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July 31, 2024 87 mins

Good morning and welcome to the ride!  Tommy's financial advice is so stooooopid!!!  Mr. Ready to Love gives us the definition of messy.  What would you do if you were stuck in space?  We give you a political recap for the month of July on the last day.  Shirley has questions straight from the gram just for the crew.  Junior is mad for a certain reason and it's concerning the Olympics.  Veneers, Eddie Murphy and bowling alleys are inside Would You Rather.  Lee Daniels got a movie coming to Netflix just for us.  Straight from steveharveyfm.com we get another example of what the truth does.  Today in Closing Remarks, Big Dog gives us a lesson on environment and inventory.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded, y'all know what time. I
don't know y'all.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
At all at all, don't given.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
A black bus busy.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
Listening to.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Show.

Speaker 5 (00:38):
I don't joy, y'all.

Speaker 6 (00:50):
Joy.

Speaker 1 (00:53):
They have set.

Speaker 7 (00:59):
You.

Speaker 4 (00:59):
You turn.

Speaker 7 (01:05):
You love, You.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
Gotta turn to turn the mouth, turn you probably got
to turn them out, turn out, turn the monk.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Come come out.

Speaker 8 (01:59):
You'll think, uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You all listening to the voice, come on, dig me
now one and on is Steve Harvey Man got a
radio show? How good is God?

Speaker 9 (02:11):
Huh? Think about it?

Speaker 8 (02:13):
Just take a slight inventory of your own life and
say it to yourself. When you get through how good
is God? Think of all the small things, because that's him.
You breathing, that's him. You still here, that's him. You
got another chance?

Speaker 1 (02:28):
That's him. You ain't out of here. That's him.

Speaker 8 (02:32):
Got any measure of health, that's him. You think it's
more to it than it really is than it already
showed up to be.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
That's him. All of that.

Speaker 8 (02:41):
You got, any dreams or aspirations you dream of other things,
that's him. All that, that's him, that's him. Him, clothes
you got, that's him. Every time you eat. That's why
they had this thing called you say your grace.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
That's him. That's him, man, that's him.

Speaker 8 (02:56):
It's amazing when you take a small inventory how you
find not how big God really is in your life. Now,
the more you turn yourself over to him, the bigger
he can be.

Speaker 7 (03:05):
For you.

Speaker 8 (03:06):
See, he'll only be as big as you let him.
It's one thing about God. Now, he's a gentleman. He
can make you do anything.

Speaker 9 (03:15):
You know, you get too.

Speaker 5 (03:16):
Big for him, you know you you you lose your humbleness.

Speaker 9 (03:20):
He can humble you.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Now.

Speaker 8 (03:23):
God created man with the power of choice. We're the
only creature he created that. He gave us the total
power of choice when we mate, who we mate with.
You know everything, all of it.

Speaker 7 (03:37):
Man.

Speaker 8 (03:38):
It's a choice what we want to be, how much
we want to make, where we want to live, with
climate we want to live in. We can live in
cold climates, hot climates. You know, we speak different languages.
You can go learn another language. A bear can't do
nothing but be a bear is he can't go learn
how to be a fox. He can't go love, learn

(04:00):
how to be an otter.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
He just can't.

Speaker 8 (04:02):
And Ostrich is an ostrich Man. He can't come out
here and fight like a lion. A lion is a lion.
A lion eat meat. He can't eat vegetables. I don't
care how much meat ain't around. He'll lay down and
pull up out of here and die because he can't
eat grass.

Speaker 5 (04:18):
He just a lion.

Speaker 6 (04:19):
Man.

Speaker 8 (04:20):
You understand this that God gave us. We are the
one creature he created that has total power of choice.
You can make every decision in your life. What kind
of watch you like? That's the one you can buy.
You want to live in Switzerland, go ahead. You don't
like Switzerland, you can move to Miami. You want to

(04:41):
live your life.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
For crime, go ahead. That's you. He gave you the
power choice you want to do?

Speaker 7 (04:47):
Right?

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Come on, So now look at this thing. We are
all the results of a series of decisions that we
have made.

Speaker 8 (05:02):
If we could just identify that the problem is us,
we could began the solution.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
See that's the problem, y'all, it's us. It's what we do.

Speaker 8 (05:15):
I threw my life down the hill. I can't tell
you how many years based on some decisions that I
was making. Now I can justify my decision where I
wasn't happy, and I was doing this and I was
in misering, y'all on nay, ain yes to you when
you get through. You made the decisions though, and you
can look at this anyway you want to, y'all. But
at the end of the day, I'm just talking to

(05:35):
people that's really really wanting to improve their position in life.

Speaker 5 (05:40):
And how do you do that?

Speaker 8 (05:42):
You got to have a solution. How do you come
up with a solution? You got to identify the problem
to even began to solve it. But if the problem
ain't ever you, how you gonna solve something that ain't you?

Speaker 9 (06:00):
See?

Speaker 8 (06:03):
Okay, let me look at this one. If somebody say,
like I got a child of mine, man, I just
do right here. Man, I don't even wanna get into
it this morning. Boy, I'm struggling with this this boy.
But man, you go to people, you ask them why
they do so I just did. I just wasn't taking
care of business? Why I just didn't take care of business?

Speaker 4 (06:26):
Boy?

Speaker 5 (06:27):
Do you understand that your life is gonna be filled
with you got to take care of business? So when
you're gonna start, you know what I mean? You can't.
You can't. You can't go through life blaming everybody.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
It's got to be you.

Speaker 5 (06:40):
See, you can fix you.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
You can't fix.

Speaker 8 (06:42):
Nobody else if you keep getting married and the marriages
don't work. Hello, Hello, Hello, could it be you? South
found they had to sit down and just make that decision.
Ain don't need to be coming on the radio talking
about nobody else and what they did to me, and
y'all just don't know. No, no, no, man, what about
the part you played in it? Cause see, if you

(07:03):
got a good marriage, you got a part to play
in that. If you got a bad one, you got
a part to play in that. Even if it just
get down to you the one picked them, how about that, mister, mister,
I made a decision. The problem is usually within yourself.
Do you know that's the quickest and easy way to
fix your life. That way, you ain't got to check

(07:25):
with nobody. Here's the beauty of going on and admitting
that it's you. You don't have to check or clear
it with nobody to start the repair process. You don't
need anybody's permission. You ain't got to put it before
the review board to see if it will pass. It
ain't got to go through Congress. You ain't got to
hope that your local politician get their hands on it

(07:47):
and make a phone call for you. You ain't gotta
ask any counselors to come in and sit with you.
You don't have to check in the rehair. All you
got to do is decide the problem is me. I'm
gonna start changing me. Identify the problem, and start with
the part that you can own up to. Once you

(08:11):
identify the problem, you can start planning on how to
fix this or how to get to accomplishing something. But
remember this plan and is important. If you fail to plan,
then please plan to fail. If you don't know how
to make a plan, let's just start with the basics.

(08:32):
Just make a list of what you want. Make this
list and then go to God in prayer with an
open mind and open your mind up to all the
clean opportunities that are available. Hear why a lot of
people won't succeed because certain opportunities come along you don't

(08:52):
want to do them.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
That kills me.

Speaker 8 (08:55):
Man, when I hear here, I ain't doing that. I
know young comedians that come to me all the time
talking about man with you, and I say, man, just
take every gig you can, no matter what it pays.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Well, listen to me, son.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
You can go make that money that they pay, or
you can make the decision to sit at home and
make no money. It's a comedy, hard business. They ain't
paying but one hundred dollars. You gotta drive fifty miles.
But if you drive fifty miles and you make the
hundred and you stand on that stage for thirty minutes,
you are now thirty minutes better than you was the

(09:29):
last time you went on stage. Oh, man, they ain't man,
they don't pay me. I ain't coming. You ain't finna
be a comedian, man, not not not like this here.
A lot of people just don't want to do what's
necessary to do. So when the opportunity presents itself and
you open up your mind to it, man, then get
ready to go on and do it. Man, identify your

(09:52):
problem today. Start with the part dash.

Speaker 10 (09:56):
You you're listening morning show.

Speaker 11 (10:02):
Rising shine, and give yourself that stretch. It is Wednesday, y'all.
It's hump day. Two down, two to go. That's right.

Speaker 9 (10:07):
Uncle Steve is out and then Nephew was in holding
it down with the crew.

Speaker 11 (10:10):
That Shirley Strawberry call of Farrell, Mississippi Monica and Kia
Junior Boy Spade.

Speaker 9 (10:17):
It is Wednesday morning.

Speaker 11 (10:19):
That great getting up Wednesday and you are riding with
the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (10:24):
Good morning, everybody, Good morning.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
Good morning, Good morning, sir. How are you man?

Speaker 11 (10:29):
I am good, I'm up, I'm living, I'm blakeday, I
am here. We are getting started.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
What's on your mind? It's blank? You know, I was thinking.

Speaker 9 (10:47):
I mean, you know, but y'all don't never. Y'all don't
never think like I think though. So that's that's what Bob.

Speaker 12 (10:51):
That's a true statement.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yes, true statement.

Speaker 11 (10:54):
But I mean I can't never. I can't never talk
to y'all because when I you know, when I got
some on my mind, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
Who to run it. But you know, okay, try your
trust us.

Speaker 9 (11:07):
Look at it this way.

Speaker 11 (11:08):
If you get a loan at the bank, If you
get a loan at the bank, it takes thirty years
to pay that back.

Speaker 9 (11:15):
If you get a loan at the bank. But if
you rob a bank, you ain't got to do for
ten years. You know what I'm saying. I mean, it's
just I mean, this is just like some financial advice.
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 12 (11:28):
I mean, yeah, it's better to rob.

Speaker 11 (11:31):
So what I'm saying is, I mean, why I get
a loan and have to pay it for thirty years
when you can rob a bank and just do ten years.
You might even get you know, home early on good behavior,
you see what I'm saying. Or just I mean, this
is just good financial advice, That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 12 (11:47):
Criminals or what right?

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah? Or you get killed.

Speaker 12 (11:52):
By the police, yeah, or you get taught.

Speaker 3 (11:56):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, you get killed, or something
like did you set it off? Did you see all
I did?

Speaker 1 (12:01):
I didn't do it.

Speaker 9 (12:02):
They didn't do it right though, they didn't do it right.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Really, Yeah, they had a big operation with Robin.

Speaker 12 (12:10):
Okay, So what else is on your mind?

Speaker 4 (12:13):
That was dumb?

Speaker 11 (12:16):
I mean, I mean that was the first one. I
was contemplating that and I said, man, that's rightly not
gonna work.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
The Olympics. That's been on your mind? You've been watching?

Speaker 5 (12:27):
Is that on your mind?

Speaker 9 (12:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (12:29):
I don't really care for skateboarding. I realized I've come
to that conclusion. Yeah, I just I just I don't
understand why that's there at all. Okay, And it just
got there and it ought to just leave as soon
as they get through with this, this, this, this, when,
this time. Don't come back here in four years with
the skateboards.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Don't do that in Lay.

Speaker 11 (12:51):
Nothing is gonna help. That's where it's gonna be in
La next. Don't show up in La with please don't.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Okay.

Speaker 11 (12:58):
I wanted to ask all this if a poor man
who was married, if he slept with a rich lady
and got paid so he could feed his family, did
he cheat or.

Speaker 9 (13:08):
Did he go to work?

Speaker 7 (13:09):
So?

Speaker 9 (13:10):
Did he cheat or did he did he go to work?
You see, you know.

Speaker 12 (13:17):
He cheated on his job.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
Clear your mind tomorrow, tomorrow my house, some mom inside
the mind of nephew Tommy.

Speaker 12 (13:31):
All right, thank you guys. With thirty two minutes after
the hour, Well here yet again, the ignorance never stops
on this show. In case you were wondering, Well here
from the nephew is he runs that prank back right
after this.

Speaker 10 (13:43):
You're listening morning show.

Speaker 12 (13:46):
It is time now to run that prank back with
the nephew.

Speaker 11 (13:50):
This right here is I dropped your wife. I dropped
your wife. Okay, and I'm mad enough to call you
and that you know that there's been an accident. We
didn't win a little too far, so I might will
include you in this because we gotta you know, I
mean out of respect.

Speaker 9 (14:09):
Out of respect you when you drop a man wife,
you call him. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
That's a decent thing to do.

Speaker 11 (14:16):
It's the it's the manly thing to do. You don't
just drop nobody wife and run all to leave you know. Yeah,
I can't leave nobody wife like that. I hadn't dropped him. Yeah, yeah,
I dropped your wife. Let's go cat Dog twelve.

Speaker 7 (14:31):
Hello, I'm trying to reach Tony.

Speaker 13 (14:33):
This is Tony, Tony.

Speaker 7 (14:34):
How you doing this? Is nephew Tommy.

Speaker 13 (14:40):
I can't.

Speaker 7 (14:43):
You sent an email in to prank your.

Speaker 13 (14:45):
Oh my god, I said that like months ago. I
didn't think you were gonna call me.

Speaker 7 (14:50):
Yes, I'm calling you now.

Speaker 13 (14:52):
Y'all been married eight years? Here, that's my heart.

Speaker 7 (14:57):
Okay, let me ask you something. What makes your just
go off? What can I do that? You know that's
a button for him that you don't want to push.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
Anything that has to do with me.

Speaker 12 (15:07):
Let me tell you he is crazy about me.

Speaker 13 (15:10):
If anybody mess with me, if anybody tries to go
off on me, he will lose it. Okay, okay, Oh
what are we gonna do?

Speaker 7 (15:17):
What?

Speaker 13 (15:17):
I'm so excited on the dart?

Speaker 7 (15:20):
All right, okay, you know what? You know what? Okay,
check this out?

Speaker 6 (15:23):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (15:23):
Can you click over on a three way? Can you
call him?

Speaker 13 (15:26):
Okay, I can call it from my phone if you're.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
Gonna be on the phone right yeah.

Speaker 7 (15:30):
I want I want him to think that I got
your phone. Okay, I'll tell you what. You just click over.
Get him on the line. Just click over so when
you click back, you can't say nothing else. You got
to be quiet because I'm gonna at the end, I'm
gonna let you talk to him. Okay, okay, hold on,
how are you there? I'm here? Okay, all right, you

(15:50):
hit mute or something.

Speaker 13 (15:51):
Okay, okay, okay, Hey what's that?

Speaker 4 (15:55):
Uh no?

Speaker 7 (15:56):
This? This are you? Is?

Speaker 6 (15:58):
This? Is this? There?

Speaker 7 (16:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 14 (16:00):
This Darren?

Speaker 7 (16:00):
What was this? Uh hey, we got a bit of
a situation with Tony.

Speaker 13 (16:04):
Man, we got a situation for real? You just my
wife phone? Who is this this?

Speaker 7 (16:09):
Uh? Actually? Man, we are the one bro.

Speaker 9 (16:11):
Who is this?

Speaker 7 (16:11):
We're trying to get Tony actually twisted her ankle. Man.
We got to get her to the emergency room and
get her checked out.

Speaker 13 (16:17):
She twisted her ankle? Howd she twisted?

Speaker 6 (16:19):
Wait?

Speaker 13 (16:19):
Wait wait, wait back up? Who did you say?

Speaker 9 (16:21):
Who is this?

Speaker 13 (16:21):
How did Tony twist her ankle?

Speaker 7 (16:23):
Actually? She she she felled and man, look look, my.

Speaker 13 (16:27):
Wife is with her mom right now. Who and who
are you? How did you twist her ankle? And why
are you calling me? Why isn't her mother or somebody
called me? Who is this? You never told me your name?

Speaker 6 (16:36):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (16:37):
No, I'm a friend. Man, shit in fall. I actually
dropped her? How you had?

Speaker 6 (16:42):
Did you drop her?

Speaker 13 (16:43):
What do you mean you dropped her?

Speaker 7 (16:44):
We had a couple of drinks at the hotel.

Speaker 13 (16:46):
Man, and she hey, wait wait wait hotel here? You
mean the hotel? My wife is supposed to be over
her mom's house. Now you called me from her phone
talking about you dropped her. Y'all let some hotel. But
why y'all even at a hotel?

Speaker 9 (16:58):
What you?

Speaker 13 (16:58):
What the hell are you talking about? Hotel? Bro? Where
is my wife? Where's Tony?

Speaker 7 (17:02):
Well?

Speaker 13 (17:03):
Why ain't Tony on the phone.

Speaker 7 (17:04):
You gotta come, you gotta calm down? Situated?

Speaker 13 (17:08):
You calling me for my wife phone? Something? I see hurt?
You dropped the y'all at the hotel. She mom's house. Bro,
where is my wife?

Speaker 7 (17:15):
Man, she's it, Tony, I got it, I got it.

Speaker 13 (17:17):
Just hang on to Tony. I gotta put on my
wife on the phone.

Speaker 7 (17:20):
Man, Hey, dude, just I need you to calm down. Man,
I need no no, no, you talk about.

Speaker 13 (17:26):
You'll about to go to an emergency room. You dropped
my wife, y'all at the hotel. Dog gets putting my
sp on the phone before y'all be in the emergency room.

Speaker 7 (17:33):
Hey, man, listen, you gotta calm down. Tony already embarrassed.

Speaker 13 (17:37):
I don't even know who the hell you are. You
still ain't told me name. Put Tony on the phone.

Speaker 7 (17:41):
I'm gonna listen. Man, you gotta chill out. Man. I'm
just a friend. Okay, Man, I'm a friend.

Speaker 13 (17:45):
But there you are. I'll tell you what in the
emergency room. Tell me where y'all at. I come to
the hotel. I get my own wife and take it
wherever she needs to be.

Speaker 7 (17:52):
Tell me as soon as Tony get dressed. Man, I'm
gonna get her there.

Speaker 13 (17:55):
Okay, that's when she gets dressed. What do you mean, hey, man?
Real talk? Jog where y'all at. Man, where you putting
Tony on the phone? Man, I'm not.

Speaker 7 (18:04):
Putting Tony on you two?

Speaker 6 (18:06):
All right?

Speaker 7 (18:06):
Man? Why are you screaming at Holland Dude?

Speaker 13 (18:08):
I swear to God, I swear to God. If I
find out where y'all at, I'm gonna come on her.
It's gonna be one for you as Tony. Hey, hey, man,
where y'all at? Bruh, I'm cool. Where y'all at? Simmy,
where y'all at?

Speaker 7 (18:18):
No? No, I'll tell you what, man. I'm gonna get
Tony's ankle taken care of, and we'll get somebody to
drop a back off at the house.

Speaker 13 (18:25):
Okay, I take I'll drop a off at the house. Man,
Just tip me where y'all at. I want to come
give my wife. I want to make sure she gets
the dreaming that she needs. Bro sitting where y'all at?
Don't go nowhere? I want you to be there when
I come and get it. Don't go nowhere where y'all at.
I can't do it. I mean, we didn't put this
to you on the phone.

Speaker 7 (18:39):
Man. My wife on I'm not listening.

Speaker 13 (18:41):
Let me talk to my wife.

Speaker 7 (18:42):
Brou Hey, man, it's the reason why I'm calling man.
She embarrassed about all of.

Speaker 13 (18:46):
This, and now she gonna be more than embarrassed.

Speaker 7 (18:48):
One thing.

Speaker 13 (18:49):
Okay, it's cool. Ain't to tell I ain't gonna need
to be embarrassed. I love her, man, that's my girl.

Speaker 5 (18:52):
Man.

Speaker 13 (18:52):
Let me let me holler at my wife.

Speaker 7 (18:53):
Bro.

Speaker 13 (18:53):
Please, no, no, no, already no wife or phone brouh. Listen, dude,
look real talk you. She don't tell me what you want.
Don All I know is you coming me talking about you?
Don't tell her with my wife. Put let me tell
you something. Don don't left that lord that ankle with him.
You say it's wrong than my wife. Get your books. God,
I'm telling you want to find out who you are.

(19:14):
I'm fussing you put my wife on the phone. And
that's all because my last time to ask you. Dog,
I promise this.

Speaker 7 (19:20):
Hey, I ain't matter what, but see you through all right? Man,
you talk right.

Speaker 13 (19:23):
I'm my wife on the phone.

Speaker 7 (19:25):
Bro.

Speaker 13 (19:25):
That's all I'm saying. You gotta leave town. That's what
I'm You got to leave town, man.

Speaker 7 (19:30):
You gotta leave town. You want to do when you
want to talk, Let Tony decide that she want to
talk to you or not.

Speaker 13 (19:36):
Here that decide.

Speaker 7 (19:38):
Tony do you want do you wanna? Do you want
to talk on the talk?

Speaker 13 (19:41):
Don't even ask?

Speaker 7 (19:42):
I ain't. You'll see what Tony want to do.

Speaker 13 (19:47):
Tony on the phone. Hey, man, I don't even know you. Man,
put on the phone. You just got to tell me
your name?

Speaker 7 (19:55):
Tony. You want to talk to him?

Speaker 13 (19:56):
Hell, yes, you want to talk to me? Man, I
don't even know why sheep asking or j quisten. You're
the phone phone, Tony.

Speaker 7 (20:03):
Here she is? Man?

Speaker 13 (20:04):
Yeah, hey, baby, baby, baby to look. I don't have
time for games.

Speaker 7 (20:12):
Where you are?

Speaker 13 (20:14):
That's all you got to baby?

Speaker 15 (20:15):
Just calm down.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
I got something to.

Speaker 7 (20:18):
You.

Speaker 6 (20:18):
Listen to me.

Speaker 13 (20:19):
Maybe you got to listen to me. Are you listening? Yes,
listen to me real carefully.

Speaker 15 (20:23):
Okay.

Speaker 13 (20:24):
Where are you at, Tony Baby? Are you listening to me? Yes,
I'm listening. Maybe you just got pranks if you're trying,
I'm laughing right now.

Speaker 6 (20:39):
I love you?

Speaker 13 (20:41):
Okay, Yeah, okay, you hurry home. That's who you got me?
You got me.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
I'll be.

Speaker 12 (20:51):
Coming up next. Ask riddle. That is ready, love officer.
You're listening Hard Morning show coming up at the top
of the We're in entertainment news two astronauts have been
stuck in orbit for over fifty five days because of
what mechanical issues. Also, French police are cracking down on
the oldest yeah, world's oldest profession during the summer Olympic Games.

(21:16):
And there's a new dating series for single housewives stars.
That's all coming up at the top of the hour.
But right now it is time to ask the Riddlo
and Junior.

Speaker 5 (21:26):
Here we go.

Speaker 12 (21:27):
This is from Don and Huntsville Guys. Don says, I've
been with my girlfriend for three years and my twenty
two year old son lives with us. She allowed him
to order a glass of wine when we went out
to lunch with her, when he went out to lunch
with her. I don't want her to drink with my
son when I'm not around. Does it seem inappropriate to you?

Speaker 9 (21:47):
How old is the sun?

Speaker 12 (21:48):
Twenty two?

Speaker 11 (21:49):
What's the problem? Well, I guess you know you and this.
You just feel like your son, you know, maybe you're
not maybe not comfortable with your wife. Maybe you think
your wife going to do something to your son.

Speaker 9 (21:59):
Is that what it is? That's when they both get
a little tipsy. We don't know what's gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
That's his girlfriend. That ain't his wife.

Speaker 12 (22:05):
Yeah, girlfriend, three years they've been together.

Speaker 9 (22:08):
Oh, your son like your girlfriend.

Speaker 11 (22:10):
That's all your son, like your girlfriend, and they one
glass of wine away from it all happened. I'm just
letting you know you one glass away from it all
going down, junior board, The.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
Real question is how fire is your son?

Speaker 2 (22:22):
Because you worry about your your son dismissed with your girlfriend,
How fired is your son.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
Because you must be unattracted?

Speaker 1 (22:30):
You worried the dads just a glass of wine.

Speaker 5 (22:32):
It was one.

Speaker 12 (22:34):
You think the dad's unattracted.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
The dad got worried about the son. Yeah, I know,
I know from experience. Believe always been nerved by me.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
I'm a better I'm a better bird. So you went
out with your Your dad's never now my dad. But
my dad know I look better than him.

Speaker 13 (22:58):
You knows.

Speaker 12 (22:59):
That's the point of this whole thing right here. Yes, okay,
all right, junior, okay, all right, that is ugly.

Speaker 1 (23:08):
That's the concern. Well he's got better looking than me though.

Speaker 9 (23:12):
Now we.

Speaker 4 (23:14):
Ugly me and but I'm a better version of I'm
closer to cute than he is.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
I like the way you break that down some cameras
in his house.

Speaker 9 (23:22):
That's what.

Speaker 12 (23:25):
Is going down, all right. Moving on to Stacy and Wilmington.
Stacey says, my husband and I saw his married friend
at a fast food restaurant with another woman. My husband
told me to stay in the car. I went in
anyway and ordered my food. He said, I did it
to be messy. How am I messy and not his

(23:45):
cheating friend?

Speaker 11 (23:48):
Well, you did do that to be messy, though, if
your husband already told you what was going on, Yeah,
you went in that.

Speaker 9 (23:54):
You did that.

Speaker 11 (23:55):
You could have sat there in that car and he
could have brought all your food back. But now what
you're gonna do? They you got this information? Now what
are you? Just wanted them to see you so he
could panic and he padded. He probably peed all over
himself right there in the restaurant. This happens. Y'all got
to quit going out. Y'all got to stay inside. You
cannot do that like that. You can't.

Speaker 6 (24:17):
In the car.

Speaker 9 (24:18):
Yeah, eat in the car? What's wrong? I can't stay?

Speaker 1 (24:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (24:25):
I don't know what they doing? What is y'all doing?

Speaker 7 (24:29):
Got it?

Speaker 12 (24:29):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (24:30):
All right, y'all lot in public fun?

Speaker 6 (24:33):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (24:34):
This one you're gonna ruin my marriage for over cheeseburger.

Speaker 14 (24:38):
That what.

Speaker 2 (24:40):
You're gonna get out the car for a cheeseburger. You're
gonna just going in there. And I told you to
stay in the car. We know he in there, we
know he was another woman. But you're gonna going in
there over cheeseburger and this man whole marriage. That's what
you're gonna do.

Speaker 12 (24:54):
Yeah, don't say she didn't say anything to him though,
she she ain't got to be.

Speaker 4 (24:59):
But see if he his cheeseburger and he see her,
it's a problem.

Speaker 7 (25:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (25:04):
Yeah, that's what she wanted her husband.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
He looked up and said, Linda, that's what I did.
She said, give me a number one here.

Speaker 9 (25:14):
That's let me pay for that for you.

Speaker 7 (25:17):
Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 1 (25:19):
Well don't she You are?

Speaker 7 (25:22):
No?

Speaker 12 (25:23):
Okay, all right, moving on, thank you for moving on
to uh moving on to even roselle. He says, my
boyfriend and I broke up and I spent the night
with my side dude. My boyfriend took my car while
I was asleep. I knew he did it, but I

(25:44):
couldn't report it because he would go to jail. I
need him to stop playing with me. How do I
get him to move on?

Speaker 9 (25:51):
Wow?

Speaker 12 (25:52):
Okay, there's a lot going on in that one.

Speaker 9 (25:55):
Yeah, that's that's that's you got to break that down
from Let's start with from the beginning.

Speaker 12 (25:58):
Okay, cup boom Okay. Then she want to spend the
night with her side.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
What else was she supposed to do?

Speaker 9 (26:08):
So you understand that though, Go ahead.

Speaker 12 (26:10):
We broke up though, and then her boyfriend took her
car while she was asleep, and she said, I knew
he did it, but I couldn't report it because he
would go to jail. But I do need him to
stop playing with me? How do I get him to
move out?

Speaker 1 (26:26):
At some point?

Speaker 11 (26:27):
When you got to you? No, no, no, let his
ask go to jail. Report this. You don't just keep
taking my car?

Speaker 12 (26:32):
Right?

Speaker 7 (26:32):
No?

Speaker 9 (26:33):
Me and you threw it.

Speaker 11 (26:34):
We're done. Why you got a kid of your car?
Your key back? You're supposed to be through with him.
If we threw we through, If we not threw we
not through?

Speaker 1 (26:41):
What are we?

Speaker 5 (26:42):
What are you?

Speaker 4 (26:43):
John? How that side?

Speaker 11 (26:45):
Dude go out there and tell him don't take this
car no more? How about that? Let's get everybody involved.

Speaker 12 (26:51):
That's right, okay?

Speaker 9 (26:53):
Side, nieces are useful if you use him the right way.

Speaker 12 (26:56):
Well, and I think she did. I think it was appropriate.
That was Yeah, she wasn't.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
Cheated, she was.

Speaker 9 (27:05):
They broke up.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
I'm cheating because she had a dude. But what kind
of side dude? I mean, what kind of boyfriend mine?
If we break up and the next day you sleeping
with the side dude, that's.

Speaker 9 (27:17):
How you get over it, Junior, I'm sorry, get over it.

Speaker 2 (27:21):
But I almost didn't do a good job being a boyfriend.
If the next day we break up, you can go
be with the side dude, you can sit back and analyze.
It wasn't even a week, Tommy, it wasn't even a week.

Speaker 9 (27:32):
I immediately need some assistance. As soon as we break up,
I immediately need some assistance.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
I'm sorry, but if he was the side dude, he
was there all along exactly.

Speaker 11 (27:41):
Brother said, well, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna
leave him on the side and not use him. I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
What I need these people do is have more than
one car, because seemed like everybody taking this one car.

Speaker 4 (27:54):
Everybody needs more than one car. Three they're a triangle,
they're all together, but they got one car. Everybody can taking.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
Her car side, dude, boyfriend, everybody driving the same car.

Speaker 9 (28:07):
We need one car.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
Okay, okay, you break up with somebody, you better play
these car.

Speaker 9 (28:15):
The car knows everything that.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
Everybody got a shoe in this car?

Speaker 12 (28:21):
Everybody all right?

Speaker 1 (28:25):
All right?

Speaker 5 (28:26):
All right?

Speaker 12 (28:27):
Last one, guys, yeah, last one. There we go, Toya
and Alexander. Toya said, there's a friend in our friend
group that's not a big shopper. She shops for vintage
clothes at thrift stories. We're tired of her shot showing
up looking like rabbit raggedy ann when we go out.
What should you do if your friend's style doesn't match
the group?

Speaker 9 (28:45):
You gotta let your friend be who she is. What
you say her name was, it's she's.

Speaker 12 (28:49):
A girl girl.

Speaker 11 (28:50):
Yeah, but Toya, I don't even know where to get
these clothes at. But anyway, let her, Yeah, but you
got to let her be her. That's what she is,
y'all trying to change so she got to fit into
yall group. She got to be dressed a certain way
to be with y'all. That ain't a cool group to
be with.

Speaker 9 (29:07):
Sure, like yall and.

Speaker 12 (29:08):
They're looking crazy, all right?

Speaker 6 (29:10):
Thank you?

Speaker 12 (29:10):
Riddelo and Junior coming up at the top of the hour.
We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Can you imagine being stuck
in space? Guys, Well, astronauts Barry Butch Wilmore and Sanita
Sonny Williams rocketed into space on June fifth, and we're

(29:32):
only expected to orbit for about a week on the
International Space Station, but because of some sort of mechanical issue,
they have been circling the Earth for over fifty five days.
Fifty five days. The Boeing Starliner had mechanical issues, and
time is running out for the engineers to diagnose the
problem and make repairs to the aircraft. The battery life

(29:53):
on the craft is rated to last approximately ninety days,
and the astronauts supplies are reportedly running low, but they
are not truly stranded just yet. There is a backup
space ex Dragon capsule that that can return them to
Earth if the star Liner cannot be repaired. So can
you just imagine this though you're up in orbit having

(30:15):
you know, spaceship trouble.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
Not not trying to fix the shirt. They tried now,
well tried, Now that ain't it?

Speaker 7 (30:28):
That?

Speaker 1 (30:28):
Ain't it?

Speaker 12 (30:30):
You know we o lord, Yeah, that's crazy right there,
that's crazy.

Speaker 9 (30:39):
I saw the story.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
They went up there to repair a toilet pretty much,
and they fixed the toilet and that he stood.

Speaker 9 (30:47):
Wow, what.

Speaker 4 (30:50):
Really? Really they fixed the toilet in that space, fix
the toilet, but they stuck.

Speaker 2 (30:57):
Now, yeah, but imagine being up there all this time
and see the lights on at your house.

Speaker 1 (31:03):
Well you're in you in orbit, you see your house.

Speaker 2 (31:06):
You know your license over your bill fifty days and
you said it was a boweing.

Speaker 1 (31:13):
Uh huh, come on boeing. Yeah, yeah, we can't flying.

Speaker 12 (31:17):
We can't go to space your planes or jack your
space ships or ja. What is happening? Get it all right?

Speaker 13 (31:27):
I don't.

Speaker 9 (31:27):
This is why I don't go to space. This is
the very.

Speaker 7 (31:31):
Right here.

Speaker 4 (31:32):
Ship they need is in Florida. They they they in space,
but they can see the ship that's gonna pick them up.
They can see it every day. It's in Florida.

Speaker 9 (31:42):
So what do they do back?

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Now?

Speaker 9 (31:43):
When will they? Will they make it back?

Speaker 13 (31:47):
Days?

Speaker 4 (31:47):
They can?

Speaker 12 (31:48):
They can last ninety so they've been up there fifty five.
They can last ninety.

Speaker 9 (31:52):
Can we get to set me? I'm paying on myself
now I'm.

Speaker 12 (31:55):
Going we're moving on. Okay, this this story is related
to the Olympics, and it's interesting. We've been to Paris
more than a few times, guys, we have, and we
we never know that the world's oldest profession was really
big there. We never knew that. The city of Paris
and French police are cracking down hard on prostitution and

(32:16):
they've created a special task force to keep solicitation under control.
Extra officers have been assigned to the areas known to
be popular with sex workers and cabarets, and checkpoints will
be set up to people that are interested in that
sort of activity. The sex workers are not happy about it,
and have received support from some nonprofit organizations who urge

(32:39):
French police to focus less on them and more on
the real criminals.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Okay, yeah, the girls work, Let them work.

Speaker 12 (32:48):
Since twenty sixteen, the purchase of sex has become illegal
in France. Okay, so we would be legal.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
Yeah, well wait me nothing.

Speaker 12 (33:00):
Really, are you crazy right now?

Speaker 9 (33:03):
I'm just asking because we was at when when did
we go?

Speaker 12 (33:06):
I think we were there in twenty eighteen.

Speaker 1 (33:08):
We went alost. But I want to say this to you.
Every time we went you were married. Yeah, and they're
married now that I wasn't married.

Speaker 9 (33:18):
I'm married in Texas. I wasn't married, but I'm not.
I'm not married in.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
My life.

Speaker 9 (33:28):
My license stopped at the edge of the border when
I got to Paris.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
In boy blank words in Paris.

Speaker 12 (33:36):
Okay, yeah, but we didn't know that. Wow whoa all right, yeah,
all right. Finally Peacock is set to bring Shirlette.

Speaker 9 (33:48):
So Shirley hold on, hold on. So the police people,
so they own sex.

Speaker 12 (33:52):
Patrol is pretty much pretty much because they're busting them.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
I mean, yeah, I'm stand Tommy. The world is in
Paris right now, every body around the world, and the
world needs love in the world. Yes, I don't know
what other countries over there, but I'm pretty sure it's
some Americans over there with these prostitutes.

Speaker 4 (34:10):
They got to be.

Speaker 1 (34:13):
That U Yeah, yeah, I don't see nothing wrong with
this though.

Speaker 4 (34:17):
I don't either, But the world.

Speaker 1 (34:21):
But you guys, Tommy, you said the world needs love.
This is talking about sex, but well, the world needs six.

Speaker 9 (34:29):
I'm sorry, let me rephrase that, the world needs six?
About that? Do you middle of.

Speaker 7 (34:39):
What subot?

Speaker 11 (34:40):
There's a new there's a new Olympics sports for we
switched this out of a skateboarding right here.

Speaker 12 (34:46):
We showca you hate skateboarding?

Speaker 9 (34:48):
Okay.

Speaker 12 (34:49):
And finally, Peacock is said to bring Real Housewives fans
a new reality dating series. It's called Love Hotel. The
new series will feature ex housewives and decepts. That's the
Countess Shannon Storms beat her from o c Ashley Darby
and Joel Bryant from Potomac. The series will be filmed
in Cabo in September. That's your favorite spot, Carlo, Cabo

(35:11):
and yeah, and it promises to offer a diverse group
of singles for women to mix and mingle with. So, Tommy,
with your experience as a host of a reality dating show,
I got to ask you, but you have any advice
for the contestants.

Speaker 11 (35:27):
Ooh, you're in Cabo too. Yeah, yeah, drink lots of tequila.
Lots of tequila and you will find your mate. Just
drink lots of.

Speaker 12 (35:40):
That's all he did.

Speaker 3 (35:41):
I need to be there, I tell him where to go.
She and but Dora, she don't need to go nowhere.
She just had a dui knowledge. You need to sit
down somewhere, don't drink, no.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
Need to go.

Speaker 12 (35:55):
All right, guys, thank you, coming up at twenty minutes
after the hour. July has been a history month in politics.
We'll do a recap coming up next. You're listening Hardy
Morning Show for this being the last day of July.
It's been a historic and very busy, busy month in politics.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
All right.

Speaker 12 (36:12):
On July thirteenth, you remember, there was an assassination attempt
on Donald Trump at his campaign rally. On July seventeenth,
President Biden was diagnosed with COVID, and then on July
twenty first, President Biden withdrew from the presidential race and
passed the torch to Vice President Kamala Harris. That was
just a week ago, and already the Harris campaign has

(36:34):
made fundraising history by raising eighty one million dollars in
just twenty four hours. And all the campaign has earned
two hundred million dollars and gained one hundred and seventy
one hundred and seventy thousand volunteers. Kamala has enough delegates
for the nomination and the Democratic National Convention will make
the announcement next month. But we are less than one

(36:54):
hundred days ninety something days now from election day, and
July has been a sor But we have to keep
the momentum going. How are you guys feeling about it?

Speaker 1 (37:04):
The story?

Speaker 10 (37:05):
Why not?

Speaker 1 (37:06):
Because you mentioned my birthday?

Speaker 10 (37:08):
Oh, your birthday was in July.

Speaker 2 (37:10):
That was the David before President Biden pulled out. My
birthday was the next day.

Speaker 4 (37:14):
I was shocked too.

Speaker 12 (37:16):
How was that not a historic moment? Okay, yeah, a.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
Lot of political So also put on the list. I
was out of power for five days for golf days.
Her came bra.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
Yes, it came through also Tommy.

Speaker 11 (37:38):
Also in July, my thirteen year old Jordan Jay Dove
hit a Grand Slam at the Little League World Series.

Speaker 9 (37:47):
I don't know why that's not in the books.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
Why it was in July?

Speaker 9 (37:52):
Yeah, it was in July.

Speaker 12 (37:53):
Yeah, yeah you yeah, you got another one?

Speaker 1 (37:59):
What you got?

Speaker 4 (38:00):
Who are with the cabo?

Speaker 7 (38:01):
In July?

Speaker 11 (38:03):
Also in July, so me and Jackie did it two
days in a row.

Speaker 9 (38:11):
That's what happened in a long time.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
What historic in July?

Speaker 9 (38:15):
That's historic, that's historic.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
That's nice.

Speaker 9 (38:18):
That's for the ages.

Speaker 12 (38:22):
Anything else happened in July?

Speaker 4 (38:24):
Also Sunday? Surely sure your birthday was Sunday?

Speaker 7 (38:28):
That was July.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
That was so epic for me. That was funny to me.

Speaker 4 (38:34):
Oh I love it.

Speaker 12 (38:36):
Anthony Hamilton called in in July to sing Happy Birthday
to me.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
Of July. Yeah. Also, we were all here the whole
time on our I don't know like jobs.

Speaker 11 (38:56):
No, no, we ain't seen Steve Harvey, all of you
like also, we have not seen Steve, but we.

Speaker 12 (39:07):
Have texted he is alive and well has seen him
on the gram. That has been historic.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
Yes, okay, okay, all right, guys, thank you for thank you.

Speaker 12 (39:19):
Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're
going to shift gears and have some fun with a
few questions for the guys coming up right after this.
You're listening.

Speaker 10 (39:29):
Morning show.

Speaker 12 (39:30):
All right, guys, have a few fun questions for you.
They were all on Instagram, so we want to see
how you answer them. Okay, here we go. Name one
thing you always find room for in your budget. One thing.

Speaker 9 (39:46):
One thing, oh go ahead, time just anything period.

Speaker 12 (39:52):
One thing that you always find time for time in
your budget.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
Uh huh you chicken wings.

Speaker 11 (40:01):
Chicken wings. I got to have some chicken wing. I
got to be at the grill some chicken way. I
mean I just keep that in lamb chops. I mean
that's just that's me. I just yeah, always time and
ca mus wine, the red wine I drink.

Speaker 12 (40:16):
Yeah, Oh you're off peanut, You're off peano.

Speaker 9 (40:21):
Now I've been off pino.

Speaker 1 (40:22):
Yeah, red wine came in.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
Yeah, y'all shouldn't even ask me nothing like this. But
this is, this is really embarrassing for me. It was
what do I always have room in the budget for it?

Speaker 5 (40:35):
Though?

Speaker 2 (40:36):
What honey buns? I don't care what you say. When
I go to work on Saturdays here in Atlanta, it's
number twenty five in the vending machine. Every every weekend,
it's a honey.

Speaker 4 (40:47):
My god, I'm getting I'm pressing twenty five.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
I got room in the budget. It only costs two dollars.
That is, I'm gonna half two dollars. Sometimes, I promise
I'm gonna have two dollars.

Speaker 4 (40:59):
You have everything.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
And everybody in the radio station knows he's going to
get a honeybun because.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
I get into it with the lady who stops it.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
She puts all the honey bugs in there and say
we need more than three honey buns here because I'm
eating too.

Speaker 12 (41:12):
So there with your coffee is in the budget, okay, Colin,
let him know, Come on, money budget. What are we
spending on?

Speaker 1 (41:23):
What shoes.

Speaker 9 (41:25):
That ain't in the budget?

Speaker 12 (41:28):
In the budget, that's in the budget.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
That's why you do it. Yeah, shoes. Let me let
me go through my list the mall period.

Speaker 12 (41:36):
Yeah, I need whether it's online or in person?

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Yes, yes, all right, my Amazon check out cart, all
of that, all of that Amazon.

Speaker 12 (41:49):
Here's another question, guys. If your love life had a
theme song, what would it be?

Speaker 4 (41:54):
Oh okay, got that?

Speaker 9 (41:57):
Go ahead?

Speaker 12 (41:57):
Tim okay, come on, Tommy and do not say Dan.
You know that go too?

Speaker 8 (42:05):
I know.

Speaker 9 (42:07):
Robert Tennessee whiskey.

Speaker 12 (42:11):
Jam. I love that song, all right, Junior.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
If my love life had a theme song, we know
it's gonna be Joe to Sy.

Speaker 4 (42:22):
No, it's not.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
No go to girls.

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Thank you for being a friend, travel down the road
and back again.

Speaker 12 (42:34):
That's me.

Speaker 4 (42:35):
If I love life. I think that's why I'm here
for you want to let a confidant.

Speaker 12 (42:46):
Thank you for being a friend.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
Let's see today on top beyond.

Speaker 12 (42:58):
Oh okay, all right.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
I was thinking about this, but then I changed my
mind because I want that to be my campaign song.
Because I changed my mind about my campaign song.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
If you changed all right, name one thing, no, no, no, No,
you ain't getting off.

Speaker 9 (43:16):
What's yours?

Speaker 12 (43:17):
Oh, I'm just doing the questions. I want you guys
get in here, get in here, tell us, I want
you guys to get in here. All right, Name one
thing you're tired of seeing, one thing you don't have
to see it anymore. Trump, Ye, I will definitely get
it that one. Next question and his and his running mate. Yes,

(43:40):
next question, all right, what's the funniest lie, the funniest
lie you've ever told to get out of something, the
funniest one.

Speaker 9 (43:51):
I told to get out of?

Speaker 3 (43:56):
Yes, we do.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
Tell us you're ready.

Speaker 2 (44:03):
I got messed up with this unattractive lady. At one
point in time, I said I'm having a sickle cell crisis,
and I wasn't.

Speaker 12 (44:12):
That's an old dang. You used your sickle cell. All right,
thank you guys. Coming up next, it is a nephew
and the prank phone call for today. Right after this,
you're listening Hardy Morning Show. Coming up at about four
minutes after the hour, it's my Strawberry letter for today,
and the subject is why can't I say that another
man is blessed?

Speaker 1 (44:34):
Why?

Speaker 12 (44:34):
We'll find out why you can't say it? But your
wife can't say another man is blessed. Come on now,
we'll find out about that one coming up in just
a few because right now it is time for the
nephew and today's prank phone call. Nephew, what you got.

Speaker 11 (44:56):
You know, sometimes you gotta break the ice to some
people and you gotta let him know what's going. So
let's call this girl dad and go on and telling
me and your baby getting married, Me and your baby
getting married?

Speaker 1 (45:06):
It is what it is.

Speaker 11 (45:09):
Time to talk to the daddy. Let's go catch do
me and your baby getting married.

Speaker 13 (45:14):
Hello.

Speaker 7 (45:14):
Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach mister. Yes, hey, mister,
how you doing. I'm trying. Let me let me make
you I'm calling the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, Yeah,
I got the right person. Hey, listen, what I wanted
to do, mister Richards is called and introduce myself to
you and let you know who I was. My name

(45:36):
is Jeff, Jeff, and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh
you know, pretty much like the last five to six months,
and I wanted to let you know that I'm very
very interested in you, and I know this is kind
of crazy for you. To get a phone call for me.
But I'm very interested in Crystal right now, and I

(45:57):
want to do it. You know. I just wanted to
do the man thing and just reach out to your
man and say I'm really interested in and uh in
marrying your daughter.

Speaker 6 (46:07):
And marry my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what.

Speaker 7 (46:14):
My name is? Jeff? Jeff?

Speaker 13 (46:16):
Okay, Jeff, Jeff.

Speaker 6 (46:18):
Listen. I'm very close with my daughter and my daughter
has never ever mentioned you. I talk to my daughter
every day.

Speaker 7 (46:25):
Wow, I don't know what that's about. But it's been
like about five close to six months that me and
Christal being you know, going out, you know, up here
at the school. But what I wanted to do is
tell you that I really really really like Crystal man. Uh,
and I wanted to call and tell you that, you know,
I'm really really interested in Mary Christal. You know, I want,

(46:48):
I really do want Christal to be my wife.

Speaker 6 (46:51):
Well, I again, I've never heard of you before, and
my daughter has never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't
anybody right now. My daughter's in God School.

Speaker 7 (47:02):
I understand that. And you know, we you know, it's
been you know, we've been you know, a little back
and forth or whatever. But you know, the main thing
is me and Christa really you know we really, we
really do love each other, miss and I want to.

Speaker 6 (47:15):
But if you love my daughter, she would have told
me that she was in love with someone.

Speaker 7 (47:20):
Well, you know what, you know, And maybe it's a
situation where Christa is like a little maybe a little
uneasy about talking to you about it. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (47:27):
My daughter can talk to me about anything.

Speaker 13 (47:29):
We talk every day, right right, just like you.

Speaker 7 (47:32):
I talk to my daughter every day.

Speaker 13 (47:34):
Your daughter?

Speaker 6 (47:35):
And how old is your daughter?

Speaker 7 (47:36):
My daughter? Fifteen?

Speaker 6 (47:39):
Hold on a minute, man, you said your daughter was fifteen.

Speaker 7 (47:43):
Right right? Right?

Speaker 6 (47:44):
Okay?

Speaker 13 (47:45):
How old are you? I'm forty six, forty six, you're
forty six years old.

Speaker 6 (47:50):
You want to man my twenty five year old daughter.

Speaker 7 (47:53):
He hey, let me say this right here. Love ain't
got no limit, man, And I understand, you know, I
was a little shocked at first about the age difference
between us, but you get you know what, man, I'm
shocked than me. Okay, and I understand that. But what
I'm trying to explain to you, man, is dead. It
comes a time man, when you just you just don't

(48:14):
know what's gonna happen. Man. Love just love is love.

Speaker 6 (48:17):
Man, And you've been locked on parole at the university
on work release and let my daughter.

Speaker 7 (48:24):
Yeah, man, I'm I'm gonna say this, man, Crystal is
just a beautiful person. Man.

Speaker 6 (48:30):
Hold on, man, you calling me at the Blue Dollars. Look, man,
kind of work. I got a lot of work on
my damn desk and you calling me telling me a
former jailbird wants to marry my daughter, my twenty five
year old daughter. And you damn there at fifteen. You
damn it my age, you want to marry my daughter. Man,
I am not trying to talk.

Speaker 13 (48:48):
To you about it.

Speaker 7 (48:49):
I need to do this.

Speaker 6 (48:50):
I need to talk to Crystal and get to the
bottom of this. That's what the hell I need to do.

Speaker 7 (48:53):
Hey, and I understand that, mister, you was probably gonna
I want to talk to m and I ain't got
no problem with that. What I'm trying to explain to
you is that, man, love ain't got no limit. Man,
It's just something that happened. Crystal loved me, I love her,
and it is what it is. I just wanted to
try to get your blessings on this.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
You can't get.

Speaker 7 (49:14):
Man.

Speaker 6 (49:15):
He gonna marry my daughter.

Speaker 13 (49:18):
Now that daughter been a.

Speaker 6 (49:18):
Private school all love damn life, she's gonna do all
four years of college and he's going to grad school.
And now you're gonna marry my daughter.

Speaker 13 (49:26):
You now on your work. Re lease.

Speaker 7 (49:27):
Hey, mister, I understand that what I'm what I'm trying
to explain to you that you know what, man, sometimes
love is right the second time around. You understand what
I'm saying.

Speaker 13 (49:35):
What the hell you mean the second time?

Speaker 7 (49:37):
I got kids already? What I'm trying to say is
it didn't work out with me on the first time.
What I wanted to do, man, is just call you
and solidify the culinary experience.

Speaker 8 (49:49):
They got to do with Duode.

Speaker 6 (49:51):
What the hell are you talking about it?

Speaker 4 (49:53):
Listen?

Speaker 6 (49:53):
Yeah, Look, look, look, I gotta talk to my daughter.

Speaker 13 (49:56):
I'm gonna call Crystal and I'm gonna find out what
the hell is going on.

Speaker 6 (50:00):
Look, man, I'm not even trying to have this conversation
with you.

Speaker 7 (50:02):
And look, comparents, I understand. I don't that I understand
what you're saying. What I want to say to you
is just right here, Crystal is twenty five. Even if
you don't agree with this, here We're gonna eat low
and make sure that we do.

Speaker 6 (50:16):
Look here, you ain't doing a thing with my daughter
unless it's my he here, man, you ain't doing my
d I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't
doing I'm gonna call my daughter. Finally, you really are
lost your mind if you think your old jail bird

(50:37):
is gonna be Larry and my daughter. My daughter's got
a future. You ain't got. The hell is wrong with you?

Speaker 13 (50:42):
You were mine.

Speaker 7 (50:44):
I'm not finishing it and go back and forth with
your miss MEA Crystal getting married.

Speaker 6 (50:48):
This will not happen under any circumstances.

Speaker 7 (50:51):
No cud what you think the circumstances are MEA Crystal
getting married. That's it, not love.

Speaker 6 (50:57):
I know what the hell you think you are.

Speaker 7 (50:59):
It's wrong. What has gotta be? I got one more
thing I need to say in there. Me and Crystal
just gonna come over there and drive down there and
tell you exactly what's going on in our life right now.
You got to say to me, are you listening to me?
I got to say this that his nephew tore me

(51:20):
from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked
by your daughter, Crystal and her boyfriend.

Speaker 6 (51:30):
Ain't I'm outside my job. I'm crazy.

Speaker 7 (51:41):
And man, your baby girl just wanted to put a
smile on your face. Man, I gotta ask you, what
is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest
radio show in the land, Man.

Speaker 6 (51:52):
Steve Harvey Morning Show. I'm gonna get to ask.

Speaker 9 (52:00):
Come on, I need it. I need it this morning.
I need it.

Speaker 12 (52:06):
I need it.

Speaker 9 (52:07):
August thirty first.

Speaker 11 (52:09):
August thirty first is Buffalo, New York at the Shae Theater.
That's the Shape performing on theater. That's Buffalo, New York.
Tickets are on sale at all ticket Master outlets. I'm
looking for everybody to put your white on. Buffalo New
York gets your white together. That's all white, real white,
Clorox white, whatever white were wearing white.

Speaker 9 (52:30):
Okay, ooh, I did good with my ws right there.
All right.

Speaker 11 (52:33):
It's at the Shae the Shape Theater August thirty first,
that's Labor Day weekend. That is the Nephew Timey House
Party Comedy Jam. You don't want to mince it. The
next stop, the next stop for the house party Comedy
Jam is in Augusta, Georgia, September sixth at the middle
of theater. The nephew is coming to town. So Augusta,
get ready, y'all ain't playing golf. This this this At

(52:55):
that time we were throwing jokes. You understand I'm saying,
that's the middle of theater, Augusta. The tickets are on
sale at e tics that's e t i X dot com.
E t i X dot com. The nephew is coming
to Augusta, Georgia. I think I can go out there
and play at the same golf course that they held
the Masters. That you think I'll be able to do that?

Speaker 9 (53:15):
That's not think that that would be.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
Definitely the question.

Speaker 9 (53:21):
If it's by some of your relatives in one of
these cities, I don't, but go ahead.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
What are they supposed to do in Buffalo? They got
the White House.

Speaker 11 (53:28):
They supposed to call ticket Master and get them some tickets.
That's what they're supposed to do, all right?

Speaker 12 (53:35):
Them up coming up next Strawberry Letter subject why can't
I say that another man is blessed? We'll get into
that right after this.

Speaker 10 (53:43):
You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (53:47):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if
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Please submit your Strawberry letter at Steve HARVEYFM dot com
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Speaker 1 (54:07):
Muggle up and hold on tight. We got it for
you here. It is Strawberry letta.

Speaker 12 (54:11):
Thank you Nephew. Subject why can't I say that a
man is blessed?

Speaker 4 (54:15):
Why?

Speaker 12 (54:16):
Okay? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm sixty three. I'm sixty three
and I've been married for a year. I've known my
husband for about thirty years, and we dated off and
on for many years before deciding to make it official.
This is the first marriage for us both, so we're
very set in our ways. I remembered my husband to
be open minded and fun loving, but he's changed since

(54:39):
the wedding. He knows that I love music and concerts.
He has taken me to at least twenty concerts, and
he loves how I sing all of the songs and
dance the entire time. That was the old hymn and
I'm wondering why he switched up his personality on me.
I mentioned that I wanted to go to a Chris
Brown concert. After my nieces went and se Chris is

(55:00):
a total vibe in concert, my husband said, me and
my nieces are too old to go stare at Chris
on stage. I thought he was joking around, and I
said that that's exactly why I want to go to
the concert. My husband said, I must be crazy if
I think he's going to a concert to see a
man hunch the stage the whole time. He had a

(55:21):
very serious tone in his voice, so I rolled my
eyes at him and changed the subject. Later, I was
talking to my sister that just turned sixty, and she
said she'd go to the show with me. I mentioned
how blessed Chris looked in his videos from the concert.
I didn't know my husband was ear hustling until he
stomped in the room and said, I know you all

(55:42):
are not talking about how blessed another man is. My
sister started laughing at him, so I got on off
the phone real quick. Seriously, how can my sixty five
year old husband be threatened by a young superstar? Why
has he changed since our wedding? Okay, really, girl, to
sit down, You really need to sit down.

Speaker 7 (56:03):
One.

Speaker 12 (56:03):
You've heard it before. People change when they get the
papers on you. They just change, and in your case
is not a bad thing. You are still out here
while and your husband does not want you talking about
another man's package. No man wants that. Okay, of course
he'd be mad. It sounds crazy. It sounds crazy coming
out of his wife's mouth. People don't get married to

(56:25):
stay the same. They get married because they you know,
they get him, fall in love and all of that,
and they want to build a life with another person.
Their lives are supposed to you know, blend. That's what
you do in marriage, but outwardly your marriage. But you're
still thinking and acting like you're single in these streets.
You are a wife. Now, this is not how a
wife acts, all right, not in front of her husband anyway,

(56:49):
You don't get it. You have to be a lot
more respectful of him. You have to be a lot
more respectful of your marriage. If not, why do you
get married in the first place. Okay, your husband, obviously
he understands the concept of marriage. How would you like
it if he would go around saying, oh, she got
a fine body, oh look at her, but and all that.
You would not like that, Okay, you wouldn't like it. Okay,

(57:12):
It doesn't mean you can't have fun and all that,
but it does mean you shouldn't be looking at and
commenting on some other man's young or old package. So
just please have a seat, ma'am.

Speaker 11 (57:22):
Tommy, all right, I've seen this before, you know it.
It's a lot of men stars that go through this.
You know the top four that come to my head.
You know, More's Chestnut goes through this. You know, Shama
Moore goes through this, you understand, Idris Elba and last

(57:45):
but not least, you know, a Nephew Tommy. I mean,
we all go through this, you know, we all, we
all you know, you know I talked to the guys
a lot. You know, we all go through this.

Speaker 9 (57:56):
Man, you know one support.

Speaker 4 (58:00):
What's the list?

Speaker 11 (58:00):
Again? Once again I said, there's a lot of men
stars that go through this. You know More's Chestnut goes
through That's quite a bit. And Shaman More you know,
he goes through it a lot. You know, indriest it
just you know, we keep in touch. He goes through that.

Speaker 9 (58:16):
And and then fourth on the list that goes through
this is Nephew Tommy. I mean, we.

Speaker 11 (58:25):
Go through this, you know. Uh So, speaking on behalf
of being you know, one of the blessed men that's
on stage. You know, you know, I understand you know
how uh you know, ladies, I understand what you're going through.
You want to come out to our shows and you
want to see us, and you're you're looking at the

(58:46):
package and I get all of that, you know, But
what you need to do is, you know, don't don't
hurt your man's feelings, uh, with our package. You understand
I'm saying. I mean, you know, and I know, I
know it's hard and it's difficult, and I know when
I'm up there performing, I feel you're looking at me
like that. I get it, you know, and and we're

(59:07):
just blest, you know, we're just blast like that, and
it just it's just it just feels good to be
one of the ones.

Speaker 9 (59:14):
That is blessed.

Speaker 11 (59:15):
You understand what I'm saying. And that's why Chris takes
all these pictures with these ladies and their husbands lose
their damn man, that's what happened. That's why I had
to quit taking pictures.

Speaker 12 (59:25):
You know, So you made this all about you, well,
I mean.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
Being a being, being a package holder.

Speaker 11 (59:33):
You understand what I'm saying. You know, you know this
is I mean, we we are the FedEx. We are
the UPS's of male package. You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (59:42):
We we Yeah, yeah, you know I am the Amazon
of that. You understand?

Speaker 11 (59:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 12 (59:52):
All about I.

Speaker 11 (59:53):
Mean, I mean, okay, so I don't First of all,
y'all don't respect that I'm that I'm on the list that.

Speaker 6 (01:00:02):
Is.

Speaker 11 (01:00:03):
Yeah, that's why we're the fact that y'all don't y'all
don't see me in that. You know, you know, you
know what the problem with with y'all. Y'all don't respect
that I'm blessed. That's my problem with y'all. It has
always been that y'all don't respect that I'm blessed. Talk
me all right? All right, let's admit it right here,
right now. Just admit it right here, right now, Tommy,
you blessed, and we apologize for not.

Speaker 12 (01:00:25):
We'll have part two of the response to today's Strawberry
letter coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
The subject is why can't I say that another man
is blessed? We'll get back into it right after this.

Speaker 10 (01:00:39):
You're listening hard Morning Show.

Speaker 12 (01:00:42):
All right, We're going to recap today's Strawberry letter, guys.
The subject is why can't I say that another man
is blessed? This is a sixty three year old woman
who wrote in she's been married for a year. Her
husband is sixty five. They've been knowing each other for
thirty years, but they just made it official a year ago.
It's the first marriage for them both, and they're both,

(01:01:02):
she says, very set in their ways. She loves to
go to concerts and sing all the songs and dance
stand up and dance at all the shows and everything.
And her husband loved taking her to those shows before
they got married. Now things have changed since they've gotten married.
You know, she still wants to do the same thing,

(01:01:22):
go to concerts and all of that. She wants to
go to this Chris Brown concert. And she and her
sister were on the phone talking and she was telling
her sister how Chris Brown is really blessed. And her
husband heard her and he got mad, like any husband
would do. But he got mad, and she doesn't understand
why he's changed since they've gotten married. And why can't

(01:01:45):
she say that another man is blessed? You know, just
because she's married. Why can't she say that? You know,
so she's thinking that her husband is threatened by Chris Brown,
and why has he changed so much since the wedding?
So that is uh the situation with this letter. Why
can't I say that another man is blessed? Junior?

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
What you got?

Speaker 12 (01:02:06):
She's not acting very much like a wife.

Speaker 1 (01:02:08):
You know, you know what?

Speaker 4 (01:02:09):
Sure, you know Tom is right. You know we just
have to take time out. It's just a different day
today on the Strawberry letter. You know, it's hard for
me and Tommy to understand that, you know, being blessed
is not for everybody, you know, I mean it's a
few of us. I mean, you know, it's just a
few of us.

Speaker 2 (01:02:28):
It's eight million people, eight billion people on earth, but
all of us ain't blessed.

Speaker 4 (01:02:32):
And me and Tommy just happened to be in that group.

Speaker 2 (01:02:35):
What we're saying is, you know, you know her husband
clearly ain't blessed because he's mad.

Speaker 9 (01:02:41):
You know, you know what it is.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
Yeah, you know, me and tom you know when you
bless you you're just in a group. We just we
just blessed me and so you know, it is.

Speaker 4 (01:02:49):
A More's chestnut.

Speaker 1 (01:02:51):
It is shamal Moore, it is uhdus.

Speaker 2 (01:02:55):
Idris, it is time, But then right behind Tommy didn't
here I come. I just skipped up to Steve and everybody.
So okay, you know, but it's hard to even I
see why he's mad. I understand him.

Speaker 12 (01:03:11):
Oh okay, you see that part, because yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (01:03:14):
Mean he's mad because he's not in this blessed group.
What you want me and Tommy.

Speaker 12 (01:03:20):
Tells us is that because his wife you thought, you
think Chris Brown?

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
Okay, well you ain't seen me then, so oh wow,
so you know, I mean, you know, Chris wrote a
song about it. They just ain't loyal, So it's not
my fault. Chris wrote the song. Me and Tommy just
happened to be in a different place than him. He's
just not blessed. But hold on, Me and Tommy can
laugh because you sixty five and mad.

Speaker 1 (01:03:46):
We're not mad.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
About We ain't sixty five.

Speaker 12 (01:03:51):
She's thinking that, you know, he's threatened because Chris is
a young superstar, that's what she.

Speaker 4 (01:03:58):
Have you seen me and Tommy?

Speaker 7 (01:04:00):
No?

Speaker 12 (01:04:01):
I haven't them.

Speaker 4 (01:04:01):
Okay, did you just set out to healing club death soul?

Speaker 7 (01:04:05):
Of that?

Speaker 4 (01:04:06):
When you go on state and you have a suit
on tim?

Speaker 7 (01:04:09):
Mmmm?

Speaker 4 (01:04:09):
They was already in there. They knew that he was blessed,
he was blessing.

Speaker 9 (01:04:15):
You gonna stop, yeah, because you can quit.

Speaker 4 (01:04:18):
Hating on me and Tom this ship we just bliss.
We're just in a different group.

Speaker 12 (01:04:21):
What does this have to do with this letter though,
That's what I'm trying to nothing.

Speaker 9 (01:04:25):
Reason is, we don't give a damn body.

Speaker 11 (01:04:27):
We don't care.

Speaker 4 (01:04:28):
We don't care about him being mad because he ain't blessed.
Clearly he ain't blessed.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
We can't help him hating on Chris Brown, Yes, yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:04:39):
He shouldn't hate between.

Speaker 9 (01:04:41):
She's hating on people like us.

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
You see what I'm saying, yourself in that category on
that list.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
Okay, First of all, I can't dance like Chris, but
we just talking about standing steel.

Speaker 4 (01:04:51):
Were blessing.

Speaker 9 (01:04:52):
Oh I'm cold, I'm cold.

Speaker 2 (01:04:54):
Standing still. I can't dance like Chris. But if I'm
standing still, y'all had to look at me too.

Speaker 12 (01:05:00):
So this has nothing to do with the fact that
he could be mad or jealous or just mad.

Speaker 4 (01:05:05):
That she's not mad.

Speaker 12 (01:05:07):
Very wifely people.

Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
Jealous because they ain't blessed. That's that's not our issue.
We can't help you with that.

Speaker 12 (01:05:14):
It's not us, And you guys just made this whole letter.

Speaker 2 (01:05:17):
About why don't you surely, why don't you in callge
just be glad y'all work with two blessed people, right.

Speaker 9 (01:05:23):
They don't want to say that, they're admit that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
No, no, no, no no. Have you seen that guy
at the Olympics, the swimmer?

Speaker 12 (01:05:30):
Yes, yes, yes, yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:05:36):
Media.

Speaker 9 (01:05:37):
If we put on swimming clothes, we'll be all over
the play.

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
Will that we go viral?

Speaker 2 (01:05:43):
We would go viral if me and Tommy put on
the same swimming trunks they have because we're.

Speaker 4 (01:05:49):
Less so we don't know how to actually feel for
this husband.

Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
All we know is that she wanted to put Chris Brown,
and then y'allose Chris Brown. But we're gonna let Chris Brown.
I'll do us.

Speaker 4 (01:05:59):
We blessed too.

Speaker 12 (01:06:02):
So you you feel who's pain in this letter?

Speaker 2 (01:06:05):
Nobody's by less thing? Call it in the words of
call of fair less dance.

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
Then I'm telling you this.

Speaker 12 (01:06:15):
Is all about you, guys.

Speaker 11 (01:06:17):
Enjoy Chris Brown, girl going out there and enjoy that show.

Speaker 2 (01:06:20):
First of all, as a wife, you know you can
say why can't I say another man's best?

Speaker 4 (01:06:26):
You may be able to say it but you did,
and me and Tommy receive it. We blessed.

Speaker 12 (01:06:31):
We know we're just different, all right, all right, what makes.

Speaker 4 (01:06:38):
You act like you say it? It's me and Tommy
you talking to Okay, but look for your birthday? How
do you think I did that?

Speaker 12 (01:06:49):
Bless at Steve Harvey flem and check us out on
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free never sounded so good. And coming up next it
is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this.

Speaker 10 (01:07:02):
You're listening.

Speaker 12 (01:07:04):
Morning show and it's time now for Junior and Sports Talk.
What you got junior?

Speaker 4 (01:07:09):
Okay, I'll tell you right now.

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
Sure listen.

Speaker 4 (01:07:11):
Olymp Okay, love the Olympics. We all watch Olympics.

Speaker 2 (01:07:15):
But we're not America US us A. Yeah, we're not
in first yet. I'm mad because we ain't in first. Okay,
all right, well we're not there, right, We were down
starting tomorrow, yeah, start tomorrow.

Speaker 4 (01:07:30):
We're track and field, start tomorrow. We finished, we finn
Elite frog. A lot of people. The only people I'm
worried about Jamaica. I'm worried about Jamaica.

Speaker 1 (01:07:39):
You need to be Yeah, you know what, that's.

Speaker 2 (01:07:44):
Track and field, that's Our only competitor is Jamaica. We
don't worry about Great Britain. We don't care about them.
You know, we're not worried about We're not We're not
worried about Sudan. We ain't worry about nothing else.

Speaker 4 (01:07:56):
Just Jamaica.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
Were worried about. But that's all we have.

Speaker 4 (01:08:03):
But right now we're not worried about that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
Don't worry about when the lip is in, we're gonna
either be number one or number two.

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
We're not worried about that. Because Shakari ferru tomorrow.

Speaker 12 (01:08:14):
Okay, I definitely want to see that now.

Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
Now, now talk to me about this though. On the
mail side, Tom what's his name? The gentleman that's our
head sprinter who was lives Noah, Okay, he must be
really good because he went from a two hundred sprinter
to a one hundred sprint.

Speaker 4 (01:08:38):
Yeah, ain't he owned our foe by one? Yes? Here
is okay, So yes, sir, Jamaica got some things they
got to think about to.

Speaker 1 (01:08:47):
It ain't just us, okay, got you got you they
got as well.

Speaker 6 (01:08:54):
Though.

Speaker 4 (01:08:56):
Now I'm not worried about Canada. That's not us, that's
not our problem. Canada has has Canada ever beaten us?

Speaker 11 (01:09:05):
Well, let me say this, well in the winter left
as Yeah, as far as distance, you need to leave
Ethiopia along because all of that blows.

Speaker 4 (01:09:15):
Okay, that's them, Yeah, spreading and see them tomorrow too.

Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
They ain't never lost.

Speaker 9 (01:09:24):
When you look at when you when you look at them,
may be a day ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:09:31):
Have you look at their faces? Why they so relaxed
when they run?

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
Relaxed? Distant? Yeah, they never.

Speaker 4 (01:09:39):
They never.

Speaker 12 (01:09:40):
You never see the stress or anything nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:09:45):
Did we give a shout out to the French swimmer
that's going viral because since we were talking.

Speaker 1 (01:09:49):
About being blessed?

Speaker 9 (01:09:51):
You know, you know what you gave him? You didn't
give him three shoutouts this morning?

Speaker 12 (01:09:55):
Maybe we will?

Speaker 9 (01:09:57):
Yeah you.

Speaker 15 (01:10:01):
Oh sure, I have no more sports for y'all with him.
It ain't massy. I'm no, I'm not doing that, all right, Junior,
Thank you.

Speaker 12 (01:10:14):
Coming up at the top of the hour and ex
Wifez's advice on how to handle her ex sister in law.
Right after this, you're listening Hary Morning Show. All right, guys,
this one is from Brie and Covington. I'm in a
mood because my ex husband had an emergency surgery, and
he texted me to tell me that he was fine,
but he'd be in the hospital a few days. We

(01:10:35):
joked about my potato salad and he said it would
be perfect since he was on a soft diet. I
have a great relationship with him despite us being divorced.
I even get along with his wife. I made potato
salad for him and told his sister that I could
drop it off so she could take it to him.
She told me it's rude to take food to another
woman's hosband. Me and her have been cool up until

(01:10:58):
that point. How can she tell me what's right or
wrong with my ex husband. When my ex husband said
he wanted my potato salad, should I take it to him?

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
You know what?

Speaker 11 (01:11:07):
I think the respectful thing to do is to call
the wife and ask her if it's okay.

Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
That would be the ideal thing. And honestly, is your
potatoes handed thatad? Damn good? Though that we got to
bring it to the hospital. Is it really that good?

Speaker 9 (01:11:24):
Are you really that?

Speaker 11 (01:11:25):
I mean, I don't need anybody potatoes, tata, So I
just that might be the last thing I won't well.

Speaker 9 (01:11:30):
I mean, I know you want soft food about you
it ain't about me. It ain't about me.

Speaker 12 (01:11:36):
He wanted it, So yeah, she could have just dropped
it off at his house or something or whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:11:42):
No, you got to ask the wife if she yeah, yeah.

Speaker 12 (01:11:45):
Definitely, Yeah, don't do it disrespectfully.

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
So yeah, don't nobody need no potato salad out of surgery.

Speaker 12 (01:11:52):
What in the world that's what he wanted.

Speaker 4 (01:11:55):
Yeah, but he might not need that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
It doesn't matter what he wants. What do you eat?
That's not soft diet, that's not what doctors want you to.

Speaker 3 (01:12:04):
Potato salad, well crazy, that's what he wants.

Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
Yeah, it's full of mayon eggs. It's full of cholester eggs.
I guess, yeah, but I was on jello.

Speaker 9 (01:12:21):
That's what I was on.

Speaker 12 (01:12:22):
I was on jello, no sugar, no sugar, and no
cholesterol in yello. But yeah, but tell me you're right.
She could call his wife. She says, she gets along
with his wife.

Speaker 14 (01:12:36):
So that's what you gotta calls. And the sister you'
got nothing to do. What it is that is that,
that's that man's that's that woman's husband. Yeah cool, Yeah,
that's just respect.

Speaker 12 (01:12:49):
So that's all all right, We have time for you.

Speaker 11 (01:12:51):
Nobody in my house with no potato Saturday. It ain't
talking to Jacket. That ain't that can't happen.

Speaker 12 (01:12:56):
Okay, we have time for another one. This one is
from Laurence and Salisbury. Laurence says, I've made some mistakes
in the past when it comes to cheating on my wife.
I came clean to her and promised I would do better.
I wish I never told her anything because she said
she forgave me, but she uses it against me every

(01:13:17):
time she gets mad. Forgive and forget it is not
working in this situation. How do I regain her trust?

Speaker 11 (01:13:25):
I'm about to sit with you for coming clean. That's
what I'm reading. I knew you were gonna say that,
Well what what what now? Look how much dirty? Come
and clean and done it? Look how dirty is? It's
just nasty that you could have just you just shut
your damn mouth. You just you messed it all up.
I'm just disappointed in you. You just didn't really, you
didn't do this right. I don't know how you're gonna
fix it with her. She ain't gonna quit, she ain't

(01:13:47):
gonna quit bringing it up.

Speaker 12 (01:13:48):
She's not People just can't hold it though. Now they
just can't hold it. They gotta get that off them,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
The guilt.

Speaker 11 (01:13:55):
Well, go out in the woods by yourself and scream
it to your okay, and now you got it out
your chest. Talk in the every dayn boy.

Speaker 12 (01:14:10):
But you know, I guess he was going under the
premise that we do say we want honesty. We do
say that we want you to be honest with us.
Now he was honest with her, and now she uses
it against him.

Speaker 11 (01:14:22):
That's what I mean. Lie, lies have always worked. They
have always worried. Line has kept a lot of people together.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
Lie.

Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
Oh go.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
Ahead, what yeah? She then you have to worry about
coming clean.

Speaker 7 (01:14:43):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:14:43):
Then there's that that's a foreign concept.

Speaker 12 (01:14:49):
I think that's one concept.

Speaker 9 (01:14:51):
Yeah, got to take it there, You always gotta.

Speaker 12 (01:14:53):
Take it, all right, Coming up for twenty minutes after
we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
after this, you're listening Morning show, all right, guys. So,
director of Lee daniels new movie is called The Deliverance.
It's a supernatural horror movie based on a true story
about an Indiana family that moves into a mysterious house

(01:15:14):
and the mother must face her demons in order to
save her Children's Souls. The Deliverance stars Glenn Close, Monique
Tasha Smith, Omar Epps, Andrew Day, Angea new Ellis and Moore,
and it will be released in select theaters on August
sixteenth and later next month on Netflix. This sounds like

(01:15:35):
a real scary one right here. Uh are we too
scary movies? Huh?

Speaker 9 (01:15:40):
Lee Daniels puts out good work.

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 12 (01:15:42):
I love all of his movies.

Speaker 9 (01:15:45):
So what was the question? A second ago? I missed that?

Speaker 12 (01:15:47):
Well, you know, are we still doing? We watched scary movies?
What's the scariest movie you've ever seen?

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
I'll don't tell y'all, hands down it was. It was
for me.

Speaker 9 (01:15:55):
It was Carrie, Carrie.

Speaker 12 (01:15:56):
Oh yeah, that's right, you just Carrie.

Speaker 4 (01:16:00):
Here me but just can't move. But but what were
we gonna do with Kujo?

Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
The doll that do that?

Speaker 12 (01:16:07):
Don't I forgot about Kujo?

Speaker 7 (01:16:11):
Mate?

Speaker 9 (01:16:13):
Remember we went to see Orphan again?

Speaker 12 (01:16:16):
Yes, yes, yes, God I love it?

Speaker 4 (01:16:21):
Or she was grown the whole time?

Speaker 9 (01:16:23):
Well, we were standing up in the theater kills half.

Speaker 12 (01:16:27):
Please, Carl and I want to see that on my
birthday one year?

Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
Whoa, I could take it?

Speaker 12 (01:16:34):
I know it's crazy all right, guys. Congratulations going out
to Lee Daniels for the deliverance, and we'll have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty
three minutes after we'll play around. I would you rather
right after this?

Speaker 10 (01:16:47):
You're listening Harvey Morning Show?

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
All right?

Speaker 12 (01:16:51):
It is time now, guys for a round of would
you rather? Would you rather veneers that are way too big?
Or would you rather get a big tattoo on your neck?
Which one?

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
Veneers that are way too big?

Speaker 5 (01:17:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (01:17:05):
Yeah, oh no, You're gonna give me that tattoo. What
I'm not gonna do is have some teeth. I can't
get my lips over and clothing. I gotta be a
clothed in my mouth now, I don't just give me
that tat. I'll put some makeup on it when I
need to, but I'm not my teeth. I gotta be
a clothed my mouth.

Speaker 1 (01:17:21):
Wow.

Speaker 12 (01:17:22):
All right, okay? Would you rather Eddie Murphy and Harlem
Knights or Eddie Murphy in coming to America? Which one?
Harlem Knights are coming to America?

Speaker 4 (01:17:32):
Hall of Knights for shure, quick, quick, you'll kill.

Speaker 7 (01:17:40):
One.

Speaker 9 (01:17:43):
I'm going with Harlem Knight.

Speaker 10 (01:17:46):
Harlem Knife.

Speaker 9 (01:17:48):
Out here and kids get me bad.

Speaker 4 (01:17:50):
Look, I love it all right, watching you're missing with
a heavyweight?

Speaker 5 (01:17:58):
All right?

Speaker 12 (01:17:58):
Would you rather compete in skating? Would you rather compete
in figure skating? Okay, we've been talking about the Olympics.
Figure skating is coming up in the wintertime. Figure skating?
Or would you rather go bike riding with your ex?

Speaker 4 (01:18:12):
Give me that skinny leotard.

Speaker 1 (01:18:15):
And go figure.

Speaker 11 (01:18:19):
I ain't gonna really quite well make the eight, but
I'm gonna give it a shot, you know, yeah, but.

Speaker 4 (01:18:24):
But but but I got sparkles on my shirt though.

Speaker 1 (01:18:30):
Dedicated, I ain't getting on that bike with your ex.

Speaker 4 (01:18:36):
No, no, no, no, all right.

Speaker 12 (01:18:40):
Would you rather read your spouse's mind or would you
rather control your spouse's thoughts?

Speaker 9 (01:18:48):
Control her thoughts? I don't want to do that.

Speaker 12 (01:18:51):
Oh good, that's good.

Speaker 11 (01:18:53):
I don't want to read that. Damn man either. A
lot of stuff by me walking around looking at her,
we didn't.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
We ain't got to read her mind.

Speaker 4 (01:19:04):
She's already told.

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
Us it's in there.

Speaker 11 (01:19:08):
Now then, all right, I'm gonna go with control her thoughts.

Speaker 12 (01:19:15):
I'm control thoughts, okay, Junior, I want to know she's thinking. Okay,
So you want to read her mind, all right, feeling her.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
Some divorce papers, but at.

Speaker 12 (01:19:28):
Least you'll know how to maneuver, all right. Would you
rather have an indoor swimming pool or an indoor bowling alley.

Speaker 5 (01:19:40):
Bowling?

Speaker 1 (01:19:41):
I don't know the pool.

Speaker 11 (01:19:44):
You're gonna play with that bowl? Now you're gonna bowl
a couple of times and then you ain't gonna fool
with it. Give me the indoor pool. Indoor pool.

Speaker 1 (01:19:52):
Bowling all for me?

Speaker 5 (01:19:53):
Now you got.

Speaker 4 (01:19:55):
In your house?

Speaker 1 (01:19:59):
I want that all right?

Speaker 12 (01:20:02):
All right, guys, thank you. That's today's roundup. Would you
rather coming up next? It as our last break of
the day. We'll close out the show right after this.

Speaker 10 (01:20:09):
You're listening Morning Show, Steve.

Speaker 12 (01:20:14):
We're ready for your closing remarks.

Speaker 8 (01:20:15):
All right, everybody, my closing remarks today, this is what
I've chosen to do. I have variations of this when
I'm talking as a speaker and things like that, but
I'm gonna go a different way with you today. There's
a saying that if you're the smartest person in your group,

(01:20:40):
then you need a new group.

Speaker 1 (01:20:44):
I want you, I want you all to just.

Speaker 5 (01:20:45):
Think about that for a minute. If you're the smartest
person in your group.

Speaker 9 (01:20:50):
You need a new group.

Speaker 1 (01:20:53):
Now.

Speaker 5 (01:20:53):
I've been very, very guilty of this, not saying that I.

Speaker 8 (01:20:59):
Was smarter than everybody else, but I had been exposed
more than a certain group of people I had employed
and had hanging around me. I had been exposed to
more things. I naturally was making more because they were
mostly employees. I wanted more, and because of the fact

(01:21:23):
that I had more and more was required of me,
I just had bigger dreams. I outdreamed everybody in my
group and had just gotten to a point. And I'm
saying this because I want you all to put everything
into perspective. As I'm talking to you, just imagine at
your place in your life that if you're the one

(01:21:46):
that's constantly coming up with the ideas, you're the one
constantly coming up with the solution. You're the one everybody
turns to for guidance. You're the person always picking up
the tab, You're the person that stuff only.

Speaker 5 (01:22:01):
One who's dreaming really big.

Speaker 8 (01:22:03):
You're the one that's pulling the wagon, and you happen
to be carrying everybody that's on it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
Ain't none of your associates.

Speaker 8 (01:22:13):
Getting off the wagon to help you pull it, push
it guide it or nothing. They just own the wagon
and you're doing all the pulling. You need a new group.
You need a new group.

Speaker 7 (01:22:28):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:22:28):
The problem with acquiring this new group is gonna be
the fact is inevitable.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
You have to get rid of the old group. And
it's hard.

Speaker 8 (01:22:39):
It's hard cutting people loose because for the most part,
you're just a nice person. Because you start beating yourself
up with stuff that has nothing to do with you. Well,
if I let them go, what they gonna do, man,
How his family gonna eat? How her family gonna survive,

(01:23:00):
How they gonna if I let them go? Man, how
they gonna feel about me? What will they say about me?
What will the other group members think about me? But
you know something, man, that's not your job. And I'm
not trying to sound cold to callous, but it's just

(01:23:22):
not your job. They are responsible for themselves.

Speaker 1 (01:23:27):
But through this.

Speaker 8 (01:23:29):
Meaningless emotion called guilt, they will make you feel guilty
about letting them go and making them stop riding up
the heel and your wagon for free. And they use guilt,
which is the most meaningless emotion, and they give it
to you all the time. Y'all, do yourself a favor.
Stop doing that. Stop carrying people who should be walking themselves.

(01:23:54):
Stop pulling people up the heel in your wagon when
they need to get their.

Speaker 1 (01:23:57):
Own wagon to pull.

Speaker 9 (01:24:00):
Stop.

Speaker 1 (01:24:01):
Do yourself a favor, get yourself.

Speaker 5 (01:24:05):
A new group.

Speaker 8 (01:24:07):
They will be fine because let me ask you a question.
This is something my father used to say to me
all the time. What would you do if you didn't
know me? And I used to never understand when my
father said it that until I got older, but I
hear him saying it to me all the time. People
come to you and ask you for money because I

(01:24:27):
know you got it because you're doing better than them. Well,
you work harder than them, so quite naturally you should
be doing better them. Now they come to you and
lay this guilt.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
Man, you.

Speaker 5 (01:24:38):
Done came up and all us, over all of us,
and left us back in. Man, we so proud of you.

Speaker 9 (01:24:45):
Let me hold.

Speaker 8 (01:24:47):
My father used to say, if you didn't know me,
what would you do? So I started incorporating that in
my life. If you didn't have my number, who would
you call? I cannot be everybody's emergency. If you you
are everybody's emergency phone call. You need a new group.
They gonna bring you down. Man, I'm telling you they're

(01:25:08):
going to bring you down. And when you go down,
guess what they gonna get another emergency number. They not
gonna be there for you. All these people that use
you as they emergency, do you have the ability to
use them as your emergency?

Speaker 5 (01:25:21):
I think not.

Speaker 1 (01:25:23):
It's time to look at getting a new group now.

Speaker 8 (01:25:28):
You can sever the ties with these people now, or
you can wait until a major event occurs. That's gonna
cause you have to break it off and it's gonna
be a lot more painful and a lot more costly,
you know. But Bishop Jake said one time, sometimes you
have to let people go so they can be freed

(01:25:50):
up to go be who they're supposed to be. Because
some people just hanging a home cause it's comfortable, because
you've made it comfortable for people. And I'm talking to
everybody out there. This ain't for me or people who
have employees. This is for people who have people in
their lives that's constantly pulling on you.

Speaker 13 (01:26:09):
Man.

Speaker 8 (01:26:09):
For twenty dollars here, forty dollars here, one hundred over here,
my light bill went off. They cut this off. They
calling me, I'm behind on my taxi, my income tax check.

Speaker 9 (01:26:21):
Ain't hear you man? Oh man?

Speaker 5 (01:26:23):
Oh man?

Speaker 1 (01:26:24):
How many times you get that?

Speaker 8 (01:26:25):
Stop being everybody's emergency phone call, because if they didn't
know you, what would they do? You know, my father
used to say, when they don't know you, what would
they do? They need to get home, get to doing it.
You can't save everybody because they'll bring you down. If
you're the smartest person.

Speaker 9 (01:26:45):
In your group, you need a new group.

Speaker 1 (01:26:47):
Y'all have a great deal.

Speaker 12 (01:26:49):
We're just necessary board.

Speaker 10 (01:26:50):
We're prohibited.

Speaker 12 (01:26:51):
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