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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:20):
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Speaker 1 (00:26):
Subject I need both of them, and I need to
do a disclaimer before we read this letter. If you
have small children, you don't want them to hear this.
Cover up their ears. Okay again, the subject is I
need both of them. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and
I have been through hell and back in our short
four year marriage. He cheated on me first, and then
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I cheated on him. When I cheated, I got caught
in the act. And the guy I cheated with rides
motorcycles with my husband. How it happened was crazy. We
went to a viking event and my husband got drunk,
so his friend brought us home. His friend helped me
get him into bed. Then we went outside to smoke
some wheat. I hadn't had sex and months because my
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husband cheated on me. I got so high. I started
telling his friend all of our business, and then some
kind of way, we ended up on the side of
the house, naked from the waist down. I was hooking up.
I was hooking him up when my husband started calling
my name, and when he came to the side of
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the house, we didn't have time to pull our pants
up or run. We were busted. I told my husband
I was sorry, and then he surprised us by telling
us to finish because he wanted to watch. We couldn't
work under that pressure, so I got dressed and went inside,
and he encouraged his friend to come inside and finish
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me off while he watched. I think this is something
they've done before. Because they were both too comfortable. We
started having sex, and then my husband joined in. This
was my first threesome with two men, and I can't
believe my husband allowed this.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
A few days.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Later, he decided to bring it up and asked me
to be honest with him. I told him I need
the both of them every once in a while to
keep things interesting. He said it was fine and he'd
be he'd bring he'd bring a female over some time
so that he can have some fun too. I shut
it down and said, I only want him and his friend.
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Now he's acting jealous, So why did he start all
of this? That's what he wanted, don't you see it.
That's what he wants. I mean, some kind of way.
We ended up on the side of the house, naked
from the waist down. I thought that was really like
the craziest line in the letter. But there is more.
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I mean, there's a lot of them in here. Your
husband asked his friend to finish you off so he
could watch. Then I'm thinking this is really working out
for your favor because Huffy is on board with all
of this, and he's joining in. And he didn't kill you. Guys,
he didn't kill his friend. He didn't kick you out,
he didn't divorce you, he didn't give his friend a
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beat down any of that. Nothing, nothing normal happened in
this letter. So I'm thinking, since both of you are
cheaters and you like threesomes and all of this, and
your husband liked watching and all of that, although you
know he can't bring females in because you shut that down,
it just sounds like you guys are in some sort
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of open marriage and you don't know it. You know,
you just haven't named it yet. This is what swingers do.
They share their mates with others, and that's what you
guys are into.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
So I just say, go.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Ahead, put a label on it and own it, because
that's what this crazy marriage is, okay, and it is
what it is. You guys are into sharing, period, Steve.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You know, here's.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
The problem with this letter is at the question at
the end, and it's at the answer to that question
at the end is also how the letter begins. The
question at the end is so why did he start
all of this?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Why did he start all of this? Is the question.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well, let me tell you what happened at the top
of the letter. They've been in a back and forth, short,
through hell and back relationship before your marriage.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
He cheated on me first.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Then I cheated on him. When I cheated, I got
caught in the act. And the guy I cheated with
rides motorcycles with my husband. That's a lot of information.
He'm out of paragraph one. This letter is packed with
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facts and we not even otter.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Did you hear me?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
So that when you go back to the end of
the letter, and it goes, so why did he start
all this?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
What he cheated on me? First?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Then I cheated on him. Then when I cheated, I
got caught in the act. And the guy I cheated.
We'll ride motorcycles with my husband.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
That ain't all he.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Ride, or it ain't just motorcycles.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
What else? He's a rider. He just a rider. He
read it up what you want to do. He ride bikes.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
He rides uh, trailer holmes, he ride ons. He do
sidewalking on side of houses. He he uh, he streaks. Uh,
he do service calls. He got tucky in service at
night for drunk men that need to be tucked in bed.
This is just an amazing letter. So when I come back,
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I want to share with you, you know, because like
I told you, y'all, y'all went to a biking event.
Your husband got so drunk that his friend brought y'all home,
and his friend helped me get him into bed. See
that's a service. That's a nice friend. Then y'all went
outside smoking weed. See that right there, he yo plug,
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He helped you get your husband in bed.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
He got weed. She was hie Steve, she was so high.
I ain't never been that high.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
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fifty four hundred. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap
today's Strawberry letter. I need both of them as a subject.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
This letter is so crazy.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
This lady been in a been through hell back and
forth in a short fold year marriage. He cheated on
me first, then I cheated on him.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Then when I.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Cheated, I got caught in the act. The guy cheated
with riding motorcycle with my hook. That sounded like uh,
that movie Smoke in the bandit with Jackie Gleason was
describing how he was chasing Rymer across the country. He
got charges on him. He was eating that sandwich. Give
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me my give me that Diablo sandwich.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
He was.
Speaker 3 (08:14):
He'd across state line and got him for kidnapping, high speed, chasing,
distart police property.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
So this is what I left.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Him with the lady husband. See how this sounds. That's
the funny part to me. So now let's move on.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Down the letter.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
So they went outside after he took the husband in
bed who got drunk at the bike at the motorcycle
riding event. His friend got your husband. Your husband got
so drunk. He helped you get him in the house
and tuck him in bed. Then y'all went outside to
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smoke some weed. You ain't had sex in moss because
your husband cheated on him. I got so high, I
started telling his friend all our business.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
And there's some kind of way. Now hear the part
right here, like you don't know, some kind of way.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
We ended up on the side of the house, neked
from the waist down.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
What you got.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
To take them down? Motorcycle boots off, you got to
take them chaps off. You gotta get them tight end
jeans off. You gotta get that motorcycle vest off. But
you're from the waist down, so you got the honor
your club. So you gotta keep your vests on, vest
off because you see you got your motorcycle patch on it.
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You can't disrespect to patch. That's like burning American flying
to a hill boy. So now y'all neked from the
waist down. Uh. I was hooking him up when my
husband started calling my name, and when he came to
the side of the house, we ain't had time to
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pull our pants up or run. I've never been in
that position.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Why I ever? I can't run, But.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
So you so comfortable you done took your clothes off
and folded.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Them up on the ground in a pile. He can't run.
I got to have at least one leg and something. God,
So now.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
We didn't have time to pull our pants up and run.
We were busting. I told my husband I'm sorry, and
then he surprised us by telling us to finish because
he wanted to watch.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
That was a surprise.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
We surprised everybody in the letter with that one. Yeah,
we read it.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
We went what kill anybody? We couldn't work under that pressure.
So I got dressed and went inside, and he encouraged
his friend to come inside and finish me off while
he watched. I think this is something they'd done before
because they were both too comfortable for Wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
That was your takeaway.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Your husband told another man to come in the house
and finish you off.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Your takeaway is I think.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
They've done this before because they were uncomfortable and.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
You wouldn't right pants on. So now we started having sex?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
What?
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Yeah, yeah, lady, you go along with all this. We
started having sex, and then my husband joined in, join
me in.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Yes, funny man, man, somebody doing my wife exactly. And
then I tap in, like you had to dance with
white people. Welcome taping on the shoulder, my turn. You
had one of them white dances now where they.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Tap in you at the Beaul Reguard ball or something.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
I said, that was my first threesome with two men,
and I can't believe my husband a loudest.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
A few days later, he decided to bring it up
and asked me to be honest with him.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
I told him I need the both of them every
once in a while to keep things interesting.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
He said it was.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
Fine, and he'd bring a female female over sometime so
that he can have some fun too.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
I shuit that down. We ain't doing all that.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
I don't know who you think I am, what type
of woman you think I am? Bring another woman up
in here. I just want menses. That's why she drew
the line. Yeah, draw this line up in here. But
it's gonna be three people in the bedroom. It's gonna
be two menses and me. That's weird anyway, because once
I'm naked, I could be the only one with a
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body part that look like mine in that room. I'm
gonna tell you that right now. And yeah, uh, he
can't be two people in here with zipples, no su
You have several people in here with a dress home,
but it can't be one dude in here with no
damn zipple if we're talking about getting nickd So, lady,
I ain't got no advice to you. Your question is
why did he start all this? The question is why
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did you finish all this?
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Yeah, that's the question.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Thank you all right, Steve, Thank you leave your comments today.
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