May 23, 2025 • 16 mins
Bella's husband told her that she doesn't need to tell him every detail about her bathroom visits... Bella wants to know if anyone else tells their partner everything.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we
have little shared document and people write their ideas for
the show into or in contribute whatever, And you said
sending to the effect of who am I supposed to
share graphic details about my life with if not my husband?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
So the question was how much mystery do you leave
in your relationship?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
So I'll put it out there?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her
story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason.
You're a full time member of the show. You get
to stay. Jason's immediate meat is to do someone else's job. No, No,
I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell
her story and then go do her job. You don't
have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to
have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and
(01:00):
you don't have to. I want you to relax, put
your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not,
because I don't worry about it, you know. I just
love how Jason's the first one to step up to
do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah,
what what is the situation ahead? What is the example
(01:20):
that you have. When did this present itself in your relationship.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use
the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, well, I mean maybe a little shy, remember that
this is the radio, but I mean not too shy.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I'm just like, I hope I can say this word
on the radio.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Okay, medical thing, it's a medical okay, perfect. So I
tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other
day I went to go out to the bathroom and
I had hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And I went and well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
I talked to my doctor, But you make things up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, No, we don't.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
We don't. We don't have to get to and okay,
we don't have to get to in a detail about Okay.
So there's something going on in the in the in
the booty area, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And so I went to tell him.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I went to tell him. The first thing you
thought to do is tell him?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah, of course I would tell him. And so I
told him. I'm like, hey, babe, I think I got
him rights.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
And then he like turns to me and he's like,
you know, you don't have to tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell?
I had to tell somebody, and you signed up for this?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Well he did? Did he sign up to hear about
everything going on with you? I?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sure, hope. So we've got eternity. That's beautiful. We have
eternity to check him out.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Like I stopped, looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made
Mike look at your well.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
No, I've never had that problem. But like I would,
if he was like, there's something wrong with my butt,
I'd be like, okay, let me see.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You can't like those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I think you think you can think.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I think you mine.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
We're okay.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
They're like outside I think I think you can get
most times from what I understand, I too have. I
thought I had all kinds of things going on, and
it turns out I've had I've had ganders of all
parts of my body because I'm a hypochondriac and I'm
convinced that I've had everything.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see
everything bad ones. Oh you just went ahead and googled that?
Is that what you did? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
I don't know where that I can't see so I
know where that came from. You can see the bad
ones pulled them up on your phone or side.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I don't actually know if I have them. I don't.
I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
We no, no, we don't.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
We don't.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Again, you don't need to tell us either, Okay, why
do you tell us everything?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
And I need to tell him?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
But I wanted to where's the line in your relationship?
Thank you, Bella. Now you can go into if anyone
chooses and about your issue.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It's okay, But you.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Tell him everything? Oh yeah, everything.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Everything you could think of. I tell them.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
But why okay, where you go answer the phone?
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Then?
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Why why is it important for him to know?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's not It's like I don't know whatever's happening in
your body.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I just like telling him everything. I don't like being
the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell
him anything, like I'll tell everyone anything.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that
there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not
as though you're like sick and he can care for you,
like this is a personal issue, and at some point
you probably want him to do things in that area,
you know, that general area, and I don't know, and
I don't know about that, but you know what I mean,
the nether regionally.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Never done it before in her life.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, mom, And I don't know why a guy or
a girl needs to have that information. I believe that
we like to call it around here, preserving the sexy,
like there's there's such thing as too much information.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
But that doesn't mean that.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I think the reason he's telling you that is because
he's like, I don't need it. I don't need to
know that, Like he's he's the one saying this, not me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
He said, I was getting grafted about it.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
He said it was fine that I told him, but
the details were they should have left them necessary necessary.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Thank you, very nice, thank you, yes, very nice. Right
now we're going down with him, she said, don't tell me,
She said, I'll tell you on the radio. Okay, tells
me that he does.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to
know these things, but that is the type that will
like tell him just because she feels like it's the
right thing to do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Like you come in here, Pauline and talk about all
kinds of different things.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Sorry, open, do you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Tell all these things?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Absolutely not?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Absolutely not, And he clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He's an you better. He's smart.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Yeah, he is smart.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
It's a smart man. Literally.
Speaker 8 (05:43):
I will tell him if things affect him or pertain
to him, but I don't get graphic, you know, I'll
just bigure this is happening right now.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Oh yeah, stuff like that.
Speaker 9 (05:54):
You know.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well, yeah, I guess. I don't like.
Speaker 8 (05:57):
Explain or you know, make like a power point for
him and him things like that and.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Do all that. Well that's good.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Yeah, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
And Jason, you would actually have you had to do
the inspection before.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
No, not there, No, I would if he had a problem.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But they have physicians for this, like there are people
whose job it is to go ahead and take a
look and help you, people who actually know what they're
looking at.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
But like you know, in the moment we were like,
oh my god, what is that? And we can't see it?
Like I'd be like, can you just look at this?
Like what does it look like, like what's going on
back there? And then I would let him take a look,
and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't
trust his medical advice, but like, what's going on back there?
Show me, I don't know, it's been almost fifteen years,
like it literally there's nothing there.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So we just give up. Then we just give up
after fifteen up.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
It's just a lover of comfort, like there's nothing that
he doesn't know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I
think it's comfort, it's not giving up. I think it's
comfort and trust, Caitlin. I know I know the answer
you probably well. I mean, he took your vaginal subpot stories,
so there's obviously a lot of imunication between.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
The two of you, but we ingested those.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, he yeah, whatever,
he I don't think. I don't think you put him
in his vagina. So I think everybody knew what took
meant but well.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I meant like that was on his own time.
Speaker 10 (07:14):
I didn't know he was doing that, or I would
have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things.
But like we've already I mean, we've only been together
for a little over a year. But like we've already
like gone through some health issues where like I've had
to go to the emergency room with him, Like I've
had to help him throw up. So I mean we've
gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't
(07:35):
too in front of him. I will get a good
belch out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have
a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom,
which I am so pissed off about.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Still, so there's.
Speaker 10 (07:48):
Been a little you know, things that maybe he could
have heard on accident.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
But I don't do.
Speaker 11 (07:52):
Duty stuff, okay, and Kiki oh, I don't do nonheing.
I don't play with bodily function, thank you. But big Tim,
he's very open about anything that he doesn't care. But
I'm very like h No, like Jason. I will put
a tripod on a phone and take a picture of
So I.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Am trying to take pictures of places on my body
I can't see before I would ask anybody to help
me with that. I mean, there's no one in my
house and by myself, but I mean I would go
to a doctor before I would ask the person who
I'm making love to.
Speaker 10 (08:24):
Now with my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean,
my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I
had going on that I couldn't really see. So with
my friends were we've been through this life for long.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me
have a baby.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
There's no line I was gonna say. I mean, I guess,
but yeah, we don't have to. We don't have to,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I mean like there's certain times where, yeah, that would
be a time where you know everything's out there because
you don't want to miss that moment.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I could miss the moment where you have a pimple
on your butt. I could miss that moment, Like I
don't need I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I'm not. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
And I think there's something to say that, like it
doesn't disgust me, right, Like I think that just means
that like it's another level, right.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Like I don't know.
Speaker 10 (09:08):
Yeah, think of relationships like video games and like you
access different levels.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Like I've reached the final boss.
Speaker 10 (09:14):
Right, and there's like a love there that's like unconditional.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You don't look at it.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
It's the same thing with.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
My sister, Like I.
Speaker 10 (09:20):
Don't look at you differently because I hit this level
of love for you that it's really not affecting.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But that's the point is maybe we don't need to
cross that line. Maybe maybe we don't need to find
that level, that level of comfort. Like I don't need
you to have the same love that you have for
your sister for me. I need you to have the
kind of love where you want to like do it
to me all the time and you and I don't
need to remind you that, like, oh, I don't know,
my stomach hurts. You know, all day long, I've had
this stomach issue, But do it to me, you know.
(09:46):
It's like I can handle this myself, and I don't
necessarily need to tell you about it because well, I
you know it's going to go away someday, and I
don't need you to remember it.
Speaker 10 (09:55):
Sometimes you can't hide it, like when you live with
someone sometimes things accidentally know, but like full time, like
sometimes like yeah, you really can't, Like there's calamity the bedrooms, right,
It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and
something else happens, like you know.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I must be some deity or something because I don't
have these I don't have these emergency situations on the regular.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
I'm so lucky.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand,
like I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I'm the same how to hum and the rest of
you guys are, But I don't put my pants on
a regular I just don't.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
It never happens when you.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Have like a lady of the night over or you want.
Speaker 12 (10:30):
To let's one of those escorts, right right, you mean
the Asian ones?
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah? No, I mean what are you talking about. I
mean people already think a lot of things about me.
Let's not put that out there, Okay.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
I met like when you have.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
When I have a gas you have a guess, someone
who I'm interested in there on their own, on their
own volition, someone who's choosing to be there, and it's
not being compensated.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Well, that's what a lady of the night is.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Know what that meant so much.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
I'm not I'm not above a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who
stopped by the house has done so because they chose
to and wanted to correct. There was no currency exchange
of any kind, you know, friend, like when you.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
When you order those ladies, you know, when you engage
in prostitutiones you know. No, I don't know. This is
how people say things to me.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
None of that today.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so
when I have a guest over, what I know anymore?
Speaker 8 (11:53):
Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me,
it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold
in that one.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Part where like it pretty much goes up your spine
to your brain.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Like yeah, well, if.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I was able to hold it and went to my brain,
then I guess I never No one knew about it,
but none the wiser.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
There's like noises I get made. I don't know, I won't.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
What I worry about is I can conceal most of
that stuff I feel like I feel and even if
even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
What is that ice cream or beer?
Speaker 5 (12:22):
Because I know those are issues for you.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
For both at the same time.
Speaker 10 (12:25):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual
beer and ice cream times?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I do.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, it's it's a great Tuesday night
for me. I do my own kegstands by myself. You
should see it. I brought myself up and then and
then I get my soft served machine out and I
just sit there and just consume the dairy. You know
that some people that's what I figured you were like,
(12:49):
That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday.
I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just
make every effort to conceal it. And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Don't want to maybe, but at least I made every
effort for them not to.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
That's all you can do to say anything. It's them
out before they can hear any of it.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Your uper.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I mean, that might be a kind thing to do
if if I'm not feeling well, it might be a
kind thing to do to be like, you.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Gotta go right, all right.
Speaker 10 (13:19):
I'll try to put my boyfriend out.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Any us out there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I
just I don't I think there's It's not that I
don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like,
I don't know if you if you're having certain issues,
like female issues or whatever, like tell me about it.
If there's something I can do for you, I will.
But other than that, I don't know what else to say,
Like I can't like if you get into graphic detail
(13:44):
with me about it. It's like, it's not that I don't,
I don't know what I think. That's I think sometimes.
I mean, there are immature men out there who like
think it's gross or whatever. I don't think that at all.
I just I can't offer you anything, you know, so
like I think sometimes when are like might you know,
guys don't understand and they don't. They don't they don't
listen to me talk about this stuff the way they should.
It's not that I mean, I grew up with women.
(14:05):
It's just I don't. I can't unless I can go
buy you something or give you medicine, help you get medicine,
or like warm up a heating pad for you or
something like, I don't know. Like this just it makes
me uncomfortable because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
I mean, like what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Yeah, you know, and just listen to me. Nothing you
can do. You can't take this pain away, cramps away?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Oh man.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Nothing well worries me, though, is the stuff that happens
when I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when
I'm asleep. Yeah, and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously
do anything about that. But this is why I was
saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday. Where's this New York accent coming from?
This is why I was saying yesterday or the day
before or whatever, that I would probably be the skinniest
(14:49):
person you've ever seen if I live with somebody, because
all this fat.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Stuff I do. That's not true that all of fat
stuff I do.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I
just eat like with reckless of and then like where
I order half the menu on a Friday night after
I may or may not have stumbled upon a gummy
like or eat ice cream or whatever it is. Like,
I would not be messing around with these things if
I were if I live with somebody, because I wouldn't
want you know, the aftermath.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do
it on the way home, but.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Then the aftermath still happens.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, would you go and do it?
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (15:24):
No, I wouldn't want the judgment Honestly, I'm gonna lose
fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling you
this because no, well no, because some people say it's comfortable,
I'll be uncomfortable really because I don't want to get
caught up.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
I don't want to be tooting in my sleep.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's
before I go to bed or whatever I do occasionally
when I, you know, am indulging?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
What does this? Liz? Yes? I Liz? What is you do? What?
And who did?
Speaker 9 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 7 (15:50):
What is?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Who?
Speaker 9 (15:54):
Yeah? Are you?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Are you in hot tub right now? No? I just wondering.
Are you taking a bath?
Speaker 7 (16:02):
No?
Speaker 9 (16:02):
My phone just sucks?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh that too? Okay, So what what is the level
of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former?
Speaker 9 (16:10):
Yeah, so my ex had a hemorry in her butt,
so she was like, can you put a hemorhy cream?
And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what
Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort
and trust.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, we don't need it here. You know, we don't
need it. You're a nice person, but we don't. We
don't need it, Thank you, Liz.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Can't I say? I just I don't need their level
of trust or comfort. I don't. We can we can
stop right there.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
You know, like right like emergency contact status, but not
putting things in my butt kind of stuff.
Speaker 10 (16:42):
You do you have something I need for you to
look at them during the song.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well, we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over.
I mean I'll look at it and go oh damn
and then makes you feel bad. Headlines are next.
Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we
have little shared document and people write their ideas for
the show into or in contribute whatever, And you said
sending to the effect of who am I supposed to
share graphic details about my life with if not my husband?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Exactly?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
So the question was how much mystery do you leave
in your relationship?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
So I'll put it out there?
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her
story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason.
You're a full time member of the show. You get
to stay. Jason's immediate meat is to do someone else's job. No, No,
I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell
her story and then go do her job. You don't
have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to
have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and
(01:00):
you don't have to. I want you to relax, put
your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not,
because I don't worry about it, you know. I just
love how Jason's the first one to step up to
do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah,
what what is the situation ahead? What is the example
(01:20):
that you have. When did this present itself in your relationship.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use
the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
No, well, I mean maybe a little shy, remember that
this is the radio, but I mean not too shy.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I'm just like, I hope I can say this word
on the radio.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You can't.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
I can't.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Okay, medical thing, it's a medical okay, perfect. So I
tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other
day I went to go out to the bathroom and
I had hemorrhoids.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
And I went and well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
I talked to my doctor, But you make things up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Okay, No, we don't.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
We don't. We don't have to get to and okay,
we don't have to get to in a detail about Okay.
So there's something going on in the in the in
the booty area, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And so I went to tell him.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I went to tell him. The first thing you
thought to do is tell him?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah, of course I would tell him. And so I
told him. I'm like, hey, babe, I think I got
him rights.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
And then he like turns to me and he's like,
you know, you don't have to tell me everything.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell?
I had to tell somebody, and you signed up for this?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Well he did? Did he sign up to hear about
everything going on with you? I?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Sure, hope. So we've got eternity. That's beautiful. We have
eternity to check him out.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Like I stopped, looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made
Mike look at your well.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
No, I've never had that problem. But like I would,
if he was like, there's something wrong with my butt,
I'd be like, okay, let me see.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You can't like those.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I think you think you can think.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
I think you mine.
Speaker 5 (03:00):
We're okay.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
They're like outside I think I think you can get
most times from what I understand, I too have. I
thought I had all kinds of things going on, and
it turns out I've had I've had ganders of all
parts of my body because I'm a hypochondriac and I'm
convinced that I've had everything.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see
everything bad ones. Oh you just went ahead and googled that?
Is that what you did? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
I don't know where that I can't see so I
know where that came from. You can see the bad
ones pulled them up on your phone or side.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I don't actually know if I have them. I don't.
I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
We no, no, we don't.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
We don't.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Again, you don't need to tell us either, Okay, why
do you tell us everything?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
And I need to tell him?
Speaker 1 (03:43):
But I wanted to where's the line in your relationship?
Thank you, Bella. Now you can go into if anyone
chooses and about your issue.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
It's okay, But you.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Tell him everything? Oh yeah, everything.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Everything you could think of. I tell them.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
But why okay, where you go answer the phone?
Speaker 7 (04:00):
Then?
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Why why is it important for him to know?
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's not It's like I don't know whatever's happening in
your body.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I just like telling him everything. I don't like being
the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell
him anything, like I'll tell everyone anything.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that
there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not
as though you're like sick and he can care for you,
like this is a personal issue, and at some point
you probably want him to do things in that area,
you know, that general area, and I don't know, and
I don't know about that, but you know what I mean,
the nether regionally.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Never done it before in her life.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Yeah, mom, And I don't know why a guy or
a girl needs to have that information. I believe that
we like to call it around here, preserving the sexy,
like there's there's such thing as too much information.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
But that doesn't mean that.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
I think the reason he's telling you that is because
he's like, I don't need it. I don't need to
know that, Like he's he's the one saying this, not me.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
He said, I was getting grafted about it.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
He said it was fine that I told him, but
the details were they should have left them necessary necessary.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Thank you, very nice, thank you, yes, very nice. Right
now we're going down with him, she said, don't tell me,
She said, I'll tell you on the radio. Okay, tells
me that he does.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to
know these things, but that is the type that will
like tell him just because she feels like it's the
right thing to do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Like you come in here, Pauline and talk about all
kinds of different things.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Sorry, open, do you.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Tell all these things?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Absolutely not?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Absolutely not, And he clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
He's an you better. He's smart.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Yeah, he is smart.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
It's a smart man. Literally.
Speaker 8 (05:43):
I will tell him if things affect him or pertain
to him, but I don't get graphic, you know, I'll
just bigure this is happening right now.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Oh yeah, stuff like that.
Speaker 9 (05:54):
You know.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Well, yeah, I guess. I don't like.
Speaker 8 (05:57):
Explain or you know, make like a power point for
him and him things like that and.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Do all that. Well that's good.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Yeah, I stopped doing that.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
And Jason, you would actually have you had to do
the inspection before.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
No, not there, No, I would if he had a problem.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But they have physicians for this, like there are people
whose job it is to go ahead and take a
look and help you, people who actually know what they're
looking at.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
But like you know, in the moment we were like,
oh my god, what is that? And we can't see it?
Like I'd be like, can you just look at this?
Like what does it look like, like what's going on
back there? And then I would let him take a look,
and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't
trust his medical advice, but like, what's going on back there?
Show me, I don't know, it's been almost fifteen years,
like it literally there's nothing there.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So we just give up. Then we just give up
after fifteen up.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
It's just a lover of comfort, like there's nothing that
he doesn't know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I
think it's comfort, it's not giving up. I think it's
comfort and trust, Caitlin. I know I know the answer
you probably well. I mean, he took your vaginal subpot stories,
so there's obviously a lot of imunication between.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
The two of you, but we ingested those.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, he yeah, whatever,
he I don't think. I don't think you put him
in his vagina. So I think everybody knew what took
meant but well.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
I meant like that was on his own time.
Speaker 10 (07:14):
I didn't know he was doing that, or I would
have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things.
But like we've already I mean, we've only been together
for a little over a year. But like we've already
like gone through some health issues where like I've had
to go to the emergency room with him, Like I've
had to help him throw up. So I mean we've
gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't
(07:35):
too in front of him. I will get a good
belch out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have
a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom,
which I am so pissed off about.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Still, so there's.
Speaker 10 (07:48):
Been a little you know, things that maybe he could
have heard on accident.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
But I don't do.
Speaker 11 (07:52):
Duty stuff, okay, and Kiki oh, I don't do nonheing.
I don't play with bodily function, thank you. But big Tim,
he's very open about anything that he doesn't care. But
I'm very like h No, like Jason. I will put
a tripod on a phone and take a picture of
So I.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Am trying to take pictures of places on my body
I can't see before I would ask anybody to help
me with that. I mean, there's no one in my
house and by myself, but I mean I would go
to a doctor before I would ask the person who
I'm making love to.
Speaker 10 (08:24):
Now with my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean,
my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I
had going on that I couldn't really see. So with
my friends were we've been through this life for long.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me
have a baby.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
There's no line I was gonna say. I mean, I guess,
but yeah, we don't have to. We don't have to,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I mean like there's certain times where, yeah, that would
be a time where you know everything's out there because
you don't want to miss that moment.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
But I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
I could miss the moment where you have a pimple
on your butt. I could miss that moment, Like I
don't need I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
I'm not. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
And I think there's something to say that, like it
doesn't disgust me, right, Like I think that just means
that like it's another level, right.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Like I don't know.
Speaker 10 (09:08):
Yeah, think of relationships like video games and like you
access different levels.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Like I've reached the final boss.
Speaker 10 (09:14):
Right, and there's like a love there that's like unconditional.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You don't look at it.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
It's the same thing with.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
My sister, Like I.
Speaker 10 (09:20):
Don't look at you differently because I hit this level
of love for you that it's really not affecting.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
But that's the point is maybe we don't need to
cross that line. Maybe maybe we don't need to find
that level, that level of comfort. Like I don't need
you to have the same love that you have for
your sister for me. I need you to have the
kind of love where you want to like do it
to me all the time and you and I don't
need to remind you that, like, oh, I don't know,
my stomach hurts. You know, all day long, I've had
this stomach issue, But do it to me, you know.
(09:46):
It's like I can handle this myself, and I don't
necessarily need to tell you about it because well, I
you know it's going to go away someday, and I
don't need you to remember it.
Speaker 10 (09:55):
Sometimes you can't hide it, like when you live with
someone sometimes things accidentally know, but like full time, like
sometimes like yeah, you really can't, Like there's calamity the bedrooms, right,
It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and
something else happens, like you know.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
I must be some deity or something because I don't
have these I don't have these emergency situations on the regular.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
I'm so lucky.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand,
like I don't, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
I'm the same how to hum and the rest of
you guys are, But I don't put my pants on
a regular I just don't.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
It never happens when you.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
Have like a lady of the night over or you want.
Speaker 12 (10:30):
To let's one of those escorts, right right, you mean
the Asian ones?
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah? No, I mean what are you talking about. I
mean people already think a lot of things about me.
Let's not put that out there, Okay.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
I met like when you have.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
When I have a gas you have a guess, someone
who I'm interested in there on their own, on their
own volition, someone who's choosing to be there, and it's
not being compensated.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
Well, that's what a lady of the night is.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Know what that meant so much.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
I'm not I'm not above a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who
stopped by the house has done so because they chose
to and wanted to correct. There was no currency exchange
of any kind, you know, friend, like when you.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
When you order those ladies, you know, when you engage
in prostitutiones you know. No, I don't know. This is
how people say things to me.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
None of that today.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so
when I have a guest over, what I know anymore?
Speaker 8 (11:53):
Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me,
it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold
in that one.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Part where like it pretty much goes up your spine
to your brain.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Like yeah, well, if.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I was able to hold it and went to my brain,
then I guess I never No one knew about it,
but none the wiser.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
There's like noises I get made. I don't know, I won't.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
What I worry about is I can conceal most of
that stuff I feel like I feel and even if
even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
What is that ice cream or beer?
Speaker 5 (12:22):
Because I know those are issues for you.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
For both at the same time.
Speaker 10 (12:25):
Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual
beer and ice cream times?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I do.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, yeah, that's yeah, it's it's a great Tuesday night
for me. I do my own kegstands by myself. You
should see it. I brought myself up and then and
then I get my soft served machine out and I
just sit there and just consume the dairy. You know
that some people that's what I figured you were like,
(12:49):
That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday.
I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just
make every effort to conceal it. And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Don't want to maybe, but at least I made every
effort for them not to.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
That's all you can do to say anything. It's them
out before they can hear any of it.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
Your uper.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I mean, that might be a kind thing to do
if if I'm not feeling well, it might be a
kind thing to do to be like, you.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
Gotta go right, all right.
Speaker 10 (13:19):
I'll try to put my boyfriend out.
Speaker 5 (13:21):
Any us out there.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I
just I don't I think there's It's not that I
don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like,
I don't know if you if you're having certain issues,
like female issues or whatever, like tell me about it.
If there's something I can do for you, I will.
But other than that, I don't know what else to say,
Like I can't like if you get into graphic detail
(13:44):
with me about it. It's like, it's not that I don't,
I don't know what I think. That's I think sometimes.
I mean, there are immature men out there who like
think it's gross or whatever. I don't think that at all.
I just I can't offer you anything, you know, so
like I think sometimes when are like might you know,
guys don't understand and they don't. They don't they don't
listen to me talk about this stuff the way they should.
It's not that I mean, I grew up with women.
(14:05):
It's just I don't. I can't unless I can go
buy you something or give you medicine, help you get medicine,
or like warm up a heating pad for you or
something like, I don't know. Like this just it makes
me uncomfortable because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
I mean, like what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Yeah, you know, and just listen to me. Nothing you
can do. You can't take this pain away, cramps away?
Speaker 3 (14:27):
Oh man.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Nothing well worries me, though, is the stuff that happens
when I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when
I'm asleep. Yeah, and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously
do anything about that. But this is why I was
saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday. Where's this New York accent coming from?
This is why I was saying yesterday or the day
before or whatever, that I would probably be the skinniest
(14:49):
person you've ever seen if I live with somebody, because
all this fat.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Stuff I do. That's not true that all of fat
stuff I do.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I
just eat like with reckless of and then like where
I order half the menu on a Friday night after
I may or may not have stumbled upon a gummy
like or eat ice cream or whatever it is. Like,
I would not be messing around with these things if
I were if I live with somebody, because I wouldn't
want you know, the aftermath.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do
it on the way home, but.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Then the aftermath still happens.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, would you go and do it?
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (15:24):
No, I wouldn't want the judgment Honestly, I'm gonna lose
fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling you
this because no, well no, because some people say it's comfortable,
I'll be uncomfortable really because I don't want to get
caught up.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
I don't want to be tooting in my sleep.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's
before I go to bed or whatever I do occasionally
when I, you know, am indulging?
Speaker 3 (15:44):
What does this? Liz? Yes? I Liz? What is you do? What?
And who did?
Speaker 9 (15:49):
What?
Speaker 7 (15:50):
What is?
Speaker 1 (15:50):
Who?
Speaker 9 (15:54):
Yeah? Are you?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Are you in hot tub right now? No? I just wondering.
Are you taking a bath?
Speaker 7 (16:02):
No?
Speaker 9 (16:02):
My phone just sucks?
Speaker 1 (16:04):
Oh that too? Okay, So what what is the level
of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former?
Speaker 9 (16:10):
Yeah, so my ex had a hemorry in her butt,
so she was like, can you put a hemorhy cream?
And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what
Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort
and trust.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Yeah, we don't need it here. You know, we don't
need it. You're a nice person, but we don't. We
don't need it, Thank you, Liz.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Can't I say? I just I don't need their level
of trust or comfort. I don't. We can we can
stop right there.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
You know, like right like emergency contact status, but not
putting things in my butt kind of stuff.
Speaker 10 (16:42):
You do you have something I need for you to
look at them during the song.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Well, we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over.
I mean I'll look at it and go oh damn
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