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Speaker 1 (00:40):
It's Kiki's Court, okay, all right for me? All rise
for me? Oh yeah, give me a gavel? All right?
Oh I get the gavel today. You're so excited. I
am honor in the court.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Kiki is precise well no, not today, not today, Judge
fred Now Keicky did not share with me any of
the hold on on the formica.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
She did not share with me any of her cases.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
So I went to the natural place to find, you know,
people's problems, Reddit, and I'll have you know it's It
took me about an hour and I've got about four
in front of me here, but I chose this one.
So you know, for the people who are like, oh,
you go to rend, I do go to Reddit, You're right.
I look at Reddit every day and I go through
page after page we give for stuff to talk about
on this program. So it's true. Then again, that's what
people are asking for on There is advice, and I'm
(01:28):
here to give it to you.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, this is complicated, guys.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So here's the case eight five, five, five, nine one
three five.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
You guys are the jury. The person here.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
This is a woman saying this has been messing with
my head and I need some honest outside opinions.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
We this is she and her and her husband.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
We have another home that my husband has been saying
in recently because we're in the process of separating due
to infidelity.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I assume his infidelity only.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I checked the Digital Scales memory out of cureuriosity, and
it showed two unassigned weigh ends at exactly one hundred
and twenty pounds logged at twelve twenty five am and
twelve twenty six am, back to back for context, I
don't weigh one hundred and twenty pounds and I was
not there on that date, just my husband. Needless to say,
I'm shaken. I'm in the middle of a separation from
(02:19):
my husband due to his past cheating. He's been staying
at the condo, and well, I don't want to jump
to conclusions. This feels more like just more like than
just a glitch. I didn't say anything to him because
in the past he's never taken accountability for the for
the infidelities I found. I also want to protect my
peace and not jump at conclusions, but deep down, I
(02:39):
can't shake the feeling that someone else was there. The
scale doesn't automatically store numbers, and neither one of us
weigh one hundred and twenty pounds. It only logs a
reading when someone actually steps on it.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So what do you do here?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
What are you doing this city? Okay?
Speaker 2 (02:58):
First of all, do we give this kind of benefit
of the doubt and they're separated? I assume that she
wants to work on it, or that she sees the
world where they get back together, because otherwise she wouldn't
care if they were separated pending divorce. Well, then I
think you can probably assume that someone who you think
was cheating on you before, now that you're getting divorced,
is probably going to hook up with someone, right, or
even I don't even think you have to be cheated
(03:19):
on if you're separated with the intent of getting a divorce.
I don't necessarily think it's unreasonable to expect someone to
see someone else, right.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I think that's another level of disrespect. Like it's the
house you guys share.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You could wait, you can wait and put things on
pause until we get you know, you get your own house,
or we figure yourself out.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Well that's her second house. Well and he owns it too.
And then but here's the thing. They're separated because she
thinks that he's been cheating, But clearly she saw a
world where they reconciled because again she I don't know
that she would be too concerned about infidelity if she
was leaving him.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
I would still be upset either way.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
So we're gonna go with this us into glitch now
at twelve thirty in the morning. We're also going to
go with this probably being a house guest.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You know.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
The scenario that I'm thinking is she spent the night.
I don't know what happened, you know, whatever happened. She
went to the bathroom, was like I wonder how much
I weigh and then jumped on it and then like
like all of us, looked at the number and was
like no, and then got on it again, like it's
going to change. So I can relate to that. That's
very human. But what is this woman supposed to do?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Right?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
So more than likely this was a woman with her
husband in the middle of the night, which I there's
you know, I think we all know what she spent
the night like that. You know, it's not like it
was lunchtime. I don't I don't even know why somebody
else would be in the house. This wasn't a glitch, right.
He's never admitted to cheating in the past, so it's
(04:49):
not like calling him and being like are you cheating
is going to do any good. It's also not as though,
I mean, they're separated, so I guess maybe that could
be expected and he got caught. But part of me
is like, you think he's cheating on you? And then
you find this and you're is he's cheating on you
like he's or at least now he is, or he's
(05:12):
with another woman. So whatever the case may be, you
thought he was cheating before, he's probably with another woman.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I don't know what are we hanging on to here.
My thing would be, leave the guy, because you're already separated, right, well,
but again I think she's separated. I think I think
this was more of like a break than it was
because again she didn't say, right here, we're getting divorced.
Because again, if you're separated, I think there's a difference
between being a part and being legally separated, right, because
(05:37):
legally separated means we're getting a divorce, is penda, right,
But they're just a part because she needed a break
because she thought he was cheating, and then she finds
this more than likely he's cheating, and we're done.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So I don't even know what there is to debate.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
My thing would be, I think, you know, I think
you now have confirmation of what he would and there's
no point asking him because you'll lie because he's lied
in the past, and just divorce him.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Hit again.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
That's case closed, guys, anything.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
I mean, is it really cheating, like if you're on
a break but like, okay, so you guys aren't together,
and I'm just supposed to like sit and like twiddle
my thumbs until you.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Figure it out.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
If yes, you are, but it's like, okay, at that point,
it's over anyway. So if there's a scale or not,
you could have been, you know, his luggage. You could
have been trying to weigh his luggage. I've done that
before to make sure, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
But he's upset because he's acting like someone who's having
an affair, So she asks for some distance, He goes
somewhere else and then probably has an affair. So I
guess for me, it's like I don't know what you're
hanging on to, right, like your mind's already done made up.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Like this would have been a grantity.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I don't know that. I never would have thought of
the scale. In fact, I didn't. I didn't even know
there was a scale that linked like that. Why do
they have a scale? It's not the eighties. Hey, that's
my biggest no. See, I don't scales are bad news,
but but.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Eah, no, I mean if we are separated, because I
think that you are cheating on me, I expect you
to be begging for me back, and if you're not
doing that, that's the bare minimum, then I'm going to
end this.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I personally wouldn't probably take a cheater back. That's my
hot take before someone comes at me on my high horse.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
No, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
That's like the one thing I have. It's called the boundary.
But I just like people act like that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
But the only thing I I don't think anybody acts
that it's crazy not to take a cheater back.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Oh, I got called one time.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
I got called the text line I'll get off my
high horse because I went off on a cheater.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
I think if you don't want to take a cheater back,
you don't have to take a cheater back.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And that's okay.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
And again she says that she's not with him for infidelity,
but she also says he's never admitted to his past infidelity,
so it's one of those things where she suspected it
he won't admit it. Because she said both of those things. Now,
I think she's got proof. I think she knows what
she needs to know it. I think you move on.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I understand though it is hard in that position to
not have like hard proof. And I know that this
is quote unquote proof, but I think some some people really,
I mean, you're definitely owed the person to be honest
with you, and I think that's probably what she's looking for,
although I don't know if she's ever gonna get that.
It is easier said than done to leave someone when
you don't have like them telling you, yes, I cheated.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Now, I guess you.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Could argue, he could say, Devil's Advocate, Well, I was
never cheating on you to begin with.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
You kick me out of the.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
House, so so you know we're not together right now.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do. And sorry
you found out.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I mean, but again, now I think that's gaslighting because
Oddsari's been doing it before and he never thought he
would get caught this way, because honest, this is a
new one for me too.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I'm not a cheater.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I mean, I'm very really in a relationship, and when
I am, I don't cheat. I'm very transparent about what
I'm looking for, what I want, and I have been
for a very long time. But when i'm when i'm
committed to someone all the more reason why when I
get into a relationship, I don't do any of this
kind of stuff you're not supposed to, So I don't
expect a pat on the back like that's just the
right thing to do. But the news flash, guys, you
can you can now get caught thanks.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
To the scape scales. Yeah, I don't. Hey, don't we
hoping on the scale?
Speaker 2 (09:04):
You know? But I will say when I'm in a
when I'm in a bathroom, if there's a scale, I
usually jump on the same.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I don't care what.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I'm a massacres I myself and then I'll cry about it.
Three five Hi Gabby, Gabby. Hey, So Kiki's court with
Judge Fred presiding in for Kiki.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
You you heard the scenario. What do you do here?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
I'm not gonna say what Kiki will say? Girl probably
talking about.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Here right right?
Speaker 7 (09:33):
I mean, okay, bo, give me move on. It's on
with it. She knows she's kitty, so girls come on.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
This strikes me as she's looking for validation because she
maybe maybe still loves him here.
Speaker 7 (09:49):
I mean he has a chiming history with her.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Well, I agree, but I mean she's she's going to
a public forum, because I think she probably still loves
him and doesn't want to believe it's true, and it's
hoping that someone out there is going to say to her,
oh no, there was a glitch in that in the
scale system and it was registered.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
You didn't hear about that, you believe me or the
scale bab. Yes, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
The shadd thing about it is that in these case,
in these cases, you know that you're good, feel it,
you know you know that is true, and you still
tell have spaces and how do we she.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Look to me, Yeah, thank you, Gaby, I'm glad you called.
Have a good day. I'll tell you what though, Like
I've been in a situation where I'm maybe not being
cheated on per se, but I'm being actively lied to
about the nature of a relationship with another another person
or multiple people, and I'm being actively gas lit and
(10:47):
lied to about it, and yet I stay. I stayed
involved in that situation because I guess what I needed
was I needed the hard proof, like I needed to know,
I needed to see it. I needed I needed to
catch that person ready and then and then in many
ways I was catching that person, But then I stayed
still because it was like no, maybe not, or maybe
(11:08):
it'll stop or whatever. It's like, but you want you
want to, Like it's almost like even though you know
you're right, and first your gut tells you, and then
maybe you see emails or text messages or other people
tell you things or worse, but it's almost like you
want to walk in on them, like p and the
V like it's like I gotta see. And then even
then I've heard of people who somehow that has happened
(11:32):
to me before though, like I've been walking and then
all of a sudden, I'm like, WHOA, sorry, I fell
into a married person. But it happens from time to time.
But I can relate to the idea of like there's
no one's gonna treat me this way, like no one, no,
come on, like no, no, no, I know, like I'm gonna
stick around because I'm going to get exactly what I
need so that I'm the one who leaves with the
(11:54):
closure that I need and all the information that I need.
And that can be a vicious cycle.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
And it seems counterproductive to me for her to be
like I think you're cheating on me. I'm going to
try to find out, so I'm going to leave you
for a while like that.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I don't. She's just like protect she said, pretecting her peace.
So I don't know if leaving was to catch him.
I think leaving was like I don't know what to
do here, right, Yeah, but I can tell you that's
not going to and that's only going to open the
door for him to act up and then try and
act justified in it, because it's like, well, we're separated.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
I mean, we're not together. We were he was waiting
for this moment.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Also, somebody on YouTube live said, if there's a big
dog in the mix, because maybe they weighed the dog,
but if you're wearing a dog at twelve thirty in
the morning.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Or at night, right, the dog got on the scale
twice consecutively and stood there and then read its own way, I.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Wait, my dog in the middle of the night. IgA, Well,
please don't believe.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
This person getting a dog to stand on a scale
from her.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
You have to do it twice.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Just but that, by the way, the most relatable part
of this story is getting on the scale, looking and
then getting off and then getting back on thinking that
somehow the number will change.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Hey, Mikayla, hi, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
So this woman, and you know, she's upset because she
suspected her husband of cheating. They separated, the living in
two different places, and she has access to the scale,
sees that a one hundred and twenty pound way in
was registered twice the middle of the night. He's not
that she's not that she wasn't there. So he's so
there was a house guest.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
What I mean?
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I suppose it's possible that somebody was there and he
was Andrew. There's a lot of scenarios that you could
come up with, but more than likely that was a
woman on the scale in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
What do you do?
Speaker 8 (13:30):
So I had actually seen I did a deep dive
because I couldn't sleep that she somebody had commented that
she had already seen that or known that he had cheated,
and that's why they were separated.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Yeah, but he's right, and I had mentioned that. But
except she, he apparently has never admitted to it. So again,
for a person who doesn't have that confirmation, I think
when you're reaching out to a public forum or a
radio show or wherever trying to get you're trying to
get people to tell you that it's okay or you're
trying to get people to tell you it's not, but
like you yourself don't have enough somehow, is what I'm
(14:04):
guessing from her.
Speaker 8 (14:05):
No, yeah, but I think it's in her gut and
she does want people to try to tell her that's
not what's happening, but she knows.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yeah, and how can you go?
Speaker 7 (14:14):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I think you're right, And thank you for calling. Have
a great day. Thank you, Love you guys, I love
you too, and thank you for listening. Rona, Hi, good morning, thy,
good morning.
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
What do you think when you hear this? I mean,
is it cut and dry? Is it just open and shut?
Speaker 4 (14:27):
I don't think it's cut and dry. So you have
to get all the facts in the information at first
before you start accusing someone of cheating. So maybe just
ask is there anybody coming to clean the house? Is
anybody coming to do the laundry, cook clean anything like that?
At first I thought house cleaner, but I wasn't sure
if this was like tell thirty at night, you're tell thirty.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Yeah, if it were twelve thirty in the afternoon, I
suppose there might be an explanation, But no, it was
at night.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Oh okay, Well, so I think he needs to get
all the facts before because he's going to just deny, tony, deny,
So she needs to make sure to get all the
facts and ask all the questions.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Do you know what she did?
Speaker 2 (15:00):
She also relatable, She got on the scale because it
was about a minute apart. I guess she got on
the scale, didn't like the number, Peede got back on
the scale, hoping the number would go down. No, trust me,
been there, done this one. Tale's so old as time.
So this is absolutely a human being based on the
way to.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
See woman, unless he's into very small man a whole
different twist.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I'm surprised nobody's called up here and said that he's,
you know, gay, just because I mean, that's usually where
this goes.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Okay, thank you, Ron, I have a good day.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Well, I mean people call up here with the most
wild possible scenarios. Oh no, he's totally gay. What's a
small man on the scale in the middle of the night. Oh,
I mean it could be.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
There, it could be you wait, a small man.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
But you thought he was cheating, you got separated, he
won't admit it. And then this, I think that's as
good of a confirmation as you're going to get.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Girl, like you're already one, put out the door, just get.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
And the problem is she's gonna gas like this woman
and say, well, we're not together. So but if I'm
accused of if I'm getting kicked out of my house
for cheating, I'm and I want to get back with
my wife and I'm not cheating, then I'm not going
to have anybody over in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
That's the thing.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
It seems like he's done too, like okay
Speaker 2 (16:14):
It's like, let's be on my best behavior, you know
what I mean, Like now would not be the time.
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Speaker 1 (00:40):
It's Kiki's Court, okay, all right for me? All rise
for me? Oh yeah, give me a gavel? All right?
Oh I get the gavel today. You're so excited. I
am honor in the court.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Kiki is precise well no, not today, not today, Judge
fred Now Keicky did not share with me any of
the hold on on the formica.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
She did not share with me any of her cases.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
So I went to the natural place to find, you know,
people's problems, Reddit, and I'll have you know it's It
took me about an hour and I've got about four
in front of me here, but I chose this one.
So you know, for the people who are like, oh,
you go to rend, I do go to Reddit, You're right.
I look at Reddit every day and I go through
page after page we give for stuff to talk about
on this program. So it's true. Then again, that's what
people are asking for on There is advice, and I'm
(01:28):
here to give it to you.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Okay, this is complicated, guys.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
So here's the case eight five, five, five, nine one
three five.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
You guys are the jury. The person here.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
This is a woman saying this has been messing with
my head and I need some honest outside opinions.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
We this is she and her and her husband.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
We have another home that my husband has been saying
in recently because we're in the process of separating due
to infidelity.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I assume his infidelity only.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I checked the Digital Scales memory out of cureuriosity, and
it showed two unassigned weigh ends at exactly one hundred
and twenty pounds logged at twelve twenty five am and
twelve twenty six am, back to back for context, I
don't weigh one hundred and twenty pounds and I was
not there on that date, just my husband. Needless to say,
I'm shaken. I'm in the middle of a separation from
(02:19):
my husband due to his past cheating. He's been staying
at the condo, and well, I don't want to jump
to conclusions. This feels more like just more like than
just a glitch. I didn't say anything to him because
in the past he's never taken accountability for the for
the infidelities I found. I also want to protect my
peace and not jump at conclusions, but deep down, I
(02:39):
can't shake the feeling that someone else was there. The
scale doesn't automatically store numbers, and neither one of us
weigh one hundred and twenty pounds. It only logs a
reading when someone actually steps on it.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So what do you do here?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
What are you doing this city? Okay?
Speaker 2 (02:58):
First of all, do we give this kind of benefit
of the doubt and they're separated? I assume that she
wants to work on it, or that she sees the
world where they get back together, because otherwise she wouldn't
care if they were separated pending divorce. Well, then I
think you can probably assume that someone who you think
was cheating on you before, now that you're getting divorced,
is probably going to hook up with someone, right, or
even I don't even think you have to be cheated
(03:19):
on if you're separated with the intent of getting a divorce.
I don't necessarily think it's unreasonable to expect someone to
see someone else, right.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I think that's another level of disrespect. Like it's the
house you guys share.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
You could wait, you can wait and put things on
pause until we get you know, you get your own house,
or we figure yourself out.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Well that's her second house. Well and he owns it too.
And then but here's the thing. They're separated because she
thinks that he's been cheating, But clearly she saw a
world where they reconciled because again she I don't know
that she would be too concerned about infidelity if she
was leaving him.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
I would still be upset either way.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
So we're gonna go with this us into glitch now
at twelve thirty in the morning. We're also going to
go with this probably being a house guest.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You know.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
The scenario that I'm thinking is she spent the night.
I don't know what happened, you know, whatever happened. She
went to the bathroom, was like I wonder how much
I weigh and then jumped on it and then like
like all of us, looked at the number and was
like no, and then got on it again, like it's
going to change. So I can relate to that. That's
very human. But what is this woman supposed to do?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Right?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
So more than likely this was a woman with her
husband in the middle of the night, which I there's
you know, I think we all know what she spent
the night like that. You know, it's not like it
was lunchtime. I don't I don't even know why somebody
else would be in the house. This wasn't a glitch, right.
He's never admitted to cheating in the past, so it's
(04:49):
not like calling him and being like are you cheating
is going to do any good. It's also not as though,
I mean, they're separated, so I guess maybe that could
be expected and he got caught. But part of me
is like, you think he's cheating on you? And then
you find this and you're is he's cheating on you
like he's or at least now he is, or he's
(05:12):
with another woman. So whatever the case may be, you
thought he was cheating before, he's probably with another woman.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Now.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I don't know what are we hanging on to here.
My thing would be, leave the guy, because you're already separated, right, well,
but again I think she's separated. I think I think
this was more of like a break than it was
because again she didn't say, right here, we're getting divorced.
Because again, if you're separated, I think there's a difference
between being a part and being legally separated, right, because
(05:37):
legally separated means we're getting a divorce, is penda, right,
But they're just a part because she needed a break
because she thought he was cheating, and then she finds
this more than likely he's cheating, and we're done.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
So I don't even know what there is to debate.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
My thing would be, I think, you know, I think
you now have confirmation of what he would and there's
no point asking him because you'll lie because he's lied
in the past, and just divorce him.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Hit again.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
That's case closed, guys, anything.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
I mean, is it really cheating, like if you're on
a break but like, okay, so you guys aren't together,
and I'm just supposed to like sit and like twiddle
my thumbs until you.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Figure it out.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
If yes, you are, but it's like, okay, at that point,
it's over anyway. So if there's a scale or not,
you could have been, you know, his luggage. You could
have been trying to weigh his luggage. I've done that
before to make sure, you know.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
But he's upset because he's acting like someone who's having
an affair, So she asks for some distance, He goes
somewhere else and then probably has an affair. So I
guess for me, it's like I don't know what you're
hanging on to, right, like your mind's already done made up.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Like this would have been a grantity.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I don't know that. I never would have thought of
the scale. In fact, I didn't. I didn't even know
there was a scale that linked like that. Why do
they have a scale? It's not the eighties. Hey, that's
my biggest no. See, I don't scales are bad news,
but but.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Eah, no, I mean if we are separated, because I
think that you are cheating on me, I expect you
to be begging for me back, and if you're not
doing that, that's the bare minimum, then I'm going to
end this.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 6 (07:11):
I personally wouldn't probably take a cheater back. That's my
hot take before someone comes at me on my high horse.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
No, I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
That's like the one thing I have. It's called the boundary.
But I just like people act like that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
But the only thing I I don't think anybody acts
that it's crazy not to take a cheater back.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Oh, I got called one time.
Speaker 6 (07:26):
I got called the text line I'll get off my
high horse because I went off on a cheater.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
I think if you don't want to take a cheater back,
you don't have to take a cheater back.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
And that's okay.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
And again she says that she's not with him for infidelity,
but she also says he's never admitted to his past infidelity,
so it's one of those things where she suspected it
he won't admit it. Because she said both of those things. Now,
I think she's got proof. I think she knows what
she needs to know it. I think you move on.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I understand though it is hard in that position to
not have like hard proof. And I know that this
is quote unquote proof, but I think some some people really,
I mean, you're definitely owed the person to be honest
with you, and I think that's probably what she's looking for,
although I don't know if she's ever gonna get that.
It is easier said than done to leave someone when
you don't have like them telling you, yes, I cheated.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Now, I guess you.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Could argue, he could say, Devil's Advocate, Well, I was
never cheating on you to begin with.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
You kick me out of the.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
House, so so you know we're not together right now.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
So I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do. And sorry
you found out.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
I mean, but again, now I think that's gaslighting because
Oddsari's been doing it before and he never thought he
would get caught this way, because honest, this is a
new one for me too.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I'm not a cheater.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I mean, I'm very really in a relationship, and when
I am, I don't cheat. I'm very transparent about what
I'm looking for, what I want, and I have been
for a very long time. But when i'm when i'm
committed to someone all the more reason why when I
get into a relationship, I don't do any of this
kind of stuff you're not supposed to, So I don't
expect a pat on the back like that's just the
right thing to do. But the news flash, guys, you
can you can now get caught thanks.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
To the scape scales. Yeah, I don't. Hey, don't we
hoping on the scale?
Speaker 2 (09:04):
You know? But I will say when I'm in a
when I'm in a bathroom, if there's a scale, I
usually jump on the same.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I don't care what.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I'm a massacres I myself and then I'll cry about it.
Three five Hi Gabby, Gabby. Hey, So Kiki's court with
Judge Fred presiding in for Kiki.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
You you heard the scenario. What do you do here?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
I'm not gonna say what Kiki will say? Girl probably
talking about.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Here right right?
Speaker 7 (09:33):
I mean, okay, bo, give me move on. It's on
with it. She knows she's kitty, so girls come on.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
This strikes me as she's looking for validation because she
maybe maybe still loves him here.
Speaker 7 (09:49):
I mean he has a chiming history with her.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Well, I agree, but I mean she's she's going to
a public forum, because I think she probably still loves
him and doesn't want to believe it's true, and it's
hoping that someone out there is going to say to her,
oh no, there was a glitch in that in the
scale system and it was registered.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
You didn't hear about that, you believe me or the
scale bab. Yes, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
The shadd thing about it is that in these case,
in these cases, you know that you're good, feel it,
you know you know that is true, and you still
tell have spaces and how do we she.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Look to me, Yeah, thank you, Gaby, I'm glad you called.
Have a good day. I'll tell you what though, Like
I've been in a situation where I'm maybe not being
cheated on per se, but I'm being actively lied to
about the nature of a relationship with another another person
or multiple people, and I'm being actively gas lit and
(10:47):
lied to about it, and yet I stay. I stayed
involved in that situation because I guess what I needed
was I needed the hard proof, like I needed to know,
I needed to see it. I needed I needed to
catch that person ready and then and then in many
ways I was catching that person, But then I stayed
still because it was like no, maybe not, or maybe
(11:08):
it'll stop or whatever. It's like, but you want you
want to, Like it's almost like even though you know
you're right, and first your gut tells you, and then
maybe you see emails or text messages or other people
tell you things or worse, but it's almost like you
want to walk in on them, like p and the
V like it's like I gotta see. And then even
then I've heard of people who somehow that has happened
(11:32):
to me before though, like I've been walking and then
all of a sudden, I'm like, WHOA, sorry, I fell
into a married person. But it happens from time to time.
But I can relate to the idea of like there's
no one's gonna treat me this way, like no one, no,
come on, like no, no, no, I know, like I'm gonna
stick around because I'm going to get exactly what I
need so that I'm the one who leaves with the
(11:54):
closure that I need and all the information that I need.
And that can be a vicious cycle.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
And it seems counterproductive to me for her to be
like I think you're cheating on me. I'm going to
try to find out, so I'm going to leave you
for a while like that.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
I don't. She's just like protect she said, pretecting her peace.
So I don't know if leaving was to catch him.
I think leaving was like I don't know what to
do here, right, Yeah, but I can tell you that's
not going to and that's only going to open the
door for him to act up and then try and
act justified in it, because it's like, well, we're separated.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
I mean, we're not together. We were he was waiting
for this moment.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Also, somebody on YouTube live said, if there's a big
dog in the mix, because maybe they weighed the dog,
but if you're wearing a dog at twelve thirty in
the morning.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Or at night, right, the dog got on the scale
twice consecutively and stood there and then read its own way, I.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Wait, my dog in the middle of the night. IgA, Well,
please don't believe.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
This person getting a dog to stand on a scale
from her.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
You have to do it twice.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Just but that, by the way, the most relatable part
of this story is getting on the scale, looking and
then getting off and then getting back on thinking that
somehow the number will change.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Hey, Mikayla, hi, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
So this woman, and you know, she's upset because she
suspected her husband of cheating. They separated, the living in
two different places, and she has access to the scale,
sees that a one hundred and twenty pound way in
was registered twice the middle of the night. He's not
that she's not that she wasn't there. So he's so
there was a house guest.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
What I mean?
Speaker 2 (13:20):
I suppose it's possible that somebody was there and he
was Andrew. There's a lot of scenarios that you could
come up with, but more than likely that was a
woman on the scale in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
What do you do?
Speaker 8 (13:30):
So I had actually seen I did a deep dive
because I couldn't sleep that she somebody had commented that
she had already seen that or known that he had cheated,
and that's why they were separated.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Yeah, but he's right, and I had mentioned that. But
except she, he apparently has never admitted to it. So again,
for a person who doesn't have that confirmation, I think
when you're reaching out to a public forum or a
radio show or wherever trying to get you're trying to
get people to tell you that it's okay or you're
trying to get people to tell you it's not, but
like you yourself don't have enough somehow, is what I'm
(14:04):
guessing from her.
Speaker 8 (14:05):
No, yeah, but I think it's in her gut and
she does want people to try to tell her that's
not what's happening, but she knows.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yeah, and how can you go?
Speaker 7 (14:14):
No?
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I think you're right, And thank you for calling. Have
a great day. Thank you, Love you guys, I love
you too, and thank you for listening. Rona, Hi, good morning, thy,
good morning.
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Hey.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
What do you think when you hear this? I mean,
is it cut and dry? Is it just open and shut?
Speaker 4 (14:27):
I don't think it's cut and dry. So you have
to get all the facts in the information at first
before you start accusing someone of cheating. So maybe just
ask is there anybody coming to clean the house? Is
anybody coming to do the laundry, cook clean anything like that?
At first I thought house cleaner, but I wasn't sure
if this was like tell thirty at night, you're tell thirty.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Yeah, if it were twelve thirty in the afternoon, I
suppose there might be an explanation, But no, it was
at night.
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Oh okay, Well, so I think he needs to get
all the facts before because he's going to just deny, tony, deny,
So she needs to make sure to get all the
facts and ask all the questions.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Do you know what she did?
Speaker 2 (15:00):
She also relatable, She got on the scale because it
was about a minute apart. I guess she got on
the scale, didn't like the number, Peede got back on
the scale, hoping the number would go down. No, trust me,
been there, done this one. Tale's so old as time.
So this is absolutely a human being based on the
way to.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
See woman, unless he's into very small man a whole
different twist.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
I'm surprised nobody's called up here and said that he's,
you know, gay, just because I mean, that's usually where
this goes.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Okay, thank you, Ron, I have a good day.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Well, I mean people call up here with the most
wild possible scenarios. Oh no, he's totally gay. What's a
small man on the scale in the middle of the night. Oh,
I mean it could be.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
There, it could be you wait, a small man.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
But you thought he was cheating, you got separated, he
won't admit it. And then this, I think that's as
good of a confirmation as you're going to get.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
Girl, like you're already one, put out the door, just get.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
And the problem is she's gonna gas like this woman
and say, well, we're not together. So but if I'm
accused of if I'm getting kicked out of my house
for cheating, I'm and I want to get back with
my wife and I'm not cheating, then I'm not going
to have anybody over in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
That's the thing.
Speaker 5 (16:11):
It seems like he's done too, like okay
Speaker 2 (16:14):
It's like, let's be on my best behavior, you know
what I mean, Like now would not be the time.
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