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Oh boy, love what you did. Now, wild One, it's back
Simbuster in here commercial free on yourWhat is it Wednesday? Yeah, today's
Wednesday. Look at that. That'sway through your week. And you know
what this week is like the firstweek because like we have Memorial Day and
like this is the full week.And by the way, I know it's
only June twelfth, but we're inchingup on July fourth weekend. Yeah you
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Honestly though, I'm like slow downtimebecause fun. Nonetheless, though Memorial Day
weekend down in Wildwood was wild.If you saw the photos and videos of
like literally people running off the boardwalk. They had to put in a state
of an emergency because of everything.While they're now talking about Wildwood proposing a
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backpack band on the beach and boardwalkfor people who were going to be there,
they said that Ocean Cities already implementedthis, they did this last year,
and that Wildwood is following suit becauseof everything that's been going down.
Now, what would you say,I mean, look, that's obviously preventing
people from carrying like massive amounts oftrouble making things, whether there's weapons they're
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trying to take, liquor and stufflike that. Yeah, so I'm I
can't disagree with it. I mean, yeah, the problem is is though,
like at what point, like,because you're also going to the beach,
so you want to put your stuff, your sundawn motion, your things
in your back to go to thebeach. So maybe it needs to be
like a clear bag or something likethat. It just sucks that, like
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there's groups of people that are ruiningit for everybody. Well, it just
goes to show like I don't knowif you've seen that meme where it's like,
uh, you know the shore thatwe grew up going down to and
it's like a picture of like niceand when she was like a nice teager
and then it's like the shore wego down to now and it's a good
nive. It's brittany on TikTok.There's masculine like this, Like Ocean City
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is supposed to be like the familybeach town, like it's happening everywhere.
Yeah, straighten up down the shore, all right. I'd love to know
some of the names on the listhere. It's back Simbuster on Q one
or two. So the question waswhat name sounds way too old for a
child doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. This is a list full of a
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bunch of difference. Not that italways sounds old to me, but anytime
I say this name, I feellike it has to be said with an
accent, which makes it sophisticated.I guess it's Charles, Charlie, Charlie.
Yeah, Charlie is on this list, by the way. Yeah,
Charlie is an old name. Youknow. I would imagine I can't think
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of anything other than Rose. TheRose is on here, is on here,
Gerald Deane, whoa or Gerald eitherone of Gerald? Yeah, Margaret,
Melvern, Suirley Ethel. Yeah,all these are old. I feel
like though these were cycle back eventually. Absolutely, I agree. And you
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know what I think right now,we're in this era where like everybody every
kid is like an Aiden or likesomething like Hudson. Yeah, and so
there's a bunch of those running aroundright now, and I think what we're
seeing is the demise of names likeJohn and Mike. Yeah, the basic
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names, Brittany's. Yeah, Ithink I think those are out because every
person wants to name their kids somethingso much, which honestly, if I'm
a Brittany, I'm like cool,finally, you know. I mean yeah,
like I'll take my name is andlet it, you know, let
it breathe. Yeah, yeah,you think Brandon is out? Brandon Brandon's
my real name. So like Ithere's a yes, Brandon is out.
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We have a Brandon junior if youguys ever have a little No, we
have a name. Actually I doknow what that is. But the Brandon's
was a weird run in the lateeighties, Like women and loved that name,
and we came out there. Weflooded into the nineties. There's a
ton of Brandons that we're running.What's the biggest celebrity male right now?
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Like, who's the biggest? Ohyeah, name would you are we seeing?
I mean I've seen a lot oflike Sophie's, Isabella's, those sorts
of ones. Post Malone's real nameis Austin. I feel like that's a
popular Oh yeah, I've seen alot of Austin. I could see Morgan
if you're like all like Morgan,now, yeah, you know what eighteen
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years to your son's thrown chairs offof a balcon Totally, I'm gonna name
my kid jelly Roll, I meanyeah, why not? Yeah? What
about Rebecca I feel like it's apretty old name. Yeah, I don't.
I think that's a John and Mike. Yeah. The Brittany's where they're
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gonna get eventually. So hey,look no, yeah, now it's not
as trendy anymore, you know.Yeah, yeah, now I'm actually happy
that my name is not Chindy.Yeah, hipster bes the grave. Okay,
it's another weirdo Wednesday. Here onQ and O two, it's Becksimbuster.
And who are you? My nameis Shana. How are you SHANEA?
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We're good? What makes you weird? I don't know if I'm actually
weird, but I just want toexpress that I understand society's stigma when it
comes to pedophilia. Pedophilia. Correct. I work with IPCEE if you don't
know, that's International Pedophile and ChildEmancipation and our goal is to abolish the
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stigmatization of people with pedophilia sexual interests, in normalizing the potential role and moderating
pedophile's emotional well being. I knowthat's a mouthful. Wait before we get
right now, Yeah, this issounds disgusting. Are you saying you're a
pedophile? No, I'm not sayingthat I'm a pedophile in the sense that
I've never had sexual relations with personunder age because i'd be legal. Well,
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I just don't believe we should beshunting those in our community that have
desires to engage in a romantic relationshipwith someone in a drastically different age group.
So you're saying you support pedophiles,I'm saying I support love. And
just because America views ages like eighteenas some sort of imaginary bar for humans
to engage romantic relationships doesn't mean it'sright. So you don't see anything wrong
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with a twelve year old dating atwelve year old, That's not what I'm
saying. But listen, in Nigeria, the age of consent is eleven.
It's fourteen in other countries like BrazilColombia. If we're taking a month as
a country to showcase our pride forother communities of sexual explorations, then I
think we should add the letter P, which is just as important as the
LGB and T oh, my cetera. I can't believe this is real.
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You've got to be like making thisup to get on the radio. I
almost feel like you, like,yeah, like, let me explain a
little more, you know, ifmore people would take the time to have
the actual conversation, then maybe wecould abolish the stigma when it and then
we could begin to make a safeenvironment for this community. Why do you
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feel so passionately about this? Didyou have a relationship with somebody much older,
younger than you you seem like,well, I mean not in the
sense of it being illegal. Ihave dated both younger and older. But
again, I'm just coming from aplace of believing in love, not necessarily
believing in pedophilia. But I thinkthat if we viewed those in the pedophilic
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community as normal humans with desires thatare different from yours or ours, that
we could potentially put an end todangerous black market sex trafficking things like that,
not to mention improving statistics of suicidein the community, if they knew
that there was a place where wheretheir desires and lifestyle and maybe have some
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kind of a great impact of themental health community for a lot of people.
I'm going to go back to myother question. So you think that
a it's okay for like a twelveyear old to be dating a twelve year
old. I just say that weneed to help release the stigma and let
people understand you know that they arepeople too. Now, I'm not saying
that it's acceptable for a twelve yearold to be dating a twenty year old
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necessarily because it's illegal, and Ican't support something that's illegal. However,
I'm just saying that we need toaccept the fact that pedophilia is part of
the LGBTQWO et cetera community. ThenI feel like I have friends in the
gay community that would take great offenseto that. Yeah, I don't know
if they want to be grouped inwith what you're trying to do. I
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mean, your whole motto is loveis love, right, Love is love,
and you can't help who you love. That's all I'm saying. Yeah,
No, I'm not really necessarily herefor this. Yeah, this conversation
makes me sick to my stomach.I think that if you're somebody that not
only supports this, but also youseem to be out here fighting for the
cause, what are you trying todo. You're trying to get awareness for
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somebody to like join your fight thatit needs to be understood better, that's
all what needs to be understood.Yeah, molesting children, No, that
love is love. I'm not talkingabout molesting children. I'm talking about people
who are in love. H Yeah, as a mom has all know,
I mean, yeah, I mean, I just I mean, I need
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to decide that eighteen is an acceptableage. Somebody just threw an imaginary line
in the stand and said, Okay, at eighteen you can have sex.
That's seventeen you can't. No,nobody thinks that you're saying not having sex,
then you're wrong, and nobody's not. Nobody's saying that. There's I'm
sure there's people of different ages doingthat. What the concern is is that
somebody is a predator who is older, praying on somebody who has not the
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ability to fully, you know,make those decisions and make those decisions like
a ten year old. So Iunderstand, I understand that. I'm just
saying that we need to help otherpeople understand in the mental health community and
the pedophilic community that they're that they'repeople too. Yeah. I just feel
like you're taking all these like buzzwordslike mental health and love is love and
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throwing them onto something that's disgusting.Yeah, Like, there's no reason why
a grown man should be pursuing anine year old sexually. Like there's absolutely
no reason or a woman in yourcase, which is also surprising to me
that a woman is calling this.I'm just trying to be supportive, and
I'm trying to you know that's probablyto the yeah yeah, yeah yeah,
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because we keep adding letters, right, And that's the problem with with you
know, where we're at right now, is that we've blurred the lines so
much that you actually feel as thoughthat pedophiles have a place on this planet
besides being locked up. I'm nottalking about molestation. I'm talking about because
love is love and all that doesn'tapply when someone is too young to even
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form the correct scruples in life.And how really I agree? I agree,
But I'm saying, who's say thata twelve year old can't be in
love with somebody that's older. I'mjust saying, maybe a twelve year old's
fallt in love of an eighteen yearold. Where's your line? What do
you think is inappropriate? I'm notadvocating for molestation. I'm not advocating for
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grooming. I'm advocating for people whohave been in a situation where they're in
love with somebody that is of ayounger age or of an older age.
It works both ways, do youand I'm saying that those people I don't.
I don't even feel like you needto have kids. Well, I
just wonder I was going to giveher the example of what if her child
who's a five year old or somethinglike that, you had to say you
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had a twenty five year old anda five year old in love in yours.
I'm not advocating for that. I'mnot saying that. I'm saying that
a younger person can be in lovetoo. Well, I don't know that
a five year old could actually bein love, but seteen year old can't,
a fourteen year old can't. Andagain, I'm not advocating for molestation.
I don't agree with that. Iagree with the fact that sometimes people
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fall into a situation where they don'tknow that's somebody I'm not And again,
I'm not talking about grooming. I'mjust talking about adding pedophilia to the I
mean, they call everybody a pedophileif they're dating somebody who's not of legal
age. So I just don't feelthis argument's going to go anywhere. Yeah,
yeah, yeah, Honestly, Ifeel like you're calling from like a
phone bank. This is PC kwhatever place you're at, and you're like
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just trying to get the word out, yeah, trying to get the IPCE.
And to be honest with you,I don't even know if we should
have given you the platform on theair here. I mean, since we
did, I say, we openup our phone lines and see what people
have to say about it. Maybethose people have that possibly agree, or
people want to sound off with whatyou're saying. That's fine, right,
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thank you. I thank you forkeeping the civil and for allowing me to
speak my mind. I appreciate thatbecause a lot of times this argument does
go south very quickly. So I'mglad we were imagine why okay our yeah,
sure, our phone number two onefive two six three one oh two
one. You could text us atseven one o two one, or our
dms are at backs and buster HListen, I hear what you're saying.
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If it's a nineteen year old anda seventeen year old, I guess I
get where it's a conversation. ButI just feel like you've got a slippery
slope here, and you're advocating fora lot of slime bags on this planet
that should probably be locked up orworse. So, Hey, thanks for
the call. Thank you on thestreets. Ah boy, all right,
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it's Beck Simbuster on Q and Otwo. Unpreciated is the word that I
would use for what we just wentthrough. Called in and basically said that
we should humanized pedophiles. She wantedto add the letter This is what I
think is the craziest part. Well, it's all crazy, it's all crazy,
she wanted to add. She's advocatingto add the letter P to to
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the LGBT plus initialism, and shethinks that pedophilia, yes, absolutely humanized.
Discussing. We're getting tons of calls, and we'll get to the calls
here in a sec. We gotsome text messages, roll it in here.
Somebody said, I'm screaming at myradio right now. Get this woman
off. She's a psychopath. Uh, she said, what the hell is
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she thinking? Uh, pedophiles shouldbe put in jail. That's it.
Brought is insane, literally screaming atthe radio. Uh, people just going
off. She sounds like a groomerto me. Get this idiot off the
radio. Hey, I'm just honey. How y'all doing what's going on?
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You have a good day? Listener. Wasn't she so pleasant? I am,
this is very weird. You know, I'm astonished at this woman.
I assume like she must be callingfrom mental health hospital or something. I'm
not really sure of this foundation ormovement she's trying to create or bring awareness
to, but something is very wrongwith her. Apparently she has had this
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situation scramble her brain at some pointin online because this is unaccessible. Even
as an eighteen year old young adult, I made mistakes and the people who
I chose to love a situations thatI've engaged them. Therefore, there's no
waystwelve year old can be cognitive knowledgeableor experienced enough or old enough to have
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a concession with what love is andwhat truly love is about. Yeah,
we appreciate you calling. We're withyou. She's nuts. Yeah, thanks
for call, Honey, You're welcomein. I'm good, Thank you bye.
Just for clarity, she said hername is Honey. I was honey,
Hey, you're on Q on ortwo. What do you want to
say? Yeah? Well, Ithink this woman that this book was disgusting,
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and the fact that she wants to, you know, add the keyword
to the LGBTQ community. My oldestbrother, when he was around thirty five,
was arrested for attempting to have sexwith a nine year old whoa,
whoa. I mean he was arrested, thank god. Mother had seen all
the messages through Facebook and stuff,and he was arrested and he went to
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jail. He got out, violateapprobation, went back to jail, and
wow, you know. So myview on it is like the woman said,
like, yeah, they're people.My brother was a person, but
he was sticking the head and hethe consequences that he had. Wow.
Wow, thank you for sharing thatstory. Yeah, I'm sorry you went
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through that. Yeah, and youyou almost know not you humanize it a
little bit having gone through it.That's so crazy. Yeah. Yeah,
I mean like at the end ofthe day, he was my brother,
but it was something I had noidea, you know that that's who he
was as a person, right,and he's such a past away as well,
so you know, one of thosethings like that. But that's a
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lot of trauma. But yeah,we appreciate you. Thanks for calling.
Yeah, no problem, thank you. You're a cute two. What do
you think, Hey, what's goingon? Man? What's happening? So
I'm kind of appalled by hearing.What the hell I'm sorry for if I
curse, just kind of polled tohear what she had to say. I
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personally think pedophiles belong in a damnelectric chair. There are pieces of crap
they don't belong to her. Anddo you have this lady? Love is
love? Yeah, love is love, but you can't have a damn adult
having any kind of relations with achild. Yeah, that's just completely wrong.
And to advocate for it as ifit's like just okay, like it's
normal, Yeah, it's I reallywith two of my buddies right now,
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we're just like glued to it,like why is this lady talking like that?
Man? And you know, inour situation, we we don't really
ever want to give somebody the platformto you know, to eve she's she's
talking about it. And what's crazyis as a community, and imagine if
somebody hears it and feels like theyagree with her on to that community,
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that's crazy. It's absolutely insane.And I don't know what she's on,
what she's smoking, what she's drinking, but she needs to stop immediately.
Yeah I don't want a bag ofthat. Yeah, put her in jail.
Hey, thanks for the call,man Begs. I mean the lines
are they're still full. I Idon't know how much more energy I can
give this woman. But you know, just know that as you're listening to
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us, No, by any meansthat is not something that the pedophilia is
not something that we support. Wedo not believe that it couples in with
the love is Love concept. Yeah, for our friends in the LGBT plus
community, I mean, look,we we couldn't disagree more that that that
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pedophiles should be somehow aligned or there'ssome sort of parallel between the communities.
So we thanks, thanks for allyour calls, and man, we gotta
do. Here's here's the music.Oh, this is gonna get good.
This is when the fights start.Uh, commercial free, It's back to
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buster. On Q two, we'retalking Jersey Shore town. Yeah, they
they ranked them. This journalist fromNJ dot com ranked the top five Jersey
shore towns. Now what exactly arethey ranked on? I guess his personal
opinion. His his name is PeteGenovasis. So if you want to go
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to him, But he's like ashore connoisseur. OK. So he goes
down the shore. He ranks thewater, he dranks the board walk,
he ranks all of the food,to accessibility to restaurants, all those sorts
of amusement. So he says inat Number five is Ocean Grove. Number
four is a Brigantine number. That'sthat's Nor Jersey, right Brigantine, the
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Brigantine's I think break teen's right byAtlantic City, isn't it. I thought
it was more up there. Butokay, hold on, now, I
need to know that. I'm prettysure it's right over the just because I
remember when I worked at the NewYork radio station we would do appearances in
brig Yeah. No, I'm prettysure Brigantine is right over. Like there's
a bridge that takes you from acto Brigantine. Okay, So he says
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that that is number. Yeah,it is, I just googled it.
That's number four. Number three isBarnegut Lights. I don't even know where
that is. Where's that? I'mnot I think that's a little more north
Barnegat Barnegat Lights. Okay. Numbertwo, he says, is Strathmere Love
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stratht Mare. Oh yeah, BarnegutLight is up by seaside. Uh yeah,
Strathmere is cool. Uh by theway, we're gonna be at Doval.
That place looks amazing. Fourth ofJuly weekend. So and and at
number one, the number one shortdown out of all the short towns along
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the Jersey Shore is Port Republic.What where's they? I don't even know
where that is? Port Republic,Jersey Shore is what he says is number
one. That's that's like right outsideof Atlantic City. I mean, no,
Pete, no ye, Pete,you're stripping, dude. I mean,
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unless you're from these short points.You could textas at seven one oh
one and state your case. Howdoes Margate not make the list? How's
Kate may not make the long Port? I mean, honestly, those sounds.
But yeah, like the see islesof the world, even like Belmar
Point Pleasant, those are all reallyfun short towns with great boardwalks. Maybe
this guy just likes to be like, oh yeah, maybe he's all like
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I like to go where nobody likesto go. So cool. I'm Pete,
Genevieve or whatever. He finally astatistic. We can be out over
around here. It's backs and buster. We are commercial free right now on.
Yeah, we talked about this yesterday. How like as a nation the
gun violence and just general violence inour neighborhoods has dropped, but they're saying
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specifically in Philadelphia. Philly sees thelargest drop in gun violence, more than
any other major US city over thecourse of how long. So it said
that this dropped nearly sixteen percent inApril. That's compared to thirteen percent nation
nationally basically, So that's pretty cool. Yeah, it's cool. I mean
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I still see stories on the news. Yeah, but it's like twenty five
stories. It's a little less.It was killed under, but I'll take
it. I'll take any step towards, you know, a better place.
Yeah, So be safe this summer. We hope everybody keeps their cool and
keep the gun violence down in thecity of Philadelphia. City a brother they
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love, and sister lea fection andeverywhere. Yeah, this is kind of
heartbreaking news here. I don't knowif it's news, but it was definitely
viral moment here online. It's backsand buster here on Q one or two
becks. You've seen this the birthdayparty. Yeah, and this woman here,
I'll play a little bit of theaudio because she's upset. Hopefully she
doesn't swear in this clip, buthere we go. I'm not even a
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love is her. I can't evenhigh emotions right now, Like I'm not
supposed to be like that. Butto be seeing at the place for the
people are doing that, it's onlyyou that baby, then I swear to
go out of my daddy beach kissmy ass. Okay. So she had
a party and nobody showed up.She had a birthday party for her son,
and she was upset and in oneof the parts of the clips or
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one of the whatever, uh,someone from the staff and it looks like
it's at like an arcade or likeone of those joints. And one of
the staff members who like you couldtell, he was like, oh,
I don't know how to say this, but hey, you know, you
get a couple of pizzas with this, and she was like, yeah,
fine, just bring us whatever pizza. Yeah, you can just tell.
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She was very upset and no oneshowed up. And it's got to be
heartbreaking, you know as a asa parent, to you know, put
all this together, you got tobe mad at other parents for not showing
up, and you also got towonder, like, what's going on with
the relationship with my kid and thesekids yeah, but also like if people
are rsvping, you should show up, you're gonna say you're going to go
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go. They also have to payfor that. That's likes aren't cheap,
right, Yeah, you're paying forpersons. I feel like there was a
similar story recently, and the neighborhoodalmost like rallied around this little girl,
Like they all ended up showing up. Like the mom had gone on social
media and it was like, hey, pay for everybody, come, and
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then like a surplus of people came. Then you got to think that the
mom is sitting there like wondering howthis is going to be your kid.
I can tell you this that happenedto me. Yeah. I was eleven
years old. My mom put togetherlike a birthday party at a bowling alley
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and uh yeah nobody showed up,no way, Yeah yeah, so what
happened? I kicked all their asses. Now, I don't know. It
was just one of those things whereit's sort of like hard age. But
I'll say this and it's it's allI like thought about commenting and tagging the
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mom to be like, hey,just see, you know, this kid's
gonna get stronger from this, becausesometimes in life you do have to realize
that there are harsh realities out there. And as a kid, and as
a parent, you want your kidto be loved by everybody. And as
a kid in school, you wantto have all these friends and whatever.
And sometimes it don't be like that. Sometimes, you know, for whatever
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reason, the clicks and popularity movesat his own, at its own pace,
and it doesn't include everybody. Yeah, you know, so you sort
of have to have And sorry,I didn't mean I just want to say
that, like you always end upfinding your community too, you know,
like I don't feel like I likeI found my community and my church when
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I was growing up, but likeI didn't really have a lot of friends
at school. So and and youwill find your community. I think sometimes
you need to get to college orwherever it is end up finding your your
tribe. I think that's just it. And that was sort of the point
that I was going to try tomake there is like eventually you figure things
out. Eventually you do find yourcommunity, You find the people that you
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want to be around and the peoplethat want to be around you totally.
At least you got to bowl unlimitedly. That's pretty cool. Yeah, I
was bowling. Nice that game,but I know you were. Yeah,
and you know I smoked that wholelarge pizza. I was like, YO,
break it over here.