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September 15, 2025 35 mins

We check in with executive sport's reporter Jason Brown to see how he did picking week 2 in the NFL. Plus, is it okay to share your friend's secrets with your partner? Fred and the crew debate!

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I can't build the song with my mouth, okay, like
I care? No not, Okay, you're sure. Fred's show is
on today morning everyone, Monday, September fifteenth. It's the Fred Show.
Hi Kaylin, good morning, Hi Jason Brown. Paulina is out today.
Hi Kiki, good morning, Shelby. Shelley will be here next
hour showdown. Two hundred bucks is the prize too, game

(00:23):
win streak. Bella means here on the phone in the
text eight five five five nine one three five. She
wasn't allowing you caffeine today for coffee.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
No, so there we have caffeine, but today we have
to do your bummy.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
I don't know what that is. I don't know, girl,
but would you call me? I don't know.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
It's some drink that she wants us to drink. So
I'm waiting for the caffeine to hit.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
The taste like this.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
This is a.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Pomegranate flavored cranberry pomegranate.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
It's all right, So you asked for coffee and we're
told no.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
No, no you okay, so on Friday, because you really
well me, Paulina Orbella, will you know start a coffee textinge?
What do we want who's going to get at YadA YadA,
And so on Friday I started, I don't think it
was Paulina out on Friday and she was like, oh no,
I brought us these drinks that like have caffeine in them,
but it's not coffee. And I was like, I really

(01:17):
need coffee today, so let's you know, pivot. And then
today she wanted us to drink them again, so I thought,
I think she really wants us to drink these instead
of coffee.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Oh damn, she doesn't tried that with me because I'm not.
I'm not. No, she doesn't.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
We're not.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
We're not.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
I'll try anything once or twice.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, asked. Coffee is part of my routine.
We're not going to switch it up for the same
yarba yon eas or whatever it's what's it called.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
I'm not going to put that in there, but urba mate.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Yeah, no, I'm good. It's sparking plants powered. I'm sure
it's very good for you and probably better than you know,
what I'm drinking. You know, my heart's probably gonna explode
at some point from the caffeine coffee slash coffee coffee
slash caffeine and take. I don't care. It's part of
my day. I'm doing it. It's one of the best
parts of my day. Actually, maybe the best part. The
first sip of coffee, the first cup of coffee.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
I feel like I could do anything, really hits.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
And so I can tell right now you can't do anything.
I can tell no, Like you don't feel that way.
I can see it in your face. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
No.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Pauline is usually asking you around a certain time of
the show, do you want to get McDonald's, And I
think it's I'm going to be doing the same.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
I think I need some hot coffee. I love you, Bella.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
It's I feel very healthy, but I need the like
the warm coffee.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, we'll make her go down there. Thanks for you.
All right, let me see here. We got Kiki's court
this morning.

Speaker 5 (02:40):
But I'm ba girl, what are you doing here?

Speaker 1 (02:43):
You forgot your own case?

Speaker 5 (02:45):
No, I just wanted to give you a little dramatic pause.
You forgot your own case?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Waiting by the phone? Why does somebody get ghosted? That's
coming up, of course, some money with Shelby Shelley and
the entertainer of COT This Hour blogs and the headlines
and Jason's NFL Week two recap. Yes, yes, what are
you working on?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
K oh No, I'm in trouble with our boss aka Bella.
All right, so we're gonna talk about the Emmys.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
We are going to talk about why is Taylor Swift
behind a wall?

Speaker 6 (03:13):
You know, like, get out from behind there? And what's
going on? Something? I agree with you, guys. I think
she's pregnant. Yeah, oh somebody you guys, it's one of you.
Somebody said she was pregnant. I think she's pregnant because
I don't know why else, why are we hiding if
there's not something to see?

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Oh? Yeah, well like about something to see? For sure?

Speaker 7 (03:34):
I didn't know it was that or something to have
to do with her appearance, whether it be like a
hair dye situation or something like that.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
But yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (03:43):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Get out from behind there are?

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah, because if obviously, if you don't want someone to
see you, then you know, hiding whatever, whatever sort of
production you make to be blocked, it's fine. But if
it were subtle that all the productuction did, all that
big wall contraption thing did, was get people to talk
about what is it that we're missing what are we

(04:06):
not seeing? So you called more attention to yourself and
you eventually have to go out in public. So whatever
it is, like, now everyone's going to be looking people
in your bushes, in the trees, you know, like drones. No,
I'm serious, Like if it were subtle, then I would
think that you would just go with it. And then
if someone said that looks like a baby bump or something,
you'd say, ah, now whatever. But when you when you

(04:28):
when you bring a collapsing wall with you everywhere you
go and then walk behind it. All I want to
know is what am I missing? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (04:35):
I don't necessarily know if anything she could do like
that would be subtle. We saw what happened when Cardi
b was like, no, this ain't no baby bump. That
didn't go well for her, So I don't necessarily know
if she could have done gotten in and out of
an arena subtly, right, So I.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Mean like if it's at home, but she's obviously not
like eight months pregnant, right, So Like what I'm saying
is if it were I mean short of like her
is now in the back of her head or so
you know what I mean. I just I figure like
you would just just roll with it and then deny it.
But when i'm when if I bring a collapsing wall
with me and surround myself with it everywhere I go

(05:11):
in a public place, either I'm asking for either some
scheme to get people to talk about you, which you
don't need, or because they didn't show run TV either,
which is obviously something that was negotiated, because the network's
obviously want to show run TV. Because my god, all
last season it was like this a football game, Taylor
Swift is here everyone, and then they'd go back to
the football game briefly, and then back to Taylor Swift's

(05:32):
reaction on everything. And Travis didn't play very well yesterday,
so I figured they'd be going to her all the time.
They didn't, So this is a this is a big thing.
Something's going on.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
Oh, I mean something's going on for sure.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Okay, you are half asleep, someone getting some coffee for
you. Your South African Tea's not I can see it in
your eyes. They're like they're like glazed over. This isn't working.
You know what, Bell like, you don't get to decide
what's best for my players. Okay, my players need performance
enhancing drugs, whatever it is that she needs.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Oh, she's saying, she's correcting me on how I say this.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
Drink now, I don't care how you say. Get her
some coffee. Okay, my god, they show nutritionous now, No
if they want to eat crappy food and they want
to drink coffee to start to show that's there, right,
and that's I needed my dead peak performance. Friends, biggest
stories of the day. You got Jason's picks out? Yes,

(06:29):
here we go, ladies and gentlemen. The results, Oh, Jason's
Week two NFL picks. Our vice president of sports reporting.
I guess what did you have in the Canelo fight?
By the way, I forgot to ask you, uh, Canello
or the other guy? I thought Canelo was the location

(06:52):
and then they go Canela, No, Las Vegas was the location. Okay,
I'm going to Canelo.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Definitely.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Hell, I mean it's named after him. Huh right? No,
he didn't. Wait Canela. Let someone named Bud beat him.
I believe that's the guy's nickname, right, I didn't. I
gotta be honest with you. I didn't watch it. That
doesn't sound right. It doesn't sound like my Canelo. I
want to say, that it was in that Allegiant stadium,
and I saw some people like post pictures, they were

(07:22):
in attendance. Unless you're super super crazy rich, you're not
getting anywhere close to the ring. Which what point do
you say, like, I don't need to be here because
I can see it better on TV. Because yeah, Terrence
Crawford is super middleweight champ after convincing when over Canelo Alvarez.
Why don't I think his nickname is Bud? Someone tell
me if I'm right, if I read that correctly this morning?

(07:43):
But no, I mean they were so far away that
the people were not like they did, tiny little ant
looking people. So it's like, you know you're there. Yeah,
I got to say I was. I was in the
building for this, but I mean I could also be
down the street in the bar, and then I guess
you see what's going on or at home not paying
twenty seven dollars for a beer, right right? I have
no idea what it cost to to just have an

(08:03):
ant level view. But you know the boxing match, you
know football stadium, that's pretty wild. All right, here we go, guys.
So you had the first game, you had the Commanders. Okay,
well you lost that one. Packers won all right, Seahawks
over Steelers, Bengles over Jaguars, Rams over Titans, four nine,

(08:26):
Ers over Saints, Lions over the Bears. My god, which
is good for Caitlin. Cardinals over the Panthers, Falcons over
the Vikings, Patriots over the Dolphins, Bills over the Jets,
Ravens over the Browns, Cowboys over the Giants at the
last minute, Colts over the Broncos at the last minute,

(08:47):
and Eagles over the Chiefs. And then today we've got Bucks,
Texans and Chargers Raiders two games on Monday night football.
So how are we doing so far?

Speaker 3 (08:58):
I'm trying to did you say the Jets wires?

Speaker 1 (09:01):
The Juars lost, Bengals, Bangles over the Jaguars.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Oh, okay, so he lost that one too, So how
do you do? So he lost one?

Speaker 7 (09:13):
Oh man, oh man, we're gonna bring out this second.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
Okay, So so far he's lost eight and he has
two games tonight.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
Tonight it's gonna be a se So how many do
you win? Then one? So I don't know he can
do the math on that. I don't know. It's not good.
And what was the parslay? Again?

Speaker 2 (09:33):
And then his parslay was Cairo Santos is going to
kick twice quote into the polls. No, exactly, Trevis Calsey
is going to score.

Speaker 1 (09:45):
No, no, no, he definitely didn't score. He did the opposite.
He tried not to score.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
Yeah, and then Dak Prescott is not going to spit
on anyone.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
He did not spite.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
So here's my here's what I challenge from you. You're
probably gonna have to like give us your picks because
you're going to be in Vegas with the I Radio
Music Festival this week with your your black combat boots
on your piece and your clipboard. You're probably gonna have
to give them give us the picks ahead of time
to read on your behalf. But maybe maybe a little
little fur but we go a little further on the Parsleigh,
Maybe we do a little little research, oh okay, because

(10:20):
I know you know in the past these things have
just come to you. But I might maybe put a
little bit into it. Okay, moving forward, because we're not
really not doing great, where would one research like football
dot com. Sure we can start their NFL dot com,
ESPN dot com. Okay, I would think there'd be a
lot of different places that you could. You can go,
got it. I will dive into that today. Did the
Bears lose? Someone asked, as a matter of fact, they did? Boy?

(10:43):
Did they? I certainly did. And who they lose to? Kalin?

Speaker 3 (10:46):
They lost to the Detroit Lions.

Speaker 6 (10:47):
Jason, you did not pick oh no, yeah in their
Honolulu blue Yep.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Yeah, that was really bad. Hack Severance Pitt and Seth
Rogen one big at the Emmy Awards last night. And
Caitlin I'm sure has more on. There's a heat wave
which last week it was really nice. Week before it
was almost like borderline cool, and now we're talking about
heat wave that will stretch from Louisiana to Wisconstant heat
records are being challenged across the central US. Forecast is

(11:14):
worn that in the last week of summer, temperatures could
hit the upper nineties from Louisiana to Wisconsin through Wednesday.
The heat wave will drive temperatures five to fifteen degrees
above average, and some record highs set in the nineteen
thirties could fall. So we're not done. We're not done,
you guys.

Speaker 7 (11:29):
I am screwed because we already shut down the air
conditioner for this year.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
I was shut down the air. You don't even like
a building. So I don't know. They don't do those.
Maybe they do. I don't know anything about it.

Speaker 7 (11:40):
Did something with the dow hickey in the back and
then you cover it up for the winter and you
like wrap it so that the snow doesn't get really
all up in there. Also, And I woke up and
it was seventy eight degrees in the house this morning.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
You that at your house? Absolutely not?

Speaker 3 (11:55):
Oh my goodness, Oh no, I'm.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
Gonna say you something. It might blow you out of
the way. I don't ever. I said one time last
winter that heat came on once. It's a c year round. Yeah,
I mean it's got to be cold, Like I gotta
be to wear a sweatshirt and pants in my house.
Like you won't do it. And that's not often because
you want to get the sweatshirt the pants, you know,

(12:18):
maybe like you get the bad or something you fine,
you know, you know, like like jammy pants kind of things,
you know, I got, Yeah, I got a house uniform.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
What kind of jammy pants do you or like.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
You know, like viory you know, like come on, come on,
I'm not like there's not like cowprint on my you know,
jammy pants, which I'm not. I'm not opposed to cowprint
on my Jammy pants. I just don't have any of those.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
It's a problem with that.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
Yeah, there's nothing wrong with it. I just don't have that. No,
it definitely a little more form fitting. I like to look,
you know, slim, even when I'm just lounging, you know
what I mean. I like I like, I like form fitting.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
You're ordering viewery pants off the TikTok shop.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
No viory is like a high Yeah, no viory is not.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
What's the one the girls are all?

Speaker 1 (13:00):
I don't know that word, like, oh, you always like
Lululemon or alo or I don't know. Maybe you're thinking, no,
I think they're a I don't know.

Speaker 5 (13:12):
I imagine you and like silk pajamas.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
Well I do why, I don't know, like like like
a you half to robe.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
Yeah, I got this picture you walking around Jimmy.

Speaker 3 (13:23):
Picking the throwbat on songs.

Speaker 6 (13:24):
Right.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
You know it takes me all week. It's it's a
very very serious process. Yeah, and a monocle. Yeah. So, guys,
I don't want you to be and this sounds this
sounds like it could be something else. You could give
me this story, and I could say this and then
find out that you're all playing a joke on me.
But I don't want you to become a quishing quishing victim.

(13:47):
A lot of things come to mind when I say,
it sounds like something not good, and it's not good,
but it sounds like it's something like kind of dirty,
but I guess it's not. The FBI is sounding the
alarm on a new scam, unsolicited packages containing a mysterious
QR code. The agency says that criminals are now mailing
random boxes, sometimes with no sender Infoone hopes that the

(14:09):
recipient will scan the included code. The codes can take
you to phishing sites, swap swipe your personal data, drain
your bank account, or quietly install malware on your phone.
The latest trick, also known as quishing I hope I'm
saying that right, is a high tech twist on the
so called brushing scams, where the only danger was receiving
a product and having a fake review tide to your name.

(14:29):
Now the stakes are higher. The code in your surprise
parcel may be the only thing inside, and is designed
to peak your curiosity and possibly compromise your financial life.
Scammers or capitalizing on QR codes because they're everywhere and
because most people scan first and then think later. The
FBI and security experts offer up some practical advice. Don't
scan codes from unknown packages or strange flyers, use strong

(14:53):
anti virus software, preview QR linked URLs before opening, limit
your digital foot enable two factor authentication. My favorite thing.
I love it. This company doesn't make you two factor
authenticate absolutely everything every day, multiple times a day or
anything like that, and keep your device updated and also

(15:14):
report suspicious packages as well. So don't does sound bad?
Don't get quished? Oh yeah, A few things come to mind,
and I'm not gonna say what they are, but it's
just none of them are clean, but they are a
lot of fun. Krispy Cream has dropped their fall fare
donuts could be ninety two degrees but have a Krispy Creme.

(15:34):
So beginning today, you could buy one of five flavors
Cotton candy, cream, Puff, blue Ribbon, apple Pie, and caramel churro.
Reading this story, my teeth hurt, Like this sounds so
sugary sweet that I think it would hurt to eat.
The treats are available for pickup and delivery through Krispy
Cream's app and website and of course in their stores.

(15:56):
And a guy named Casper Lincoln was arrested Prince George,
British Columbia for driving a child sized pink Barbie jeep
down a busy street while allegedly under the influence. I
need to hear the whole story. He was also driving
with a suspended license in charge with prohibited driving. He
says he was going to meet a friend and get
a slurpee for you man.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
Yeah, he wasn't driving. He wasn't supposed to be driving,
and he wasn't well he was.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
It turns out you can't drive a pink Barbie jeep,
those things called barely You can get a Do you
want a bike? You know that.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
I've heard rumblings.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
You've heard these rumors.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
I've heard rumblings. Rather you be on a bike.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Yeah. Lincoln said he was going to meet a friend
to get a slurbe because obviously I would hop into
pink Barbie jeep to go meet my friend to get
a slurpee. Because he felt lazy, he chose to drive
the toy car instead of walking. He claimed that he
didn't know it was illegal, saying he used hand signals
and everything, and he acted like he believed that he
was following the law.

Speaker 3 (16:54):
Freak's mine, my barbie jeep.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
I mean he just wanted a slurpee.

Speaker 8 (16:59):
Guys.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
I don't get it could have been so much worse.
It's that's another thing that hurts my teeth though, Like
you know, in college or something, slurpy.

Speaker 5 (17:08):
Hell, yeah, you don't drink them now.

Speaker 1 (17:10):
I feel like if I did, I get brain freeze slashed,
my molders would hurt.

Speaker 3 (17:14):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah, No, I'm I'm like, once a week, do you really? Yes,
you have it once a week slurpee?

Speaker 3 (17:21):
Yes, it's my medicine.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (17:22):
Do you get a Coca Cola one?

Speaker 1 (17:24):
Yeah, I'm surprised Bella allows you to have that. I
don't think that's good for you. I think they just
pour sugar and then ice on top of the sugar
and then that's it. That's what you're consuming. But hey,
good for you though. It's National Learning Online Day, National

(17:46):
Neonatal Nurses Day, and National Tackle Kids Cancer Day. Entertainment
report is on the Press Show.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Actor Seth Rogan was one of the big winners at
the Emmys last night.

Speaker 3 (17:58):
Did any of you guys watch it.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
No, No, I did not.

Speaker 3 (18:01):
The Emmys can be a tough one to watch.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
Skimmed it quickly is double dabbled beyond to something else.

Speaker 3 (18:07):
Yeah, you've probably seen a lot of this stuff.

Speaker 2 (18:09):
But he took home Best Actor in a Comedy as
well as the trophies for Best Directing and Writing for
a Comedy for The Studio, which was also deemed Best
Comedy Series. Jean Smart once again earned the honor for
Best Actress in a Comedy for Hack Severn. Co stars
Trammelle Tillman and Britt Lower won the awards for Best
Supporting Actor and Best Actress in a Drama. Traders was

(18:31):
named the Best Reality Competition Show. That's the one that
Travis Kelce's mom is on.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
She's going on. I don't know if they're filming right now.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
Last Week with John Oliver one for Best Scripted and
The Late Show with Stephen Colbert one for Best Talk Series.

Speaker 3 (18:46):
So there you go.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
If you saw those stories Friday that Taylor Swift would
absolutely be deposed in the Justin Baldoni Blake Lively trial,
once again, it is not true.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
They couldn't get it done.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
So a judge actually ruled Taylor Swift cannot be deposed
by Baldoni's legal team, and this one's completely on them.

Speaker 3 (19:05):
They're his team.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Justin's failed to meet the deadline for requesting a deposition.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
That's crazy. She had initially.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
Agreed to participate scheduled between October twentieth and the twenty fifth,
and they fumbled the bag so she will not be deposed,
which is wild. I think that that was their like
smoking gun, and then they missed the deadline. Speaking of
Taylor Swift, she caused all kinds of a stir at
Arrowhead Stadium after sneaking in.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
That's an air.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
Quote to Travis Kelcey and the Chiefs first home game
of the season behind a giant screen.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
If you're a tailor fan that you're used to it.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
You've seen her in boxes suitcases, but usually when she's
at these games she is in her heels and all
her tallness in her little outfit. But she was not
even seen in the private suite during the game. They
didn't show her at all against the Eagles, so people
are wondering. I know some people said pregnancy, some people

(20:01):
are saying disappearance. In general, I can't think of any
other reasons why you would have to be somewhere.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
Or how about and is it possible that you just
don't go to the game, Like if you're gonna have
to go through all that and then you're gonna have
to sit somewhere where your view is obviously like restricted,
probably because you, yeah, because you don't want the cameras
to be able to get to you or people to
see what you're up to. Then maybe you stay at home.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
I mean, I think it all depends on the reason.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
You know, I don't know what she's hiding specifically, and
also maybe it was more important to support Travis, I guess,
be there be there for her.

Speaker 3 (20:34):
Man, my man, my man, man.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
I mean, not if I got like the biggest hit
of all time, and I got the biggest hit of
all times.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
Did you bring the wall out for that?

Speaker 1 (20:41):
I mean, to get in the collapsing wall in my
you know, in my glam squad and my people, or
I'm just staying at home.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
I mean I would they should build her some sort
of like access sure, yeah, like a tunnel, like a
private Yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
I'm actually though surprised that they haven't. You know, there's
a full lot of house inside her Owhead Stadium. We
talked about this before. There's a full on condo inside
of there. The owner is put in there, like with
bedrooms and a kitchen and like a little maybe where
she was. Maybe she was hanging out in the in
the thing, maybe in the in the condo casita. Yes, yes,

(21:16):
the chiefs casita.

Speaker 3 (21:17):
What the holl is she hiding?

Speaker 5 (21:19):
Girl?

Speaker 2 (21:20):
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Speaker 1 (21:30):
Vanessa says on the text that Taylor Swift was getting
death threats, so they heightened security. I thought it. My
second thought was like a security thing. But then again
I'm like, this is wonderful that you went. But at
some point I'd be like, it's okay, you can watch
it on TV, like you don't need to go to this.
So there was the fight over the weekend, the Canelo
Crawford fight. I know you were watching, You're you're big

(21:50):
into it and YouTube start mister Beast in order to
promote the fight. Was standing next to Mike Tyson, who
had gloves on. Said I'll take a punch from you,
Mister beasaid he would take a punch from Mike Tyson.
That look, I've met Mike Tyson and he was very
nice to me. He was nice to us when he
was in here on our show, and then he left
and he was about five minutes later very not nice

(22:13):
in the next show that he was on anything and
goes with this guy, all right, he's Mike Tyson. So
I'm not asking him to punch me in any way
because I feel like he's not he's not going along
with it. You know, he's not gonna go aha and
then kind of just hit you a little bit. Then
you can pretend like it was hard. I mean he
hit him in the gut hard, Like.

Speaker 9 (22:33):
Whke Tyson is about to punch me because thanks to
Rion season Canellan Crawford is about to happen.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
It literally starts within an hour.

Speaker 9 (22:40):
So after this year, go watch it and raise awareness.
I'm gonna take a punch for Mike Tyson. Whatever you're ready, yes, said.

Speaker 1 (22:55):
He like doubled over. I'm like, of all the people,
I'm not, I'm not like. I don't think he's really
I don't think Mike really understands the bit, you know,
because he had like real gloves on and stuff, and
it's like, I mean no, like of all the celebrities,
like we're just not I don't know, I don't think
he's really no yeah right right, I'm just I'm not,
you know, Hey, Mike like just kind of don't hit

(23:16):
him that hard and like it's for TV and we'll
give you some money, okay, and then hits him. Man
morality Monday on a Monday. How about it you guys? Ready? Yeah,
morality Monday on a Monday. So a married man recently
sparks debate after turning to Reddit with a dilemma. He
says always been upfront with his wife. He doesn't buy
into this bro code thing suggests that men should keep

(23:39):
secrets from each other. So one day, his longtime friend
of twenty five years approached him with a private confession
in mind. But the man immediately made his stance clear.
If it shared with him, it's also shared with his wife.
That honestly didn't sit well with his friend or their
mutual circle. The friend felt betrayed, rallied others, and now
most of their shared friends are side against the guy.

(24:02):
Now it doesn't it doesn't say here what the secret was.
And again this is this is someone who paraphrased that
the Reddit post, or if he told him that ahead
of time or after the fact, like, Hey, thanks for
telling me that you're cheating on your wife. I'm going
to tell my wife just so you know, I'd like
to believe that. If if that's your deal, then it's like, hey, man,

(24:25):
I got to tell you something that you'd be like, hey,
just so you know, Like my wife is considered part
of me now and so if you tell me, I'm
going to tell her, So just be aware of that before.
Let's just assume that's what it was that he did
give his friend the heads up? Is that fair? And
in your relationship? Is that what you assume? I want
to know from you guys? Of course you can call
it text eight five five five nine one three five.

(24:47):
If I tell you guys something, and we're friends, and
I know all of your partners but except for Big Tim,
I've never met the gay, but I know all of
your partners. So if if I tell you guys something,
should I just assume that it's going to your partner?
Is that fair to us? Or do I have to
tell you I don't want you to tell that person.
Like are my friends telling their wives everything I tell them?

Speaker 3 (25:07):
It depends on what you tell me.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
If it's like something health related or something you're going
through like mental health, physical health.

Speaker 3 (25:13):
And I'm not repeating that that's not for me to share.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Okay, But if I'm cheating on someone, You're gonna run
home and tell Shamee that's hot tea.

Speaker 3 (25:22):
Yes, yeah, I mean probably yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
I mean because you're messing up already, so why do
I have to keep that secret?

Speaker 8 (25:30):
Right?

Speaker 3 (25:30):
I probably don't want you to cheat?

Speaker 1 (25:32):
See, but this comes back to like for me, when
you get in a fight with your partner and then
you go tell your friend. You know, most people are
telling their side of the story. Most people are not
telling an objective perspective. Most people want their friend to
side with them. Most of your friends will side with
you sometimes maybe if you tell them the actual story,
they might point out something that you could have done differently.

(25:53):
But then the problem is you know, an hour or two,
or a day or a week later, you make up
with that person or it's over, and then your friend
and holds onto the memory of the last story you
told them, and that could potentially affect the way they
look at your partner, And so I feel the same
way about you know, Like I've had a friend who's
going through kind of a tough thing and he's a
family friend and we know all parties involved, and so

(26:14):
I'm not sharing with like my mom and dad the
full extent of what I know, because what happens if
everything is resolved and then it's like they don't they're
not getting constant updates, they're not fully immersed in this situation.
And then let's just say, are they just supposed to
forget because they they probably favor one side more than
the other. And if they're only getting information from one side,

(26:36):
and this is a family friend who's going to come
around and blah blah blah, then you know it's unfair
because to the other person because they're only getting one
side of the story. So like, I don't want my
family to think differently about anybody because they are only
getting some information, right, So I don't really share anywhere
near as much as I know because I don't want
this person to be in that situation. And I feel

(26:56):
like that's what happens when you share a story secondhand
with someone else in your life, you know what I mean.
It's like what you're saying, you're giving them the information
and then you're trusting them to forget and move on.
But they may hold on to that and then have
bad feelings about someone forever. Like let's say, okay, let's
say my I'm in a relationship, which that in itself

(27:17):
would be hysterical to me, right, that would be why
and and Jason's cheating on Mike, which would never happen,
And I tell her that, and then and then, but
there's more of the story, or there's a whole lot
more context, or I've known you for fifteen years so
I know that the relationship can be up and down
or whatever. I'm just making all this up and then
you guys, resolve it. But my friend over here doesn't

(27:38):
have my girlfriend hypothetical, doesn't have all that context, doesn't
know the ins and outs, doesn't see you every day,
so all she knows is you cheated and now you're
back in the relationship again, Like that might affect the
way she thinks about you.

Speaker 7 (27:49):
And that's not fair to you. No, no, it's not.
And that's why I'm very selective of what I tell Mike,
because I can't hold a grudge, like to save my life,
like anyone can do whatever to me, I get mad,
I get over it, whatever, I get.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
Mad at you for that. Like Jason hold a grudge.
He is the complete opposite.

Speaker 7 (28:06):
Like if I tell him anything negative or someone did
something especially to me or to someone that he cares about,
he will hold on to that and remember that for forever.
And so I'm like, okay, like we're going I have
to be very selective.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
I'm gonna share Hey Sam, good morning, Hi Sam. So
you tell your husband everything, no matter what, one.

Speaker 10 (28:26):
Hundred percent yes?

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Is that fair?

Speaker 10 (28:30):
You know to me, Like my partner is my partner
through thick and thin, and I tell him everything, and
even if he doesn't agree with me, like that's why
he's there. So we can kind of be soundboards off
of each other, and so you know, it kind of
keeps me balanced. But at the same time, like I
like sometimes I want advice or sometimes I you know,

(28:52):
we just want to talk about stuff. So it's one
hundred percent like I trust him, he trusts me. And
if we say don't tell anybody else and we don't,
and then that's it.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
I get that like when you're in a relationship that
you're kind of supposed to be one unit, and so
you should be able to bounce anything off of that person.
I guess, Emily detected, you're losing me. I guess all
I'm saying is, if there's one person and one person
and you're sharing this information with other people and they're
not seeing all perspectives, that I don't think it's fair
for you to be sharing information because they're only going

(29:23):
to sort of side with the side that you're telling them.
You know what I mean, Like, unless I have all
the information that I don't think I should be sharing
because I don't want you to hold on to long term,
you know things, because I only told you a little bit.
You know what I'm saying as tainting that you're tainting
that you're peeing in the water, You're peeing in the pool.

Speaker 10 (29:44):
Everybody peas in the pool, Fred, come on, whether you
say it or not, everybody.

Speaker 11 (29:48):
Peas in the pool.

Speaker 2 (29:49):
All right, Well, he's gonna say three sides to the story.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
A large body of water maybe, but not a pool.
Thank you, Sam, have a good day, have a good one.
And I'm thoughtful enough to go down when I do
it too, so the record, Yeah, very thoughtful. M Kelsey,
Hi Kelsey, Hi, Hi, Hi, how are you hey? So
what do you think this? Do you think that you
should tell your partner absolutely everything that you learn about
other people.

Speaker 8 (30:15):
I'm not sure whether you should or not. I mean,
I think that's something personal.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
The only real thing.

Speaker 8 (30:19):
That I had to say. Feel like, if you hear
something about someone and it's not something that someone told
you directly, then that can cause major issues. I think
that anything that you hear that you want to share
with just about anybody, you should probably validate before you
start sharing it, because a lot of people get into

(30:42):
arguments with people or something like that, and then they
start making up stuff and then once your partner hears that,
it's like, oh what, Yeah, you know. I just think
it's really especially as far as cheating and stuff goes.
I think that it's really important to, you know, verify
the information before you start telling anyone.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
Yeah. I also think you have to keep your circle
really small when it comes to relationship arguments and stuff
because again, like you're you're likely to be telling your
side of the story and the person's likely to react
in favor of the story you just told them. Not
only because they love you, they're going to try and
see the good in you, but they're going to listen
to the story you just told that probably is devoid
of all the details about it. And so then you're

(31:21):
getting that now you're being enabled by this advice. But
then the real story is maybe somewhere more towards the middle.
So then you then you find resolution, you get back
with that person, and now your friend is over here
going I can't believe you took that jack a back,
but they didn't know the whole story.

Speaker 8 (31:37):
Yeah, I can fully agree. I've always said that there's
your story, and then there's the other person's story, and
then somewhere.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
In between is the truth.

Speaker 8 (31:46):
And I don't think that you ever because emotions are
involved in regardless of what you're telling someone basically all
the time. So there's always and you know what, I
don't hang out at somebody else's house. You know, I
don't know their relationship, and as I ends, so, especially
like you're saying, with relationships as things like that, it's
really important to understand that exactly what you said, there

(32:09):
are there's.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
Actually three sides of the story.

Speaker 8 (32:11):
There's one person's side, the other person's side, and then
there's the truth. And sometimes, you know, I think most
of the time, you don't need to know the truth.
I don't need to be that intimate with people in
their personal relationships because I'm kind of in the situation
with my daughter because her her and get along. I
get along with both of them, obviously obviously her. But

(32:32):
you know, the thing about it is is I don't
really think that maybe their relationship is super.

Speaker 3 (32:38):
Great for her.

Speaker 8 (32:40):
However, you know, I'm not in their house after dark,
her kids.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
Because that's the problem. Right, So like your daughter comes
and tells you, Hey, you know, so and so did
this to me, and you're like, wow, that sucks. And
then they go get married and you're like, wait a minute,
but I thought he did this to you. You know,
but again, like how did that start? What are the details?
What I need to know? All the infra? And you
you hold onto this as their mother, right even though
you should be a trusted source. But but now you

(33:04):
have to hang on to that as they move forward
and they get over it, and you may not. Hey, Kelsey,
I got to go have a good day.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
Okay, have a good day.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
I'm glad you called Hey, Rachel, right, you tell your
husband everything, no matter what.

Speaker 11 (33:17):
Always he tells me everything. I tell him everything most
of the time. It's like they said before, to get
you know, an opinion of Hey am I handling this writer? Hey?
What do you think about this? I had a friend
tell him that the best thing he did for his
marriage was to cheat on his wife. So of course
he of course he told me that. And you know,
did they be friends after that? Yeah? But was there

(33:39):
you know, certain things we might not do with him
or stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (33:43):
Yes, And that's what I mean. So okay. So, so
your husband's friend cheats on his wife, right and tells
you this, You're like, wow, okay, why don't I like cheating?
And that makes me think differently in him? But okay, fine,
whatever he did it. And then your husband's like, hey,
I'm gonna go out with so and so tonight. Is
there no part of you that's like, I realize you
trust your husband, but like this guy, this guy, this

(34:06):
dude has you know, loose definition of what a marriage is.
And I don't know. But and while my husband is
trustworthy and a good person, like I don't know, I
don't necessarily want to hang it out with that person.
That being said, if you trust your husband and you
know that he wouldn't cheat on you, and he never
gives you this information, then you have no reason to
suspect anything. So everyone's fine.

Speaker 11 (34:28):
So the way my husband is though he also, you know,
didn't appreciate the comment. So if we hung out, it
was mostly as like couples instead of just one on one.
It was okay, let's go. They you know, they stay together,
So let's go, you and me and we'll go to dinner.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
She's so comfortable. Now, now you're at the dinner. Now
you're sitting there eating your soup, and you know all
the details that you didn't need to know because they've
moved forward. And if he hadn't told you, then you
wouldn't have to suffer through that meal knowing that this
dude was out here with floozy. Oh and that's I
don't know, Rachel, I'm not sure about this. Thank you
have a good day. I don't know. I don't know

(35:05):
that you need to know everything? Do you tell Big
Tim everything?

Speaker 5 (35:09):
Big Tim ain't listening to me. That's why I gotta
talk to you all.

Speaker 4 (35:12):
But I always think that people tell you tell your
friends something. They're telling two people that they trust. So
when I tell you something, I expect you to tell
Mama Fred and your therapist.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (35:23):
I just know what's going to them too.

Speaker 11 (35:25):
You know.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
You think I'm over here an executive coach and talking
about you. Yes, I go to my executive coach each week.
Do you think I'm talking about you?

Speaker 4 (35:33):
Jason's gonna tell Caitlin and probably know you know what's
like that to happen.

Speaker 1 (35:40):
Well, maybe, I mean, it's probably fair to assume, but
it's always a kiky segment in his executive coaching. We
sit down to an executive coach. Did we sit down
in the first like, what what did she do?

Speaker 5 (35:53):
What did she tell you?

Speaker 11 (35:54):
Week?

Speaker 1 (35:54):
The first fifteen minutes we have to dissect what do
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