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June 7, 2024 16 mins

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seven years and I need advice because my husband is being inappropriate with the girl that keeps our kids. I was at the hair salon and a girl that goes to church with me asked if I had the same babysitter that used to come to church with me. I told her yes, and she asked if I had seen the pictures from the babysitter's trip to Destin. I am not on TikTok, so she showed me the babysitters videos. I've only seen her as a twenty four year old, sweet, introverted girl that loves my two kids. On the video, she was taking shots of alcohol and twerking on her girlfriends and throwing her middle fingers up............................................

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:20):
All right, ladies, Gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter with
my good friend Shirley Strawberry.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Thank you, my good friend junior. Subject why would my
husband pay for her vacation?

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Here?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
Stephen, Shirley, I've been married for seven years and I
need advice because my husband is being inappropriate with the
girl that keeps our kids. I was at the hair
salon and a girl that goes to church with me
asked if I had the same babysitter that used to
come to church with me. I told her yes, and
she asked if I had seen the pictures from the
babysitter's trip to Destin. I am not on TikTok, so

(00:51):
she showed me the babysitters videos. I've only seen her
as a twenty four year old, sweet, introverted girl that
loves my two kids. On the video, she was taking
shots of alcohol and twerking on her girlfriends and throwing
her middle fingers up.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
In the air.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
The caption was kept with a money bag emoji and
the one hundred percent emoji. And in the other video,
she was walking on the beach talking to her girls
and she was bragging about how lucky she is.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
To be with daddy. Daddy.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
She said, I take care of daddy kids and Daddy
take care of me. I screen recorded the video and
I went home and decided to lie to my husband.
My intuition told me that the babysitter was talking about
him when she said Deity. I told him that I
already talked to the babysitter and she confessed. My husband said,

(01:48):
first off, I should have told you. I don't exactly
remember what Elsie said. I do recall him saying that
he gave her money for the trip to show her
that we appreciate her. There's no way that he's the
daddy that she's referring to. He told me that it
does not always have to be sexual. When a man

(02:08):
does something nice for a woman, is.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
He for real?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Why else would he pay for her vacation. If he's
not her deity, then who is. If he's not her Didy,
then who is? Should I believe what he said or not?

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (02:22):
I know you want to believe him because he's your
husband and she's so sweet in everything and introverted and
all that.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
But no, you shouldn't.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Believe his lies. You gotta trust your intuition. Here, Sis,
she was definitely talking about your husband, because you're right.
Who else could she be talking about but your husband
or Deity as she calls him. She said he takes
care She takes care of the kids, and Daddy takes
care of her. And he admitted that he should have
told you he gave her the money for the trip.

(02:52):
He didn't need to pay for the trip to show
he appreciates her. She already gets a salary, right, and
you know you treat her nicely in everything. I wish
you could remember what else he said. You probably blacked
out after he told you he paid for the trip.
But it doesn't matter anyway, because he's busted, okay, and
you need to fire her and get another babysitter today, Steve.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
Oh God, heavenly father, I come before you, heavy hearty
I try to save marriages all over the world. I
try to provide me in with cover. I try to
be understanding of the other side. I try to recognize

(03:40):
and implement things that will keep relationships on track.

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Unlike my co host, who was a direct opposite of me.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Whatever this letter right here, watch my husband pay for
her vacation.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
I can tell you right now, I'm not going to
able to help the dog.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
I want to apologize to you before I give my response.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
I want to say I'm sorry to you.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
It's been really If you've ever been a fan of mine,
I know you won't be after this, but I appreciate
all of love for the years of support, watching me
buying tickets and see me.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
Thank your dog.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
What does that have to do with I don't know
how old.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
You are, but I might have to thank your parents
for coming to see me back in ninety seven.

Speaker 4 (04:28):
Appreciate your dog.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
No, I ain't gonna be able to help you. No,
nothing I can say in this letter is gonna save
this one. There's no redeeming qualities. I can't fix none
of this. You've been married for seven years. You say
your husband is being inappropriate with the girl that keeps

(04:52):
our kids.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
See. This started at the hand salon.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
And the girl that goes to church with me asked
me if you had the same babysity that used to
come to church with you.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
You told her yes.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
She asked if I had seen the pictures from the
babysitter trip to Destin. I ain't on TikTok, so she
sold me the babysitter video. Now she only saw this
twenty four year old, sweet, introverted girl that loves her
two kids.

Speaker 4 (05:20):
But on the video.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
On the video, the twenty four year old was taking shots.
On the video, the twenty four year old was twirking
on her girlfriends. On the video, the girl was throwing
up the middle fang of and then the caption said

(05:44):
was kept with a money bag emojacy emoji and the
one emoji. On the other video, she was walking on
the beach talking to the girls and was bragging how
lucky she is with Daddy.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
She said, I take care of daddy kids and Daddy
take care of me. Law Lord, Lord, lawd.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
The word incriminating, It is all I can come up
with in a quarter. Law. This is substantial enough evidence
to get a warrant to come in your house. I'm
telling you right now, doog, I've been in trouble with
the law. You in trouble with this one right here.
We'll be right back with more of my response.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Aha. I'm ll try to help this brother, but it
ain't no way in the hell.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
He's gotta go. He's going down.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
We'll have part two of your response, Steve coming up
at twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject why
would my husband pay for her vacation? We'll get back
into it right after this. You're listening morning show, All right, Steve,
come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject why
would my husband pay for her vacation?

Speaker 4 (07:02):
Wants to be in very quickly.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
I won't take as much time as I did earlier,
but I want to apologize to the brother in this letter.

Speaker 4 (07:11):
I'm not gonna be able to help you. Dog, I'm
just not it's too much.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
The word I used before we went on break was
it's too much incriminating. It's just incriminating.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
I've been on Watch enough forty eight hours to know
your ask.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
Murder. Yeah, I already know, Dog. This one's gonna call
you pilp. There's no way I can get out. They
have a babysitter that they that this married couple has
and the lady that does her hat. The salon ask
her if she saw this video of the girl on
her trip to DestinE, Florida. She said, no, cashene on TikTok.

(07:52):
So the hairdresser showed her the video. The twenty four
year old girl that she knows as an introverted, wonderful
girl who loves their kids, was on the video.

Speaker 4 (08:01):
Twerking on her girlfriends.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
Taking shots of alcohol, throwing up the middle finger.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
That was bad, but it got worse.

Speaker 2 (08:10):
She was under the caption that said kept with the
money bag, emoji and emoji on the other video. The
title of this letter is why would my husband pay
for her vacation?

Speaker 4 (08:24):
This is what's so wrong.

Speaker 2 (08:26):
Right here, she was walking on the beach talking to
a girl's bragging about how lucky she is to be
with daddy, and she said, I take care of daddy
kids and Daddy take care of me.

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Oh lord, lord lord.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
The incrimination of this video, the body on this girl,
the twerking, all this is bad.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
Your only out right here.

Speaker 2 (08:56):
Is in this line. Right here, the incriminating line has
a loophole in it. Oh, I take care of daddy kids,
and Daddy take care of me, which is why he
paid for the vacation, because she take care of the kid.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
That won't last.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
No damn time that out I just gave you as
just temporary. It'll cause a moment of pause. But after
she paused, she gonna blast your ass. We in so
much trouble in this Damn let a dog, I screamed, Yeah,
we me and dog, Me and dog.

Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm trying to be a friendship and it's me and dog.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
In trouble, man, Because when my friends is in trouble,
I feel as though I've been it with her.

Speaker 4 (09:44):
Me and dog in.

Speaker 2 (09:45):
Trouble here, I screamed, recorded the video, went home and
decided to lie in my husband. My intuition told me
that the babysitter was talking about him when she said daddy.
I told him that all ready to talk to the babysitter,
and she confessed, Wow, girl, let me take my hat

(10:09):
off to youth. That is slicker and puppy sugar honey
ice tea on the kitchen linoleum flow. That's some gangster message.

Speaker 4 (10:21):
Came up with there.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Oh, that's that's puppy sugar honey ice teaster, because puppy
sugar honey ice tea.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
Ain't really that developed yet. It's a little look. So
you slide in it on her, you damn to kill.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yourself, Okay.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
And then your husband, after you faked him with the
gangster move, said, first off, I should have told you
now I thought the food was finny. Confess to the affair,
but he said, I don't exactly remember what else he said.
I do recall him saying that he gave her money
for the trip to show her we appreciate her. But

(11:01):
that's no way. But there's no way that he's the
daddy that she's referring to. Well, the only other out
you got dogs if you can prove that she babysits
for somebody else. But the problem with that is if
you can prove that she babysits for somebody else, that

(11:23):
don't let you off the hook because your dumb ass
doesn't admit it for paying out.

Speaker 4 (11:28):
So all this that I'm giving you.

Speaker 2 (11:30):
Is temporary, just to get you a breather in the
discussion where you can catch your breath, because right now
you can be breathed. She is no aim it's nothing
I can do for you. He told me that it
does not always have to be sexual when a man
does something nice for a woman.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
That right, there is a lot.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
You.

Speaker 4 (11:54):
I got to be honest with you about that. That's
a damn man that brought you a vacation here? What
paid your card? What right sitting up in here helping
you with your wrisk?

Speaker 2 (12:10):
But sit up here and paid for your babysitter for what?

Speaker 4 (12:17):
Set up here? In loans you two thousand dollars for what?

Speaker 3 (12:21):
Why?

Speaker 2 (12:24):
No way in here? I couldn't believe what you read
that letter. I couldn't believe he said that. He should
have never said that. What it's it does not always
have to be sexual when a woman, when a man
does something for a woman.

Speaker 4 (12:38):
Boy, that ain't the lie you tell. That's in the
rule book. That is a Listen to me.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
It is the reason we go to college is to
have sex with women. It's the reason we have a
job so we can have sex with women.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
This week. We go to work every day. This is
what our check is for, so we have sex with
a woman. It is the reason we pay so we else.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
We bought nice watching Strawberry.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
I want Strawberry Letters podcast.

Speaker 4 (13:11):
I don't even know what lie free.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
iHeart radio READR.

Speaker 3 (13:20):
You're listening.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Morning show?

Speaker 3 (13:23):
All right, Junior? You ready, yes, sure do on Sports
Today because this is too important. The line this man
said in the letter.

Speaker 4 (13:31):
Junior, I'm glad you bought that up.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
Yeah, that's in the Strawberry Letter, which was entitled why
would my husband pay for her? This dude paid for
this twenty four year olds vacation tostin Florida.

Speaker 4 (13:44):
Then the video on TikTok, the babysitter.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
Was on that twerk and throwing the middle finger up,
got talking about you know, and she just never knows
this girl? Is that just a loving, sweet girl that
love the kids. And then the caption said, h she
take care of daddy kids and daddy take.

Speaker 3 (14:03):
Care take care of me.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
Well, somebody down at the beauty shop showed it to
the other. She walked in and confronted her husband. Her
husband said this line right here. He told his wife
that it does not always have to be sexual when
a man does something nice for a woman, and that
mad as hell, that.

Speaker 4 (14:27):
Is not the lie. Go with that.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Ain't a lie, dog you tell a lie to the
mother way It is the core of who we are
as me, and this is the core of us. It
does not always have to be sexual. When a man
does something nice for a woman will do for sex, everything.

Speaker 4 (14:51):
Everything.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
If I help you put your groceries in the car,
it's so we can have sex.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
Yeah, So men aren't just naturally nice like women. What nice? Yeah,
it's just what kind people we date.

Speaker 4 (15:06):
And I'm over your card though, what you think I'm
over your card.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
Though, so I can get in because you can, Yes.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
You're right, but so you can think he is such
a gentleman, right, uh huh, yes, And don't you want
to sleep with a gentleman?

Speaker 4 (15:22):
That damn dope.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
All this strategic for you, all your moves.

Speaker 4 (15:28):
Hey, listen to that period.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
Fine girl standing in line, listen hear Zaxby. We never
talked about zach Okay, and she up there and you say, excuse,
let me pay for your chicken a.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
Woman you don't even know. Yeah, sure she fine. You
never met before?

Speaker 2 (15:47):
You know why we Yeah, ain't never met her. Just
seeing it, you know why we bought her that chicken.
We want to pay for that chick so we can
sleep with it.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
That's it.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Yeah, that's your I don't I don't know why y'all
talking like this.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
I don't know why you're talking like that. Everything, Steve. Everything.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
If I drop something on the floor and you pick
it up, that's because you want to.

Speaker 4 (16:14):
Yes, if I pick it up, I'm being this gentleman.

Speaker 2 (16:17):
Yeah, and then I want to hand it to you
because I want you to hand me.

Speaker 4 (16:21):
So coming up at.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
The top of the hour, a fifty year old man
needs your advice about sex.

Speaker 4 (16:27):
Steve.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
We'll get into that right now.

Speaker 4 (16:28):
All why is he calling?

Speaker 3 (16:32):
What?

Speaker 4 (16:32):
Right?

Speaker 2 (16:32):
Then?

Speaker 4 (16:33):
That question right there, you're listening morning show
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