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June 5, 2024 13 mins

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm separated from my husband because he cheated on me and the girl he was dating had a miscarriage. He left me and his son to be there for her while she was grieving. Yes, it was his baby. I decided to move on too, and I've been with my new boyfriend for two months. My husband never expected from me to get a boyfriend, and he was shocked when our eleven year old son told him that he's met mommy's boyfriend and he's really tall and he has a basketball court in his backyard. My husband did not like it one bit. He told me that my side piece is off limits to our son, and I had to remind him that his side piece almost had a baby by him, so he can't tell me what to do................................

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:20):
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guide it for you. Here it is Strawberby Letter.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Thank you nephew. Subject he was outside ready to rumble.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm separated from my husband because he
cheated on me and the girl he was dating had
a miscarriage. He left me and his son to be
there for her while she was grieving. Yes, it was
his baby. I decided to move on too, and I've
been with my new boyfriend for two months. My husband

(00:47):
never expected from me to get a boyfriend, and he
was shocked when our eleven year old son told him
that he's met mommy's boyfriend and he's really tall and
he has a basketball court in his backyard. My husband
did not like it one bit. He told me that
my side piece is off limits to our son, and
I had to remind him that his side piece almost

(01:08):
had a baby by him, so he can't tell me
what to do. I knew he was mad, but I
didn't expect him to go online and dig up dirt
on my boyfriend. He texted me a bunch of junk
about my boyfriend's messy divorce and picts of him with
his ex wife. I told him he was out of
line and he needs to worry about his own relationship.

(01:28):
The next night, my son had a sleepover with his
cousin and I stayed over my boyfriend's house. Around midnight,
my husband pulled up to my boyfriend's house and was
laying on his horn. He went outside. We went outside
in our pajamas, and my husband tried to fight my boyfriend.
My boyfriend laughed and told me to go inside. I

(01:48):
couldn't see what happened, but he came in with a
scratch on his neck, and he told me that can't
ever happen again. In other words, he will leave me
alone if my husband keeps bugging out. My husband had
been calling me and begging to talk. But is it
because he's jealous? Do I hear him out or divorce him. Okay,
you and only you can decide if you should divorce

(02:11):
your husband. But the facts are the facts. I mean,
your husband and his side piece almost had a baby
on you. He even stayed with her and left you
and your son to be with her while she recovered.
What he did is beyond lying, is beyond cheating. It's betrayal,
all of that, deceit, disrespect, no protection with this wo

(02:32):
That's just nasty. It's such a double standard with men
thinking it's okay for them to cheat, but they cannot
take it if their women do the same thing. He
messed up your husband did, so now he's acting a
fool because you have a man. At least you guys
are separated in your marriage and you went and got
your boyfriend. But since you have a man now, he

(02:53):
wants to act stupid and try to fight your men
and shut that down. Well, no, it's not working. So
you need to make up your mind. You need to
make up your mind. Do you want to get back
with your husband do you want to keep things like
they are and stay with your new man. By the way,
your husband hasn't apologized, He hasn't said he would stop
seeing this other woman hasn't asked you for forgiveness or

(03:15):
done anything to make you think he's serious about fixing
this marriage. I mean, all he's doing now is just
calling you. He's just sorry he got caught. What do
you want, That's what you need to answer. What do
you want, Steve.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
Oh good Asser Sherley. Here's a deal, lady.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
In this letter, this is just a simple matter of
looking at the facts. The reason you all aren't together
right now is because he cheated on you with a
girl he was dating and she had a miscarriage. Feel
bad about that, but here listen to this part. Though
he left me and his son to be there for

(03:54):
her while she was grieving. Okay, the choice was made.
It was a clear decision. I'm leaving my wife and
my son to go be with this woman.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
That's what it was. You can call it grief in
or whatever you can. You can be.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
You ain't got to move in with nobody to help
him through grief. Trust me, you don't how to move in.
So now listen to this, and then you say, yeah,
it was his baby. So then she said I've decided
to move on too. So she got a new boyfriend.
So and then you've been with his new boyfriend for

(04:35):
two months now. Your husband didn't expect you to get nobody,
and we never do. But his boy your boyfriend got.
Your husband got shocked when your eleven year old said
that he's met mommy's new boyfriend. He's really tall and
he has a basketball court in his backyard. See eleven

(04:56):
year old boy, Let's get to the important facts. He's
really tall, daddy, and he got a basketball court in
his backyard. All right, now, two things, his daddy don't
have a basketball court and height.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah, that's what this is to me.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
So that tells me the boy don't have a basketball
court in his backyard and his daddy show.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
My husband didn't like it one bit.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
He told me that your side piece is off limits
to our son. But you had to tell him. Hold up, now,
you just had almost had a baby with this woman,
so you can't tell me what to do. So then
he got real messy with it. He started texting you
pictures of your current boyfriend about his messy divorce. And

(05:51):
now how did the divorce get messy? Oh because he
has some money.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
Then he starts sending you pictures of him and his
ex wife. You told him, don't worry about your relationship,
worry about your own. So then your son had a
sleep over with the cousin, you over your boyfriend's house.
And at midnight here comes Shaorty. He outside just leaning
on the car horn, blowing the car. He's standing up

(06:21):
in his seat blowing that horn. He's so damn man
with his shall ass. Y'all go outside in y'all's pajamas.
Your new boyfriend told you. Hang on, Steve, go back
inside and.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
We come back. I tell you exactly what happened.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
All right, we'll have heart too of Steve's response. Coming
up at twenty three minutes after the hour of today's
Strawberry letter. Subject he was outside ready to rumble. We'll
get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve
Hardy Morning Show. Come on, Steve. Let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
The subject is he was outside ready to rumble.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
I'm gonna try to do this quickly to recap. Woman
breaks up with her husband because he was cheating with
his side chick, and the chick got pregnant. She ended
up having a miscarriage and it was his baby. He left.
The woman who wrote this letter his wife and his
son to go be with her while she was grieving.
So the wife that wrote this letter decided he's moved on.

(07:24):
She went and got her boyfriend. Now, the way the
man found out about the boyfriend was an eleven year
old boy said, Daddy, mommy new boyfriend is really tall,
and he got basketball court in his backyard. So now
the boy dealt with the two things that was important
to him, and he pointed out the two things that
obviously he don't have, Daddy, he got a basketball court

(07:46):
in his backyard. And hey, Daddy, this man tall. So
now little shorty shorty gotta figure out what to do.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
Now he mad.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
Now, he really mad because he know how tall the
man is. Once again he brought up his little short
ass complex, little five nine ass dude sitting up in here.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Big boy over there probably like six four or something,
you know.

Speaker 3 (08:09):
And so anyway, Bush come to shove. He's mad about him,
told him, you don't take my son around this man
no more.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
She said, you can't tell me what to do.

Speaker 3 (08:17):
You had a girl pregnant and almost had a baby,
so I do what I want to do. So anyway,
the little boy had a sleep over at his cousin's house,
and so she would spend a night at a boyfriend's house.
Around midnight, Shorty is outside in the driveway just blowing

(08:39):
on a horn. He's so mad with his little lass.
He just stood up in the seat. He just leaning
on a horn. They go outside and they pajamas to
confront the man because he and his blowing up this
man's neighborhood with his phone. Boyfriend tell the wife gone
back in the house, so it's dark outside.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
She couldn't tell what happened. But I'm gonna tell you
what what happened.

Speaker 3 (09:02):
Your boyfriend came back in the house and had a
scratch on his neck. He had a scratch on his
neck because he was choking the sugar honey iced tea
out of Shorty, and Shorty would try to get it
fingered him.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
I'm around him and reach up and scratched it.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
So then the man came back in the house and
he said, this can't ever happen again. In other words,
he would leave me alone if my husband keeps bugging out. Okay,
that's true. Don't nobody want no drama. And then you said,
my husband has been calling me and begging me to talk.
But is it because he's jealous? Do I hear him

(09:41):
out or divorce him? Let me help you with this
right here, I'm gonna tell you exactly what happened.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Little man.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Big Talk came back in the house, and the reason
little man started calling you and begging you to talk.
Big man with little man ass outside, I'm telling you
right now, he whooped his ass. Very few men lose
fights at their house because we fighting his territorial. You

(10:11):
don't come on my place and jump on me at
my house. He whooped little man ass. Now the reason
little man is big and you to talk and all
this here. But you ain't saying nothing about him being
back over that. Hell, he ain't went back on normally
you say I'll be back you whoop me like that,
we're gonna go round too. No, no, he ain't say that.

(10:31):
Little Man did not go back over there. Tall Man
put it on his ass. Now, tall man come in
the house and go, hey, listen to me. This can't
happen again. I'm not finna get in the ball with
no rag relationship with this messy man outside. So now
little man back on social media begging to talk, She said,

(10:52):
But is it because he's jealous. Do I hear him
out or divorce him? Lady, like Shirley said, only you
can decide that. I don't care what you do with
this dude, really, but I tell you one thing, though,
We ain't got to worry about a little man going
back over that man house.

Speaker 4 (11:12):
I tell you all go back over that or that
didn't work, all that horn blowing, standing up in the seat,
stomping while he thin in on the horn.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
Come outside and face me, Come on outside and face me.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
Tall man came up, that slapped his sugar honey ice
t laught and then started choking him. He reached up
and he did. All he got in was a scratch.
All he got is some DNA under his finger nail.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
That's all he got.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
He just scratched. The man wasn't no swollen eye or nothing.
And the reason your husband is calling you because he
you don't know what happened, because you ain't seen it,
because he healed it. He got his jaw blowed up,
he got his lip bus his eye little puffy. See
shop people. Let me tell you somethingbout shol people. People

(12:01):
always running their mouth. If you notice they always talking.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
How sure is he Steve about five h five nine. Okay,
that's what I was thinking.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
About one hundred and seventy five US centimeters. Ain't no
change on this one.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
He took his five nine ass over there.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
Real tall man, great, big old man. Right, but you know,
I think you more like he probably like five seven
five eight. Wow. Okay, okay, yeah, let's take five nine
out of it.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
About five seven five that a little boy. He had
never seen no man this tall.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
So mamak new boyfriend. He about sixty three. All right,
he's real talking. He got basketball court in his backyard.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
You can leave your comments on today's Letter.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
To your son, ain't see that fight.

Speaker 1 (12:57):
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