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here today, okay, and it could be yours. You never know,
You never know, all right, you never know. I never
know when you're going in. You'll you'll never know. To
keep stretching out each day, smuggle out, but hold on time,
on time. We got it for you here. It is
a strawberry letter. You never know what I'm gonna stop saying.
You never know. You can't know that. Yeah, we don't know.
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Just follow me though, Just follow me, though, dog, Just
follow me. All right? Here we go, Thank you. Never subject.
I'm just listening for my name. I'm just listening for
my name. Do see even surely I've been married for
four years to a great man that is hard working
and spiritual. I used to brag to all of my
friends that my man is faithful because we have a
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lot of sex. He's overweight and he works all the time.
It was so airheaded to think that. I never imagine
that my less than handsome, big belly man would step
out on me at the time of the year. At
the top of the year, he started working at night
as an overnight security captain, and I was missing cuddling
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with him at night, so I started staying in bed
all morning so we could cuddle when he gets home.
The other morning, he showered and snuggled up next to
me in bed for a quick as soon as we finished.
As soon as we finished, he was knocked out. My
husband is always he always talks in his sleep, and
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I'm used to that. He usually mumbles my name, and
I think it's so sweet, so I always listened for
my name. But that morning he said another lady's name.
Then he mumbled, put it on me and pretty yellow booty.
I'm brown skin, so I know he was not talking
about my booty. I shook him and he turned over smiling,
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then went back to sleep. The next morning, he was
very aggressive during sex, and it was not a quickie
at all. Afterwards, he passed out and I listened for
my name while he talked in its sleep. He said
a new woman's name. So I woke him up and
asked him if he knew the woman he mentioned in
his sleep. He said, the names come from porn that
he watches while he's at work. I told him women
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in porn do not have names. I am trying to
figure out who would want his fat butt besides me? So,
could he be a cheater? Is it normal to watch
porn like that? Or should I pop up at the
hospital to see what he's up to? A lot of
questions you ask, and you kind of already know the
answer to these questions. You ask if could he be
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a cheater? Yes he could be a cheater, Yes he could.
Is it normal to watch porn like that? You ask
that too? Well? To that one, I don't know because
you didn't really say how much he watched. You just
said that they don't say women's name in porn. Well,
who's he talking about? Who are these women? Who is
pretty yellow booty? Do you guys talk when he's awake?
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I mean, do you get a chance to like ask
him these questions then, or like you did this time?
He just said they're they're porn women. That's when you
can ask him about this stuff when he's good and awake,
not when he's about to fall asleep, or not when
you guys are just intimate and he's tired. In all
of that, I mean a lot of this. You know,
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he's not going to ever tell you the truth about it,
So get that out of your mind if you think
that's it. But if you do ask him when he's
walking around or something, maybe some of this stuff can
come to light, like who is this woman that he's
talking about? You got to ask him at some point,
and not until then will you at least get some
kind of answers. He knows what he's doing, he does
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and that he does seriously need to stop talking in
his sleep. He I just want to know whom it's
pretty yellow booty is? What is that? But you got
to ask him to find out. You have to do that, Okay,
corner him one day and try to find out what's
going on with your man when he's talking in his sleep.
If he's acting different, something is going on. You can
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believe that, nephew, give me some of that booty. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
he's doing it. And he's calling out a lot of
names and he's not calling your name, and your name
will not be called and what you're not gonna do
this is I don't understand latest what would make you
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think y'all can do it? And then ask me some questions.
I ain't got nothing to say. Have to we get through.
That's that's that's a rap. I can't ask nothing. I'm
out of cold, I'm sleep. Don't asker me nothing. When
you act, you act like can't nobody mess over you? Like,
that's just impossible. You you you are screw ovable. You
get that right? You are? You are screw overball. Say
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it with me. I just wrote a new word. You
are screw over ball. It's possible saying that adverb. You
can't saying what is that? Screw ovaball? You screw ovaball.
So you're saying he is cheating and he's messing over her,
that's what you're saying, fairly, and he calling the names
out what your thing? It ain't your damn name? And
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the woman is light skinned. It's not you. You're screw overaball. Okay,
but but it happens to the best up. Okay, halle
Berry got screwed over. It's okay, doctor Dre's wife got kids.
It goes on and on will Smith, Will Smith, data
picket got that crazy thing going on. It's you are
screw ovable. It's possible, but put acting like that. Now,
let me tell you something. If you go down to
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that hospital, it's jumping off at the hospital, right, Everybody
that screw ain't in pain at that hospital. Okay, I
just I just left that hospital. It can lock go
down in that hospital. I'm telling you. It's a couple
of days me and Jackie shot that though. I'm just
trying to tell you it can go out. It can
go down at the hospital. Oh okay, alright, alright, okay, okay,
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the visuals a bit much. Okay, pitch me with a
turtle neck on listen. Let me keep going though. But
it is possible for you to go down. And it's
going down at the hospital. And the big booty yellow
girl is at the hospital. I'm just letting you know.
He said pretty not big. If it's pretty that, I I
mean it's big. What is your talking about? Well? I
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Part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up at twenty
three minutes after the hour. Today's subjects. I'm just listening
for my name, Junior. You are undegging up next right
after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
it is time now to recap today's strawberry letter. The
subject is I'm just listening from my name, all right.
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This is written by a woman who's been married for
four years. She said, to a great man that is
hard working and spiritual. She said, she used to brag
to her friends all the time, but how great this
man was because they had a lot of sex and
all of that. But you know, he's even overweight and
he works all the time. She said that was an
airheaded thing for her to think, because that is definitely
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not the case. This man is less than handsome, she
calls him. He's got a big belly, and she would
never think that he would step out on her. But
at the top of the year, at the beginning of
the year, he started talking in his sleep and calling
out other women's names. And one of the names he
called out was pretty yellow booty. That's not her. He
doesn't call her that. She's still listening for her name.
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The next night, she waited until he went to sleep
he called another woman's name. When she finally asked him
about it, he said, these are women that are in
porn movies, and she said women in peign don't have names,
so they have a problem here. She wants to know
is he cheating? Could he be a cheater? Is it
normal to watch pooring like that? Or should she just
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pop up at his job at the hospital and see
what he's up to? Junior, it's the wrong title for
this letter. Shirt What should it be? Junior? Name this David?
This letter should have been a lot of because there's
a lot of it. CITM just gonna go with a
lot of I mean, it's a it's a lot of
listening going on in this letter. Huh. It's a lot
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of watching going on in this letter. It's a lot
of guessing going on in this letter. It's a lot
of aggression, a lot of speed, a lot of passing
out in this letter. It's a lot of talking. I
don't even know why is he talked? I does this
sound when you lay it up there? He just in
the bed, going ahead, Kelsey, phoebe that Sam Yeah, pretty
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yellow booty, Patrese gonna rug that stomach, just up here
just talking the whole time. He just saying everything, La
La La ly sleeping just in just having him a
good time, sleep La yeah, I mean, why in the
world do you think he's not doing it? He telling you,
I'm telling no. One ruled me and no with the relationship. Hey,
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don't say nobody's name but choice. That's that's the rule.
Don't say nobody else's I don't care, period. Why would
you think he's not He's a captain at the hospital.
It ain't a lot of happening for captains now. Maybe
doctors and nurses. Yeah, but captain's got a lot of
free time. Yes, they're moving round on the third floor.
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Way you meeting these names at didn he get home
with you? He he don't even care. He just up
there just sleeping, you know. He said he said he
was he was a little heavy fat, But you said,
you say fat. You know he snow surely Carla McClay
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by three thirty. He just that's all he's doing. Of
course he has these women. What else is he doing? Yeah,
I mean, and didn't come on now, I mean, I
don't even care. The polling thing ain't even important to me. Definitely.
It's the name calling that he got trouble with. That man.
He don't even take no earbuds and put him in
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your ears. You get you listen because he just talking. Yeah,
it's man, I don't even know what to tell you
about this other than fact is he cheating? Absolutely? Yeah? Absolutely?
Do you think do you think they patience at the hospital?
Do you think that's who it is? Who are you
propping all up in the room, just in there, just
in there, just just visiting, just he going to just visiting. Hey,
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how you doing this evening? And I saw you coming in? Uh? Yeah?
How that abdominant pain doing even get work some of
the abdominant pain? Now he probably is time in the hill.
Sprain ankle okay, gets on me captain up here. You know,
I'm a captain. I get ro I give, I get
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free food. That capteria I got strikes ye strips. I
don't know what you know what, I didn't think that
when you went to sleep and you talked in your sleep,
that you told it, you said anything of any significance,
Like you know, you've don't telling yourself. You just talk
about stuff, you know, Well, Shirley, Shirley talks in her sleep.
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I've been around surely when she fall asleep and she's talking,
it's so annoying. It's like she didn't you over there
talking about having a fall blown conversation, but not this though.
You know my stuff. It's crazy. That's what everybody tells me.
You don't usually do on your stuff when you talk
in your sleep. My wife would one time. Oh sorry,
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my much over sharing. Yea, my wife was sleep one
time and just giggling and laughing and chucking. I woke up.
I say, who the hell are you laughing and laugh
and sleep just laughing at about I woke up, I say,
who you laughing at? Jack? And I want to know
who it is? Who is it? What? What's going on?
I said, you laughing at somebody, and I know it's
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a man. Yeah, he had that with the patient Tommy.
He just d the house to just sleep up there
at the house, just talking to you you. Gonna put your
oxygen on me. Keep you got down open in the back. Yeah, yeah, listen.
He just up there and sleepy. Show me your heads
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raise come on, but he show me x rays hit
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