, in charge, I'm
in charge of this radio show. I ain't all that good.
Look at my damn. So I get it. But but
you said, but he can dress and he carves himself
and run the world. Yes, I do him. So now
you got this black dude. I guess that he hasn't
(10:32):
heard the gossip because he has already asked me to
go to lunch with him to give him an overrule
the day to day operation. Could it be here where
she tried to place it? Yeah? Could it be that
I'm at the executive level and he wants to hear
from a manager. Or is it because he's interested in me?
She tried to trick us. No, lady, it's you the ones.
(10:56):
See you the ones, and now let me show you something.
The best part is he's single and he's the interim president,
so legally we can do what we want. Souse. Just
a minute ago, the reason you would not day the
white man after he got fired was because you said
(11:18):
it would put you It would have put my job
in jeopardy. How he didn't work out no more? He
don't even work out no more. But now you haven't
figured out that the black dude says he's single and
he the interim president. It's fine, so legally we can
do what we want. That is no where in a
(11:38):
corporate America that you can do what you want. The
ain't know where you can do what you want. You
want to get some rules, go get a job in
corporate America. He said, he's picked the perfect place for
us to go where we can talk without distractions and
he can get to know me. That this sound like
he's coming on to me or just a professional luncheon
(11:59):
hew fun. If you don't shut up with this bullcraft,
you a professional gold digger. You know how to dig
for gold. You haven't already decided the fact that he
ain't handsome don't matter. He dresses well and he can't
sup like he running the world and he'd got the power,
and all you look for his power. You don't date
(12:19):
beneath you? Girl, You just said all in you know
good in hell? Where or what this is? And my
question is which one of them designed a dresses You're
gonna wafter this damn lunch because your ass gonna have
whatever Cleveland you've got. And I'm pretty sure you the
boss of extra. With all these extra dudes you've been taking,
you're gonna have them shoved up under your boot hole
(12:46):
in kitchen. You wore gold digger latest time playing black dude.
I wish I knew you so I could give your
heads up and tell you what you stupid. Like most me,
she would be the woman with her rest mashed up
on the hot at the gym. Matched up all right?
Hit us up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM to
(13:08):
comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check us
out on the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up
it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're
listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show
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