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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I don't know if it's just me, but I feel
like I have my disproportionate amount of stories.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
I think it's me.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
I think it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to
my own peril. Like I ask questions I don't want
the answer to because it's I think it's wired in
my brain. It's who I have become. It's who I am.
A curious person, you know, and I make money. People
call up here and I talk to them, and if
(00:29):
there's a you know, if there's a little string, I
pull on it see what I can get. And I
feel like I do the same thing in my relationships,
which is why occasionally I'm considered inappropriate and a little
invasive and interesting because I just I'll just ask, I'll
ask questions, and i'll you know, if you give me
an inch, I'll try and take a mouth, see what
I can find out about you. I'm a very curious person,
(00:50):
and so I find out from this woman. I don't
even know how it came up. I think she was like, yeah,
I have a Delta Buddy pass, which you and there's
a couple different ways.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I guess that terminology could work.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Either you have a pass, an individual pass given to
you by an employee, which means you could fly stand by.
In this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,
this woman, so she gets a good one. Yeah, it's
the golden one. Yeah, that's the one where you know
you don't need an individual path. You show up and
it's almost you're the same as the employee the way
that I understand it, or the way you can list
(01:22):
yourself on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that
you would get if you were married to somebody who
works for the airline.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works
for Delta, but they they're not as good as they
seem to be.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
But that's like the best one you can get.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, and I think you still run into the same
issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know
it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,
and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it
doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going
on for like ten years she's been on this guy
or a long time she's been on this guy's buddy list.
(01:55):
Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.
I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously, right,
because and here I am trying to talk to her,
but it's like this, dude, he still got you on
his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought the
same thing. But this is all I'm gonna say. Nothing.
Nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with
(02:19):
this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends in
the amount of time, he still hasn't removed her as
this domestic partner, So she must.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Have some bomb dignity.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yes, I mean, and but why would you do that
if you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean,
that would be the if I broke up with somebody,
even if it were friendly, I still don't think that
they would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what
happens when I date somebody else and they're like, why
can't we go anywhere on your past?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's like, well, because my ex is on it. That
wouldn't work.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I mean, can you imagine if I don't know, like,
if I'm a pilot, I meet some new woman and
I'm like I'm into you. Yeah, Well my privately. The
main work benefit I have is still devoted to my
ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I don't think that would go.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Noddy, No, I would not go.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
But he did get me thinking about what, like, what
is there any benefit that you are still receiving from
an ex? And I'm not talking about like, you know,
child support. I mean, I'm talking about Mike. Is there
anything that you're still getting from an ex that you
probably should get for yourself at this point? Is my question?
(03:34):
Eight five five five one three five. In this case,
this woman's flat around the world for free because of
a guy that she may or may not have once
hooked up with, who years later Stele is giving her
this benefit. Why would you do that if you weren't
trying to hang on to something right? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
I can't for her. When did she say they stopped
hooking up? Did she say that she was not? She
was not clear on that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Oh, no clarity yesterday.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I don't know people in between, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But my thing is like, I don't know if I
had some like free concert ticket benefit here where, like
if you knew me and you could just go to
any venue and get in, that's coming.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Back with me, you know what I mean? Like we're
taking that.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
No, you don't get to keep that after you break
up with me, because I don't want to have to
explain to the next girl. Yeah, and I know you
can only change them every now and like you can't
just I think it's every year. It depends on the airline.
I know you can't just like constantly be updating with
new domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been
long enough where he could take her off if he
(04:43):
wanted to. Soone's this costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill Oh.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah text.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change
the domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,
the airline will flag you. They still hooking up, bro,
so for a certain period of time. I can see
why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex
husband still has me listed. It's his primary beneficiary in
his will.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Oh girl, yes.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
You know mine.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I will have a free lawyer for the rest of
my life.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
High page, How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 5 (05:31):
He is still paying for free ad free music for me,
and I do still have his debit card saved on
my phone in my Apple day.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff
on it? Would he say anything?
Speaker 5 (05:47):
I don't think he would because he does still try
to get back with me, So I don't think he
would say anything. He knows I still have it on
my phone, but he still pays for my music every month.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So yeah, because if I yeah, if I if your
credit card, if my credit card is on your phone
and I don't want to have some connection to you
or see you ever again or whatever, then I change
the card so that you can't shore you know what
I mean. But I think that this is his way
of hoping. You know, It's like it's still attached in
some way.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just
I still have it there.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I well, I want to use it.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I'm well because you have no intention to get back
to him, because you have integrity, and RUFO doesn't.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Thank you. Have a good day.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yeah, glad you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber,
good morning, Good morning, Hi Amber. What benefit are you
still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So my divorce is.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Just finalized in July, and I still have my phone
totally paid for for this company?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Do you think that does he have any control that way?
Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he
can have access to what you're doing.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he
definitely was that kind of person. But I'm taking it. Man.
We've got four kids and I was staying home on
for sixteen years, so switching that over it's been a
slower process for me, and I'm going to take advantage
of the fact that it's one less last to carry.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Noway, good for you, Amber. I'm just I'm paranoid.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I would I would figure somebody was doing that to
to check out who I was texting, or you know
what I mean, you do against me? Yeah? Yeah, but
it's all good. It's over now, so yeah, yeah, exactly.
Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's okay, it's not bad.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
You'll be all right.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
I'm enjoying it.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
He says.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
It's a cris And I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Know how old she is, but that must be wild.
I mean, can you imagine any more than ten years?
Maybe even I don't know what the threshold. Let's just
say ten any more than ten years of of having
not dated and then now dating. It's a different world entirely.
It's a whole different thing.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, it's really not.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and
it seemed so scary, But it's really not.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I feel like people make it sound so bad. It's scary.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I wouldn't know what to do, Like I wouldn't know the.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
No, why how do you get hit on?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
And girl?
Speaker 4 (08:24):
You know how to flirt back?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
If it was scary, it's it's just different. It's really different. Yeah,
because you close with big.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Tis you right there?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
He on his way to be a single?
Speaker 5 (08:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Man, Yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean frand
talking to Russians.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
It's like it's a little I'm still talking to the Russian.
I think I think she might be legit. I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I mean, she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in one
of the pictures that she's because you know, I made
her send that she was four fingers.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
She's from Michigan. Supposedly.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
It's not a scammer. No one would choose that this Russians.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,
as you know. And then I had people. I had
people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,
the scammers have like women on the ready to do
whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,
that that makes sense. I can see that. But why
would she wear a lion switch?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
All the NFL teams of scammers not picking the Lions.
Please don't ever believe that.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those
like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said, Lions
super Bowls.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I know she's not real.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Let me see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion. Okay, I
know this isn't real.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Where in Michigan does she say she's from, because I think,
help you detroight?
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can
tell you that's a trust that you can fit three
Chicago's in Detroit.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a
public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave
off the witness if I feel safe.
Speaker 5 (10:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Whatever, she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more
press show next
I don't know if it's just me, but I feel
like I have my disproportionate amount of stories.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
I think it's me.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
I think it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to
my own peril. Like I ask questions I don't want
the answer to because it's I think it's wired in
my brain. It's who I have become. It's who I am.
A curious person, you know, and I make money. People
call up here and I talk to them, and if
(00:29):
there's a you know, if there's a little string, I
pull on it see what I can get. And I
feel like I do the same thing in my relationships,
which is why occasionally I'm considered inappropriate and a little
invasive and interesting because I just I'll just ask, I'll
ask questions, and i'll you know, if you give me
an inch, I'll try and take a mouth, see what
I can find out about you. I'm a very curious person,
(00:50):
and so I find out from this woman. I don't
even know how it came up. I think she was like, yeah,
I have a Delta Buddy pass, which you and there's
a couple different ways.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I guess that terminology could work.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Either you have a pass, an individual pass given to
you by an employee, which means you could fly stand by.
In this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,
this woman, so she gets a good one. Yeah, it's
the golden one. Yeah, that's the one where you know
you don't need an individual path. You show up and
it's almost you're the same as the employee the way
that I understand it, or the way you can list
(01:22):
yourself on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that
you would get if you were married to somebody who
works for the airline.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works
for Delta, but they they're not as good as they
seem to be.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
But that's like the best one you can get.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, and I think you still run into the same
issues where you might get stranded, but nonetheless, you know
it's unlimited from the way I understand it, at least,
and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever, it
doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been going
on for like ten years she's been on this guy
or a long time she's been on this guy's buddy list.
(01:55):
Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.
I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously, right,
because and here I am trying to talk to her,
but it's like this, dude, he still got you on
his benefits. And she's like, well, my ex thought the
same thing. But this is all I'm gonna say. Nothing.
Nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with
(02:19):
this guy, yes, and for through multiple other boyfriends in
the amount of time, he still hasn't removed her as
this domestic partner, So she must.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Have some bomb dignity.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yes, I mean, and but why would you do that
if you had no hope of potentially reuniting. I mean,
that would be the if I broke up with somebody,
even if it were friendly, I still don't think that
they would be listed as my domestic partner. Because what
happens when I date somebody else and they're like, why
can't we go anywhere on your past?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's like, well, because my ex is on it. That
wouldn't work.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I mean, can you imagine if I don't know, like,
if I'm a pilot, I meet some new woman and
I'm like I'm into you. Yeah, Well my privately. The
main work benefit I have is still devoted to my
ex girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I don't think that would go.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Noddy, No, I would not go.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
But he did get me thinking about what, like, what
is there any benefit that you are still receiving from
an ex? And I'm not talking about like, you know,
child support. I mean, I'm talking about Mike. Is there
anything that you're still getting from an ex that you
probably should get for yourself at this point? Is my question?
(03:34):
Eight five five five one three five. In this case,
this woman's flat around the world for free because of
a guy that she may or may not have once
hooked up with, who years later Stele is giving her
this benefit. Why would you do that if you weren't
trying to hang on to something right? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
I can't for her. When did she say they stopped
hooking up? Did she say that she was not? She
was not clear on that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Oh, no clarity yesterday.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I don't know people in between, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
But my thing is like, I don't know if I
had some like free concert ticket benefit here where, like
if you knew me and you could just go to
any venue and get in, that's coming.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Back with me, you know what I mean? Like we're
taking that.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
No, you don't get to keep that after you break
up with me, because I don't want to have to
explain to the next girl. Yeah, and I know you
can only change them every now and like you can't
just I think it's every year. It depends on the airline.
I know you can't just like constantly be updating with
new domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been
long enough where he could take her off if he
(04:43):
wanted to. Soone's this costco membership, Netflix subscription, nikor bill Oh.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah text.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change
the domestic partner pass over to someone else. If you do,
the airline will flag you. They still hooking up, bro,
so for a certain period of time. I can see
why he wouldn't switch it because he can't. My ex
husband still has me listed. It's his primary beneficiary in
his will.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Oh girl, yes.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
You know mine.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I will have a free lawyer for the rest of
my life.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
High page, How are you?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 5 (05:31):
He is still paying for free ad free music for me,
and I do still have his debit card saved on
my phone in my Apple day.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff
on it? Would he say anything?
Speaker 5 (05:47):
I don't think he would because he does still try
to get back with me, So I don't think he
would say anything. He knows I still have it on
my phone, but he still pays for my music every month.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So yeah, because if I yeah, if I if your
credit card, if my credit card is on your phone
and I don't want to have some connection to you
or see you ever again or whatever, then I change
the card so that you can't shore you know what
I mean. But I think that this is his way
of hoping. You know, It's like it's still attached in
some way.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just
I still have it there.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
I well, I want to use it.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I'm well because you have no intention to get back
to him, because you have integrity, and RUFO doesn't.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Thank you. Have a good day.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yeah, glad you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber,
good morning, Good morning, Hi Amber. What benefit are you
still receiving from an ex?
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So my divorce is.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Just finalized in July, and I still have my phone
totally paid for for this company?
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Do you think that does he have any control that way?
Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he
can have access to what you're doing.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he
definitely was that kind of person. But I'm taking it. Man.
We've got four kids and I was staying home on
for sixteen years, so switching that over it's been a
slower process for me, and I'm going to take advantage
of the fact that it's one less last to carry.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Noway, good for you, Amber. I'm just I'm paranoid.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I would I would figure somebody was doing that to
to check out who I was texting, or you know
what I mean, you do against me? Yeah? Yeah, but
it's all good. It's over now, so yeah, yeah, exactly.
Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's okay, it's not bad.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
You'll be all right.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
I'm enjoying it.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
He says.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
It's a cris And I don't.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Know how old she is, but that must be wild.
I mean, can you imagine any more than ten years?
Maybe even I don't know what the threshold. Let's just
say ten any more than ten years of of having
not dated and then now dating. It's a different world entirely.
It's a whole different thing.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
Yeah, it's really not.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and
it seemed so scary, But it's really not.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
I feel like people make it sound so bad. It's scary.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I wouldn't know what to do, Like I wouldn't know the.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
No, why how do you get hit on?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
And girl?
Speaker 4 (08:24):
You know how to flirt back?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
If it was scary, it's it's just different. It's really different. Yeah,
because you close with big.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Tis you right there?
Speaker 4 (08:38):
He on his way to be a single?
Speaker 5 (08:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Man, Yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean frand
talking to Russians.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
It's like it's a little I'm still talking to the Russian.
I think I think she might be legit. I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I mean, she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in one
of the pictures that she's because you know, I made
her send that she was four fingers.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
She's from Michigan. Supposedly.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
It's not a scammer. No one would choose that this Russians.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,
as you know. And then I had people. I had
people on the text line yesterday telling me, well, you know,
the scammers have like women on the ready to do
whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,
that that makes sense. I can see that. But why
would she wear a lion switch?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
All the NFL teams of scammers not picking the Lions.
Please don't ever believe that.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those
like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said, Lions
super Bowls.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
I know she's not real.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Let me see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion. Okay, I
know this isn't real.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Where in Michigan does she say she's from, because I think,
help you detroight?
Speaker 4 (09:54):
Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can
tell you that's a trust that you can fit three
Chicago's in Detroit.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a
public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave
off the witness if I feel safe.
Speaker 5 (10:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Whatever, she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more
press show next
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