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(00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Frend Show. Hey,
Dave, good morning, Welcome,good morning. We're doing great. Waiting
by the phone is what this iscalled. So tell me why you feel
like you're being ghosted by this woman, Nicole? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates that you'vebeen on, and then where things stand.
So we met. We met ona dating app and everything is going
(00:23):
well. We you know, wentout for drinks. We had a black
and a really good conversation, gota little buzz, went to my place
and you know, we hung out. We didn't we didn't have sex or
anything, but we did have anice kiss before she left, and then
after that nothing. So I don'tknow if I'm just a bad kisser or
(00:44):
something, but I haven't heard fromher since. Okay, so great date
back to your place, which obviouslyindicates a level of comfort, and then
everything was cool at the house exceptnow you know, she won't respond to
you. I assume you've called,you've texted DM on the app or whatever.
Absolutely, yeah, everything, huh, all right, Well that's where
we come in, Dave. We'regonna call Nicole see if we can get
(01:06):
her on the phone and ask somequestions for you. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. Atsome point you're welcome to jump in after
we get you some info. Andthe hope here is that we can straighten
things out and then set you guysup on another date that we pay for.
Sound good, Yeah, sounds good. Thing. We're gonna find out
what's going on next. After Neighborhood, we're back in two minutes the frend
Show commercial free for the next fortyminutes, Neighborhood. He is on the
French show. We're commercial free.Good morning, glad you're here. All
(01:30):
on the radio and of course theiHeartRadio app search for the Fred Show.
Hey Dave, Yeah, all right, let's call it a Kole. You
man on the apps. You hada great date back to your place,
no crazy shenanigans, but you guysdid kiss at the end of the date.
You really thought that there was chemistryand things are going well, except
now you can't get ahold of herand you feel like you're being ghosted and
you want to know why exactly.All right, all right, let's call
her now. Good luck, Dave, thank you? Hello, his this
(01:59):
Nicole, Yes it is Heinahicle.Good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling from the Fred Show,and I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with this call. Can wechat for just a couple of minutes?
Um? Okay, sure, thankyou very much. Um, I'll get
right to it. We're calling onbehalf of a guy who says he met
you on the one of the datingapps. His name is Dave, and
(02:20):
you guys went out recently. Doyou remember Dave? Yes? I do?
Okay, Yeah, what's going onwith this guy? Because I'll tell
you you know, he called usand said that he liked you a lot
and thought the date was successful,but he says he can't get a hold
of you for another date. Sowhat's your sort of side of the story
here. Well, I'll tell youthat Dave is a total weirdo. Wo
(02:44):
yeah, yeah, okay, AndI didn't I didn't have any idea how
weird he was until we get backto his place. Okay, why was
he rude? So so things wentwell up until after dinner and you go
to his place. He told usabout dinner, He told us about his
place, so well, my god, there, Um, we kissed a
little. You know. The gatewent pretty well, and then he asked
(03:06):
me if I wanted a tour,and I was like, well, yeah,
sure, so I said, youknow, I said yes. Um.
Do you guys know what, MadameAlexander dolls are? Oh my god?
Yeah, is that all right?What they're? They're those old dolls
like from I feel like these peoplehad them a lot. I don't know
(03:28):
what that is. You might haveto google. Yah. They're they're like
I don't know if they're made ofa porcelain or you know. It's like
those old dolls that you see inhorror films, one or some or a
lot of our Oh he has aton of them, like a crap ton
(03:49):
of all on shelves, on shelvesin his bedroom. Oh yeah, creep
Let me tell you it, will. I forgot to mention that Davis here,
What are these things, Madame Alexander? Oh god, yeah, those
(04:10):
are my grandmother's dolls. Are youkidding me? Oh? These are kind
of creepy. Whoa, that's sorude. I let you come to my
house and I give you a tour, and then suddenly you're just gonna make
fun of me for having my grandmother'sthings. Like, what that's so rude?
Well, they are kind of creepyin front of you. Yeah,
I thought I was gonna get murdered. Yes, oh yeah, who I
(04:36):
mean, what man has dolls intheir room? I will say, like,
think it's lovely. I think David'slovely that you you you are hanging
onto these heirlooms of your beloved grandmother. But I'm not sure if the bedroom
is the right place for them fora lot of reasons. I'm just trying
to, you know, remember mygrandma. But I guess I'm I'm the
(04:59):
jerk here. Yeah, well I'mno one said you're a juror. I
just don't think they want to bestared at by those like weird little dolls
that they have the eyes that kindof opening clothes and are kind of weird
and stuff like I don't just right, do you have dolls in your bedroom?
There's so many, Like I don'teven know how you sleep with those
things just staring at you. There'sthere's one doll that's like a witch,
(05:24):
like it's literally has a room likeeight mother things. I mean, you
have to admit David's it's an uniquecollection and the bedroom. Is it is
an interesting place to store them all? I guess. I mean I just
thought they were nine. Thing remindme of my grandmother. You know,
they just sit on the shelf.They're just dolls, maybe one or two
or maybe not thirty of them orsomething, you know that kind of thing.
(05:46):
Maybe moderation is the key. Imean, look, here's the thing.
This has happened so many times.I'm waiting mother phone. It's like,
if that's what you want to havein your bedroom, you want to
have a bunch of dolls in yourbedroom to remember, remember your grandmother.
I can't believe that's a sentence I'msaying out. But that's by all means.
But you can't be surprised when someonethinks that that's a little bit abnormal
for them. That's crazy to me. I don't just it's just a collection.
(06:10):
Okay, all right, Well,Nicole, what if he paired it
down. I'm not saying he's willingto, but what if he paired it
down a little bit? Or ornow that you understand the significance or the
meaning to him, I mean,you liked him up until that point,
would you give him another shot?Um? No? Okay, I just
I don't trust him. I don'tknow why. I just okay, too
weird. It was way too weird. You had to be there. Well,
(06:33):
no, don't go there. He'sabout to do some kind of a
seance. Ay, yeah, exactly? Are they spiritual and all day?
Like? Are they voodoo dolls?Can you like poke at it and they'll
hurt her or something? Oh?I know, they're just dolls. I
mean, I don't know. Ifeel like I'm not the weirdo in this
situation where you'all are thinking that thesedolls are going to come to life and
(06:54):
hurt somebody. They're dolls. Yeah, maybe we are the rest possible.
You know, we've been called weirdosbefore. Um, I don't have any
dolls in my bedroom, but Iyou know, not to say that I
shouldn't or couldn't or you know maybemaybe Yeah, we don't want to know
any dolls in your room, right, we don't want to. Well,
let not those kind of knows.All right, I gotta go. Guy's
(07:17):
not I guess it's not going tobe another date. So best of luck
to both of you, and thankyou for your time. Thank you
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Frend Show. Hey,
Dave, good morning, Welcome,good morning. We're doing great. Waiting
by the phone is what this iscalled. So tell me why you feel
like you're being ghosted by this woman, Nicole? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates that you'vebeen on, and then where things stand.
So we met. We met ona dating app and everything is going
(00:23):
well. We you know, wentout for drinks. We had a black
and a really good conversation, gota little buzz, went to my place
and you know, we hung out. We didn't we didn't have sex or
anything, but we did have anice kiss before she left, and then
after that nothing. So I don'tknow if I'm just a bad kisser or
(00:44):
something, but I haven't heard fromher since. Okay, so great date
back to your place, which obviouslyindicates a level of comfort, and then
everything was cool at the house exceptnow you know, she won't respond to
you. I assume you've called,you've texted DM on the app or whatever.
Absolutely, yeah, everything, huh, all right, Well that's where
we come in, Dave. We'regonna call Nicole see if we can get
(01:06):
her on the phone and ask somequestions for you. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. Atsome point you're welcome to jump in after
we get you some info. Andthe hope here is that we can straighten
things out and then set you guysup on another date that we pay for.
Sound good, Yeah, sounds good. Thing. We're gonna find out
what's going on next. After Neighborhood, we're back in two minutes the frend
Show commercial free for the next fortyminutes, Neighborhood. He is on the
French show. We're commercial free.Good morning, glad you're here. All
(01:30):
on the radio and of course theiHeartRadio app search for the Fred Show.
Hey Dave, Yeah, all right, let's call it a Kole. You
man on the apps. You hada great date back to your place,
no crazy shenanigans, but you guysdid kiss at the end of the date.
You really thought that there was chemistryand things are going well, except
now you can't get ahold of herand you feel like you're being ghosted and
you want to know why exactly.All right, all right, let's call
her now. Good luck, Dave, thank you? Hello, his this
(01:59):
Nicole, Yes it is Heinahicle.Good morning. My name is Fred.
I'm calling from the Fred Show,and I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with this call. Can wechat for just a couple of minutes?
Um? Okay, sure, thankyou very much. Um, I'll get
right to it. We're calling onbehalf of a guy who says he met
you on the one of the datingapps. His name is Dave, and
(02:20):
you guys went out recently. Doyou remember Dave? Yes? I do?
Okay, Yeah, what's going onwith this guy? Because I'll tell
you you know, he called usand said that he liked you a lot
and thought the date was successful,but he says he can't get a hold
of you for another date. Sowhat's your sort of side of the story
here. Well, I'll tell youthat Dave is a total weirdo. Wo
(02:44):
yeah, yeah, okay, AndI didn't I didn't have any idea how
weird he was until we get backto his place. Okay, why was
he rude? So so things wentwell up until after dinner and you go
to his place. He told usabout dinner, He told us about his
place, so well, my god, there, Um, we kissed a
little. You know. The gatewent pretty well, and then he asked
(03:06):
me if I wanted a tour,and I was like, well, yeah,
sure, so I said, youknow, I said yes. Um.
Do you guys know what, MadameAlexander dolls are? Oh my god?
Yeah, is that all right?What they're? They're those old dolls
like from I feel like these peoplehad them a lot. I don't know
(03:28):
what that is. You might haveto google. Yah. They're they're like
I don't know if they're made ofa porcelain or you know. It's like
those old dolls that you see inhorror films, one or some or a
lot of our Oh he has aton of them, like a crap ton
(03:49):
of all on shelves, on shelvesin his bedroom. Oh yeah, creep
Let me tell you it, will. I forgot to mention that Davis here,
What are these things, Madame Alexander? Oh god, yeah, those
(04:10):
are my grandmother's dolls. Are youkidding me? Oh? These are kind
of creepy. Whoa, that's sorude. I let you come to my
house and I give you a tour, and then suddenly you're just gonna make
fun of me for having my grandmother'sthings. Like, what that's so rude?
Well, they are kind of creepyin front of you. Yeah,
I thought I was gonna get murdered. Yes, oh yeah, who I
(04:36):
mean, what man has dolls intheir room? I will say, like,
think it's lovely. I think David'slovely that you you you are hanging
onto these heirlooms of your beloved grandmother. But I'm not sure if the bedroom
is the right place for them fora lot of reasons. I'm just trying
to, you know, remember mygrandma. But I guess I'm I'm the
(04:59):
jerk here. Yeah, well I'mno one said you're a juror. I
just don't think they want to bestared at by those like weird little dolls
that they have the eyes that kindof opening clothes and are kind of weird
and stuff like I don't just right, do you have dolls in your bedroom?
There's so many, Like I don'teven know how you sleep with those
things just staring at you. There'sthere's one doll that's like a witch,
(05:24):
like it's literally has a room likeeight mother things. I mean, you
have to admit David's it's an uniquecollection and the bedroom. Is it is
an interesting place to store them all? I guess. I mean I just
thought they were nine. Thing remindme of my grandmother. You know,
they just sit on the shelf.They're just dolls, maybe one or two
or maybe not thirty of them orsomething, you know that kind of thing.
(05:46):
Maybe moderation is the key. Imean, look, here's the thing.
This has happened so many times.I'm waiting mother phone. It's like,
if that's what you want to havein your bedroom, you want to
have a bunch of dolls in yourbedroom to remember, remember your grandmother.
I can't believe that's a sentence I'msaying out. But that's by all means.
But you can't be surprised when someonethinks that that's a little bit abnormal
for them. That's crazy to me. I don't just it's just a collection.
(06:10):
Okay, all right, Well,Nicole, what if he paired it
down. I'm not saying he's willingto, but what if he paired it
down a little bit? Or ornow that you understand the significance or the
meaning to him, I mean,you liked him up until that point,
would you give him another shot?Um? No? Okay, I just
I don't trust him. I don'tknow why. I just okay, too
weird. It was way too weird. You had to be there. Well,
(06:33):
no, don't go there. He'sabout to do some kind of a
seance. Ay, yeah, exactly? Are they spiritual and all day?
Like? Are they voodoo dolls?Can you like poke at it and they'll
hurt her or something? Oh?I know, they're just dolls. I
mean, I don't know. Ifeel like I'm not the weirdo in this
situation where you'all are thinking that thesedolls are going to come to life and
(06:54):
hurt somebody. They're dolls. Yeah, maybe we are the rest possible.
You know, we've been called weirdosbefore. Um, I don't have any
dolls in my bedroom, but Iyou know, not to say that I
shouldn't or couldn't or you know maybemaybe Yeah, we don't want to know
any dolls in your room, right, we don't want to. Well,
let not those kind of knows.All right, I gotta go. Guy's
(07:17):
not I guess it's not going tobe another date. So best of luck
to both of you, and thankyou for your time. Thank you
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