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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:46):
Because I'm eating then the bone. You like a ligament?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I do? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I mean the Cats, Curtis Iris, Yeah, No, I had
no IDEA freads show is cat Chris, Yeah, Cat Chriss.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Sometimes I wonder, like how you've gotten this far in
your life? Do you want to know? Tell me the secret?
I'll tell you the secret.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Baby Hard work baby, perseverance baby, in school, in school
every day.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I guess I don't know class, Chris. No, I was
never in a class. I was bad. I was never
in a class. I like, I love you so much.
I just don't know where you come up with this stuff, Like,
I don't know, Like do you do? You just say
these things and people let you get away, like they
just say, oh okay, they just translate for you. I
get it from my mama, I really do. Like she
said what she wants and we just get it. She does.
(01:39):
You just understand, Okay, we.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Need to mold ourselves to understand her.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
You know what I mean. No, I mean when you're
an icon. Yeah, when you're an icon and it's just
people just learned. They just learned how to do it
your way. Yeah, No, exactly. Morning everyone. Thursday, August twenty
eighth is the Freads Show. I came in. Good morning,
Jason brow Cat, Chris, good morning. She'll be Shelley. Do
you see her? Up to six fifty six fifty is
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Why does Somebody get ghosted? Throwback Throwdown Day Canada with
ten wins chasing with eight, and then Paulina and Kiki
each have five, so still very competitive. Anyone could win
in our name that tune battle. The Entertainment Report headlines
the biggest stories of the day and blogs coming up?
What are you working them?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
So we have another engagement because why wouldn't we?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
But this time it is an American and a princess
from a foreign land also Fred. We now know and
I don't know if you've seen it yet, but we
know who will play Karen Reid in a docu series
about the whole.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Trial that work. Is it on? Because that will determine
how big of a star we got. Oh that is
a because if it's on like Lifetime, then it will
probably be RecA. But Rebecca remains deamos, even if even
if she doesn't look anything like her.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I don't have it yet.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
I will have it for you by the time I
do the story. But I will tell you this is
like an actress, like a bigger actress than those that you.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
May have med what I have, flink care I have
to think about that only cook of my Karen Reid,
I don't know. In case you're wondering, I have a
burning Man update I was headed there today it says
an urgent stay away warning has been issued to perspect
it burning Man revelers. So first it was hours and hours,
like almost two days or no, was it full day.
(03:22):
It was a full day of traffic just to get
to the middle of the desert. I mean, it's not
like there's a venue really, like there's a stage, I
guess and stuff, and like there's like art exhibits, but
it's how far into the desert are we going. It's
not like I'm driving to the arena, you know, It's
like we just drive and drive. So there was almost
a day of driving, and then it was a dust
storm and now festival goers sharing horror stories of electrocution.
(03:49):
That word looked weird to me. It looked like a
catchris For a second, I was acution. Burning Man Festival
twenty twenty five is underway in the middle of the
Nevada Desert, and it's safe to say it's gotten up
to a rocky and windy start. They're saying, please don't
come because you don't want to be electrocuted. I don't
know why this is fun. I don't know why this
is fun. I don't understand, like just so you can
say that you're cool enough to go. That's what this is.
(04:11):
It's just a flex. It's just to be able to
say you went to Burning Man. Same with Coachella. Yep,
except at least Coachella you got there's like, you know,
actual artists that eat musicians that you'd want to see.
But I still think it's kind of a oh I
went to Coachella. I still think it's kind of a flex.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
I feel embarrassed that I went to Coachella, but I
just I like warm weather and nice music and clean
festival ground.
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Fred's show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
I gotta start with sad news this morning. Investigators are
working to understand what may have motivated age shooter open
fire at the Nunciation. Is that saying that right? Annunciation
Catholic Church and school in Minneapolis yesterday, killing two children,
three elderly parishioners, and fourteen other children were wounded in
the attack. The shooter, who had no prior criminal history,
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and died of a self inflicted wound close to the
Manifesto online that authorities are reviewing. All right, moving on,
very very sad, and I hate to do said stories
to start, but had too the powerball jackpot nine hundred
and fifty million, no winning ticket. Guess what didn't buy
psych I faked you out again. I faked you all
out again. You just went and made my jackputt even bigger. Psyched,
(05:20):
Now I'm going to buy it. Now we're there. Now
we're there. Nine hundred and fifty million dollars. I think
that is a reasonable amount of money. I can work
with that. No winning ticket was sold for Wednesdays drawing,
the lottery's drought nears three months. Players had the chance
to win eight hundred and sixty one million dollars. The
sixth largest prize in the game's history is a passing
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the historic eight hundred and forty one million dollar jackpot
one in Michigan on January first. The winning number is
nine twelve twenty two forty six. Nobody won the memor.
Saturday's drawing is estimated to be worth nine hundred and
fifty million, with a cash option of four hundred and
twenty eight point nine. I can do this. I can
do this. This is my time. What you waiting on?
(06:04):
Go giddy? I think that the only thing I can
say is next week for a couple of days, I'm
working for North Carolina and I'm wondering if my strategy
may not maybe needs to roll over one more time.
I think you can buy these tickets in North Carolina.
I have never bought a lottery ticket North. Well, it's
not true, it's been years. But I need to go
to small town, rural North Carolina. And maybe maybe you're
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listening for the most rural North Carolina town. Let me
know what it is, and like where Gym's pumper pumpered
Stumper dumpered you know station. I know you, I know you.
I think you've been there. Actually I know, I think
you know exactly where it is. But I need to
go to the most rural, out there lottery retailer because
(06:48):
I believe that's These things never happen in major No
one wins in the middle of New York. You know,
in Manhattan, nobody wins. Nobody wins in downtown Chicago, nobody
wins in downtown Dallas, nobody wins in in in you know, DTLA.
For those who were in the know, nobody know, nobody
would You got to live in rural somewhere and you
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get to work at a plant. So I'm going to get
a job at a plant next week, and I'm gonna
buy ticket the most rural place I can find. I'm
gonna win.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Yes, I okay, So I am And I'm not joking.
I know this is like a bit on our show,
but I am going on a road trip to where
I might be in some rural areas. What am I
asking for? And I'm not being funny? Like what am
I A Kaitlyn?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
If you if she has a lot of anxiety about
requesting a lot of your ticket or a powerball ticket,
just say you want a power ball I want a
powerball ticket. Pick the number?
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Isn't there like a like a okay, I want the
computer to pick for me?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Is that how I say it?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah? I feel like for the most part, unless you
they have little cards next to the thing where you
can like scan tron in the numbers that you want,
I feel like for the most part, if you just
walk up to the thing and ask for a powerball ticket,
I mean I could be wrong about this and anyone
wants to correct me. Eight five, five, five nine one
three five Did they just get into this routine where
they did they just start they just start pumping them
out I feel like it's just it just become standard.
(08:03):
Everybody wants the same thing, so they just kind of
give you what everybody else is doing. But I don't
think there's any reason to pick your own numbers. I
don't think you're had any advantage to do that. So
I think you're telling me you want some, you want some,
you want some Powerball tickets up. Oh, there's a town
called Lizard Luck, North Carolina. Leigh. Lizard Lick even better better.
(08:25):
I thought it was Luck. It's Lick. I like lick better. Yes,
Oh my god, I'm going.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
It was like a toe company and they would go
and like you know, take people's cars, and of course
person was outrageous lid lick, Yes.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Listen, lickte listens. Oh. And then someone texted or going
to Marion, Marion, Illinois. Marion Marion, which is near car Carbondale,
but it's near those places, and they're going this weekend
and I already tried that. I went to a head
shop that also sold tickets in the middle of the night.
It was a very shady place. I almost got a well,
(09:00):
like a shot. They like smoking. App is that what
they call it? Yes, they call smoking APPARATSI I don't know. Yeah,
I was down there. You know, we were doing some
stuff down there, and I was down there with my
friend Doug. And Doug I said, Doug, take me to
the most obscure, you know, random lottery retailer, and he
took me to a place. I could have gotten a
(09:20):
Willie Nelson bong and a power ball take in the
same place. I regret that I didn't buy the bomb,
but I don't need it for anything. I just wish
I had it. And I bought tickets and we did
not win. Remember that we all pulled in. We did
not win, sadly, okay, but I think I think Lizard
Lick is where it's gonna happen. Yes, you need to go.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Yeah, can you get me a shirt if they have one?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Oh? Yeah, we were getting all the merch. If they
don't have merch, that's the missed opportunity. If Lizard Lick
doesn't have merch, then you guys are missing him. Nine
hundred and fifty million dollars though, and that's Saturday's drawing
god almost a half almost half a billion dollars. So guys,
you know Taylor's in Travis Kelsey there was some news
about them this week, and they're struggling a little bit,
(10:03):
so I'm happy. You know, good things do happen to
good people. Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift's engagement news has
actually helped them make more money. Sales of Kelsey's jersey
have gone through the roof since the announcement. Sales of
the jersey haspiked two hundred percent according to Fanatics, and
it was the tight End's best selling day since being
in the Super Bowl in February. Tay is also seeing
(10:24):
a surge of her streaming So High School, which played
on the duo's engagement post. That's up four hundred percent
this week. So good for them. You know, they'll be
able to pay for a wedding after all, which is nice.
I think. Also this morning, and we're poor news. Sophie Rain,
who you may know, who is a twenty year old
Instagram model, reportedly has earned eighty two million dollars from
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subscriptions in the past year and a half, which is
four million dollars a month, is what she's saying. I
think it isn't more than that year and a half,
sixteen months, Yeah, I don't know. In a recent livest dream.
She compared her earnings to NBA superstar Lebron James, saying
I almost made more than Lebron last year he made
fifty six million dollars. I made forty three. She has
(11:11):
faced criticism for her involvement with only fans, clarify their
content is not even explicit, and says her Christian faith
and personal values mean that she wouldn't do anything she
shouldn't be doing. I'm a virgin. I'm a virgin to
this day. She says, what are they paying eighty two
million dollars for?
Speaker 6 (11:25):
Then?
Speaker 1 (11:26):
What am I paying all that money for? Only fans?
You're not and it's not even naughty.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Well, I mean, you can do a lot of things
and they'll be a virgin, can't you.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Well, I don't know, but she said Christian faith personal
value is not explicit, and I'm not explicit. I'm sure
it does a market for what she's doing, though I
don't know what she's doing. Well, I think not much.
Speaker 4 (11:45):
But she's probably just advertising the fact that, like, hey,
I'm a good girl according to the standards, right.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
I don't know. I'm on my way to only fans
right now, though, because if I don't. I ain't have
to show anything, right pretty. I mean, yes, that the
bet is a tremendous amount of money, but for what
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
She donated a million to charity recently.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
So wow, yeah, Christian Faith guys, I I guess if
you tell me OnlyFans and eighty two million, I think
you are doing some naughty things. Because people pay for
naughty things.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
I'm sure there's some naughty suggestive things.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I don't know. I don't know. We shouldn't speculate. Someone
should get the Peak card out, get the corporate card out.
Let's get a subscription. We need to be able to
see what's happening here, to report on it accurately. Jason, Yeah,
that's not my thing. Well, well I don't. I need
to do it for me, so it's gonna have to
be about you. It's for my journalistic integrity. And finally,
there's a guy who's going on a personal crusade against Amazon,
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and this is kind of funny. An Illinois man name
John Bostockwell has gone viral for a bizarre stunt. He
reportedly is buying and returning one hundred and ten pound
weights on Amazon. He is a comedian, he shared on TikTok.
Over the past eight months, he's been ordering these anvils,
which which costs just at a two hundred and thirty
(13:01):
dollars for Amazon Prime thanks to free shipping and free returns.
He immediately sends them back after they arrive, and one video,
he scrolls through his order history showing that he's bought
ten of them in the last couple of weeks. This
is his plan to overthrow Amazon dot Com. He says,
many of you were just saying it's to stunts or whatever,
but yeah, apparently you could order a one hundred and
ten pound weight on Amazon and then say I don't
(13:24):
want it and send it back and then keep doing it.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
That is so dumb, And I feel so bad for
the drivers, Like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (13:30):
They're the only ones that are suffering right at work? Please?
But at what point do they just revoke his account
or do you just get another one? I don't know,
and I'm sure they can. I'm sure at some point
they can say it's like improper use or something. But
buying weights and then just returning them, he.
Speaker 7 (13:44):
Would never get them off my truck, off my Amazon's
where I come get this. Yeah, I'm not picking up
your one hundred and ten pound way. I'm not playing
this game with you. You would never see them again.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I'm sorry. What's the weight of the guy? Both? Yeah?
National boat Side Day, National Cherry Turnover Day today as well.
The Entertainer Report will do it next blogs and Waiting
Metaphone coming up. Calin's Entertainer Report is on the fread show.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
Brook Hogan, daughter of the late WWE legend Hulk Hogan,
finally feels like she doesn't have any more questions regarding
the death of her father. The Clearwater Police actually invited
her to review bodycam footage and the nine to one
to one call made by his wife's Sky Daily, which
helped clarify those circumstances surrounding his passing. Despite earlier concerns
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about the lack of an autopsy, brook Day confirmed that
one had been performed.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
She actually saw his body herself.
Speaker 5 (14:39):
She described the nine to one one call as the
most trauma traumatizing aspect of the whole experience, noting the
intense emotion in Sky's voice during the call. Hulk died
from a heart attack back in July, and they laid
him to rest in a private funeral earlier this month
in Florida. But remember she she thought there were a
lot of things fishy about it. I guess Scott I
(15:00):
wasn't speaking to her, she couldn't get her hands on
his health records. And then there was that leukemia diagnosis
that she saw after the records were released that she
was confused about. So I respected she had questions, and
she then publicly said, Okay, they're answered. Everything was kosher,
so now she can move on and grieve. Elizabeth Banks
(15:21):
is set two star as Karen Reid, who was acquitted
of murder charges this year after being accused of killing
her boyfriend police I'm sorry Boston police officer John O'Keefe
in twenty twenty two and Fred. They are doing it
on prime video with Warner Brothers TV, so I actually
think it'll be good.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
I can see it too if.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
They dye her hair and she just kind of picks
up on some of her mannerisms. The limited series will
explore themes of true crime obsession like you and I have,
I think, institutional mistrust, and conspiracy, drawing from the podcast
Karen by Law and Crime and Onondery. So I guess
there's a podcast that will help you the foot or
(16:00):
the blueprint for the show. The project is separate from
a previously reported scripted adaptation involving Karen and her defense attorney,
And you sent me something. She's back. Alan Jackson is
back with her for the Is it for the civil
the civil suit? Okay, so they're back.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Family's suing her kind of like the OJ thing where
he got to quit it and then the family suit
and then he was found guilty there, Yeah, monetary damages.
But this dude can't get enough. And the more the
more video I see of him, the more I realize
how much he thinks of himself. He's very confident man,
but hey, he got it done, so whatever. But he
thinks very highly of himself. I would too, and I
(16:37):
think he's loaded to I didn't realize he's represented a
lot of celebrities, including some that we don't like very much. Yeah,
he's a defense lawyer, though, I mean he's a defensive
it's his job, sadly, right, But yeah, a few I
was like, oh, I don't like you as much. But
I don't know if that is it fair to judge
him for that, I mean, defense attorney.
Speaker 2 (16:53):
I couldn't do it, but I guess that's his job.
I guess you're right.
Speaker 5 (16:56):
In the Week of Engagements, French Montana is engaged to
Shika Mara.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I hope I'm saying that right. She's a princess from Dubai.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
They actually got engaged during Paris Fashion Week in June,
but shortly after a French showcases fashion line on the runway,
he proposed.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
The couple has been seen together since last year.
Speaker 5 (17:13):
I don't know when they actually started dating, but visiting Moss,
dining at upscale restaurants in Dubai and Morocco, putting a
love lock on that bridge in Paris. No details on
the wedding app but I will tell you, and I
know because I'm very curious. But they're securing a bag
and then they're securing a royal bag. Okay, he got
himself a princess from Dubai.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
That's amazing and lastly, really quick.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
Amaya Espinal and Brian Rnala, swinners of Love Island Season seven,
Love Island USA, if you didn't know, have ended their
relationship one month after the finale. Amaya came from the
breakup on Instagram, stating that after leaving the villa their
past diverged and their visions didn't align. I think she's
being nice to him. She emphasized that relationships should be
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a team effort and says she has no ill will
towards Brian.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Again, I think she's being very nice.
Speaker 5 (18:01):
Before the reunion, fans we had noticed that they unfollowed
each other on the Gram, and then during the reunion,
he had to address cheating rumors over a video of
him with another.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Woman, calling it a lapsed in judgment.
Speaker 5 (18:14):
Amaya did defend him there as well, stating that their
relationship dynamic was healthy and great, but now they have
broken up. But he you know, they split the money
with each other. She will be She's going to do
amazing things. I love her, Amaya Papaya. By the way,
if you missed any part of ours show, type the
Fred Show on demand on the free iHeartRadio app. Also,
we go live throughout parts of the show on YouTube.
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Type Fred Show Radio on there if you want to see.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
Okay, we have some more leads for where to get
the powerball ticket in the world town. Since I'm going
to be in North Carolina for a couple of days. Okay,
we got bun North Carolina Bunn at the food Lion
grocery store. I guess. And then you got coach North Carolina.
We have two stoplights. Okay, I ay, I'm on a tour.
(18:58):
I'm about to go on a tour, so get that money. Yeah.
And then there's lots of places. I'll be near Charlotte too,
lots of places. Oh at all, man, go to Gastonia,
go to the gas house. Yeah, they called the gas house.
They go, Yeah, they do, all right, guys. Morality Monday
on a Thursday. How about that morality Monday on a Thursday.
This one is very simple. I'm not even gonna read
you the whole story. I'm just gonna read you the headline.
And I think this will be enough in honor of
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weddings and engagements, kiki and all these things. And this
comes to us from a guy named Big Tim. It's
weird eight five nine one one O three five. But
this is m I the A hole four. Postponing our
wedding because my fiance wants her ex boyfriend's ashes involves
in the ceremony. What what would you do? I gotta here,
(19:47):
I gotta hear from the people. You can call them
texta the same number eight five five five three five.
So you're getting married and you're in the wedding planning
stages and your significant other says, hey, look marrying you.
You know, my ex boyfriend Max girlfriend died, and I
think the urn should be up there with us, just
right next to the thing. I mean, I don't. I
don't know how else you would involve. I don't. I
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don't know how they're involved, they're in your pocket or whatever.
But why is this other person? I don't mean to
be insensitive, I really don't, but why is this other
person involved in our wedding? You're marrying me. That person,
whether they were alive or dead, is not should not
be part of the equation. Like I saw another one
last week on TikTok where it was it was a
woman saying that her feet her husband now that I
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think they just got married on their honeymoon, looked at
her phone for some reason and saw that she had
texted her boyfriend ex boyfriend goodbye before she got married. Well, yeah,
but what would goodbye like?
Speaker 4 (20:44):
What?
Speaker 1 (20:44):
Why are we talking to this? Why are we involving
any other human being that we used to sleep with?
Speaker 2 (20:49):
You gotta say goodbye?
Speaker 1 (20:53):
It's a pomboyage like I'm not moving to you know, Barbados,
or something like I can't never see you again. I'm
not going to Mars one way ticket on a westbound train,
see how for I can go? You know I'm not
doing that. But what would you do? What would you
do if, Kiki, if Big Tim comes to you as
your wedding planning? Now, the wedding of the century. Everyone's
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talking about it. People on my Instagram or in my
dms are lobbying for the plus one. They're trying to
get into this. Things have nothing to do with me.
They just want to see this event, the event of
the century that will be at some point. Hopefully it
takes less time than it did for him to propose.
But what what would you do?
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Would you let me pick your date for my wedding?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Why I agree?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
No?
Speaker 2 (21:36):
You should?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
I think I should? Yeah no, no, yeah no, because
because you I've seen what you tried to do with
Caitlin when she was single, and it was every you're
like my mom, Every single person that walked by was like,
I think that person likes you. You should go out with him.
So no, you're not discerning. I'm sorry, but I don't
trust you. I'm sorry you have. You have squandered your
opportunity to change for me because I have to choose
(21:58):
for me because I've seen I'm saying, how you just
every guy that walked by and be like, I think
he likes you, cale should go out with. Yeah, it
didn't matter who it was.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yeah, every person's coworkers, it.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Didn't matter who it was. The police officer that arrested her,
I think he likes you. No, he's arresting me. This
isn't fun handcuffs. What would you do though? It? Big
tims like, Look, she passed away. I didn't know you
at the time. Uh, you know, the relationship meant a
lot to me. You know, you obviously the person I
want to be with. But hey, can we, like, you know,
(22:29):
loop this person in somehow? I'm like, well, you can
join her. Would you like to be next to her? Internally?
Speaker 7 (22:36):
We can make that happen, because if you ask me
something like that, you're headed that way.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
No tolerance, No tolerance.
Speaker 7 (22:42):
There's no reason why your ex ashes her shoes, anything
would need to be at my wedding.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
That makes no sense. Always says to me, is that
you have not let go you.
Speaker 7 (22:52):
Have not let go to the like. To me, it's
creepy and I would actually call off the wedding.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
This isn't the this isn't a grand this isn't a
family man, and I would I would even I mean,
I don't know. I guess you process however you want
to process. I don't might. No, it's an absolute no
for me and a big red flag. There was some
talk at my sister's wedding about an empty seat for
my grandfather, who was very important to us. But it's
like he's there anyway. We're not. We're not. That's very dramatic.
We're not doing stuff like that, but like he's he's
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watching it. He's watching over us. Though, Like I don't
think everybody. Everyone at the wedding knew the man and
knew how happy he would be to be there. We
didn't need it. It was very we didn't do it.
Speaker 7 (23:29):
You could have little memorials and stuff like that set up.
I think that's nice for grandparents and siblings who have
made passed on, but an ex absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
I have pictures of my grandfather over my eyes. He's
watching over me. I don't need to have an empty
seat in the studio because he inspired me to do radio.
I don't though, we wouldn't call me well, but we're
not though. I don't know. It's just like these some
things are in the past and they're the memory and
you cherish them and they're inside of you, you know.
But I don't know why that has to be involved
in And again that's different. That's a different situation than this.
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I mean, if she left an empty seat for her
ex boyfriend, you know that, that's I don't It would
have been fine the other way, but this way is like,
what are you doing? It's insane. I want to know.
If someone say, I want to know why she has
his ashes and that is family, it's a very good question.
Well you can split ashes, but again, why are you
holding on your ex boyfriends? I don't know. I mean,
I guess.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
You would allow this, of course.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
Yeah, I was just my best friend was just in
this position. She lost her boyfriend unexpectedly, and her fiance
was incredible about anything that she needed to do.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
I told you that her exes who passed away. His
mom wanted to pay for stuff for the bachelorette.
Speaker 5 (24:39):
It's it takes a special person to be able to
be with someone who lost someone in that way because
the relationship would not have ended had they not died,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
But he was. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
I just think, like they're gone, it's okay for them
to want to honor.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Them at the wedding.
Speaker 5 (24:55):
You guys, everyone, Yeah, what if they were alive and
broken up and he would have been invited to the wedding.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Some people invite access to the wedding.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
I wouldn't like, I wouldn't want that either. Why what
are we doing that for? Why are we inviting your ex?
Just marry him then? Right, he's right there. Hello, we're
not We're not. We're not gonna probably and I know
you go for this. No, absolutely not. I also don't
really have access to invite like that or like that
dead or our live. But like Ian, some of them
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are in jail, so well.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
That's probably say yeah, yeah, I don't I don't play that.
I think we can honor your your past loved one
in another way, day another day.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Just like another day.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
If you go to the cemetery together, like I'll do.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
That with you, but we're not in the wedding seeing
you to ignore that that person ever existed, I'm not
asking you not to honor them or or or uh
I have the memories or even photographs and not asking
for any of that, right, I just don't why are
we doing that on it's our it's our union, it's
our I don't care you're right dead or alive. I
don't really care.
Speaker 5 (25:58):
I think you guys would feel differently if you at
a front row seat of someone losing their X and
then getting married.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
I think you really would feel differently.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
It's a really tough thing to go through.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
For sure. If I we're going to marry someone and
they were like I want my ex boyfriend to earn
on the altar when we get married, my I'm sorry,
but I would say, Okay, you're not detached from this,
like you're still connected in a way that might not
but we maybe we maybe we don't need to do
this right now, Like maybe maybe you need to process
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that a little further.
Speaker 5 (26:31):
I compromise, like not on the altar, but like some
involvement in the day.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
I guess for me, it's not that you need to
do that in itself, it's that you need to do
that on our wedding day. That's what I mean. Like like
if you, however, you need to process things, tragic things
that happened to you, Like that's your right by all
means do that, But like why why is this person
propped up next to the ice sculpture at the you know,
at the bar, right next to the taco bar, Like
(26:57):
what are we doing? Guys? Like I don't know. I'm
going through these texts like man, I'm back his ashes. Yeah,
I don't. I don't think so it's not happening. Uh,
I think everyone agrees, everyone agrees with me. I would
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be fine with it. Of course you don't, Jason. You
let everybody do everything. Sometimes you can know, why.
Speaker 6 (27:29):
Are you threatened by someone that's not living? I'm not threatened,
But why don't marry them?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
So like, okay, that means but that's all. That's all
you're saying, Jason, is that you would have married them
if they hadn't died. And that's going to be why
I have to be reminded of that at my wedding.
Speaker 6 (27:44):
That's why Kiln said, like it takes a very special
person to be in that situation, like you have to
be called and given and that's a different level of
security that I will probably never be able to know,
but like you have to know that, like, like Kiln said,
they would be together if that person still alive, like
that could potentially be their soulmate, Like you only have
(28:04):
so many of those in the lifetime, right, Like, so.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
It's not for you, guys.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
I respect your I respect your opinions. But I would
imagine are people listening who have experienced this who still
are like, we don't need to do that. Sure, I mean,
every situation is different.
Speaker 6 (28:19):
There might be people that don't want it because they
want to move on and start a new chapter. But
if it was important to my partner, I'd be like, Okay,
I'm not going to feel like.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Oh, you love him more than he's not here. But
I didn't say any of that. I didn't say any
of that. I just I don't know. I don't know
why those things have to be connected. I mean the
same way that I don't know. That's how it is
by definition our day. So why are we including anyone
from the past, I guess is what I'm saying. You know,
why are we reflecting on any former love that you had?
(28:48):
If this is about our union, are we including this
person in the union? Then, Like I mean, again, I
got I got it. I think it's hard enough to
acknowledge that you wouldn't have even been stay had this
person that passed away, So why do I need to
be reminded of it? I guess I don't know. Hey, Josh, Yes, Josh,
all right, yeah, Hi, what do you want to say?
(29:09):
Go ahead? Yeah.
Speaker 6 (29:11):
So I was just saying that I think that maybe
inviting a family.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
Member of the last boyfriend would be would be maybe
more sensitive to the day. Yeah, yeah, okay, So so
someone to represent that time. I've heard of that happening.
I've heard of like the former in law is coming
and stuff because because no one's like, no one did
anything wrong, We're still right right, and they want they
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want the person to be happy. In fact, maybe them coming,
I've actually actually know about this happening specifically and and
them and by the way, thank you for calling Joss.
But those people coming, it was almost like their way
of saying, it's okay, it's okay to let this go,
like we want you to move on and be happy,
especially when they are kids involved, when the grandparents show
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up and the you know, the person di it's like, hey,
everyone's allowed to move on. Here but I think that's
what it is. It's kind of like a statement about
moving on, and maybe, I don't know. It would kind
of say to me, maybe you're not ready to move on,
and so we need to wait until you are, until
you're ready to let that go in a physical form,
never emotionally, never mentally. But I don't know. Waiting by
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