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July 7, 2025 84 mins

Have you ever run a half marathon? Fred calls his personal trainer Gideon to help motivate Bella on her running journey. And find out why Dominic got ghosted on Waiting by the Phone from the vault. Lastly, have you ever been cheated on? Fred and the crew discuss their experiences!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:41):
Well up in the city, somebody else founds your girlfriend.
I don't know why everybody they found about us? Why
think they were just confused because I'm on freend show. TikTok,
so all you see is your face moving when I talk? Now,
did we have to be in the bathtub or could
we maybe have not? Fred's show?

Speaker 2 (01:00):
This is something we were talking about before. But eat
five five five three five. Okay, So now Kiki shared
a little while ago that Big Tim she believes Big
Tim is a psychopath killer because he does not wet
his toothbrush, apply the toothpaste, and then wet the toothpaste

(01:21):
again and then brush his teeth.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yes, he instead just goes.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
He just raw dogs it right onto the right, onto
the nasty hard bristles, and then brushes his teeth that way.
How does he have any gums left? I mean, I
would think they would just be gone now, just no gum. Tim,
who we should be calling him?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Big Tim? No gums?

Speaker 2 (01:45):
But then we had another debate in the room and
apparently I'm the outlier. But I'm not the problem. I'm
not the problem. Oh No, I'm usually the problem, but
I'm not the problem this time. Then you're telling me
that if then the issue was that if there's any
little toothpaste left in your sink, yes, that you won't

(02:07):
use your hand to get the toothpaste down the drain
it was in your mouth, yes, But that's not the
real issue.

Speaker 1 (02:15):
The real issue is you people. Is it always Jason?
You brush your teeth? Yea even the kind one.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
You brush your teeth and then you rinse your mouth
out with water after you brush your teeth.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Yes. Yes.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
The analogy that I heard about this unrelated earlier in
the week was that is the same as putting on
lotion and taking a shower. You just brush your teeth,
your teeth have a nice protective coating of the flooride
or whatever whatever the ingredients of the You don't then
wash that.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Off of your teeth. That is insanity.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
But frid you're brushing gook off of your teeth, Where
does the gook go? If you don't, you know, wash
your mouth out after It's just you're spitting the gook out.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
So you just spit it out and then you leave
the the doing there. Well, how much toothpaste do you
leave it in your mouth? You don't.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
And then and then I looked it up, and then
I looked at and I'm sure there's a dentist listening.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Maybe there's someone you know. I don't know dentists listen.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
But uh. Some dental professionals recommend against rinsing after brushing.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Immediately after brushing.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
The main reason is to allow the fluoride in the
toothpaste to workfect work effectively strengthening enamel. Rinting too soon
can dilute fluoride and reduce its benefit.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
All right, well, I'm good. I don't use fluoride, so
I'm gonna keep on rinsing.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
You got a rint man, that's why you want to
have two teeth. Care on the anti fluoride.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
I don't want to shrink my penial gland.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
I don't want that shrink protect the penial. You know,
I'm always saying that now a lot of people are
saying that all the time. Yeah, this is absolutely insane
to me.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
My mind is blown.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
My teeth feel great when I come out of the
bathroom and I have nice minty breath and they're clean,
and everything's great.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
I don't. I'm not.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
I'm not going to I'm not going to take what
I just did and dilute it with water. I just
clean myself. I'm not putting lotion on and then getting
in the shower. That's a perfect example. I'm not doing it.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
I just like putting soap on. Yeah, just living life. Yeah,
washing the soap off.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
I don't think that because no, but hold on a second,
it's given.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
There are elements of the soap that do stay on
your skin if you if you wash, if you take
too many showers, or if you stand in the shower
too long after you bathe, then whatever, like the the
hydrating qualities of the soap or whatever, they just get
sucked out. So you you don't watch all of everything
you apply to your body off.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Okay you don't. I don't know what I'm saying. Is
it soaks into your skin?

Speaker 2 (04:51):
I don't walk out sudsy, and then just like sometimes
I walk out sudsy. Depends how sexy I'm trying to be.
I'm not trying to get into my my double decker
king size airplane waterbed. Is there a lady waiting for
me in theirs? And sometimes I get out sudsy and
then I get my I get my uh halle Berry lube, and.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
I just off we go. Did you end up buying that?

Speaker 5 (05:14):
No?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Because it's forty five dollars. We can make a bottle
of the forty five dollars, loube, I mean, can you
I want to do a lot more of this.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
You better make damn sure that I reached the dimishline.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
I mean, don't you waste that? Girl right knows so
many drops off.

Speaker 2 (05:31):
You look at you just using that forty stuff like
it just grows on trees.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Crazy person. The texts are blown up. Yeah, they're saying
you're crazy.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
No they're not, but what the And they brought up
another point that I actually brought up off air was
when do you use mouth washed in do you use
it before you brush or after you Oh?

Speaker 6 (05:53):
After use use I use it after rush, after water,
like grinse.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Mouthful is crazy.

Speaker 6 (06:00):
So you're so toothpaste on your teeth and then you
use mouthleushly that's a that's like so much mit, Like,
I don't know if I could handle.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
But you guys are acting like like like you're gallons
of toothpastes just left over. You brush it into like
a like you know, essentially you're brushing it on and
off kind of at the same and you're not putting
water on. No. No, And by the way, you're The
text are overwhelmingly saying that I'm right. Thanks for having
us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and

(06:29):
anytime search for a fresh show on demand. I don't
know if I have a theme song for Gideon, but
Body by Gideon, Personal Trainer to the Stars and.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
Me Uh, is your high, Gideon, what's going on?

Speaker 5 (06:41):
Look?

Speaker 1 (06:42):
Look at this guy? Look at this guy. Can you do?

Speaker 2 (06:44):
He just radiates happiness and positivity. And it's so annoying
because he's so good looking and he has this great
smile and he sounds like that. Well I'm huffing and
puffing and having a heart attack and eating resuscitation. He's
still smiling and sounding like that. Like it's so frustrating, Gideon.

Speaker 5 (07:03):
Fred It's not frustrating. We have a good time. We
never wear together. Sometimes you just don't realize it until
it's over.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
You're right, you're right.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
But we have our intern here, Bellahamine, who answers the
phone and responds to many of the text messages. And
you said to me the other day that you want
to go couch to Chicago marathon, right.

Speaker 7 (07:22):
Right, Well, not Chicago, I'm doing a half marathon at
the end of September.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Okay, So you haven't from now May June, July, August,
so you have five months.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, I've been a while to run.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
A half marathon. And so now tell Gideon where we're at.
Because you've run how many marathons now?

Speaker 5 (07:38):
Six?

Speaker 1 (07:39):
Seven?

Speaker 5 (07:40):
I run seven. But who's counting me.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
I'm counting this guy's been.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
This guy's done Chicago many times, he's done Houston, he's
done New York.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Wow, he ran around the world one time. Yeah, I
could see that.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
He climbed out Everest six times. It's crazy and all
while I ran one mile. So it's crazy. So where
are we at in our journey so far?

Speaker 1 (08:03):
Two days in?

Speaker 7 (08:04):
We're about two days in right now, my back is
hurting like no other. I didn't know your back hurts
when you run, you guys, I didn't know the spots, everything,
everything hurts.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Well, how much have we run? Cumulatively? Like what kind
of running? What do we accomplish in two days?

Speaker 7 (08:17):
We've done like a run walk, walk, walk run kind
of a situation where I start to get embarrassed. The
people behind me are looking at me. They're like, why
is this girl just running and walking? So I like
motivate myself to keep running. But then I stopped.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Because we had to learn, Gideon has said and teach
me to is no one's actually looking at you. You
should just know and they might be, but they're not
really internalizing, so no one's really judging you. There's that
that's the right right, Gideon, that's correct.

Speaker 5 (08:44):
Everybody has their own problems and struggles, and no one's
going to learn about the other person.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (08:49):
That's my biggest thing is I feel like I look
like an idiot out there because I also run, like
my legs go like side to side, Like they just
look a little silly.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
They go side to side. Yeah that might be a something.
Are you riding a horse?

Speaker 7 (09:03):
And I just always ran like this and like people,
my friends always make fun of me, and it's like,
you know, I feel like people look at it when
they like, I run, my legs go out.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
See.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
But here's the good news. The good news is that
you can blend in.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Imagine me six five two and forty pounds, like trotting
down the lake fits like who is this NBA player
who's out of clearly out of shape and hasn't been
in the league in fifteen years? Like that's what they
look at when they think of me. And then they
see this very good looking fit guy and they're like,
he must be paying him. You know what it looks
like more on the lakefront, it looks like I hired
someone to go on a date with me.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (09:35):
Because like, no one is no one is saying, like
this guy, the tall like guy that looks like a
moron running that that man is not electively training with him.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
Like no one thinks.

Speaker 2 (09:46):
That I'm coming, that he's coming to me for.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
Any form of inspiration. So don't worry about how you look.
But I look like a sad child, you know. It's
like running away from home. No one on the lake
pad like I with legs, apparently.

Speaker 7 (10:00):
Like their parents never taught how to run like it
just running away from your trouble.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
So giddy, what should she do? Like, what's the progression here?

Speaker 5 (10:08):
Well, first and foremost, my congratulations on making a decision
and working towards that, because a lot of people don't
give themselves credit for the fact that it takes some
courage to kind of put yourself out there, especially on
the radio on the freat Show, and just tell your
friends and family that you had this audacious goal and
you're actually doing something to work towards it. So make

(10:29):
congratulations to you. And then I would say that, like
this is a journey and it's not going to be perfect.
I'd say this is a print all the time, You're
going to stumble a little bit. You may feel awkward
or it's a cure in times, but you're doing something
good for yourself, and you're doing something that's going to
challenge you and change you positively, so that to be
a reward, you know what I mean, in its process

(10:50):
and you'll learn so much about yourself as you go
through it. So it's not going to be perfect, but
you will grow and you will be glad that you
took that first set.

Speaker 1 (10:57):
Thank you, Gidian.

Speaker 7 (10:58):
I have one question for you that's really like keeps
me up at night about running. So I look close
to a path on the lake, but I would like
to run to the path, but there's lights, like traffic lights.

Speaker 5 (11:10):
What do you do?

Speaker 1 (11:11):
There has the stop light? Like do I stop running?

Speaker 2 (11:14):
You do what I do, and you pray that it
goes longer, that the traffic light lasts longer.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
You just pray.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
You pray that, like not that anyone gets hurt in
the accident, but you pray for an accident that blocks
the road and then you have to go home.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
Now what do you do getting.

Speaker 5 (11:30):
So it depends on how you want to approach it.
So you can stand at the light and jog. I'm
sure you've seen that many times. But what I'd like
to do is I double back. You generally are going
to figure out how long these lights are, especially if
that's a normal path for you. So if I'm coming
up on the red light, I'll circle around, run back
from where I just came from. I gotta time it
up so that that lights in his green. I'm pretty

(11:51):
close to circle back again, and now just make that cross.
So this way, I didn't break stride and I'm keeping
my energy moving forward.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Oh yeah, we don't want to break strive. We never
do that.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Never do we break the dry to stop at the
hot dog standing I haven't know something to eat? You know, well, man,
because somettimes he tricks me and he says we're running
to raising canes, and I'm like, we are, and then
we never get there.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
We never we never go there. Exit Yeah exactly. Okay.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
So then as far as getting like for people who
want to get off the couch and then go to
a like let's say a five K or.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
It's me next month there you go do it?

Speaker 2 (12:26):
So like, okay, so maybe five K is like the
first goal. So then what would be like how would
we in simple terms, get there from couch to five
k with a stroller because I have.

Speaker 5 (12:38):
Okay, by the way, I think you should share those
details on when this five k is gonna be because
I may show up and we may have some of
the thirteen that want to join you in support to.

Speaker 8 (12:51):
K.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Where's the.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
That's not the thing very illegal now that they just
passed it in the city council.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Yeah, how do you do?

Speaker 5 (13:00):
I'll say this, anybody who's looking to get off the
couch and get going needs.

Speaker 1 (13:03):
To do just that.

Speaker 5 (13:04):
Bella, I love your approach of running and walking. People
don't give walking enough credit like that is a great
way to start a great way to break up your
run so that you're not doing too much too soon.
I know you were saying that your back is hurting,
and I know you're pushing yourself at certain times because
you maybe feel insecure that other people are watching and judging.
But take those walks, take those breaks, and watch how

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your endurance improves, and then you can actually make a
note on how you're improving in the fact that you
don't have to walk as much or walk along over time.
So just getting started and giving yourself a lot of
grace in this process, especially if it's something that you
haven't done in a while or ever have done, because
you just need that great that time that's going to

(13:46):
allow you to make those developments and changes later.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
So just get going.

Speaker 5 (13:50):
Just get going. Grab a friend or two, a family member,
some type of support system, right, and like I said,
do something that's going to be fun, encouraging with your dog,
with your child, by yourself, with friends, and put it
out there. Like oftentimes, we hold ourselves accountable more when
other people know that we had this big goal and

(14:10):
they're going to be checking in on us.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
See.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
I agree with what he said because you and I
have the same problem and we're worried about what other
people think. Yeah, and you should see me, like when
a pretty girl's running like the opposite direction, like towards us.
Oh my god, my form is on point. I'm running
like the wind. I'm running. I look like Usain Bolt
for the amount of time until the very moment she
crosses and her back is and then I collapse, actually

(14:32):
physically collapse, and I need to be resuscitated. Gideon knows
CPR I learned, so that's exciting. And he carries a
depipulator with him, which is wild. I didn't know that
until I needed so, it's true, but Guineon is the best,
and we're holding you accountable.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
You can do this, You're doing it.

Speaker 7 (14:48):
That's why I'm telling people, because I want to be
held accountable.

Speaker 1 (14:51):
What I did.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
I want on the radios that I'm gonna lose thirty
pounds because I wanted to.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
Gi.

Speaker 2 (14:55):
I had to, because you look stupid if you don't
in right now, Fred, I'm swimming in my you can
barely see me. I disagreed. Well, this guy, this guy,
you know, I pay him to be my friend and
he shows up and I had no choice, and he
doesn't let me make excuses. I'll be like, I don't know.
He's like, all right, we're going and then before long
I'm dead. How do people so get fit with giddy

(15:18):
right on the socials?

Speaker 5 (15:20):
Yes, sir, that's right, that's me all right.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
Any other way they get a hold of you, don't
give out your phone number. You won't like the close again.

Speaker 5 (15:28):
Now hit me up on the ground. That's the best way.

Speaker 9 (15:30):
You can also check out my website Gideon dot com
g I d E O n A k A n
d e dot com for all types of workouts, fitness advice,
I'm here for you.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
Yeah, Kikey's on this looking at you right now. I've
never felt more motivated in my life. Let's see. This
is what I mean. Yeah, I'm about to get you.
Run this man radiates it.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
It's impossible, Like right now, you want to run a marathon,
don't you.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Well, I was thinking run down the hallway.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
But you know, we got to start somewhere.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
We got to start somewhere.

Speaker 5 (16:00):
KK. I am so glad you're motivated right now. Let
me know what we have our first session. I've been
waiting for that.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
Okay, I waited.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
So this is what I mean, like it's it's it's
irritatingly positive.

Speaker 10 (16:18):
Oh yes, he's very positive. Very well, it's just like
I'm positive what you are? I feel like I am
you are like in certain things.

Speaker 2 (16:31):
All right, well, yeah, there you go. Marks, mark the tape,
mark to day it happened. You're committed now, it's how
you're doing it. Yeah, you're doing It's entertainment report. He's
on the Fread show.

Speaker 1 (16:41):
Sean Diddy.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
Comb's got a standing ovation from fellow inmates after beating
the most.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
Serious charges in his federal trial.

Speaker 4 (16:48):
And if you missed it, even though he was convicted
on two less accounts for transporting women across state lines.
He was found not guilty of sex trafficking and racketeering.
By the way, his former personal chef, Jordan Atkinson, said
that she's afraid of retaliation now that the rapper has
been acquitted of most of those serious charges.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
In his trial. Now here's the interesting part.

Speaker 4 (17:10):
She said that she was a witness to in a
victim as well of the rapper's physical abuse, but didn't
testify at his trial. Not sure if she wasn't asked to,
why she wouldn't be, or if she didn't want to.
But after that verdict, she sent a letter to the
judge asking that Ditty b denied bail while awaiting sentencing,
which the judge.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Actually agreed to.

Speaker 4 (17:30):
She said she no longer feels safe and feels like
she and other victims have been put in danger. Ditty's
ex Cassie sent a similar letter via her lawyer too,
So he is currently locked up and waiting to figure
out jail time, how long, if anything. Justin Bieber posted
some selfies on Instagram with a very red face looking

(17:52):
all sweaty.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
He put the caption detox with a whole bunch of exes.

Speaker 5 (17:56):
Now.

Speaker 4 (17:57):
He didn't give more context of how or why he
he was detoxing and what from, but several commentars were
giving him support with comments like you can do this.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Keep going.

Speaker 4 (18:06):
This whole detox post comes five months after his rep
denied harmful allegations of drug use following some very bizarre behavior,
and I think we've all seen it. So not sure
what's going on with him, but hopefully he's well and healthy.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
I guess yeah, you can do this, beaver.

Speaker 4 (18:24):
Lauren Hill took the stage hours later that she was
supposed to at Essence Fest in New Orleans. She started
at two thirty in the morning, but by then most
of the crowd was gone, leaving her performing to just
a few hundred fans in a massive superdome. She gave
it her all, though still I respect it, singing with
her sons and joking that the diehards stuck it out.

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Lauren is pretty known for showing up late, but her
fans defended her online, blaming the festival's chaotic schedule dot
Lauren for the near empty show and the late performance
and elsewhere. At another concert in London, Serena Carpenter brought
out Duran Duran on stage.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
During one of her recent shows.

Speaker 4 (19:01):
She and the band did the nineteen eighty two classic
Hungry Like the Wolf with her. She gave some harmonies
and then handled the second verse.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
So there you go, and if good morning, thanks for
having us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live
and anytime search for the Freshee on demand. You had
to go to a planning meeting for a class reunion? Yes, well,
how does that work?

Speaker 1 (19:22):
A planning meeting? And then.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
My understanding is that you then had to you have
to plan it because you were the last class president.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
Yes what yeah, exactly? What exactly?

Speaker 2 (19:33):
So if you win class president senior year, then you're
responsible for who for like maintaining all contact with everybody
for the rest of your life. Yes, oh, there's one
more reason. Then I'm glad I didn't run among the
forty two people in my grade.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
I don't think we had a class president. I think
maybe we had like a school president or something. There
were two other people to the whole high school. So
how does this work?

Speaker 1 (19:55):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (19:56):
So as the class president, you're supposed to be in
charge of the reunion. You're supposed to you know, oversee
it and kind of make sure it comes together. And
you know, ten years ago, I was that girl, like
I was all about unity and friendship, you know, back.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
Then, and you know now, I don't want to talk
to your.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Anti unity, anti friendship.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Yes, okay, So so my are like football MVP and
Prime King. He reached out, and you know, other people
have been reaching out to me, right but I ignored them.
But my friend, like the Prime King, he was my
friend in school.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
So I'm like, he's like, hey, keeping you're not about
friendship reunity anymore.

Speaker 3 (20:44):
So he but when he reached out, I'm like, oh,
he means business, you know. So he's like, hey, we
got to get this reunion going. We got to get
it done and it has to happen. So I'm like, okay,
what do you need from me? So he's like, make
a Facebook page and you know, put it up there
and invite everybody something I.

Speaker 5 (21:00):
Can do that.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
I can do that.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
Then he's like we all need to meet and then
they start talking in the fate. They make a Facebook
group and everybody's talking like it's like a group chat
on steroids. It's big meaning meaning, yes it is. When
that happens to me, I freeze up. I don't, I can't.
I can't keep up with it all. So I completely
went ghosts in the group chat. So then they set
a meeting and they're like, okay, everybody, we're going to
meet at this spot on Sunday. And I'm like, ooh, sorry, guys,

(21:23):
I have an event from twelve to two. They're like, okay,
let's do it at three. I'm like oh, so, I'm
like okay, they moved.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
The meeting for me.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
So after my event yesterday, I drive to the location
of this planning meeting, sit in the parking lot and
literally like I could just ghost.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
Like if I just ghost them, they'll figure it out.

Speaker 11 (21:49):
You know.

Speaker 3 (21:49):
I'll come back later with some excuse, set in the
guard for ten minutes, and then I'm like, stop being
a weirdo, go in here and handle your bus business.
And so I go in there and literally I'm the
personality hired at this point, because like i'm in there,
I'm just I'm just smiling. They coming up with all
these ideas and I'm like, oh, yes, that sounds great.
Of course I'm to have that. So it's just like

(22:10):
it's a lot of stress and you know, but we
got a committee together and we're gonna make it.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
They're gonna make it happen. How many people are together
in your class?

Speaker 12 (22:18):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (22:18):
I don't know. It had to be over two hundred though,
Oh that's it.

Speaker 2 (22:22):
Yeah, and what so half of the people showed up
to plan this thing so you had the reunion?

Speaker 5 (22:27):
Then?

Speaker 1 (22:28):
No, no, no, two hundred people. No, I realized that.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
But I'm saying you had like ten people at this meeting,
so half of the people were there to plan the meeting,
so you didn't even have to you don't even have
to have the whole thing. Two hundred people. I mean,
how many people do you need? What I'm saying is
how many on a committee for to plan an event?
For two hundred people? I mean half the people were
in the attendance planning the thing.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
Well, I mean everybody's needed.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
Because I thought you were going to say like a
thousand people, because then you would need a committee.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
No, no, no, it's not a thousand.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
I'm sure I'm not saying the right number because I
don't remember, honestly my memory.

Speaker 2 (22:56):
You were the class president of all these people, These
were your constituents years go.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
I cared today today, I don't you're so funny. I
want to be on my committee.

Speaker 1 (23:06):
Why, I don't know.

Speaker 13 (23:07):
I like planning stuff, but you're right, like I feel
like they're not gonna want my ideas anyway.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Then they do the same thing ever year.

Speaker 13 (23:12):
It's at the high school in the parking lot and
they took a big picnic. What yeah, Jason, I mean,
there's really not much that's.

Speaker 1 (23:21):
So much better.

Speaker 6 (23:21):
You can contract me out out of here. I'll put
your small fees. I'll go to all the meetings where
you get. We can assess this, you know, in private,
but I'll go to all the meetings for you, and
I'll do all the work.

Speaker 2 (23:36):
Now makes me wonder who planned hours? See, I didn't go,
but I mean, I have no idea. It's like, no,
we had a whole thing about this.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
It was h for it. What was it my twenty year?
When did I graduate? What year is it? I don't know?
Twenty oh god, twenty five? Was it twenty five? No? Maybe,
yeah it was. I didn't go. I was busy.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
See, and somebody put their blood, sweat and tears into
the meeting.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Well I don't know who though, because there were only
forty two of us.

Speaker 2 (24:03):
So if there had been ten people the meeting, that
it truly would have been no need for a reunion
because we all would have basically been there.

Speaker 3 (24:10):
Yes, I feel what's the need? We all see each
other on Facebook at this point. I don't even know
their real names anymore. I know by their Facebook name,
Like you know Tayya, big Booty, Judy, Like, don't I
don't remember your last name?

Speaker 2 (24:21):
I know her right, she's in my phone too. Wait minute,
big body to high school with there? Yeah, she's cool
to be there. Yeah, I like, Okay, so you're supposed
to plan this, but you're not really all that engaged.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
I mean, I mean I have to now, like I can't.
I can't fumble. So I have to show up at
least I don't. You know what I'm saying. I have
to show up, just be there, and that's what I'm
trying to do. Well, yesterday was just struggle, but I
made it happen.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Eleven hundred people.

Speaker 2 (24:43):
Someone takes it eleven hundred people and then in their
graduating class in less than one hundred wents of the reunion.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
See what I'm saying, Oh wow, Facebook.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
We don't need the reunion. We know what everyone's doing exactly.
We know who's alive, we know who's dead. We think
we know who's you know, asking for help and pray
for prayers. We know that person all the time.

Speaker 1 (25:01):
You know. Yeah, we've seen everything. We're good. Yeah, thank you,
Mark Zuckerberg.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
Now I don't have to go to my high school
reunion because I know what's going on thanks to Facebook.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
That's true.

Speaker 13 (25:10):
Not you don't know everybody's up to, especially like the
guy who's always like so cute or whatever, Like I
don't know what he's up to.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
Like guy who's so cute, yeah the time guy?

Speaker 13 (25:18):
Yes, yeah, okay, so how is someone suber driver? It's fine,
but like I don't want to.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
Know a guy who's being so cute? What does that
even mean?

Speaker 13 (25:25):
Like the guy that was so cute, but like you know,
he didn't have potential, like you know, he was just
he was just so cute.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
He's a cute loser, right, there was always a cute one.

Speaker 2 (25:34):
People were saying, like, you should go to your union
because you've had success, so then like you know, some
level of success, so then you can like show off,
Like but then are we returning to our high school
ways again like, I don't. I'm not trying to live
like that anymore. Right, take me back, like, I don't
need to prove anything to these people. And he was
twenty five years ago. I don't talk to any of them,
Like what am I going. I'm gonna walk into, gonna
go out.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
So wearing your own merch, I mean I did.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
I made him sense some of the merch over to
the re is a subtle reminder, you know. I mean
I sponsored it. This cocktail brunch is brought to you
by the Friend Show.

Speaker 1 (26:06):
Oh yeah, that's another thing. This committee.

Speaker 3 (26:08):
They were like, okay, I got five hundred on it.
I'll put up six hundred on it. I put up
a thousand.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
I'm sitting there like, huh wait, so you're supposed to
pay for this thing too.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
Well, if somebody has to buy a barbecue, you gotta
have the jumpy house.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
For the kids. I figured the discharge mission the kids. Wait,
you're having kids at your reunions. It's like a family
field day that they're going.

Speaker 14 (26:28):
No.

Speaker 4 (26:28):
Reunions are for getting drunk and seeing what everybody's up to.

Speaker 3 (26:33):
Oh, it's all everybody has money, right, asult money is
he I have no adult money.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
Hey, kids, don't run for class president because this is
what's going to happen. You're gonna wind up kiki here
and a bunch of years. You're gonna have to plan
and pay for the thing.

Speaker 5 (26:48):
Man.

Speaker 1 (26:48):
And the school doesn't offer anything. They don't throw in
anything on that about my high school closed?

Speaker 2 (26:56):
What do you have it there? Then it's empty their
football poo. Yes, if you're high school closed, close in
the roll.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
That's so mean.

Speaker 2 (27:07):
I've never even heard of such a thing. High schools closed.

Speaker 3 (27:11):
They closed, and then they combined with another school.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
It's a whole thing. It's shout out to rich Township.

Speaker 2 (27:16):
Oh yeah, we had a high school like guidance counsel
like college advisor. I guess he was, I don't know
what his was a moron, but but but he like
you had to go to him and then he would
help you figure out where you should go to college.
And if you went in there and told him you
wanted to go somewhere that he didn't think you could
get into, then he would tell you not like, oh no,
I'm not signing off on that, because he had to

(27:37):
write a letter I guess or whatever. It was the
whole thing. But he tried to send a bunch of
us to a college that closed. It doesn't exist anymore.
A college.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
I didn't. I didn't know it was possible. I mean,
of course it is a business.

Speaker 2 (27:51):
But like he tried to send a bunch of us
to a college that isn't probably because it wouldn't go.
Maybe we could have saved it. I don't know if
he's getting kickbacks or what, but it was like literally
the college closed, like.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
He wanted you guys all to attend that.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Yeah, he was like, oh this is a great college.
You should go there, you know, or whatever. It closed.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
He was definitely getting the kickback for every student he
got enrolled.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
It closed, Like I didn't. It's a college. I mean,
what I do?

Speaker 1 (28:16):
How right?

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Yeah? I mean what do they do with all that college?
That whole See, your high schools is sitting there, empty, sitting.

Speaker 1 (28:23):
There, closed, empty with all my memories?

Speaker 15 (28:25):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Yeah, man, man, why don't you sell the college then?
Or sell or sell the high school, sell the property
and used to pay for your reunion.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
That's what you should do. Maybe that's what we should
look into. Well, I've never heard of such a thing. Now,
the committee got all the money, right, what do they
do on their job?

Speaker 2 (28:41):
Not this well, so you know, if you win class President,
someday you're chipping in six hundred bucks for a field
day for a bunch of people you don't even know,
just so you know, So maybe sit back.

Speaker 1 (28:54):
Yeah, yeah, right, get another role.

Speaker 2 (28:56):
You know.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Vice president is way cooler, I think, you know, maybe ambassador.
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Speaker 2 (30:08):
I tell you about my server and I hopped on.
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Speaker 1 (30:15):
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three am. Yeah wait wait, I mean I need the
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Speaker 2 (30:22):
Well, I was, I was, I was back home in Arizona,
and I was Trevor and Chris the animal, you know,
the three of us got together the Crazing we call
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(30:44):
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you I just got in prison. I mean you got
to ask the question. And apparently I don't know, just

(31:05):
you talking about Kim Kardashian in prison reform, I guess
just maybe think of this. But she she she admitted
that she was on a work release program where she
would go to prison at night or James and leave
and then go to work and then go back to.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Jail at night.

Speaker 2 (31:20):
And she said she wanted to bring some drugs in
for her friends one night. You know, she just wanted
her friends to have some drugs and wow, And so
she snuck drugs back into jail. I think she was
on a drug charge as it is.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
Stop.

Speaker 2 (31:33):
So she she went for work release, came back with
some party favors, they found them, and she didn't leave.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
For four years after that.

Speaker 6 (31:41):
So you know, yeah, that's a felony right to bring
that into a prison.

Speaker 18 (31:45):
Oh yeah, you know you're not supposed to do that, right, Yeah,
And she already had a drug charge that was probably
not good.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
So so we need to call Kim Kardashian and see
if she can investigate this.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
You know, this is concerning to me. She was a
good That's what I said to her.

Speaker 2 (32:01):
That's exactly what we said to her, were like, you
know what, you are an excellent friend, you know. And well,
after waiting by the phone, it's the Fred Show, Dominic,
fill us in, man, what's going on with you and
this woman Jillian?

Speaker 1 (32:18):
How did you meet?

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then what's happening right now for you guys?

Speaker 8 (32:23):
Yeah, okay, So we met on Hinge and I was
so pumped. I thought she was out of my league actually,
but you know, I got her number and we went
out and I thought it went really well. You know,
We've got some drinks, and I don't know what happened
because I thought I thought I did that as well,

(32:44):
you know, and I thought.

Speaker 1 (32:46):
She was into it.

Speaker 8 (32:47):
And so now she's ghosting and I really don't know.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
All right.

Speaker 2 (32:51):
So you guys meet on the app, you chat normal stuff.
You wind up on this district state and you walk
out of the state and you're like, oh, this is
I'm excited about this. I'm going to see Jillian again.
You're planning dates in your head and you know, you
can't wait to reach out that's the feeling.

Speaker 8 (33:06):
Yeah, I wanted to take like a minute to reach
out again.

Speaker 2 (33:09):
But yeah, well no, but I'm saying, you know, you
leave the date, it was certain that you would hear
from her again and that there'd be a second date.

Speaker 1 (33:15):
Except you can't get a hold of her now, exactly.

Speaker 14 (33:17):
Yeah, and I'm really trying.

Speaker 8 (33:20):
To figure it out.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Okay, Well, let's call this woman Jillian. We'll see if
we can get her on the phone, and you'll be
on the phone as well. We'll ask all these questions
and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you
guys up on a second date and we'll pay for that.
All right, Oh, thank you, Dominic. Yeah, welcome back. Let's
call Jillian. You met on a Hinge, the dating app,
and you had a great first date. Except you can't

(33:41):
get ahold of her now. She's ghosting you, and of course,
like anybody, you want to know why. Yeah, let's call
her now. Good luck? Man, Hell, Hi is this Chillian?

Speaker 1 (33:57):
Jillian?

Speaker 2 (33:58):
Good morning, It's Fred the French Show was here, the
whole crew, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I need your
permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for
a couple of minutes.

Speaker 19 (34:09):
Yay.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
I know it's weird and we got a lot of
these maybe you've heard him before, but this is called
waiting by the phone, and we're calling on your half
of a guy you met named Dominic on Hinge and
I guess you guys had a drink tape Dominic right,
do you remember? Do you remember him?

Speaker 19 (34:24):
I mean, yeah, yeah, of course I remember him. He's
a creep.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
He's a creep. Okay, well, uh, here's what we know.
He called us and said that he liked you and
he actually felt that your your date went really well.
You seem to have a different story, So what's going on?

Speaker 19 (34:39):
Like he was recording me?

Speaker 18 (34:43):
Right?

Speaker 1 (34:43):
When was he recording you?

Speaker 20 (34:44):
How everything was like, uh, I thought everything was like normal,
But I looked at his phone and he was like,
you know, like like recording my voice.

Speaker 19 (34:55):
And he's like recording the audio like a.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Phone memoir, a voice or whatever. Yeah, Like why so on,
Like I don't know, Like, are you positive?

Speaker 5 (35:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 19 (35:08):
I am absolutely positive. Like I was so freaked out
that I just like I just needed to get out
of there.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
You ask him, did you so you see this? And
you're like, I think I'm being recorded. Did you say something?

Speaker 19 (35:19):
No, it's just like really like I was weirded out,
and I was like, what, he's like a private detective
or something.

Speaker 2 (35:25):
I don't know, you've never heard this one. Let me
bring Dominic in. I forgot you mentioned. I'm sorry because
now that you're he kind of creeps you out. I
don't mean to do this to you. But Dominic is
on the phone here, he is listening again, I could creep.
But what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (35:38):
Why did you record her? Were you recording her? First
of all?

Speaker 14 (35:40):
Wait, I think there's a misunderstanding. I wasn't her.

Speaker 8 (35:45):
I was recording me, okay, like you.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
Why no?

Speaker 14 (35:51):
But the reason, the reason, like it wasn't It wasn't
a creepy thing. I Oh my gosh, Julian, I like
you so much.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
And I wanted to make sure that.

Speaker 8 (35:59):
I was doing well on the date, and so I was.

Speaker 14 (36:02):
Recording myself and I see where I was, you know,
doing well like game tape.

Speaker 2 (36:09):
Yeah, so like when you go home and then review
the film. I don't want to hear myself on a
date ever again. Oh my god.

Speaker 14 (36:15):
But okay, So but I read something that like, you know,
if you can measure what you're doing, you can you
can get better at it. So if I if I
know that I'm I'm making some mistakes, then I can
address them and.

Speaker 19 (36:28):
Then like here's the here's the thing here, like I
really like aside from this very creepy thing that you
have dyed like you.

Speaker 12 (36:39):
You cannot do that.

Speaker 19 (36:40):
You're very sweet, but like the facts that you think
that you need to like get better.

Speaker 11 (36:46):
But no, no, don't have to say you're in a
different than I am.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
You know, look, I appreciate what you're trying to do.
I guess for if that's your method, but you can't
do it and it's weird. It's gonna come off weird
every time. So I don't know. I mean, and I.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
Guess how do I get how do I get better?
I guess.

Speaker 19 (37:05):
Yourself or something.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
But it sounds like you were fine, Like I think
you would have been, Jillian, would he have been okay
had he not been recording you without your knowledge?

Speaker 19 (37:16):
Acted like a serial killer?

Speaker 14 (37:18):
That yes, see, I never I have never hurt any
any bucks in my house.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
Got it.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
It's a weird thing to do. And it sounds like
you're fine. It sounds like maybe you have some anxiety or.

Speaker 16 (37:34):
Or you're yes, yes anxiety, Yes, go home.

Speaker 2 (37:37):
And decompressed in a lot of ways without recording somebody,
because it's gonna come off the wrong way every time.

Speaker 14 (37:41):
Doesn't everybody record everybody?

Speaker 1 (37:43):
Now? Actually no, So that's okay? Yeah, I think well,
I mean, yes, your apple does, but that's different. That's
totally different. Look, you're sweet man.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
It sounds like you had the best intentions, but it
didn't come off the right way. And also sounds, to
say one more time, it sounds like you were fine.
So I don't think you should worry about you know,
I don't think you should overthink this. In the future,
you don't have to record your date. And it sounds
like maybe you'd be okay.

Speaker 14 (38:10):
Well, okay, Well what if we just started again and
there wasn't any recording, Like I could just leave my
phone at home.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
That would be a good place to start. But is
there any way, Jillian, would you consider that?

Speaker 1 (38:19):
Go to therapy? Okay, chastise the guy.

Speaker 19 (38:25):
I think therapy is great, and I I go therapy.
It just seems like you have like a crippling like
anxiety and you would Okay.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
We love you, guys.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
Guys, We're not going to solve this in this segment here,
but you know I stpthed to think about Dominic.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
We wish you the best. Cameron's entertainment report is on
the fread show.

Speaker 4 (38:47):
Kansas City Chief's owner Clark Hunt and his wife Tavia
are mourning the loss of their nine year old cousin, Janey,
who was killed in those flash floods and Camp Mysstic
in Texas. The flash flood is spurred by up to
thirty feet of water surging overnight, swept through the girls camp,
claiming at least eighty two lives, including five campers and
a counselor too. Media share her grief on Instagram, asking

(39:10):
how do we trust a god who allows such terrible
things to happen, even to children? So I mean thoughts
and prayers to all of you, know, everyone affected and
their family. And speaking of those floods, the NFL has
stepped up, donating one point five million, The Dallas Cowboy
cheerleaders pledge another five hundred thousand, and I know Shakira

(39:30):
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Speaker 4 (40:05):
Right, switching gears very much show to President Trump, who
has a plan to host a UFC Championship fight on
the White House grounds next year in honor of America's
two hundred and fiftieth birthday. Trump suggested accommodating around twenty
to twenty five thousand fans, with UFC CEO Dana White
spearheading the whole thing, calling you a big The White

(40:25):
House Press Secretary did confirm that Trump is quote dead
serious about it as a part of a year long
America two hundred and fifty festival, which will also include
events in national parks, the National Mall, and more.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
So look out for that. If you're a UFC fan,
that'll certainly.

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Be a specific and unique experience.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
And what's more America than hot dogs?

Speaker 4 (40:46):
Joey Chestnut reclaimed the Mustard Belt after winning the Nathan's
Hot Dog Eating Contest on the fourth of July.

Speaker 1 (40:53):
He ate seventy and a half hot dogs.

Speaker 4 (40:55):
How could you got to finish that last one? I
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record seventeenth time. Remember he was I think he was
banned last year, but his goal was to eat between
seventy and seventy seven? Do we hit that? Fell short
of his own record in twenty twenty one though, of
seventy six. And for the women, my goodness, a woman
named Miki Pseudo won her eleventh street title, eating thirty

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three hot dogs and buns, fell short of her own
record of fifty one from last year, fifty one hot dogs.

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Speaker 1 (41:28):
Have you guys ever caught a cheater? Have you ever
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Speaker 18 (41:35):
I know.

Speaker 3 (41:36):
I couldn't believe it even I couldn't believe that man
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Speaker 2 (41:40):
I mean unbelievable. How much you feel now? I don't
actually fame right for him all this fame.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
You just maybe this is why you seem to wear
the pants in the relationship that you're in now, because
you just don't allow You're not going to allow yourself
to be put in that position togein or something.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
The last one seven or eight years, I've figured you
got this man on lock and so I guess I
just figured there was never a time where a dude
got to like go for far enough awayed you.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
I'm never at home. I'm the perfect person to cheating.

Speaker 2 (42:13):
I don't mean literally, I just mean like out of
your purview. But now you're distracted by TikTok all the time,
so anything anything of it. If I wanted to cheat
on you, I would just I'd be like, hey, look baby,
I got you a bigger iPad with TikTok on it.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
In the meantime, I'm umping Jalo, Beyonce, Shakira, Kiki.

Speaker 10 (42:30):
I've all been cheated on, kal but to everybody, but
never Paulina.

Speaker 13 (42:35):
Never, Paulina, You've never been cheated on, not that I
know of, is what I say.

Speaker 1 (42:40):
I don't know what I say.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Like your philosopher, you know, what I always say is
not that I know of from open you know. I mean,
I'm fairly certain i've been. I mean, that's not true.
I guess it would depend on definition. But yeah, I've
been cheated on, for sure, But no never in a
way that someone's like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
I was cheating on you.

Speaker 2 (42:59):
It's always it's like no, no, no, this is what's
going on, and there's something totally different is going on.
But it's never like I can't say I've been in
a committed, dedicated relationship.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
First of all, that's a sense by itself.

Speaker 2 (43:10):
I can't sit in a committed, committed, dedicated relationship period.
But then also I don't think I've been in one
that where somebody could actually betray me like that, if
that makes sense. People betray me, but not necessarily because
we know everything was hunky dory, and you know, we're
in this exclusive relationship and I find out but that
we're not. I bring this up because this morning, guys

(43:33):
and people are gonna hate me for this. They're gonna
hate me for announcing this, I guess, but I don't
care if the cheats are mad at me about this,
and let cheaters be. Ma'm your supermarket Loyalty card is
the latest way to reveal if you are cheating or not.
A London Private London Private investigator says an app's like
club Card or similar grocery reward programs wherever you are

(43:54):
can actually help catch cheaters. The app logs, wear and
win purchases are made. Yes, so if your partner says,
while I'm working late, then the app shows that they
bought snacks across town at a grocery store or whatever,
then that would be a red flag. It says you
were at work. Why are you in a different part
of town at a you know, whatever store. I'm not
going to pick on it. Whatever store tracks this kind

(44:15):
of stuff. Yeah. Tech experts also stay to watch out
for other red flags, hidden notifications, wiped search history, and
strange location check ins. Even if your grocery list could
be giving up the secrets, all that stuff could be.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
Too so valid, so valid.

Speaker 13 (44:30):
So I share the loyalty app for one of the
stores that my husband and I shop at, and I
wanted to buy strawberries because they were on sale like
ninety nine cents.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
I'm like, not for your boyfriend who dip in chocolate
right and then he eat off your body.

Speaker 13 (44:41):
That's that's what they were, right, Yeah, you know me,
I always doing the whip cream chew, but that wasn't
on sale today.

Speaker 1 (44:46):
I see. So I'm like, okay, well ninety nine cents.

Speaker 13 (44:48):
These are five dollars, like absolutely, so I'm all excited
the check out and it's not showing up as a dollar.
And I was like, ma'am, like mismanager, ma'am, like this
is not working. And she came up to me and
she goes, have you bought these already? And I'm like, no,
didn't buy these. She looked at my history and guests
who bought the strawberries for ninety nine cents across town Ramier.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
Javier And and for whom who was he dining with
to have said strawberries?

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Dining with the fire department, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (45:16):
Yeah, a bunch of fire fighters. I want to see
this firehouse. A bunch of firefighters sitting around eating strawberries.

Speaker 13 (45:23):
They got to say, people visual I know, well, they
switch off, so sometimes they'll go like stock up or
whatever whoever's on the ship, so like they switch off
every time or whatever.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
And he was the one on that day who was going.
So he took my strawberries for a dollar.

Speaker 4 (45:35):
I learned yesterday they got a whole gym in those firehouses.
Well obviously a kitchen, but I didn't know you could
like work out and cook and hang while you were
waiting for fires.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
Oh yeah, oh back in the day. This is like
years ago. They lived there for three years. Well yeah,
three days out of the week. Not straight at least.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Well, I mean for people. People live in the firehouse,
so they have to provide news. He was a guy
who's like designated as a chef and the whole thing. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
Yeah, I talked to a firefighter yesterday. He's like, it's
a frat house without drinking. We brank each other.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
I just didn't know if they had, Jim, I could
work out while I'm getting paid.

Speaker 1 (46:07):
I should have been a firefighter.

Speaker 13 (46:09):
And back in the day, like they would drink like waits,
look way back in the day, or like bring your
kids or whatever, like and go fight a fire.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
The one in River north Over here has a full
basketball indoor basketball court.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
Yeah nice, and they're always in lawn chairs. As I
walked by, and oh yeah, boys engine one in Yeah no,
I went in there one day.

Speaker 2 (46:25):
Uh, my friend, my friend Chris is a firefighter there
and I went there for I'm been there a couple
of times, and he was a check this out and
it's like if you're looking at the building to the right,
you go kind of around the corner. It's like this
half court indoor basketball court because they're there all day.
So and then they made I get you know, who
knows what I gonna get called. So there's a gym,
there's a basketball court in there. I'm sure they have

(46:46):
like TVs and video games. Just they got to occupied
themselves until someone is their lives save.

Speaker 4 (46:50):
I almost was convinced to become a firefighter at this
career day, like I it sounds great.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
I mean they're risking their lives. No, of course, of course.
Oh I think it's a great job.

Speaker 13 (46:58):
Like obviously, like it's a there's a risk and yeah,
you know, better be ready for that.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
The cop was like, don't be a cop, like be
a firefighter.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
I was like, okay, wow, Calen with the career change,
she would be the volunteer fire chief for her village.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
And listen, yeah, I don't know. I just was really
overthinking everything.

Speaker 13 (47:16):
Yeah those benefits ooh girl something, Yeah, they deserve it.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
They do, of course, but you know.

Speaker 2 (47:22):
Back to cheating. No, no, don't be I'm just trying
to think if I've ever caught anyone. I know that,
Like I've been in some loose situations where I was
told that the previous person was no longer involved and
that turned out to like, for example, I have a
history of this. I did it one girl and she
interviewed for a job in another city, and I, again,

(47:43):
we weren't like in a we were messing around consistently.
But the most important part of the story is the
only reason we were doing that is because I was
told that the ex fiance was no longer in the picture,
And so I sent Champagne to her room to celebrate
her job interview in this city, and he was there.
So the Champagne shows up at the door. I heard
the story later because she told to someone else, who

(48:05):
then told it to me. The Champagne shows up at
the door and it's delivered and he accepts it, and
I guess there was a card, right, I don't know.
I didn't get all the details, but like that's happened
more than once where I've done something like that, only
for the person who's not supposed to be there to
be there to see it, and well where'd that come from?
Only see the card who sent you champagne in your room.

(48:26):
She didn't get the job, by the way, or the guy.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
Dang.

Speaker 4 (48:30):
I've walked in on cheating and it's really content. It's
one of the worst pains that I've ever Like, no,
you were just.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
Like, I have no idea, and then what happened, Oh
my gosh, can you relive it briefly or traumatic?

Speaker 1 (48:42):
It was really bad.

Speaker 4 (48:43):
I walked in and this girl was in a thong
with her butt up in the air on top of
my man.

Speaker 2 (48:50):
It was, yeah, just making sure he didn't have any
like canter or something, That's what it was.

Speaker 4 (48:55):
I actually blacked out, like I don't even in that moment.
I was so like, oh my, and was this in college?
So this was actually a year ago? This is no, yeah,
yeah it was and yeah there it was a party
and everyone was there and so everybody saw me gooballistic

(49:15):
and but.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
It just still I've never been No, I haven't been
cheotered on, but I mean to your point, and this
is not the same. But I have had, like in college,
I have had the nightmare of the girl that I liked,
you like, walk out of your fraternity bedroom or whatever.
You know, for Saturday morning you go to brunch or
breakfast or whatever. And the girl that I like, the

(49:37):
girl that I wanted to hook up with, is walking
out of my fraternity brothers. And it's like, oh, man,
don't First of all, I announced, I made the announce
all the bulletin board downstairs. I was targeting this young lady.
Second of all. But it's like heartbreaking. It's like, oh,
you chose somebody else, but no, that's nothing like being

(49:58):
in love with someone. And oh my god, I can't
imagine other ways that people get caught cheating. The one
that's tails so oldest time. And if you've got a
good one eight five, five, five, nine one one three five,
Not that I want to bring back drama, but if
you've got a good way that you cut someone cheating,
the tale's oldest time. And I think people are getting
smart to this is the Apple idea. But for a
long time people were idiots because they'd have the same

(50:20):
like their iPad that was unlocked or that they gave
the password to. They're like, oh see, I'm gonna outsmart
the system. You could have my iPad password or my
MacBook password.

Speaker 1 (50:32):
But you don't. You don't.

Speaker 2 (50:34):
I'm not giving you my phone password. That's where all
this stuff is. No, it's not. It's on all of them.
So like I know so many people who have been
on their iPad married couple. They use one person's ID
and they're just going through, you know, doing whatever, and
they're not.

Speaker 1 (50:46):
Even trying to snoop.

Speaker 2 (50:47):
And then they see a little green message box down there,
because all your text if you set it up that way,
go right to that. And then people click on it
and they're like, wait a minute, and then they read
a whole dialogue.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
And actually it's else the oldest time, so old.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
If you're going to be a cheater, different Apple IDs
or whatever, whatever, you use, the email trash folder is
a way that people go through stuff like do you
think that you deleted the evidence? But a lot of
people don't go as far as to like that's sophisticated cheating.

Speaker 1 (51:19):
Cheating, cheating over email. I always like to.

Speaker 2 (51:21):
Email ahead of time. I hope this email finds you,
well this evening, I plan to cheat with you. And
here's a calendar invite all this cheating seven o'clock. I
learned fifteen minutes.

Speaker 1 (51:35):
You know.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
I guess people think that like they're being Okay, well
I erased the email and then I can't remember the
last time at work I do it. But because for
so long, you can only have so much storage. But
like other emails, I don't go in and delete the trash. Yeah,
but I'm also not doing anything I shouldn't do browser history.
I guess, Autumn, how would you use this automatic logan

(51:58):
and passwords story?

Speaker 1 (52:00):
How would you do?

Speaker 2 (52:01):
Someone with physical access to your computer could use software
to discover passwords to various services and then log into
your accounts. Okay, I guess I don't know what I mean.
They could see if you were sending flowers or something.
They can see, you know, where you were spending your money.
I suppose, like so if I had your like if
I had your laptop password, then I could if I
got into that, then a lot of times I could

(52:22):
then log into anything else.

Speaker 1 (52:23):
Because everything saved.

Speaker 9 (52:25):
Right.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Yeah, okay, I get that.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
Keyloggers and stalking apps like you can put stuff I
know on computers where it will just track everything everything
that's been putting the keyboard and like print it out
for you or give it to you in like a
document so you can see just the raw data, like
what you know what I mean, like like what people
have been typing.

Speaker 4 (52:42):
I mean, I don't know if it's on there, but
your deleted text folder. A lot of people don't even
know that that's a folder yet. Oh I better take
a look at that, right, Yeah, you want to clear
that out first?

Speaker 2 (52:51):
Yes, I knew about that. Yeah, let me see here.
GPS trackers. Of course, sexting apps give users of phone
all sense of security, Like Snapchat. I guess that's I
guess that's a sex thing app. According to these people,
they allow you to send photos, captions, and videos that
self delete after a set amount of time use after
a few seconds.

Speaker 1 (53:13):
Signal. Oh god, signal.

Speaker 2 (53:14):
We all know about that in the government, say, similar service,
but for text messages rather than images. I guess there's
no guarantee that images will be deleted, says the company's
privacy policy.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
Oh that's that's encouraging.

Speaker 2 (53:27):
Hey, Laura hight Laura, how did you catch your ex cheating?

Speaker 1 (53:31):
What happened?

Speaker 12 (53:33):
Okay, so back in the day when footphones were a
thing and you were able to call your voicemail from
another like your host phone. So one night I let
my ex use my phone because he didn't have one,
and he said he needed to use it, so I
let him use it. And that morning when I woke up,
I called my phone to see if I had any

(53:54):
miss falls. There was a voicemail on there from the
other woman's boyfriend saying, you can go ahead and keep
the bee.

Speaker 5 (54:03):
I don't want her back.

Speaker 12 (54:05):
And when I ended up going to the house, she
was there in bed with him.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
I'm so sorry, that's terrible.

Speaker 5 (54:12):
Sorry.

Speaker 12 (54:13):
Yeah, so thanks to cell phone, they've been great.

Speaker 2 (54:19):
Threw it face and shoved it somewhere.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
What'd you do? What was your reaction?

Speaker 12 (54:25):
Oh? I went there and I started taking all of
my stuff out of the house, and I packed up
my vehicle.

Speaker 5 (54:31):
And never went back.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
There you go, he was.

Speaker 5 (54:34):
She was so.

Speaker 12 (54:34):
Scared she would not come out from underneath the blanket,
and my ex at the time kept pushing me out
of the room while I was trying to get myself
because he didn't want me in there. And seeing what
was going on, My sister and her boy side were
in the house and they ran to the other side
of the house with the kids because they had young
kids at the time. They took off the one to

(54:55):
the other side because they he let me in the
door when you wasn't supposed to.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
I'm sorry that happened, but thank you for calling. Have
a good weekend.

Speaker 12 (55:03):
Thank you you guys. See you buddy guy.

Speaker 2 (55:05):
I love you too. Kenny G, Hi, Kenny G. It's
an honor. I got it man for my money. When
you sing white, can't we be lovers if we can't
be friends? I mean, for me on a Friday night,
there's nothing better. But how did you catch? You caught
your cousin's boyfriend.

Speaker 17 (55:23):
Yeah, so it's my cousin's boyfriend. At the time, they're
not not together, but I was. Actually this girl I
went to college with was like, yeah, I'm dating this guy,
and she tells me about him and I'm like wait
a minute. And then I see who it is and
I'm like, oh, that's.

Speaker 5 (55:39):
My cousin's boyfriend.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
So I'm like, we need to set this up.

Speaker 16 (55:43):
So set it up.

Speaker 17 (55:44):
She was supposed to meet over to his house, like
and uh.

Speaker 5 (55:49):
Well, he was supposed to go to her house. I
stayed a.

Speaker 11 (55:51):
Block away, saw a car pull up.

Speaker 18 (55:53):
I pulled up.

Speaker 1 (55:54):
Behind him, like cheeter style. Oh yeah, and then had.

Speaker 17 (55:57):
Him come out of the house and I'm like, all right, dude,
we gotta have conversation.

Speaker 5 (56:01):
Man.

Speaker 2 (56:02):
This guy's Joey del Greco over here from Cheaters Man
on this day of the investigation.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
Wow.

Speaker 17 (56:09):
And then the funny part is is how I'm married
to his sister.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Wow. Y'all keep in the family, don't you.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
It's a little weird.

Speaker 2 (56:19):
But okay, oh, thank you for clarifying. Kenny g all right, well,
keep making great music. Okay, bye, have a nice day.

Speaker 1 (56:29):
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Be isolated the right show is Half of Americans fifty
three percent of Americans said that they would endure the
long lines in paperwork for their loved ones at the
DMV to get a real ID for them. Half of
Americans would do that for someone else if they could.
Would any of you actually wait in line for someone

(58:07):
else's real ID.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
I'm not even doing it for myself. Yeah, I knew
the answer. Yeah for you probably. Yeah. So he had
a good reason why they couldn't do it. I don't
think you have to have a good reason.

Speaker 2 (58:17):
I think it's fifty three percent of people would endure
the long lines in paperwork for their loved ones.

Speaker 1 (58:23):
The real ID what no? Right that? I mean?

Speaker 2 (58:26):
Holly woke up this morning. I know you don't have
a You never got one, so I know, and he said, hey, honey,
I need.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
A real ID. He does.

Speaker 2 (58:34):
True, Yeah, okay, and so and so you can only
get one. So it's for him or for you. The
only hell you have one per per session, oh okay,
per line waiting session.

Speaker 1 (58:44):
No, he's gonna go.

Speaker 13 (58:45):
And get his own, and he's gonna tell me how
that line was and the experience he had, because then
I have to plan around that, like do I want
to go at that same time?

Speaker 1 (58:50):
You know what I mean? The guy's a firefighter.

Speaker 2 (58:52):
Can he like pull a fire alarm and get everybody
out of there and then be like a dah my
bad and then reset it because he knows how to
do that, and then get a real I D.

Speaker 13 (58:58):
I think you should show up with his uniform and
an axe and everything like the acts yeah, you know,
bring it yeah and everything and just be like I'm here.
You know and your real ID. I mean I would, Okay,
so you would? You would not You're not waiting in
line for your husband?

Speaker 1 (59:12):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (59:12):
Now, Carolina, doesn't surprise me that you would wait in
line for someone else?

Speaker 4 (59:15):
Yeah, but I would need like a reason. I mean,
let's not you take my kindness, you know, advantage of it.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
But no, I don't want to do it. So will
you do it for me?

Speaker 11 (59:25):
No?

Speaker 1 (59:26):
I don't think so. I already have one, so it's fine. Yeah,
I have one since twenty twenty. So you guys, wow,
early early after you got I have a real idea.
I have an enhanced license, so different. Pardon me, yeah,
pardon me. Well I have a triple A card, so
so do I know?

Speaker 2 (59:43):
Well I have to yeah that for senior citizens. No,
that's a r P wish. I don't have one yet,
but I should. I should have an ARP card because
the way I'm living is Yeah, I've got it several
years ago, but I also live like I should.

Speaker 1 (59:57):
Have one one too. That is funny.

Speaker 2 (01:00:01):
Two and five say they would donate an organ to
friends and family two and five, So only two and five,
Now that's that Actually, so half of people would go
wait in line to get a real ID for I
guess anybody, just for loved ones. But only two of
those same five five of those people, only two of
them would give an organ to save someone. Well, but

(01:00:23):
they're different, right, But you're saving someone's life. So if
I have something that would save my niece's life, I'm
more likely to wait in line to get her a
real ID than I am to save her life.

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
Well, one is surgery, so there's a lot more that
you got to think about and stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
So it's death, that's a lot more to think about.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
Right, But when somebody needs an organ, you're not the
only person that can give that organ. I mean, there's
a lot of stuff you have to go through and
you need to Obviously, if your niece needs an organ,
you're going to try and give her one. But like,
you can't compare that to waiting in line for an ID.

Speaker 1 (01:00:53):
Well, but I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
I mean if they came to me and said you're
a match, and I go, no, I don't want to
do that, but I'll get her a real ID, that
surprises me. I guess I would think people would answer
more affirmatively, like you can save someone's life and it
won't kill you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
Probably, so then I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:01:12):
Well, no, I mean still a surgery to Caitlin's point,
but like more than likely you're gonna live through giving
someone an organ.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
I don't know, and that surprised me a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
I guess I would think more people would be like,
if I could save my loved one's life, I would
do it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
If I'm the one who could do it, I would do.

Speaker 13 (01:01:25):
It absolutely if I can still live, right, Like if
they need a kidney or something, there's a risk.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
There is some way as easy as other people can
do it, because people sit on lists forever and ever
and ever never and ever, and some people don't even
make it. So you're telling me I would make my niece. God,
I don't even like using example. I would make my
third cousin who I don't have so I can miss
a easy example. I would make them sit on the
list for years when I could save them. But I'm
not gonna do that. But I will get them an ID.

Speaker 3 (01:01:49):
That's your third cause, right, Yeah, I'm somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
I guess. Let me see.

Speaker 2 (01:01:57):
Eighty two percent would share a surprise one hundred thousand
dollars lottery win.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
Yeah, one hundred percent. I would do that easy. Share again,
life with death or share share.

Speaker 2 (01:02:08):
I'm more likely to intervene in life or death than
I am to give you part of my one hundred
grand because I can live with you not getting ten grand.
I can't live with you dying because I was selfish?

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
Why are you the only one that can save the person?

Speaker 16 (01:02:22):
Though?

Speaker 2 (01:02:22):
But Caitlin, people sit on organ donation lists for years,
so it's not as though it's that easy. It's not
like if I don't give it to you that you'll
just the next guy can, because it likes as very specialized.

Speaker 15 (01:02:32):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:02:32):
But to know you're a match, you have to be
willing to give your organ to even find out if
you're a match.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
Right, But I would I'm saying like, I would like
if somebody came to me and they were like, there's
a very good likelihood because there's genetic link that you
could save someone's life, I wouldn't say no, I don't
have a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all rise, the
honorable Judge Kiki is here. Take it away?

Speaker 1 (01:02:54):
Mad at him?

Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
All right, let's get in the court room. It says, hey, Kike,
my name is Debbie. I'm a long time Fred's show
listener and a proud single mom.

Speaker 2 (01:03:02):
Ah, it's not her fault. Then I know somebody else
the story, somebody else is fulting.

Speaker 1 (01:03:06):
I know, she says.

Speaker 3 (01:03:07):
My daughter is fifteen, a straight A student, and she's
very active in her school and community. My daughter has
also had the same best friend since first grade. However,
and unfortunately, her best friend is currently sixteen and pregnant. Obviously,
this has rocked our world, and I've been forced to
have some very deep conversations with my daughter about her

(01:03:28):
best friend's choices. But now I've been faced with my
own choice. The girl's mom is giving her a baby shower,
which I think is insane. However, my daughter has been
asking me if she can attend the baby shower, and
I even call her trying to help plan the party.
I don't think any of this is appropriate, and I
don't want my daughter attending a baby shower and somehow

(01:03:51):
thinking that this is okay.

Speaker 1 (01:03:53):
What should I do?

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
Are you guys at the jury eight five five five
one oh three five Judge kick? I have to ask,
so we can't sell a rate the birth of this baby,
even though it was unplanned potentially right, So I mean
I'm just wondering about though, Like she doesn't get a shower,
even though she's young and it wasn't probably on purpose,
we still don't just make.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
The best of it.

Speaker 3 (01:04:12):
According to Debbie, she's not comfortable with this, and I'm
not a parent, so I would love to hear from parents.

Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
But my hot take is that.

Speaker 3 (01:04:21):
Allow your daughter to go right, because in my mind,
you've raised your daughter a certain way, You've taught her
a lot of valuable lessons. She's a great child, a
great student, and I don't think she should not be
there for her friend and be held accountable for her
friend's decisions, like her friend did what she did, whatever
the situation may be. But you know your kid, you

(01:04:43):
know your daughter, You've raised her right.

Speaker 1 (01:04:45):
You hope that she.

Speaker 3 (01:04:45):
Would make the great decisions in life. So I think
you know this is a part of life, teenage, pregnancy,
it happens, It happens to people, and I think you
trying to shield her from that may cause her to rebel.
And I think at this time in her friend's life too,
they've been friendstance is great. You know her friend is
probably going through a lot of things emotionally and mentally
and I think she really would need your daughter's support,

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and I don't think you should take that away from them.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
At this point, I'm still caught up on this baby shower.

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
So I mean, the point of the shower is to celebrate,
of course, but they're also you give gifts and diapers
and all that stuff which the girl's gonna need. And
then the other thing is, if we're just pretending this
didn't happen, because it's a valuable life lesson or a
difficult conversation to have with your own kid. If we're
just gonna pretend this didn't happen, and I go to
the baby, the baby is arriving, The baby's coming exactly,

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and so every time you see this woman and her baby,
that would be a reminder of the fact that this
happened young, or was an accident or whatever happened. So
I don't know why we're pretending that it's not happening
and not acknowledging and celebrating and making the best of it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:48):
Because again, if.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
The thing is we're not gonna celebrate this, we're gonna
pretend it's not happening. We're not going to the party,
you shouldn't help. Well, then I mean that doesn't make
any sense.

Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
Yeah, she feels like it will be a bad influence
on her daughter to it already happened. It's happening, exactly,
it's happening. It doesn't make her a bad person either.

Speaker 13 (01:06:06):
If she's having a baby at this age, like you said,
it does happen, and she raised her daughter a certain way,
and her daughter has her own you know, mind, her
own you know, set of values, and that doesn't mean
that that's going to happen to her as well.

Speaker 1 (01:06:18):
If you attend a baby shower for your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:06:20):
Well, that's like people who used to say that sixteen
and Pregnant on MTV was glorifying teen pregnancy.

Speaker 1 (01:06:25):
I watched the show. It didn't look good to me.

Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
Okay, I didn't watch that show and go man, I
would love to have that life was going to say.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
It looks like they are crushing it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:33):
No, Yeah, tell your daughter to look at what follows
and she'll be fine. But also everything's an opportunity for
a discussion to learn.

Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
I mean, we can't just ignore things.

Speaker 4 (01:06:42):
But yeah, her have her stick around and see how
much she needs her support because it's not glamorous.

Speaker 3 (01:06:47):
Yeah, and I don't know about you guys, but I
had friends that had children when we were sixteen and
seventeen years old, and I didn't. You know, just because
they made a decision or something happened in their life,
that doesn't mean that I'm going to go follow the
leader or I have to do it now too.

Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
That's right. I didn't either. Yeah, that's right. No one
that's actual me. But I mean, but I didn't either.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
You know.

Speaker 18 (01:07:06):
That's what I keep telling my son is that I
avoided all of that because I had tremendous discipline. Yeah,
good judgment now, that being said, even though nobody wanted
to get with me, I I don't think it's entirely true.
I was very afraid of this happening. My parents were
extremely effective growing up in making sure that I knew

(01:07:31):
that disappointing them was going to be a problem. I
wasn't scared of them per se, but I was scared
of disappointing them.

Speaker 2 (01:07:38):
And my mom was funny about all this. She was like, look,
you know what you do, what you got to do.
She even bought me condoms, but she was like you
And my dad actually hated that because he felt like
of all people, he felt like that was enabling me,
and her thing was, well, I mean, I'm a girl
and I've never raised a boy before, so I don't
really know what I'm doing. But if he's going to
do it, and if he's dumb enough to be a
bit too embarrassed to buy them, I'll buy them, you

(01:08:00):
know whatever, because it's not like I can stop it
if it's going to happen. But my parents were very
effective and convincing me, Hey, you do what you want,
but if you have a baby in high school or
before God forbid, this is going to be a real
problem for you, like you know, and but again not bad.
It's not a bad thing ever to have a baby,
but like just so you know, it will change the
entire trajectory of your life of course, so just you know,

(01:08:22):
like if that, hey, you do what she do. But
like so it was never don't do it. It was
always just like, yeah, that's not gonna be great. You know,
it's not gonna be great, you know, for for for
the dreams that you have for yourself. So again you're right,
like the mom ignoring this because she doesn't want it
to happen to her daughter. That's not that's not a thing. Heyday,

(01:08:43):
good morning, Welcome to Kiki's court on the Fred Show.

Speaker 12 (01:08:46):
Oh my goodness, good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
Hey, what do you want to say? Welcome? Come on,
come on you.

Speaker 21 (01:08:51):
I was just gonna say that. When I was in
high school, I never saw another pregnant teenager and decided
I want to follow those fops. Right right, twenty first century,
everybody knows how hard it is to have a baby, Like,
kids are not stupid, people make mistakes and everything, like
mom needs if that's.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
The girl's best friend.

Speaker 21 (01:09:09):
I think she says it's the first grade or something
like people make mistakes and it's going to be really bad.
Idea of you know what she's gonna tell her daughter
if it happens to her, that your mom's not gonna
support you and all that stuff.

Speaker 16 (01:09:20):
So I think she just.

Speaker 21 (01:09:21):
Really needs to rethink her thought process.

Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:09:25):
I agree, Yeah, because I watched that sixteen and pregnant
stuff and I'm like, this is not depressing. It doesn't
look great. Hey, hey, hey, how old is that kid, Dave?
Let's talk about this.

Speaker 1 (01:09:36):
She is about to be five next week. How old
are you?

Speaker 21 (01:09:40):
I'm twenty five?

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Okay, all right, well you starting young too, but uh
it's all good.

Speaker 5 (01:09:44):
I went to high school.

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
But hi to her, and hi to you, and thank
you for calling. Have a good day.

Speaker 5 (01:09:50):
No, thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:51):
She was cute, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:09:52):
I'm like, wait a minute, we know about this story, right,
Hey Tay, how does this hit home or something?

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
Hey Brenda, good morning? How are you hid? I love
you guys, thank you, We love you too. Kiki's court,
what say you? I I think she should let her
go to the baby shower.

Speaker 22 (01:10:08):
I think if she's worried about like influences, here's the thing.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
They're everywhere.

Speaker 22 (01:10:12):
And if that girl has a phone, I mean there's
no way she's not seeing videos or TikTok, Like the
influence is going to be everywhere, but with her best friend,
Like she needs to feel support right now.

Speaker 16 (01:10:22):
Like that's like the one thing.

Speaker 1 (01:10:24):
Brenda.

Speaker 2 (01:10:24):
I see this the other way, Like if it were
my daughter, I might be like, hey, you know what,
you want to help plan the baby shower?

Speaker 1 (01:10:30):
You want to be involved.

Speaker 2 (01:10:31):
I'll say, what you know, if you have a little
job or something, work in someplace, why don't you why
dot you buy some diapers with your money? And then
why don't you go and why don't you go to
the birth too, if they're showing up you no, and honestly,
and then and then why don't you help her raise it?
Like why don't you make sure that you babysit and
like be involved in the process. I would lean into this, oh,
because I'm nice. I don't think most sixteen year olds

(01:10:52):
are going to look at that and go after seeing
what actually the work that it actually requires in the
process and the sacrifice, and it's a wonderful thing. And
I'm happy for this, you know, girl or whatever, because
there's nothing bad about bringing a life into the world.
But I don't know that I think that I would
want to do that after seeing it firsthand, being involved
in I might that might be close enough for me

(01:11:13):
as a sixteen year old thirty year old, yeah right, I.

Speaker 22 (01:11:17):
Mean maybe she also, I mean if she's confident, like
the way she's been parenting her, and then she should
have a little more you know, faith that maybe her
daughter's like okay, like maybe this isn't for me, but
if this was for you, you know, if you can
handle this, and that's fine for you. I think it's
just trusting like what you've put into your child, you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Know, I guess, yeah, yeah, I agree that way too.
I agree.

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
Thank you, Brenda. Have a good day you guys here. Yeah,
I mean shielding your kids from all this stuff. I
feel like that tends those tend to be the kids
that then get out in the real world and then
want to do all this stuff because it's like, well,
we pretended that that didn't happen, you know. I remember
the kids that like, they weren't allowed to drink, and
they weren't allowed to go to the parties, and they
weren't allowed to do this. We're allowed to do that,
and they can't go on dates, they can't be alone,

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all these different things, and then they get out in
the real world and they want to try all this
stuff because they weren't supposed to do any of it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
They lose their mind at the first hand of freedom. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:12:09):
I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
It's funny because people used to say to me when
my sister was pregnant, you know, wait till you hold
that little girl, and then you're gonna want it for yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:12:16):
And that is not what happened. The exact opposite happened.

Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
Actually, I held that little girl and I was like,
I love you so much and I will get you
out of jail anytime, and I will buy you everything
that your mom won't and you can come see me
and I will we can do everything that you're not
allowed to do. But then you're going back Southwest boarding group. Hey,
you're gone, like I put you on that thing. I'll
even come with you, hand you off, and then I'm

(01:12:41):
going home alone to my band Jocelyn. How you doing,
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (01:12:46):
Hi, good morning.

Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
Hey, So Kiki's Court, if you're just joining, I want
to I want to make some judge Kiki your honor. Yeah,
I want to make sure I get this right. There's
a mom who has a sixteen year old daughter. Sixteen
year old daughter's friend is pregnant. They're planning a baby shower.
Moms like, no, I don't want you at the baby shower.
I don't want you planning the baby shower. I don't
want you to have anything to do with this. And
the debate is is that even useful? And many of

(01:13:09):
us in here, I think I think we all would argue, no,
what do you think.

Speaker 1 (01:13:16):
I think you should let her go?

Speaker 16 (01:13:17):
I actually had a friend who got pregnant fifteen, had
her baby at sixteen. I went through the whole thing
with her, and you know, and the baby was born,
and I knew I did not want to have a baby.
My mom raised me differently, you know, she people make mistakes,
but she told me, you know, like that's too young
to a baby. And when I thought how hard it was,
it was even like configure the reason why I didn't

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want to have a baby.

Speaker 5 (01:13:41):
That y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:13:41):
Yeah, yeah, I think she should lean into this. Yeah, no,
be involved in this process and see if that's what
you want for yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
Thank you. Justin have a good.

Speaker 5 (01:13:50):
Day, thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:13:52):
Or we can just pretend it's not happening, which it
is and it always it always will be right, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:13:58):
Emily, Hi, good morning, warning, Sorry, what do you think?

Speaker 15 (01:14:06):
So as I you guys were talking, I remember this
actually happened when I was in high school. Wasn't one
of my best friends, but a girl adjacently you know, sixteen,
pregnant whatnot, and they threw her baby shower.

Speaker 19 (01:14:18):
I remember all the parents judging the other.

Speaker 15 (01:14:20):
Parents, but no one didn't let their child go. And
I think that's the whole thing, is the mom's going
to cause bigger issues by stirring of drama and not
letting her child go and like everyone said previously, you know,
maybe it's a good I think leaning into it would
be an excellent way for to avoid teenage pregnancy because
it's someone who's the twenty nine and kids, my friends

(01:14:41):
are having kids. The more I learn about pregnancy and birth,
the less likely I want.

Speaker 5 (01:14:45):
To have a child.

Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
Yeah, the repression thing is just not going to work.
I honestly think it's better just to I mean, it's
just the reality it's happening. Yeah, And I don't necessarily
think that. I don't know that, like to someone else's point,
your values and your priorities just change because something's happening
to somebody else. And it's not like there aren't babies

(01:15:08):
being born all the time, and and and you know,
things happening all the time that might remind her that.

Speaker 1 (01:15:14):
That, you know what I mean, Like if she's not
going to just.

Speaker 2 (01:15:16):
Block the idea that teen pregnancy could occur by not
letting her walk outside or go to parties or whatever else.

Speaker 15 (01:15:22):
Right, well, right, and like I mean, like you know,
I said, you know, she knows she's pregnant. Like so
I just what good it like making isolating her from
her best friend? What good is it?

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
Gett dood at this point.

Speaker 2 (01:15:33):
Yeah, I agree, Thank you Lindsay or Emily, thank you,
have a good day.

Speaker 3 (01:15:36):
And Debbie's defense, thanks for Someone on the tech said,
you know, they think that Debbie just doesn't want to
make it seem like it's fun or celebrating team pregnancy,
which we should.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
Celebrate the baby, we should celebrate the life. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
And the fact that it's happening and she's gonna need support. Yeah,
And I'm sure she doesn't. I don't know this girl obviously,
but I can't imagine she feels great about this, right,
you know. I mean she's a kid, and she's having
a kid, and you know all the things that come
with that. So I think it would be super valuable
for this girl's spirit. Okay, what happened happened right, right,

(01:16:12):
So like, why are we not supporting her? Lindsey High
Lindsay Now, it's Lindsea Eastern, good morning.

Speaker 11 (01:16:19):
Hey guys. I totally think that she should let her
daughter go. I think I have a little bit of
a different perspective. I'm an older sister, but my younger
brother is twelve years younger than me, so he's in
high school right now, and I get to sometimes like
have the privilege of like talking to him and talking
about things that he won't talk to.

Speaker 5 (01:16:40):
My parents about.

Speaker 11 (01:16:41):
And he does things that are so empathetic for his
friends that he knows he would never do for himself.
He's really smart. He'll never like ever like touch things
that they want to do, but he'll still show up
for them because they're emotionally struggling or dealing with things
that he never wants to ever, ever ever touch. But
it's just I think that it's that she's showing up

(01:17:04):
for her friends during a really really hard time because
these parents are just absolutely potentially laid into her that
there's the social stigma. These things are really really really hard,
and why can't the friends Like why can't she show
up for her friend? And it's really really difficult time
as the mom after daughter, you know, are you just
doing this just to be supportive? Because I bet she is.

(01:17:25):
This is really really hard and it's really really ugly
for from a lot of different perspectives, And it's a
really really difficult thing to see your friend go through.
And you know, I don't think anybody wants to be
in this situation. And I can only imagine that you
as seeing your best friend go through that, you want
to try and be there for them in any way

(01:17:46):
that you possibly can. And the baby shower can be really,
really fun.

Speaker 12 (01:17:51):
You know, from a kid's perspective.

Speaker 11 (01:17:53):
So I can only imagine that they're going to try
and make this as fun as possible. So I think
hopefully mom can see that and can kind of like
let her daughter go just a little bit. But I
don't think they're going to try and you know, she's
gonna not walk away from this and go I want
this because nobody wants this.

Speaker 2 (01:18:12):
Yeah, and a lot of people are saying this, But
how about to sit down with your daughter and have
that conversation and figure out what she thinks about this
as opposedly just blocking her. I mean, if she's like,
I'm so excited I want to have a baby now
because of all this attention, well then that's an opportunity
to have a further conversation. But I would imagine I
don't know any of the people involved in this. I
would bet that you're right, Jamie that if you ask

(01:18:33):
the kid, the sixteen year old, you know, the daughter,
why are you doing this, it would be I'm supporting
my friend. It has nothing to do with wanting it
for herself. It's because it's the right thing to do.
And in that case, then you raise your kid, right
and we should be celebrating that.

Speaker 1 (01:18:47):
Yep, exactly, thank you, Jamie.

Speaker 2 (01:18:51):
Yeah, they are well. Some I wasn't for something. Yeah,
have a good day, Jamie. I mean, some kids are
dumb here. I want to keep using the wrong name.
Whoever that would Jessic Jennifer. I don't know who that was.
I keep using the wrong name. And I'm on a
lot of medicine. Okay, I can't be sick this week.

Speaker 1 (01:19:07):
I can.

Speaker 2 (01:19:08):
So I took everything this morning. I took everything I
could find. This, a little bit of this, a little
bit of that, drink, a little bit pop, a little
bit of it. No, I can't. I just can't have it.
So anyway, to Jessica, Jamie, Janine, Adrianna, Maria, Sam John,
everybody who called this morning, thank you. I'm sorry that
I'm like ten seconds behind everyone else. But another problem
solve keick.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
In Debbie letter, go you raise the good girl. Callen's
entertainment report is on The Fresh Show.

Speaker 4 (01:19:33):
All right, I need to talk Love Island, because if
you have been on TikTok as I have you've heard
rumors this was coming, But last night, during episode thirty Islanders,
Sierra or Tega was noticeably missing from the villa, with
the narrator simply saying at one point, Sierra left the
villa due to a personal reason, similar to how they

(01:19:54):
handled Lyssa leaving the show earlier in the season.

Speaker 1 (01:19:57):
But this is a big one because she.

Speaker 4 (01:19:59):
Was really she was in the only closed off couple,
which if you watch the show, you know what the
hell I'm talking about, And they're the only couple that
I really feel like is real. But this comes, of course,
after days of fans pleading with production to get her
off the show over an old social media post of
her using a very naughty racial slur.

Speaker 1 (01:20:17):
Her departure left viewers.

Speaker 4 (01:20:19):
Happy, but Nick, who she's in a couple with, he's
confused because he doesn't know anything. He just knows what
he was told and it's not specifics on the situation.
Sierra's parents, who have been running her social media for months,
put up a story last night on her account, writing
in part as Sierra's parents, this has been one of
the most painful weeks of our lives.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
We've seen the posts, the headlines, the hurt.

Speaker 4 (01:20:41):
And the hate, And while Sierra hasn't seen any of
it yet, we have, and so of the people who
love her. We're not here to justify or ignore what's surface.
We understand why people are upset, and we know accountability matters,
but what's happening online right now.

Speaker 1 (01:20:55):
Has gone far beyond that.

Speaker 4 (01:20:56):
The threats, the cruel messages, the attacks on our family,
her friends, and her supporters. It's heartbreaking, uncalled for, and
no one deserves that kind of hate, no matter what
mistake they've made. Now, if you don't watch the show,
contestants don't have their phone.

Speaker 1 (01:21:10):
They give them phones.

Speaker 4 (01:21:11):
That has no connection to the outside world, so they
have no idea what's going on. They have no idea
what's being dug up or how viewers are perceiving them.
Her parents finished by writing, while she's always going to
be our little girl, she's also a woman, one who
will take accountability, responsibility in her own time, her own voice.
Until then, we're asking for compassion, patients, basic human decency,

(01:21:34):
and they signed it with love her family. So it's
a lot. I don't know if she knows why she
was pulled out. I don't know where they're holding her,
but apparently she doesn't have her phone, And with the
show making really firm decisions surrounding both women, they're kind
of making a clear statement that they're not willing to
promote someone who has been discriminatory in the past. Kevin

(01:21:56):
Durant is heading to the Houston Rockets in a historic
trade seven different teams, so it's not just the Suns
and the Rockets in the deal. The Hawks, Nets, Warriors, Lakers,
and Timberwolves are all involved in what is the NBA's
first ever trade was seven different teams. KD is the
obvious crux of the deal, though, as the Rockets get

(01:22:17):
the fifteen all time or All Star rather on their
starting five, they are losing two key players from last season,
so we'll see how that all goes.

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
But seven different teams, and Zane.

Speaker 4 (01:22:29):
Malik is getting very vulnerable and opening up about his
past experiences in the band One Direction with his upcoming
song Fushia see so in it, he wraps I work hard,
I worked hard, excuse me in a white band and
they still laughed at the Asian Zane as half Pakistani
if you didn't know he was born and raised in
the UK, but his dad is from Pakistan. The lyric

(01:22:51):
was shared in a teaser for the upcoming song.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
And if you missed.

Speaker 4 (01:22:56):
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Speaker 5 (01:23:09):
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Fred Fund learn so much.

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Guys, did you know that Los Angeles is not the
full name of Los Angeles and you live there? Did
you know that I know this? This is this, I
guess this is real. I found this on a couple
different websites. Los Angeles full name is El Pueblo de
Nuestra Senora Lavrena de Los Angeles de ports Unkula rolls

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off the tongue. Yes, I mean really easy to say. Yeah,
like when I'm, you know, trying to get on Southwest
to go to La ticket to yeah, and then you know,
bags don't fly free anymore. But when I call them up,
you know, because I still call. I don't get on
the internet, I don't use the app I call on
the phone, I fax them and I said, I with
like one ticket please to El Pueblo de Nuestra Senora

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la Marena de Los Angeles de Porto sia Unkula. And
they say they hang up. Yeah, you're this is what's
wrong with you? What they say more Fredshell next

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