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Speaker 1 (00:11):
It's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years. This
is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in ten
years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,
let's just mess with everything and see if they can
manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's show is on.
I mean, that's about it. Yeah, I still feel that
way all these months later. Morning Everyone, Friday, September twelve,
(00:32):
The French shows Here Hi kalb, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi,
Keki Money Joby Shelley. We're up to one fifty in
this showdown and double check. Yeah that's right, one fifty
one game win streak in the showdown. So history was
not made yesterday. She never lost two in a row. Well,
playing a little bit got the Friday Throwback Dance Party,
all your favorite throwbacks mixed together to kick off the weekend.
(00:54):
New waiting by the phone this morning? Why did somebody
get ghosted at Miss Hour? It's the Entertainment Report, headlines blogs,
What are you working on?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
A couple things?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
So one of the biggest pop stars that Kiki actually
loves is officially single, So bad timing on that one.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Oh Boy.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Also a show that a lot of us loved.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
I think probably during COVID is back after six years.
I don't even know if I remember what happened in
the last season, but I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Yeah, O, Marion's sound bad. He called me last night
and he was upset. He called you, well, he wanted
to FaceTime, and he really wanted to, like, you know,
look the eye to eye and see if I could
do anything about this. I said, I'm first, I don't FaceTime,
you know, and then I I was busy, so I
would have detect him with him. But I'm like, he's like, bro,
you had you had all kinds of times.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
He really did, and I really do feel like he
is trying to interfere with what's going on in my life.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Right. This is what happens. As soon as you're truly happy,
that's when somebody from the past that you once would
have wanted to be responsive to you re emerges. Yes,
it's inevitable. It's like they can sense it. It's like
something you radiate something into the universe. As soon as
you become happy with something else, they all come out
of the woodwork.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I'm trying to be honest, woman, you know, like I'm
trying to live, right, Yeah, do.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
The right thing. Yeah right, I know you.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Now, this man just keeps like messaging me and like
reposting me and actually responding to my messages. I've been
messaging him for years. Yeah, yeah, it's wild, like you.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Know, so the right thing to do is to give
him a shot, right, just make sure it just just something,
just a little right around the block, just to make sure,
because you know you don't want any regrets, you say,
a big Tim, Look, I don't want any regrets, okay,
but if I could just close his door firmly, then
just fully close it, I shot right exactly. Just I mean, hey, hey,
(02:38):
it's gonna be good for you when I know for
sure that you're better than him. But I got I
can't say that I'm so toxic.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Yeah, I want to go find Tim and give him
a hug.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
No wonder you haven't introduced me to this guy. You
probably telling him I'm may I. Yeah, like, oh no, frien,
it's not real that all that stupid stuff he said.
And when I'm at work, I'm a I too. It's
not even me sound skits and lies right right, just
a stick, just chick. We talked about the port do
we have a I have you chease that already?
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yes you did. I can tease it again.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I don't. You don't need to. I just was going
on my skits and lies, and I just wanted to
make sure. Oh you're fine.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I'm just sad about that show that's coming back out.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Oh that's right, That's what it was. I was just
I was obsessed with the Omarion thing and the fact
that he called me last Nay, he's upset, and so
I'm just bothering me a little bit. I'm distracted, okay,
And Jason's NFL picks are coming up?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Is Hartley Davidson?
Speaker 6 (03:25):
Sure?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
I know, I know. You're great man today in motorcycles,
you're really sort of living the character. You're really immersing
yourself in the character. Who do you have in the
in the Washington? Uh? The Washington and Green Bay game?
I'm just kids O. God, I'm just wondering, you know
what's coming up. But I just I'm about to actually
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place a bet on it. I got to go with Washington. Yeah,
well I wouldn't bet on that since the Packers one.
But what were you last week's six wins nine losses?
Something that your Parsley didn't hit so even worse. Yeah, yeah, Kiki,
you had a dream? I did you had a dream
(04:08):
like Martin Luther King? Yeah? Well I think it was
a different dream, but yeah, what similar? But yeah, did
Martin Luther King had this dream too? Because I'd like
to hear about it. What was it? So?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I had a dream last night about Michael Jackson and
it was so crazy. We were somewhere and I'm like, yeah,
he was like at a house and it was a
party going on at the house.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Was Bubbles there, No, Bubbles was not there.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
But I had an opportunity to interview him, like somebody,
I think it was Echo, which is our marketing director.
She came up to me and she was like, Hey,
You're going to interview Michael Jackson, and wow.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
That would be a big one, especially right now here,
that would be yeah, that'd be quite yes, Okay yeah.
So I was just like I was like, okay, cool,
and then I didn't.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
I wasn't nervous or anything, and I went in there
and I bombed in the interview was a terrible interview.
I was not prepared and so so after the interview,
you know, I left out and I could and if
he hit me like you were not prepared for Michael Jackson.
So the rest of the dream was me trying to
get back to Michael Jackson and I could not get
back in the room with Michael Jackson.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
And I can imagine that'd be hard to do twice.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
It was crazy, yes, because you screwed the interview up.
So if you hadn't screwed the interview up, then he
probably would let you back in. Probably. I woke up
so mad. I was pissed. I'm disappointed in you because
we weren't trying to get that Michael Jackson interview for
years and then you finally got it and got it
for you, and then look what happened.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
Echo set me up for greatness, and I dropped the
ball Michael Jackson.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
So what do you think it means? I have no idea.
Do you have some sort of insecurity in your life
right now? Well? Which one for a wedding? My thing
is up right now. I'm trying to think, like you know,
psychoanalyz a little bit and see why that why you
would have that dream. I keep having this dream about
a woman I dated who I don't like. I don't
(05:55):
think she's a good person. I kind of I mean,
I kind of wish it would work. It would have
worked out because on paper it made sense. But I
don't think the person is a very quality human being
and was not very nice to me. And but I
keep having dreams that I run into this person with
another guy and that that's bothersome to me, because I
guess in some ways it would be bothersome to me,
(06:17):
Like I'm not gonna I'm not gonna say that it
makes me. It doesn't make me happy. It perhaps validates
me that this person continues to date and not find anybody,
because it's like, you didn't think I was good enough,
but yet it would appear you can't find happiness with anybody,
and that the fact that the person can't find happy
is anyone doesn't make me happy. It's just it's sort
(06:38):
of like if the next person you dated was everything
you ever wanted, and then maybe she was right right,
maybe I wasn't up to par. But the fact that
I keep getting on the dating apps and seeing this person,
that's like, yep, we're in this together. I guess I
wasn't so bad after all, was I? But anyway, it's
still it would still I think bother me, and I'm
not bother me, but I think I would be maybe
(06:59):
like the in that before were like someone you liked
and just didn't work out. Then they do find someone
you're like, well that's definitely over, you know, or like
full closure on that. Yeah, I think so. But I
don't know why I keep thinking about this because I
don't think it would ever work because I don't think
this person's very nice. You miss her, but I don't
know because I don't I can objectively tell you I
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don't think this person's very nice. What does this mean? Love?
You call me toxic? You're toxic? You're dreaming about your ex? Okay,
that means you love her? No, it does? Now? We
does it? Because people appear in dreams that I don't love.
I don't like. I can, I can look, I can
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objectively tell you I don't love this person. I don't
particularly like this person. I'm a little disgusted by this person,
but I but I still am like, man, it's too
bad because she's pretty and we have similar interest and
and I don't know, I think we have like this
is a similar vibe. But no, but no, I mean,
I'm I'm fully comfortable with that, but I'm like, then
stop showing up in my dreams with like these losers.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, that's rude of her, you know. I think, like,
I don't know, Michael Jackson's.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
There for some reason.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
He's literally everywhere.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
She's interview she's with his interviewing him, and he gets
an award for it.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
I don't know, Like, I don't know if you're the
same way, but I want everyone to like me despite
if they're like good for me, and or if I
like them back, like I just I think it's like
a thing where someone's like not choosing you maybe, or
maybe she shows you a part of yourself that you
don't like that you need to heal, and it keeps
like re emerging until you do.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Maybe those are two other options other than you're in
love with her and you miss.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Her, which it doesn't make any sense you over here,
you're just saying you can love and not like them,
but I don't. Oh, but I don't love very many people,
so I know that's not true. I'm not in I'm
definitely not in love, Okay. In fact, I wonder if
it would if that would even be possible, which is
(08:56):
why with that person which is why I know it's
not the thing, right, But if you get no one
is there is no fish. I almost I almost said something.
I almost I almost put an I g onto the
action and then that was gonna be something's awake.
Speaker 7 (09:21):
Now hello, Yeah, I mean I don't know have any
of you though, like, just is there anywhere?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Is there anyone from your past that's like I know
that that's not the person, but that's a shame you
know kind of thing or like I don't know, for
whatever reason, they just sort of linger in your thoughts
even though you're not you know, they're not the person. Yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (09:44):
It's been so long, you the same person since you
were fifteen, so ily remember anyone else I ever dated?
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I get that.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
And there's also people that I thought I was maybe
going to bethe forever or have a family with, and
so then when that doesn't happen, even though you even
if you made the call, it's still like, okay, that's
like really over.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
You know, if they get married or if they have kids.
I think that's normal.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
Okay, Well, anyway, any other common dreams that you have
though repetitive dreams.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I've gone through phases I've had the teeth falling out one.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Okay, I forget what that one means. I have them
all pulled up here like that.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
I've had the one like I used to have the
pregnancy ones a lot, but then I looked it up
and it said like something is like growing. It could
be like career wise, like it doesn't necessarily have to
mean like you're pregnant, because I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Your teeth falling out, you say, say the smile is
the window of the heart to the heart in your dreams,
Yours just took a detour. You look in the mirror
and your pearly whites are falling out. Everything in the
mouth is related to expression and communication. According to one expert,
this dream is often had by people who don't have
a filter. You're allowing things out of your mouth that
(10:49):
really need to remain in there permanently. Oh you loose.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Lips lady, Right, Yeah, I do overshare, that's correct.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
Uh huh.
Speaker 7 (10:56):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (10:56):
You see this text When you dream about somebody, that
means they're going to sleep thinking about you.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Stop that. That's one of those stupid things you see
on your TikTok. That's one of those dumb things you
see on TikTok where it's like, if you're seeing this message,
it means that someone's been, you know, from your past,
has been wanting to apologize to you. This has been
for you, right, Well, they want to apologize and maybe
shot blocks them and they can.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
But I'm not a move no, friends, the biggest stories
of the day.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
You gotta text you man. He wrote that for your wedding,
What a lovely song. He wrote that for your first dance. Okay, nice,
I'm here for that. Yeah, of ed, look at this
got more on an. We started the show in such
a lovely mood, didn't we though? So much of love
in the air. Shut up, shut.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Up your dreams here with your nonsense.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
I was thinking about me. It's just like you. And
when Caylee was single, and it was that one, that one,
that one, that one, that one, it was just anyone
with a with a man part swinging around that one. Anyone.
There was no just discernment.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
It was a little offensive, right.
Speaker 5 (12:03):
I apologize to her about that. At least once a
week it was wild out here.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Night loves. I never loved that. I never loved all right,
I appreciate, so stop saying it all right, Okay, Hello,
I gotta do one serious story and then it's a
slow news day. But really it is Jason's picks that
we're getting to. But the FBI is conducting a manhunt
for Charlie Kirk's killer him and has recovered what they
(12:30):
believe to be the weapon used in the shooting. Authorities
have released images of a person of interest and are
offering one hundred thousand dollars for information leading to the
arrest of whoever is responsible. Officials believe the suspect is
college age. All right, that's the one. That's the one,
series one I got Jason Riley's and gentlemen, look at
the NFL we two schedule, ready to hear him? You
(12:52):
had the you had the commanders last night.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Yeah, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
They lost hack fire. They Packer's good. Now, well, I
think they've been pretty good for a minute, unfortunately, but yeah, decent.
But yeah, all right, here we go. Yes, Hey, Jackson
Brown or NFL VP of Sports Reporting Boo with his
picks for Week two in the NFL. Okay Seahawks, Steelers, Steelers, Jaguars,
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the Jaguars and the Bengals.
Speaker 8 (13:25):
Jags and the Bengals. We're gonna go with the Jags, the.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Rams and the Titans, Ram the four nine ers in
the Saints sing, the Bears and the Lions. Oh, this
one's going to be tough for you got you got
the agents of the person sitting right there next year
within the whole city city. What like, why do they
play each other? That's like, why why do they That
(13:51):
should be in the byelaws. It should be let's call
Roger Goodell.
Speaker 8 (13:54):
Yes, Roger, I gotta go with the Bears. All we
love any more than you love a human Panthers, Cardinals, Panthers,
a Falcon vicing.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Okay, this this may be a really bad WEEKND. Okay, Patriots, Dolphins, Dolphins, Bill, Jets, Bills,
the Browns of Bossed, the Ravens, Ravens ninety Cowboys. I
already know Cowboy Nation, a little up chuck, puffy Jackets
(14:35):
with a big star on it. I wish you had
Broncos Colts. They hate crime committed against you, and it's
I don't want that, and not for the reasons. You
may have one star Colts and Eagles, Chiefs, Chiefs, and
then on Monday it's Buccaneers, Texans.
Speaker 8 (14:55):
Texans and Chargers Raiders. There's two on Monday.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Wow, h Raiders.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Okay, okay, I got him, all right, and then we
need the parlay.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Watch the par I can't wait for that, Like I
just informed him. Yeah no, I've been researching.
Speaker 8 (15:10):
Uh no, Uh, Cayl Santos is gonna kick twice into
the polls.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
He's like, he's gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
He's not just going to kick it. He's just gonna go.
He's going to go in the poll. Okay, So he's
gonna make two. Field goals are extra pointed? Now field
goals are extra pointed or does it all whatever? Any
kind of kick, it's.
Speaker 8 (15:27):
Going to kick it, got it times the difference, and
uh Travis Kelsey is going to score.
Speaker 1 (15:35):
Maybe the parceley could include other people at some point,
but okay, what's my favorite? What's the third one?
Speaker 8 (15:41):
Jack Prescott is not going to spit on anybody?
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Okay, well he's he didn't spit on anybody I know.
Speaker 8 (15:50):
Okay, you may think he's seeking retribution another team.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Okay, I see take it out, all right, Okay.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Jason, Well how about that? Yeah, I'm gonna go put
that into draft Kings dot Com right now. Jeff Queen Okay, yes,
we'll move on now. Albania has appointed an Ai Bought
as a minister in the government to handle public procurement,
so we have AI politicians now. Albania has become the
(16:20):
first country to appoint in the Ai Bought as a
government minister. The Prime minister announced yesterday that an AI
called uh della which means sawn in Albania, and I
apologize if I said that wrong. We'll handle all public
procurement and government contracts. D'ella daella, dailia whatever is the
(16:40):
first cabinet minister who is in physically present but is
created by artificial intelligence, and she will make Albania a
country where public tenders are one hundred percent free of corruption.
The Bought was designed to be immune to bribes, threats,
and political pressure. The Bought originally started as a virtual
assistant in Albania's good So it's that little clip clippy
(17:01):
thing in Microsoft words. Yeah, that's what it is. That's
the government official now in Albania. Anyway, the government didn't
provide details about human oversight or how they'll prevent the
AI from being manipulated. Amazon's Zekes has officially rolled out
its driverless robo taxi service to the public on the
Las Vegas Strip. Now, I want to know if you'd
get in this. So this is a little different than
(17:24):
those waymos and the other autonomous ones. Zeke's robo taxis
are fully driverless insofar as they like traditional controls like
pedals and steering wheels. Instead, the interior of the vehicle
features bench seats positioned on either side, so passengers face
each other while they ride. The exteriors covered in censors, cameras,
and radar. The vehicles typically won't exceed forty five miles
(17:45):
an hour when in an operation, they'll travel up to
three miles with a max of four passengers. Expansion of
more destinations is on the agenda, but for now, pickups
and drop offs are limited to hubs and all rides
are free, as zukes awaits regulatory approval to start charge.
So you just get this thing and it just goes
and there's like no wheel or pedals, so there's no
illusion of control either, Like it's not even I don't
(18:07):
even think that in the other ones you could grab
it and do anything. I don't think you can. I
think if you touch any of the steer wheel or
anything that they get alerted, so it's not like you're
really controlling those anyway. But at least in like a tesla,
you could grab it and stop it in theory, if
you're riding along. What do you think? I mean?
Speaker 3 (18:22):
Vegas is not like a real place, and I feel
like I do things in Vegas that I wouldn't do
anywhere else.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
Yeah, far more dangerous things to my body in Vegas.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
Yeah, honestly, probably not here.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
But it's a really good point. I'd be more likely
to get in something like that in Vegas because I've
gotten in some things I shouldn't have. So and ordinary,
here's a little entertainment news today, but it's everywhere. Ordinary.
Alex Warren has reached a billion streams on Spotify. Yeah,
the huge hit Ordinary across to billion streams this week.
Warn't it's only the second artist Bad Bunny was the
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first to hit the mouthstone across all songs released this year.
Bad Money last week hit that same milestone. Ordinary was
the surprise heat of the summer, and Warren took home
to twenty twenty five mtvvm A for Best New Artist
on Sunday. Billion streams, guys, you how many on the
iHeartRadio app billion more and how many on the Fread
Show a billion. I've played the song a billion times
(19:15):
today already same yeah, taking played soon, So that's good.
It's National Day of Encouragement, National Hug and High five Day, Yes,
and National Video Games Day today. As Calin's Entertainer Report
is on the Fread.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
Show, Young Thug is issuing a very public apology to
several people, including his girlfriend Mariah, the scientist, Drake twenty one, Savage,
Lil Baby, and others, following all the leaks of those
jail calls.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
I know what tells you that the calls.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
Are recorded when you make the call, but it seems
still as if he didn't know that they were recorded.
He was really talking a lot of stuff from jail,
if you missed it. And what's best is he chose
to use a song, a seven minute song to say sorry,
to address the whole situation. And the song is called man,
I miss my dogs, you know. I hate when like
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the consequences of my own words come and get me.
And then I miss my friends, you know, And then
I want to make a music video on a song
that lasts seven minutes, just kind of whining about how
I missed them and I was just joking.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
That's probably the most emotional I could get in any
kind of song would be if I sung about my dogs. Yeah,
in the past, but I think I love them more
than I love most humans.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
So yeah, no, you're literal dogs, like no, I.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
Mean my dogs. Yeah, I'm not ting about my dogs
like whatever those guys, but I mean my dogs. Like
if I mean, if I got a guitar, I could
probably find the words and she would Yeah, a little
song from me.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Yeah, I could open garage man or something if you want.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
I mean, Pauline could help me because she's a music producer.
Speaker 3 (20:45):
So if she gets back yet, right, maybe she could
ask Bad Bunny to hop on it. But there's I mean,
there's a lot to the song, and you can watch
it for yourself. But he's trying to mend all these
relationships that he ruined literally like last week, so I
think he's going to need.
Speaker 2 (20:57):
To give people time. It's a little quick. Oh shoot,
I miss it, right, me bad?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Remember he also came for glow Rilla in those calls,
so I don't.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
It's like it's gaslighting as a song. It's like I
came for all of you. But now I miss you, right,
I miss you? Where are you?
Speaker 3 (21:13):
I mean, because we are supposed to hear him spit
talking all those people, you know, so he's sorry and
he misses everyone.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
Speaking of missing things.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
HBO psychological dark comedy series Big Little Lies has been
officially renewed for a third season, six years after the
end of the second season. That's the one that's produced
by Nicole Kidman and Reese Witherspoon, both of whom lead
the cast. I watched it over the pandemic. Others in it.
It's a really good show. Shalne Woodley, Zoe Kravitz, Laura Dern,
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Alexander Scarsguard Adam Scott. I don't know when we're getting
the new season. We waited six years. I'm gonna need
to rewatch the last one. Did you watch that one?
Speaker 1 (21:51):
Fred?
Speaker 2 (21:51):
It was great. It's really good. Highly recommend.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Just as Keky got engaged, Benson Boone and Maggie Thurman
have ended their relationship.
Speaker 2 (21:59):
I know you a little crush on Benson.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Here we go again, right another?
Speaker 2 (22:03):
What he's about to come out of the woodwork and
little jumpsuit come out of the woodworld somewhere else.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah, I just think I need to hear the whole s.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Going to proceed with his love for Kiki.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
These couple, both twenty three, so they're young, went public
in March of last year.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Both up correct.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
They've been seeing a whole bunch of places.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Elton John's Abes Foundation Academy, which twenty three, and you're
at Milton John party. I just I really can't get
over that, other various places, video Music Awards. Maggie also
supported Benson by attending several stops of his American Heart
World tour and then he got too big. No, I
don't know what happened, but she was lest spotted I
think in Raleigh on September seventh.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
That's the last time we saw them, and now they're
broken up.
Speaker 9 (22:50):
Played our jingle Ball and then look boom right boom,
which is why you got to go to jingle Ball
because you see him now and then boom.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
That's really FI tickets anymore. It's true, It is true, true.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Another breakup that made me sad.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Lastly, actress Nina Doebrev and former snowboarder Sean White ended
their engagement after five years of a relationship.
Speaker 2 (23:13):
And I know they got engaged in my recently.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Source says it was mutual with lots of love and respect,
YadA YadA. But they've been dating after meeting at a
twenty nineteen Tony Robbins event and when public in twenty twenty,
moved in together during the pandemic. So this was one
of those and he proposed to her in October with
a surprise dinner in New York City.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
They were one of the couples that made me feel
like love was real. I think they're both really pure
and kind, so wishing them the best. I'm kind of
sad about that one today. By the way, if you
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Speaker 1 (23:46):
All Right, morality Monday on a Friday. I feel like
morality Monday on a Friday. So here's the situation. This
is a quote from the person who wrote it. This
is I'm just reading from what they said. I was
married to my ex husband for four years. I didn't
change my name when I first got married because neither
of us cared very much. I only changed it after
our daughter was born because I wanted us to share
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a last name. This is I was posted on Reddit, actually,
which is where I get. You know, people think that
I do all of the preparation for the show and
the elevator on the way up, and sometimes it sounds
like it that little screen that says captivating gives me
a little steps you feel stats on the way up,
like what time it is, And I'm like, this is perfect,
It's all I need.
Speaker 6 (24:25):
This is great.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
I'm going to get in the Hall of Fame for
sure this way and then and then I do the show.
But no, it's Reddit is really the secret. It really is,
except that it can get real weird on there, so
I really can't start from the top and work my
way down like this is. You know, this was an
alien topic on there this morning. There's some conspiracy theories,
so really can't use it completely. But nonetheless, this woman
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explained that she and her ex husband divorced back in
twenty twenty two, and the fact that she had his
last name has never been an issue. During a recent
visit to pick up her daughter from a custody visit,
she then bumped into the x husband's new girlfriend, who
confronted her about the name change. And here's the quote.
Going back to the Reddit post, she told me that
her and my ex want to get married, but the
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only thing standing in the way is that I haven't
changed my last name back. The ex wife wrote about this,
so she said that essentially she needs the ex has
got to change her name back to her original name
so that the new wife or girlfriend to be wife
would be the only one with the last name. That's
the hold up. That's not the hold up.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
No, no, girl, that's not the hold up.
Speaker 1 (25:32):
That's not why it is due is not proposing to you,
because many people can have the same last name. Yes,
And in fact, I think it's pretty common. You know,
people get married, they change their last name, they get divorced,
they're like, I'm not changing my name again. That's a
big pain. My kids had the last name. We'll just
keep it whatever. You know, some people do change their
last name back, but then their kids would have a
different last name because oftentimes the father's last name is
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the one that you know, prevails. So I mean, yeah,
you know, I know people who've been married three times
and now there's all these people with the last name,
Like what it is? What it is? Well, it has
nothing to do with getting married and not getting married. No,
you don't own it. No, absolutely not. Girl, he lying
to you.
Speaker 5 (26:08):
If that's the excuse he's telling you, and you're dumb,
I mean, don't bother you.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
So no, go ahead ahead eight five nine, one one
three five, you can contacts the same number. I mean,
if a guy said to you or a girl, I
guess in this case, it would be the guy if
you're taking his last name, if he said to you, uh, yeah,
I don't know. I mean, I really want you to
have my last name and be the only woman with it,
and says my ex does you know until she changes it,
we're not gonna be able to do it. I mean
you wouldn't you be like okay, really? Or do you
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feel some kind of ownership over the name? Would you
have a problem as the person being proposed to, you know,
marrying the guy. Would you have a problem if someone
else had the last name before you? They have children, correct, right,
this couple?
Speaker 5 (26:49):
You know, I would not have an issue with that,
Like you are the mother of his children. I can't
get rid of the kids, Like y'all are bonded forever.
I mean, it's a name, it's you were married, you
did your time.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Earned it. This sounds like some weird possessive this thing
and control thing. And I guess if I if I
were marrying somebody who were like, let's say it's let's
say this is on her, let's say she's the one
obsessing over this, I'd be I would have issues. Wait,
hold on, you don't. We don't own people here, We don't.
We can't rewrite history. Like if you want to get married, fine,
if you want to take my last name, great, But
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like I'm not going to go back and undo everything
I've done before. I can't.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
No.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
You know, it's like people that want you to they
come in your life and they're like, I don't want
you to have anything to do with any of those people.
I mean, maybe there are situations where they're bad influences,
or maybe that you don't need to be hanging out
with an AX or something, but like, you don't control
my narrative, you don't control how this works. We're moving
forward together, right, yeah, for sure? And then if i'm
if I'm the girl and the guy's like, yeah, I
can't do it, won't be able to propose until we
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get my ex to drop that name. Well, then I'm like, yes,
is bs he's reaching than reaching? We would you all agree?
Are we all like a universal front about this, like
a universal.
Speaker 8 (27:57):
Unless I'm changing If i'm the ex wife, I'm changing
the kids' names back to my name, and then that's
what my mom did. Hey, yeah, then clean, sweep, goodbye.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
But she doesn't want to change your name and she's
not going to do it now because it's it's his.
It's her exes now girlfriend forcing it so so so
she's second, I'm gonna be like, no, I'm not doing it.
I'm not doing it for you, right, and what does
it even mean? Like I was already married to him,
I have kids with him, I did it with him, right,
look at it, like you can't take that from me.
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The spy seconds someone texted, if he didn't care that
the first wife didn't have his last name, why does
he care about the second one? Which is why I
wonder if it's her and not him, if this is
a she issue, You're no, in your head.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
I feel like it's it's her, and I feel like
that's a huge red flag, Like what if something that
actually matters comes up during their marriage?
Speaker 2 (28:48):
She cares about something that does not matter at all.
Speaker 1 (28:50):
Yeah, what else do we have to? What else do
we have to erase and pretend didn't happen?
Speaker 2 (28:53):
Yeah, I'm I don't know, I'm out on her. I
don't like it. You're right, you were in on her previous. Yeah,
I don't know her, and I'm out.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
At one point you were like maybe with her, but
then but now it's were out.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
I'm moving on.
Speaker 1 (29:05):
We're completely out all this marriage talk. Are you're going
to have Kiki have second thoughts and other text? Well?
Oh no, girl? Are you taking his name? Yes? On
social media? On social media? I would think that'd be
the one place you wouldn't take his name.
Speaker 5 (29:20):
Yeah, no, no, no, I'll change my Facebook. I add his
name to my Facebook.
Speaker 1 (29:24):
But what about what about on like legal documents?
Speaker 7 (29:26):
All that?
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Okay, minor stuff, So that a big deal. We're pump
faking a little bit. Well he knows it now, Tanya.
Oh boy, yeah, you've been in Tanya? Do you know what?
That's what it says? I'm sorry, should have read the fanatics.
It's Friday. I apologize. Yeah, I love you. So you've
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been in a situation this exact thing. Please?
Speaker 4 (29:53):
So I got married in nineteen, had a kid, and
then like two years in the marriage, he want a divorce,
you know whatever. I didn't necessarily want it. But his
second wife three years later asked me if I changed
my last name and I said no, this is before
they obviously got married. And I said no. I said,
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if he didn't want me to have his last name,
and then he should have thought about that before he
married me.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Period. So this woman wanted to be the only one
that had the last name, like the only like like somehow,
Well that made her elite to something. You've already been
married to him. It happened. It's done, right, Yeah, get
over it.
Speaker 2 (30:33):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Okay, so what happened and we had.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
A child with it with I had a child with him,
and I'm like, I'm not changing my last name from
my child. And then now he's on a third wife.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
Oh boy.
Speaker 4 (30:48):
And I kept his last name for like ten ten,
ten years, and then I ended up getting remarried and
now I have a totally different last end than any
of my kids.
Speaker 1 (31:01):
Okay, Well, it's gonna confusing now. So Tanya, I need
I'm gonna need to start drawing a map a little
bit here to see where everyone's going. We've got three husbands,
we've got two wives, we got three lives. No, it does, No,
there's no judgment. I'm just I'm just trying to make
sure we know whose last name is who's But you
didn't change your last name. She still married him and
then she took the name, and so she had to
get over it. Yeah, she had to.
Speaker 4 (31:23):
If he only wanted one person to have his last name,
then he should have.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Thought about that before he married me or divorced me,
and then the second time and the third. Right, yeah, yeah,
I think so.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
Maybe actually, maybe try to work on your marriage before
you just award.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
Somebody, you know what. Maybe so, Tanya, thank you have
a good day, and yeah, can you tell me maybe
don't be I love you to. Maybe don't just be
out here giving out your last name like it's nothing, right, Jillian, Hey,
you're saying to girlfriends Ululu here. I think we all
agree on that, right, Oh yeah, definitely. Yeah. I mean
what would you do in this situation. You'd be like, no,
I'm not changing If you were the ex, you're not
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doing anything for this person.
Speaker 6 (32:04):
Yeah, changing your name is just a total pain, and
she's not party of life, so screw it.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
Yeah, I'm not going to do it for you. You know,
like if I were going to do it, I would
have done it before. I'm not going to do it
because this guy's new girlfriend's intimidated by it. It's just
a name.
Speaker 6 (32:22):
Yeah, Unfortunately, I think the girlfriend really is like in
her own little girl and just doesn't see the red
flegs that were clearly in front for her.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
Yeah, I think so too. Thank you, Jillian, have a
good day, you do. If someone texted pay me, it's
gonna be like if I get traded to another NFL
team or something, and it's like, oh, you know, your
number fifty five is already number fifty five, and I'm like,
I want fifty friends coming he wants fifty five, And
the guy who's got it's like, okay, a million bucks