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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all bay.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
At all at all, So.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
Don't given the.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
Black bush.

Speaker 5 (00:23):
Yeah listening to Joy Yeah?

Speaker 4 (00:50):
Joy? Have you.

Speaker 6 (01:01):
Turn you gotta turn.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
To turn the mouth turn you probably got to turn
the mouth, turn out, turn al the money.

Speaker 7 (01:55):
Come come out.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
Your bak uh huh.

Speaker 8 (02:02):
I sure will him. Good morning everybody. You are listening
to the voice, come on dig me now. One and
only Steve Harvey got a radio show man, Oh man,
oh man? How many times I got to say that
before I get tired of it. I think it's gonna
be a minute, folks. I gotta be real with you,

(02:23):
because boy, that's Steve Harvey, got a radio show man.
Clear indication of how God can do some unexpected, wonderful
things for you, how he leads your life in directions
that you never ever saw coming. You know, I was
talking with somebody the other day and they were talking
about how man, they were young and they were doing things,

(02:46):
and they never knew that the things that they were
doing as a youngster would come and help help form
who they were today as an adult. This guy is
fifty years old, and you know, the same thing for you.
If you look back on your life and all of
the things that you've done, it helped shape you into

(03:06):
who you are now. This is provided now that you
take the positive approach. Now, when I say look back
at your life and see what you've done, that doesn't
mean dwell on the misfortunate moments, because the misfortunate moments
were necessary. I know it's hard to see that when
it's happening to you, but the unfortunate moments are necessary.

(03:29):
You know, what really makes you appreciate summer vacation is
winter work. What really makes you appreciate a walk on
the beach is when it's cold, is raining outside. What
really makes you appreciate when you're up, it's because you've
been down. See if you were up all the time,

(03:50):
just the nature of us as human beings, we would
lose our appreciation for it because it becomes case hurrah,
whatever it is, Well, it is, what it is, is
what what you take it for granted, it becomes expected.
But what happens in life s is it has so
many twisting turns, and then you learn how to deal
with those twisting turns, which makes you now a more

(04:12):
experienced person. And then when the sunny days come, man,
you go, wow, it's really nice outside. You really want
to appreciate how warm weather. Just stay in a bunch
of cold weather all the time.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (04:24):
I'm just this is really simple and now a lot
of analogies, but it helps you along the way. Now
here's what I came to say today to everybody out there.
And this has helped me in my life. I can't
tell you what it's done for me, But a lot
of people are struggling with moving forward with their future,

(04:46):
their future plans, their future goals, their future aspirations, their
future hopes, their future dreams, just simply your future wants.
A lot of people trying to have a a hard
time mapping out their future. Even what I'm gonna do,
what I'm gonna be, what I'm gonna make, how I'm

(05:07):
or go about it?

Speaker 2 (05:09):
What do I do next?

Speaker 8 (05:10):
I want to share something with you that I had
to come to terms with the quickest way to lose
focus on your future is to keep focusing on your past.
You know, It's like I said at the beginning. You
know when I say it's wonderful to look at your
life and review it because if you look at it,
it'll tell you it really helped shape inform you today

(05:34):
as the person you are now.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
If you look at it in a positive sense.

Speaker 8 (05:39):
But if you dwell in harp on the negative that's
happened to you, then that keeps you from seeing the
good in the incident, every bad thing that's happened to you,
that was a silver lining behind it. I know people
who were on drugs who finally, man just got sent
to prison for stealing because of their habit. I know

(05:59):
Cat's soul dope. Well, he went to prison. He told
me one time, he says Steve. He said, man, this
is the best thing ever happened to me to save
my life. Now, most people would think, how in the
world is going to prison helpful for you? The brother said,
it saved my life. First of all, it got me clean.

(06:19):
He said, I've been clean for five years from sitting
in here. That's for starters. I'm clean. I ain't stealing
no more. I ain't putting myself in jeopardy, and I
ain't jeopardizing nobody else.

Speaker 2 (06:30):
He said.

Speaker 8 (06:30):
Now, man, I done went to college. I done got
a college degree while I'm in here. Then he was
released from prison, and the brother's life was completely turned around.
He married, he got a family, he got a great job.
He go to work every day. He's a productive citizen.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
I mean.

Speaker 8 (06:49):
So he looks back on his incarceration, even his drug abuse,
and it taught him how to appreciate the things in
life that he had taken for it and was missing
because he said, man, my life was just in a blur.
I didn't even know what was going on. He said,
Now I appreciate every day I wake up. That's what

(07:09):
I mean. Even in your missteps in life, there is
a purpose for the missteps. Every time you fail, there
was a reason for the failure. See what I had
to do was I had to learn that all of
my failures taught me how to get back up. So
I became a very strong and tough person in getting

(07:30):
back up. And then I was down and now so
long that it taught me how to really appreciate that up.
And so I've taken all of that and used it
those experiences that happened to me, and I became a
more experienced person. So next time when people talk about
me who don't know me, it don't shake me. Cause

(07:52):
everybody not gonna like you. Man, you might as well
go and get on this train right now. And so
what I'm saying to you out there is the quicker
way to lose focus on your future is to keep
focusing on your past.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
Let it go. Yeah yeah, yeah, he left.

Speaker 8 (08:07):
Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. I know it's hard
to break up because now you're loaning you by yourself.
But man, but wasn't you in misery when you was
in that? Weren't you in complete misery in that? Now
you kept asking God to fix it. But it takes
two people to fix a relationship. It don't just take one.
It take two to make a thing go right. It

(08:30):
take two to make it out of sight. You really
do have to have two people wanting a relationship to work.
It can't just be one person won a relationship. So
you can pray about the relationship all you want. If
the other person don't want you no more, it ain't
gonna act right. You can't make him do that or
you can't make her do that. But you steady asking

(08:51):
God for a new relationship. But you are yet to
be grateful that you are in a position to have
a relationship. And you keep harping on the past. You
don't think you hear that. I'm just a dude with
a show and I hear it all the time.

Speaker 2 (09:06):
Let it go, go forward. It's over. You made it,
He bought you through it, you conquered, you survived it.

Speaker 8 (09:16):
Why are you dwelling on it and making it the
cross around your neck when clearly he had removed it
for you.

Speaker 2 (09:24):
Now, all you got to do is come on.

Speaker 8 (09:26):
So if you sit behind them walls, brothers and sisters,
I'm talking directly to you sometimes.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Man, you just got to get it right. All this
repeat of fender business, that's for? Who is that for?

Speaker 8 (09:38):
How ignorant can you be to keep giving your life
back to the penal system? Be free, man, walk the streets,
do the right thing. Ask God to help connect you.
He could do anything. You think he can't give you
a job. Are you serious?

Speaker 7 (09:52):
Man?

Speaker 2 (09:52):
Put some faith on it. Let's move forward, y'all. Let
it go.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Let's move you're listening.

Speaker 8 (09:58):
Show, ladies and gentlemen. Let me have your attention. I
don't really need it. I mean you gave it to
me when you joined us. First of all, this morning,
I want to say thanks to all of the loyal
listeners out there that have been with the Steve Harvey
Morning Show for years.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
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we just want you to know.

Speaker 8 (10:21):
We appreciate you. We appreciate your emails. We premiated, but
we appreciate your voice messages. Can't play them all, but
we appreciate it. We hear them all, just can't get
them all on the show of some of them is long,
and then some of y'all we just don't want.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
To out shit.

Speaker 8 (10:39):
You know, if you don't speak well, we just don't
want to put your own because you know, we don't
want to have to explain it. And then you left
your name and we.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
Go well, and ain't gonna go good. They probably gonna
get fired, and you know, we have to go through that.

Speaker 8 (10:52):
So it's kind of like an answer to calls but
also provide counseling and therapy at the same time.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
Yes, ma'am caller.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
Also, when y'all call, turn your radio and TV down
in the background.

Speaker 8 (11:05):
You can't hear y'all. We can't put all this over
here and talk to just us. Yes, please, let's stop
all this other conversation. You know, Steve and Shirley and
call in Mississippi and Junior coming.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
I just wanted to say, thank y'all, turn the greens
down that be on the app.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
We can't This started eight so beautifully when you were
thinking the audience and everything.

Speaker 8 (11:32):
I am, but I'm telling them why they all can't
make it on the app. Y'all won't play mine?

Speaker 2 (11:37):
This is why? What else they be saying in the background?

Speaker 1 (11:40):
What else there?

Speaker 8 (11:42):
And you know, as I listened to this show, every y'all,
I just want to appreciate everything. Tell what you' I'm
coming and so there are a lot of times things Hello,
are they still on you? Cause they still on here? Anyway,
Thank y'all for calling. This is the Steve Harby Morning Show.
Chirty Strawberry calling for real of Mississippi, Monica, Junior or

(12:06):
we don't know where time he is?

Speaker 2 (12:07):
And why Junior? Anything on your mind today, Jim.

Speaker 3 (12:12):
So my mind is ware telling here.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
We're not concerned nothing. He's celebrated on his birthday already.

Speaker 8 (12:22):
No, I'm not concerned at all. I've been with him
is in tire life. He dropped off like this and
then watch when he comes back. It ain't gonna be nothing.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Attitude.

Speaker 8 (12:36):
It ain't gonna be nothing that we want to hear
excuses bill monuments of nothingness that lead to bridges of nowhere.
I don't know whoy and and and people only give
the excuses only good for the person providing.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
I don't do excuses. I don't give nobody none. I
come here all the time. Yes, you hear it, yep,
what all.

Speaker 8 (13:01):
Other than the ladies, don't nobody miss? I'm pretty consistent
that surely a call it. They come to work, Yeah,
they come to work, Yes, we do. You know, because
of scheduling. Sometimes I ain't here, travel, I ain't.

Speaker 2 (13:17):
Here, but ain't nobody. Ain't nobody not knowing I ain't here?

Speaker 1 (13:24):
At least you let us know, right right, Thank you, nephew.
On the other hand, Junior.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
Will miss because he'll be sick or yeah, that's all
it is.

Speaker 9 (13:36):
All right, coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour,
Junior's in for the nephew right now to run that
prank back right after this you're listening.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
Morning show. Well, in case you haven't heard, the nephew
is not here.

Speaker 9 (13:48):
You know, he did celebrate his birthday over the weekend.
So having said that, Junior is in for the nephew this.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Morning to run that prank back?

Speaker 2 (13:57):
What you got to just found out? Wow?

Speaker 1 (14:01):
When Frank show you butt, that's it.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
That's all I had.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
Like he's showing his this morning. He's showing his butt
this morning.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Will hear you prank? Show you?

Speaker 7 (14:11):
But this Marker, Yeah, this Marcus was up.

Speaker 4 (14:14):
Hey man, do you know anything about a Lincoln being stolen?
A Lincoln being stolen?

Speaker 7 (14:20):
No, man, I don't know nothing about no Lincolns.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
Who is this man about a Lincoln getting stolen?

Speaker 7 (14:26):
Who is this man? I don't know nothing about Lincoln
being stolen? Man, how you getting my numvel?

Speaker 4 (14:31):
Man? Hey? Dog, hold slow down. First of all, I'm
trying to ask you. Somebody just stole my mama Lincoln. Man,
and I'm asking they say you know something about it,
or you was one of them that did, or do
you know anything about the Laker? Man?

Speaker 7 (14:42):
Man, I don't know nothing about Lincoln being stolen. Man, Man,
who are just come to my house with this here?

Speaker 4 (14:47):
Man?

Speaker 7 (14:47):
I don't know nothing about no Lincoln being stolen.

Speaker 4 (14:49):
Man, my name Craig Man. Somebody stole my mama Lincor
and they say you was one of the ones that
probably had did it.

Speaker 7 (14:56):
Hold who who who?

Speaker 4 (14:58):
Who is?

Speaker 10 (14:59):
Who is we?

Speaker 2 (15:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (15:00):
Nothbody, no Lincoln there, So let me tell you something. Man,
come to my house with you here by Lincoln.

Speaker 8 (15:05):
Man.

Speaker 7 (15:05):
Look, man, I'm on paper, man, I don't do no
like that. Still Lencoally, Man, you understand man, I don't
get out like that.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
Man.

Speaker 7 (15:12):
I don't know who told you that, man, or how
you got my number? Man, But I ain't sold your mama.

Speaker 4 (15:16):
Lincoln Man, Okay, hold up there. That then your mind
coming downtown, because what happened was the lady next door
saw who took it and the dude that they She
say the dude jumped the fence and toe his pants
in the back pocket got tore off and she saw
the dude. But so what we want you to do
it come down and get in the lineup and everybody

(15:36):
gonna show that. The lady say she know that, but
when she see it.

Speaker 7 (15:40):
Oh hell on, no, man, you want to be I
tell my mine think I'm gonna come downtown in the
front player Now, I'm not gonna come downtown to show
my well what I will do for you? I show
my on this on now you think you Mama Lincoln,
is that my hu You canna come get that?

Speaker 4 (15:58):
Say? Man, it's your button one that she saw come
over that fence. Man, That's all I want to know. Man,
Who is you? Man?

Speaker 5 (16:05):
Who is you?

Speaker 4 (16:06):
Man?

Speaker 7 (16:07):
Call to my house man and accusing me of killing
your mama's part man would have had?

Speaker 4 (16:12):
Is you man?

Speaker 7 (16:12):
Are you crazy or something?

Speaker 5 (16:14):
Man?

Speaker 4 (16:14):
Listen, man, I'm not trying to go back and forth
with you, dog. I'm just trying to get to the
bottom of who stole my mama. Car Dog, That's really
what I'm trying to do. You understand and Cord, what
are you talking about?

Speaker 11 (16:23):
Man?

Speaker 5 (16:24):
I ain't stole no man, that ain't going away.

Speaker 4 (16:27):
Ain't got no problem showing your butt to this lady. Man,
because the lady says she know this. But when she
said did you did you crawl over the fence and
tear your pants and the lady saw your butt? She
know it when she see it.

Speaker 7 (16:39):
Man, Look, many was checking man boy identified me by
looking at my damn.

Speaker 4 (16:45):
That's what she saw. Man.

Speaker 5 (16:47):
She saw that, but it wasn't the man.

Speaker 4 (16:50):
What mon?

Speaker 7 (16:50):
Now you got my name?

Speaker 4 (16:52):
No? No, no, you Marcus? Ain't you?

Speaker 5 (16:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (16:54):
I'm Marcam Okay.

Speaker 4 (16:56):
And don't quit acting like you ain't never been in
no trouble before. Man. They already say you be getting
in and out of trouble. So what I want to
know whether is you the one stole my mama Lincoln.

Speaker 7 (17:04):
Man, I'm to pay for what I've done. Man, you did,
but I ain't show your mama Lincoln.

Speaker 6 (17:08):
Man.

Speaker 4 (17:09):
Hey, man, let me sell you this right here.

Speaker 7 (17:11):
Not thee been locked up.

Speaker 4 (17:12):
Man. But I'll tell you what I go again.

Speaker 7 (17:14):
If you come down here trying to take my downtown
and to show my I'm not gonna have it. Man,
just because your mama car got stolen, I ain't had.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
Nothing to do with that.

Speaker 8 (17:22):
Man.

Speaker 4 (17:23):
Say, man, look, either you gonna come downtown Willingly, I'm
gonna come to your house and drag you out, man,
and bring you down there so this lady can see
your butt. Man, Like I say, you, she know the
butt when she's said there, it ain't your butt. You
ain't got nothing to worry about it. But you're gonna
have to come downtown and show us.

Speaker 7 (17:39):
Yo, Matt, Matt, who in the hell is you?

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Man?

Speaker 7 (17:44):
You ain't no law man, You ain't no detective, You
ain't no fire man. Man, Who in the hell is you?

Speaker 5 (17:49):
Man?

Speaker 4 (17:49):
Yeah, I'm the one time Kenny. I'm the person trying
to figure out who stole my mama. Lincoln. Man, that's
what I'm doing.

Speaker 7 (17:55):
Man, I'll tell you what you can. Come over here
to my house, man, and I'll show you my man.

Speaker 5 (17:59):
Cause this man, I ain't had nothing to do with this.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Man.

Speaker 7 (18:03):
You talk about bringing the laws to my house and
taking my down, taking my man? What kind of what
kind of this is?

Speaker 4 (18:09):
Man?

Speaker 7 (18:10):
Man, I'm telling you I don't have nothing to do
with your my caught being stolen man. But I ain't
coming downtown to show my man.

Speaker 4 (18:16):
That's after question. I ain't got no problem coming to
get it now that one place I ain't got no
problem doing.

Speaker 7 (18:22):
I ain't come on, get my come on, get my
den hey, man, ain't getting my hey.

Speaker 4 (18:26):
Man, I'm gonna say it one more time. Were coming
to your house, dragging you out and taking you downtown
if you don't want to go by yourself.

Speaker 5 (18:34):
Man, I ain't got to come with that man, because
I come bend down.

Speaker 7 (18:36):
Man, I'd have been down.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
Man.

Speaker 7 (18:38):
I done paid for my clients, man, I done paid
for my clients. But it ain't nobody going to come
get me from my house, talking about taking me downtown
and showing my If you want my you come to
my house. Man, you hear me, because I.

Speaker 5 (18:50):
Ain't fraid to go back down, man, and.

Speaker 7 (18:52):
I will go back down if you come over my
house with me about getting my scratt.

Speaker 4 (18:57):
Hey, man, I'm just saying we need to the lady.
Just need to see, man, to see if it's the
right one or not the right one. That's all you
gotta do is put it down just a little bit,
so seek and see it.

Speaker 5 (19:07):
Man.

Speaker 7 (19:07):
Man, Man, I'm not finna do that. Man.

Speaker 5 (19:10):
I don't even know who the hell you are.

Speaker 7 (19:11):
Man, How did you even.

Speaker 4 (19:12):
Get my information? Man? How do you get my number?

Speaker 7 (19:15):
Man? You need to get out my phone with this hell? Man,
this is man.

Speaker 4 (19:18):
Hey man, you know what, Man, I'm not finna go
back and forth with you no more. You're gonna have
to bring your butt down here to the station. I'm
coming down there and drag you out your house and
take I'm through talking about this now, you hear me.

Speaker 7 (19:28):
Look, look, man, come on, get me, man, you want
my man, Come on, get me man.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
You did hey man, let when you held it up.
I tell you what, man, I got one more thing
I need to say to you.

Speaker 7 (19:37):
You listening to me, I'm listening man.

Speaker 4 (19:39):
This is nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
You just got pranked by your boy.

Speaker 7 (19:46):
Aw hell no, man, Hello, man, y'all man, look man,
y'all have me thanking?

Speaker 4 (19:51):
Man, I'm finna go back to this tenteritantry.

Speaker 5 (19:53):
Man, Then you talking.

Speaker 4 (19:55):
About my man.

Speaker 7 (19:57):
I didn't show no in the penitentiary, and I ain't
gonna shit now now man.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Surely there you have it. Show you butt.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
This with the nephew left us with and he's showing
his butt right now.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
We don't know where he at. He's called and up
letting it happen, though he's so saying anything.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
He just happened.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
But sureley, you're talking about celebrating his birthday and this Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
I know I get this out.

Speaker 9 (20:27):
But we knew he wasn't coming yesterday, but he tricked us,
so he came here. I think today is his Monday.

Speaker 2 (20:35):
Oh is that the line?

Speaker 1 (20:37):
I think he.

Speaker 8 (20:39):
Realized he came in the hill delayed reaction, right, Okay,
see all right, thank you.

Speaker 9 (20:51):
Junior coming up next and is asked the clo chief
love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. You're listening Harvey
Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour.
In entertainment news, from denial to Admission? Did He's apology
video to Cassie Ventura is still trending.

Speaker 1 (21:09):
The nominees are out.

Speaker 9 (21:10):
For the twenty twenty four BET Awards, and fans are
urging Beyonce to say red Lobster what. We'll talk about
all of these stories at the top of the hour,
but right now it is time to ask the clo.

Speaker 1 (21:25):
This one's from Renee and Dearborn.

Speaker 9 (21:27):
Renee writes, I'm in a long distance relationship and I
went to visit my boyfriend. We visited a new church
and I ran into an ex boyfriend. We haven't seen
each other in years, so we chatted. My boyfriend got
mad at me. Why can't I be friendly with other men?

Speaker 10 (21:46):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (21:47):
Here we go, no question? Okay, Number one, he is
your ex for a reason.

Speaker 8 (22:01):
Now, the reason you can't be friendly with other men
is because other men don't want to be.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
Friends with you.

Speaker 8 (22:10):
They one, if he got something from you before, what
makes you think he wouldn't want it from you again?

Speaker 2 (22:19):
And your boyfriend know this? See Ladies I don't know.

Speaker 4 (22:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (22:24):
I don't know what part of the scale you want
to get stuck on. I don't know why you want
to just keep you keep trying to make us something
we not.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
We not your damn friend.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
Now.

Speaker 8 (22:37):
You can try to make us that all you want,
but we not. I am telling you right now, all
of you. This man, you got this calling your friend whispering?

Speaker 10 (22:50):
Is it?

Speaker 8 (22:50):
Do you want to do something else and watch what happened?
Your friendship be over with so damn fast, all right.
I don't know why y'all.

Speaker 2 (22:59):
Think and that and that old and that old every
now and then.

Speaker 8 (23:05):
That can happen, that anomaly, that that that's not the
really high go ninety nine percent of the men in
your life that are your you think your friends will
do you in a heartbeat. I don't know what's wrong
with y'all. Man, We're trying to ask us to be
something else that we not.

Speaker 2 (23:22):
We're not.

Speaker 8 (23:25):
Man, Give me six, Why can't I be friends with
other men? Because you got go ahead here.

Speaker 4 (23:34):
All right?

Speaker 9 (23:35):
Dejah in Fairfax says, my boyfriend want to huh talking
about what?

Speaker 2 (23:42):
Whatever?

Speaker 1 (23:43):
Hey, how you doing? I haven't seen you in a
long time. Whatever, just combo, Yeah, Okay, go ahead, it
happened all right.

Speaker 9 (23:54):
Dejah in Fairfax says, my boyfriend as an obsession with
my feet, but I can't stand his The bottom of
his feet are the same color as his legs, and
his toes are awful. He likes to put his feet
on me and it's gross. How can I break the
news to him that I hate his ugly feet?

Speaker 2 (24:17):
You girl had to go and you got to get
him some real cute ass fuddy.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
And cover them toes.

Speaker 8 (24:26):
Yeah, Or you got to give a throw. You got
to travel with a blanket or just a fish net.
You know, like if you throw a fish net, like
a colored fish net on top of his feet, it'll
look different like you have it been to a funeral
and they put that little or put that little veil
on the casket so you can't see detail. That's a

(24:49):
reason for that. You're gonna have to get that for
his feet. Little go to any funeral home. They'll sell
the tea. Just ask before a casket failed what and yeah,
and you go home and ask for a casket veil,
casket veil, and then when he pulled his socks off,

(25:11):
throw that veil over his foot light.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
It's airy.

Speaker 8 (25:14):
He won't even know it's only but you could look
down there without seeing detail.

Speaker 2 (25:19):
Yeah, that's what that is.

Speaker 9 (25:20):
That's that's your Okay, thank you, CLO. Solving problems as
we go. Okay, Malaney and Glendale says, my boss's wife
came to our office to have sex with him, and
everyone in the office could hear them. I mentioned it
to my boss and he accused me of spreading rumors
in the office because no one backed me up.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
How do I get past this with him?

Speaker 4 (25:43):
Wow?

Speaker 8 (25:45):
Well you do have hr department. It's easy to get past.
It is so easy to get past me.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
Yeah, go tail, it is so easy to get You're
looking at somebody to go down ashall all the time.
I'm just telling you.

Speaker 8 (26:08):
Went for stuff. I say on family few I got
times of damn. See mister h you're not allowed to
say that five times a season of twelve weeks. I'm
down there five.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
What I say is see you. We need to see
you dog way to take back, I said, what what
what's the matter with that? You're not allowed to say that.

Speaker 8 (26:34):
They was laughing, sir, We don't we understand the laughing
To protect you, You're not allowed to say that anymore.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
Yeah, okay, did you see the person I was talking to? Yes,
we did. He was in fat, Sir, you can't make it.

Speaker 8 (26:57):
Did But did you see who I was talking Tolls?

Speaker 2 (27:02):
They not fat. I'm just asking you a question, mister Harvey.
You can't say that.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
No, you cannot tell me on this show.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
Well I can't. Don't saying what why? Okay? I just did?
What did you listening to? Go ahead, sir?

Speaker 9 (27:21):
All right, last one now, this is the last one.
This is from Trent in Chapel Hill. Trent says, my
ex wife put put a nasty comment under my girlfriend's
Mother's Day post, saying she's the reason I'm a good man.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
Now.

Speaker 9 (27:35):
My girlfriend argued back and forth with my ex in
the comments. I asked my girlfriend to block my ex,
but she won't do. I reach out to my ex
wife to check her or let them keep fickering.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
Dom If you reach out to your ex.

Speaker 8 (27:52):
Wife's didn't get posted? Yes, yes it is, and it
ain't and it ain't gonna look right. It ain't gonna
look good though.

Speaker 2 (28:03):
It's just not going to look good.

Speaker 8 (28:07):
To tell you, well, see, you gotta let this go.
You just gotta let it go. You know, it ain't
that big a deal, and and and whoever. The reason
that you're a good man now key word in that
whole thing for you, is you a good man?

Speaker 2 (28:23):
Stay clear.

Speaker 8 (28:24):
Don't do nothing to diminish your reputation, because right now
your ex thank you a good man, and your current.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
Girlfriend, thank you a good man. Don't call your ex dog.
She gonna post it.

Speaker 8 (28:36):
Yeah, yeah, you know he reached out to me, don't you, man.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 8 (28:44):
Oh oh, she gonna post it and call her and
tell it with no details. Then your girl gonna call you.
Did you call her, y'all? I called her to tell
her to quick tripping with you? No, no, no, no,
what else did y'all talk about? Because she just told
me you called. It's a no win situation.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
Though, right it is. She won't block her because she
want to keep it going.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
All right, Clo, thank you.

Speaker 9 (29:12):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this.

Speaker 1 (29:17):
You're listening morning show. Well, from denial to admission.

Speaker 8 (29:25):
Well, well well, well you know, speaking of well he's
here now, so uh well, good morning, Thomas Miles or nephew,
Tommy or fool.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
I don't know what you're going with, but hello, hey,
well yeah, whichever one you want to do? Uh yeah,
uh yeah, yeah hey hey hey man, you know what
you know, I don't even want to go ahead.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
I want to hear it.

Speaker 2 (29:55):
No no, no, no, no, no, Donna go ahead. We
talked about another statement. Go here's here.

Speaker 8 (30:02):
Okay, all right, well let's go give them time to
suddenly and you know he got to get suddenly in
everything voices.

Speaker 9 (30:11):
You know, all right, all right, well, yeah, from denial
two admission, Didty is not laying low at all? The
other day, he was seen walking around his Miami neighborhood
smoking a cigar. After he released his apology video to
Cassie Ventura for his assault in violence that was caught

(30:34):
on the hotel video. We all saw that, he said,
in part, my behavior on that video was inexcusable. Did He,
who had previously denied all charges calling his behavior, called
his behavior fed up and said he had sought a.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Therapy following the incident.

Speaker 9 (30:50):
Meanwhile, in case you missed it, Cassie's lawyer released a
statement saying Combe's most recent statement is more about himself
than the many people he has hurt. When ass He
and multiple other women came forward, he denied everything and
suggested that his victims were looking for a payday. That
he was only compelled to apologize once his repeated denials

(31:11):
were proven false shows his pathetic desperation, and no one
will be swayed by his disingenuine ingenuous words. Disingenuous words.

Speaker 2 (31:22):
Wow, you know what, then, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (31:26):
Who's advising him, if he is listening to advice, if
anybody's trying to advise him.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
But that wasn't a good move.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
That was the video apology works. Yes, this was not
a good move.

Speaker 8 (31:44):
It just opened up a whole slew of bruh. You
got a long way to come back. You got a
long road, and the only way to do it is
with sincerity. You know, most folks, most famous people can't
go to rehab or check into therapy. And don't nobody

(32:07):
know it, most famous people that aren't afforded that luxury.
Somebody gonna see you in rehab, Somebody gonna see you
at therapy clinic, somebody gonna say it. So I just
think I don't, I don't know, I don't, I don't
know who advising the man, but that that that wasn't
a good play.

Speaker 9 (32:24):
That was Well, we're gonna switch gears here, and Carla
has music news about the twenty twenty four be Et Awards.

Speaker 3 (32:33):
Carla, all right, the nominations are out and Drake leads
the pack with six. Well, let me take that back,
seven nominations in seven categories, follow by so much for
this Drake, yup, Nicki Minaj, she has six nominations. J Cole, Sexy,

(32:56):
Red says A, Victoria Monette each have five nominations.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Twenty one Savage Beyond Say, Doja, Cat.

Speaker 3 (33:04):
Meghan, the Stallion, Tyler and Usher they all have four nominations.
So it starts studying. Performers include right now, I've been announced,
Lotto and Glowrilla. Many more to come. I'm sure the
BET Awards will take place at the Peacock Theater in
Los Angeles on June twenty fourth, fests Early be Et.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
Award a little more than a month away. All right,
thank you, Carlon.

Speaker 9 (33:30):
Moving on to this bit of information, Red Lobster seafood
lovers want Beyonce to get the Beehive information to save
Red Lobster from going under. Yeah, remember back in twenty
sixteen when beyoncey made the song you know the lyrics.

(33:51):
Some of the lyrics to formation were when you do
me good, I take him to Red Lobster. Well, Red
Lobster so big sales, a big sales boost during that
time when she shot at them out. So the spike
was so strong that Red Lobster's top bosses even made
social media remarks about changing the name of one of

(34:11):
their trademark dishes to cheddar B Biscuits.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
Now that Red Lobster is in deep.

Speaker 9 (34:18):
Enough trouble that it closed nearly one hundred locations this month,
fans want Beyonce to co sign again. The social media
comments include Beyonce do something because we need the biscuits
and endless shrimps back.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
That's funny.

Speaker 1 (34:37):
So they'll see. If we haven't heard anything from Beyonce yet,
but we'll see if she's interested.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
If she's gonna, you might have to question that endless shrimp.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
That's why they're going under.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
Shrimp. You can get all the shrimp you won't, Yeah,
get me shrimp from the ocean.

Speaker 4 (35:04):
Talking about.

Speaker 8 (35:06):
Endless yes, you know some people I know can come
in there. I know some people who went in there
and wiped out the endless.

Speaker 1 (35:15):
Part and one meal.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
Just in.

Speaker 8 (35:22):
Oldest and names banks, the twins. I went to college
with the oldest, the name of the banks. They had
that endlish shrip when they was going. I'm gonna tell
you that right now. They don't want to They don't.
They done went to home boffet and and they've been
asked to leave. I've seen them been asked to leave
to us. Hello, boy, Shirley, what is endless shrimp? It's

(35:47):
all it's endless.

Speaker 4 (35:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:48):
Yeah, but they'll go in there and put it.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
In to it, that's what you're saying. Yeah, all right.

Speaker 9 (35:56):
Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have
some highlights from President biden commencement speech at Morehouse College.

Speaker 1 (36:02):
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Hardy
Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
All right.

Speaker 9 (36:08):
So President Biden delivered the commencement address at Morehouse College
in Atlanta on Sunday. Morehouse valedictorian called for a ceasefire
in Gaza during his commencement speech and received applause from
both the audience and President Biden. The President also used
the opportunity to address black voters in particular, take a listen.

Speaker 12 (36:27):
Today in Georgia, they won't allow water to be available
to you while you wait in line to vote an election.

Speaker 2 (36:36):
What in the hell is that all about?

Speaker 12 (36:40):
Oh, I'm sure think about it. And then the constant
attacks on black election workers to count your vote. Insurrectionists,
the storm of Capitol with Confederate flags are called patriots
by Saul not at my house. Black police officers, black

(37:04):
veterans protecting the Capitol were called another.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
Word as you're recalled.

Speaker 12 (37:10):
They also say out loud, these other groups, immigrants poison
the blood of our country, like the Grand Wizard and
fascists said in the past. But you know what, I know,
we all bleed the same color in America.

Speaker 1 (37:28):
We're all created equally, well said President and powerful.

Speaker 8 (37:35):
Yeah, yeah, I'm with him, man, because the alternative is horrible.

Speaker 2 (37:40):
It's just horrible. Listen to me, voters. Look, you can
do what you want to do.

Speaker 8 (37:45):
I'm I'm just one person talking, but I just asked
you to just use a bit of common sense here.
You may be tired of both candidates. I've heard all
of this right here, but we're going to end up
with one of them.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
You better know that.

Speaker 8 (37:59):
Now you can be tied of vote, and you can
talk about I ain't voting for nobody.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Yes you will, Yes you will.

Speaker 8 (38:07):
If you voted before and you sit out this election,
whatever you voted for last time, you will be discounted
this time. You have got to use your better judgment.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
This is life. This ain't fair. We ain't talking about
what's fair.

Speaker 8 (38:25):
Fast where they is where they give out ribbons for
best pie and fattest pig and who got the largest
punkin That ain't what this is. This is life, man.
You have to do a series of things that you
don't want to do in order to get what you
want to have in life. You just got to do
some things that's uncomfortable to do. And voting in this election,

(38:46):
no matter how uncomfortable it is, we have to get
it done because one of these candidates, Trump or Biden,
will be president.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
You get to decide now. Damn it.

Speaker 8 (38:57):
If you think for one month that Donald Trump is
gonna make your life better, show me one instance where
he did quick talking to me about jobs for blacks
were better. When he was president, he inherited Obama's administration.
He inherited that number, and as he proceeded to be president,

(39:18):
it failed Biden and Harris at least party fact man.
Y'all come on then, let's stop this foolishness.

Speaker 9 (39:26):
Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, We're
gonna check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve.
Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It
is time now to check your voicemail Steve eight seven
seven twenty nine, Steve. You can call us if you
want to leave a message for Steve. You might just
hear your call on the air.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Let's go. This is a belated birthday shout out to
nephew Tommy.

Speaker 7 (39:50):
Good morning, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 11 (39:52):
This is for Tommy.

Speaker 10 (39:53):
Happy birthday, Tommy, and you are safety Tommy. I don't
care what Steve and nobody else say. Happy birthday and
business manning again sometimes still out them Happy birthday. Timing
with your sexy sire and I can't wait for ready
to love.

Speaker 4 (40:07):
Talk to you later.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Yeah, I am sexy though this heck you trying to
tell you minute? I don't know you know?

Speaker 8 (40:17):
She is done, Cordy Minnie for Cody out of Hunsbill Alabella, No,
she is done. Once a person person is a is
a certain age and they say you're sexy, it don't
even count.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
Okay, So what age do they need to be to
say that I'm sexy? And you will at.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
Any camera on it?

Speaker 2 (40:43):
Can anybody in their thirties calling let me know if
I'm sexy?

Speaker 8 (40:48):
Anybody anybody in their thirties got to be dead call in.
Here's a couple of stipulations. If you're in your twenties
and thirties and you think Tommy is sexy, only call
if somebody has told you you were sex.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
If you heard them? Got here?

Speaker 1 (41:08):
What's the rule here?

Speaker 2 (41:09):
What is the thirties? Did they say I'm sexy?

Speaker 4 (41:11):
Will you will?

Speaker 2 (41:12):
Will you agree that I'm sexy? That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (41:15):
If someone told them they're soe told, don't forget that part.

Speaker 3 (41:18):
That's that's eight seven nine, Steve, moving up, that's very important,
all right, don't crush him too much, Steve.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
You just got here, you know that?

Speaker 2 (41:31):
All right?

Speaker 9 (41:32):
All right, Steve, here's another call from a lady who
left a message about Trump.

Speaker 13 (41:37):
Steve, I just wanted to say kudos for everything that
you say about Donald Trump, the democracy, the brainwashing, how
people are listening to that bull I agree, and it's
very scary.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Don't stop talking.

Speaker 13 (41:53):
You made a valid point, and hopefully sooner or later
people will listen before this election comes up. Sank you
very much.

Speaker 8 (42:02):
I'm overdone with how we are as a country. I'm
just I'm I'm I'm beyond. It's such a lack of
understanding that I have for this. But it's a clear
understanding too.

Speaker 1 (42:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
I just can't believe that people will allow this.

Speaker 8 (42:22):
You cannot be a smart person or a person who
just has any analytical thinking skills and think for one moment.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
That this guy is for you.

Speaker 8 (42:35):
Y'all listen to what he's saying, and then watch what
he does. I mean, it's you think you're voting for
a narcissist that doesn't. He don't care nothing about that constitution.
Y'all Quit talking to me about that. He don't care
nothing about the Only thing he cares about is what
benefits him. The insurrection he thought would benefit him. The

(42:58):
claiming the election was stolen was to benefit him. The
rerunning for president again is so because he knows that
a sitting president cannot be indicted. He's trying to slow
down some of these charges because they in his draws
with this man, and if he's not president, he gonna
have to answer for this. That's why he wants to

(43:20):
be president again. He didn't even think he was gonna
win the original election. That startled him, and that was
the worst thing y'all could have done for him was
to let him beat Hillary Clifton.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
That was the worst thing.

Speaker 8 (43:33):
And then after he showed you who he was, you
decided you liked who he was, which is because you're
okay with who he was, because.

Speaker 2 (43:42):
That's how you are. Now that's a sad indictment.

Speaker 8 (43:46):
But I don't know how you vote for this man
and tell your children and grandchildren this is the type
of man you can aspire to be.

Speaker 10 (43:53):
I just, I just, I just.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
I just find that so hard to believe. I find
that so hard to believe. Are you that pig headed
to want your party to win that you will do
it at the.

Speaker 8 (44:04):
Cost of democracy and the country, and you will lay
aside all your moral values for him?

Speaker 9 (44:11):
All right, Well, thanks for no more. He is coming
up next. It is the nephew with today's prank phone call.
Right after this, you're listening.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (44:23):
Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
four minutes after it is my strawberry letter for today,
and the subject is he's not used to the real thing.
All right, we'll get into that and find out what
that's all about in just a few wait till you
hear this one. But right now he is here, the nephew,
fresh off of still celebrating his birthday with today's prank

(44:45):
phone call.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
Nephew, what you got I'm celebrating to the end of May,
just to let.

Speaker 4 (44:50):
You all know.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
So, hey, hey man, you too are for this going
to the end of May.

Speaker 8 (44:57):
Don what you fifty seven year old? You don't you
don't do that, nobody. You ain't gonna say it to raid.
Don't say you got a family and stuff to raise.
You ain't got time, no damn birthday.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
To the end of May. The day in and get
it over with. Hope you get to the next That's
what you need to be doing right now. Wow, he
needs to get to be fifty eight coming in late
to work. Ain't got no reason to be late, fifty
not to have a reason. I was celebrating, what I mean,
But hommy, you was here yesterday for Timmy? What did

(45:33):
you have a lapse? Indre? What you forget. I'm mixing it.
I'm mixing it.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
He tried to trick us logic.

Speaker 2 (45:44):
That just all right? All right, this right here is
uber hearse? What did I just say? Called it uber purse?

Speaker 1 (45:53):
Okay, w birthday celebrate.

Speaker 2 (46:00):
Man, I don't think you uh, thank you.

Speaker 14 (46:05):
I am not gonna argue with you. Thank you, and
I'm going to celebrate tomorrow. I'm going to celebrate some more. Hey,
Hoover hurts, let's go.

Speaker 4 (46:12):
Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reshawan please yeah, this means up,
Hey son, how you doing this? My name is Brian.
I got you on schedule. You you ordered an uber
for tomorrow morning. I think you're okay? Are you? Are
you schedul to go to the airport? Correct?

Speaker 11 (46:30):
Absolutely?

Speaker 12 (46:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (46:32):
Okay, all right, and I want to make sure you
you wanted an suv. Yeah, I wanted the suv okay,
And that's ninety two eleven West. What is that, Holman?
Ninety eleven? That's correct? Okay, all right, all right, So

(46:53):
I'll be outside tomorrow morning. You were talking about seven
seven am pickup? Correct, that's it, you got it. Everything's
on point, okay, all right, so listen, I want to
let you know this man, you ordered the suv. I'll
be there tomorrow. I'll be there probably a little bit
before seven am. You know when you guys order uber

(47:13):
way in advance, you know, we try to get there
almost like a car service and make sure we get
you where you got to go. And I know the
traffic is gonna be a little crazy, so you know
I'll be there on time. I'll be downstairs waiting on you.

Speaker 11 (47:24):
All right, I'd appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (47:27):
Now. Listen, I'm an suv, but it's a kind of
a little different. So that's why I kind of the
reason for a call. I wanted to kind of give
your heads up that I am an suv. So I
just want you to look for the black Hurst that
will be outside Hurts. Yeah, I'll be in a black

(47:47):
Hurst tomorrow morning at seven am. Okay, is a suv
or hears No, No, it's a Hurts, it's a heart. Actually,
what's happening is is is I have another drop off
at the airport as well. You know there's a I mean,
it's it's it won't affect you at all. Well, they'll
they'll be a body in the back, but that has it.

(48:09):
We're trying to get that to the airport too. But
you know, like I said, as a matter of fact.

Speaker 11 (48:14):
Body waiting in the hold up.

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Yeah, yeah, you do me.

Speaker 11 (48:17):
Man, I ain't riding the body.

Speaker 4 (48:21):
Well there's a I mean there'll be a body. But
actually this is costing you less. You know what I'm saying.
So you don't have to man, Well I'm supposed to
lay down.

Speaker 11 (48:29):
So what what's you talking about?

Speaker 4 (48:30):
Man, dude, it'll I ain't ride they hang on. Man, listen,
you wanted an NUV.

Speaker 11 (48:38):
I'm not ride with the body.

Speaker 4 (48:39):
Dude.

Speaker 11 (48:40):
You tripping cancel this trip. I'll get another over. So
I'm not riding with a body.

Speaker 4 (48:45):
Dude. Okay, if you cancel, that's gonna cost you fifty dollars.

Speaker 11 (48:49):
Fifty dollars, man, you got like I had just downloaded
the here's the deal.

Speaker 4 (48:54):
I know for a fact.

Speaker 11 (48:56):
When you cancel over, just fight out. I'm canceling and
that's be fight out. They're gonna be no fifty dollars.

Speaker 4 (49:01):
It's gonna be fifty dollars, sir. It's different when you
have Well, my man, you can pay me a thousand dollars.

Speaker 11 (49:07):
I'm not riding with the body.

Speaker 4 (49:08):
You feel me, No, understand you understand you now, But
do you want to get to the airport or note? Look,
why don't you lay down next to the body and
you drive yourself there and with the body like in
the past of the See, I'm not doing it. Tell
me what the problem is.

Speaker 11 (49:22):
I mean, obviously you used to driving around with bodies
and that's not my thing.

Speaker 4 (49:26):
You know what I'm saying. What's the problem? I mean,
you're gonna be in the front of the hearse. You're
not gonna be in the back. We'll put the bodies
in the back, with your luggage in the back. I mean,
I'll be fine, right, you're my man.

Speaker 11 (49:36):
You're tripping, Man, this is crazy. You're calling the wrong
with this crazy book.

Speaker 4 (49:41):
Dude. I'm not doing none of that.

Speaker 11 (49:43):
What part of that don't you understand?

Speaker 4 (49:45):
I'm going to get you there on time, sir, But
it's going to be in a hearse. That's all the
difference is, man.

Speaker 11 (49:51):
So you'll be riding fighting in the hurst. Why I'm
supposed to be laid out in You understand right now?

Speaker 4 (49:56):
You got me fixed up? What kind of phone call
is this? I mean, what's the problem.

Speaker 11 (50:01):
Obviously you're used to rolling with their bodyes thehearses and
all that since winning over start rolling with hearses to
pick up regular lives is to get them from place
to place. This is some crazy I want you to think.

Speaker 4 (50:17):
When when did you think that it would just be.

Speaker 11 (50:20):
Cool as a regular picking up a body and just
driving around in the street.

Speaker 4 (50:24):
I don't know, man, I mean, you know, I got
two jobs, you know what I'm saying. I do uber,
you know, and I also, you know, work for a mortuary.
You know what I'm saying. So you know, but my
vehicle is is certified and approved it so I'm able
to use it as an suv.

Speaker 11 (50:40):
So you you call them and you gave it rides
to live and they don't have no reaction, no reaction
to riding around with a body.

Speaker 4 (50:51):
In the back. Well you know, uh, sometimes there's a
people acting a little you know, little it's a little
different for them. I get it, you know, But like
I said, the only reason why I'm calling you, you.

Speaker 11 (51:01):
Don't get that because you're trying to hit me with
a fifty dollars mon in charge that I'm not I'm
not going for it, and you're trying.

Speaker 4 (51:09):
To get me to ride with him that body.

Speaker 11 (51:11):
Dude, I'm not doing that.

Speaker 4 (51:12):
Sh So, I tell you what, bro, I'm gonna tell
you this right here. I'm gonna get off the phone
tomorrow seven in the morning. Me and Tommy gonna be there,
So be looking forward here.

Speaker 11 (51:21):
Who's Timy the body?

Speaker 4 (51:23):
No? No, Me and Tommy gonna be there tomorrow morning
at seven am. You know what I'm saying. Just be
ready for that.

Speaker 11 (51:29):
Then you're Timy gonna have a problem.

Speaker 4 (51:31):
Okay, okay, all right, tell let the Tommy don't cause
see Tommy, don't Tommy don't take this too kindly, so
tell it to him in the morning.

Speaker 11 (51:38):
Who's timing.

Speaker 15 (51:40):
For now?

Speaker 4 (51:41):
Okay, you don't know who Tommy is?

Speaker 11 (51:43):
No, I don't what the fuck is Tommy?

Speaker 4 (51:45):
Okay? Do you know Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning?
So do you know nephew Tommy?

Speaker 5 (51:51):
Oh come on, man, hey, oh man, oh man, that's.

Speaker 4 (52:06):
Hey, hey man, come in and the no man, your boy.
You got a boy named Chase that you work with.
Chase gave me your number, told me to get your call.
Oh man, Yo, I'm gonna put that in the hearst. Man,

(52:26):
Hey man, you gotta give me one more thing. Man,
what is the baddest. I'm talking about the baddest radio
show in the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey man,
I pick you up a seping all right?

Speaker 5 (52:37):
Be there, all right, and there you have it.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
What do you think.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Stupid enough? Come on, let me know they're always stupid enough.

Speaker 4 (52:53):
So you.

Speaker 2 (52:56):
We just at the airport.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
You know it's gonna be stupid.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
I'm just okay.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
Then look on your face, hoole, it's gonna be stupid.

Speaker 2 (53:05):
Time we looked at you and saw it, we know
it's gonna be stupid.

Speaker 14 (53:09):
No, no, let's let's back up there now. How can
you look at my sexy pretty face and know what
I'm doing?

Speaker 15 (53:20):
Look at your now.

Speaker 2 (53:22):
Right, But but I'm looking at myself on the zoom.

Speaker 14 (53:25):
I'm just trying to make sure that I look sexy,
that's all. I'm just what you don't see it?

Speaker 2 (53:31):
All right?

Speaker 9 (53:31):
Look, thank you, nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letter. The
subject is he's not used to the real thing. We'll
get into that find out what that's all about.

Speaker 1 (53:41):
Right after this, you're listening morning show.

Speaker 9 (53:46):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, dating, parenting and more.
Please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEARBFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
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this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.

Speaker 14 (54:05):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.
We got it for you. Here It is Strawberry LETTA.

Speaker 9 (54:11):
Thank you nephew. Subject he's not used to the real thing.
Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a fifty one year old married
woman and my husband is fifty three years old. We
got married in January after dating seven months. He said
he knew I was the one because I'm mature and
I'm financially stable. I knew he was the one because

(54:32):
he seemed to be settled and ready.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
For a real woman.

Speaker 9 (54:35):
This is the first marriage for both of us, and
he admitted to dating much younger women in the past.
He also admitted to getting a BBL for one of
the girls he dated, and then she left him for
a man her age. He had been hurt a lot
in the past, and so had I. He wanted to
wait until marriage to have sex, but I wanted to

(54:56):
see what I was getting before I married him. I
respected as wishes and we had sex two days after
we got married because.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
He got food poisoning the night of our wedding.

Speaker 9 (55:07):
When we first had sex, I noticed he put on
a condom, but I didn't say anything. For the second round,
he put on a condom again. He wears one every
single time we are intimate. I asked him why he's
using protection with me, his wife, and he said he
has to use them for staying power. I didn't understand,

(55:28):
so he had to break it down for me. He's
not used to the real thing because he gets too
excited by the real thing. This is a problem for
me because I don't want to go through a process
before we're intimate. I would prefer to be spontaneous and
were we free. He said, I would be disappointed if
he doesn't wear them, but I'm disappointed either way. Is

(55:50):
there some sort of medication that can help him? What
I appear to be nagging him if I keep asking
him to go see a specialist for this, Well, absolutely not.
I mean, you know you're his wife, you want certain things,
and that's not nagging. You need to ask him to
find out what's going on. And he is your husband,
and you do want to help him, right, So suggesting

(56:11):
that he go to a doctor or a specialist to
get some pills or whatever to help him, there's definitely
nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 1 (56:19):
It shows you really care.

Speaker 9 (56:20):
I mean, you should be glad that this man was
honest with you and told you what was really going
on with him.

Speaker 4 (56:29):
That is rare.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
That is rare to hear the actual truth.

Speaker 2 (56:32):
And at least with the.

Speaker 9 (56:33):
Truth, you have a starting point. Maybe his problem can
be fixed. At fifty three, maybe it can be fixed.
If you're planning on staying married. You guys have got
to find a way to take care of this situation
because you said you do not like condoms. You want
spontaneous sex. You want that, and he already told you
that without him, he's no good because he gets too

(56:54):
excited by the real thing. I say, make a doctor's
appointment immediately and go with him and find out what's
going on.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
What's really going on, Steve, Well.

Speaker 2 (57:05):
Shirley, I'll give you credit on this right here.

Speaker 8 (57:07):
You stayed away from it because obviously you know the
first of all, let me say this to everybody listening
to the standard, this is not a rare thing.

Speaker 2 (57:16):
This is so not rare.

Speaker 8 (57:19):
It has happened to every single living human being of
the male species. He is telling you the truth. Now,
you all didn't get half sex. You wanted to wait
until after you were married. You had sex two days
after you got married. Because he got food poisoning on

(57:40):
the wed night. He wanted to wait. He bought a
girl of BBL. I don't know what that had to
do with it. He's dated younger girls. After she got
to BBL, she went on and got a man at
her age and that hurt him. And you know, because
I ain't no telling her how much he spent for
the BBL got it just like he liked it, and

(58:01):
then found out everybody else liked it too. Uh, so
Otis went on and been out on the limb and
spent that money on Keisha. Now, Odetta, let me talk
to you after y'all got married. Here's what the problem is.

(58:27):
I noticed he put on a condom, but I ain't
say anything. For the second round. He put on a
condom again. He wears one every single time we are intimate.
I asked him why he's using protection me his wife,
and he said he has to use them. For staying power.

(58:51):
Come on, dog, come on, Shirley says, this is rare.

Speaker 2 (58:58):
No it's not. Shirley said, you need to go to
a doctor. No you don't.

Speaker 1 (59:03):
I said, it's rare that he told her the truth.
That's what I heard what you said. Yeah, it was
rare that he told her.

Speaker 8 (59:10):
You interrupted my answer, But you mentioned my name in
your caller?

Speaker 2 (59:15):
Did I say anything when Shirley was talking.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
I don't know why.

Speaker 8 (59:25):
Okay, but I don't know why when I get to
have my anser, all of a sudden you got information.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
Now you into it, and because what you said, you said, Rath,
you said, he told the truth. Listen to me. You said,
this is rapt this and Odetta, it happens all the time.

Speaker 8 (59:51):
That's when we come back. I'm gonna tell you what
you can do about this problem you had. Please, I'm
gonna tell her what she can do about this problem
he had, and then we can get this day and
work though.

Speaker 4 (01:00:03):
Right.

Speaker 2 (01:00:04):
But I'm telling you right now what I have the solution, All.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
Right, doctor Harvey.

Speaker 9 (01:00:12):
We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
twenty three minutes.

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
For another show. You know I had just now, Doctor Harry,
I think, damn it, doctor Harvey, is about time. I
think I got a.

Speaker 1 (01:00:24):
Nice ring to it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
It makes sense to me.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
The subject is.

Speaker 2 (01:00:30):
Medical advice for those people that don't have money.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
We'll get back to you. We'll get back to the
letter right after this. You're listening.

Speaker 9 (01:00:40):
Morning show, All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's
strawberry letter. The subject is he's not used to the
real thing.

Speaker 8 (01:00:47):
Moreman's fifty one years old married to a man fifty
three years old. They got married after dating seven months.
He said she knew he was the one. She said,
She said she knew he was the one. He said
she knew she was the one. He was usually dating
younger women before bought a girl to BBL. She ended
up leaving him for a man her age because after

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he got what he wanted to, found out everybody else
wanted it too, so he wanted to wait until he
had till he got married to have sex. But a
little fast thing. Miss Frisky wanted to see what it
was about, so she knew what she was getting into
before she got married, but she waited. They didn't have
sex right away because he got food poisoning on his

(01:01:31):
wed at night so they had sex. Two days later,
they were sitting to have sex, he put on the condom.
Then in round two he put on the condom again.
She says he uses protection every single time they have sex.
She asked him why he was using protection with me,
his wife, and he said he was using it for

(01:01:52):
stay in power. Now we better accept that because with
all of his previous life and him you protection, it
could be protecting you. Now the reason I think you
need to go to the doctor. So y'all both can.

Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
Get tested tested for any STDs.

Speaker 8 (01:02:12):
That's what you need to get tested for before you
go out here with this unprotected sex. Because the first
two times you have sex with a person, now, the
fact that you his wife, don't stop, no information that
he might have and only knowing a man seven months,
you need to find out why he's really using protection.
It might be to save your life. It could be,

(01:02:36):
but he says it is for staying power. This is
a very very real thing, stay in power. See the
problem is you think he can't handle the real thing.
There's a sensitivity with the real thing. Lord, have mercy
go with me, protect me as I go down in

(01:02:58):
this area that I've never gone down before in the radio.
The real thing is real. The real thing is real thing.
Got it has all it has something on it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:14):
I don't know what it is.

Speaker 8 (01:03:16):
You're there, but we'll just call it the real thing.
We're gonna just keep it. We gonna keep calling it
the real thing. The real thing is too real for most.
And the key word in the real is thing.

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
Ask what it is? Something about that thing? Whoa something
about that thing? I want that thing or that thing
or that thing.

Speaker 8 (01:03:51):
I'm not gonna use no words that ain't in the
title the title of his letters.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
He's not used to the real thing. Well, what is
it about the thing?

Speaker 4 (01:04:00):
Well?

Speaker 2 (01:04:01):
Join it with me, deacon, as we preach this old
all right here here today. Yeah, I need some church music,
brother day. Yeah, if you would uh come today to
talk about a subject you with me, deacon? I went
your past. Uh the subject today is is he not

(01:04:25):
used to the real thing? He not used to the
real thing? Key word thing? Thank, thang t A A
N G. Yes, Why is he not used to the
real thing? Our writer says he must use a condom

(01:04:46):
every time we have sick. I asked him why.

Speaker 6 (01:04:49):
He said.

Speaker 2 (01:04:53):
It is for staying power. He ain't that the truth.

Speaker 8 (01:04:57):
How many times if you talk so much smack ragged
about this and that, what you was gonna do with it? Yeah,
long you could stay with it, say how you was
gonna sprink it? Really flipping all of that, and then

(01:05:20):
the moment of truth came. If you didn't know that
that real thing and that thing on it, okay, you
got a hold of that real thing, and what you
didn't know about that real thing was that real thing.

Speaker 2 (01:05:37):
He had a whole lot of real on it. You're real.

Speaker 8 (01:05:41):
Everywhere it is is real. It's it's it's just real.
I can't add no adjectives. I want to say something
about the texture. I want to say something about them,
but I'm not a tout. All I'm gonna do is
just call it that real thing, man, get it. In

(01:06:04):
all of a sudden, you ain't what you said. You
was that real thing and got a hold of you.
You ain't got hold of the real thing. The real
thing then got hold of you. Next thing, you know,
it's over.

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
You didn't you didn't, you don't. Just oh lord, it
ain't asking no time.

Speaker 3 (01:06:26):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:06:26):
You over there laying on your back, looking at the
ceiling and wondering what the hell happened to you. You
should have added on a condom.

Speaker 2 (01:06:34):
So you could have answer power today.

Speaker 9 (01:06:38):
Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey got that and Facebook and
check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the three iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 11 (01:06:50):
You need to know.

Speaker 9 (01:06:52):
It ain't get something coming up with forty six minutes
after be we got you here in Sports Talk right
after this.

Speaker 1 (01:07:01):
You're listening morning show. It is time now for junior
and sports Talk. Junior take it away.

Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
We ain't got to do sports if you don't want to.

Speaker 8 (01:07:12):
Play back to sermon from the straw that because I
wasn't through and sports is old.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
But we know who won Game seven with no city
that we live in. It ain't no city.

Speaker 8 (01:07:25):
We ain't em on the radio in Indianapolis. We ain't
even on the radio in Boston. We show ain't on
the radio where the Timberwood. Please we on the radio
in Dallas. That's why I say, come on, Mavericks. But oh,
let's get back to the sermon. He not used to

(01:07:47):
the real thing way.

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
You at deacon where deacon yeah right, pay attention.

Speaker 8 (01:07:55):
Yeah, ah is man when he finally gets up to
the plate and the bases is loaded and he'll come
to pitch.

Speaker 2 (01:08:07):
Yeah, he swing and he hit it. He ain't gonna
go far.

Speaker 8 (01:08:12):
He might have wear up, burnt the ball because he
ain't gonna make it the first base. Because he ain't
got no stamina. He ain't got no stay in power.
You ain't finishing no old run.

Speaker 2 (01:08:23):
Because that real thing, what is it? Digging stamming that
real thing? You got the hair stamina. You can't just
run up in here like you want to.

Speaker 8 (01:08:38):
You can't just do like you want to, because that
real thing got something that comes with it, exactly what
it is. But it's something about that real thing that
makes you blood on top of your head off. You
can't see good. I roll in the back of your head,

(01:09:00):
half raised up on the back of your neck. Both
your legs cramp. You're pulling armstrings and quad and muscles
pull spread out.

Speaker 2 (01:09:09):
His starting to spasm. You don't know what's going on
because you don't messed up and got a hold to
the real thing. And now you ain't got no He
ain't got no what Deacon, You got to ask stamina
stay in power as the most powerful.

Speaker 8 (01:09:28):
Thing ever invented, knowing the mankind is that real thing?
And you got to get yourself some help, because this
woman don't want that condle. You got to buy something,
shut all the feeling down. You need some pine sal
or something like that.

Speaker 5 (01:09:47):
You need some.

Speaker 2 (01:09:49):
You gotta get something. You gotta some.

Speaker 8 (01:09:51):
You gotta put some Thompson's water coat on yourself. You
gotta get a protection layer in there because all of
that real thing, that real thing gonna get a hold
to you because you ain't got no war vegan stamming.

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
All right, Amen.

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
Amen.

Speaker 9 (01:10:08):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a woman
on social media needs some advice from Steve about sharing
financial responsibilities.

Speaker 1 (01:10:16):
We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1 (01:11:00):
Sounds fun, Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:11:01):
Skirt us spot All right, Steve, We're gonna switch gears
here because Trish on Steve Harvey FM.

Speaker 1 (01:11:08):
Needs your advice.

Speaker 9 (01:11:09):
She says, my boyfriend and I recently moved in together
and we're having a tough time agreeing on how to
split our bills.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
I make more money than he does.

Speaker 9 (01:11:19):
And he thinks I should cover more of the expenses,
but I believe it should be more equal to avoid resentment.
How do we navigate this without causing friction in our relationship?
What's a fair way to handle shared finances when there's
a significant income differences.

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
The only way that I can tell you how to
do this is the way I was taught to do it,
and it has helped me. Missy.

Speaker 8 (01:11:41):
I've said it on the show one hundred times. Here
goals one hundred and one all couples should have for
a bank accounts. The way you avoid the significant other
party making more money than you and feeling like you
should pay more is you take whatever money he makes
and whatever money you make, and you all put it
in the joint count. Out of that joint account, you

(01:12:03):
all pay your necessities heating, air, car notes, house note, rent, groceries, utilities,
all of the stuff that you have to do to survive.
All bills go in that credit cards, everything, and you
pay from that joint account. Now, then you have an

(01:12:24):
account where you all agree to set aside a certain
percentage of that money every payday, whatever percentage you decide,
three percent, five percent, ten percent.

Speaker 2 (01:12:33):
But everybody should try to save something. You put that
money aside.

Speaker 8 (01:12:37):
In order to move that money, it takes two signatures,
and then you have each one of you should have
a personal account. You young ladies should have an account
where you can get what you want, and he can
have an account, and you all determine what the allowance
amount is. I'm telling you right now, fellas, that allowance
amount is never equal, and I.

Speaker 2 (01:12:59):
Will tell you why.

Speaker 8 (01:13:00):
Because it takes more money for women to maintain hair, nails, shopping,
cost of clothes, all that stuff right there. Their maintenance
program is far more expensive than you you pay for
a haircut.

Speaker 2 (01:13:16):
That's it. They got to get nail service, hair makeup,
all this here.

Speaker 8 (01:13:21):
But to predetermine that the woman's allowance is this, and
the male's allowance is that she is not allowed to
tell you what you do with your money, and you
are not allowed to tell her what to do with
her money. But by you all combining the incomes, which
is what living together should be about, not to join forces,

(01:13:41):
to remain as individuals, because what's the use of joining
forces for? So now y'all just sitting it, be in
there arguing because he thinks you ought to pay more
because you make mode, Well, that's stupid. You all should
play proportionately equal from what you make. You go all
put the money together, and you split the bills evenly.
Then proportionately it will be like twenty percent of your

(01:14:03):
money will go towards bills and twenty percent.

Speaker 2 (01:14:06):
Of his money will go towards bills.

Speaker 8 (01:14:08):
Now, your twenty percent will be higher, of course because
you make more, but it'll still be affect him the
same way because it's twenty percent.

Speaker 2 (01:14:15):
Of his money going towards bills.

Speaker 8 (01:14:17):
Then the savings account is y'alls together, and then you
have your individual money. That's a financial planner told me that,
and it's been most helpful. If you don't do that,
you will forever be arguing about money as a couple.

Speaker 9 (01:14:29):
Question, do you think they're gonna make it? Because they
didn't talk about this before they moved in.

Speaker 1 (01:14:33):
Now it's an issue.

Speaker 8 (01:14:34):
But see, that's the problem with people. Y'all be rushing.
Y'all move in for sex. Y'all move in because you
ain't got to drive over here. They have sex and
sex right there. But when you get through having sex,
you got to live. You don't have that much sex now.
The rest of it is called life congratulation lesson. Yeah,
that's why y'all be moving. Y'all move in for sex.

(01:14:56):
Let's stop playing this rabbit game.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
All right, thank you.

Speaker 9 (01:15:00):
We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
up at twenty minutes after.

Speaker 1 (01:15:04):
Right after this you're listening.

Speaker 9 (01:15:08):
Morning show, there's some trending news from our home station
in Philly one oh five point three w das music
legend Frankie Beverly received a huge honor Saturday when the
city council ceremonially renamed the street he grew up on
after him. The ceremony took place at the Dell Center,

(01:15:29):
where fans, musicians, city dignitaries, and Mayor Cherrell Parker gathered
at the venue to celebrate Beverly and unveil the six
thousand block of Norwood Street in Germantown as Frankie Beverly Way, Wow,
how deserve it?

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
I deserve it?

Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
Yes? Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:15:48):
Frankie was honored and told a crowd quote, you guys
have taken me.

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
And made me what I am today. Wow. Yeah, congradulation
frank thing, Yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:16:02):
Yees, yeah, certainly, I mean everything.

Speaker 8 (01:16:06):
Man, that ain't a person in this age group that
don't understand what he did and what he was for. Yeah,
you know, I'm glad he went on and got out.

Speaker 15 (01:16:13):
You know what.

Speaker 8 (01:16:14):
The concerts weren't the same towards the end, but we
loved a brother anyway because we knew because we knew
he was out there trying. You know, concerts wasn't as
the same in the end, but but.

Speaker 2 (01:16:26):
Boy he had a note Oh them boys right, you
ain't you said?

Speaker 4 (01:16:42):
Show?

Speaker 9 (01:16:44):
Congratulations again, Frankie Beverly. Coming up at thirty three minutes
after the.

Speaker 1 (01:16:48):
Hour, we will play around would you rather? Right after
this you're listening morning show and it's time now for
a round of would you rather?

Speaker 9 (01:16:57):
Guys?

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
Would you rather?

Speaker 9 (01:16:58):
Sleep? On a pillow stuffed with garlic, Or would you
rather sleep on a pillow that's stuffed with onions garlic?

Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
I'm gonna go with either way. I don't think we're
gonna get no sleep, I really don't.

Speaker 9 (01:17:13):
Would you rather it rain every day in the summer
or snow every day in the winter.

Speaker 2 (01:17:21):
Yeah, well, let's have some summer, okay, all right? And
rain every day? You ain't gonna understand that, all right?

Speaker 9 (01:17:30):
Would you rather eat only hamburgers a Memorial Day.

Speaker 1 (01:17:33):
Or baby back rib no size, just burger.

Speaker 2 (01:17:39):
The ribs. You're going with the ribs with the baby backs?

Speaker 3 (01:17:43):
See, I know you're going with We already knows, no
slog none of you.

Speaker 2 (01:17:52):
And barbecue without putting the burg.

Speaker 1 (01:17:54):
On the yet burgers?

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
All right?

Speaker 8 (01:17:58):
Would you rather have a job, Shirley, You don't barbecue.
You grill and you don't do nothing. And the burgery
you put on there is the one you bought them five.

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
Guys wanted to heat it up a little bit.

Speaker 4 (01:18:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:18:12):
What's the difference between grilling and barbecue?

Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
Oh it's a difference.

Speaker 8 (01:18:15):
Surelely them be a grilling, y'all in them make the
coin and asparic, Yes, reggie burgers, you know, and you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:31):
Know y'all out there grilling.

Speaker 8 (01:18:32):
We ain't got time for that, and we ain't got
no room on the grill for none of that barbecue.

Speaker 2 (01:18:37):
People ain't ain't ain't. We don't slabs flipping meat.

Speaker 8 (01:18:44):
We don't hear we we we we got slabs in here,
would say, little mostly slabs in here.

Speaker 2 (01:18:53):
Grilling items a coin.

Speaker 1 (01:18:57):
Have you ever had grilled corn on the cobbe? It's
so good?

Speaker 2 (01:19:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:19:02):
But I put that over there on the electric grill. Yeah,
all that go on the electric grill. That ain't finnah,
You ain't f put no flavor in that. Put that
mess over there.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
All right, We're moving on.

Speaker 9 (01:19:14):
Would you rather have a job as a summer lifeguard
or teach forty first graders vacation Bible School at vacation
Bible School.

Speaker 8 (01:19:22):
I'm gonna go teach them forty first graders at Bible School,
because I'm gona tell you right now, if you're out
there at that beach, and I'm gonna do to your asses.

Speaker 2 (01:19:28):
Dam Now, we ain't gonna learn.

Speaker 8 (01:19:32):
A whole lot about the Lord either, But at least
you can come back next Sunday if you ain't no
my ass.

Speaker 2 (01:19:38):
Run out in that water. And get your help. Help
see acting like I don't hear you have headphones on,
put your fum block, come out there and throw that
little red thing out there. Swim to it.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
But you're gonna teach the babies about the Lord. Listen
to me right coming up and thank you guys, coming
up a shout on the last break of the day.
We'll close up the show with the one only Harvey right.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
After Jesus ain't got no z in it. Know what's
talking about?

Speaker 1 (01:20:17):
You're listening Morning show?

Speaker 9 (01:20:20):
All right here we are, guys, last break of the
day on this Tuesday. See, before we get out of here,
there was a caller who had a relationship question for you,
and he wanted to be a father.

Speaker 16 (01:20:31):
Take a listen, Hello, good morning. You know I like
to say hello to the entire Steve Harvey Morning Show crew.

Speaker 15 (01:20:39):
My question is to Steve Harvey, how does a man
that has no children deal with the fact that, you know,
he may never have children based off of the type
of woman that he deals with, because they may already
have children, or they're going through things with their body

(01:21:00):
because they don't want to have children anymore. Because you're
certain age deal with the fact that you know there
are so many deadby dads out there that have constant
children all the time, because I deal with that. How
is it the fact that you know, these men are
that are dead be dads are constantly able to have

(01:21:22):
constant children, when dudes that are really and truly want
to be actual fathers are not able to have children
because of the women they meet or because of their bodies,
no matter what the circumstances are. But in my particular situation.

Speaker 16 (01:21:40):
It's based off of the women that I meet. Like
most of the women that I meet.

Speaker 15 (01:21:44):
They have their kids and they don't want anymore, or
something gets up with their body to where they can't
have children.

Speaker 16 (01:21:53):
So I'm just trying to understand how do I keep
falling into a situation with the female that either can have.

Speaker 15 (01:22:00):
Children or doesn't want any children when there's dead be
dads out here that are able to keep constantly having
child And it's just like it's getting into a situation
or getting to a point to where I feel like
I have to I'm going to have to adopt, and
I feel like that's not fair. I just would really

(01:22:21):
like your advice on that, and I appreciate everything they
y'all do, because y'all really just don't understand how much
y'all do for the community. And maybe y'all do, but
y'all do a lot for the community. And I just
hope that y'all can continue this for at.

Speaker 16 (01:22:36):
Least another ten to fifteen years. I appreciate y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:22:40):
I love y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:22:41):
Thank you me too.

Speaker 14 (01:22:42):
I'm gonna just tell you that right now, you can
get that off your wish lists, get on back to
these damn keys you want.

Speaker 8 (01:22:54):
But we're not gonna be here for fifteen years. I
can promise you that. You think I'm going to be
you've been here? Nah, hell no, you said I'm finna
you think hell I'm finna be.

Speaker 2 (01:23:05):
A widows at night? How old.

Speaker 8 (01:23:09):
You think I'm gonna be? Eighty two years old? Cita balls,
damn radio, this man, Well, let me go on and
try to help you. First of all, so your folks,
you gotta get your focus in order. Brother, How does
a man who has no children face the fact that
he may never have kids because of the women he's

(01:23:31):
dating they don't want kids or their bodies ain't able
to have kids. Wait a minute, and then all these
dead beat dads who had these kids and and they
not even taking care of them. Wait a minute, holder, man,
why did you even keep bringing up the dead beat dads?
That is not your issue. See listen, man, you can't

(01:23:53):
get to a positive with a negative. You're focusing on
the negative too hard. You're talking about who got kids
dead beat dads? Listen to me, brother, dead be dads
ain't real.

Speaker 2 (01:24:04):
Dad's no way.

Speaker 8 (01:24:05):
They're dead beats. So what is your focus with that?
The second dead thing is, man, we're dealing with some age.

Speaker 2 (01:24:12):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:24:12):
We're talking about age because all the women you've dated,
you've obviously waited to have a family, because you sound
like a mature type. Man.

Speaker 2 (01:24:22):
Your voice, well, let me just tell your voice sound old.

Speaker 8 (01:24:24):
You're dating all these women who've already have children, and
now you're running the women whose bodies won't allow them
to have anymore kids.

Speaker 2 (01:24:34):
Brud, you got to broaden your dating pool now.

Speaker 8 (01:24:38):
But once you've made the decision to wait as long
as you have to start a family, you're running into
this situation. It's nothing wrong with the women, the women
who have children, the women who are unable to have children,
it's nothing wrong with them.

Speaker 2 (01:24:53):
You've waited to this point in your life to want
to have a family.

Speaker 8 (01:24:57):
But brother, the dead beat dads is not your problem.
Your problem is who you're choosing to date and spend
your time with. Without getting clarity from these women in
the early part of the relationship. Most women will tell
you in a heartbeat if they're not interested in having
no more kids, well you can skip to the lou

(01:25:20):
my dollar, because if that's what you want. But then, brother,
you can't. You can't always get what you want. See
you've waited long in life now. Sometimes stepping in and
being a father to the fatherless is an admirable profession.
I cannot tell you how many men have done that

(01:25:40):
most adequately it. Matter of fact, I know a whole
lot of men who have stepped in and became fathers
to dead be dad kids because they done walked off
from their responsibility.

Speaker 2 (01:25:51):
There's honor in that.

Speaker 8 (01:25:52):
And then you said, I may have to adopt, and
that ain't fair, man, Holder Man, what is you talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:25:58):
Fair? Where that comes from? Fair?

Speaker 8 (01:26:00):
It's where they give pigs blue ribbons and you can
get best pie. That's where the fat at. This is life, brouh.
You can't always get what you want. What's you're talking about?
If I have to adopt and that ain't fair. Wait
a minute, hold up, bro, your dad be dads and
you adopt it. You ain't gotta be another one, neither
one of them. Now, listen to me, sir. If you

(01:26:21):
want a family, that's still doable, but you're gonna have
to meet a person that wants to have a family
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:27):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:26:27):
Part of this problem is could be this attitude that
you bring to these relationships because I don't really know
based on this phone call, if you're the person that
a woman wants to have a child with. Anyway, you
gotta brighten your perspective. Man, you sound a little bit
too negative to me. Man, work on yourself. Get your
attitude together. Quit blaming dead be dads and women who

(01:26:47):
got kids already in k kids because the ain't nothing
wrong with them. This is your partner, This is you.
Those are my clothes remarks. I hope that helps you today,
But you gotta get yourself together. I have a great
day to day, y'all talk to guy. He'd love me here, Friends,
call me no more this here.

Speaker 2 (01:27:16):
For all.

Speaker 9 (01:27:16):
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