Girlfriend Breaks Family Tradition, Joe Alywn Breaks His Silence on Taylor Swift Break & More!

Episode Transcript

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All right, it's Becks and Busteron Q one o two. Good afternoon,
and it is time for the noon. All right. Over the weekend,
we saw our first look at KateMiddleton, who made her appearance with
the royal family. She looked healthyand happy as they honored her husband,
Prince William and the King and allof them on the balcony and all.

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You know what they do over there, and they stand on the balcony the
guy thing and they do stuff.So yeah, if you want she looks
really good though. I'm happy though, because she's obviously been dealing with some
health problems. So if you wantto check those photos out Q one o
two dot com. Also, wedid get a look at Rebe's little boys.
This is so cute. They releasedsome photos of Asap with her two

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sons, Ryot and Rezza, andit was like an honor Father's Day.
So there's like they're so adorable.It's him just playing with his sons.
Uh. That's also like Q onetwo dot com if you want to check
him out. So they celebrated Father'sDay together. Scooter Braun, this is
major news after twenty three years inthe industry, has announced he's retiring from
music. He will no longer berepresenting Ariana Grande and Justin Bieber in his

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announcements. He's the guy who foundJustin Bieber. Yep, there's been a
lot of controversy with him as oflate, seely with the Taylor Swift stuff.
He got divorced from his wife,right, it was like talks of
there's just been some controversy. Buthe's citing that he, you know,
he spent so much time in hislife work, working, and that he

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just wants to take some time andspend time with his family. So can
you blame him, No, he'srich. Yeah, it's like I got
a lot of money, and youknow what, your kids aren't young that
long. So if you can havethe opportunity to stay with them, hang
out with them. And also,never forget, this guy discovered Justin Bieber
and was Justin Bieber's go to righthand man for a very long time,

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including during the entire Bieber storm.And you got to think there's managing artists
and then there's managing Justin Baber duringJustin Bieber's time. Yeah, that's a
lot. That's very taxing. SoI would imagine, you know, he
needs this break. Yeah, plusplus like you know, when they fake
the whole thing with Taylor's dad andselling the music and everything. That was

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also going to say he's probably tiredtoo of and whether it was just or
not, but yeah, he turnedinto a major villain and was like totally
vilified on social media through all ofthat. So I'm sure that that.
I mean, listen, somebody saysone mean thing about me, my whole
day's ruined. I can't imagine swift. You know, every weekend people get

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either back from the shore or whateverthey're doing, and they enjoy their weekend
and then they start the week onMondays here on Q one two with speaking
of the Shore, this one actuallyevolves the shore total. So this comes
from one of our listeners. Hehit us in the DMS ATPEX and Buster,

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and he said, forth the Julyweekend, it's been a tradition that
my entire family goes to my grandparents'house down the shore. There's about twenty
seven people in one house. It'snot a big house, it's only about
three bedrooms, so everybody ends upbunking up air mattresses in the living room
in all the rooms. He said, it's havoc, but it's fun.
He says. This is a problemthough his girlfriend doesn't want to stay in

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the house this year. She didit last year and says that she's not
comfortable doing it again. She saidthat there were way too many people and
she isn't happy that they don't geta room or a bed. Instead,
she wants us to get our ownplace down the shore. Well, first
off, it's probably possible to evenget a posh gotten. If it is,
it's like fifty thousand dollars, especiallyfor the July weekend. Yeah,

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that's insane. So then what yourother option would be like drive there,
drive back home, or go toac get a hotel room or something that's
even still really expensive too, andthat's a far trip for them if they
do do that. Okay, Sowho's the jerk in this situation, Bex,
What do you think? I thinkshe's kind of a jerk in this

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situation. Okay. I come froma big family and I know these weekends
they're pure havoc. They're insane,right, they're dysfunctional, but they're fun.
Yeah. So yeah, like ifit was me in this situation,
I would just do it. It'snot like you're there for a month.
You know, you're there for aweekend. Maybe come a little later on

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Friday, or maybe come Saturday toSunday. But to me, I wouldn't
want to break his tradition and liketake him away from his cousins and his
friend or his family's grandparents because Ifeel uncomfortable. Yeah, yeah, I
just does it. Do we knowhow old this guy is? I don't
know, just because I I thinkthat's probably the difference. Right, it's

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all fun when your cousins and you'reyou're also speaking from your point of view,
your family. Yeah, it's nother family that she's going to stay
with. It's someone else's family.It's her it's her boyfriend's family. I
even said that, I said,if I wouldn't want to take him away
from his time. No, Iagree. I agree. So I'm saying,
though, put put yourself in thatperspective of like, it's it's a

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little different when you're used to beingdown the shore with your cousins and all
the fun stuff and whatever. Butas you become an adult, while it
is still fun, are you stillin the zone of like sleeping on this
says floors and sleeping bags and youknow you don't get a room. I
mean again, I this that's whatthese shore weekends are. That to me,

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that's sort of like it is havocand it's it's it's not going to
be the most comfortable sleep. Butthat's why you're not doing it for a
month long. You're doing it fornight two nights and and and and to
me, that's what this weekend is. This isn't like a spa weekend oceans.
You know, this is like aweekend with family and friends and chaos

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and going out. We're coming backlate doing all that. So you think
she's the jerk would in this situation, Yeah, I would say she is.
Do you think he's the jerk fornot accommodating her. I don't know.
I just I just think it's interestinglike that it's one way or it
doesn't happen. I mean, hell, we go through that a little bit

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with mine and my fiance's family.Like we're three years in, so I've
become like used to it, andit is it's a great spot to go
down the shore, and you know, I've sort of you know, fallen
in line with a lot of it. But there is that period of adjustment.
You got to remember, it's likewhen when it's not your family technically
and you're yes, you have eventuallyyou grow to love each other and all.
That's all well and good. Butit does agree that happened too.

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But it doesn't mean that there's nota period of adjustment. I don't don't
agree. But this is her secondyear doing this, she should still have
that sort of saying. I mean, it's not crazy. I'm not she
has no right in her her opinion. I'm not saying that she doesn't have
a right to feel that way,right, But we're asking the question in
this specific situation, who's the jerk? Are you? Should they go and

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not go down the shore or driveback and forth just because she's not she's
not comfortable spend a billion dollars ifyou can find a hotel, you can
find a hotel, or do youjust suck it up for the weekend?
That's the question two one two sixthree one o two one. You could
text us at seven one or twoone, or get us in the DMS
at backs and Buster. I'm alittle torn on one side. I hear

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what you're saying. That is themagic of being of being able to go
down the shore and every it's bigflop house and we're barbecuing. Everybody got
a couple of drinks, they're flowing, everybody's hanging out. That's not everybody's
vibe. I don't disagree with everybodyin this situation. I get it might
not be everybody's vot, but inthis situation, who is who is the

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jerk in this situation? How aboutyou? Weiyya and you call us text
us dm us and we'll talk toyou live like you all right, it's
Becks and Buster on Q one ortwo and it's time for us to ask
you who's the jerk? Yeah?So uh, this dude hit us in
the DMS at Becks and Buster.He said, it's a family tradition ever
since he was a little kid,that they would all go to their grandparents'

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house on Fourth of July weekend andit's a house full of like twenty seven
people. It's chaos, he said, air mattresses all over the place.
Last year his girl went, andthis year she said she doesn't want to
be there because there's way too manypeople and she does not feel comfortable being
in the house with that many people. So we asked you, who's the
jerk? We're getting some text messagesin here at seven one or two one.

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Yeah, somebody says, the obviousanswer is he goes and she relaxes
at home or visits for a dayif she really wants to, that's a
great compromise. Somebody else said heshould go, he doesn't need her.
No one is the jerk. Iwould not go, and I would send
my boyfriend. So this girl sayingthat she just wouldn't participate in who's this?
Deanna? What do you think aboutthis? Who's the jerk in this

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situation? I think she is.She should have breacee the chaos or stay
home, and maybe she's not theone for him. WHOA, that is
a good point, though she doesn'tnecessarily have to go, she wants to
miss out on the fund that's onher. Then would he be a jerk
for being like, all right,well I'm going seeya, No, because
this is my family and he's beendoing that forever, so she should have

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just yeah, that's a good point. All right, Hey, thank you
very much for the call. Thankyou, bye. Two Hang on one
second for us a Q one oftwo? Who's this? This is Alexis
Alexis, What do you think,who's the jerk? I think it's the
girlfriend because of the twenty four weekend. She can put up with it.
She's not sleeping with them for therest of her life. She's sleeping with

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him, but she is. Sheis sleeping with them every fourth of July
for the rest of her lives ifshe wants to stay in the pasture time.
No year too. I know it'sonly once a year. There's family
traditions that like, you gotta embraceit. You know, it's a family
tradition. Once a year. Thingis, it's three hundred and sixty five

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days in the years for two daysout of a year. She can deal
with it and suck it up.It's not her fault. Her family doesn't
do stuff like that. Who's this? This is Vanessa? Vanessa. What
do you think? Who's the jerk? I don't, I don't. I

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don't have it. What's a jerk? But she's definitely not the jerk.
She tried it last year with thefamily. She realized she didn't like it,
so now she's trying to figure outa compromise. I think that because
she gave it, Because she gaveit a chance. Last year. She
has a little bit of footing.It's like, it's not like, oh,
you don't know what's going on.You never tried it. It's like
I tried it, I didn't likeit. Let's figure out something now.

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It's a good point, A goodpoint. Yeah, like think about that.
It is a compromise. Be likeshe's saying she will go down the
shore, but she's also ruined.It's a tradition, you know. But
he has to realize when you getinto relationships you have you have to compromise,
and people will understand because you don'tknow. Somebody else in the family

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might be like, yo, Ifelt that way too, but I didn't
want to say anything because it isa tradition. Wow, just figure just
figure it out. There's Lucan's there'sfriends, you might get somebody from the
family. You might get enough couplefrom the family where you can get your
own plate. So it's not awhole bunch of money. Yeah, everybody's

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upset that you're shifting the household.But yes, but you're right. At
least she did give it a trythe first year, but you know she
did she did. Yeah, goodpoint. I hear what you're saying Bucks
doesn't like to compromise one. No, no, there's you there absolutely compromising
relationships. But the compromise that isfor him to what not be able to

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taking his family tradition. Well,he's down, but you don't say that,
and he might be feeling the sameway. He probably didn't say.
What if he's a pushover in therelationship, like, hey, you should
come down, and he's like,I really don't want to. I really
wanted to do it myself. Ireally wanted to stay alone with my girlfriend
and spend time with her. Well, now we're jumping all sorts of I

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mean, it's not black and white. It's always a great area. Hey,
that's a good note to live by. It. Sure we appreciate it.
Can't talk to us three times?I thought you owe me a coke?
Oh none ever heard? That wasSam Smith. I could do new
Sam Smith music anytime. So Ilove that song. That one is That

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one's up there. It's back tobuster and two and it's time brother dude.
Speaking of new music, Katy Perrygiving us a tease into her new
music, her new single called Woman'sWorld. Have you heard of at all?
I have not usually they play stufffor me early, but I don't
know. Yeah, the lyrics sexy, confident, self intelligent, She is
heaven sent so soft, so strong, and uh, what are you saying?

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Are those lyrics? These are thevibes sound like a shampoo commercial.
Maybe it's maybe it's Kate very yeah. I mean she's definitely like she looks
hot, you know, like she'sher body is on point. She she
looks she looks fabulous in all ofthis press that she's doing. This is

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a little snippet of what the songshould sound like. Safety, so integient,
she is said off strong. Maybeit's Kate. I have to say,

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I'm not excited by this. Ireally hope this is not her lead
single off of her album. Well. You got to remember Katy Perry stopped
making music because she was It wasit was rough, it was whiff after
whiff after whiff. Yeah, butthat was off of hit after hit after
hit. She needs dream, hotand cold. I kissed a girl she

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has it in her. You're absolutelyright, You're absolutely right. I just
hope, I just hope she doesn'tput that out. It sounds like that's
maybe that's why they didn't play itfor me. Hey, yeah, maybe
her labels out here like okay,diaper or diaper. I don't know,
I just it just it. She'strying to like exude all these things,

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but like it just sounds filtered andfake. That's kind of what happened with
her on the last few singles beforeshe kind of stopped making music for a
while. Remember the Migos song,It was like, what are we dealing?
People want authenticity, So you know, I hope that she gives because
I'm excited. I want her tojump like her when she was good.

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Joe alw breaking his silence son histailor's swift break up and giving us some
context into the timeline in which theybroke up. He was basically asked in
an interview if he's listened to Taylor'slatest album, which really is just a
breakup album about that specifically So LongLondon, and he had a hard time

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kind of answering the question. Hestarted off saying, I'm thinking of what
I'm gonna say. I would thinkand hope that anyone and everybody can empathize,
and then he sort of stopped himself, and then he went on to
say, I would hope that anyoneand everyone would empathize and understand the difficulties
that come with the end of along, loving, fully committed relationship for

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over six and a half years.This is a hard thing to navigate.
What is unusual and abnormal in thissituation is that one week later, it's
suddenly in the public domain and theoutside world is able to weigh in.
That's interesting. That's contrary to whata lot of people were saying to totally.
I feel like a lot of peoplewere saying that they had broken up

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for months and it just kind oflike came out. But he is clearly
saying and there was a lot ofspeculation about him potentially cheating, but he
made sure to use the words fullycommitted relationship, which he is I mean
saying that he did not cheat onthey were both fully committed to each other.

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So that shuts down a lot ofrumors that were swirling about their breakup.
Well, I think, as inyou know saying that I'm famous for
saying, is there are three sidesto every story, and the truth.
So I would imagine much like theben Affleck j Loo thing, like you
know, probably a little bit ofher, probably a little bit of him
together, hum, I dink.We all know what really happened with Jay

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long Ben, but yeah, yeah, probably more so than this, but
yeah yeah, but I hear whatyou're saying. Three sides to every story
and maybe one day we'll know thetruth. But I mean, like any
breakup, I just feel bad forhim because he now and for Travis Kelcey's
X. We always talk about thatthe chicken. Yeah, they got to
watch all they have to watch allof this unfold. I hate it,

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like like I don't want to seemy ex and what he's doing and who
he's with. Let alone, whileit's the biggest headline ever always Yeah.
Coming up next Taylor Swift's song aboutTravis Kelcey next. The first time I
heard this, I was like,corup not your thing? And then I
was like, you know, Idon't see why not. It is a

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shocking number of Americans are apparently puttingmayo on their hot dogs. I would
love if you would text in toQ one two. Our text line is
seven one O two one. I'dlove to see how many listeners have tried
this. If it's good, it'sye and I've never done it. Ketchup
and mustard is what I put upbut see a lot of people will say

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in yeah, no, no,A lot of people say ketchups and no,
oh god, that's a huge nono, like no, I can't
have a hot dog without ketchup.Yeah, there's a lot of people listening
there like that's blasphemous because a lotof people are mustard only. I I
agree with you. I'm a ketchupand mustard person, but I always feel
the judgment when I say ketchup andthere's people around there like, see,

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I don't. I feel like that'spretty standard. I think it's a big
thing. The mayo thing. Forme, I've never done that, but
you think about like a ham andcheese sandwich, because I mean, right,
a dog's meat. You're putting mayoon that, so why wouldn't it
take No, I've never fried itbaloney, but yeah, fried baloney.
See I grew up white trash,and what fried baloney? White trash loves

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fried baloniunds like a very bougie wayto eat. It's a big thing.
It's not but below, but it'sit's fried baloney and then you put mayo
on it. Some people put yeah, my go to too with a hot
dog is melting the cheese on thebutton. Now you're boo. Yeah,
so when you put it on thegrill, you put the bun with the

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cheese, Oh, melt it,then put the dog on top and the
catch us. Someone texted in,here mustard only ketch up as gross.
Another person texted in and said,mayo and chili. Whoa see, I've
heard of chili dogs, but Idon't know that I'm putting mayo with my
chili. You know what, though, these are all like great things separate,
so why not. I'm done.It's probably a big old dance in

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your mouth. It's probably great.You know, this is gonna be one
of those things. Yeah that intwenty years when they're reading about this in
history books, they're gonna be like, duh, why didn't they know any
better. It's kind of like welook at cigarette smoking. Now. Well,

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it's funny that you say that,because this is kind of replicating exactly
what that is. So the USSurgeon General has called for social media platforms
to include health war warnings on themfor younger users. So the same way
like you go and buy a packof cigarettes, it says like this calls
there's run cancer. It's gonna bethe same thing when you open up your

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social media account talking about how it'sbad for you and your mental health and
all of them. And I goback to like, this will absolutely be
one of those things where it's likeuh yeah, yeah, yeah, why
didn't you guys know anybody? It'sfunny because like there's we always talk about
this. I have a love haterelationship with social media because I think that
there's a lot of benefits to it, but it needs to be like there

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needs to be regulations, like youneed to have some restrictions when it comes
to your social media use because itcould like and not even young people,
it could affect anybody. But Ifeel like we got here like in a
quick manner. I mean it feelslike just yesterday we were sitting there updating
our MySpace song and everything was allgood. Or just getting on Facebook.

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Remember back in the days when youhad to have an invite or college something.
It's like, yeah, we werejust doing that and then all of
a sudden it became the way oflife. It does. I mean people,
this is people's careers. People makemoney off of it, like it's
a way to connect oh yeah,including us. Kind of which, speaking
of which you should follow us atBecks and Buster, but no warnings on

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our base. It's all good,all right, all right, if you
were if you were good all year, you're getting the hook up. It's
Becks and Buster on Q one two. We're not talking about Santa Claus.
No, we're talking about school beingout and if you kept up those good
grades, they're freebies for you.Chrispy Kreme Donuts they're doing one donut for
each A on a paper report card. Chick fil A is doing a six

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count nugget with a report card ofA's and Bees participating locations only, so
make sure you check Bees getting hookedup too. No, right, all
right, Cold Stone a free icecream for a straight A report card.
That's pretty aggressive. They want aparent maybe one day. Same thing with

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McDonald they're a tough parent too,Yeah, which is funny because they're like
they're a conglomerate like Coast, andI gets because it's a little smaller of
a company. Sure, McDonald's apowerhouse. Yeah, and they want for
a happy meal, you get it. You gotta have a straight bro.
Let me tell you I would havebeen paying for all of these, Like,

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there's no way you know. Ione time had a report card that
read out I was I'll never forgetthis. I was in seventh grade and
the letters actually wrote dead d EA d oh you had one a English?
What was the E? Uh?Well E was like almost failing.

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They made up your own number,like your own grading system. Yeah.
They were like, all right,fine, you get an E. Wait
no, no, no, no, that's what it was. He was
failing. They didn't have f's,so E was an F in my school.
Wow, okay, all districts havetheir own different things. So yeah,
red dead on the report card.I was like, a good maybe
that you're signed and go back tosah. I can't wait to bring this

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home to my parents. Yeah.Well that was a foreshadowing to what they
were gonna do to you. Yeah, exactly. It's a terrible idea.
Commercial free right now. It's backsand Buster on two. So cool.
It was a stunt that was wasin New York City. The Empire State
Building was wrapped in a blow updragon in honor of the return of the

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Game of Thrown series House of Dragons. Worst idea ever? Why because I
just think that there are things thatshould be off limits and we're in such
a weird world, like that couldhappen, that like could happen. I
don't bro it's just getting a littletoo close and also like a little insensitive,

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like it's New York. We knowit went down with the Skyline.
I don't want wrapping a movie aroundit. Like I wouldn't even want to
see that here at the Comcast Center. I would hate that. If I
saw a dragon up there, I'dbe like, oh, great, see,
I just got really excited because I'ma House of the Dragons fan,
so I was like, yeah,the Turgarians, but I guess I could

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understand. Yeah. Meanwhile, I'dbe like, oh, I heard on
the news that Turgarians are here back. We gotta get the hell out of
here. Yeah. No, I'mall Winds, Sign me up.