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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ah, wow, you went up to the mood.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Wow, that was pretty cool. Hey, uh, it's Backs and
Buster on Q and O two. Good afternoon, and it
is time.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
For the news.
Speaker 4 (00:09):
All right, let's get into it, starting off with Selena Gomez,
who had a response to those critics out there who
are coming at her about plastic surgery rumors. There's been
a lot of speculation about whether or not she's gotten
any work done, and she is at the point in
her life where she's like, uh, don't really need to
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respond to you.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
She said, I hate this.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
I was on stripes because of a flare up by botox.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
That's it. Leave me a load. She's putting her foot down.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
To fall back every when you're like a pop queen,
Like every move you make like that, especially you know,
if it's physical or whatever, people can't wait to talk
about it.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Oh of course, And like just think about like your
body in general, Like your weight fluctuates, you might break out,
you might be having a great skin day.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Sometimes you're just having a fat Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
Sometimes you just you know, I had a little bit
too many burgers over the weekend.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
It happened.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
But because they're under such a microscope, they're constantly being
criticized for it, and Selena Gomez has just had enough
of it and saying leave me alone. So good for
her from doing that. Lady Gaga, she performed at the
opening ceremonies of the Olympics and she's been in Pattie.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
That opening of the Olympics didn't stop.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
No.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
I was like, is this ever gonna end?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
There's like a well, I don't even know what that
ghost looking thing.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I don't know how in the water it was.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Listen, I've been watching the Olympics all too Actually, it's been.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Fun watching and watched the guys play basketball, the women
are playing today, the gymnastics am on Biles yesterday. Yeah,
so it's been cool, the swimming everything. Yeah, so it's
fun watching it. But Lady Gaga, you know, we poor Gaga.
There's been speculations around whether or not she's engaged or not,
and somebody caught her introducing her man as her fiance,
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so that's how.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
The rumor has been confirmed. They were videotaping her and.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
Then they released the video as she introduced her man
as her fiance, So Lady Gaga confirming unintentionally confirming on
her own that she is indeed engaged.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
So congratulations regulations Lady Gaga.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
It's Becks and Buster on Q and two asking you
who's the Jerman straight out of our dms at Becks
and Buster.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
I love this what we got today.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
We've got a civil war in the house.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Oh boy, all right, here go this is This is
a seventeen year old young man that dm'd us. By
the way, okay, he says. My parents have four kids.
I'm the oldest, seventeen. My younger sisters are thirteen and ten,
and then we have a six year old brother. My
parents have relied on me heavily to take care of
my siblings. The parents' schedules are very demanding on call
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twenty four to seven. We don't have a massive house,
so I haven't had my own room in years. So
many things have just become assumed that I'll do, like
preparing what my younger sisters siblings.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Need to eat.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
My parents will bring home dinner, which is usually pizza,
but I prepare other meals. I am my siblings ride
to and from school or the babysitters.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
I help with homework and my parents.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
My parents come around when it's bedtime after they're done
catching up on their shows. I don't love doing it,
but I got used to it and so it became
second nature. My parents learned that they were pregnant again
in June. It was very much talked about, like I
will be the helping hand again, but I've made it
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clear from the jump that I wasn't raising their next
kid for them. I told them I had more responsibility
than I should have with my three siblings, and I
wasn't going to skip my own life to raise an
infit from the start, Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
My parents were shocked.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Furthermore, I told them it's not fair for them to
train my other siblings to raise their kids either. My
parents told me I'll be eighteen and seven months and
should reconsider my stance because if I'm not going to
help raise my siblings anymore, then I can think about
getting my own place, which I can't afford. I told
them they should reconsider having the kid or think about
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giving it up for adoption because they're unfit for another baby.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Well, this is heavy for Monday.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Who is the jerk?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
We need to call child services getting there?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
You know I live every situation in life. You know
you always hear me say there's three sides to every
stare totally so we've only got the one side of
the store.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
We don't know what's really.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I had empathy for the parents until he wrote that
they joined bedtime after their shows. That was my AHA
moment of because parents can be busy a lot of times,
those parents who have no other choice but to work
two jobs and work late because they're trying to keep
food on the table and the lights on. So you know,
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I'm first generation. My parents are immigrants in this country.
My sister basically raised us because my parents were working
all day long, but because they had to, like we
had no other choice.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah, in this listener's depiction of what is happening in
his house, it doesn't sound exactly like that. This sounds
a little bit more like a negligent parent, Like they
have the choice. But if they it's a house where
all the kids are living in the same room, so
they can't have too much money. But if there were,
is so on call twenty four to seven, you'd think
that they.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Have a little bit of money.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Kids.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yeah, so I wonder.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
This kid sounds like he is an incredible kid and
he does not deserve and none of those kids deserve
to be in that household.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Uh two five, two, six, three, one oh two one.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
You could text us at seven one o two one
or hit us in the dms at Becks and Buster.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Did you help raise your siblings? Were you that kid
the older kids?
Speaker 5 (06:28):
Did?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I definitely did. My parents had uh my brother's sister.
They were twins when I was twelve thirteen something like that,
and they were also shifting careers at the same time.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
And when that happened, it made for no social life
for Buster.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
I was basically just home hanging out, helping. But I
can't say that I had this kid.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, this is extreme.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I can't imagine any parent would want their kids to
go through this and speak the way.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
They've like stolen his child.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Yeah, if you've had a situation like that, maybe you
want to sound off on the You can text us
at seven one o two one. You can also DM
us at Backs and Buster.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
We'll talk to you.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Live on Quea two next.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
We just asked you who's the jerk? It's Backs and Buster.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
We have a listener that dm do Us basically said
that his parents have kind of hijacked his life by
making raise his siblings.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah, he has three younger siblings that he preps meals for,
puts to bed, takes care of. And now his parents
just said that they're expecting another child.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
He told them to give it up for adoption. You're
unfit to be that's so sad.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
We are getting a bunch of text messages in here.
At seven one on two one, they said the parents
are more than jerks. It's so easy not to get
pregnant if you don't want kids. They sound like child's
children themselves. I'm so heated me too.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Uh wait, hold on, who's this? Hello?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah, Hi, who's this Jenny?
Speaker 3 (07:55):
What did you want to say about our listener's situation here?
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Okay, so if my parents are not helping at all
and watching movies and stuff, that's of course that's wrong,
like take.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
Care of your kid. But I will say that I
have a similar situation.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
At home, and I will say, like you said.
Speaker 6 (08:12):
Earlier, there's three five to the story.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
So with my child, she was seventeen years old when
she kept saying she was being bullied in high school.
She didn't want to work, she didn't want to do anything,
so she was pulled out, and because she was home,
we said, you have to help out with the two
younger ones, and she can't. To make a long story
super short, she would constantly complain about that, but it's like.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
You're home, we're a family.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
We can help each other, but no, I come home.
I make sure my kids have their own deals and
everything like that. But just keep in mind, a lot
of this generation they don't want to help. Like, if
you're living at home, rent free, you're not going to school,
you're not going to work. You can chip in and
you can help with the family. I think a lot
of this generation is also really entitled. But like you said,
I don't know the whole story there.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
So I'm just scared.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Since we're like we're breaking this down, you as a
parent need that extra help because are you out working?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Are you like, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
I'm a professor and my husband works.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
A factory job, and I could have them in childcare,
But why would I if you're home doing nothing because
you're depressed and you don't like you're taking some online classes, okay,
but you're not contributing at all financially at this point,
you're almost twenty, and she does. She complains sometimes about
helping out with the kids, and I'm like, no, we're
a family. You're living here rent free, you get all
your meals for free, you can help, you have the
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option to go.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
Work and go to school. I'm never gonna like, don't
live your life to custade with the kids. Never, it's anything.
I have the opposite problem. She doesn't want to get
out of the house.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
But if you're going to be home, you need to help, sorry,
or then move out. I agree with the parents, then
move out.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
The expense to everything in life, I disagree.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
Yeah, I think the difference between this story and your story,
you know that are the kid who dm ues is
his parents and watching television and they're negligent and they're no.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
I don't agree with that.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah, Like to me, there's a big difference versus you know,
you know, like versus you contributing to helping raise your
your your siblings because your parents are trying to keep
the lights on and put food on the tape.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
And there's a fine line, right because don't you always
technically like want to provide a better situation for your
children than you had growing up, right, So you want
them to have advantages, but you don't want them to
take advantage. You don't want them to be someone like this,
this woman who's on the phone right now. We don't
want someone to have someone take advantage of us. And
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you also want to teach chores and responsibilities exactly.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
But it also seems like your daughter might be like
dealing with something a little deeper that like maybe.
Speaker 6 (10:48):
You sure, I agree? Well, guess what therapy everything?
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I agree with you. I know where you're going. Everything's
been offered to you. You sabotage the therapy sessions, you
do everything, all right, Fine, you want to live here, dude,
you're gonna do something you don't want to go out,
you know, And I've done everything, So I agree with you.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Guys one percent. And I a kid, Like I said,
I don't know the whole full blown story.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
But for any young person listening out there, if you're
going to live in your parents' house.
Speaker 6 (11:13):
Rent free, and you're not going to have a job,
and you're not going to.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Have a like go to school, then you need to contribute, yes,
and help with your younger siblings because your parents are
providing you a very comfortable living where you don't have
to pay for anything. I don't agree that anyone should
take advantage like the parents, especially not like we go hiking.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
We do everything with their kids, like I cook, I
kill myself like that much.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
I know, But I also know my daughter has tried
to pull that car like anything.
Speaker 6 (11:36):
And I know the generation is so I'm gonna speak
out too. Yeah, like please.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
To get into like.
Speaker 6 (11:48):
They're right in therapy session seriously, either.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
A or boxing man.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Yeah, like a Ramen noodle box something like just playful.
Speaker 6 (11:57):
But yeah, and I hope and I told my daughter
it's not child to be at this age. Are going
to be right, and I'm probably gonna.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
Win songs sounds like a warm bath. It's bembuster to
bring up bats.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
And Sabrina Carpenter in the same sentence if you know
you know, ladies, and just no, it's not her, it's
her man buried from Saltburn.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
Oh oh oh oh yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
You took me on a ride. Yes, I was not
ready for that.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
If if you know, you know, I'll say that.
Speaker 4 (12:34):
Just watch Saltburn and you know what I'm talking about,
or don't because it's gross.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Yeah, it's gross, all right, it's not for the news.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
What do you guys?
Speaker 4 (12:40):
Actually you know I'm not even playing I actually didn't
finish that film.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
I couldn't finish it.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
Yeah, once I heard about that scene or was, I
was out.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yeah, not really my kind of movie.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
But well, nonetheless, we're not talking to Brina Carpenter. We're
talking Lady Gaga, who guys, has been secretly engaged for months.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
This announcement coming accident.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
She was meeting the French Prime Minister and somebody was
filming the entire interaction and she was like, oh, mister
Prime Minister, here's my fiance, and that video went viral.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Everybody knows.
Speaker 4 (13:12):
Everybody knows that she has indeed been engaged. She's been
very busy and putty as she gets.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
She was part of that opening ceremony.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
And her and Snoop Dogg are just like.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Like, what is Snoop doing that?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Just keep going back to him and he's like sitting there.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
It's like, okay, I can't imagine how much money's gonna
pay for that. But othertheless, Lady Gaga also getting ready
to release Joker, and Joaquin Phoenix is in the film
and he tells us that when Lady Gaga heard him
singing for the first time, she spit out her coffee
and he said that it made him feel good. It
was exciting, and he.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Made him feel even more confident.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
That Lady Gaga was that taken back by how how
incredible his vocals were.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I mean, when somebody's got it going on and pays
you a compliment, it makes you feel good about it.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
I'd love for somebody to spit out their coffee for
something I did.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
It's like when I'm when I'm out and about and
someone like dressed cool, compliments my shoes, I'll be like, yeah,
thank
Speaker 1 (14:09):
You, Like you feel good about that, right,