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Oh there we go. Hey,good afternoon, it's backs in Botster.
Want to do It's Monday, let'sgo. We got a whole busy ass
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week in front of us and plentyto do. But back's what you got
going on in the news. Sowe got a lot to talk about,
lots catch up over the weekend.Um, and also need to talk about
Martha Stewart making the cover of SportsIllustrated that picture at the age of eighty
one. We gotta talk about that. Things we didn't ask for. He
looks phenomenal. Okay, all right, we'll get into that next pleasing and
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season. All right, welcome toPhillies Feel Good Station. What is it
that we're feeling good over Herester?Oh? We all under we all you
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know? Yeah? Feel good.Yeah, that's a little radio inside right
there that Buster has given us insidebaseball. We appreciate you guys being here.
I kill you where we give youthe best, the best, And
let's talk some entertainments. Let's go. Okay, this past weekend, we're
going to talk about the whole debaclethat went down at the Tailors to with
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concert. First off, let metell you one of the best shows I've
ever been to I'm gonna throw itout there and is it worth the hysteria
because it was a lot And letme, I am not the biggest swifty
in the world. I do reallylove Taylor's music, like her as a
human, love who she is toher fans, but like she's not my
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number one cool I understand the hysteria. I have to say after seeing her
live in it it was next levelher performance, the stage, the set,
the rollercoaster of emotions and albums thatshe takes you on. I think
what the Eras tour did too,was kind of showed us that, hey,
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I've been here enough ben head hityes, hit after hit after,
and she played it all. Andwhat was really cool to see is like
there were, um, you know, there were like young fans there,
but there were like fans who werein their thirties with their kids now taking
them to shows. So it's justlike a testament of like the generational you
know, leverage that Taylor has.So but we are going to talk about
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that whole debacle with the security guardand her whatever. I got an exclusive
too. Yeah, We're so we'lltalk about that later because that's a huge
story. But let's talk about MarthaStewart, who is breaking history. She's
making history as the oldest model tograce to cover a Sports Illustrated the swimsuit
cover at the ripe age of eightyone years old. That I don't care
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what you say, buster, sheis corrushing it all right. She looked
amazing. I guess I don't know. Oh yeah, I mean I don't.
I don't care either way, becauselike what is a magazine at this
point? Like whatever, But likeI don't know, no, no,
no, I asked for a ninetyyear old in a bathing suit. She
looks phenomenal. I have to say, she looks amazing. And she said
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that she wanted to do it.Um, there were a couple of reasons
why she wanted to do it,but she wanted. She said that age
really had nothing to do with it. It just had to do it.
You know, Like this her breakingthese sort of barriers. So shout out
to her barriers that didn't need tobe broken. That's why you feel like
sometimes nowadays it's like no, no, no, no, that's sloke.
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I love you so much, Butthat's spoking like a true man. Because
there as as a female, thereare a lot of these like, and
they might not be spoken of,but there's a lot of these sort of
like you know ages, sort ofyou want to see a ninety year old
guy, Yeah, I'm a shirtoff. Listen, if Ryan Reynolds is
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nine years old wants to be onthe cover, I'll be like, okay,
baby, let's see it. Okay, Oh yeah, I'm fine with
that. Mike from this all right, as we know, Saturday night was
a magical evening in South Philly forSwifties. S Oh yeah, all weekend
Friday, Saturday. Saturday Night wascrazy because that's when twenty thousand people gathered
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outside the link thing during the showjust to hear what was happening in the
show, and then you trace itall the way inside to write at the
stage is where this problem went down. Okay, this story has made national
headlines, which is insane. SoTaylor's in the middle of performing Bad Blood
and she starts yelling at a securityguard who apparently, according to reports,
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was harassing some fans in the onthe on like that was in there watching
Taylor. Oh right, you gottaconnect it to the job. Oh my
goodness, there we go. Ohso, mid mid performance, Taylor is
singing, and in between her lyrics, she's yelling at the security literally,
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hey stop, they weren't doing anything. Yeah, so she's literally in between
that. Now everybody was like,what's going on. The security guard ended
up being escorted out. After allthis went down, the video went up
on TikTok, ended up going viral, and everybody was like, wait,
hold on, what happened. Sothe fan who this happened to, the
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one that says that she had theinteraction with the security guard, posted TikTok
and this is what she said wentdown. Basically, the guard had been
like harassing our group all night justto like, he just kept telling us
not to touch the brail, andlike every time we did anything, he
was like on top of us.We're dancing, we're having fun, and
he didn't like it. And Taylornoticed that I was having fun and that
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he didn't like it, and shedidn't like it. And then he basically
like got escorted out and they offeredthose free tickets for tonight, And that's
what happened according to this incident.Now. But when this happened, the
first thing I thought of was youwhy because you are the king of saying
there are always the three Sidestree story, absolutely, and that does not disappoint
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here because as soon as this allwent down, I was like, huh,
Becks and I were talking about howcan we get a hold of somebody
that was there that had this allgo down. Now, we work a
lot in the concert scene here inPhiladelphia, so we've befriended some security folk,
and I actually have some intel othe security team that was working in
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house at the Link on Saturday night. I reached out this morning and I
said, hey, you know,can you tell me what window? All?
Right? The gist of it is, so this is according to the
security somebody in that world on thesecurity side, yes, and I'm quoting.
Okay, the gist is we weretold after the incident earlier in the
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tour where someone tried to grab TaylorSwift's leg that was leaning over the barricade,
we were told that people cannot leanover the barricade, and we were
told to be very vigilant about this. Oh okay, And apparently the guard
may have been too aggressive. Wedon't know, he says. This person
says that they did not see theactual incident take place, but the reports
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were that the specific guard was beinga little too aggressive. Taylor saw it
and did not like it. Um. So you know when you think about
that, you go, Okay,they were told you cannot let people.
Yea, he was doing his job, doing his job. But the question
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begs to be asked here, howaggressive was he doing his job? Who's
the jerk in this situation? Becauseon face value, you could say,
hey, look, this girl's justhaving fun bongees there with her girlfriend.
Billion dollars and see, that's mything. If I'm dropping five grand on
tickets, you better let me dowhatever I want to do to that barricade.
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Okay, I don't care. Now, on the flip side of that,
we know that swifties, especially ifthey're ten feet from Taylor, Swift
could just black out and lose theirmind, right because they really care about
her, I mean gonna do well, you're not of the Travis Scott godser
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Yeah. But we know, weknow that this fan base is rapid,
right and if the reports are truethat earlier in the tour, somebody grabbed
her, grabbing her leg, Sothe security guard was trying to protect Taylor.
The security guard was trying to keeptheir job. So is the security
guard the jerk for trying to dothat. Or is Taylor Swift the jerk
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for making the security guard a villain? Or is this concert guard out or
is it the concertgoers to valid Becausewhile I do sound like I'm defending the
security guard, listen, I cantell you a million time where I've gotten
into it with security where I'm like, Yo, you don't need to be
talking to me like that, youknow, so there's a line that you
don't cross. Um And I've seensome reports saying that, you know,
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like he may or may i'd havebeen putting his hands on them, like
trying to block them. But Ido also feel bad for this person a
little bit too, because they're probablyjust trying to do their job. But
again, if I'm dropping that muchmoney, I could do whatever I want.
Who's the jerk? The number twoone five two sixty three one O
two one. You could text usat seven one h two one or hit
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us in the DMS at backs andbuster. Is it the security guard who
was telling them they can't lean onthe barricade? Was it the fans who
were, you know, having agood time without realizing that maybe they were
a little overbearing on that security orwas it Taylor Swift for dropping stopping the
concert to chastise the security and nothaving her team members. Taylor did not
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stop the concert. Taylor said itin between fishing, so imbrassed. It's
like bad, but now we goten jerk? Is next the hell?
I'll tell you what. Carmen's comingto get somebody after all this. It's
back Chimbuster on Q one or twoasking who's the jerk? Saturday night at
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the second Taylor Swift show at theLink, Yeah, there was a huge
incident that ended up making national headlines. Taylor Swift literally in the middle of
her show stopping down. She technicallydidn't stop down, but she yelled at
a security guard who was trying toget some concert goers off of a barricade.
He ended up being escorted out,and the concert goers, the four
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girls that were there just having fun, ended up getting invited back the next
day free tailor tickets. So weask you who's the jerk? Is it
the security guard, is it theconcert goers? Or is it Taylor Swift?
Or kind of making a big dealout of this on the phone here,
sir, you said, you areyou used to work security or you
do work security. Yeah, Iused to be a security officer for Castino
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in Philadelphia. Okay, So what'syour perspective on this situation? Um,
You know, security officers are toldto do something, and people take security
very seriously, especially when you're guardinga human being. So if he thought
that they were in any way notdoing what they were supposed to, I
feel like he has the right toask them to stop. Okay, regardless
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whether but I mean, you haveto figure out too what he was told
by his boss, because when Iwas a security officer, I was told
if you could fit a bottle ofwater in it, you check every bag,
and then I was fired because Iasked a woman to open her purse.
Who, yeah, absolutely, nowthat's what it is. Though it's
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one person to complain and then youknow that is what it is. Right.
But sir, while I agree withyou, do you think it is
at all possible that it's not necessarilythe message but sometimes how the message is
delivered. So sometimes you know,security might have a purpose of why they're
saying something, but they don't necessarilyget it out the right way and then
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all of a sudden it come.It's not like these four girls looked aggressive.
You know, it's not like theywere. They were like coming on
the tail. They're just dancing,having fun, right, But he was
the security guard was told right ifthey If you're as a security officer,
if you were told to do somethingspecific, you have to do what you're
told to do, regardless of how. But the thing is you have to
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understand too that everybody has their ownperspective on things. Okay, so what
Taylor Swift saw, you know,what she saw she may not have thought
was, you know, a badthing. But you know, as a
security officer, you have to makea judgment call at that time. And
now let's say that somebody had poppedoff and jumped the gate and he hadn't
stopped, and then he would havelost the job for that. They had
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to make a judgment call at thattime. I don't I don't think there's
a security officers the jerk in thissituation. I'm not sure that the people.
I just think it's a it waspoor communication, you know what I
mean. You're told to do somethingand the person who asked her to be
done, Taylor Swift had to havemade a comment, Hey make sure nobody
comes over the gate somebody touched me, right, and then publicly like that
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way, and then it's publicly saying, wow, you guys are horrible.
These people weren't doing anything wrong.It's just it's one of those things where
you're you're damned if you do andyou're damned if you don't. Play thing.
It just stucks with the guy,you know, definitely feels bad for
him. Wait, hang on onesecond, Hello, who's this? Yeah?
What's your perspective here? Who's thejerk in this situation? Is it
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Taylor Swift? Is it the securityguard or is it the concert goers?
By the way, we're live onthe Chris, Yeah, don't think Wait
hold on, it sounds like you'recalling us from the war, can you
like thin? I don't know,Yeah, all right, what do you
got? I don't think any ofthem are jerkes? Because looking at it
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from Taylor's this point of view,how would she see white? What was
really gone on? From the spa? Right? But she she felt like
she saw it enough to address amad song. I mean yeah, yeah,
I mean litter stop but in herbut to Taylor, she was just
trying to defend her fans, right, yeah, but she should wait,
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hold on, what's your I reallywant to guard is wrong either. And
as far as the fans, Imean, any fan would want to get
as close as I can when theyfeel like, oh, here's my moment,
I'm about to go up there.They didn't think they were about to
be like, you know right,so wait, what's what's hey? What's
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your name? Her name is Raya? Unfortunately you lose because it's who's the
jerk? Someone has to be?Right? I like, right, Notice
how we just like stopped talking aboutthe Sixers altogether. It's like just never
even happened. Moved on Phillies Sixers. Who God, they got there,
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but smack, not just like smack, but like embarrassed. We got like
punk it was game six. Ifthey were able to wrap that up,
yeah, but then watching Game sevengo down, it's like were they even
gonna be able to make it throughthe next round? Right? Right?
So there you go go, Filsbacks and buster Q one two and it's
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time for the news. Bye docOh yeah for sure, right, I'm
so curious. But you know what, I don't know if you saw this
report. I forget the number itwas, but there there was like this
officiating report that came out. Yeah, for Game six, it was like
fourteen calls were against like miss calls. Well, and let's be real,
they don't want Philly to win ever. I mean it's not like we do
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ourselves any favors sometimes, but likethey don't want Philly to win. I
mean they were like going out oftheir way though. I was. I've
been saying for months now or forweeks, I've been seeing all the sports
people talking about how they wanted thenational guys. They wanted to be Boston
in LA. They want that tobe the finals. So don't be surprised
if that's what happened. By theway, after I watched a documentary I
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forget what it's called, but itwas about the Delco revs. Yeah,
I'm just convinced they're all that's whatwe're going to say anyway. Ah,
yeah, we gotta find somebody toblame, all right, really quickly,
we have to talk about the amazingfirefighters in Philadelphia who earlier today during lunchtime,
we're putting out a fire on twelfthand Samsun. They told people to
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avoid that area. It is beingreported that the fire started on the twentieth
floor of a struck a building there. It looked scary too, It looked
crazy. There was the Vatican whenYeah, the fire just coming out,
thank goodness. So they were ableto like stop it as quickly as possible.
They did say, there's some reportscoming out saying that there were pro
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pain tanks that were on the roof, uh that caused the explosion during the
incident. But yeah, shout outs, I always say, shout outs firefighters
well and the most incredible humans asidefrom like nurses and doctor. Couldn't agree
more. And also I feel foreverybody that was stuck in that traffic or
you know President Penny crazy Yeah gridlockout there today. Um so yeah,
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so that happened in Philly. Andthen we have talked about Jamie Fox.
He was just literally in the hospital. Nobody knew what was happening, what
it was that left him hospitalized.It was due to a medical complication.
There are all these reports flying thatlike he's on his final days, right,
No, he's got himself a newshow. Actually, it is being
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reported that he and his daughter wereactually they're gonna be co co hosting,
like the Little Duo, co hostinga new music game. It's called We
Are Family. Um, and theyare set to star as a host for
the Wait wait, wait, wait, no, no, no, what
Well? His daughter came out Ibelieve it was on Friday, saying,
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like, I can't believe all thesereports because I'm convinced that it was Charlemagne
and the Breakfast Club because they wereout here like growing some crazy accusations all
around. She came out saying thathe's been out of the hospital. He's
fine. He was playing pickaball stop, okay, Like, but then where's
he come out? Jamie say something? But that's my thing is like,
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if he's that okay, and everybody'ssitting like you're asking us for prayers,
right I could be praying for somethingelse right now. There's a lot of
other places that I gave prayers rightnow. But yeah, apparently he's doing
much better. According to his daughter, he'sa which is great. What happy?
So what happened? I don't thinkwe'll ever know. It's kind of
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like the jay Z Solange fight andthe elevator. Now that was marketing for
the tour. I already know whatWell, maybe this is marketing for their
new show. Next we're commercial freein Philly. It's Bex and Buster around
Q one or two and bex wantsto ruin your relation ship with your best
friends. Oh, I do notwant to help it. If you are
considering dating your friend's ex. Yeah, let's see breaking girl code. We've
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got some experts chiming in here.We are just the middleman. Now.
These experts, they're dating experts andall that good stuff they say. They
say right off the bat, theyadvise against it. But if you are
adamant and you want to do this, they are saying that there are some
factors that you do need to consider, because, let's be real, it
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has happened. My sister, myolder sister, is married to a guy
that was best friends with her oldboyfriend back in the day. So wow,
okay, yeah, so like thisguy was all around when they were
in a relationship, then she brokeup with that, and then your sister
started dating him, and now notimmediately afterward, but now they're married.
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So there it is. It's possibleit could happen. But they do say,
what is the word tread carefully?Yeah, so they do say it's
not a black and white situation,it's a case by case situation. What
they say is it depends on alot of factors. A was he the
love of her life? Has shemoved on? Does she still think about
him anymore? There any lingering feelings? And what they're saying is ultimately according
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to these relationship experts, they saythat it's important to communicate your feelings with
your friend, here is your codeword before they start dating. But a
lot of times it doesn't happen thatway because they're trying to keep it a
secret. They don't, they say. They say that, that though,
is what causes the explosions in theserelationships. You need to know the territory,
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they'll say. You don't want toget go behind your friends back and
go against their wishes and lose theirtrust, because at that point is when
it's all unless you don't care aboutthe relationship with your friend. Well,
I think that's what it comes downto. I don't know. There's a
I don't ever see it, Likemy pride is not good enough for any
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of this stuff. Oh yeah,I couldn't. Yes, you wouldn't.
You wouldn't you have a thing withbeds. Buster wouldn't go to a girl's
house because she had an X andthe X looked at the house. I'm
just saying like I'm not confident enough, I'm not comfortable enough, like like
to to wife up the homie hopper, I couldn't do it. Yeah,
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well okay, but let's reverse that. Would you ever would you be mad
at your friend if they started datingan X, Yeah, I don't know
why. Even if I was overthat person, you still I would still
be like, I don't know,because it's not even so much that you're
like not over that person. It'slike, wait a minute, yes,
talk about me. Oh oh yes, she knows about me. Yeah,
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fair enough, fair enough, Butthen you also maybe you do do it
because then you always have that overlike your friend, like I know you.
But yeah, it's like when yourfriend tells you about a movie you've
already seen it, you know,like it's, okay, that was good.
I left the theater early, butI'm glad you enjoyed it though.
Slobby seconds so delicious. But Max, I'm so confused. How can a
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newspaper or a magazine or whatever thePhilly Inquirer even is anymore? How can
that be cyber attack? It's insane. So apparently the Philadelphia Inquirer experience,
they say the most significant disruption toits operation in twenty seven years due to
this cyber attack. The company wasworking to restore print operation after the attack
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that prevented the printing of their newspaperon Sunday. Their Sunday edition to be
printed. So someone took time outof their day to hack the Philly inquir
to stop newspaper production. Apparently theyjust okay. So they say the attack
was first detected when employees on Saturdaymorning found that the newspaper's content management system
wasn't working. They discovered some activitythat they didn't know was what it was
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on select computer systems and immediately tooksystems offline. They say the cyber attack
was caused. It caused the largestdisruption, as they said, yeah,
so it come on, hackers.The newspaper industry has faced enough over the
last like really alone. A lotof people are speculating though that it has
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something to do with the primary electionthe mayor, the mayor's primary election that's
scheduled for Tuesday tomorrow. People readthe newspaper and they are trying to affect
well. Also, I do haveto say the Inquirer has done a really
good job at like going digital aswell, So I don't want to like
bash them for like them just beingnewspapers, so like they're still a very
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prominent source of information for the cityof Philly and people to get their information
because they've done a good job atgold Digital, right, But these hackers
have sort of stopped the newspaper stuff. By the way, do you know
my first job ever, I wasa paper You are a paper boy,
which I think is so cute.Will you ride in a bit like the
paper down? Ye know it likeI was on roller blades. Oh even
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worse? Were you like you probablysmooth sailing at the end of it as
you like unloaded the way? Well, I actually you know what you bring
it up? Yeah, please tellus. So the newspaper bag had a
front and a back, like youcould put papers in the front. And
the problem is is that I wouldunload the front of a sudden the paper
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bags on the back. I imagineif you go down a hill, really
not you know, choking to tipor not to tip? Is that huge
question? Is the question? It'sbacks and buster we are commercial free on
QUNA two no backs. Before weget into this, I want to give
a big, bold face headline thatI am a great tipper. I believe
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in tipping over tipping the service industry, especially servers bartenders, without question.
However, it's gone too far inmy opinion. Well, I think COVID
definitely had something to do with that, and those new screens where they like
flip it over to you and youhave to like total. That changed the
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game for everything. Well, Ijust instantly in that moment go okay,
well wait a minute. I normallywould tip for something here, and I
understand we'll get into the whole otherdiscussion about tipping it take out, that's
not necessarily what I'm talking about.I'm talking about. I go to the
store, I buy the thing.The cashier flips the thing around and asked
me to tip, and I'm like, wait a minute. For what I'm
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buying the thing? I came inhere and did everything myself. What do
you I'm such a sucker of beinglike okay, and it's a hustle,
yes, But to me, I'mlike, whatever, it's an extra couple
of bucks. But but that isexactly. But we do have some etiquette
experts chiming in here, and they'rebreaking down when it is they feel necessary
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and unnecessary and even wrong in somesituations. Two tips. I wanted to
get into it. They say,don't tips. And by the way,
if you are one of these professions, feel free to text us and tell
us whether or not this is accurate. Yeah, let us know at seven
one or two one. The firstone is tip do not tip service technicians.
So they say, like people likeplumbers or electricians or landscapers, they
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usually make a good wage and theyaren't expecting a tip when it comes to
that. Yeah, I mean dependson did they get me a really good
deal. You know, I mighttip them on the back end, but
I see what you're saying. Thenext one is they say don't tip flight
attendants. It's considered bad form.Some airlines even have policies against it.
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Handing out drinks is one small partof their job. But you know what
I find interesting is we won't tipa flight attendant who's bringing us a cocktail
or a drink or a snack,but we will tip at a restaurant.
Are they kind of doing the samething. That's true, that's true,
But they do say well because theyactually say to not view the flight attendant
like they're not your server. Theirjob isn't to get you your drink.
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That's just a bonus. So youknow they want you to focus on flight
attendant says safety. Maybe that's why. Um. The next one is don't
tip if you're traveling in certain countries. This is definitely thing, especially in
Europe. I totally realize this.UM. They say that it's not part
of their culture. So because theypay their staff, you get a dollar
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sixty, you work off tips andthen we're gonna pool all the tips too.
Guys. Is so mad at thatwhen I was a server. The
next one is they say don't tipout restaurants where gratuity is included. So
always make sure to double check unlessyou feel like your server one above and
beyond and you want to add ontop of that tip. Sometimes they'll get
me if I've been drinking and Idon't see that part. Oh yea,
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let's go over them like man andthe next one. And by the way,
sometimes I totally feel like they tryto like sneak it in there.
And that's when they say is don'ttip highly trained professionals like nurses, lawyers
or accountants. UM. If theywant, if you want them to feel
like you appreciated them, they say, give the Car to give them some
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positive review on it. Yeah,that all sounds good. Um. However,
your local radio DJ feel free totip anytime. Yeah you can at
Becks Air. Yeah yeah, youknow you like the song we're playing. Ye so
Oh there we go. Hey,good afternoon, it's backs in Botster.
Want to do It's Monday, let'sgo. We got a whole busy ass
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week in front of us and plentyto do. But back's what you got
going on in the news. Sowe got a lot to talk about,
lots catch up over the weekend.Um, and also need to talk about
Martha Stewart making the cover of SportsIllustrated that picture at the age of eighty
one. We gotta talk about that. Things we didn't ask for. He
looks phenomenal. Okay, all right, we'll get into that next pleasing and
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season. All right, welcome toPhillies Feel Good Station. What is it
that we're feeling good over Herester?Oh? We all under we all you
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know? Yeah? Feel good.Yeah, that's a little radio inside right
there that Buster has given us insidebaseball. We appreciate you guys being here.
I kill you where we give youthe best, the best, And
let's talk some entertainments. Let's go. Okay, this past weekend, we're
going to talk about the whole debaclethat went down at the Tailors to with
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concert. First off, let metell you one of the best shows I've
ever been to I'm gonna throw itout there and is it worth the hysteria
because it was a lot And letme, I am not the biggest swifty
in the world. I do reallylove Taylor's music, like her as a
human, love who she is toher fans, but like she's not my
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number one cool I understand the hysteria. I have to say after seeing her
live in it it was next levelher performance, the stage, the set,
the rollercoaster of emotions and albums thatshe takes you on. I think
what the Eras tour did too,was kind of showed us that, hey,
(02:14):
I've been here enough ben head hityes, hit after hit after,
and she played it all. Andwhat was really cool to see is like
there were, um, you know, there were like young fans there,
but there were like fans who werein their thirties with their kids now taking
them to shows. So it's justlike a testament of like the generational you
know, leverage that Taylor has.So but we are going to talk about
(02:35):
that whole debacle with the security guardand her whatever. I got an exclusive
too. Yeah, We're so we'lltalk about that later because that's a huge
story. But let's talk about MarthaStewart, who is breaking history. She's
making history as the oldest model tograce to cover a Sports Illustrated the swimsuit
cover at the ripe age of eightyone years old. That I don't care
(03:00):
what you say, buster, sheis corrushing it all right. She looked
amazing. I guess I don't know. Oh yeah, I mean I don't.
I don't care either way, becauselike what is a magazine at this
point? Like whatever, But likeI don't know, no, no,
no, I asked for a ninetyyear old in a bathing suit. She
looks phenomenal. I have to say, she looks amazing. And she said
(03:23):
that she wanted to do it.Um, there were a couple of reasons
why she wanted to do it,but she wanted. She said that age
really had nothing to do with it. It just had to do it.
You know, Like this her breakingthese sort of barriers. So shout out
to her barriers that didn't need tobe broken. That's why you feel like
sometimes nowadays it's like no, no, no, no, that's sloke.
(03:43):
I love you so much, Butthat's spoking like a true man. Because
there as as a female, thereare a lot of these like, and
they might not be spoken of,but there's a lot of these sort of
like you know ages, sort ofyou want to see a ninety year old
guy, Yeah, I'm a shirtoff. Listen, if Ryan Reynolds is
(04:03):
nine years old wants to be onthe cover, I'll be like, okay,
baby, let's see it. Okay, Oh yeah, I'm fine with
that. Mike from this all right, as we know, Saturday night was
a magical evening in South Philly forSwifties. S Oh yeah, all weekend
Friday, Saturday. Saturday Night wascrazy because that's when twenty thousand people gathered
(04:25):
outside the link thing during the showjust to hear what was happening in the
show, and then you trace itall the way inside to write at the
stage is where this problem went down. Okay, this story has made national
headlines, which is insane. SoTaylor's in the middle of performing Bad Blood
and she starts yelling at a securityguard who apparently, according to reports,
(04:47):
was harassing some fans in the onthe on like that was in there watching
Taylor. Oh right, you gottaconnect it to the job. Oh my
goodness, there we go. Ohso, mid mid performance, Taylor is
singing, and in between her lyrics, she's yelling at the security literally,
(05:09):
hey stop, they weren't doing anything. Yeah, so she's literally in between
that. Now everybody was like,what's going on. The security guard ended
up being escorted out. After allthis went down, the video went up
on TikTok, ended up going viral, and everybody was like, wait,
hold on, what happened. Sothe fan who this happened to, the
(05:30):
one that says that she had theinteraction with the security guard, posted TikTok
and this is what she said wentdown. Basically, the guard had been
like harassing our group all night justto like, he just kept telling us
not to touch the brail, andlike every time we did anything, he
was like on top of us.We're dancing, we're having fun, and
he didn't like it. And Taylornoticed that I was having fun and that
(05:53):
he didn't like it, and shedidn't like it. And then he basically
like got escorted out and they offeredthose free tickets for tonight, And that's
what happened according to this incident.Now. But when this happened, the
first thing I thought of was youwhy because you are the king of saying
there are always the three Sidestree story, absolutely, and that does not disappoint
(06:15):
here because as soon as this allwent down, I was like, huh,
Becks and I were talking about howcan we get a hold of somebody
that was there that had this allgo down. Now, we work a
lot in the concert scene here inPhiladelphia, so we've befriended some security folk,
and I actually have some intel othe security team that was working in
(06:36):
house at the Link on Saturday night. I reached out this morning and I
said, hey, you know,can you tell me what window? All?
Right? The gist of it is, so this is according to the
security somebody in that world on thesecurity side, yes, and I'm quoting.
Okay, the gist is we weretold after the incident earlier in the
(06:59):
tour where someone tried to grab TaylorSwift's leg that was leaning over the barricade,
we were told that people cannot leanover the barricade, and we were
told to be very vigilant about this. Oh okay, And apparently the guard
may have been too aggressive. Wedon't know, he says. This person
says that they did not see theactual incident take place, but the reports
(07:20):
were that the specific guard was beinga little too aggressive. Taylor saw it
and did not like it. Um. So you know when you think about
that, you go, Okay,they were told you cannot let people.
Yea, he was doing his job, doing his job. But the question
(07:41):
begs to be asked here, howaggressive was he doing his job? Who's
the jerk in this situation? Becauseon face value, you could say,
hey, look, this girl's justhaving fun bongees there with her girlfriend.
Billion dollars and see, that's mything. If I'm dropping five grand on
tickets, you better let me dowhatever I want to do to that barricade.
(08:03):
Okay, I don't care. Now, on the flip side of that,
we know that swifties, especially ifthey're ten feet from Taylor, Swift
could just black out and lose theirmind, right because they really care about
her, I mean gonna do well, you're not of the Travis Scott godser
(08:24):
Yeah. But we know, weknow that this fan base is rapid,
right and if the reports are truethat earlier in the tour, somebody grabbed
her, grabbing her leg, Sothe security guard was trying to protect Taylor.
The security guard was trying to keeptheir job. So is the security
guard the jerk for trying to dothat. Or is Taylor Swift the jerk
(08:48):
for making the security guard a villain? Or is this concert guard out or
is it the concertgoers to valid Becausewhile I do sound like I'm defending the
security guard, listen, I cantell you a million time where I've gotten
into it with security where I'm like, Yo, you don't need to be
talking to me like that, youknow, so there's a line that you
don't cross. Um And I've seensome reports saying that, you know,
(09:11):
like he may or may i'd havebeen putting his hands on them, like
trying to block them. But Ido also feel bad for this person a
little bit too, because they're probablyjust trying to do their job. But
again, if I'm dropping that muchmoney, I could do whatever I want.
Who's the jerk? The number twoone five two sixty three one O
two one. You could text usat seven one h two one or hit
(09:33):
us in the DMS at backs andbuster. Is it the security guard who
was telling them they can't lean onthe barricade? Was it the fans who
were, you know, having agood time without realizing that maybe they were
a little overbearing on that security orwas it Taylor Swift for dropping stopping the
concert to chastise the security and nothaving her team members. Taylor did not
(09:54):
stop the concert. Taylor said itin between fishing, so imbrassed. It's
like bad, but now we goten jerk? Is next the hell?
I'll tell you what. Carmen's comingto get somebody after all this. It's
back Chimbuster on Q one or twoasking who's the jerk? Saturday night at
(10:18):
the second Taylor Swift show at theLink, Yeah, there was a huge
incident that ended up making national headlines. Taylor Swift literally in the middle of
her show stopping down. She technicallydidn't stop down, but she yelled at
a security guard who was trying toget some concert goers off of a barricade.
He ended up being escorted out,and the concert goers, the four
(10:39):
girls that were there just having fun, ended up getting invited back the next
day free tailor tickets. So weask you who's the jerk? Is it
the security guard, is it theconcert goers? Or is it Taylor Swift?
Or kind of making a big dealout of this on the phone here,
sir, you said, you areyou used to work security or you
do work security. Yeah, Iused to be a security officer for Castino
(11:01):
in Philadelphia. Okay, So what'syour perspective on this situation? Um,
You know, security officers are toldto do something, and people take security
very seriously, especially when you're guardinga human being. So if he thought
that they were in any way notdoing what they were supposed to, I
feel like he has the right toask them to stop. Okay, regardless
(11:24):
whether but I mean, you haveto figure out too what he was told
by his boss, because when Iwas a security officer, I was told
if you could fit a bottle ofwater in it, you check every bag,
and then I was fired because Iasked a woman to open her purse.
Who, yeah, absolutely, nowthat's what it is. Though it's
(11:46):
one person to complain and then youknow that is what it is. Right.
But sir, while I agree withyou, do you think it is
at all possible that it's not necessarilythe message but sometimes how the message is
delivered. So sometimes you know,security might have a purpose of why they're
saying something, but they don't necessarilyget it out the right way and then
(12:07):
all of a sudden it come.It's not like these four girls looked aggressive.
You know, it's not like theywere. They were like coming on
the tail. They're just dancing,having fun, right, But he was
the security guard was told right ifthey If you're as a security officer,
if you were told to do somethingspecific, you have to do what you're
told to do, regardless of how. But the thing is you have to
(12:31):
understand too that everybody has their ownperspective on things. Okay, so what
Taylor Swift saw, you know,what she saw she may not have thought
was, you know, a badthing. But you know, as a
security officer, you have to makea judgment call at that time. And
now let's say that somebody had poppedoff and jumped the gate and he hadn't
stopped, and then he would havelost the job for that. They had
(12:54):
to make a judgment call at thattime. I don't I don't think there's
a security officers the jerk in thissituation. I'm not sure that the people.
I just think it's a it waspoor communication, you know what I
mean. You're told to do somethingand the person who asked her to be
done, Taylor Swift had to havemade a comment, Hey make sure nobody
comes over the gate somebody touched me, right, and then publicly like that
(13:16):
way, and then it's publicly saying, wow, you guys are horrible.
These people weren't doing anything wrong.It's just it's one of those things where
you're you're damned if you do andyou're damned if you don't. Play thing.
It just stucks with the guy,you know, definitely feels bad for
him. Wait, hang on onesecond, Hello, who's this? Yeah?
What's your perspective here? Who's thejerk in this situation? Is it
(13:39):
Taylor Swift? Is it the securityguard or is it the concert goers?
By the way, we're live onthe Chris, Yeah, don't think Wait
hold on, it sounds like you'recalling us from the war, can you
like thin? I don't know,Yeah, all right, what do you
got? I don't think any ofthem are jerkes? Because looking at it
(14:03):
from Taylor's this point of view,how would she see white? What was
really gone on? From the spa? Right? But she she felt like
she saw it enough to address amad song. I mean yeah, yeah,
I mean litter stop but in herbut to Taylor, she was just
trying to defend her fans, right, yeah, but she should wait,
(14:26):
hold on, what's your I reallywant to guard is wrong either. And
as far as the fans, Imean, any fan would want to get
as close as I can when theyfeel like, oh, here's my moment,
I'm about to go up there.They didn't think they were about to
be like, you know right,so wait, what's what's hey? What's
(14:46):
your name? Her name is Raya? Unfortunately you lose because it's who's the
jerk? Someone has to be?Right? I like, right, Notice
how we just like stopped talking aboutthe Sixers altogether. It's like just never
even happened. Moved on Phillies Sixers. Who God, they got there,
(15:09):
but smack, not just like smack, but like embarrassed. We got like
punk it was game six. Ifthey were able to wrap that up,
yeah, but then watching Game sevengo down, it's like were they even
gonna be able to make it throughthe next round? Right? Right?
So there you go go, Filsbacks and buster Q one two and it's
(15:30):
time for the news. Bye docOh yeah for sure, right, I'm
so curious. But you know what, I don't know if you saw this
report. I forget the number itwas, but there there was like this
officiating report that came out. Yeah, for Game six, it was like
fourteen calls were against like miss calls. Well, and let's be real,
they don't want Philly to win ever. I mean it's not like we do
(15:50):
ourselves any favors sometimes, but likethey don't want Philly to win. I
mean they were like going out oftheir way though. I was. I've
been saying for months now or forweeks, I've been seeing all the sports
people talking about how they wanted thenational guys. They wanted to be Boston
in LA. They want that tobe the finals. So don't be surprised
if that's what happened. By theway, after I watched a documentary I
(16:11):
forget what it's called, but itwas about the Delco revs. Yeah,
I'm just convinced they're all that's whatwe're going to say anyway. Ah,
yeah, we gotta find somebody toblame, all right, really quickly,
we have to talk about the amazingfirefighters in Philadelphia who earlier today during lunchtime,
we're putting out a fire on twelfthand Samsun. They told people to
(16:34):
avoid that area. It is beingreported that the fire started on the twentieth
floor of a struck a building there. It looked scary too, It looked
crazy. There was the Vatican whenYeah, the fire just coming out,
thank goodness. So they were ableto like stop it as quickly as possible.
They did say, there's some reportscoming out saying that there were pro
(16:55):
pain tanks that were on the roof, uh that caused the explosion during the
incident. But yeah, shout outs, I always say, shout outs firefighters
well and the most incredible humans asidefrom like nurses and doctor. Couldn't agree
more. And also I feel foreverybody that was stuck in that traffic or
you know President Penny crazy Yeah gridlockout there today. Um so yeah,
(17:19):
so that happened in Philly. Andthen we have talked about Jamie Fox.
He was just literally in the hospital. Nobody knew what was happening, what
it was that left him hospitalized.It was due to a medical complication.
There are all these reports flying thatlike he's on his final days, right,
No, he's got himself a newshow. Actually, it is being
(17:41):
reported that he and his daughter wereactually they're gonna be co co hosting,
like the Little Duo, co hostinga new music game. It's called We
Are Family. Um, and theyare set to star as a host for
the Wait wait, wait, wait, no, no, no, what
Well? His daughter came out Ibelieve it was on Friday, saying,
(18:03):
like, I can't believe all thesereports because I'm convinced that it was Charlemagne
and the Breakfast Club because they wereout here like growing some crazy accusations all
around. She came out saying thathe's been out of the hospital. He's
fine. He was playing pickaball stop, okay, Like, but then where's
he come out? Jamie say something? But that's my thing is like,
(18:23):
if he's that okay, and everybody'ssitting like you're asking us for prayers,
right I could be praying for somethingelse right now. There's a lot of
other places that I gave prayers rightnow. But yeah, apparently he's doing
much better. According to his daughter, he'sa which is great. What happy?
So what happened? I don't thinkwe'll ever know. It's kind of
(18:45):
like the jay Z Solange fight andthe elevator. Now that was marketing for
the tour. I already know whatWell, maybe this is marketing for their
new show. Next we're commercial freein Philly. It's Bex and Buster around
Q one or two and bex wantsto ruin your relation ship with your best
friends. Oh, I do notwant to help it. If you are
considering dating your friend's ex. Yeah, let's see breaking girl code. We've
(19:12):
got some experts chiming in here.We are just the middleman. Now.
These experts, they're dating experts andall that good stuff they say. They
say right off the bat, theyadvise against it. But if you are
adamant and you want to do this, they are saying that there are some
factors that you do need to consider, because, let's be real, it
(19:33):
has happened. My sister, myolder sister, is married to a guy
that was best friends with her oldboyfriend back in the day. So wow,
okay, yeah, so like thisguy was all around when they were
in a relationship, then she brokeup with that, and then your sister
started dating him, and now notimmediately afterward, but now they're married.
(19:56):
So there it is. It's possibleit could happen. But they do say,
what is the word tread carefully?Yeah, so they do say it's
not a black and white situation,it's a case by case situation. What
they say is it depends on alot of factors. A was he the
love of her life? Has shemoved on? Does she still think about
him anymore? There any lingering feelings? And what they're saying is ultimately according
(20:19):
to these relationship experts, they saythat it's important to communicate your feelings with
your friend, here is your codeword before they start dating. But a
lot of times it doesn't happen thatway because they're trying to keep it a
secret. They don't, they say. They say that, that though,
is what causes the explosions in theserelationships. You need to know the territory,
(20:41):
they'll say. You don't want toget go behind your friends back and
go against their wishes and lose theirtrust, because at that point is when
it's all unless you don't care aboutthe relationship with your friend. Well,
I think that's what it comes downto. I don't know. There's a
I don't ever see it, Likemy pride is not good enough for any
(21:03):
of this stuff. Oh yeah,I couldn't. Yes, you wouldn't.
You wouldn't you have a thing withbeds. Buster wouldn't go to a girl's
house because she had an X andthe X looked at the house. I'm
just saying like I'm not confident enough, I'm not comfortable enough, like like
to to wife up the homie hopper, I couldn't do it. Yeah,
(21:25):
well okay, but let's reverse that. Would you ever would you be mad
at your friend if they started datingan X, Yeah, I don't know
why. Even if I was overthat person, you still I would still
be like, I don't know,because it's not even so much that you're
like not over that person. It'slike, wait a minute, yes,
talk about me. Oh oh yes, she knows about me. Yeah,
(21:47):
fair enough, fair enough, Butthen you also maybe you do do it
because then you always have that overlike your friend, like I know you.
But yeah, it's like when yourfriend tells you about a movie you've
already seen it, you know,like it's, okay, that was good.
I left the theater early, butI'm glad you enjoyed it though.
Slobby seconds so delicious. But Max, I'm so confused. How can a
(22:12):
newspaper or a magazine or whatever thePhilly Inquirer even is anymore? How can
that be cyber attack? It's insane. So apparently the Philadelphia Inquirer experience,
they say the most significant disruption toits operation in twenty seven years due to
this cyber attack. The company wasworking to restore print operation after the attack
(22:34):
that prevented the printing of their newspaperon Sunday. Their Sunday edition to be
printed. So someone took time outof their day to hack the Philly inquir
to stop newspaper production. Apparently theyjust okay. So they say the attack
was first detected when employees on Saturdaymorning found that the newspaper's content management system
wasn't working. They discovered some activitythat they didn't know was what it was
(23:00):
on select computer systems and immediately tooksystems offline. They say the cyber attack
was caused. It caused the largestdisruption, as they said, yeah,
so it come on, hackers.The newspaper industry has faced enough over the
last like really alone. A lotof people are speculating though that it has
(23:21):
something to do with the primary electionthe mayor, the mayor's primary election that's
scheduled for Tuesday tomorrow. People readthe newspaper and they are trying to affect
well. Also, I do haveto say the Inquirer has done a really
good job at like going digital aswell, So I don't want to like
bash them for like them just beingnewspapers, so like they're still a very
(23:44):
prominent source of information for the cityof Philly and people to get their information
because they've done a good job atgold Digital, right, But these hackers
have sort of stopped the newspaper stuff. By the way, do you know
my first job ever, I wasa paper You are a paper boy,
which I think is so cute.Will you ride in a bit like the
paper down? Ye know it likeI was on roller blades. Oh even
(24:08):
worse? Were you like you probablysmooth sailing at the end of it as
you like unloaded the way? Well, I actually you know what you bring
it up? Yeah, please tellus. So the newspaper bag had a
front and a back, like youcould put papers in the front. And
the problem is is that I wouldunload the front of a sudden the paper
(24:30):
bags on the back. I imagineif you go down a hill, really
not you know, choking to tipor not to tip? Is that huge
question? Is the question? It'sbacks and buster we are commercial free on
QUNA two no backs. Before weget into this, I want to give
a big, bold face headline thatI am a great tipper. I believe
(24:53):
in tipping over tipping the service industry, especially servers bartenders, without question.
However, it's gone too far inmy opinion. Well, I think COVID
definitely had something to do with that, and those new screens where they like
flip it over to you and youhave to like total. That changed the
(25:14):
game for everything. Well, Ijust instantly in that moment go okay,
well wait a minute. I normallywould tip for something here, and I
understand we'll get into the whole otherdiscussion about tipping it take out, that's
not necessarily what I'm talking about.I'm talking about. I go to the
store, I buy the thing.The cashier flips the thing around and asked
me to tip, and I'm like, wait a minute. For what I'm
(25:36):
buying the thing? I came inhere and did everything myself. What do
you I'm such a sucker of beinglike okay, and it's a hustle,
yes, But to me, I'mlike, whatever, it's an extra couple
of bucks. But but that isexactly. But we do have some etiquette
experts chiming in here, and they'rebreaking down when it is they feel necessary
(26:00):
and unnecessary and even wrong in somesituations. Two tips. I wanted to
get into it. They say,don't tips. And by the way,
if you are one of these professions, feel free to text us and tell
us whether or not this is accurate. Yeah, let us know at seven
one or two one. The firstone is tip do not tip service technicians.
So they say, like people likeplumbers or electricians or landscapers, they
(26:22):
usually make a good wage and theyaren't expecting a tip when it comes to
that. Yeah, I mean dependson did they get me a really good
deal. You know, I mighttip them on the back end, but
I see what you're saying. Thenext one is they say don't tip flight
attendants. It's considered bad form.Some airlines even have policies against it.
(26:42):
Handing out drinks is one small partof their job. But you know what
I find interesting is we won't tipa flight attendant who's bringing us a cocktail
or a drink or a snack,but we will tip at a restaurant.
Are they kind of doing the samething. That's true, that's true,
But they do say well because theyactually say to not view the flight attendant
like they're not your server. Theirjob isn't to get you your drink.
(27:07):
That's just a bonus. So youknow they want you to focus on flight
attendant says safety. Maybe that's why. Um. The next one is don't
tip if you're traveling in certain countries. This is definitely thing, especially in
Europe. I totally realize this.UM. They say that it's not part
of their culture. So because theypay their staff, you get a dollar
(27:29):
sixty, you work off tips andthen we're gonna pool all the tips too.
Guys. Is so mad at thatwhen I was a server. The
next one is they say don't tipout restaurants where gratuity is included. So
always make sure to double check unlessyou feel like your server one above and
beyond and you want to add ontop of that tip. Sometimes they'll get
me if I've been drinking and Idon't see that part. Oh yea,
(27:49):
let's go over them like man andthe next one. And by the way,
sometimes I totally feel like they tryto like sneak it in there.
And that's when they say is don'ttip highly trained professionals like nurses, lawyers
or accountants. UM. If theywant, if you want them to feel
like you appreciated them, they say, give the Car to give them some
(28:11):
positive review on it. Yeah,that all sounds good. Um. However,
your local radio DJ feel free totip anytime. Yeah you can at
Becks Air. Yeah yeah, youknow you like the song we're playing. Ye so
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