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September 29, 2025 34 mins

Fred tells Paulina that the Amelia Earhart government records will be declassified. And Bad Bunny is performing at the Super Bowl halftime! 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fred's show is on Good Morning Everyone is Monday, September
twenty ninth. The Fred Show is here. Hi Kaitlin, Hello,
Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, Good Morning Show.
Vin Shelley is here. The showdown next hour, five pop
culture questions. Four hundred bucks is the price six game
win streak if you snap at that money, he is yours.

(00:22):
Bella means here on the phone in the text eight
five five five one one three five context the state number.
All morning, We're on the radio. We're on the iHeart app.
Search for the Fred Show. We're on YouTube. Search for
the Fred Show. We'll get you lots of stuff today.
Kiki's Court, Butt upup girl.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
Not in my guest room.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Waiting the phone is new. Not in my guest room either.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
That's right.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
That's why I got rid of my guest room. But
I don't even know what this is about. But I
think I know what it's about. No more Shenanigan's in
the guest room on the arrowbed nowhere. I was doing
a house like reorganization a couple of months ago, and
I have an arrowbed. You know those things that you
plug in the wall and you like push the button
the air thinks to be called aerobat. I know, maybe

(01:02):
there's a lot of them now so.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Lost and I was like, uh huh, no, I think
they used to.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Be called that. I think he used to be called aerobed.
Look it up. I don't know. Y'all got a computer
front of you. See yeah, back in the see in
the two thousands, I swear it, you said, look, we look,
please see there's a thing called aerobed. I just want
to make sure I'm not crazy. I believe it is.
I mean, this is mom should have been in the Smithsonian.
Is the point, because I've had it for a very

(01:28):
long time. And finally I said, you know what, how
do you put some gloves on and get rid of
this thing? Because I have the things that have probably
happen on the aerobed. Well, I don't know. I mean
I friends have used it, and I can remember a
time or two when people wound up. You know, I
went home from the bar with someone, my friend went

(01:48):
home with someone, and then you know, and then you
hear like, M in the other room is the aerobed.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
I try to do it on an aerobed.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Friends, my friends have successfully A couple just apparently I.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
Had to stop the middle one time. I was like,
this is not working.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
It didn't work.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
It's too hard.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Well, I know, is I Finally I said, this thing
needs to go. I need it needs to be destroyed
and donated to science, to medicine, because I don't know
the things that may have happened on that thing. Yeah.
So all right, well there you go. There's Kiki's cord
to thank you. I knew it was called back.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Oh, but I'm trying to look up, like when.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Four or something, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
Nineteen sixteen.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
I got this into two thousands love Fredon. Yes, my
great grandfather passed it down to me. It was it
was made of made of seal kidneys and stitched together.
I feel like all kinds of old stuff was made
out of animal parts that like we never used anymore.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah, just don't look into that.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
If we never used anymore, it's like wait, what, like, why.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Did you do that? It's not even necessary.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, I think in the in the nineteen you know,
eighteen hundreds, it was probably necessary. We'll just don't make it.
Waiting by the phone is new this morning, we'll get
to headliness. The biggest stories of the Day blogs and
the Entertainment Report this hour. What's in their case?

Speaker 4 (03:07):
We are talking these super Bowl of course, we are
talking a pop star's wedding and who says that their
twenty twenty four divorce was the best thing that ever
happened to them.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
I have exciting news for you this morning, Paulina, and
only you. Our President Donald Trump has ordered the declassification
and release of no. I know you guys though obviously
you talk look at this. He has ordered the declassification
and release of all government records related to Amelia Earhart.
He's always working on something as the pioneering aviator who

(03:38):
disappeared in nineteen thirty seven during an attempt to fly
around the world. No anything with the Epstein files.

Speaker 5 (03:45):
I've got to.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
Hold up for a few things. This is when he
comes back, when I'm in the file cabinet. What else
do you guys want? That's dusty bag here. I mean,
I am curious, like I'm not.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
You know what myongular opinion about the Epstein files and
not to get political, and really honestly, I don't think
it's I think protecting other people. I think both sides
are protecting other people. And because because I know that
everybody wanted to be this this I shouldn't say that.
I know half of the country wanted to be this
crazy stuff about Trump and there or whatever. But I
think that they've had this. Biden had this stuff too,

(04:15):
So I feel like if there was crazy stuff, we
already would have. I think both sides are covering up
very powerful people who are in this. Who are donors
and who are you know, diplomats from other countries. That's
what But everybody keeps saying Troy Man, I don't know.
Maybe maybe, but I think this is more about other
people than it is about him, because if it were

(04:35):
about him, I think we'd know by now.

Speaker 6 (04:37):
I do a joke at this point, do anything go anywhere?

Speaker 1 (04:42):
It looks like we're talking about a million Airhart files.

Speaker 6 (04:46):
Nobody asked for it.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
But that's what.

Speaker 7 (04:48):
I've been wondering on this radio, talking about a million
Airhart for years.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
Okay, so do we have the highlights, like what happened? Anything?

Speaker 1 (04:56):
I don't think haven't been released yet.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Paulina may have seen him bef for the rest of us,
I don't know, because she went over to the White
House and she was like, can I see the Epstein fliles,
and he was like, no, but I got one better
for you.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
She's friends with Laddie pe Vladimir Putin and then.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
President TRUMPA go off ray.

Speaker 6 (05:16):
I would not be a room with either of those people.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
I think Pauline is in the Epstein files is what
I think. That's what I that's why. Yeah, yeah, that's
what I think. That's what I think. I think. That's
what I think. You Laddy p and Uh and d Trump.
Daddy Laddie is what you call him, which is weird.
I think you all got together in a summit. You're like,
how do we distract from what's in these things? And
and you came up with the solution, Amelia Earhart. That's

(05:40):
what we do, guys, reaching Yeah, that's what we're doing.
I'm sorry you had to have been involved in this, Paulina,
because no one is, no one is on the pulse
of Amelia Earhart the way that you are.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
You know you would be onto something with this one.
I do love the story of Amelia Earhart.

Speaker 1 (05:54):
Okay, I know what part of it, The part where
she flew away and it was never seen again.

Speaker 6 (06:00):
That's her favorite.

Speaker 5 (06:01):
I love her up like I love her story and
to talk about it and not tell me more about
her story and the first pilot woman a pilot, right,
I'm not that's true. Well, she could disappear, this is true,
But I don't think she can disappear like that.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't think Amelia Earhart was the first woman to
ever fly in air. And I say she was if
there was a place on the internet right in front
of where you.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Can verify that she was the first to do something.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
But nothing drives me crazier on this show. Nothing drives
me crazier when everyone just sits back and goes, yeah,
she was. I don't know. Maybe maybe no, I don't know.
Thank you, but thank you Calein because you are thank you,
thank you for everyone just puts their hands in the
air and goes two plus two might be five. I don't.
I don't really, I mean I think six everything. Okay,
tell me. Was she the first woman to ever fly?

Speaker 2 (06:46):
I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
So.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
She was an American American aviation pioneer, as we know,
of course, but she was the first woman to fly
solo across the Atlanta That's what that was her. That's
her contribution. I know, that's what you meant sometimes I Paulina.
Other people don't wow women at Purdue University. Okay, wow,
she was an advocate for aviation legislation. This should be

(07:08):
your queen, kind of your fourth star.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
Well, I'm trying to get my own queen. Okay, I
think minds paul because because she yes, because I can't
take it. I can't take Paulina.

Speaker 8 (07:20):
Is.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
I gotta get my own I gotta get my own brand. Here.

Speaker 8 (07:23):
You know.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
You're gonna make fun of how I say things the.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Way that and Caylen love Taylor Swift.

Speaker 5 (07:32):
You and I could like, okay, you love Amelia Airheart
the same way like they got Taylor Swift.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
We got a Millia air Heart.

Speaker 6 (07:38):
You wouldn't Amelia about to get a drop to just like.

Speaker 8 (07:43):
I.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Here she's doing the Super Bowl time shift.

Speaker 6 (07:45):
Who do you think it's coming out with that bunny.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
She's gonna fly that money in land on the field.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
That would be like if that happens?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
What is happening right?

Speaker 8 (07:55):
All right?

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Just for fun? What do we think he'll release next
to distract us? Like what some things in that cabinet,
like more alien stuff?

Speaker 1 (08:02):
I don't know, but the release aims to shed new
light on the events surrounding her final flight and address
long standing theories about her fate. She and her navigator,
a guy named Fred. Maybe I'm Fred, Redcarnet. I'm not sure. Wow,
it could be. I could be. I'm a pilot, I'm
a Fred. They were in route from New Guinea to
Helen Island in the South Pacific. Despite an extensive search,

(08:25):
no trace of them was ever found, and Rossaarderie and
Earhart was declared legally dead in nineteen thirty nine. The
move follows previous declassifications of records related to other historical events,
which I don't think many of them really led to
much more. John F. Kennedy, Robert F. Kennedy, and Martin
Luther King Junior. But anyway, Yeah, so this is for you.

(08:49):
I just wanted you to know. The sooner we'll know
the truth, I guess. But I think we're not going
to know anything like the rest of them, where it's
just like, yeah, we didn't find her, and the end,
you know.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
There smoking gun or not. You know, I want to know.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
I want to be the first radio disc jock. I'm
not a dis jockey, because dis jockeys have talent. I
want to be the first radio personality to fly across
the Atlantic, don't I don't think it's been done slaying
radio personality.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
Isn't it kind of sad that no one ever talks
about Fred? You know, her homie, It's true.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
A lot of people don't talk about it. And like,
was there something going on between those two?

Speaker 2 (09:21):
He was there, you know, were they?

Speaker 1 (09:23):
Do you think? Do you think And I don't know
her relationship status, Amelia, but do you think it or
Fred's for that matter, But do you think part of
the reason they disappeared is because they wanted to be together?

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Maybe they never really disappeared Before Facebook?

Speaker 1 (09:35):
You could you could get away with something like that.
You know, now with TikTok and the Instagram, there's no
way they'd be spotted at a cold Play concerts pilot.
That's what I like to know. I'd like to know.
Maybe it's in the files.

Speaker 6 (09:50):
Get to the bottom of this. Listen. I don't know
nothing about the file.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Okay, okay, it's just so happened. You were there, You're
over there at the White House the other and now
all of a sudden, Amelia earhard files coming out the
biggest stories of the day. What is this here? Can
we please stop texting while crossing a major street, or
at least don't text and look at your phone when
you're crossing the street in the morning during rush hour,
look up for a second because you might get hit

(10:15):
by a car. Sorry, guys, had to vent. That's for Nicole.
So that is very true. And I was going to
it in the blog. I mean maybe I still will.
But we need to talk about the sidewalk again. I
feel like every couple of years I have to do this.
I have to stop everything down and do a PSA
about the sidewalk. Then remind me, I'll do it in
my blog. I'll do a ps the more you know,
moment about this. We have, guys, we have to have

(10:37):
a community meeting and talk about the sidewalk again.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
If it's what I think it is, it's needed.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
Unbelievable. It's unbelievable. We live in a society people. All right,
let me see here week four of the NFL, and
I have a what did you tell me? The recap was,
She's got nine.

Speaker 4 (10:53):
Right, Jason got nine correct so far of fourteen total.
But then there's two more to be played tonight.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
Right, We've got the Jets and the Dolphins and the
Bengals and the Broncos tonight, okay, and then were I
guess we're giving you Cowboys packers because you picked the
Cowboys and they tied.

Speaker 6 (11:09):
How does that work? I thought there was overtime.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
There are, but then at the end of like, I
think it's two overtimes or I'm not sure what this is.
I mean, you you, I obviously you know this in depth,
but I mean at some point they just say forget
it and they're done. I think it's two overtimes and
they just say they're done. Wow. Anyway, and then the
Bears one and the Panthers did not. And let me
see who else any other games of interest that we

(11:31):
really care about. The Lions won, the Chiefs won, the
Jaguars beat the four niners. That's good website bella this morning. Yeah,
I'm not good at all, really upsetting. All right, what
else do I have for you guys. I mean, I've
just spent it's been power packed information this morning, or
misinformation for that matter. So we did the recap. We

(11:51):
didn't do a parslay last week, so we don't have
to go over that. But not bad nine games right,
nine sixteen after tonight, right, it could be eleven. It
could me wow, it could be. The Major League Baseball
playoffs have been announced. I don't know. I have to
go through all of this wild Card, Tigers, Guardians, winner
of that takes on the Mariners, wild Card, Red Sox Yankees,

(12:12):
winner that takes on the Blue Jays, Red's Dodgers, whinner
that takes on the Phillies and Padres Cubs. Winner of
that takes on the Brewers of Milwaukee. Puerto Rican superstar
Bad Bunny is taking the stage in the biggest the
biggest stage really of all. I mean, I think it
is arguably, no, I think it is. I think it is.

(12:33):
I think it's the biggest possible.

Speaker 6 (12:34):
That's what they say.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Stage can buys what we ad. That's what That's what
they say. Amelia Rhart Milia Earhart used to say that
he recently wrapped up a residence in Puerto Rico, and
he's been announced as the Super Bowl halftime show performer.
I think the surprise some people Adele was that she
was the She was like the smoke and mirrors. She
was never gonna She's not gonna do it. No, it
was oh, Adele Adell just so people would stop talking
about Bad Bunny. I still thought it would be Taylor.

(12:57):
I don't know why it's not Taylor. I think Taylor's pregnant.

Speaker 4 (13:00):
I never thought it would be Taylor because I think
there's too many like things up in the air with
him still playing. And I think that she will want
to do it when it comes, either to Nashville or
like New York or something. I just didn't feel right,
But I did believe the Miley rumors.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
I think that she could have.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
I don't know. There's not gonna be in Nashville super
Bowl ever, you know, you hold it there. I don't.
I don't think so, Okay, maybe maybe I don't. I
don't know, maybe, but I could. I think he might
be done. I think this might be it for him.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Yeah, And I think once he's done, then should maybe
consider it.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
But I would think she would do it like on
his you know, Cyonara, like you know, do it now
and in his final season and what going really well,
it's not going well. But what if they make the
super Bowl? I don't know. Anyway, Bad Money, super Bowl
halftime show period, tropical storm, Immelda is going to turn
away from the US. The tropical storm is expected to
become a hurricane by late today or tomorrow after moving

(13:52):
across the Bahamas. The National Hurricane Center says the system
is expected to take a sharp left turn away from
the southeastern US, but rainfall totals of up to six
inches or likely in parts of the coastal Carolinas. Hurricane
Umberto is also churning in the Atlantic and will create
some high surf along the coast. Tropical storm watch is
already in effect for the east coast of Florida. For Immelda,

(14:13):
this is absolutely frightening, but a delivery A delivery app
driver in Texas was able to help save a hostage
held in a room after receiving an order from the
man holding this person in a hostage and the order
consisted of garbage bags, zip ties, bleach and the hatchet.

(14:34):
Oh wow, so the DoorDash driver which you were once
won Jason saw this. It was like hold on a second.
When the driver arrived at the hotel, he told the
manager about the order. The police were called. Officers arrived
and the hostage was able to escape the room. A
crisis negotiator was able to get the man to surrender peacefully.
He was arrested in charge with aggravated kidnapping.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
That's the killer starter pack, Like, why do you trying
to kill it?

Speaker 1 (14:56):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
You need one to each of those.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
That's what I mean. Garbage. I've watched a lot of Dayline,
probably all of them. Garbage bag, zip ties, bleach, and
a hatchet.

Speaker 2 (15:06):
Not great, not a great look.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
No no, so anyway, probably save this person's life. Who
knows where it was gonna happen with them. The happiest
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(15:32):
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(15:52):
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can be expensive. Also in Scary News Today, the CEO
of Open Ai predicts that artificial intelligence will surpass human
intelligence by twenty thirty, with significant advancements expected by twenty

(16:13):
twenty six. So we got we got five years, guys,
Matt four and change. He notes that while current models
like GPT five excel in specific tasks, they still lag
behind humans in areas requiring intuition and creativity. He anticipates
that AI will eventually automate thirty to forty percent of
human jobs, and emphasizes the importance of aligning AI development

(16:35):
with human values to prevent unintended consequences. He foresees there's
a lot of words the emergence of AI hardware resembling
a family of devices that could transform personal computing. Basically,
we got, we got five years, We got five years
into four years in some change. And also this is
for YouTube, Pauleen, I'm basically just you know, tailoring this
to you this morning. I appreciate that Amelia Earhart bad

(16:57):
money right now there's a new study found that people
are more likely to cheat or act dishonestly when they
let AI handle tasks instead of doing them themselves.

Speaker 6 (17:07):
Hmmm, so what are we saying here?

Speaker 1 (17:09):
I'll tell you what we're saying is what I said.

Speaker 7 (17:11):
Well, are we talking about like cheating like in like
task daily like I don't know I'm writing an email?

Speaker 6 (17:16):
Or cheating on your spouse?

Speaker 8 (17:17):
Like?

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Which are we talking?

Speaker 1 (17:18):
Well? I mean in life. Experiments showed that the type
of AI matters, the more control and flexibility people had
over the AI, the more they were likely to cheat.
AI tends to follow instructions without moral judgment, making it
easier for people to do things they wouldn't do themselves
or ask a human to do. In short, using AI
can make people feel morally distant and more willing to

(17:38):
bend the rules. And I know you use AI for
everything from writing captions to therapy.

Speaker 2 (17:43):
That is correct all the above.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
And again you know how I feel about therapy AI
or otherwise. It's going to give you, especially AI though,
it's going to give you feedback based on what you
tell it. And I think most people tell their version
of the story unless there's someone trained to get the
other side out of them, which a human therapist would do.

Speaker 7 (18:01):
Yeah, I was gonna say it seems like people do
that anyway. But I think on the other side, AI
is not gonna.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
Change if I sit on a couch with a therapist
for a long time and everything's everyone else's fault. And
I think the therapists could be like, now, hold on
a second, the challenge you. But if you just type
into AI hobby do this again, then AI is going
to be like hobbies and moron Hobby is a mean
person hobbies And I don't know if that's true, But
you're only telling AI what you think happened in your

(18:26):
AI therapeutic journey.

Speaker 7 (18:28):
Sometimes my therapist is not available at the moment that
I needs events or get advice, so that's.

Speaker 2 (18:32):
Where I go.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
I think it's the same way about getting professional or
romantic advice from friends and family. I don't think that's
a good source. I mean, they can listen to you, right,
they're obviously a trusted source. But I feel like if
you're asking friends and family for professional advice, they're just
going to tell you, oh, stick it to them, stick
it to them. Yeah, that's their fault. Yeah, you know,
what day should give you everything you're asking for. But

(18:55):
most of those people have zero idea what they're talking about.
Like if somebody were to call me about, you know,
any other kind of business and be like you think
I should get a raise, I'll be like, yeah, absolutely,
I got a question. Is that you're Steve? I love you,
like Steve, I can't believe. Then I just opened in
the bank, backing up the brinks truck. What are you
talking about? Tell them to stick it to him. But

(19:16):
then like you're giving advice, you know, you're encouraging your friends,
or like somebody calls esus so and so upset me
dump them, you know, Oh my god, what a jerk,
you know, but like you're only telling them the information
that's pertinent to the answer that you're probably trying to
get out of them. And then people come in all armed,
you know, like I'm gonna get him. And then but Danny,
all know what you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
I'm gonna get him.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Right National Coffee Day. Caitlin's entertainment report is on the
Freas Show.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
Like Freddie just mentioned, Bed Bunny has.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
Been announced as the headliner for the twenty twenty six
Super Bowl sixty halftime show from Levi Stadium in Santa Clara, California.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
I'm so happy for him.

Speaker 4 (19:55):
The announcement was made at halftime of the Cowboys Packers
game yesterday. This actually marks Bad Bunny's second Super Bowl appearance,
following his twenty twenty cameo alongside Shakira and Jennifer Lopez.
The halftime show, of course, is produced by Rock Nation,
the entertainment company founded by Jay Z, which has partnered
with the NFL since twenty nineteen to oversee live music

(20:16):
events and social justice initiatives.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
We needed that partnership.

Speaker 4 (20:21):
Jay said, what Benito has done and continues to do
for Puerto Rico is truly inspiring. So he's always given
him his flowers for that. And it's going to be really,
really cool to see. And as for my theory that
Taylor Swift may be waiting for a Nashville super Bowl,
the Super Bowl could happen in Nashville as early as
twenty twenty nine or twenty thirty.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
I looked it up.

Speaker 4 (20:40):
Following the scheduled completion of the new Nissan Stadium in
twenty twenty seven. Governor Bill Lee says he's already submitted
a letter of interest to the NFL for the twenty
twenty nine game, as the city aims to become a
frequent host for major events. They have already this music
population in city and a ton of things there, and
then there are hotel infrastructures.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
So it seems like he's trying to do it in
twenty twenty nine, and.

Speaker 3 (21:03):
That'll be the last year before AI takes over.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
Right.

Speaker 9 (21:06):
Oh yeah, so we're glad to Taylor doing a Super
Bowl yeahmnifid it, I.

Speaker 2 (21:10):
Would go out happy. Yeah, that would be nice and
the cameos would be fun. So many people there.

Speaker 4 (21:16):
Speaking of Taylor, of course, she was spotted being hidden,
this time by multiple umbrellas landing in town for Selena
Gomez and Bennie Blanco's wedding.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
I just was like trying to zoom in and get
a peak of her.

Speaker 4 (21:27):
The pair were married on Saturday and a very intimate
ceremony at the Seacrest Nursery in Santa Barbara, California. The
wedding was of course, pass packed by a ton of
people that we know her only murders in the building
co stars Steve Martin Martin short, like I said, Taylor
was there. She wore a custom Ralph Lauren white gown.
She looked beautiful with a floral halter neck, and Benny

(21:50):
also wore wealth a suit and they started dating in
twenty twenty three, nearly a decade after having first cross Paths,
when Bennie produced a number of tracks tracks for her
twenty fifteen album Revival.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
He also used to.

Speaker 4 (22:03):
Be very good friends with Justin Bieber, who she dated,
which is kind of wild. And lastly, Jennifer Lopez was
on CBS Sunday Morning saying her divorce was the best
thing that ever happened to her.

Speaker 6 (22:14):
When you were doing this, it was such a hard
time in your personal life. How did you manage to deal.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
With that barely? It was tough.

Speaker 8 (22:23):
It was a tough time. Yeah, it was a really
tough time.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
And Ben Affleck is also one of the producers.

Speaker 8 (22:29):
He is right, the movie wouldn't have been made if
it wasn't for him and Artist Equity. It was like
the best in the worst of times in a way,
because it was every moment on set and every moment
I was doing this role, I was so happy. And
then it was like back home, it was not great,
and it was just like, oh, you know, how do

(22:49):
I reconcile this?

Speaker 2 (22:52):
But you get through it, and you.

Speaker 8 (22:54):
Know, honestly, I have to say it was the best
thing that ever happened to me because it changed me.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
It didn't change me, helped.

Speaker 8 (23:05):
Me grow in a way that I needed to grow,
become more self aware. I'm a different person now than
I was last year.

Speaker 1 (23:14):
I think, Yeah, she was a year and a half
orange drink bag of chips girl before, but now you know,
she's different now.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
I hope.

Speaker 4 (23:22):
My hope is for as a j Lo fan, that
she can get to learn herself a little bit, maybe
be alone for a slight period of time.

Speaker 2 (23:30):
My girl loves love.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Did she marry him twice? Were they married?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
They were engaged, broke it off, and then got married.

Speaker 4 (23:37):
Okay, so it was they were just really you know
that thing where you wonder if it would have worked
with somebody back.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
I know that you know that thing?

Speaker 1 (23:42):
So they really never does it? Never does.

Speaker 4 (23:44):
They found out in a very expensive way, like they
really committed and did it just so they were sure
and now us all the time.

Speaker 1 (23:51):
I used to this all the time in my thirties.
Oh yeah, like I date someone, you know, casually and
then a year or two later, I'd look him up
again if they were single, we tried again, or I'd
go or like I dated someone in my twenties more seriously,
and then in my thirties, I've oh, it had to
have been me. It had to been I was the problem,
like I was focused on other stuff and then we
and then the exact same issues would and then it
would end up the same.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
What'd you always learn?

Speaker 1 (24:13):
So I don't think, and I'm sure there are example,
someone will text and go no, but I dated someone
then twenty years later we you know, reunited, and then
now we're happily maybe being together maybe, But I don't
know that. I think that revisiting old flames is you know,
going back through the storage unit is the way to
find at the level of your life because I feel
like sometimes it's just it's just he is or it isn't.

(24:35):
You don't think, So I don't know.

Speaker 9 (24:36):
Netllye and Shatti seemed to be making it work. They
smile all day.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
So why why Because all the stuff he was texting
her in a spreadsheet, okay, she didn't get any of it.
So all the nasty stuff he said during flights and
stuff she never saw her out of it because he
was texting her in a spreadsheet.

Speaker 4 (24:52):
If you know, you know, okay, you can take the
French show on demand if you want to catch upon
anything you missed from the show on the free I
here radio app.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Someone texted who hurd Fred the amount of times he
talks about people only hearing one side of the story
and judging no, is it pertains to AI? Yeah, and
we did a whole story about it. We did a
whole story about AI is only going to spin out
what you give it because it doesn't know it doesn't
know you.

Speaker 6 (25:17):
The more you feed it, the stronger it gets.

Speaker 7 (25:19):
I'm going to say, with the information that you give it,
I said what I said.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
No, maybe it's been a lately because I've seen it
a lot lately where people are like, I think it's true.
I think it's true. I think I think people need
to get advice from impartial, slash educated people like I.
I think if you really want someone to tell you
the truth, sure, everyone's got the friend who will tell

(25:45):
you the truth. But I think most most of our
friends want what's best for us and will probably give
it to us in the perspective that most benefits us
based on the information that they're given or the perspective
that they have, which may not be the whole story.
So I think it can be dangerous. It can be
Do you go to your who do you go to
for relationship advice with Big Tim?

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Y'all the thirteen in social media?

Speaker 1 (26:10):
Well, but your sister is your sister someone like if
you go if you have a fight with Big Tim
and you went to her, is she somebody who couldn't say, now,
hold on a minute, like now, Kiki, now makeitha right,
like now mckitha.

Speaker 9 (26:22):
I love my sister, but I think when it comes
to me, there is no impartial He is wrong.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
Same with my brothers. Okay, Tim will always be wrong.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
See and I think I think that's probably true with
a lot of people. So so, but you know that
at least.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
I know that I know that now my friend Portia,
she'll tell me the truth. She keeps it real.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
Yeah, we all need that person that will will like
actually tell us the true. And what's funny is sometimes
that person like it's a hard call to make because
it's like you know, I know, because it's always that
part of you in an argument that knows that like I, well,
I did do this one thing.

Speaker 3 (26:53):
Oh yeah, you know, when you take it too far,
you gotta start crying.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
Right, yeah, you guys. And it's so true, and it
is not fair.

Speaker 2 (27:01):
No, do not make us look like we do. I
do not say cry.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
Oh my god, it is wrong. Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
I didn't get to it across road and I'm wrong.
What do I do next.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
It's so true, and I'm not saying all women do it,
but I know people that do. And like I grew
up with a mom, and I grew up with a sister,
and and for whatever reason, you start crying and I
just can't anymore. Like I could be one hundred percent
in the right, I could be fighting for my life
from the perspective of one hundred percent correct, and you
start crying, and I'm just like, oh my god, forget

(27:32):
about it. It's so unfair.

Speaker 9 (27:33):
No, you start crying back, that's all.

Speaker 1 (27:42):
Do you ever do this?

Speaker 7 (27:44):
Yes, of course, I mean, come, I'm gonna lie to you, guys.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
So you and Hobby are arguing about something and then
and like he's probably in the right or or you're
behind in the argument, and so you just start crying.
I cry every day and then what does he do?
Did you on ppist though, Yeah, so you play it?
Yeah that's fair.

Speaker 2 (28:03):
Yeah, I got to pull it out of like is
my weapon box?

Speaker 9 (28:06):
Ye?

Speaker 1 (28:06):
Your weapon my toolbox?

Speaker 4 (28:07):
Like I cried, but I'm crying on like it's nonstration,
like it's not fake, it's happening and I can't control it.

Speaker 1 (28:14):
And what does he do when you start doing that?
Does he back down?

Speaker 2 (28:18):
No?

Speaker 7 (28:18):
The f It's worse because because I have crocodile tears,
He's like, I'm not falling for it.

Speaker 6 (28:25):
Yeah, it gets worse.

Speaker 1 (28:28):
Story about the the boy that cried Wolf. You ever
heard that story?

Speaker 8 (28:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (28:32):
Yeah, maybe a little boy.

Speaker 1 (28:35):
That's pretty funny. You've done it so many times. He's like,
ain't working, ain't work?

Speaker 7 (28:40):
No, my mad knows we both cried.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, they talk better than they tell me. These are
the radio blogs on the French like writing in our diaries,
except we said him aloud. We call him blogs kinky. Yeah, man,
it's like wedding, wedding, wedding, your web, someone else's wedding, wedding, wedding, wedding.

Speaker 9 (29:01):
I know Selena had a wedding that was nice, witting
Oh the caviat Yeah, it was fabulous. It was Taylor
was there. I told her, y'all say hey, thank you.
I told y'all say hey, she said, get ready for Friday.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
I'm ready. So they've been, they've been ready. They're already
in line at Target.

Speaker 6 (29:17):
We stayed right.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
Yeah, Taylor almost called you. Taylor.

Speaker 9 (29:21):
Cayln was bumping a Taylor playlist this morning. Oh yeah,
radio real out here.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Yeah, Jason's live right now from the Target parking And
then he's also paid some teenagers at several others.

Speaker 6 (29:33):
Oh yeah, yeah, but for Taylor.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
Exactly.

Speaker 3 (29:39):
Oh well, dear blog.

Speaker 9 (29:40):
So yes, I went to another wedding or I went
to a wedding this weekend on Friday, and I had
such an amazing time. So shout out to Terrence and Tyler.
They had a beautiful wedding like it was so it
was great. It was on the rooftop and the city,
it was just everything.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
That was just a wedding where Big Tim was in
full Like that was the most Big Tim I've ever seen.
I know, like I saw his f I could get
his fingerprints out of that video like he crazy liked
like big time sighting he went.

Speaker 9 (30:09):
I went Instagram official this weekend. Yes, which is wild.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Seven years.

Speaker 9 (30:13):
Yeah, and he was sitting next to me as I
made the post, and he saw an emoji over his
face and he thought it was the funniest thing. And
I was like, you have been an emoji for like
six years. You don't know that, But so that was wild.
He did make my Instagram this weekend. That's how much
fun I was having at this wedding, like having a time.
But I did notice for the bride and groom, they
had an actual registry, which I thought was a very

(30:34):
rare thing in today's time. You don't really see that anymore,
where they actually wanted like a vacuum or like a
you know, set of towels and sheets. So I spent
yesterday shopping through their registry to find out what I
would buy, and I was like, this is kind of
rare because most couples now just want money, Like they.

Speaker 6 (30:53):
Don't want a vacuum.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
How old are they in their late thirties?

Speaker 4 (30:57):
Oh, Usually the registry is for the shower, like everybody
buys off of that for the shower and then or
if you can't go to the wedding or something, and
then typically cash is for the wedding.

Speaker 6 (31:06):
Is how I do it.

Speaker 9 (31:07):
Oh did I do it wrong? No?

Speaker 1 (31:10):
No, And my mom would tell you never cash ever,
like it's it's generational. My mom would say, always buy
from the registry, never give cash ever, it's rude. That's
what my mom thinks. Okay, and that's how I was
raised growing up. But I think now the trend has
become money only.

Speaker 9 (31:24):
Sure, yeah, that's not so, you know, Okay, I little
cash ready to pan out.

Speaker 3 (31:28):
But I didn't see a cash box.

Speaker 9 (31:30):
But I went on there on their website and it
had a full registry with stuff that they selected, and
I was like, I like.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
This, a gift is a gift you'll love.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
Yeah, I think it makes sense, especially if the people
are young, because you probably need the blender and the
toaster and the vacuum and whatever else. But I mean,
if you're getting married at forty, I would assume you
already have that stuff. So I can see then why
you might want the money or nothing, right, depending, Well,
I don't know who don't want nothing? Well, if you're

(31:58):
I don't know if I got Honestly, if I got
married at this age, I don't know that I would
expect anyone to give me anything because it's like, you
don't my friends. I don't need my friends to give
me money, and I don't need a blender. So and
I'm you know what I mean. And I'm the one
paying for the wedding because I'm a grown up, so
I don't know. I guess it's just for me. I
would at this stage of my life, I would feel weird.

Speaker 4 (32:18):
Well, I'm assuming Helena is going to want to throw
you a shower, oh girl, Okay, So you will have
a registry, yes, okay, yeah, and then people will also
give you cash if that's their thing, and both will
be great.

Speaker 1 (32:29):
What's the random thing? Big Tim will try and get
on the registry because I feel like my buddy's always
like when they used to do this for the first
or second time. I guess it was only the only
time I've seen registries was for first weddings.

Speaker 4 (32:40):
I just got my friend in Nintendo for her registry.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
I walked around with that gun and then there was
all If you look at a registry, I feel like
there's always like one or two items that you're like,
homeboy snuck that in, like he walked by the PlayStation,
you know, and whatever, you know what I mean, Like
just to see if you get away with it nice.

Speaker 2 (32:57):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (32:58):
He would probably ask for like some type of electric
charger situation, like he always has. He's always ready for
like chargers. We know he always got a pocket.

Speaker 4 (33:10):
Yeah, okay, he's always got a pocket full of electricity. Yes,
he's gonna be like every guy at the shower that
comes later.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
And then when you see the bride.

Speaker 4 (33:21):
If you if you're going to open gifts in front
of people, open something that you put on the registry
to look at the guy who's like.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
I really like that one.

Speaker 4 (33:29):
Usually the guys aren't allowed to pick a lot, so
they get very excited if you get a gift from
their picks.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
It's cute, That's what I mean. Like you look at
the list, like the target registry and it's like, I
don't know, towels, pillows, candle, I don't know. You know,
I'm making the plates and making the stuff up, and
then I'm a key to drill. You know, it's like
what you know, a table saw And you're like, he's
like that one in or you know, like some video

(33:54):
game or something random makers for the TV. Yeah, it's
so nos And you're like, okay, I know how this happened. Yeah,
waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? It's
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